Episode 058 - The Suite Life Does Dallas! | PCAP Encore Recap!

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Living the Sweet Life is a podcast intended for mature audiences only. We'll be using sexually explicit language while discussing many different adult themes. So if you're under the age of 18, please stop listening. Also, please know that our thoughts and opinions should not be taken as professional advice. We're here to answer your questions about the swinger lifestyle. From newbies to longtime swingers, or if you're just curious, we hope to engage you all and to encourage a sex-positive discussion.

Now that we've got that out of the way, make yourself comfortable and joining us in episode 58 of living the sweet life she is my beautiful sexy co-host and wife the lovely trist and he is my sexy chocolate husband lock all day and listen i am so pumped up for this episode trist why baby what we what we got to share today we are basically sharing the recap of pcap i love that pcap recap of pcap whatever however you want to say it it's all going to be fire um yeah that's what this is episode 58 is going to be uh pcap recap encore that took place. What? Go ahead. In Dallas. That's right.

Dallas, Texas. It was what? November 5th to the 8th. And it was jam packed. What an event. But we're going to get there. Yes. It's so jam packed. We had to break it up into three basically episodes because we can't get it all in.

We don't want to have you guys with us all night no i mean i mean i'd love to sit and talk to you for hours but yeah we all got things to do right but let's not abilities and such let's knock out some of this housekeeping uh email us at the sweet life podcast at gmail.com follow us on instagram at the sweet life podcast and follow us on twitter at sweet life pod thank you to all of our sweet life listeners and our wonderful sweet talkers who are listening to on all your uh listening to us on all the major podcast catchers you know how it is itunes stitcher spotify all the good ones all the small ones big ones small ones whatever y'all know where to find us.

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can ask us any questions hell you can help answer a couple of questions yes that's what it'd be being a sweet talker is all about we are sharing we are giving sharing and caring that's right that's right caring and sharing oh yes indeed i know how to share don't i baby yes you do yeah see i'm a good sharer you're a good sharer you're great great but yeah man uh so right this is um this is going to be exciting so i think we killed all the housekeeping um oh right and thanks for everybody who's listening on full swap radio fullswapradio.com check us out over there uh it's a ton of content uh lifestyle related podcasts and all all that good stuff.

Check them out anytime. And I think that's it for the housekeeping. I think you got it. Have you been checking in on your OnlyFans? You know, I had a lot of traffic on the OnlyFans before we left and went to PCAP. But I need to go back and now repost some things from PCAP and things, well, pictures that we took today too. But that's fine. I love that. That's homework. That means we get to take some pictures. We got a photo shoot coming up. I'm here for it. Here for it. So, y'all know how it is though.

Before we get into all the crazy shenanigans, all the who's it's and what's it's i gotta check in with my beautiful queen so baby how you feeling so i'm feeling like reflections i'm gonna say that so earlier today i did uh one of the femdom t-talks um and i do this online uh with uh miss miss lee kick miss Miss Lee Kink. Right. So I do it with her online. You can follow her on IG as well. She's really great. She sets up these tea talks with other femdoms online. And by any means, I'm not saying that I am a femdom. I'm a baby. You're aspiring.

As so um we we there they happen once a month so we did one today um it was great because it we was talking about self-care and at some point i think i'm gonna talk about this as a topic right because have you ever thought about self-care not just for yourself but also for your partners your. Never thought about that, right? I would like to know what you mean. Continue.

Just self-care in general, like checking in on your lifestyle partners to see kind of what they may need, you know, making sure if even if it's making sure that they're eating, you know, correctly, like or exercising, things like that, just things that they may need to do to kind of take care of themselves. OK. Yeah. I mean, something to that effect. Like we have the fellas and we have like a little lifestyle chat on Messenger or not Messenger. What is it called? Telegram. Telegram. Yes. Yeah. Like a little workout group, that kind of thing. Yeah. That could be that could be somewhat.

But that's for you guys. OK. But sure. The point is is is that do you have one for your partners that's the that's the point in this situation we were talking about for your subs um and yourself right but i also thought about it as lifestyle like in general right do you have self-care um type of conversation or do self-care things for your play partners? OK, so I think that would be a great discussion just to kind of see what different things that people come up with. But I thought it was an interesting question because I had nothing. I never even thought about it. OK, OK.

Hey, we got some sweet talkers checking in. What's good? Hi. Hey, all right. Hey to you. If anybody else want to check in'all know how it is. Hey, especially for all of our new sweet talkers. Listen, this is an open forum. If you are new, feel free to jump in the chat. Say what's up to us. We will shout you out. If you're a content creator, we'll shout out your show and all that good stuff. We love the support. It's plenty of room to eat for everybody. So, yeah, just say hi and we'll say hi back for sure. So, Locke, how are you feeling? Me, baby. I am feeling extremely pumped up.

I am, you know, going back through some of these stories for to prepare for tonight's episode. I got a little horny. You did? Yeah. I mean, it's just it's just so much. It's so much. I don't even want to go too hard in my how you feeling because we just we got a lot of stuff to cover so i'm not gonna go too long um i will say hello to the in judas checking in uh oh honey spoons checking in black and kinky checking in oh and our new friends hey pittsburgh oh yeah i'm gonna shout you i got something for y'all, too. Pittsburgh saying what's up. All right. All right. Hey, everybody. Look at that.

Sweet talkers. And that's Black and Kinky Lifestyle Podcast. Make sure y'all check them out. Cool, cool folks. Them, the peoples. So, yeah. Check them out. They said love the top tryst. Thank you. Yeah, that's right, people.

If y'all listen to the podcast, don't forget forget check out the youtube and y'all get to see what this lovely woman is wearing you know i try it oh we got another loyal sweet talker what's up lady how you doing how you doing welcome back to the suite we miss you all right all right folks without any further ado sweet talkers my beautiful queen are you ready to get into tonight's episode let's do this I'll see you next time. Folks, without any further ado, sweet talkers, my beautiful queen, are you ready to get into tonight's episode? Let's do this. Let's go. All right. The time has come.

Hasn't it, baby finally pcap recap 2021 uh-oh we got thumper in bay checking in from detroit what's good hi man oh man oh we got the squad here oh y'all making me nervous oh here you go you got this you get this all right they say jb and l from oh the dc game suite checking in okay dc dc that's right what's good that's right i love it dmv checking in okay tris so right the point of tonight's episode is to get y'all all caught up on pcap um encore and all the things that happen at pcap so let me get started by saying we're going to knock out all the shout outs right all of our content creators shout outs we hopefully don't miss anybody we're just going to knock these out bam bam love all y'all so let's go first kate wonderlust swingers this was her event she's the she's the brain behind everything that we're going to be talking about and she fucking crushed it and you nailed it again kate yo i don't know how how you do it but you nailed it again top to bottom uh first class event man like you know she picked a dope ass hotel in hotel in downtown Dallas or right on the outskirts of downtown Dallas.

Yeah, it was in a great spot location-wise. I loved it. It was another boutique type of hotel. Hotel was really nice. The staff were great. Nice. We had really good security. Uh-oh, Dutchess Cashmere checking in. Got to shout out my sis. Hi. What's going on, beautiful? Y'all need to check out Duchess Cashmere in the Cashmere Room podcast. She is pumping out work. Yes. You hear me? Follow her IG. Follow her on Twitter. This sister is working hard out here, man. So follow her stuff, man. She got a lot of shit to say. It's beautifully written. And she's just talented, man.

She got a lot of talent.

Kate, I hope you're listening check out this system maybe you can get her in pcap let's do it um so the hotel is really nice i was going with the security piece the security was tight this time i mean not to say it wasn't tight last time but it was really really strict this time so we had of course same thing armbands right um but they were really really on it like as far as you could even get into the hotel yeah yeah hey slim hey slim let me see you yeah and they wanted to see those armbands so it was great and then um it was only one way in and one way out like once pcap actually got started which was on friday um so i i love that part yeah again shout out to kate now yeah let's see other content creators we had monogamous marriage in the.

Yeah, shout out to Kate. Let's roll through them. Let's see. Other content creators. We had Monogamish Marriage in the building. Yes. Check out their blog. Check out their podcast. Super sexy. And we got to meet them. I mean, we met them before. We've met them before. But I didn't really get to talk to the, I didn't get to talk to the, no, Mrs. Yeah, neither one of them actually as much at the first PCAP.

I to them but not as much um then i did this time right she's got legs for days yo i mean she's gorgeous but i also was able to like have a conversation with her husband finally right um and and it was just really it was really great i agree 100 they are absolutely stunning inside and out man great people we got to finally kick it with them by the pool and just really have good open conversation about any and everything and they're so smart and and so willing to just talk to anybody engaging and very intriguing i found her husband to be very intriguing i was like all right all right that's how he get you yeah right about that yeah in his web of right exactly intrigue and mystery man of mystery that's right let me hear more about that yeah in his web of right exactly intrigue and mystery man of mystery that's right they're so so fucking cool let's see who else we got black and kinky black and kinky those the folks man y'all know those our peoples man real cool folks man check out their work they putting out a a ton of content as well um they be pumping it on ig check them out yeah cool folks i'm glad that they were there um casual swingers uh-oh casual swingers checking in also look at that checking in in the suite uh that's mickey and mallory with his charismatic ass exactly and look see so this sticker that i'm wearing that's right says life and And I got this from Mickey.

So it fits perfectly tonight because we're talking about Peacock. So I thought I'll wear it today across my lovely boots, right? So it's not because you lived at Slut Life? No. I don't know. Yeah, maybe. But yes, check out Casual Swingers as well. Yeah, they were there playing MCs.

And I think think they were like a last minute addition it just came through to kick it but ended up working and and everywhere you turn that's where they were and the people were following and yes just crowd pleasers man really dope people uh let's see we got katherine from expansive connections she brought a whole squad with her squad this time yes um and they put on a great workshop about um what was it babe like uh sex and and i don't know they said sex therapy sex therapy kind of session and it was just great to sit there and hear some shit but yeah i'll get to some of that stuff too um who am i forgetting average swingers they are hilarious cool folks man uh to know them is to love them you know everybody gives great reports on average swingers so yeah um and am i missing anyone god i hope i'm not i told you i was probably gonna miss somebody we'll figure it out during but let's get to thursday all right all right thursday here we go people so thursday started off with a fucking boom like a literal boom we're driving to the airport oh dark 30 it was about 3 a.m some shit like that we're driving down an empty highway and i kid you not the sky boom burst and there was a fucking meteor flying right this is like real life story like directly on our path it didn't come down like you know right right wasn't no armageddon it was just a cross but it was just up in the sky it was a fall a shooting star and it was like wow it was bright green and it took me for a loop it was fucking amazing and it was like pcaf's gonna be great this is going to be like this trip is going to be something it was such a good omen uh so yeah so catch our super early flight and get to dallas 10 o'clock 10 10 30 some shit like that and this is before the actual event started so what did we do babe first thing we did was what drop our bags down we say hey kate how you doing yeah we gotta go uh back to business we are went to go to see uh mistress montana if you listen to 57 57 episode 57 you can hear all about that actual interview so miss montana is a mistress mistress sorry mistress montana is a dominatrix in dallas but she also has dungeons in ohio and one in europe as well right so definitely listen to that interview i'm not going to go all into that but that woman yeah changed some things that happened at pcap she was a part of some of the change that ended up happening at pcap uh we got some more sweet talkers checking in hello hello we got swinger help swingers help make sure y'all check them out follow them on twitter they post some pretty good swinger shit man uh and their website is a great resource for a lot of swinger content ton of podcasts ton of uh i think like newsletters and blog posts and yeah just check them out man give them a follow and uh another sweet talker checking in saying hey y'all hi to you uh so let's see thursday right so mistress montana that particular interview means a lot um just in the fact that if y'all been listening to us lately trist has been on this path BDSM discovery.

I want to step on someone and I want them to like it. Yeah. So meeting with Mistress Montana and Trist taking these virtual classes is kind of her putting putting her money where her mouth is. Right.

Kind of getting stepping outside, learning a little bit more and trying to take it to the next level yes and so it all just means something right um but it was a great it was a great time i think trish really got something out of it hell i got a lot out of it too i mean really because i mean i i do get excited when i see you enjoying yourself and i see you taking stuff to the next to the next level yes and i'm all for it i'm all for it i am your biggest cheerleader and i always will be thank you babe i appreciate that you're so cute oh you got me blushing all chocolate and stuff now so boom all right we knocked out the interview and then we went back to the hotel room we recorded some notes just to make sure we didn't forget anything and then what did we do so uh we went to a restaurant called pecan pecan lodge pecan lodge was a great barbecue if you're ever in dollars definitely check out pecan lodge and then later on that day we went to a well i said we were going to a sex store however we actually did not it was not a sex store we went to uh electric boutique it is basically a costume store for women there's not much in there i don't think of anything for men it's a huge store i say it's huge because it's bigger than any store i've ever been in um and it just has a ton of different costumes like if you're in a lifestyle that is the place to go or a stripper or a stripper they had everything that everything that you need and that everything that you need yeah um so that's where luck bought me my lovely pair of boots so we're gonna slow that down a little bit we're gonna talk a little bit more about this one so tris this whole time we're preparing for this sex store hey this is a great sex store it's going to be it's huge it's huge and i'm like yes yes great we get to go to a sex store oh shit we're going day one actually before we went there we went to like a little happy hour upstairs i think we crashed some vanilla happy hour yeah we did we did we went to some type of work happy hour i was like oh these are not my people's i know right we was they two dressed up with clothes on i know we we had like our sexy sunshades on and we was trying to look all fly we go up there and it's like people in their work clothes and shit was like whoops wrong wrong place but i'll take a drink though yes yeah so we got our drinks we went over to uh the boutique and again and i'm thinking like yo this is going to be amazing and we get in there and i'm looking wall to wall like he's like where the sex toys where's all the the stuff and it's just like clothes and boots and i had a little pity party i had a little he did i got first he was being a little stank yeah i got a little a little sour like god damn it but then i was thought about it i was like you know what let's buy some shit that i want to see her in how about that how about you turn you turn that frown upside down?

See? Let's make some lemonade out of this shit, right? Mm-hmm. So we found some terrible stockings, some stockings that I just kind of want to tear off of her. Yes. Bought those just because. Yep. Those are going to be awesome. You bought something else. Didn't you buy something else? I bought pasties. Oh, and your gloves. You bought some- And all, and I bought some gloves. Some latex gloves. I bought these patent lever black gloves. Those were really, really cool, too. Yeah, they go all the way up to- All the way up to my elbow, yes. Your elbow, yeah.

And my sexy patent lever back black boots. How's it going to get to those? So I saw those- You know, I'm excited. I keep bringing it up. I know.

Big, tall, long boots with the- How tall would you say the heel is i don't even know i was just excited but we posted it on twitter and those motherfuckers are sexy that was they were a must-have yes they are part of my my dream at that moment my dream was to step on someone and at that point it those boots were a part of that vision yeah and i saw it too and i was like you know what let's box those he's like let me get the try them on box them up we're taking them Thank you.

that point it those boots were a part of that vision yeah and i saw it too and i was like you know what let's box those he's like let me get them try them on box them up we're taking them getting them out of here but then lock did get what he wanted i did because i went to the ladies at the front desk and i asked them do is there a sex store close by they said it was about two blocks away but do not walk right call your uber call your uber to take you yeah so we got an uber and we uh went right up the street to a place called new fine arts and again everything's bigger in texas man yes this store was big huge and it's open 24 7 yeah it was everything that you would dream of i mean motorized they had the fucking what the the drill thing the motorized dildo with the mechanical yeah with the dick yeah yo it's crazy they had everything that you needed in that store stripper pole if you need a stripper pole at 3 a.m you can go get it you can go get that that's right sorts of sexy, like lingerie.

They had your CBD products. They had your, they had DVDs of porn. Who still does that? Right. They had it. They had it. They had everything that you needed. Everything you need. I mean, if you're looking for like cock rings, go to aisle B7. Yes. That kind of situation. Right. But no, it was a, it was a wonderful time in there.

So what did we end up getting, we got a a big black dick it's basically what it is i have no other way to say that it's anything different than what it is and he's like well what size do you want because they literally had all different type of sizes color scheme right whatever it is that you need they had like, okay. And then length-wise, they had different type of lengths and girth-wise. And I'm like, okay, so I like a little bit of that girth. And I like length. I need both. And I'm sitting there like examining the different dicks. It was just, yeah, the store was great, though.

I love the store.

That's right's right i mean because we got you a week i got you a um a vibrator that you could use internally but you said it was too small right so the mission was to get something that was going to fill you up a little bit he's like i'll get you something that fill you up they have plenty of variety pick one pick one and we had to go should we get this one or this one yeah right right you know so we had to I was like so just pull your dick out lock so I could just see let me let me measure it against somebody to see if we got the right thing I wish you would right real quick let's catch up with some of the sweet talkers swingers help says I once knew a guy whose fetish was being rolled up in a rug and stepped on would you do that one trust yep yeah you naughty girl you i would and sweet talking number one checks in it says tear away stockings i could use those hell yeah and duchess chimes in says i'm with you yeah someone else says so refreshing to see a truly happy happy couple oh well thank you appreciate that and then dutchy says i love it probably talking about all that nasty stuff yeah store we know you dutchy uh-huh we know what's up so we we wrap up at the store we get back to the hotel and we run into our friends in the lobby who we run into babe uh that was the wonderful mr and Mrs.

Honeyspoon, And let me tell you, I can't say enough good things about these people. They are just absolute stunners. Right. And they just they're just like fire. Right. Because everybody else is like a moth. They just follow them wherever they go. You know what I'm saying? But we see Mr. and Mrs. Honeyspoon. We see Mr. and Mrs.

what i'm saying but we see mr and mrs honeyspoon we see mr and mrs and judah and then we see another couple with them we didn't see in judah on thursday we didn't see them on thursday no oh that's right you know i was gonna let you keep going but you bust me out yeah we got a total story it's facts okay that's right that's right i got my days mixed up we didn't see them until on on thursday yes we met uh mr thumper right I don't know i didn't know that that's what i was going to say we had no idea who they were i'm just like oh this is an attractive couple oh they're you know they're a nice looking couple hey my name is tris this is lock y'all y'all kind of like doing the pleasantries of it because they were on their way out and we were on our way up to the room right so i was like oh okay you know nice to meet you and that kind of was that um that day so then we get to friday basically um and guys there's a thing i'm addicted to a place called snooze and we don't have it one-and-out area, basically, but there was one in Dallas.

This is basically a breakfast place. They only open until, I think, like 2 o'clock, and I had to go there. So Friday, I went to Snooze, and that was— We? We? Yeah, we. We talk as a couple. We. We went to Snooze that morning, and it was cool. I'm going to take one pause because we introduced some names, but we got to give a little bit of backstory for. Oh, yes. Mr. and Mrs. Honey Spoon. And we haven't seen our friends in Judah yet, but let me give you some backstory.

So we met these beautiful people at PCAP, uh the first pcap this year uh and what was that miami yes in miami in may um and we had interacted but we did not like connect it was just like introductions friendly little haha jokes and you know and we'd see um in judah like around the way and cross paths every now and then so what we did was uh started a chat group on telegram yes so that we could all stay in touch after pcap ever since pcap building up to this one we had been chatting and flirting and just building up this tension this very yeah it is this incredible sexual energy of like uh of just flirting you know what i mean just um just excitement of these beautiful people all these bodies coming back together to finally see each other all this anticipation um i ain't never been so excited you know i mean just months months of like build up yes all the way to the point that lock and his lock self you know it the week was the week before or the week we were going he had to make sure he solidified that in lock's way and his planned lock way so what you do what y'all might not have caught was the shade coming from my uh my beautiful wife the land way but the thing is so yes i uh initiated a plan but the thing is right so we got this window of time thursday to sunday or thursday to monday with these wonderful people and they're not just the only people there and we're not just the only people who are going to be at this thing right so i wanted to make sure that we did not monopolize these people's time uh by having them trying to wait for us to hang out so i just asked what day do we want to hang out that's it what day what night let's do dinner and then whatever happens happens kind of situation i know we're all flirting and joking and you know talking stuff but like if we're going to do it let's let's kind of iron out that time for us and here's my response to him is that you're trying to be planning too much he's like well well somebody has to initiate i say yeah well why does that somebody have to be you that's what i'm saying that's that's what i'm getting at there's been months and months of flirting everybody knows is going to go down at some point, right?

But we don't know when. But here's Locke. Locke swoops on in. That's right. I need to make sure we got this, solidify this right away. Bingo. So, Sweet Talkers, what do you think of that? What do you think of that approach, right? My thoughts were, let's say this is our date time. And, you know, so everybody can have the rest of the weekend to make other connections, do all the things that they want to do. But we've been building this tension for a very long time.

And I would have hated if, you know, Tristan and I got swept away and then, you know, they couldn't, you know, they went on and had some fun without us or vice versa. We go have some fun, but we miss each other for whatever reason.

Somebody goes to and oh my god we were at dinner oh well we were fucking so sorry you know so it was more like a let's coordinate let's you know get this thing planned out yeah so uh sweet talker says oh this is in judah says that we were kind of starstruck and shy at pecat miami oh stop it uh and black and kinky says that somebody has to pull the trigger he but he doesn't always have to be him that's what i told him does not have to be you so we go into friday knowing that hey we're going to well now we're a party of six at this point and that's kind of important to the rest of what happens on friday so we had the date planned so right so we are a party of six at this point um everyone kind of knows we're going to hang out friday and that's what's going to happen at that point that's right so where you were in the story was that we went to snooze we knocked that out because that's a must wherever we go yes then you actually had to dip off and do like a goddamn I'm interview like i had to get a job out of tris and go into real world into government yes and then come back into tris which is not the best when you're into tris which is a whole different person right and then you have to go back and forth between the two it was just like a hot mess you had to put your titties away i did had to put my titties all the way and guys look i had bought one when i tell you one shirt that was like that i can do this interview on and be okay one shirt so it was crazy because i'm like what do you wear oh man yeah glad you brought it and glad you didn't i'm glad i bought it too shirt at all you know you gotta stay ready stay That's what I'm trying to tell you, but you don't be feeling me.

So, Swingers Help says, PCAP is intimate enough. You don't need to plan that much. Ooh. You know what I'm saying? They on my side. Okay, okay. Organic. Got another one for Team Organic, but we'll get there, too.

Black and Kiki says, admire your husband for being the man that makes things happen please don't don't tell her yeah she's gonna have to deal with me later here we go another sweet talk it says making it happen that's right oh oh oh oh okay all right so we go into um friday and we go to the gym so there's a gym oh lord that was right across when we go as two separate times because at this point I'm upstairs doing what I need to do and he's at the gym and I'm telling you Dallas got some bad women whoa they all in that one gym that one gym is some bad I'm not even talking about the PCAP people who are bad in and of themselves but just like your locals are just smoking so shout out to kate again he's like thank you kate for that gym yes because he'll go and he comes upstairs he tells me about oh there's some i'm for real that like the women in here they bad and i was like all right whatever so i go to the gym but i'm just saying like i don't know man no i go to the gym Yeah, and I'm in there and I'm working out and I'm like there's mirrors everywhere in there Like she got a ass In one gym and then somebody recognized your booty yes and i recognize that booty anywhere katherine she saw your booty in the mirror and was like hey girl hey i know that booty hey girl how you doing right right uh let's see thumper and bass says every instagram model in dallas was at that gym god damn right they were when i tell you and i wasn't afraid to say it so i was like dang so so we do that uh gym then we uh once you were all squared away we got ourselves all situated went up to the roof for the meet and greet yes yeah did that mickey and mallory were hosting and it was some pretty cool shit going on up there little uh icebreaker games of like charades and shit like that what did we drink we drank something called a ranch water with jalapenos oh yes i forgot about that yep that was pretty good that was pretty good yeah i didn't know that was uh a thing no i did it and then friday we also went to the expansion connections uh presentation yeah that was pretty cool i learned was it this presentation i think it was where someone said the unfortunate term of by necessary yes yes because that's been on your mind you said yesterday when we were um out with friends no they were for yesterday we were out with friends too by necessary by necessary and if you've never heard it before This is my first time hearing it the idea of it is that um a woman feels that um in a play situation with let's just say uh two couples man one two male man woman couples right where she feels compelled to play with the other woman just out of necessity just to get the ball rolling just to get the party started even if it's not like her thing even if she's not bisexual her term that she calls herself is by necessary that it's like a requirement to play that was so heartbreaking yeah i i had never heard that before and i really don't like it it just rubbed me the wrong way i don't feel like anything is necessary right no it shouldn't be necessary to do it's either what you want to do or what you don't want to do right right let's see uh someone says you can only do so much flirting until somebody needs to say when this is going to go down or or what i'm usually the one that pulls the trigger yep don't do it oh black you said that yes it uh yes it was that one by necessary necessary yeah that that was and they say that they're going to talk about that on their recap also yeah man yeah um by necessary.

By necessary. I really don't like that. That rubbed me so wrong. And yeah, hopefully you can shake that thought. Yeah, because I don't think it's necessary. Yeah. Like it's not even necessary if I want to have sex with somebody else's husband and we're all in play. That don't mean that I'm going to have sex with him. It doesn't. Dutchess says, hell no. That's right.

And then Judah says, nobody should do anything they don't want to plain and simple right exactly so yeah i don't i didn't like the term by necessary otherwise it was a fantastic um uh presentation they answered a lot of questions we did some group work um yeah check out katherine man like they're doing some really good stuff she got a really good team um the the ladies that were helping her out their husbands were in the crowd you know helping to facilitate from from the from the crowd it was it was just good they know their shit they know relationships they know how to help you communicate um yeah man and it's great to hear them specialize in lifestyle relationships too so that's very very helpful that's helpful because then it's not like you got to try to explain this whole thing to somebody that has no idea what you're talking about.

Right. Exactly. And what I was going to get into is that, and that Kate is so good. Kate and Kate and Catherine, but Kate had us play like a, like kind of like a break the ice type of game.

Basically,'ve ever been to like a um christmas party or anything like that they have like a ball that is in wrapped in plastic it was like a saran it's a saran wrapped ball that has like gifts in it and it's all wrapped in plastic and the goal of it is is that you have to unravel it but you can't do it you can't tear it basically you just have to keep unraveling it and then you roll like a dice right right so you roll the dice and if you get doubles it's your turn to start unraveling unravel as much as you can until the next person behind you rolls a double so while you're unraveling all these little gifts and trinkets and shit are falling out sex toys and all sorts of that's all you need condoms lube lollipops socks i got some fucking socks he got some pac-man socks he was so happy about these pac-man socks i was like what in the world why are you so happy but it was at that event the reason why i'm bringing that up um it was at that event that lock and true lock style uh figures out who thumper and bae are i didn't really figure it out i kind of just introduced myself again just was rapping yes and i think uh thumper actually said you know hey yeah i'm i'm thumper and i was like bad so here's the back story on that uh-huh on one of the oh yeah uh honey spoon says liquor that's right oh liquor was falling out of that thing too yeah and liquor was falling out of it too yeah i forget my little uh bottle of uh what is that shit called fireball fireball so on one of the live episodes i was talking about again i want to step on someone things like that and and occasionally you know i get my friends or someone at a party that kind of knows that or heard it they'll be be like, oh, you can step on me.

And I just go, ha. Yeah. Right. Not taking it really serious. And this particular time when we were in the live chat. It was a couple of episodes ago.

Yeah, it was a couple of episodes ago on the live chat that I said I was talking about stepping on someone and that they responded and said hey you can you can step on me and I was like okay you know and then Locke is like no no for real they're gonna be at PCAP yeah it pretty much went um almost just like that you know she's sitting here talking shit yeah I want to step on somebody I'll step you right right and then uh they chime in uh thumper and bae chimes in and says you know actually yeah you can step on me i'm actually uh into something like that and trish says okay you better look out for what you want yeah yeah talking all talking all yeah yeah wearing all her swag all that and then i say oh actually you know what i think they're gonna be at pcap and then she just oops really so and then here's what he does because this is the person that he is this is the person he is so he finds that out during the event and he goes hey tris guess what i'm like yeah what he says so um remember that time that somebody made that comment and i was like uh-huh he's like that's them right there that's the people we met in the lobby the other day i said this is him right here i was introducing you at that time and that is the most hot way to do that so i'm sitting there trying to play cool you know not go like flush like in the face like oh my goodness like really that's what we're doing today and he's like yeah see me tris this is thumper see you remember and i was like you were talking shit to yes exactly that's exactly what he did because this is the person i'm married to and then you start blushing but it was all good but no that was really cool his wife is beautiful beautiful little woman man like i spotted her like walking around and i saw her i'd seen her the night before but i didn't put two and two together and then when i saw her this next day i mean she she reminds me of like you like a little firecracker like um just a little hot sexy like i don't know man look just you her and honeyspoon are just like little fireballs just like kind of like running around you know what i mean that could just get into anything but no she definitely has like a smile that'll light up the room yes um and just getting to talk to them like very very intelligent very sweet sincere people man uh yeah honeyspoon chimes in say she's gorgeous absolutely yes absolutely so i'm just kind of you know getting to know them just talking you know hey and just having general conversation at that point i mean they're super attractive um and we kind of just leave it there and then of course our team of six yeah being the friendly swingers that we are they're like so what if we make this a team of eight how do you guys feel about that how do you guys feel about inviting them to the dinner right because this is still friday night and don't worry we are getting to some dope shit and we're going to get there guys please hang in so yes this is date night um where the six of us turn into eight of us and we go to dinner right across the street yeah right across the street was this uh mexican spot called monica's yep we go to monica's nice little atmosphere they actually um they must have knew we was into some bullshit because they gave us pretty much our own little private room a big seating area it was a big square table yeah fortunately so it was a little bit of cross cross talking you know but it was okay we you know we know how to make it work yeah it was okay but for me at the dinner i was like you know just trying to get a feel for thumper and bae um you know guys i'm all about energy i try to fill the room fill the vibe and things like that like the other friends kind of already know where we are like with that part right so i.

So I'm trying to fill the room where everybody's feeling, how it's going and things like that. And to be honest, I did not get anything from either one of them. So for me, I was like, OK. And I literally thought this night I mentioned it too long. They maybe we're maybe just not be their cup of tea. And I'm totally fine with that. I was like, I don't know if she's really into you and I can't get a read on him. Thank you.

mentioned it too long they maybe we're maybe just not be their cup of tea and i'm totally fine with that i was like i don't know if she's really into you and i can't get a read on him and he's probably not really into me which is totally fine we can still do this thing if everybody wants to still um have a play session together but they may not be into us and we and i'm cool with that right i mean because we were fairly new right i mean we're all fairly new but i think i didn't get that vibe i got the vibe of everybody was uh i mean people were kind of reserved just because i think that was just personalities okay but i felt like everybody was kind of connecting at the table i thought that it was a lot of good cross-talking and no we had a great conversation because in judah brings up a good great um topic that i forgot about like when we were at the table at dinner um we everybody knew that the um the theme for the night was going to be superheroes versus video games for costume yes costume party right so everybody at the table we went around the room trying to guess everybody else's costume right and you gave little hints you give little clues and little hints I'll see you next time.

So, everybody at the table, we went around the room trying to guess everybody else's costume. Right. And you gave little hints. You gave little clues and little hints. And that kept us occupied for like an hour. It did. It was so much fun. Because we were trying to guess everybody's theme. It was so much fun. That was a lot of fun. It was. And I thought that that showed a lot of everybody's personality. It did. It really was a good, like, icebreaker. Everybody was kind of laughing and joking and taking good guesses. Somebody run off to the bathroom and come back. Hey, did you get yours?

You can do it.

everybody's personality it really was a good like icebreaker everybody was kind of laughing and joking and um taking good guesses somebody run off to the bathroom and come back hey did you get yours you know did they guess yours yes uh here's the clues you know catching everybody up it was a lot of fun it was a lot of fun and then and the food was bomb and the food was good and we also did what would your superpower be oh you had one that's right yes i can't remember what was yours what did i say i don't remember but i know somebody threw a good one out there being like invisible yeah i think i wanted to fly i think you did you wanted to fly yeah yeah that was a lot of fun it was a lot of fun that was fun yeah but no i think it was a uh oh yeah that's right they that's right and you to put that in there what was your superpower uh and then thumper and bae says that there was a lot of blushing going on during that intro oh yeah well deserved well deserved beautiful couple man uh another sweet talker says we follow thumper and bae on twitter hot couple yes indeed they are yeah yes and so yes so dinner we finish up with dinner and then everybody goes back to the hotel so we can get ready for the actual theme that night yep and we were who were you we were teen titans that's right we were and i was raven that's right that's right and i was robin yes so if you look on our ig today i posted kind of like so we have more pictures i can post like later but we posted uh the pictures of what some of our costume looked like right um so that was a fun night it was it was a lot of uh batman yes a couple cat women yes uh bomber and bell yo shout out to them i gotta give them shout out that i mean you did you said when you do well you do well well they did uh guile and cammy from street fighter uh-huh it was it was well done yes well done um let's see i had a batman that i took a picture with me and batman because i'm the sidekick you know how that go um and then also kate had it set up she had the arcade games the old arcade like ping pong games pinball pinball i keep saying that i said that the other day and you was like you're not talking about people i was like yes i am um who else i know it was a bunch of good ones man uh thumber and bay they had um thundercats thundercats that was good yeah thundercats yeah and um let's see honeyspoon was uh she was mario which was clever and uh mr honeyspoon was clark kent yes with superman underneath uh-huh pretty dope and in judah was spider-man and she was uh wonder woman yes yeah man boots fire boots fire yeah but no man it was a lot of fun everybody really and a dj was great yeah everybody participated everybody tried and then it was like you know we're sitting around with the sexy uh sexy eight of us and maybe a couple more people just kind of lingering around and we're meeting some new folks and everybody's kind of just around yeah we're like okay yep what's next how do we do this yeah the funniest shit in the world that i didn't even notice was that uh mr n judah and mr honeyspoon were kind of giving like fucking baseball hand signals like hey hey how do we do this it's time to go what's the sign what's the sign we're gonna do what we're gonna do about this yep uh and i don't i can't remember how we figured it out but everybody knew that time of night was I don't i can't remember how we figured it out but everybody knew that time of night was uh it was it was time it was go time yes let's see let's catch up really quick says uh bae here hey bae hey beautiful uh oh this shy extrovert was so intimidated by all those beautiful people the group at dinner was totally our cup of tea yes see and the honey spoon said let the planning begin it was more plotting at this point right yeah it definitely was at that point it says that uh oh yeah um mr and judith says like we were totally uh signaling in sidelines.

Hell, yeah. We might as well have had, like, the signs like football, like the fucking Bart Simpson head. Like, bro, you know what this means. It's time to go. So we all go upstairs to kind of get refreshing up so that we can meet back up. Yep. So, yep, everybody goes kind of, you know, freshens up.

The lady's changing to the linger to the lingerie i throw on some uh my little silk pajama pants and uh take my uh my roman team roman that's right you got to take the swinger insurance before you go in there you know because you never know you gotta stay ready you gotta stay ready man um pack your condoms you pack your lube you pack your toys toys. We had a little go bag. Yes. Just a little nothing but like a foot ramming a bunch of stuff in there. All the tricks and treats that Tris likes to have on hand. And we made our way over to the honey suite. That's what we call it. The honey suite.

Yes.

That's what we're going to call that because they got the big room yeah with the big old beds exactly so now you have a team of eight yep at this point we are the sexy eight and um everyone arrives and we're we're you know all there and at this point when you have something like that even if it's a smaller uh group if it's just couples uh two couples you want to do what's called the circle of consent that's what we call it before Before we get to the end of the video before we get to that part we got to talk about what everybody was wearing okay let's let's acknowledge the sexiness in the room he wants to create the vibe for you guys right gotta create the vibe so unfortunately i did not get pictures of all the ladies but i know that we got pictures of trist and mrs honeyspoon who were both dazzling in their red lingerie let's see trist what was yours looking like there well it was uh like a body not a body suit but like lingerie that kind of covered from your boobs down all the way down like a one piece and mrs honeyspoons look kind of similar too if y'all can't tell i'm looking at pictures right now yes he is smoking hot he's reminiscing and mrs honeyspoon uh was wearing like some heels too uh yeah man yeah they know how to do it man because uh yeah and then who else came in and i kept on my wig yeah you did you kept on your raven i kept on my wig from the costume which is like i think people are used to seeing my hair short but i used to have longer hair and and everybody's like you look like a whole different person that doesn't even look like you yeah we call her sofia sofia that's right and then i believe who came next was it no judah i think the in judas were last no they weren't no they weren't okay yeah right in judas came next and she was wearing i think hers was black she had a black bra and panty set yes correct me if i'm wrong i think you guys are in the suite um so yeah i think hers was black and then i think uh thumper and bae came last and i think she was also i can't remember the color of hers i cannot lie maybe black also but yeah so the scene is set i don't remember what all the gentlemen were wearing i think we was all kind of wearing you never focus like shorts or you know boxer briefs and things like that yeah just nice and comfy and cozy.

And then we sat down and Trish, go ahead, pick it back up. And then we go into what's called the circle of consent. This is something that's really, really important for us. Like before play sessions, especially when it's new, right? You want to kind of see where everybody's comfort is and what the any if there's any boundaries, any type of restrictions that people aren't into. So we literally go around the room each with each person, not like couples, but each person, because everybody is a person individually outside of, you know, this situation. Right.

And we just go around to kind of say, okay, what you're into, what you're not into. And this is where I get in trouble a little bit. I'm just saying. It's not trouble. It's not trouble. But here's where I shot myself in the foot. This is my personal opinion about it. I shot myself in the foot because here's what I did and what happened. When it got to me in my turn, I was honest. I am not an oral sex person. Like what I mean by that, like receiving We'll be right back.

and what happened when it got to me and my turn I was honest I had not an oral sex person like what I mean by that like receiving oral sex does not turn me on and it doesn't I've talked about this during the show but saying that out loud and I and I've said it to our friends the other day and they were like yeah I thought that like when you said it to me it also felt that way it felt like I took the air kind of out of the room right because then it's like what do I do with her then at that point like what else do I do so I'm going to learn to finesse that a little bit by just saying that I don't like oral sex it's not that it just doesn't do anything to me as far as turning me on.

However, what can turn me on, and this is, you've not heard this part yet because I just came up with this today. So hear me out. What would turn me on is if somebody did go down on me, they grabbed my ass with both of their hands, like grabbed ass and if you just sat there close enough to my vagina that I can feel your lips but you're not touching me at this point but I can feel your lips there and if you lightly blew or I could just feel your breath and you went side to side and you gently just lightly touch the outside of my legs, I would probably come to be honest with you.

And you did not do anything as far as what you would consider oral sex, but this is what would turn me on, which is a different take on oral sex for me right and that's very very specific you know i know um so there's nothing wrong with sharing that and i gotta backtrack a little bit i i don't believe that there's anything wrong with you saying what you like and don't like i think that's the purpose of the circle of consent i get that where you got not in trouble but what i think you're referring to is when we had our like wrap-up discussion is that you made people kind of uh like you said not quite sure what to do with that information or what to do with you um so it and again correct me if i'm wrong but i think we kind of defined this too when we were talking about it the other day which was it's not that you do not like receiving orals you don't like to give oral sex either it's like it's just receiving the oral sex it's just not like your preference no right but you're still able to function and move around and still you can still please other people and find other things that you like like you mentioned the that little uh scenario that you just described is very very specific but like on a broad scale you also enjoy toys vibrators things like that playing around in different kind of circumstances so so when you have the circle of consent again we discussed this which is instead of it being a hey being a, hey, I don't like this, but it's like a, okay, I don't prefer this, but I do like this.

Yes. Right? So it's just giving those options to make people feel not so limited with you. And this is the first time actually I've ever said that in a circle of consent. Right. Just went and got to it out loud because I didn't want to spend that time. That just says, yes, leave with what you do like. Right. Yes. That's it. That's what. Right. So that's the difference. Let's get back to the sex. Right. So we all go around and have our our moment to say what we like, what we don't like.

And for the majority, everybody was good with like, you know, what we would refer to as full swap or intercourse, all of the above. The sexy tension was building. People were kind of, you know, rubbing and making out a little bit. And you could just feel that it was time.

Oh, by the way, these hosts, these wonderful, wonderful hosts who are the honey spoons, I was about to call call them honey sweets had a ton of toys set out ready for action uh toys and lubes and condoms all over the place just well prepared a well-lit room with the cool blinky lights and the lasers on the ceiling had it set up they had the two queen size beds pretty much pushed right next to each other to make one big giant orgy orgy bed it was so sexy just perfect just a perfect situation man and again just beautiful people um and so once we all established what we wanted we kind of you know it was like okay what's next how do we get here massages we bought some uh coconut oil we took it into the room who wants a massage and then it started off with mrs honeyspoon laid on her stomach and just hands everyone just oiled up their hands started to rub up and down her back and legs and ass and it was just just perfect just the the perfect start and she's moving and then I think her husband went in and started to massage her her lady parts all her wonderful goodness and you could just feel the uh the excitement in the air yes and what were you thinking babe at this point i'm thinking like all of this is hot plain and simple it's all hot it's about to go down yes oh look honey spoon says all the hands all the hands every hand was occupied and then i mean then it's like twister it was just like a whirlwind.

I think, who went next? I think Bae got a massage next because I think Mrs. Honeyspoon, that's right. Mrs. Honeyspoon jumped up and came after your little tail. She did, yes. That's right. She had a toy, her and maybe Mr. Honeyspoon. I don't know. I kind of got lost in the song. That's what I've said.

It's like hands everywhere you know yeah uh she um came after you i think you two were kind of making out and then she broke out a toy that she wanted to try yes and told you it was a pretty good one and uh i think it was i can't remember the name of it but it was some kind of clit sucking vibrator yes um and i think you kind of enjoyed i got a couple pictures of that it was pretty cool it was pretty cool pretty cool and then um we all massaged bay and it was like a bunch of hands on her and i went down on her while it was a bunch of hands just around i think we got a picture hands and bodies everywhere all top of each other everywhere yeah and then next thing you know is just the sex started i mean it was just bodies the womanizer was what it's called oh the womanizer right and then um and i'm assisting you have sex i i was um fortunate enough to connect with the beautiful mrs and judah who we had built up some tension at another party at an at some point and we just couldn't we couldn't cross the finish line at that moment so we finally had our opportunity to connect and good gracious that woman is sexy extremely hot legs for days wonderful kisser and i mean i could just feel every ounce of her body just kind of absorbing me and it was it was just yeah and i'm holding leg you were holding her legs pouncing him with one other hand yeah it was it was like there's i'm looking at the picture of it it's a picture of exactly what happened i'm one leg is i'm holding the leg and i'm thrusting that's right and it looks like uh bay was busy with mr and judah they were having some uh oral sex fun and someone oh.

Honeyspoon was taking pictures yeah shout out well done because these are hot yes and uh looks like Mrs. Honeyspoon was with Thumper oh man that's some sexy shit I think she was riding on top of him and I mean I'm here to tell you, that woman can ride a dick. She can ride a dick. Yeah.

I mean, so, so powerful to be so small jesus i'm talking about forwards backwards and she knows what she wants man she's not here to bullshit like she wants it a certain way she's going to tell you how to get there then good god almighty i was uh it was a point in the uh the whole rotation i was trying to get back around to um mrs and judah and mr and judah was with um he was actually uh performing oral sex i think he was eating out mrs uh mrs honeyspoon and then uh mrs and judah was like no no not right now right because she was about to help out mr and judah do the mr and judah move that's a move that mr and judah does it's not just him though what you're missing is they have a thing they had a thing they got a fucking thing and i was like what y'all talking about and i'm like okay bet i will move back and let me and let's watch the show and this dude hit another fucking gear i ain't never seen no shit like that i mean he took a pillow and put it up underneath mrs honeyspoon this is like wow mrs injured judah went around to mrs honeyspoon's face and i think she was kind of making out with her maybe playing with her nipples or something like that mr and judah went went on in there man and uh bam hit the energizer bunny switch and next thing you know mrs honeyspoon is like cussing him out in the best way possible like the sexiest you i've ever heard in my life yes yes it was it was awesome to see so hot everybody's kind of doing their thing at this point um and somehow myself and thumper end up face to face literally like standing right face to face at some point like we're not in in the bed we just end up face to face at this point standing um and we're standing there and i remember looking at his lips his lips guys are like luscious pillows if i could just say they're just so luscious and like there you, right?

So I was like, I'm going to kiss him. So I'm kissing him and things like that. And at this point, he's standing there, but he's not touching me. He is not touching me. He's allowing, I'm kissing him, but he's not literally touching me with his hands. So in my head, at first I'm like, what, why won't he touch me? So then I just say, you can touch me. And then he touched me, right? So we're going to come back to this. He actually jumped in and said, um, I thought you had the softest lips of all time. Boom. Thank you. So then he touches me and, you know, we start like messing around.

And at that point I touch his, I touch his dick, right? I touch his dick and then I look down. I mean, he had a nice size dick, but that's not why I look down.

I looked down and he has on a cock ring oh so i'm like hmm yeah there you go that's something fun to play with wearing a cock ring yeah to an orgy that's right stay ready kinky i said okay you have on a you have on a cock ring he was like yo i said okay and I remember at some point you laid him down I did I laid him down yeah and yeah but we're going to come back to this piece because this is kind of important to a different story but yes but still that night you guys kind of connected I think you went down on him I. I didn't see a whole lot. I saw some kissing and stuff. We did. Yes, we did.

And I did not have sex with anyone. No, you didn't. That night. And what I mean by sex, I did not have intercourse. It's not like Bill Clinton. I didn't have intercourse with anyone that night besides Locke. And that's not a bad thing.

But I had a great night great night you know trying to figure that out trying to figure out like why that happened and i was just like um did they not ask did it just not happen were you just too busy i just don't think it just didn't happen just didn't happen okay yeah it just didn't happen um the other thing is is that i had a great time pleasing people and assisting that's what you do yeah I I did a great job assisting and and helping other people with their orgasms um because here's sometimes like with women I would just say this right um there's it's nothing really special that I'm doing um I just think of it as the way that I would want someone to touch me, right?

And I take that in consideration and I literally caress the inside of your vagina the way that I would want to be touched. And it works. And I just like people to feel good and to make those sensual touches, you know, to kind of like stroke the inside was not too hard. It's not too soft. You're hitting that G spot and you're just kind of like, you know, caressing those walls. Yeah, I am. I bear witness to your action and the results of those actions. I love it. It's so hot.

Someone said, oh, Honey said oh honeyspoon said yes you did tris has magic fingers thank you you guys gonna make me blush again thank you that's right you can blush baby go and lift that mask up let me see how red those cheeks are right no but um it was an absolutely spectacular session and the best part, okay, yeah, the sex was phenomenal. It was phenomenal. But then when it was all kind of winding down, everybody's kind of chilling, we sat back on that bed and somebody popped open a couple of bags of Doritos. Doritos, if that ain't a good night.

And we just sat there and just chilled and munched and and just talked man um we had another great conversation with this group of people uh we kind of went around the room and talked about like your uh where was the craziest place you've ever had sex yes you know so we just dropped that out there i don't know right and everybody kind of just went around the room telling their crazy funny stories and we just got to connect on a whole nother level and i swear to goodness we just sat there for like maybe another hour hour and a half just talking but naked just sitting there naked talking connecting and then mrs honeyspoon had the brilliant idea i hope they were nacho cheese they had different flavors yeah i can't even remember i don't even i know we have the ranch one i think the regular one and then it was like a green pack yeah they had all different ones but it was over once you break out the doritos unless you got mints and list it's over party over it's party over but it's all good uh let's see yes uh it looks like uh thumper bay said we really were eight people sitting on a bed naked eating hot doritos hell yeah that's the real shit you can't make this up right you cannot i mean you gotta eat yeah and we were just chilling um and went around the room again oh right and i was at the part where the part where Mrs.

Honeyspoon had a great idea. Great idea. She has such a wonderful photographic mind, right, to take a great picture. So all of us put our feet in a circle. Like, everybody put their feet together. And then she took a picture of all of our feet and legs, and she posted it on Twitter. And, yep, and Judith says the 16-feet pic. Yeah.

Yes 16 feet pick yeah yes right for the win hell yeah and it was just like it it meant so much right i mean because posting it on twitter um other people were able to react to it and i think mallory uh from casual swingers um actually had a conversation um with mrs honeyspoon about that picture saying that it was just like the embodiment of what she believes the lifestyle should be and i guess what she meant by that and i think i'm pretty sure what she meant by that was just the colors right look at the people look at the rainbow of colors all the the different spectrum you got the brown you got the white and everything in between in that one picture we got um you know asian black white you know all mixed up into this one group of people who had an excellent moment together like a true friendship of everybody from who who didn't give a shit about where you're from, which, you know what I mean?

Like all that, all that bullshit. It's just like people who connected on a whole nother level. And it was just brilliant. It was a beautiful picture. And I literally I've retweeted it tonight, but I literally mean it like that's one of my favorite pictures from that weekend. It just means a lot, man.

And Judah says the United colors of p cap fucking a but i mean it really was awesome and i think that's what it should be man yeah i think that's what the lifestyle should be right you should be connecting with as many people as you can drawing experiences hearing stories um sharing your story sharing your experiences so people can understand where you came from and how you think about things and maybe why you think about some of these things right and yeah man we're breaking down barriers at pcap man exactly so we finish up uh the night and then we get to saturday so saturday is basically the day of the workshops and the seminars um for everyone this episode is going long folks but tris if you want to keep rolling yeah we're going to keep rolling through this part because we really want to get sunday is going to be its own episode y'all but go ahead tris so we get to saturday and um saturday the presentations.

So we are preparing for hours that morning. We did go to the rope class. Yeah, with Madam Posh, Persephone, and I can't remember the other person's name, but it was dope. It was dope. I got a lot out of it.

And Madam Posh, like Kate says, for like um lgbtq rights and all that stuff she's she's dope man um when she was up front in front of the class you could tell she admitted to having like adhd or something like that right so you could tell she was kind of fidgety kind of like all over the place a little bit like bouncing around she was kind of like reading her notes but then the magic happened when she pulled out the ropes the magic happened like she transformed into somebody who just this is what this human is here to do you know what i mean of course alongside all of her advocacy things but right the rope thing is where she shined like she pulled out those ropes and she turned on the music it was so beautiful to watch and the way she just kind of tied her up the technique how slick and smooth it was got me inspired i bought a um a damn mannequin he has a whole mannequin guys because i need to practice i need to be like madame posh yeah and she we got to see her the night before because she had did i am two performances but we only got to see one right um and it was great it was savagery it was beautiful yeah it was like she uh put the young lady up on the uh she got to suspend somebody oh man incredible so then we get to our presentation and lock is spending most of the time he's in there like i just gotta get this done i gotta get these nerves out and i've sitting here like that we talked to we talk online we're talking to you guys right now right you know but he's like but i don't see them looking at me i was like but you know they're looking at you that's right but i don't see the people face right because right now all i can see is you and me right and that's easy but we know they're there i know they're there but you know still yeah so we get to the presentation um and it's pretty much a packed house and he's like i don't know i'm getting nervous you know and i was like we got this we got this i was super nervous look you're gonna tell the story right i was nervous before we got to the room okay very nervous before we got to the room and when we got there i started getting like the regular feelings i was kind of pacing around but i wasn't like visually nervous yeah and me for me it was like my extrovert came out and i was like i'm ready yeah you would get this done um and shout out to casual swingers thank you mickey mickey took some pictures for us during the actual presentation yeah we got to send those out we got to post those yeah so thank you for taking uh the picture so we did the topic on organic play versus uh planned play and it was well received it was well received we did it during the show but we still had some stuff afterwards when we did it this live show and we talked about those things so i felt like it would be a great topic because if we're still kind of like debating that topic i want to hear what other people have to say about it so we did the um i call it the performance but uh during the presentation there's a another sweet talker that comes in and she has on sunglasses sunglasses are my thing right so she comes in with these like big old sparkly sunglasses and she's like look i did this for you, Tris.

And that's my girl i think that's mr and mrs diamond that's my girl i was like thank you really cool yeah really cool so we started out with an icebreaker because it's kind of like you you want people to relax a little bit you want to get the energy going get we we wanted to do the presentation the same way we do the show and we want people to interact we want people to talk we want to have questions we want to pose questions and everybody answers them or they have questions to ask us we wanted it to be more of like let's talk let's do this exactly how we do the show everybody is sweet talkers as soon as they walk in the door and we did a little icebreaker to get them all jazzed up welcome to the sweet life welcome to the sweet life that's my baby welcome to the sweet life so we kind of went around the room and did that and it was fine because you got to kind of just like be silly for a second and not take it so seriously right right um but then we start the topic uh we get people kind of going for where this where the discussion is actually going right um and lock uh once we get started he's in his now he's in his mojo he's he's here he's he's lock at this point right ready to go he's ready to go and apparently when i get really excited and i get going i'm talking with my hands a lot so i go like this you know those type of things you apparently, when I get really excited and I get going, I talk with my hands a lot.

So I go like this. You know, those type of things. You can tell when I get really, really excited. But it was a lot of fun. And I really thank you to all the content creators that came out to our presentation. Thank you to everyone that came to the actual presentation.

Because we know that you took time out of your day to come and listen to us talk um you had no idea exactly how that was going to go so thank you for doing that um and then lock found out he got a lot of friends uh that likes team roman that's right yeah i mean because part of my argument with the uh i was pretty much team planned right like when it comes to um you know planning your situation or planning your scenarios. I'm not going to go too deep into that, right? The bottom line is you need to stay ready. That's the end result.

You find a happy medium between letting organic play happen and planning your play. We decided or we think that the best way is to kind of just be ready. not necessarily planning, but being ready for anything to happen. The ready, the more ready you are, you know, organic, you're allowing it to happen in that space. And we learned that from one of our friends. Yes. I'm sorry. Yeah.

So along that line of planning, it came the argument of like sometimes you got to take, you know, your insurance you gotta take your swinger insurance but you gotta prepare for that so you gotta maybe not drink a lot of alcohol not eat too much so that the medicine can work right yes so that comes along with planning so we started we gave a little shout out to team roman team roman we do that and then uh it kind of spread around and it turned out that there was quite a few guys in there who were willing to volunteer that they were. They also take swinger insurance and that's OK. It is.

It is OK just to make sure that you're that you can basically function. That's right. And it's not going to be like, oh, my gosh, it's way too much pressure and you can't perform. Yeah, for sure, for sure. So let's see. Let's catch up.

sweet talker says it was one of my favorite pics that that we saw that i saw come out of that weekend thank you yeah no i thought so too i love that picture and they also said there were some peeps that didn't know what to think about the rope demo on uh in the lobby on friday i mean it was a lot it was a lot it was it was a lot to take in uh i mean because i think the sub was kind of acting like really erratic almost like possessed yes and uh madame posh kind of had to like capture her and string her up and she kept being kind of like strange weird erratic movements but uh yeah just the rope the rope part was incredible yes and it was a ball gag involved it was a lot it was definitely a lot uh in judith says the icebreaker intro was perfect and really set the mood uh for participation participation excuse me uh yeah shout out to you for giving us a quick rhythm lesson right yeah but i mean you know we still had some uh you know rhythmically challenged folks in the room but that's okay man we're gonna keep working on it y'all got the beat so y'all practice next time we'll get it and that friend bae says that y'all deserve a roman sponsorship after coming up with team team roman team roman um so hey we might shout them out we might try right um and during the presentation it was mickey actually that um kind of like clap on two and four baby two and four that's right clap on two and the four right so it's kind of like mickey from casual swingers that kind of bought this uh kind of like term up right that organic is the desire and plan is the intent right so right i think what he was going for mickey if you're still there um please feel free to chime in and follow up so when he was saying that planned is showing the intention of what you want to do that night right it's you know we intend to um have sex we intend to full swap we intend to do whatever you know whatever it's like that's the plan right but when it came to desire how he described it was or when it comes to organic he said something like when you're in a room and you're in a at the club or you're at the party and something organic happens, that's showing the desire to be with me in that moment.

Yes. It's more driven by that urge. Yes. In that moment. And that was like. And I was like, I'm with you. Yeah. So. So, yeah.

So the presentation goes and we have a good time we give out um a few goodies and the day basically goes on we go to every kind of the other presentations kind of go we participate in uh black and kinkies yeah uh and then everybody gets ready for the party that night when we're going to collect we took naps we took a nap yeah you got to take a nap like we that's a lot of energy that you got to recharge back up uh and we we get ready for the cow what was it uh cowboys and latex yeah i think that was the theme that night and we had a um party bus that kind of took us to collect so collect is a lifestyle club yep i think i got one in one in Dallas, one in Houston, or New Orleans or something like that.

Something like that. And I'm super excited because I wanted to go see how the club was and things like that. So we get on the last party bus to head over to the club. And those people that was on our bus was on 10. That bus was lit.

They was partying partying they was dancing on a pole um my friend she had on these really nice um kind of like lingerie but it was like bondage looking it's the place is called honey burdette yeah and i don't think we'd heard of it i had never heard of it at that point but it was like three people i ran into that night that had it on and i was like oh i'm about to order me some honey burdette i was like thank you thank you for that yeah says that um colette's is in new orleans okay yes in new orleans so we go and we arrive at the club and i swear them front desk people were Yeah, you were flirting with the front desk girls.

I was like, how do you get this many people at the door? I said, you are so gorgeous. And I mean that in the most flattering way possible, right? So I kind of had her blushing. But I was serious. I mean, if somebody's beautiful, I'm going to tell you.

I mean, they were some beautiful women at that door right um so let's see the club itself was incredible right i mean this place was huge um and i think that was a good thing and a little bit of a uncomfortable kind of situation for us as well because that's the most people we've been around in in a very confined type of space not only that there were i mean it was okay let me describe the club first you walk in you go through like security and the check-in and all that stuff pretty cool standard stuff they have like a little waiting area or just like a neutral hallway area that can lead you to different places you it's like pick your adventure you can go back to the to the dance floor you can go upstairs to the other dance floor and bar or you can go back to the playrooms or you go to the bathroom it's a you know pick your pick your area pick the way you want to go uh so luckily you know trish was uh savvy enough to pull one of the like security guys and ask him for a quick tour i did the cute thing yeah i went over i played all over i was like excuse me and batted your eyes hello uh-huh and he was like i'll give you a tour thank you thank you sir i appreciate it right so uh he showed us where the dance floor was showed us where all the bars were, showed us the VIP area, which we have for PCAP folks.

Yeah. We had brought all our liquor in there, which was pretty cool. And he gave us the rules, which is the most important. He gave us the rules to the back, to the playroom areas, which was pretty, pretty big, I think. Yeah. They were all kind of interconnected. They were all kind of connected. Yeah.

But you still maintain some kind of privacy in in certain areas but it was it was something like i i had never seen before i'd seen a lot of playrooms that are individual rooms these were like big rooms that had individual spaces right individual beds except for the one big ass orgy bed big old pizza pie bed um and it had the theater room oh the theater room was kind of cool yeah the theater room was kind of i could have definitely gotten pretty smutty in there we could have did some naughty naughty things but um so this is before a lot of people came but then as the night went on it got crowded as fuck yeah like it was not only us but it was like local swingers and not just local swingers but local people who Thank you.

it got crowded as fuck yeah like it was not only us but it was like local swingers and not just local swingers but local people who just wanted to go to a club and just enjoy the atmosphere of being around uh lifestyle folks who you know like to be naked like to be friendly like to dance and i don't blame them but you know once it gets very like spectator crowded it makes me nervous yeah and i like the i don't know who's who yeah i like the fact that you don't know the protocol of like what to do i guess that could be any club it could be yeah um but i like the fact that kate had the vip room so that was a good um touch on that yeah that we had a space that we could go to and we knew that those were kind of like our people right without trying to try without trying to figure it out right of who was who people were trying to bust up in there though they were they were kate was like security she's sitting there like oh no i don't know you you can't come in here i'm telling you that woman does everything so we we go through the night and again guys when we tell you that we appreciate our sweet talkers, we really do appreciate our sweet talkers.

We had people come to the club. Yep. Now, we didn't even realize that people were doing this, but people came out to the club just to see us. Local sweet talk, local sweet talkers.

It was like we couldn't make it and get into PCAP, but we came out to the club so that we could at least, know talk to you and say hi and I want to say thank you yep we spent time you know we we talked we had some laughs it was great to be able to talk to people in person and see them truly so I really appreciate you taking out the time to come down to see us yeah it was very humbling um to have folks actually stop us and say hey you're locking trust oh shit yeah yes indeed we are yes we are right it was judah says we kind of feel the same way about the playroom spaces that are open right yeah it's a bit much it was a lot and then the other thing is is that we've been to a few uh of course like lifestyle parties right or clubs and uh this was the first one they had a lot of security which is not bad it's just that they had a ton of security um by the playrooms especially and it just made me wonder like damn why yeah right like it's a good thing it's a good thing it's a little off-putting too yeah but they had a lot of security and here's the one not to do and this is what and this is where you don't know if this person is lifestyle and they just don't know protocol of their lifestyle and they still just don't know protocol right so what happens is i see this woman she has on these really nice boots this tall woman and i compliment her boots because they were nice and she was hot and she was hot but i wasn't even paying attention to that i was like really gave her a compliment on her boots and i was like your boots are nice you know they're gorgeous they're fire i walk away we go on about our night and at some point um we're literally talking to one of our sweet talkers that came out and we're having a conversation she walks by me behind me and she touches me on my ass yeah and this is my problem with women and in in general lifestyle especially right you cannot touch me because i'm a woman and you think that that's okay you still need consent to do that you shouldn't just walk up and think that that's going to be cool and expected behavior to do the same way if a man just walked up and touched you and on your ass you will feel this you'll feel some type of way facts so i don't think you should walk up on a woman and just look back like hey and i gave her the death stare of any death stare because i'm like don't do that that's not nice yeah so that was the only thing but so unfortunate but the night was great we met some people we met new people um that we were sitting i was sitting on a couch let me bring this let me take this one okay so when we were in the vip we were kind of just taking a break it was a lot you know it was a lot happening you know and you know sometimes as uh both of us are kind of like introvert leaning right we got to take a minute to just kind of recharge for a second so we pulled ourselves back and we kind of sat on the big giant bed that was in the vip and then this swole ass dude big motherfucker like huge arms cut off you know big arms and he just comes over and in the nicest way just kind of like you know hey lock you know listen to your we listen to your show and he introduces himself and i had to take a seat once i found out who he was so who was he babe he was uh they were page and pen from swinger diaries whoa yeah listen okay i remember when they said that they were coming to pcap and i was excited to do that but then to have this dude come over and say that he listens to our show he supports us he's you know he likes our what we're doing he appreciates the work that we're putting out i was literally floored they say don't meet your your heroes they're gonna disappoint you nope nope this dude page and pen the people who are page and pen you know the podcasters themselves kick ass like they are really really nice really genuine i was absolutely starstruck i can't front yeah he was like i was he's like tris yeah you know who this is i was like i'm not gonna know i don't know what's going on what's going on so he's like that there's their swinger diaries i was like yeah and then at that time so here's what happened when he when lock says that someone else is actually talking to me at that point right so i didn't want to be rude and break and be like oh my god like this is that so i ended up having to end that conversation i was just like oh hi you know and i ended that conversation i came back to actually speak to um them myself and apologize i wanted to make sure that i gave them their kudos because it was them that he was listening to hold on let.

Let me do that. That's my sentimental part. Yeah. No. They meant so much to me in this podcast journey because they were like the first podcast that I had to completely listen to from top to bottom. It was them and it was that couple next door. Right. But Page and Pen, they set like the standard of what the modern kind of swinger podcast was going to going to be from them you know yeah it was fun it was educational and it was sexy they gave you everything that that they could give and it was like uh the format the intro the exit the music everything and how much they talk about it.

I mean, it set the bar for me. It set the standard. It made me think like, shit, this is something that we could do. And to finally get to meet these folks was. Yeah, I mean, it was it was pretty awesome. It was very, very awesome. And it was it meant a lot to me. It really did.

And I was i was like you know i wanted to make sure that i gave them their proper like yeah you know i want to make sure i actually speak to you and not just be like oh hi you know that type of thing so shout out to swinger diaries thank you so much for all that you have done uh thank you for speaking to lock yeah but thank you guys so much um the other thing that happened in the vip room what happened then oh i got my ass grabbed yes so we're talking to this sweet older couple that's a part of peacock they're sweet sweet couple we're talking about like their their vacation plans they're so sweet yeah you know all these things and then lock it was like it was time you know it was like okay it was nice to meet you guys and giving hugs and and the sweet sweet lady just says can i grab your ass i'm like sure you know live a little go for it here have at it and she's like like takes both hands and just like gets on in there she got a she got some oh you snorted she really got in there buddy i was like oh shit you know she got it yeah she did she got her ass grabbed that's right that's right i mean shit if you're gonna ask for it and i'm gonna say yeah She's gonna get what she want out of that yeah i was not expecting it at all like i just didn't see that coming i know she's all nice and sweet on the outside and just a little tiger on the inside yes yes so that was really cute so it was cool so we wrap up at colette's we run into this couple on the way out and they had vampire teeth and vampire teeth they did it was it was off they did have vampire teeth and we go back you know to the hotel oh we forgot mickey gave us some dope shit too mickey did so tell them about what yeah yeah y'all gotta make sure y'all check out casual toys man because mickey got some dope shit out there these were unique condoms um and they are different like you don't you don't slide them on or roll them on like um like a normal condom it's almost like a saran wrap kind of situation and you pull it you pull it over and then pull the tabs and it kind of tightens around the shaft of your dick and it's like the thinnest condom you're ever going to feel.

Yes. Like I felt nothing. Yeah. It was just for me, just looking at it, I just didn't want it to come off. You know what I mean? Like we don't have any worries, but it was something like if I'm going to use this in the future, I want to not think about it. But in my head, I keep thinking it looks like it's going to come off. And it comes in different sizes. It comes in different sizes. And somehow it like warms up. Yeah. Somehow. Yeah. Yeah. It was pretty cool. It was pretty cool. Uh-oh. We got some bullshit. We got it. Don't worry about that. No. Just put that out. No, you block it, honey.

You block it. Look at that. We got bullshit coming in the chat, y'all. Let's's see let's see how we get them up out of here we're gonna block you and remove it you see it yeah remove ah yeah we're gonna remove you uh-huh bye okay okay put user in timeout hot user put user in timeout yep yeah we're gonna do that bye okay and then delete that last And then we'll see you next time.

okay put user in timeout hot user put user in timeout yep yeah we're gonna do that bye okay and then delete that last we're gonna delete this one hey y'all we made it we got haters in here yeah let's go weird okay and then put him in timeout okay all right that was really weird we're not gonna do that today um so yes We got haters. I know, right? So, I know, right? You know you're doing something now when you get your first hater. We get to the end of Saturday, and we get back to the hotel. Everything kind of like, you know, just goes out on Sunday.

So, guys, we are going, unfortunately, to stop on sunday we bought the cock tees all y'all sorry because sunday is where a lot of things happen that lead up to what happens on sunday and it's also the point of what i told you guys in the what uh sexy eight that we had to come back to. Remember, I said that there was things that happened during that orgy that we're going to come back to. And that leads into kind of what happens on Sunday. And we want to make sure we give you all that space. Yeah. To make sure that we give those details. So here's the thing about Sunday, too.

It's it's its own story. It's it's its own story. It's actually its own culmination to another story that's been building. And we got to give it room to breathe. And we're going to be able to ask a lot more questions.

We're going to be able to pick each other's brain about how we're feeling and what's going on with um with sunday uh with the sunday story we just want you guys to hear all of the details there it's the perfect way to end pcap encore so come back in two weeks and we're going to talk about this about sunday about sunday about just the little things that happened before sunday but growth and development it deserves its own breathing room and we're going to give it to you we're going to give it to you so yeah man this has been a lot yes yes absolute cliffhanger absolute yes hanger so look at that sweet talkers reporting the uh the nonsense they went on in the suite thank you guys appreciate that you guys handle that with class and grace thank you so much thank you thank you appreciate it we love you guys don't worry i'm gonna get better with the uh the blocking and shit like that and getting people out of the chat i'm gonna figure that out but yeah i think we handled that pretty yes thank you guys for sticking in there we know that we're over um tonight but again we'll see you in two weeks again listen to 57 58 and it's gonna lead into 59 yeah shit you might even want to go back a couple more episodes i mean we've been building this shit up hey we love all y'all too man for real we love all our sweet talkers we love all of our beautiful friends that we met out there we love the sweet talkers that came through made time out of your your schedule to come and kick it with us we really really appreciate all the all the support everybody that comes and hangs out with us for hour and a half on a sunday night right really appreciate y'all man and everybody who pushed play man we really appreciate you so thanks and we will talk to y'all soon.

All right, guys, have a happy holiday. Oh, yeah, that's right. And be safe. Eat all that turkey up. All right, guys. Bye. Again, we'd like to thank you for living a sweet life with us. To everyone who couldn't join us live in the suite, check out our podcast on iTunes, Stitcher, Spotify, Google Play, and iHeartRadio. Be sure to subscribe, rate, and review. Feel free to email us at livingthesweetlifepodcast at gmail.com. You can also follow us on Instagram at thesweetlifepodcast and on Twitter at sweetlifepod.

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