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Living the Sweet Life is a podcast intended for mature audiences only. We'll be using sexually explicit language while discussing many different adult themes. So if you're under the age of 18, please stop listening. Also, please know that our thoughts and opinions should not be taken as professional advice. We're here to answer your questions about the swinger lifestyle. From newbies to longtime swingers, or if you're just curious, we hope to engage you all and to encourage a sex-positive discussion.
Now that we've got that out of the way, make yourself comfortable and join us in episode 59 of living the sweet life she is my beautiful sexy co-host and wife the lovely trist and he is my sexy chocolate husband lock proud to be i'm gonna get that tatted on my neck maybe sexy chocolate husband lock all the way around oh my goodness i don't know about that part and uh hey everybody thanks for joining us again in episode 59 we're feeling fine at 59 we're having fun um today is going to be a good one uh it's pretty monumental for the beautiful, lovely Trist.
And it's just an epic story that we can't wait to share. We want to hear some about your fantasies coming true. Yeah, no, this is going to be a good one. We're looking forward to sharing all the good stuff. I want to say hi to everybody out there on IG Live. Trist is doing IG Live as we speak. So hey, everybody.
Hey hey everybody um we're trying to take y'all into the holidays with some sexy stuff to talk about and to think about and maybe put some stuff on your wish list uh as the new year coming around absolutely and don't forget to tell me about it tell us about it yeah that's the fun part i want to hear all the good stuff so let's see um right before we all the shenanigans, all the crazy stuff. I know we got to knock out some housekeeping. So email us at the SuiteLifePodcast at gmail.com. Follow us on Twitter at SuiteLifePod and follow us on Instagram at the SuiteLifePodcast.
I said that backwards. It didn't feel right. But, you know, you got it. We got the message out there. And for all of my wonderful sweet talkers listening to us on any of your favorite podcast catchers. If you are inclined to join us one day live in the suite, make sure you check out the YouTube page. Hit subscribe, hit the notification bell, and you'll be notified when we go live so you can be a sweet talker.
The next time you can join in, give us some some of your opinions hear some of our stories live and always the best part taking a look and see what trist is wearing yes absolutely because i love to dress up i mean i try to do right by y'all too you know what i'm saying but trist is always just fire you know thank you babe you're welcome but no thank you honey thank you you make this so much easier you make you make life a joy you know you may coming out here a pure pleasure you know it's not work at all when i'm chilling out here with you babe that's good to hear i'm glad it's not work so yeah um let's see that's the housekeeping stuff and i'm still flirting with my wife man we had a good night last night um yeah this is why i sound like a little boy going through puberty that's gross no you don't yeah we'll get to that too um let's see did i miss anything yeah find us on all the podcast catchers all that good stuff um youtube um oh yeah thanks to everybody who's listening to us on full swap radio they're awesome they've been pumping our stuff for i think the relationship has been going on for almost a year now i think it will be coming up in 2022 yeah okay okay yeah so we're rocking and rolling with them good folks um they're taking good care of us and oh right uh pcap you know we're just doing this just because we give a shit because care, because the past couple of experiences have been dope.
So we want y'all to know about PCAP 2022. They're going to be out in Palm Springs, California. Yes. It's going to be hot. It's going to be hot. I'm not talking about the weather. This is going to be like the biggest event that she's had. She being kate from wonderlust swingers um i think it's 160 plus rooms something like that this one's going to be epic man it's going to be epic we don't have the exact dates in front of us but make sure you go check it out yeah we do know it's going to be june of 2022 yep june of 2022 y'all gonna have a great time.
Unfortunately, the sweet life will not be present. We won't be there because I'm so disappointed. I know. I know. But we got some stuff going on for us. You know, we're taking a vacation that very next month is going to be a very long trip um and you know we we can't wear out our babysitter back-to-back months we gotta be adults sometimes yeah we gotta be responsible parents at some point you know that whole thing right right um so you know so we we had to make some family decisions on that but we know that our FOMO is going to go bananas. And I can't wait to see the pictures.
So make sure y'all post the pictures. Let me know the stories. I can't wait to hear all about it. Stay tuned for all those theme nights. The seminars, everything. We already know a ton of friends that are going to be out there that's going to have a great time. And we are hating. Already. It's not even 2022 yet. But no. Really check out the website. Check out all the information. Join the newsletter group. Or whatever it is. And just stay active. And learn about what's going on. What to expect out there. I think you're going to have a really, really great time.
We've had a blast both both times and we can't wait to get back out there i really do i appreciate all the support with pcap definitely do for sure and one little one last housekeeping note for sweet life well we're going to miss out on um on pcap next year but going into 2022 we're going to be down in Mexico. Where are we going, babe? We're going to Temptations for the first time. Yes, for the first time. We have not been, which is surprising since some people are like, what? No, I've never been to Temptations.
Yeah, a lot of people like to dip their toe in the water by going to Temptations first before you jump over and hit Desire. But not us. Nah, we do shit backwards.
But no, we can't wait to get down there and, you know, what it's like see what all the hubbub is about yeah wait we're going down for one of our friends birthdays and uh we're gonna bring in the new year all at the same time it's gonna be great it's gonna be either way it's gonna be fun because our friend's birthday damn right it's gonna be fun hopefully what you talking about i'm saying hopefully because i'm used to a certain cadence you know with desire and hedo and i gotta figure out temptations cadence and how it works got you okay all right well y'all know what it is before we get into all the play stuff all the hands touching and moving before we get into our sexy attire i know how i gotta check in with the boot so baby how you feeling i'm feeling good uh really quick i want to touch back with the sweet talkers so pcap looks like pcap is going to be the dates are june the 3rd through the 6th of 2022 thank you sweet talker yeah thank you for hooking us up with that because i was trying to find that for sure yeah thanks a lot sweet talkers another people saying hello from canada hi hey there hey there hello um how am i feeling i'm feeling fine i don't feel like my voice is just sounds bad it's starting to sound bad but i i feel fine it's not it doesn hurt.
It's just I sound really deep in voice for some reason. But otherwise, I'm fine. We were out a lot this weekend, so it was a lot of yelling and talking, which is not great for the show. But it was fun. We went to two events. We're going to talk about those later. I had a good time. We met. You can say what events they were. Oh, we went to Exotica. Mm-hmm. It was fun. We went to two events. We're going to talk about those later. I had a good time. We met. You can say what events they were. Oh, we went to Exotica here. That event was fire.
I had a really good time there with all the vendors and going to all, looking at all the displays. It was great. I mean, I saw Stormy Daniels. I was in there.
And um and then we went to friction yesterday so it was kind of a busy weekend with a lot of talking but a side note story to that is that we went to exotica um and you know lock decides that he wants to buy this you guys can see it because you're online he wants to buy this big chocolate dick big chocolate dick right this is friday he wants to buy this he's like oh you need this in your life it's a it's a photo opportunity so he buys it fine of course we go home we go to sleep oh and who wants to come over the next morning my father so i'm downstairs i'm like okay you know waiting for him to get there and on the counter there's this big chocolate dick and i'm sitting here like scrambling like i don't know if he's going to come in the house or whatever and then we have the toddler home i was like i don't want her to like pick it up somewhere and just run and run so i'm like the safest place to put it was in the studio so So I ran downstairs and threw it in the studio.
I was like, they're not going to come in here. But yes, that's kind of like my funny story from the weekend is that it's this big chocolate dick randomly in our house that I did not want the toddler or my dad to find. So let that be a lesson to you.
Don't leave your giant chocolate dicks laying don't leave your dicks out right exactly so like how are you feeling someone is checking in this says hey you sexy people me and my hubby will be attending pcap for the first time in june nice all right yes i'm excited to know that right and i'm so jealous y'all gonna be making me cry exactly um where are you going to be joining from like where where are you from right um just put that in the chat but i'm that's so exciting i really hope you guys i know you're gonna have a good time yeah it's really cool folks it's gonna be great all right so how are you feeling me babe i am feeling a bit wiser about who we are and what we want sexually why are you now why you ask are you you feel like you grew up i feel like we we we have grown up just a little bit just a little bit right we got a little wiser yeah and i mean it it comes from like having great conversations with a lot of cool a lot of our friends in different friend circles by the way um so a few weeks back one of our friends posted in one of our chats that they were uh watching the show on netflix uh sex love and goop it's the gwyneth paltrow relationship um show on netflix it's a little series about six or seven episodes something like that but they one of the key um figures in the episode or in the in the show is a it revolves around the uh sexual blueprint and i think uh who are they uh torch souls they posted about that and they actually did their seminar about that in the last pcap and pcap um original in miami miami thank you babe you welcome you're gonna get me through this i appreciate that i try but anyway so the sexual blueprint we did that with some of our friends um and it was not only a great conversation piece like we were able to just talk about how you identify or what what did you get like what what would oh my words you get it i'm not wordsing well today you'll get it go no um yeah what did you earn in the quiz like what what did you discover uh so the the five different qualifications, I don't know, specifications, shit, it's late, man, are like what sexual, kinky, energetic, sensual or a shapeshifter.
They all have different like specifications that come to each one of them.
But we discovered discovered ours you know we did a little digging and we was able to have like conversations with each other and it turns out that trist her number one and they ranked them um trist number one was kinky and then no surprise right no surprise and y'all gonna see how it all relates but um as kinky she likes the unconventional right i'm not speaking for you i'm trying to go by what this is your how you feeling i'm here i'm trying to go by what the description yes you're right said that you like unconventional stuff you're here for the paddles and the spanking and the tying and the blindfolds and all that fun, fun stuff, all that cool stuff.
That's like your number one. My number one was the shapeshifter. And that means that I can kind of mold myself into whatever the mood is, whatever that kind of energy is happening in the room. I can do that. I can be that kind of I can fulfill that space.
And I tend to agree with that i think so too it's like all of them feel like great to me but the second one for me was uh sexual and sexual is kind of just like you know dick and pussy you know let's get it in you know it was it was the sexual nature of it all and but the thing about trist was that was her last one i think yes it was your last last and that was an interesting discovery and that led to some really good conversations about how you know when we look back on you know maybe the times that i thought i was trying to initiate sex with her it didn't kind of it didn't resonate because she she's she needs more she needs more than just intercourse yeah digging pussy right right and then we're trying to relate that into more of like our lifestyle as well like we're learning how you know what triggers uh might help us get to that finish line with certain couples or what we might need to do to, you know, make things a little bit more entertaining, I guess.
Yes. Right. Without me getting absolutely bored. Yeah. So it was it's a great conversation starter. And the reason I'm telling you guys all this is how I'm feeling. And we want you guys to participate. So to all of our loyal sweet talkers, we're going to post the the quiz in our in our show notes and wherever you can find it.
We're going to post the um the quiz in our in our show notes and wherever you can find it we're going to post them like on twitter and all that stuff yeah uh in preparation for our next discussion for um the next show for the next show and we'll probably do it multiple times just to make sure that you guys don't miss it um but it is it's it's really really cool we've done it with uh different friend circles yeah and it's it's like a conversation starter and it starts to make sense to why even you guys have the type of relationship that you have when it comes to like lifestyle right and why that kind of works right so yeah we're gonna have a discussion on that and kind of like personality types and how all that stuff kind of fits in should be a lot of fun it's gonna be very very interesting so we're looking forward to it next part of my how i'm feeling um i'm excited to conduct our first live poll so as you have seen in the chat people we are doing a poll on this lovely our third right here that scares the crap the crap out of me.
Because it's black guys. It's like a shadow. So imagine that with the lights off and it's randomly down the steps. We got to tell people what it is in podcast world. Podcast world. So this is what we have. I ordered a life-size mannequin to practice my rope bondage on. And um and you know i've been practicing and you have detachable arms and a detachable head and uh yeah she's she's pretty life-sized but what we're doing is conducting a poll to find out what we should name her um and right now no so the poll is what should we name our bondage practice buddy? Monica, Simone, or Victoria?
Right now, Simone is in the lead at 83%. We're going to keep this poll live all through the episode. And, you know, this is our first one. So we're just trying this out. We're going to see how we do with this. Simone. And maybe drop a few more poll questions as we go along. So that's how I'm feeling, babe. So let's see. Let's catch up with some of the sweet talkers. Go for it. Thank you.
and maybe drop a few more poll questions as we go along so that's how i'm feeling babe so let's see let's catch up with some of the sweet talkers uh says that hey sexy people we read that one okay hey all sexy people you're going to enjoy temptations we had a ball we are making a plan to go to desire next year let me know i'll tell you some tricks about desire i love desire um and the next we talk that was the one that's going to be attending pcap for the first time in june cali they're from cali oh nice all right nice cali folks i mean because that's more convenient yeah that is it's more it's closer right in theory like i don't know what part of cali i mean where like it's like how far palm springs that is but still yeah that's still closer yeah um the other sweet talker says that tris loved the white tank top so sexy so i copied off of him today but thank you i appreciate it he wore his shirt color and i was like you know what i'm just gonna wear this tank top with no bra and you know really and do the thing there's nothing here babe yeah yeah go boop.
Yeah. No, it's not. Nope. Nope. Nothing. See, you're going to get us kicked off YouTube. There we go. So, yeah. But go ahead. All right. Cool, cool. Now that we got all that stuff out of the way. Now that my nipple got hard on that one side. You're welcome. My beautiful queen. my wonderful, wonderful sweet talkers. Are you guys ready to get into tonight's episode? Let's do it. Let's go.
all right folks thank you so much for hanging in there we are so excited for this episode i mean we're excited for every episode but goddamn this one means something like this one really really means something to like to lock and tryst right or or to tryst and lock right Like us the wingman.
I was definitely wingman um but i mean it was a lot of fun getting here i mean this tonight's episode we're going to be talking about uh making fantasies come true not just tryst but we want to find out about yours and we've we've had fantasy discussions before um but we never really talked about how we can make them happen or what it looks like when it does happen how you feeling as it's going down um are you nervous are you excited um any regrets you know that kind of stuff so let's take a little walk right how you feel afterwards how you feel afterwards you still feel the same that you that excitement that you you got this done now what like right did what did it go according to playing like how did you feel afterwards things like that do you want to run it back do you want yeah let's do that again right or do you never want to do it again exactly right it's like you got it out of your system good ah good point yeah getting it out of your system okay all right so yeah so like i said we're gonna be talking about making fantasies come true so if you've been listening to the to our show for the past couple of months or so you've likely heard tris mention one of her most desired fantasies i mean this thing came out of the blue so what we're going to do is we're going to finish up our pcap recap and we're going to talk about sunday where this thing kind of came to a head how we met up with some beautiful sexy people who were just willing participants enthusiastic participants to help this thing come to reality so tris tell us a little bit about what the fantasy is and where the hell did it come from so the fantasy is was i guess what do we say now was that's a good point that uh i wanted to step on someone and i think that we're not talking about just your bare foot No, so it is basically stepping on someone in a patent leather high heel boots or it could have been like a heel but it had to be black like patent leather like that whole scene of it right um and it came from hump fest so at the beginning of uh quarantine, I guess, and COVID, when everything kind of happened, we got on a group chat with some friends.
And we watched hump fest. That was my first time ever watching it. And I swear it was like this little small, like scene that was not even a big thing that happened.
that I caught and this woman literally put her heel on this man and that whole thing i like it out of everything we saw that one small window resonated with me and i kept thinking about it right it was like a loop and i it would come back up and i'll think about it again i'll think about it again but this did the urge that i wanted to do this thing it just kept kind of going if that makes sense how did it make you how did it make you feel like when you saw it go down it just gave you like a charge did it make you horny or was it something that just made you curious it wasn't that it made me horny it just it it it i it immediately put an energy inside of me that i had never kind of like felt before that i wanted to figure out what that was and then i started looking up stuff online and then i ran across a different image of a woman where she was sitting in a chair same thing patent leather black heel boots she had a guy he was on a collar and she had a chain and that whole thing and she had her foot up on him and i was like i have to figure out what this is and why these images make sense to me right right yeah and i think sometime after that we um we did some little bdsm quizzes to try to figure out like how we how we fit into that mold or how does this all work yes and we were coming up as like switches and all that stuff but we were very very high level and i think we still are but yeah um we started to go down that road yes we started to explore what those feelings might be might be right so what about you sweet talkers so when you discover a fantasy of yours so who do you share that fantasy with um do you share it with like your lifestyle partners do you share it with your partner do you kind of keep it to yourself um and hope that it's going to come out or do you share it and in hoping that you know having a conversation about it maybe we could figure it out you know what i mean what about you so you you openly shared that with me i did and the rest of the sweet talkers that's what i was going to say i have that right here yeah so what it, because I, you know, toyed around with it for a few months because Hump Fest happened months ago at that point.
But I just wanted to make sure I wasn't feeling weird. Like I felt like, am I weird for liking this thing? Like why is this a thing that I like and is it weird? Are you going to think that that's a kind of a weird thing and i knew that i did not want it with you so that was the other part right it's like i don't want to do this thing with you i want to do it with someone else okay so it's just kind of like figuring out what this is because it's new and it's never been felt before. Like we've been in lifestyle at that point for seven years, I guess. Something like that. Yeah. So, yeah. Okay.
So, NK Swingers, check them out. NK Swingers, the tribe chat, check them out. They chime in and said, name the bondage practice dummy Shatima. I think that would, I'm sorry, I'm contacts moving. I think that name would fit it a bit more than monica hey man listen i didn't put a whole lot of thought into names here we just kind of threw out three uh but uh hey i if i could go back and open the poll up i'd drop that one in there um that's what tucker says i shared those things with my wife hey duchessess. Dutchess Cashmere, the Cashmere Room Podcast. Check her out.
That sister's always, she's working hard, man. I share with my husband and my LS girlfriends. There we go. Nice. And, you know, I think obviously your partner is a good place to start, right? And hopefully, like, Trish, did you have any apprehension about sharing that with me? Did you feel like I was going to receive it well? No, I knew you would receive it well. But it was just the matter of telling you that, okay, yeah, I want to do this thing. But not with you. Right. And how does that make sense? And, you know, it didn't make sense to me until recently.
And we had that discussion before internally with you and I. it didn't make sense to me until recently and we had that discussion um before um internally you and I it didn't make sense until we met with uh Mistress Montana and the only word that she said that made it all make sense was that it's because you guys have your own relationship and that's kind of where that is is in that kind of like in that Right. So it makes total sense why you don't want to do this thing like with him, because you kind of have that lane. We already have that dynamic. That dynamic. Right.
So that dynamic is what I don't need to interrupt in any type of way. Fair enough. Someone else says, good evening, all. Hello. Hello.
And someone says that i share with my husband because we're in this lifestyle together yes absolutely and you want different things and i and just to chime in on that for a second that lock is really good about sharing like what he wants i want this thing this is what i want i think that this is the first time i would say that i've actually had a thing that i'm like a direction of this is what i want to do right because normally it's just like i don't know yeah that's true no you're 100 and i'm i'm like simple like my fantasy i want a thre two women. I want to do an orgy.
Yeah, I want an orgy outside. You know, stuff like that. But yours is so, so specific, and I am here for it. Yeah. Because that's some shit. Like, I can work with that. Like, you tell me I want black boots. Okay, we go to PCAP, and we go to a sex store. I see tall black boots, black heels.
He was like, now we're one step closer right no pun intended what you said you said we're one step closer to making this happen yeah so oh man sweet talk is chiming in we love it thank you uh someone says i share with my partner and my best friend who isn't in the lifestyle but has interest in it oh yeah send, yeah. Send him my way. Let him listen to the show. And that was the talker says that, Locke, I want to get into Shibari, but I don't know where to start. Definitely DM him because he has a couple of things that he like goes online. That's not something I know.
So that is a Locke question. But yes, send us a message on the IG.
He can definitely like give you some pointers for what he's looking at uh ig twitter email us yeah the sweet life podcast at gmail.com and yeah for sure i can definitely get you set up uh i'm still a beginner but i can send you we can we can work this thing together so yeah uh in case says that yes most couples talk about those things first even if you're not thinking of doing this with your spouse it's that why did oh why did you hide this feeling got it right yeah and i think that's that's the best way right like to try to avoid that conversation yes well you know well why didn't you tell me or whatever that is um and you've done a good job about that about telling me this and telling me how it makes you feel and i'm hoping that i'm doing a good job of saying okay bet you want it let's go get it and also letting your partner i think this other part is important letting your partner know that right now i don't have all the answers about what exactly this looks like it took me a minute to even get the whole scene of what I actually want this to be it took me a little bit like I've done internet research I even enlisted and I participate into a virtual like discussion with other femdoms and that's called like the fem t talks and they do that once a month i've done that just to kind of figure out like what what all of it means and get other people's perspective on it and then try to figure out what i want and i'm just saying that sometimes it's okay to go into your partner say hey i think i want to try this thing and i don't have all the answers right now right as far as what this all probably means and how i even think i'm going to get there yet right true i'm here for it it was great um okay so then let's see we shared this in one of our recent episodes i believe it was in our fantasy episodes top five fantasies it was maybe about three or four episodes ago um and trist got a surprise response what happened babe so we shared about the fantasies and what i wanted to do and of course i brought up the fact that i wanted to step on someone and during one of the live shows another sweet talker responded and says that you could step on me you know and you got all and i'll be at pcap and of course i'm talking shit like oh no that's not how it went down you're close okay how did it go i gotta cut you off you kind of got it so yeah we were sitting there we're doing our thing we're telling our fantasies and you said yeah yeah okay fantasy See, this is, I want to cut you off.
You kind of got it. So, yeah, we were sitting there. We're doing our thing. We're telling our fantasies. And you're saying, yeah, yeah. Okay, fantasy. I want to step on somebody. Whoop-de-whoop. Right. And the person chimes in and says. He impersonates me, right? And the person chimes in on. Hell, I think we could go ahead and say it now. Thumper. Thumper and bae.
They chime in and say, or he does and says, you know, hey, I'm like you know i'm i will volunteer to do that for you and trish gets all bold like okay great hopefully we'll meet one day we can make that happen sweet talker you see how he adds the extra parts in right this is how he perceives me i definitely know it was not and then a couple of chat lines later the sweet talker says well i'm going to be a peacap and my beautiful bride turns a beet red and shrivels up to the size of a prune like oh my i laughed through it because i'm like i don't i don't know what to do you got a real live volunteer but go ahead so no i mean that was actually the catalyst for everything yes that was actually the start um of everything so basically we get to we're not gonna go into the whole thing about like pcap and all of that from the beginning, but I do want to kind of give like a brief.
So we get there, we meet with Mistress Montana, check her out on Twitter. And we talk about in the interview, just about having a connection with the person that you're actually doming. And I had never thought about that before. Like there had to be a connection, like, you know, try to have a connection with somebody. It's not just about in there, oh, I'm going to spank somebody. I'm going to make it hurt and all these things. It is about having a connection also with that person and treating them as a person. And I just never thought about it like that.
So it's kind of similar to the lifestyle where, you know, people are people and i drive off of having that connection with somebody i don't i'm not just there just to be like let me just catch a whole bunch of bodies that's just not why i'm here in the lifestyle sure but i want to have like connections with people so i just didn't think about that and when she said that it made sense and that kind of is where things started for me Like when the wheels started turning like all right i can figure this out now now it doesn't have to be super awkward with somebody like hey you want me to step on you and you know like like that it doesn't need to be that it can kind of follow similar cadence to lifestyle right and when you're trying to like set up that that uh close out that deal is what i call it um so basically we all um what happened was was that we met them in the lobby the next day yeah the same day of pcap that pcap started on a friday we met them in the lobby i had no idea at the time that that was the same sweet talker that said that they were going to.
Yeah, that was ready. That was ready to get down with the, to get down. No idea at that time. So I'm thinking nice looking couple, you know, he has these nice lips. Like, oh, you know, he's super fit. Oh, he could probably pick me up. Oh, okay, cool. And then I'm going. I was thinking that about his wife.
I could pick her and then I'm like okay cool all right you know that and we're and we're off mm-hmm however good speaking of he actually chimed in want to read that one oh yes where are we okay wow I'm learning a lot I had a fantasy about being dominated for a long time but it wasn't something that emphasis a long long time and all caps uh but it wasn't something that ever worked with bae and i and i guess it was because of our exciting oh existing dynamic right right exactly right yeah it's definitely a thing apparently yeah that you know you have that existing dynamic it's kind of like that block.
It's hard to shake that up. Yeah. Yeah. It's definitely a thing, apparently, that, you know, you have that existing dynamic. It's kind of like that. It's hard to shake that up. Yeah. To be like, I don't want to do that part with you. And then I think the other thing about it is what happens on the other side? Like, you know, you have this existing dynamic where, OK, let's just say, fuck it.
You know, I'm the man in the house, you know know and then you have this experience where she's like whooping my ass and you know i'm i'm now the sub so how do we go back to being that at home i think that's the problem that a lot of couples probably endure yeah but i think you could do that it depends on just where you're not saying it's not possible Yeah, for me, it was just I didn't see you in that type of light to do that. So, yeah. Okay.
do that it depends on just where i'm not saying it's not possible yeah for me it was just i i didn't see you in that type of light to do that so it yeah okay and i would spend more time laughing and it wouldn't be as sensual like yeah so it would be a waste of time that's true that's true yeah i would definitely try to make you laugh exactly and so it that wouldn't work for me that's not the scene fair enough all right so yeah so we so we met the sexy beautiful so we met them and then you know fast forward they also met some of our friends who who we already knew and we were already had this thing it was a six man orgy not six men but people six people i said six man like it was six men and me No it was in no shade i'm just saying it was not yeah so six of us we went from six to eight because our friends also met this couple and they were like hey do you mind if they join in i'm like okay cool you know we go from a six man orangey to eight uh overnight, it seems like.
You did it again, six-man orgy. Oh, sorry. Six-person. Six-person orgy to eight overnight. And you guys can follow up on the details about the actual, like, how that transpired. In the PCAP recap. In the PCAP recap of the last episode. What we're going to do is fast forward to Sunday.
No, I'm getting give me one second help let me go through this process so we go to the orgy because this part is important that's why i left it out in the last episode okay um we get all of this situated we go into the orgy again listen to the other episode to find out the details of the full orgy i'm just going to get into this part of the orgy why i left it out before so get there so okay go go myself and and thumper at some point we meet kind of uh face to face um when everybody else is kind of busy during their thing um and we're're in this orgies already like full throttle and we are face to face at that point.
Um, and it's just like, okay, so now what happens? Right. Um, and the orgy though, uh, he didn't touch me at all. Like he would not exactly touch me.
And I, at first I was like, okay, you you know what the heck is going on so i kissed him we're standing i kissed him again his lips are amazing but so i uh proceeded to kiss him and then i literally had said these words like you can touch me and he touched me right so that moment was like what so he touched me it was like a right it was like a flirty dominating kind of thing that you didn't even expect i didn't expect anything in the orgy because again if on the last episode i mentioned that i didn't think we were their flavor and i was okay with that. Right.
But when I was said, Hey, you can touch me. And he touched me. And something in that moment was like, okay. All right.
Cause I, we went, we, the orgy is over and it said that we did not, um, you know, have intercourse or anything that night we leave leave we go back to our room the next morning and this is how we get to Sunday which is why that part is significant because that's how why this conversation happened on Sunday you and I are in the room and I've mentioned that part to you about the orgy because nobody knew about this part but him and I right so and I tell Locke I said look he didn't touch me until I told him to and then I was like I want to talk to him I was like I want to talk to him today and I want to find out like what is up like I'm trying to have this negotiation I want to have this conversation because that happened that means that possibly I could step on him so it's like we need to have a discussion I mean he had already established that well no that's online it became closer to reality yes it became closer to reality and Locke was like I'm here for it whatever I got to do we gonna make this happen this is my wingman right yep so we get to Sunday hold on let's catch up before you you're gonna read through all your notes no okay hold on give me one second i was there i know i know you were you're awesome someone says i had trouble doming my wife at first it took me putting myself in another headspace the first few times um and then they also say there were a lot of breaks in the scenes um until we were both completely comfortable yeah i'm sure there's a lot of that like yeah definitely taking your time um and making sure you you two are communicating and understanding what you know i don't know like like how we were saying like uh we'd get like super playful i know if we did that we'd get really playful that's kind of why the rope situation is is fun but we haven't found the sensuality in it yet um partly because of me because i don't see her that way sometimes i mean not don't see her that way like i can definitely see her in a sensual space but what it will take for me to kind of like control her even when we dance it's kind of like the same way you know it's like no i'm leading you know so it's kind of that kind of thing so i understand that i understand being patient and i'm glad that it sounds like you guys have progressed and starting to make it work okay so sunday hang on hang on there tiger i know you're ready going back to pcap at sunday trish fantasy was already very well known right you made it well known with the audience you made it well known with the potential uh partners there we had our great play session you mentioned all the the communicating that you guys did.
And then the buildup started at the pool. Yes. So the buildup starts at the pool. Locke is there. He's already throwing out the line out there. Let me take it one step back. So this is the first day that we had actually gotten some really good weather. Yes, it is. This is the first day because, I mean, other days were kind of really surprisingly chilly for Texas. And this day, everybody kind of just migrated to the pool. We missed out on a couple of events or whatever, like the drag bingo.
We heard that that was a lot of fun, but we just couldn't pass up our opportunity to hang out, get some sun, put our feet in the water and just chit chat chat and like i said still well it that's kind of what it turned out to be right so uh while we were up there the negotiations began yes so uh like i said lock was a great wingman i'm serious like he was up there he was like all right i'm like i'm gonna start this off so he's in there and he's just like you know it's like a dude and his homie almost right i'm gonna go talk to the girl i'ma you know see what's up and then i'm gonna call you over you know this next kind of was like that it was that kind of thing it was kind of just like that is what happened um so he calls me over i well actually i was late to the pool i was somewhere else i don't remember but i come up oh the clothes the clothes swap right um so i come up and he's like you know y'all should talk and i was like yeah we should talk without you here so you should go away now i got this i put my big girl panties on so basically you were sitting in the middle of he and i yes at that point he was on your right and i was on your left and i could hear you guys talking and then i would so make sure you say this yes and i'm like make sure you ask him about that i'm like you need to be quiet i was definitely meddling he was i was like go away i i got this So.
So remember, I mentioned that I was taking, going to this workshop called the Femdom Tea Talks with Miss Lee Kink. And one of the things in there is talks about negotiations, right? When you're about to dom someone, you want to go into with negotiation, but not negotiation in a way that you're just asking them, okay, so what do you want to do? What do you don't want to do? Thank you. Right. When you're about to dom someone you want to go into with negotiation, but not negotiation in a way that you're just asking them, OK, so what do you want to do? What do you don't want to do?
You're also telling them what you want and this is what I want to do. Are you OK with that? So I went in with this negotiation, say, OK, these are the things that I would like to do. i would like to step on you, not both feet on you necessarily. I would like to put my heel on you in particular and possibly put my heel into your nipple until you tell me that it's not okay. Not that you're bleeding or anything like that. Are you cool with that?
So starting there first, it's just like like is that okay okay that's the baseline ladies and gentlemen may i please crush your nipple can i please do that is that okay so then i got the the green light for that one i was like okay so we can move over for one more thing so then i go a little bit further and i asked you know is it okay if i step on your balls um doesn't have to be with my heel on it turns out he has a foot fetish there you go and i learned that too right in that conversation so i got a green light for that one too so things are looking up at this point things are looking great and just like all right look at you you touching yourself right now i'm like there's two things down we're good to go like um so we got that situated now it's just like is there anything that you know you want that we haven't kind of like talked about uh we go into that um and just making sure that he's okay And not just that, guys,'s married also wanted to make sure that you know wifey was okay because that's important to me right i don't want to have this conversation with you and not also make sure that she's okay with what we're also talking about at the same time so we did kind of we went through that talk through that making sure that everybody was good because we know Locke was game because he was just over here keep trying to talk so you know he was in but I just kind of wanted to make sure that everybody was on the same page with things that was going on right I want to ask the sweet talkers real quick so when was the time that you shared a fantasy with someone and they said, sure, let's do it.
Like someone was a willing participant to help you achieve your fantasy, whether it's your partner or play partners or whatever it is. And how did that make you feel? Did you were you like excited? Did you get nervous when they said yes or no, right? How'd that go for you? The last time you shared one of your fantasies that you kind of kept, you know, hidden away. So let me know about that. And, and then I also had to make sure that because we have friends, I mean, we just was in a, I keep calling the eight man orgy, but we was in an orgy together.
So I said, you know, if that ends up being a thing and everybody kind of wants to get together, are you OK with us kind of going over to the side and doing our own thing? Is that a possibility? So we go through all of this in a negotiation. And I'm telling you guys, when we were in that moment talking about this, no one else existed.
like i didn't like if anybody else was trying to come and like have a conversation solidify any type of other deals if i was just like i was not having it i was like i'm about to lock this in you don't understand like this is my priority right now so we go through that and we agree on um a few other things in the negotiation and yeah it's going to go happen okay so another question for sweet talkers um have you ever gotten really close to fulfilling a fantasy but you couldn't quite get on the same page like Trish mentioned her uh her negotiations did you ever have a situation where uh you were in kind of a negotiating kind of phase but then it was just like you know what we're not going to make this happen like this doesn't this doesn't fit and I'm so glad that you know you guys were able to talk and figure out that those pieces fit perfectly yes it turned out to be a great not only a match for you two but a match for like all four of us yes and we'll get to why that was let's catch up with uh with some sweet talkers okay where are we me and my wife started uh diamond sub um'm sorry.
Which led us to the lifestyle. It was hard at first because everything in a man's life tells you is not to be that way with your lady. I understand that. Yes. Right, right. Dutchess says, hell yes. I was excited. She's talking about sharing. Uh-huh. Last week, that was what we told her.
It says, last week i asked about using claws and sensory play yes there we go and she was game we tried it yesterday how'd it go tell me about it right right see so that's good that goes back to you see the smile like it makes me excited how that response like that makes you feel great like when you get that positive response of like you know when we going yes when you want to try it you know that makes you feel really good and makes you feel great. Like, when you get that positive response of, like, you know, when we going or when you want to try it.
You know, that makes you feel really good and makes you feel really secure about, you know, what you might believe is something crazy. You had to reconcile with that for a little bit. Yeah, I did. I had to reconcile with it myself. It was definitely me.
It looks like Thumper says, one of the coolest parts about the experience was Locke and support for tris that's right yeah he was enthusiastic yeah i don't understand like this dude i was like if you'd be quiet that's that shape shifter i told you i'm here for all the shit yeah all of this it's like would you be quiet go ahead read the rest he said he was he was so committed to making tris fantasy a reality yes best wingman ever bingo thank you he says as a compliment you're shading me i know you have definitely i'm messing with you and poking with you but you definitely was a wingman you was a great wingman oh and they responded by saying it was amazing nice this is about they look intimidating but she loved it nice nice the claws yes love it so hang on i'm gonna drive a little bit let me let me take the wheel all right so after the pool after all the negotiations what happened where did we go did we what else did we do this day so that day was the formal event so it's basically we go back to the room did we go to sleep did we take naps i'm trying to remember because i have a um a specific memory i just can't remember if it was sunday or saturday no we went back to the room after the pool and that's when you took a nap yes okay so this is when this nasty shit happened so yeah so you took a nap and i took it upon myself to start taking some notes and trying to remember stuff so i could have we could have our notes for the shows and all that stuff and um right in the middle of the afternoon loud sex i remember you oh my god it was just resonating through the hallways i could just hear a woman moaning and moaning.
It was fantastic. And at this point, Tristan and I didn't have sex that day. We had had sex in the orgy the night. What is this? This is Sunday. No, we had sex Saturday. We did have sex. Okay, right. But anyway, so if this is the same day, I don't know. It's still a cool story to tell, I guess. I mean, just hearing just the loud sex and I'm sitting there writing notes and it's just like Trish's sleep. Do I bother her? Nah. Let her sleep. Yeah, let her sleep. And let's find one of these packets of lube that, you know, the little giveaway packets of lube.
Let's knock this bad boy out and get back to business.
And that's pretty much what I kind of just ran off listened to the sounds of the sex and that's one of the best parts about being at like lifestyle clubs is when you're in like the playrooms you can hear a lot of the sex and i'm just that kind of person like i take in all the auditory and i just get so turned on by by the noises and the fun and i don't know man had to get that one out sorry but yeah so after the naps and you know all that good stuff this like you said was black tie night so everybody's all dressed up and and looking nice and got getting their james bond on yes and it was great had some trouble with the bow tie but i figured it out i think a lot of i want to say multiple guys was like i don't know how much this bow tie has been too long we were all over youtube trying to get it trying to figure it out but everyone looked really really nice yeah for sure so it was like prom night it was basically like prom night you had the little picture with the with the balloons and yeah it was great it was a great setup k Kate did another great job of setting up this ballroom.
Like you mentioned, it was like a backdrop with balloons and, you know, fun. Did it say prom night? I can't remember what the thing said, but whatever. Yeah. Night in the town or some shit and lights, and it was just beautiful. It was nice. We got a really good picture from it, and the burlesque dancer dancing.
Oh, the burlesque dancer dancing the burlesque dancer that was she was hot yeah she was she was all tatted up but she had a ass for days it was just she was just nice and a beautiful smile oh my god her smile was fantastic i'm gonna look at those pictures pictures tonight at this point everybody's all dressed up and we kind of know what this what the plan is. Right. But at some point in your head, you're still like, all right, is somebody going to flake out or are we really going to do this thing? You know, let's just see. Let's see how this night is going to fold out.
So what were you feeling? Were you nervous? I was excited. I was kind of like I was excited and I was like, hopefully it don't flake out, but I'm really excited about this thing. When I tell you guys, I was focused and I was just like, I'm good. Like, you know, hanging out with friends, like, okay, it's cool. It's cool. I'm going to tell you when it really got good. And this is the part that you guys are going to like. So we're sitting here where, you know, it's called like rest your feet time when you have on heels. So we're all sitting down on this couch and it's myself, Locke.
I think he was talking to somebody. Actually, you weren't sitting down. And myself, Thumper, and Bae. And Bae was talking to somebody else too. So I'm just sitting there chilling. Nothing's happening. And so Thumper like comes and he just like leans over to me. He says, first, I'm getting there. Hold on. Oh, my goodness. Because just rethinking about it again. Okay. Can y'all tell she had a good time on Sunday? She is.
It made me excited i'm telling you in this moment okay erupting in laughter okay turn your mic so sorry so yeah so thumper leans over to me and at this point i'm like okay we haven't started anything yet i'm not you know do anything until like later on you know we just normal he leans over to me and he says mistress and i'm like yes and he's like may i go dance with my wife and i would look like when i tell you guys the tingles that went through my body into my vagina at that moment i was like say it again and i did i said say it again and he did he said I said, say it again. And he did.
He said it again. He said, Mrs., may I go dance with my wife? And I said, yes, you may. So he got up, and he went to go dance with his wife. And I, like, you know, waited until he walked off. I looked at Locke. I was like, oh, my God, I have to tell you something. Oh, my God, I have to tell you. This thing just happened. I have to tell you.
you and he was like what in the world is wrong with you oh oh my god you are not gonna like this excited like there was this thing i was so excited in that moment like oh my gosh this i'm i want this like this thing is going to happen i now know my life purpose this thing is going to happen right so um so we go through the night um and everybody's kind of at that point i'm real focused may i please take a pause go ahead it's something that i forgot to mention i'm so sorry but i'm gonna take a i'm gonna take us back just a second uh in that space between pool and party time okay we received a message in our group chat with uh thumper and bay we received a message from bay right stating what she wanted out of the night also yes and i think this is important that's important um to make sure that we, you know, she she expressed how she feels about watching pain, watching him go through pain and all that kind of stuff.
It makes her a little uncomfortable. She doesn't really like to watch it.
So she expressed that and she expressed that she was definitely she was open to flirting with me tonight and seeing kind of where things go um but she did not really want to necessarily watch all of everything you know that go down with them two um because she just that's not her thing right right um and i'm like okay cool and so i responded by telling her i'll be here for whatever you need as far as like comfort you know if you just want to hug or hold back and you know we don't have to watch we can just you know we can just cuddle and talk or whatever whatever it is but i just wanted to make sure that that was known um because that definitely takes place um in what happens next in in the rest of the story it does that's important now okay so we're gonna go back to we forward back to the party where tris is now sopping wet because she just told a grown man that he can go dance with his wife and that is hot by the way that is not shade i was that's here for all of the all of it i didn't know that i'd be here for it like hearing her say that she did that turned me it turned him on yeah he was like that's so hard i was like all of that he was like i'm here for all of this right now i love it let's go let's see what else we gonna do so go ahead baby so then um so the night goes on and you know everybody's kind of dancing having a good time at this point like people like friends and stuff around us that have no idea what the heck is going on and i feel so bad because some friends like were really um you know we were trying to get some stuff they wanted to like maybe get some stuff set up but it was like i was like no we were one track minded we were so focused on getting this fancy uh fantasy this fantasy done like i was like dude like just seeing where this goes i was like not today no i was like i gotta get this fantasy done black and kinky lifestyle checks in what's up people check out their podcast black and kinky lifestyle podcast they say got here just in time you damn right you did go ahead babe uh read the next one too oh thumper and bae chime in and says that was some really good comfort oh hey compliment with a little devil emoji so so then the night goes on and it progresses and uh i'm like okay so you know babe i'm ready to go like get this thing done like i can't think of anything else that's what i'm sorry to say that's that focus i've been telling y'all about once she gets focused on something i can't think of nothing else is going on i can't even concentrate on none of this stuff right now i just want to do this thing so then he's like okay so i was like i'm ready to go go set this thing up like let's let's get this solidified we had to have a little pep talk we had to have a little pep talk because then i'm like but uh so how i'm trying to say that i'm ready go like i want to get this thing done he was like i understand i heard you i was like so how do i say that exactly yeah i took the coach role we outside by the fire piss i'm like all right look this is what you're going to do you're going to get in there you're going to pull your shoulders back you hold your head up and you say listen you meet you meet us at at 12 15.
no i did that part don't you be late you know i did that part yeah but yeah he he definitely was in there yeah like he was the coach i was like i got this coach right you tell him what it is i'm ready got this so i go in and it was not like that i was not that as uh no not as intense but you were super super cool right you were super cool i was cool with it i and you know i put some swag on it i was like so you know because you got to be cool can't be too excited it's like so you know about to leave um you should uh meet us back at the room and i can't remember i think yeah we got I think it was like 12, 15 and yeah, so we go, we leave, we go back at the room and i can't remember i think yeah we gave him like 12 15 and yeah so we go we leave we go back to the room and then we cleaned up kind of like you know got changed put on them boots pulled your chair out to the middle of the floor i did pulled the rug to it's like a runway carpet so we did the runway carpet running right up to the base of her chair yes like her throne now oh yes we had the lights going and we had the uh you know our little blinky flashy lights yes we created a quick playlist of some good music that she wanted to hear some good music yeah without we didn't want anything super fast anything you know loud too loud and crazy Yeah, but we just wanted some nice, good music.
Yeah, we didn't want anything super fast, anything, you know, too loud and crazy. Yeah. But we just wanted some nice, sexy music. And the thing that I added in, too, was that I also sent them a message.
And I said that, you know, you can go back to your room, you know, if your wife needs to change or whatever she needs to do is fine but you have to show up completely dressed in your suit that you have on right like you cannot change anything about what you have on and uh he had to come to the room completely dressed in his suit that he was in at the party the brim bay chimes in and says as i recall the invitation was in tris words but with locks energy probably was see so you you brought that energy yeah i love it i love how perception can can kind of be twisted and you don't even realize it you was like so look you gonna meet me at the room uh-huh that's probably how it really went yeah uh-huh you turning on red you poor thing okay sorry so right back to the room so we're in the room and we got the mood all set tris you change into what so i change into like this this red kind of like uh lingerie it's like a bottom and a top basically and kind of connected like with very little strings but um and my boots you're tall my tall patent leather thigh high boots how tall are the heel oh those i think are like they're a product of five they're not six yeah and these aren't the big thick these are pointy get to the point neat uh heels fantastic yes and then um i also elected to stay fully dressed almost i didn't have my jacket on he did i did keep my tie on i kept my shirt on because i was playing the role of your little servant right like helping you out still in that role of wingman whatever you need whatever it is i got you let's whatever you need to feel comfortable i will set it up i will get the music i will get the you know condoms i will get the lube or the implements like you pulled out uh what do we have we had a flogger we had the paddle.
And had clothes pins so there's a thing that i yeah so we'll go into that with this too but and clothes pins like that you put on for like if you were drying clothes outside so now what happens so knock knock so knock knock they arrive and lock is like no you should just come out and no one should see you. They should just come in. And I'm like, okay. So he has me wait like in the bathroom and they come in. I guess this is kind of my fantasy coming true too. There's little sprinkles of meat. I didn't mean to do that. So it's okay. It worked out. Okay.
So he has them come in and, you know, get kind of like situated. And then he brings me out, right? Okay. So he brings me out. Locke and Bay, they're on the bed. How were they dressed? Who? How were they dressed? Oh, he was in his full suit. Fully dressed. He was fully dressed. And she had on a robe covering up her nightie, her little bra panty set, looking all sexy. But go ahead. I'm sorry.
I'm getting sorry I hate myself but he was covered up in her robe at the time yes so they kind of go into bed that's lock and bay and I sit in the chair you do and I proceed to tell thumper that he needs to take off his clothes and he proceeds to take off his clothes and then i told him to stop because he needs to do it slower so from my perspective just her posture in the chair was enough to make me jump out of the roof a jump jump out of the window like she was leaned back with this confidence of this is what i'm supposed to be doing you know we found it and again y'all the reason we saved this sunday for this episode as a single episode is because this is the culmination of just so many conversations and so much digging and these little quizzes and all this crazy shit to finally see her in this element was so moving it was so so powerful so beautiful with these lights going it was like red it was i just imagine a red hue like in our background here yeah but i know it was like changing but i can just see red and to see him fully dressed.
He's a great looking guy. You know what I mean? Like she couldn't have picked a better partner for this. Great looking guy. I mean, big, muscular man that she is about to manipulate and tell him what to do.
It looks like it should definitely be the other way around but just to see that flop that flip-flop it was so so sexy and so powerful but go ahead honey i'm sorry so as he's taking his clothes off i take his tie and put it kind of around my uh neck at that point um and once he's done completely dressing i told him that he should lay down on his back and then once he's down on his back i blindfold him so that he can't like really like look around so the thing that i also agree with is that i wish we would have had something to kind of like restrain his arms but we'll get to that too but uh we didn't have Thank you.
thing that i also agree with is that i wish we would have had something to kind of like restrain his arms but we didn't and we'll get to that too but uh we didn't have that but i told him that he had to lay his arms out and before we did anything also was that i asked him about the safe word i was like we need to come up with a safe word that if it gets to the point where there is that it's too much um you need to say what this word is so that we need to agree on what that word is and we did we came up with a safe word and what that was going to be um and like red green right no we just did yellow okay it was yellow would mean that wanted it harder.
And ginger was the safe word for us. Ginger meant to stop. Okay. It's basically it. So you didn't have to say stop. You just say the word. And then I knew that it just needed to stop.
So those are the two words that we kind of came up with with that was our agreement and we start yeah uh duchess chimes and it says i love clothes pins and someone else says finding yourself as a dom is such a beautiful experience yes it is it was great so i start with stepping first yeah this is this this is going to be a tale of two stories yeah because you got to say it from his perspective because it's completely different from my view right so as y'all begin um and I'm just gonna follow like you're gonna give a piece and then I'm gonna get okay all right to kind of catch up so where you are beginning and he's taking his clothes off I'm helping um bae we kind of just on the bed and she still has her robe on at this point i'm taking a couple pictures of you too right i'm everywhere i'm trying to you know be a silent partner um and help out and help us try to remember some of this stuff too so we've taken a couple pictures and i'm helping her with her robe and eventually i pull her robe down and i get to see her undergarments which are beautiful and sexy and just fit her body so perfectly um and then uh she helps me with my tie helps me untie my tie and i believe we share a couple of kisses but at at this point, we were playing spectators, right?
We kind of touch. And again, I would try to, you know, give her little hugs and holds and hold her hand or hold her leg or hold her arm or whatever to make sure that she was okay, you know. But continue. So back to your side. This is what was going on my side. So then I start with stepping first. So I actually had on the heels and I applied pressure to his nipples and his chest first with just like the like basically just stepping on his chest with my boot and then pressing down with the heel like into his actual like nipples.
Not like hard, but, you know, just enough pressure and then maybe a little bit harder the next time. And I did that on, like, both sides to kind of, like, see where we are, get a feel for where we are and how that is going to work, basically. The way that I knew that we was in a whole nother world was when, while he was laid out, you were trying to step on his chest, right? Yes. But it was like, you weren't trying to just completely put all of your pressure on him, right? So you were kind of looking for a little wall to give yourself some leverage. Yes.
And I saw that need and i wanted to help that need i wanted to help you still you know step on him but without the full pressure i saw what you wanted so i come over to reach over to you and without even looking up at me you said i'm good i didn't even i don't even remember doing this part i got it you just said something like i got it and i knew oh shit this is something brandon let me get the fuck out of here she is in the zone i don't even know remember all of that that was the funniest part is that you don't even remember that you just was like move get out of here yeah i i had it but no yeah you did you did and i backed out and i did not bother you any more yes so then once i got used to knowing like okay this like this is where i'm going to step this is kind of like where the pressure is going to be um i proceeded to do that and it was amazing when i tell you the chills that went through my whole body i was like this is what it is and what i was supposed to do what gave you the chills his response his response how did how it felt on your foot it was his response and also just how it felt to kind of just do this thing.
Finally, it was kind of like a release for me also. And that he was actually getting pleased out of this thing that I was doing. Right.
So that kind of that stepping on those first two initial steps were like, OK, right i'm in here we we got this it's it's good to go yeah we're okay um and i because i didn't know what to expect right and how that was going to feel so i go i step on him um with my boots on both sides and it was does he appear to like it yeah okay so you stepped on both sides stepped on both sides um then uh i took off the boots because again like i said i wasn't going to step on his balls with my boots actually on so i uh took off the boots and I pressed my foot up against his balls and So I took off the boots and I pressed my foot up against his balls.
Were you standing or were you sitting? I was sitting. I was sitting down. In between his legs. In between his legs, right. And I was pressing on his actual balls with my foot. And then I also used my feet to kind of like caress like his balls and, you know, just rub up beside his dick, kind of things like that to kind of get some type of excitement out of him.
And then I use the flogger at a point as well, up and down like his legs and not like gently touching not like actually doing anything painful but just gently going across him with the flogger and then kind of like hitting up against um his like balls like in between his legs to kind of get a sensation there yep and meanwhile i'm like snap snap To see how that was working out. And then we used the clothespins as well on his nipples. And basically with the clothespins is that I put it on. And then what I do is just run my hand across it and kind of like hit it. Kind of like an antenna almost.
And every now and and then hit it again and then i'll use the clothespin like what is still clamped on and pull it up and then hit it again to kind of just get you know run a sensation through and see how that is it's like working and it was it was was, yeah, yeah. He was getting like chills down his body. You got my palms sweating now. Shit. Wow. So let me pause real quick and say, sweet talking number one. What's up, lady? She said, made it just in time for some juicy deets. Yes, indeed you did. This is excellent timing. And damn. So.
There was something else I wanted to say there in that pause. Go ahead. I'm sorry. It'll come back. Yeah. So I had him turn over, too, onto his stomach. When I had him turn over onto his stomach, that gave me the ability to actually stand on him. I don't have on my heels at this point.
Right actually was able to and i'm i'm like five three so i knew that he could hold my actual weight he's the bigger guy so i actually at that point i'm standing on him and kind of like flogging again up and down his legs and things like that i can feel his breath and every now and then during this process i'm asking him and i'm whispering in his ear checking on him making sure that he's still okay making sure we're still good um do we need to do anything different because that that's kind of important um as well just you know just kind of checking in and i could see you doing that i could see you kind of like leaning in and whispering in his ear and i could hear him you know every now and then honestly i didn't hear i don't think i heard you but i could i could definitely see you guys communicating yes and i thought that was very definitely was talking um to him throughout that process and when i was on his back so this is this is what happened so i can feel him and i also every now and then he's getting what's uh chills um down his back like literally he was kind of like shivering a little bit down his actual like body and we'll get into that kind of like later but that whole sensation that I was feeling all throughout his body literally nothing was happening sexually to me like because he never touched me at this point um that's what i was gonna say i basically i came on his back a little bit it was kind of like wet like i when i stood up because at one point i was kind of like i was i was squatting i was squatting on his actual like back um and when i stood up it was wet so i was getting really really excited just by the energy that i was feeling like down his body um and it was so turning me on it was turning me on just from that part um and yeah that that was great so i remember what i was going to say was that this guy is extremely disciplined right she's naming all this stuff that she's doing and performing and feeling but he was motionless yes he could not touch me restraints on him right nothing but a blindfold that i don't even know was tied it wasn't really tied yeah but it wasn't like it wasn't tight no right right so he was extremely disciplined to just like listen and stay and keep his hands where she told him all while this crazy sexy awesomeness is happening to and around him yes wow kudos kudos so i turned him back over onto his back and that go ahead i'm can i do where we were yes at this point all right all right so where we were right so you guys are going through this right and we're taking pictures and i'm telling you folks that the beauty of this is that it was all happening side by side like right there we're watching and i asked bay to sit on my face in the direction that she can see them i can't quite remember at what point this was happening but we could tell by the pictures because i stopped taking pictures obviously right so um i lay on my back and she sits on my face and i begin to eat her out while those two are going and i think at this point i could hear the flogger um but at the same time i'm just tasting her and i could feel how excited she's getting and it was just a great way to still be involved in what you were doing and to have my imagination running wild yes and getting excited all at the same time by how excited she was.
And I think it was just a great like connection of like energy. It was flowing from YouTube going from back up into her and down into me. And I cannot remember a time being so turned on yes so at this point uh thumper's on his back i mean on his yeah he's on his back and look thumper says like what he had no idea i remember the wetness but didn't know where it came from that's amazing yeah it came from me um On your back. So he's now laying on his back again. And he's buying photos. Hands are out to his side. Still not able to touch anything at this point.
And then, again, Locke, they're feeling this energy. Him and Bae are kind of feeling this energy. I'm feeling the room and the energy. And I take the clothespin onto one of his nipples and basically leave the clothespin on and start motioning it up and down. But at the same time, while I'm motioning it up and down, I'm actually stroking his dick up and down. And at the same time, Bae and you. Nope. Okay. Don't go. Not that yet. Hold on. Let me give a little bit more details there. We're going to get to that part. Go ahead. Because that's fucking magic. Anyway. So, yes.
After we switch positions, right? Those two are still kind of going through their motions.
And you can hear hear the energy down there everything that they're doing so bae and i are really really turned on um so i kind of step back uh she goes down on me for just a couple of minutes and at this point we are just sexual just energy is just flowing we are able to just connect right so um we get protection and we lay down on the bed and there's something that came to my mind um during this play session which was a couple of nights before when we were doing our circle of consent she mentioned um her preferences and she mentioned how she's it's easy to be it's easier for her to be turned off Thank you.
she mentioned um her preferences and she mentioned how she's it's easy to be it's easier for her to be turned off than to be turned on meaning you know you could you could fuck this up right if you go too fast if you if you go too hard if you do you know that's how i heard it and i wanted to be very very careful not to ruin this mood for anyone Right. So I just listened to her body. I listened to her words. I followed everything that she was, the vibe that she was given, the energy, the movements. And we laid out, she laid out so that I can enter her missionary.
And it was just a smooth, smooth connection um her legs went around my waist and she is a fun-sized person right yeah oh man and like her legs being around my waist automatically lifted her pelvis and her ass up a little higher um and we got really close i mean like really close where i was like laid over top of her and i could reach my arm around her legs and up and around my shaft and press my hands like kind of make like a v around my shaft and touching her vulva and my shaft at the same time as I was going in and out of her and I could feel how wet she was um and as well as feel myself going in and out it was tremendous do you understand just the feeling and the excitement and the the motions and feeling her legs tighten around my waist as they were on the floor making noises.
I don't know what's going on. And he had no idea what was going on at this point because they can't I can't see what they're doing and they can't see what we're doing at this point.
so this is when i'm saying that the clothespin one clothespin was on one side of his nipples and i had his shaft of his dick in the other hand and basically i could hear what was going on with them and i was just feeling this whole like vibe and as i'm stroking him and i'm moving the actual uh clothes up and down at the same time, and everybody is, like, having these moans and things are just, like, happening and whoosh. Boom. Boom. Everybody, you know, it's just like they both have. They came. They both came. At the same time. At the same exact time. Husband and wife. Yes.
Came at the same time. the same exact time. Husband and wife. Yes. Came at the same same time. We I had no idea. I mean, I knew that we were in a great, great place and there was a crescendo and it was, you know, tightness and oh, you could feel the orgasmic energy. But I had no idea what was going on on the floor. No, no clue. No idea.
And they the same time the exact same time and it was just it was awesome it was it was like magic like this whole thing bae says that lock listened to things i didn't know i was saying oh well i mean yeah your body was saying enough your body was telling me i mean the her would go to the left. I'd go that way or go the opposite direction. You know, it was a dance. It was a beautiful, sexy, sexy dance. Oh, man. And it worked out wonderfully. Yes. So then. Yeah, go ahead. So this explosion happens, a wonderful explosion happens.
and I am just checking in on Thumper at that point like okay you know just giving him kind of like hugging him right at that moment because literally those kind of like the chills and it was kind of like a chill like if you had a chill like going through on your body that's basically what was happening to him or it would be like if you have a whole bunch of adrenaline like going through your body and you're kind of like shaking so i kind of just like hug him um for a little bit and was like just making sure are you okay those types of things so once everything kind of like calmed down uh with that i was just like do you want to touch me so we go back to it like like do you want to touch me he was like yeah and then i you know play kind of cat and mouse like no you can't touch me and he's like so cruel and then he just is like okay and i was like do you want to touch me now and and then he's like you know if you want me to touch you it It's like, not yet.
So eventually I said, yes, you can touch me. And when I allowed him to touch me, we kissed and he played with me. And I said, you can touch me anywhere you want. Right. And he basically just, you know, was stroking my vagina up and down. And we are not like not with his dick, just with his hands and we're kissing. And and literally I would I just had an orgasm. I was like, you sure did. Yeah, there was a lot of moaning. Yeah. And we had the great, great vantage point at this time. We had maneuvered ourselves to kind of be spooning right above you two. Yeah.
And we were watching all of this and I'm kind of, you know, spooning in and out, sliding in and out. We were kind of done at this moment, but we were just still being connected we were still being close and um still feeling really good and just kind of watching you two just finish up yeah and to hear you just like moaning and like your head cocked back while you're laying on his chest and i could see his hand playing with your with your pussy man and and just hear you, boom, bellow out that loud orgasm. It was, whew.
playing with your with your pussy man and and just hear you boom bellow out that loud orgasm it was yeah it's gonna be a good night tonight yeah so it was it was great um so we finish up and you know everybody says they're good nights and everything at that point um and the funny part it is is that so the next day the next day it's like we all get together with our um one second hold up sorry before before we go to the next day that night when it was all done that's when we found out that they came at the same time oh yes right right yes and we had a honest moment you know we were able to kind of just talk and do a little debrief.
Yes. Right. And ask, because I believe he's been through this before. He's had this experience before. Yes. And I don't even, I think he knew, Thumper chime in. I think you knew that this was Trish's first time, or I think he just found out at that moment that this was your first time. Yes.
So we asked an honest question of like, you it like for you or what could we do differently or what could she do like feedback feedback right because i think that was important for me absolutely for sure um and what was some of the feedback that you received so the feedback came and so we're we are fast forward in some of this the feedback came after the fact actually that we left PCAP and came home. I thought he said this while he sat there. He did, but a lot of it. But he gave more. Yes. Came back after the fact. Okay. Go ahead. So, yeah. So a lot of it came afterwards.
I kind of want to get into that. Go for it. He says, like, Thumper says that, yeah, I knew it was her first time. Okay.
Go ahead right so everybody kind of like leaves um we have you know that conversation and um the next day we go out to breakfast with our friends because everybody's kind of like leaving a p cap is wrapping up and we go out to breakfast and everybody's sitting down we're eating and things like that and thumper like sits beside me and then lock is on the other side of me but to be honest with you guys i had a moment at breakfast that i was sitting there like i just want to put my hand on your dick and then i want to squeeze a little bit just to see you squirm in front of these people and see if you can keep a straight face and be turned on at the same time and i was like no it's it's like like but that's where my head went at one point during eating was like i can just put my hand on your dick this is breaking news to me so yeah it was kind of like one of those things because literally that happened like a few hours ago if you want to call it that right so it's, right, right.
So it's still, you're still kind of, like. Riding it high. Yeah, coming into this thing. And I'm, like, and then you're going to sit beside me in breakfast. And we got to pretend, like, you know, this thing. It's, like, we don't have this tension that just happened. But, yeah, but we go home to that point. And the feedback, that's what I wanted to get into. Go for it. So we have a group chat, and we're kind of going back and forth. Everybody's getting settled back in, just talking about different things. And I'm just like, I want to know the feedback and kind of how this has happened.
Denver says that this is breaking news to me, too. Right. So we go home and, you know, and there's a lot of conversation going back and forth, like just within the group, just about like what happened, things like that. And Thumper is giving me feedback, actually, in the group.
um we start talking a lot about how he's currently like how do you feel now you know that now that you're home kind of like you have some time to like process how are you feeling so we were discussing his nipples actually so his nipples was still kind of bruised and sore like when he went home so did that turn you on but it was a good thing i'm about to say that right so it was a good thing because he he was like you know it was kind of like a reminder my shirt would hit it a certain way and that feeling was there that bruise and it would just take me back and i would just get turned on all over again from that sensation it was like a reminder that this is what happened you know kind of took him back into that moment you did that did one did knowing the soreness was there did that is that like a badge of honor for you did you feel like proud of that did that turn you on it did it turned me on because it turned him on right oh and that was the thing that it took him back to a moment of of a moment that we shared in this space in that it's still he was still getting some type of satisfaction after it afterwards we're at home at this point that it kind of was like okay this is all right i'm good with this those types of things um so yeah so what i was alluding to was the feedback that we that he gave you on that night and everybody here you know correct me if i'm wrong but i believe he told you that something about the restraints remember oh yes the restraints okay right that it would have been better if we had the restraints because he liked that.
Yeah, yeah. And I think that, I mean, you were fortunate enough to have someone who was extremely disciplined, who would listen to you and not move. Whereas if somebody else, probably my ass, I would have started grabbing your ass or something ridiculous and you'd have had to push me back down, you know, something like that.
that was that was still good that was helpful um to hear as well i think so the and the conversation kind of went on for like a few days it's kind of like how are you feeling um you know how is it now those types of like conversations just trying to get into the mindset of a where i and and where you are like afterwards right so we do that for a few days actually and it gets to a point where I actually pull in a side conversation with Bay and I have a side conversation with Locke like at home because I bring it back to home base that Thumper and I are in this space I want to make sure that you are comfortable with what we're talking about and how this is going.
If at any point that this is like crossing a boundary or is it making you uncomfortable, let me know. Because I never want to cross that boundary. I had that discussion with Bay on the side. And then I actually had that discussion with Locke as well. Because want to make sure that everybody is good because I realized that him and I are in this space and I want to make sure that you guys are okay with that as well because a lot of the conversation at that time was us talking about this thing and what's going on and the aftermath of it. Sure.
was evident that you had a connection right and it was a connection honestly that i've never seen before i've never seen you connect with somebody like that and i've never seen you so like moved uh by something and i think it was again just to bring it all full circle it was the culmination of like actually executing this fantasy and exploring this part of you and and i'm not dismissing the fact that these are two amazing people that we had the opportunity to share this with and it's really really special it's a really special moment it was it means something it's something that we're going to remember forever, right?
Not only because we're putting it, we're recording it, but it's something that's going to be etched in our memories forever. It was a really great time. These are really awesome people that we cannot wait to see again in any capacity, period. it but just to have this kind of to share this kind of moment um in two separate ways right we were in the same room, but in two different worlds, but it still was so powerful and wonderful. Um, we're really lucky, really, really fortunate. Um, so yeah. So yeah, I got a fantasy fulfilled and desire done. Fantasy fulfilled and we got new friends out of it.
Yes. And the question is, is do you want to do it again? Yes, I would definitely. I would do it with Thumper again. I would definitely do it again because I think that it can be different with different people. Right. It may not be the same because your connections aren't the same with everyone. Sure.
So you can't just say that, oh, it's know this way or that way right because it may not be exactly the same yeah it may be a situation where you just want to walk on somebody but not have them touch you at all nothing yeah and it can very well be that and they might be satisfied with that you know what i mean so yeah this was maybe something that's just absolutely rare this could be i don't don't know. I don't know. This is great, though. It's definitely more to explore and to come. I know that's thumper. He says that I'm ready for the run. I'm ready to run it back. Hell yeah.
See what I'm saying? See, then you start talking. Uh-huh. Get me all messed up. Uh-huh. She's going to be booking a goddamn flight. And here we go. Oh, we're going to come visit. All right. Trish, you got that out of your system, baby? Yeah. I know we are running late, y'all. But thank y'all for hanging in there. This was a lot of fun. We only have one more episode before the end of the new year. And then we're going to holler at y'all in 2022.
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