In this Suite-Talker Topic episode, we talk about a few profile/dating red flags sent to us by our friends, @beachbedcouple (Twitter). If a profile reads “we’re here to spice things up…” is that a red flag? If a couple’s profile only shows pics of one partner, is that a red flag for you? If a couple isn’t married (and you are), is that a red flag for you? We have a great conversation about all of the above!As always, thanks for listening!Be sure to SUBSCRIBE, RATE, REVIEW! We appreciate any and all feedback!JOIN US in Dallas, TX for PCAPEncore November 5 - 8, 2021!!Check out our show and MANY others on FullSwapRadio!How to stay in-touch with us:Email: [email protected] us here for info on upcoming LIVE episodes:Instagram: @thesuitelifepodcastTwitter: @suitelifepodFacebook: Livin the Suite Life (Tryst Loq Suitelife)Don t forget to SUBSCRIBE to the Livin the Suite Life Podcast YouTube Channel!
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Living the Sweet Life is a podcast intended for mature audiences only. We'll be using sexually explicit language while discussing many different adult themes. So if you're under the age of 18, please stop listening. Also, please know that our thoughts and opinions should not be taken as professional advice. We're here to answer your questions about the swinger lifestyle. From newbies to longtime swingers, or if you're just curious, we hope to engage you all and to encourage a sex-positive discussion.
Now that we've got that out of the way, make yourself comfortable and join us in living the sweet life. Ladies and gentlemen, thank you so much for joining us here in episode 54 of Living the Sweet Life. She is my beautiful, sexy co-host and wife, the lovely Trist. He is my sexy chocolate husband, Locke. I try my best, babe. And again, thank you so much for joining us here. This is episode 54 of Living the Sweet Life podcast. Tonight, we're doing something kind of special.
Some of our wonderful friends and sweet talker, part of the sweet talker community has offered up this wonderful sweet talker topic of red flags.
Ooh, online red flags and when you're dating red flags we wanted to talk about some of their suggestions and find out what are some of your red flags but we got a lot to chew on tonight don't we tris yes man we're doing something a little different uh tonight too instead of a how you feeling it's a what babe it's a how we feeling it's a how we feeling we we oh because for the first time we are on the exact same page about some shit and we're gonna let y'all know what it is and there are our friends right there chiming in beach bed couple check them out on twitter babe let's give them a round of applause because these people they work out all the damn time they are so sexy listen check them out on twitter beach bed couple um just got to make sure we give them a shout out because this is your episode all right so uh let's knock out some housekeeping babe sound.
Sound good? Sounds great to me. All right. Wonderful. So here we go. Follow us on Instagram at The Sweet Life Podcast. Follow us on Twitter at Sweet Life Pod. Always feel free to email us at thesweetlifepodcast at gmail.com.
And feel free to check out our podcast or any of the major podcast catchers, you know, Stitcher, Spotify all that good stuff make sure y'all find us over there while you're there subscribe rate review we always appreciate that stuff and special shout out to everybody who is listening to us right now on full swap radio that's right check us out on fullswapradio.com we are we air i think it's now at 11 o'clock on thursdays because the lineup is getting packed over there right that's right everybody's joining that's right we're getting a lot of new podcasts all the time full swap radio is thriving check us out over there and for all of our wonderful sweet talkers who could not join us live in the suite tonight we miss you but you can always check out the video on youtube and while you're there go ahead hit the subscribe button hit the little dingly bell thing so you'll know next time and you can be a sweet talker with us in the future we always invite the sweet talkers and don't we babe absolutely love it when they come on board love new sweet talkers we love hearing some new ideas and uh just saying what you got to say you know feel free to jump in stay anonymous if you want let us know you did just hit us a little wave and say what's up like some of our people doing now right we got sweet talking number one chiming in hey sexy people hey yourself yourself you've been doing it and on your trip in new orleans i was keeping up i told like i even joined one of your uh live videos oh yeah that's right i missed that he's you didn't tell me i was just online and i saw it so i jumped in to see what was going on that's right for all y'all don't know sweet talking number one went down to new orleans for pole dancing convention.
And let me tell you her Instagram is lit. Yes.
Man would down to new orleans for a pole dancing convention and let me tell you her instagram is lit yes man with all the pole she's taking classes down there watching uh performances yes hey sweet talking number one let us know if you were able to do your performance i think you were supposed to right um yeah let us know let us know somebody else says hey sexy chocolate people hey yourself someone else says hey folks hey chiming in chiming in we got sweet talkers somebody else says whoo i made it what's up folks hey welcome we you know we had to wait it for you just send us a text message we'll pause the thing glad you were able to join another wonderful sweet talker quite regular hey beautiful she says hey hey sexy people hey to yourself hi and y'all know who it is y'all know duchess cashmere of the cashmere room podcast our sister the one and only checking in with all the wavy hands hey girl you know we miss you when you're not around absolutely we still we still gotta have that conversation that's right that's right i haven't we haven't forgotten we gotta set up a zoom or something yeah we do oh sweet talker number one chimes and says that nope they had to cancel the hurricane oh hurricane ida bummer oh well i'm glad you're safe and sound yeah it still seemed like you had a great time yeah yes don't mock me that's not nice but yeah real quick folks so we are 68 days away from PCAP Encore yes it's an honor pcap just saying you guys i completely forgot that i've never actually showed you the outfit that we talked about a few episodes ago um i don't remember what it was called but you're talking about the uh pcap recap it was a pcap recap episode that we did and we talked about like our little play session right and you heard about what i wore we actually didn't do that show live um but you heard it if you listen to the podcast um what i wore that night but i forgot i never actually showed you guys how what i actually wore that night so tonight because we're 68 days away from p-cap i actually am wearing that thing is sexy too that's that outfit oh babe i hear the baby running around outside you should go get up and check oh no there's no one here we're home alone well even more of a reason you should stand up and show the folks the rest no what okay yeah now she's gonna stand up right now live yeah oh look at that so for all my wonderful people in podcasts where y'all hear me getting stuck here so she has like this uh not necessarily fishnet but it's kind of like window pane but she got like uh lingerie with nipples covered up by little flowers or floral design yeah it's like some type of flowers flowers and then it goes all the way down to the crotch and yeah it's hot so and it's a whole bunch of like straps and everything so if you're listening to the podcast go to youtube and let your mind be blown yes and check it out and it'll be on the only fans page but that's right oh we got some more people chiming in beach bad couple what's up they said hey you too so glad we could make it we're glad to have you this is your topic so yeah feel free to chime in love it love it we got nk swingers yo we hollered at y'all earlier today let's get this thing on the road um they say oh all these kinky black people we in the right place someone else says damn to tryst yeah i'm getting all the reactions there's a lot of reactions happening so if you're hearing this on podcast world make sure you go to youtube and uh you'll see what's up yep and someone says that trust oh no sunday bum day nope not over here that's right that's right so yes pcap encore november 5th through the 8th it is not too late but you're getting close make sure you jump over there check out the link in our link tree um and it's podcast hyphen a hyphen palooza.com slash sweet life that's right check it out click the link and join the party man we're looking forward to having you it's gonna be awesome kate is on top of it man she's making sure that everybody's gonna be safe and sound the best of her abilities you know what i mean yes but she's also coordinating a ton of shit ton of activities man pool parties uh like i said the shibari rope classes all that stuff the seminars our idea.
Hey, Kate, don't worry. We're going to send you all of our stuff. I thought about that today, actually. I was like, hey, we already have it. We just need to send the information out. We're going to do that. And also want to thank our OnlyFans. Thank you guys for the OnlyFans that we have that joined, that sent out messages that like the pictures. That's right. We appreciate the support. Yeah, definitely do. We appreciate the support and OnlyFans, so thank you. Yeah, buddy. Thanks a lot, folks. Hey, let's get this show on the road. Y'all know what it is.
Before we get into all the shenanigans, all the crazy talk, I always got to check in with my boo, but first, but actually this time it's a little different. So baby, how we feeling? Yeah. Tonight we're going to do something different. We're not going to do individual how you feelings. We're going to do a group. We, we, how are we feeling tonight? Right. So I'm going to give you a little backstory.
When we do that, Locke's going to give you's gonna give you guys backstory all right little backstory so some bullshit went down in swinger podcast world over the weekend folks or maybe in the past week or so our friends our good friends over at swinging outside the lines uh adam and bell have suffered uh they they have suffered by being outed on the Twitter community right on twitter and in their home home community how dare these individuals do such a thing right it's crazy so apparently uh the way it goes and they've they shared this this is nothing that is not public domain if you go over to their podcast you can listen to to their it's like a seven minute episode about how they've been out it.
So we're just sharing because, you know, they're good. They're good peoples. We've hollered at them. We met them. We were in chat groups with them. So, you know, we came we're coming to their defense here. This is public knowledge. And this is bullshit.
So apparently somebody found out who they were in their neighborhood and sent like a they created like a fake twitter page and posted some bullshit like you know i want to f you know you know i said f this is a explicit podcast exactly what am i doing here this is something about you know i want to fuck you know blankety blank in her ass or something like that with her government name right like whoa and they posted it on twitter so uh swinging outside the lines went to their friends um went to chat groups and was like yo can y'all help us out let's get these people reported let's get this this thing dumped we got to get her name off of internet right yeah but then they turned out they found out who it was and it was somebody in their damn neighborhood and neighborhood it kind of caught like wildfire neighborhood text chats they've seen people saying hey oh shit you know check out this podcast it's a must listen stuff like that you know and of course they they're pat you know they panic it's it's a wild shit so at this point i believe that they're pulling their podcast down they're going to move it over to patreon Patreon and they lock down their Twitter.
They're going to lock down their Twitter. They're going to check out and figure out what what's the situation like with their kids and figure out what's next and how many people know and just assess the situation. So Trist, with this, how do you feel? So, guys, I rarely ever really cuss on our podcast. I said, fuck that shit. That's what I say. When Locke first told me about the story, and I am sorry. Let me just say this at the beginning before I even go into the hypotheticals, right? I am sorry that they are going through this.
it is obviously very painful for them and i'm sure very stressful um situation especially when you have kids involved right um so i definitely understand that part um and i wish them the best for sure what i mean by fuck that shit is saying that if my neighborhood decided that they wanted to hypothetically i guess out us and say or create i don't know a fake twitter page and then you go to the i don't know the community and and do all this stuff right crazy yeah i feel like you got too much time on your hands and you don't pay my damn mortgage yep people don't have nothing else better to do no and you don't pay my mortgage why do you care if i'm doing this or not unless you're paying for my house that i'm staying in and there's some type of clause somewhere that says that i'm not able to talk about my sexual life then you have nothing to do with what i'm doing at my home i also told lock that it's like if i was a stripper right you still have no right to go to everyone in the neighborhood and tell them that i'm a stripper right no that's not your business you're not paying my house note or anything why does it matter right and that's exactly what i said to you that was like my first reaction nk swingers uh, they chime in and says, what a violation.
Absolutely. Sweet Talker number one says, yeah, that part. Like she completely agrees with what you're saying. And someone else says that I always say people need to mind their damn business. And I said that too. Yeah. And I understand the kid part. Because if you guys listen to us at the beginning. She said that's how you get slapped. Right. Exactly. Not minding your business. Yes. At the very beginning with the podcast that we have, obviously we're live on YouTube. Right. And they're not even live on YouTube. Like they have nothing of this nature.
But the thing is, is that we are live on YouTube. So here's the the thing i've always said that my priority is always our kids right if somehow they were to find out about hey this is what we do and those type of things then that's different and i need to have a conversation with my kids that's really all i care about when it comes to like being out it right Right. Is it somebody telling my kid? So that part I can understand. Yeah. It's like I want to present that to my kid. Correct.
I need to have that initial discussion with my kid or my kid walks in the house and, you know, all of a sudden discovers the suite. Right. Yes. Sees the microphones and the naked pictures and is like, OK, what is this?
Then then i have some explaining to do but i don't need that conversation to be uh generated from outside influences you see what i'm saying i need to have control of that as much as possible right because it's possible they may come across our podcast and they may come across this youtube and that's okay i'm prepared to have that discussion because i'm i'm doing it myself i'm doing this by by myself I'm making the choice to present because if i take this fucking mask off you you know who i am right if you know me you know hey that mask isn't really doing shit for you correct but that's a choice that i'm making i don't want anybody else to take that choice from me and try to tell my kid and i feel like if you're talking about my adult adult sex life to even your child and telling your kid.
That's just inappropriate. It's not appropriate. And your kid ends up telling my kid. It's not that like that to me is a violation. And everything else I don't care about. You could talk about a neighborhood. Y'all can do whatever you need to do.
But I agree that that information should never make it back to anyone's kid so there were a lot of a lot of different violations or a lot of different things that happened in this circumstance like the creepy you know i want to fuck you know so and so up the whatever it was that that resonated really poorly with me it was so creepy and stalker like if this person has these kind of um ideas about uh bell you know it that bothers me a lot like i don't want anybody to come across any of this stuff our podcast our mass the whole thing and make an assumption about my wife or me that you know just because we talk about this stuff that hey we're down with Thank you.
the whole thing and make an assumption about my wife or me that you know just because we talk about this stuff that hey we're down with anyone or you can talk to my wife that kind of way yeah she can sit here and skimpy shit all she want but you're not gonna violate her that's not that's not what's gonna happen so it just was it it i don't agree with anyone that says i'm gonna out you you know like what are you gaining from that nothing like what exactly are you trying to do other than you're trying to embarrass someone or make them feel embarrassed right okay so you've kind of answered this already right so why do people feel compelled to hide why do we feel compelled to put these little sheer things over our eyes i've always told you and it's about the kids right but i'm talking about in the big picture like why do swingers or people feel compelled to hide um and it's because this is the conversation that you and i had this and it bothered me it kind of like it was a revelation like i feel like i have to hide because of your relationship with your god right because ultimately that's the bottom line of it I'll see you next time.
of revelation, like I feel like I have to hide because of your relationship with your God, right? Because ultimately that's the bottom line of it all is quote unquote morality is how you're supposed to be living.
My relationship, speaking for the greater my of everyone who is like a swinger, whatever my relationship with whatever is intact you are not responsible for my relationship with my uh my higher being or whatever or how my morality is set up right but we all have to because because this morality is so interwoven into the fabric of the way that our culture is set up the people who disagree with that have to will be shamed we feel like they write this stuff in contracts morality clauses you know if you cheat on your wife and if somebody saw us on the outside they would think that you know if i was on the date they would think i'm cheating or whatever like if i'm like uh i don't know uh who really gets punished for a shit like that i don't know these big higher up bosses right you know what i mean i don't know um government officials they get caught cheating they have to resign they had a hot they got to go into hiding right because of someone else's beliefs belief right and then i'm gonna go to what you say man that you know yeah that's your belief how you interpret that belief to be right and that has no merit on what i do and my interpretation of whatever it is that i want to do it really doesn't because i mean we we know so many people in this right so i mean so many people so many different professions but and i think like why do we all have to hide you got doctors you got lawyers you got teachers you got police officers you firefighters, you got all sorts of professionals who feel like they have to hide.
And I'm getting up on my soapbox. But as soon as this mic goes off, I'm going to go back to my government. Right. I'm not going to go out in the streets. I'm a swinger, but I'm not going to go broadcasting my sex life to anybody anyway. Anyway, that's what exactly what I was about to say.
It's no different because it's not like you're walking around talking about even if we were monogamous let's just go that route we would never go and just walk around and talk about man hey i had sex with lock last night it was great hey but how about that threesome he stuck it in my ass like you know you would not talk about that's not like a normal general conversation you have with people so why so why is it different and why do you care that we're doing this other thing that has nothing on you because i'm not coming after you you've never noticed anything different and and she even mentioned it bell mentioned it right she's never she doesn't even come like she's not attracted to your husband or any of that why would you even now think anything differently that she will be all of a sudden because you know the secret she's going to throw the panties at your husband when whatever time period she's known your husband that has never been the case right just because you know it's like that's what people do right you can know somebody for 20 years right Bye-bye.
that has never been the case right just because you know it's like that's what people do right you can know somebody for 20 years right and you've never nothing has ever happened in any type of regard sexually or sexual past or any of that but as soon as they think or know that you are a swinger somehow all of a sudden oh shit it's it you're gonna try to come on to me oh you're about this thing you're gonna corrupt my children yeah or you know you can't babysit suzy anymore like but all this time i've been babysitting suzy and you didn't know it's the same way that former um porn actor actors or actresses get fired when they're teachers you know when they when someone finds out that they're a teacher now they lose their job it's this it's it's crazy it's unfair yeah and it's it's very unfortunate that this happened and and nobody wants it to happen remember the mom on only fans who uh her kids went to like a private school you can't kick them out for that they don't got nothing to do with them she had an only fans page and the kids school found out and they uh expelled the kids yeah that's definitely not legal i would sue everybody um you know let's talk about that but let's catch up i'm sorry i keep interrupting you go ahead all i'm just saying is is that it sucks that it happens in your home base so i can understand your home is still supposed to be a space where you can come and be cool and safe.
Be yourself. Right? And chill. You shouldn't have to now be in your home and feel like a prisoner, like in your home where you can't do certain things or you have to go out of your own home, out to another town or whatever the case to do whatever it is you want to do. And that was my next part. And a lot of people, a lot of people chimed in to support them over the weekend from what I saw.
And people mentioned having pride, you know, feeling pride or proud of yourself and proud of your situation in your marriage, that your marriage is so different and it's so sex positive and you guys support each other. And I want to say to them, too, you know, definitely feel strong. Hold your head high. You're going to get through this. We wish you the best.
And I know I'm sure it's kind of difficult to feel proud, but you should know that, you you know like the people in this community really do support you you know it does suck um but i believe you're going to get through it you know and i know it's hard to get i don't know i feel like i'm repeating myself a lot um i you know if i would i don't know i've also played this hypothetical like if it was a neighborhood chat or whatever and they you know and they was talking about me and we they found out I mean just like yeah thank you please keep listening to my podcast exactly have a great day yeah they said that their podcast listenership went up you know and thank you and shut it down because then what do you have to talk about we've already you've already did that so now that we've ripped the band-aid off let's keep it pushing we're gonna catch up with some of the sweet talkers they chimed in real good here uh go ahead trish my contact say i always say that people need to mind a damn business that's how you get slapped oh yeah we read that one go ahead so sad because there's they're doing nothing wrong right they are married to each other not to the neighborhood yeah um yeah let's see someone else says exactly mind the business that pays you right i'm just not oh the screen jumped okay got it um i'm just not cool with my neighbors for them to to even mention us in a conversation they need to m y f b yeah they fucking business uh they obviously don't get wait they obviously don't get any what to be acting oh they don't get any yeah they don't get any to be acting like that right i think part of that is true right some of this is it's just i think it was exciting for them to find they're like yes exciting so let me be okay i'll this too when we were talking about it over the weekend.
If you found out some of the neighbors had a sexy podcast, are you listening? I told you depending on who it is because if it's our neighbor next door, he, oh, no, I'm not trying to hear that. I'm going to tell you straight up. I don't care. I'm listening to anybody. I don't want to hear none of that. But the difference, yeah, no.
It's like listening to my dad or mom trying to hit you had to go and make it gross i would listen i would listen to all of it if i heard any any neighbor i'm gonna check it out but the difference is i'm not gonna go making assumptions i'm not gonna go knocking on your door hey sexy neighbors that do sexy things in this house is this where you you know had that 10 person orgy right here oh god this is great right or look at you different or something like oh so and so is walking all of a sudden we're besties yeah no man no but i would listen i would i'd be curious i might not continue or subscribe but i'll listen and then keep it pushing and i'll never bring it up right right uh oh let's see uh nk says what a miserable and immature person to weaponize information out of spite right why was this person so hateful exactly and i agree with that part because the thing is is that we all know like in the podcast community or even in lifestyle some people do the same thing but in most of the podcast community we all use a different personality or your alias and whatever that is and that's who your personality is right you know we actually have other names but for someone to post that on a platform where we never mention your actual name, that's a problem.
Yeah, it's nasty. It's just a terrible way to go. Somebody says, my neighbors barely know my real name. Sounds like you probably should keep it that way. Exactly, right. Because then they're not going to know you got a podcast because they don't even know you.
Someone's sweet talker number one says, my neighbors know i know pole dance i give them my cash app that's what i'm saying too like if they found out we had a podcast right and because our kid one of our kids is like old off to college and we got a baby if our neighbors found out there's no real harm that could come to our kids per se right one's a baby and one is an adult who practically knows already i mean when you see your mom running upstairs in laundry right like you gotta start questioning what the f is going on around this house you know right you start you may start putting some pieces together i'm just saying right i mean you know we got the logo not normal.
Yeah what i'm saying is is that we don't really have to suffer that kind of of uh embarrassment so it's more like hey good did you like episode 22 you know what i'm saying like i really wouldn't care that was the next question like what would really happen it's hard to put yourself in those shoes of really being out in and embarrassed in the neighborhood i would be shocked i would be a little shocked it would make me a little nervous when i go outside for some reason i would but i would feel like i would quickly get over that and just be like fine you know that i have sex with folks and you know my wife has sexual folks just don't make no mistakes and come over here and make any assumptions that's the only thing i'd be concerned about exactly i mean you may hear strange noises outside right now when we have people over outside you can't see but you can hear oh i think he's seeing so you may you don't have an assumption but as long as you don't say anything right you are right yeah someone else says that's the misperception that people have for swingers that we have oh contact moving oh there i got it uh that people have misperception that people have for swingers that we have a have a type and your man probably is not hot anyway anyway exactly like all of a sudden i'm gonna like your husband that don't i ain't like them in 10 years someone at the bottom here says uh if y'all was the neighbors and i found out i'm listening period oh thank you i appreciate it exactly but i also have for me right and i don't know if everyone has this it's different as far as in the podcast community everybody has their own different rules but for me personally beyond the podcast just in lifestyle i don't what's the term babe i told you i don't shit where shit where you sleep yes right so i would never come on to anyone in my neighborhood in the first place because i would he would because he's you know lock is just what it is but i wouldn't because i just feel like that this is my area i don't need no drama that close to my house so i i don't do that yeah yeah i got i got you wouldn't even have sex with people in your college town you don't even live in your college i don't i don't even near it but not in my college town because i knows way you do not know i do babe you don't know everybody i didn't say i know everybody i said i know a lot of people they don't know you you right they don't just because i just found out about this event last weekend that i was invited to and so happened i knew like three other people that were hosting it right why because we went to of college together.
What are you talking a regular event it's my point is that i know people in that town all right all right whatever they're not swingers they don't know okay you assume right just like we not swingers can y'all tell this is a touchy topic for her what i'm just saying because he doesn't know anyways i don't do that in work work also for me is off limits not for him because he weighed i had him wait not real side note to that i had him wait until he was not working with one of his co-workers because he wanted to like make a pass at her and i was like no you work with her and he's like well what does that mean if she's down no she flirted with me i know and i said no and you waited yeah just saying so those are my nose the whole town yeah don't make no sense it's a giant metropolitan area anyway whoo so yeah so that was a long how you feeling how we feel how we we are feeling but i wanted to get you know some feedback on that and i do wish them the best and i hope everything works out for sure for sure yeah um a little bit of success there we was able to get that uh that tweet pulled down um everybody kind of chimed in and everybody helped out um reported it and they were able to pull it so hopefully the account got pulled as well but we'll see we'll see but yeah definitely good luck to them wishing them the absolute best oh okay phew we got that off our chest folks thanks for helping us out hold on really quick i noticed that we work at the same company but not in the same building that's right nothing wrong with that exactly lock no bingo all right that could be fun anyway yeah he's always down for an adventure um you know it now my beautiful queen my wonderful sweet talkers are you ready to get into tonight's episode let's do it let's go all right folks thanks for hanging in there for episode 54 of living the sweet life I don't know.
must have just like been born doing push-ups or some shit i don't know or running like he's extremely fit like not an ounce of fat on this guy like i'm i'm highly envious so you know i put myself on this strict ass diet so i can keep up and the missus just it's just fire come on just thank you babe i try i do put effort okay yeah you do i was actually referring it's a little awkward i was referring to mrs beach We'll be right back.
it's just fire come on just thank you babe i try i do put effort okay yeah you do i was actually referring it's a little awkward i was referring to mrs beach bag oh she's hot too sorry i was just making sure that i wasn't just sitting here being like you taking all the compliments and not even saying thank you i wasn't complimenting me no me oh no so that i didn't want to be rude i was complimenting them i i get it now okay yeah right i just didn't want to be rude and you sit there i'm like could you not gonna say thank you they're not getting in trouble for that so well yes dear you are absolutely hot and so is mrs beach bear couple and hopefully we'll be seeing them again soon now for the topic at hand tonight we're talking red flags so the way it went down was uh on twitter one day mr and mrs beach bear couple they posted a tweet they read something like uh they came across a a profile that said that looking to spice things up quote um in quotes Right.
And that was a red flag for them so i sent them a uh dm to find out what they meant by that like and they sent us a response and they gave us a little bit of insight and we wanted to share this with you because i thought it was very interesting and i agree with it as well um so let's let's talk about it looking to spice things up That's the number one red flag. Number one issue with it is that it's just cliche. What do you think, Tris? It's just, it sounds like, and this is a question to all the sweet talkers listening. Is this a newbie statement?
Is this just something that people kind of just toss out there because they feel like, I don't have anything else to say? It seems like it's an easy answer to the test, right? You're trying to I want to spice things up. Does it kind of lack creativity when it comes to your profile? What do you think, Tris? I was going to say I remember seeing this a lot when we first started doing when we first got into the lifestyle.
And when we first started, like, you know websites and things like that and to be honest I thought about it today if I had to create like a profile a dating profile I probably would say the same thing because I'm lazy I'm really lazy when it comes to like the online stuff right like posting pictures is one thing but to write a profile and do that it's just like i literally would probably put the same thing and say looking to spice things up you trying to go on a date see that's because i don't know you are lazy you are because what do i always tell you you don't have to work for it all right you don't and i know you was going to uh-huh right because the rest of the one the rest of the world has to actually put in effort because we ain't as hot as you so i gotta think of things to say i gotta think of clever things to say it has nothing to do with it and you say in your profile it'll say looking to spice things up and everybody be like well i got the spices for you you know that shit easy, easy peasy.
No, because now you're trying to make it sound like that. You know, I'm just like going strictly off of my the strength of I look like this so I don't have to try. It's hard online. And that's not my thought process.
It's just that I don't know what to say, like online about a where does your laziness come from so i'm lazy because where does it come from because you're trying to say it's coming from you don't have to put any effort oh that's not true babe that's not true okay y'all that was like 10 seconds like a half a second really away from calling me my government name so i'm gonna move on before she gets fine tonight a couple times in and says that it's all lighting and angles brother yeah right my ass you be working out you look great uh and someone else says yes cliche and not creative sounds like newbie territory yep yes and also says that i like profiles that are creative because you put in effort.
Yep. Yes. And also says that I like profiles that are creative because you put an effort. Exactly. So I think that was the point of that one is that it just takes a little bit more effort to say kind of what you're feeling. And they've even also offered a solution, something to the effect of we're looking to add to an already amazing relationship. So let's take a step back. Looking to spice things up, even if they meant that. Let's say they meant every word of that. We want to spice things up in our marriage. What does that say about what they're looking for? What does that say?
That don't say anything. That says kind of like. Insign it's not it's not enough information and i agree with that part like i mean that's not nobody said that i'm like agreeing with myself about my own opinion um but nothing new there um what i'm saying is is that it's not enough information um what, what I'm saying, I'm agreeing with that. It just lacks creativity. And what I would do, honestly, even if I said looking to spice things up, what I would do is cheat. I'll start looking at other people's profiles. Oh, don't give it a, oh, what are you doing here? I'm sorry. That's how I was.
You're telling us how you would cheat. You copy and paste other people. No.
I'm not talking about like like verbatim i will start looking at other people's profiles to try to see what are what get filters out to try to see what people are saying because i know that i if you ask me to just do it completely on my own a profile it would just probably look you know looking to spice things up you know and that would it would be very very generic is what i mean i would just look for references and others to kind of get some ideas but that's the thing i get that okay i do get that you know see if there's some things that maybe you can you agree with and just some cool creative language yes fine you know but it's supposed to be authentic it's supposed to be who you are but if i'm new not necessarily everything about you yeah if you're new right no okay fair if you're new yeah you will just kind of jump around to see how people are writing stuff like do people break it up by like you know they describe him first then they describe her and then they describe them together little thing little creative ways creative ways of describing yourself as a couple.
Sure. I get that. But, you know, I'm just talking about the macro level. Like, what is this saying when people say, you know, I'm just we're looking to spice things up. Does that say that the marriage is lacking something? Do you read that? No.
You don't don't read that no like the marriage is lacking because that would be very that would be very very surface for me to think that part right because i like i said i just think that sometimes maybe people don't know what to exactly say and they may have ran across a few profiles that say looking to spice things up so i'm gonna add that in i'm just gonna say this on my profile because that's what you would do no shade yes no shade okay okay i didn't take it as shade at all i've admitted to my cheating I don't know. I don't in. I'm just going to say this on my profile, too.
Because that's what you would do. No shade. Yes. No shade. Okay. Okay, gotcha. I didn't take it as shade at all. Okay. I've admitted to my cheating. Yes. To your laziness, yes. Yeah. Make sure I remind you. So, go ahead. Catch up on something else. Okay. Let's see.
In case is right see in cases right right had to go look up beach bed couple but we already follow each other nice couple cool awesome okay some you read that because you trish got that pretty privilege yes you do that's okay be proud of it go ahead and they said this one i see that's just a blanket statement it could be anything right the person would have to be more forthcoming in their descriptions right definitely agree so uh let's vote red flag or need more information need more information okay yeah yeah and it depends on how honestly it depends on how attractive you are for me to even try to get more information from that and i think that's a good point too like yeah if they're attractive you kind of give a little leeway yeah i'll give a pass let's see what y'all talking about let me see what's going on message a little message inbox right right but if it just says that and i'm not really that attracted i just leave it at that be like up nope not for me so i want to ask sweet talkers with that phrase and it's a common one it's a common that we're looking for the spice things up have you had a bad experience with a couple that has said that let us know all right number two so um they offer they also offered another one that in someone's profile they have more than one mention that i or we are straight like in big bold giant all cap letters is that signifying something to you like more than one mention like multiple mentions i'm straight but by the way yeah i'm straight yeah we're looking for a couple i'm straight by the way i'm straight did i mention i was straight did you mention did you mention that i'm straight i'm straight as shit straight as a narrow straight so is that like a red flag what kind what does what kind of message does that send babe it sends that maybe it can send the message that maybe you've had a bad experience hmm right oh i didn't think of it that way that you maybe have had a bad experience and you feel like you have to overly explain that you're straight oh for some reason that's just me damn okay okay that maybe somebody did some touching that they were not consented to do maybe so now this person is kind of overreacting by saying you know or trying to overcompensate you're over you know try to prevent that from happening again that is interesting hey that's a good point never thought about it never thought about it that way I took it to another level that this person has some kind of insecurities about themselves that maybe they're they've heard things or they know that the swinger community can be very open to bisexuality or homosexuality and or that actually it's it's shifting some.
It hasn been the most comfortable place for you know bisexual men to come out of the closet um but so this person is trying to prevent that you know they're trying really hard uh to say hey no not me not me don't come knocking at my door i forgot to tell you this earlier i wonder if you remember this we we actually know somebody well not know them but we knew of somebody it was a female actually that used to post that all the time like on her profiles or or facebook or wherever it was and i like early on right she will always mention in or post that well i'm straight right and i was like why do you have to keep saying that and like everything and and when you go somewhere even if you met her in person i'm straight right okay like you know i don't understand why you have to keep saying because most women in the lifestyle are bisexual that's not okay but if you set your boundaries and this is whatever it is in the situation i feel like it's the only time you really need to talk about that um that but not just like in general walking around i'm straight right and she used to do it all the time she did she did and i remember because she was a part of a lot of lifestyle groups and this was back when facebook used used to get jiggy.
Yes. Like Facebook used to be wild. There was videos all the time. Videos and pictures. It was the wild, wild west at that point. And I think she felt compelled to let everybody know that because the lifestyle is so, not all women, but, but it's like it's very prevalent or it's expected, quote unquote, expected. Right. And it's not my words. This is just how it seems. It seems to be expected that the women are bisexual. She was saying, no, don't put me in that box. I am not that.
And she felt like she had to defend herself because it was all this, you you know all these videos and all these pictures of all sorts of play and all these things happening she's just in in these groups and she would say nope that's not me i do remember that but nobody was asking her that yeah but she was just all the time she didn't want to be associated with that assumption and again that's an assumption that's not my assumption that's it seems to be a broad assumption that all women have to be bisexual and that's not true but the thing is is that you only have to talk about that if you're in or if you're in a play situation or about to go into a play situation and that never was the case she just felt like the need to announce that all the time right as if somebody's just coming in pouncing on her and then you have to say no i'm straight like that's kind of like that was the only time i've ever really seen that and that's kind of exactly what this uh this profile what description would would mean to me right if i saw someone say that yeah i'm straight you know like okay cool like we saw it in the uh the bio you don't have to necessarily keep reiterating it for some strange reason yeah we get it uh once we talk it says that uh it says that you could be homophobic or judgmental yep i agree with that i agree with that yeah or very judgmental right yeah and And if I'm not mistaken in their tweet to us in the DM.
Yeah. Beach Bay a couple mentioned, you know, we don't want any issues with that. Like we don't want to be a part of anybody who got those kind of issues. Close that off like this. That's those are your issues to figure out on your own. Moving on. Many other profiles to check out.
need that i'm sure yeah all right number three um so wait let's go back is that red flag or need more information i think it's a red flag i think it could be a problem yeah i think that could be i think it could be a little problem because anything that kind of may seem off not when i mean like off not off to them that it could be like no i told you i'm straight and it comes into a whole back and forth about something totally different like we we heard you right yeah you know yeah uh okay i agree reflect number three profile reads looking for the right couple right looking for the right couple perfect couple we're looking for the right couple, right?
Looking for the right couple, perfect couple. We're looking for a great couple. But then you do a little bit more digging or you start having conversations back and forth with them or whatever. And they only talk about single ladies or they only talk about getting with your wife. They only talk about what about her, right? Is knowing what she into seems's she into? Hmm. Seems a little fishy. What do you think? Dan, I just think that you should update your profile to say you're looking for a single lady. Bingo. I've seen those, too. Yeah.
I remember seeing the profiles that say, you know, we're a couple looking for single ladies. Or single men. Or single men. Yeah. I've seen that, too. And that's fine.
I feel like that that's putting the information out there so that couples won't waste their time talking to you right because obviously that's not the case or it could be a couple that maybe is doing like hot wifing and um they're okay with the the wife going you know and doing her thing with you guys so if they're out but you can say that too though on a profile that i'm looking for you know someone that's into hot wiping or you know things like that so kind of put it out there so people aren't like wasting their time exactly it's bottom line is it's misleading man and nobody has time for that nobody has we're we're already doing something sneaky and secret and we got to take time out of our day and our week to you know have these conversations and to go to dinner we got to make dinner plans and then we go hanging out and now you're not really interested in trying to make this connection with all four let's just cut to the chase like just be honest just say what you're looking for so you can move on or we can move on and uh everybody's better business yeah that's right and if you're looking for very specific things man listen there are apps for that there are apps and websites where you can specifically say i'm looking for single women or i'm looking for couples there's plenty of them yep i'm still looking for candidates to step on you just say there you go i need a profile i don't want to hear that shit i need a profile maker look at the spice things up i'm looking to spice things up by stepping on you are you interested because i got you uh-huh you keep on i'm telling you you're gonna keep you want me to flog you i got you you already have three volunteers i want to spice it up with you you could literally create like a human bridge and just walk across three dudes right now that would be interesting sorry i actually paused i was like yeah you need more okay guys let's see if we can get it to 10 stop it all right someone says sounds like you could be posing as a couple oh but you're a single male didn't think about that one either oh whoa yes indeed they are uh someone says are women included in the sexy Tris bridge?
Oh, yes. I'm not. I don't discriminate. Yes. The only, you know, side note. I don't discriminate. The only thing is I can do co-ed with him like he not going to step on you. But right. I'll hold your hand. Yes. While you're doing it. Correct. But he does not participate in. And I'm going to take a video.
I'm going to do video and picture all that yeah the new crate challenge someone says right except for nobody falls you know nice and breaks off it's crazy um okay so all right so yeah so it's misleading yeah they're actually looking for unicorns yeah we got all that that's crazy yep red flag need more information or is it not a red flag i think that is a red flag actually i feel like you're misleading yeah and if that's the case then i don't want no parts of it just say what you're looking for yeah we're all here for the for very similar things at the bottom at the end of the day it's all let's just cut to the chase you know not necessarily be disrespectful but let's just say what you're looking for so we can all just get to it yeah i think that definitely is a red flag all right they have one more which was no profile picture oh no we're not doing that that's a red flag skip go to the next one next oh in in a side note to that oh go ahead no finish your thought that was a good this side note to that i actually had us that one that goes into that was that they have all the pictures are of the wife yes yes like no pictures or all the pictures are of the wife and you see like no picture of the guy or you see a picture of him and it could be like i don't know his arm or or something like that right like i want no parts of any of that it has to be okay listen i know she's hot she's she's significantly hotter than me can i say thank you now you can are you complimenting me i just want to make sure because earlier i thought you was talking to me He he know why you keep saying that because you get just as you get just as much play and compliments you're trying to act like you some like hobo over here.
Just let me get to my point. Okay. Which was, so you're going to have, in some cases, you're going to have more pictures posted than me. Well, yes, I agree with that. Thank you. That's all I'm trying to say. I overall take more pictures than you. You do. So that's what I'm saying. So overall, in general, you're going to have more pictures posted on our Twitter and IG and all that stuff. Yeah. And you're going to have more pictures posted on our mutual dating site. However, you will see pictures of me. Yes. I will be there. I will be in pictures with her. Yes. You see what I'm saying?
That's the point. That's all I'm saying is that I'm there. I might not be there as much as her. And I get that, right? Because she's hotter. She's hot, period. So I get it. And I like taking pictures of you, you know? And sometimes I don't like you taking pictures of me. It depends. You don't like taking pictures that often. Sometimes. I don't know what to do with my hands. He always said, I don't know where I put my hands.
Fuck they that stuff but what i'm saying is you're right but i'm not saying as many pictures of the mail i'm saying that i remember and still to this day coming across profiles that there's no pictures of the dude at all on the website that leads me to believe there's something wrong that's that whole thing of she's hot and he's not there. And I don't want to do that. If I can't find a picture of him to see how you guys look together, I'm skipping it. I'm going past it. Yeah. Again, too many profiles out here. No time. I don't have time to figure that out. Yeah. Okay. So let's get.
Someone says. Oh, God, I hate those. What? How? Oh, yeah. The profiles. Yeah. Oh, God, I hate those. How don't they have a picture when people send a message? I ask, where are your pictures, bro? I know. Right. That's even before I say, hey, there you go. That's right. You got to. You got to. Yes.
And Beach Bay a a couple times it says uh everyone has beauty guys too so show it i want to see it there you go that's right i don't want to see 1500 million pictures especially when you're on a lifestyle type of app that you're looking for people right i don't want to see all the pictures of just her if i if you're looking you you got a profile to say that we are looking for this, that, and the third. I need to see we. Oh, here's one. While we were talking about pictures, what about like naked or sex pics like predominantly shown? Like majority of your pictures are that.
I don't want that either. Those are a red flag to you? What does that say to you?
That's saying that you thirsty that i don't want that either those are a red flag to you what does that say to you i'm just saying that you thirsty i don't need to see 1500 million pictures of you or your sexual escapades on the not on the platform where you're trying to meet other couples okay i don't need to see all of that like all the pictures or nude pictures both i need a mix i need a mix thank you yes i was gonna say well i'm not saying at all i'm saying i need a mix right of the pictures like doing normal stuff yeah you know just sitting at the beach or whatever it is like fully clothed or right it can still obviously not you don't have to have your face and all yes yeah some uh anonymity is expected correct um but yeah we're going out to dinner and you got on a sexy outfit or whatever yes so i i am here for nudes i like naked pictures i am not saying i don't know i know you're so excited yeah um i'm here for nudes i get it i feel it and and tastefully done i don't need anybody like spread eagle or anything like that i don't know i'm just saying you know a mix like a good mix of pictures is always the most appealing kind of profile to me yeah just give me a little bit here and there so i can kind of see who you are and then that's it I don't need to see the whole shebang I was about to say dick pics you know I don't like no dick pics I don't need to see nobody's dick coming across I just don't right I keep on licking my lips guys like I'm LL Couger because I forgot my chapstick I my lip gloss upstairs you poor thing oh yeah you got your lips hidden anyway damn that doesn't do anything when we're talking the whole time well it sounds good to me do it again i'm trying to lick your lips and talk at the same time can you please get this last okay i'm sorry all right uh let's see red flag or more info what do you think move this thing over what do you think of couples that only want to play with their own people oh what do you mean for instance go ahead oh for instance i've seen a black couple profile oh put only black couples that's a tough one that's a couples.
That's a tough one. That's a tough one. I feel like it doesn't need to be said. Nope. The fact that you type it in there is a little bit of a red flag. It's very standoffish. It's cliquish. And I think, quite frankly, it's a little immature. I think if you're looking for what you're looking for, reach out to them. Talk to them. If they if they come to you, then you approach, then you talk to them. You have that conversation with them. But you don't have to post something that excludes other people, openly excludes other people.
And I've heard Bomber and Bell talk about this, too, on their Black and Kinky podcast, when they have when they see profiles that say, you know, no, no black people or only white people or whatever it is. It's very, you know, it's inclusive. Like it's not inclusive. I'm sorry, I'm getting tongue tied here. But right. It's like, you know, you're you're keep you're openly saying I don't want you.
And that's not inclusive i'm sorry i'm getting tongue-tied here but right it's like you know you're you're keep you're openly saying i don't want you and that's not the environment that this is this isn't the kind of community for that you know it's like you like what you like you're looking for what you're looking for but you don't have to openly say it in order to make people feel like they can't approach you you're making yourself unapproachable you know if you if if i reached out to a white couple um and they're only interested in white people they don't want to you know play exactly exactly just don't respond back just don't respond back and that's fine it's not a requirement it's not it's not a requirement to play with me you know it's not a requirement to even speak like to respond to me right if you're not i'll get the message when you're not responding to me bingo and moving on and keep it pushing that's it so yeah i i that's definitely a red flag yep on so many levels but someone says yeah that's a red flag for me it's a turnoff i skip past those absolutely nk says what if you say looking for black couples instead of only black couples i think it's the same thing same thing i think it's the same thing i think if you're looking for black okay i think what you're looking for will find you and you'll have the opportunity to talk to them and and you know i'm just I'm all about like inclusivity like instead of saying the negative thing to turn people away yeah I'll just I'll filter them on my own I can filter them on my own if whatever I'm looking for hits me up or if I'm I'm in the driver's seat and I'm clicking profiles I'm going to click on what I'm looking for you see what I'm saying and that's it that's all that needs to be done in this world you don't have to be you know stay the fuck away from me unless you gotta you know what is i don't know i don't have to but yeah people that i mean yeah it's unnecessary uh says that i may be going into something else that's deeper but is that racist i don't know that's fine no we can go as deep as you want um i don't i think it's some some people might have racist uh meanings behind it some people their intentions might be racist but some people their intentions might not be they might just be comfortable in certain circles correct um it's about what the intention is and in order to clear it all up to have no questions asked just don't have it there yeah in my opinion you just don't need to have that there just filter the way you filter and that's it you know and that's it if you're if you're a racist who doesn't like me you don't have to openly tell me like i'll get the picture yeah right i'll get it like i don't need that shit man yeah i got enough stress in my life why i need to be going on a sex website and see don't click here with your black ass or you know or just say like i'm not i'm not attracted to white men or something like that okay cool great I mean, just don't feel the need that needs to be said yeah online or even to a person's face if they're you know trying to play you compliments or whatever the case i feel like there's a way to get out of that you know just like if you're not attracted even if it was like let's say you say i'm only attracted to black couples or whatever that is if you find a way even if you met a black couple and you're not attracted to them per se you see what i'm saying right you find a way out of that right right just because you're black don't mean that i'm attracted that we're going to match right if you have that on your profiles what i'm saying so it doesn't be because oh this is black couple and i'm going to be attracted to them so you find a way out of that you can find your way out of other situations is what i'm getting at yeah so yeah you said that we passed by their profile yep yeah i get it so great question thank you thank you for that really appreciate all the uh the questions and the responses there go ahead tris i'm sorry i do have a kind of it came up yesterday i was at a um kind of like with some lifestyle friends yesterday um and it came up and i forgot about this one and it's perfect for the show today would be if you come and it could be a profile or in person actually yeah um would it be a red flag and this is a question to the sweet talkers and i'll get into what i'm going to say about it if a couple was in a lifestyle but weren't married but they were in the lifestyle they're just an unmarried couple in a lifestyle but you are married right let's say you you go out you're at a meet and greet you had a wonderful little meet and greet or you're at the club and you're hanging out you're chilling you're buying drinks and hey you're rapping with this couple and you notice that they're not wearing wedding rings even though they're really nice really attractive not wearing red wedding rings and you ask hey um you know how long you guys been together whatever it is you know 10 years but not married is that a red flag even if they said two years right right facts yes whatever but they're not married they're not married is that a red or even if they said two years right right facts yes whatever but they're not married they're not married is that a red flag so the reason why i'm saying that because early on in our lifestyle it it came up yesterday but it made me think about it early on in our lifestyle career career this ain't a job it's not a career but i was just saying that to be funny um that used to come up for us actually like uh couples will ask oh you guys aren't married and we felt the need to have to explain ourselves like no we're not married because it was the impression that we're not married so we're not serious or we don't have anything to lose like being in a in a lifestyle We're just here just to, you know, have sex with a whole bunch of people and not, you know, go about the protocol or our relationship isn't intact because we weren't married.
We went through that early on. So we felt like we had to overly explain. We've known each other since high school and this and that. And then sometimes for me, I will see the light bulb light bulb kind of go off. People is like, oh, OK, they're cool. So we can keep talking to them. Right.
Because if I felt like we didn't explain that, that it would be an issue because some of these couples are married and they just felt like, you know, we were treating this as a good time so how did it come up i know that you were having a conversation with some ladies but the way that they presented that discussion did they say red flag yes that they would not uh play with a couple who was not married and what were some of the reasons because they don't have anything to lose no skin in the game correct um What do you say, sweet talkers it is that right you know um so let me think i'm trying to get like an honest reaction here out of myself you know um i don't i don't think of it that way anymore right and maybe because we are married and i've seen so many different kind of relationships and so many different relationship dynamics that it excuse me that it really doesn't even matter if you're married or not yes um it used to like early on after you know when we were going through that uh you know overly explaining ourselves and uh and then we finally you know we got engaged and we felt i felt a little bit more um solidified exactly legitimized you know what i'm saying like hey we we're hey we're we're engaged you know we're not married yet but we're engaged it's coming right so you know i felt a little bit more legit in the eyes of other uh swingers experienced swingers or whatever but then as you kind of go along you realize that it really doesn't matter but we did have that i did have that kind of idea about others for a little bit though because it was something that happened to us exactly so we thought that that was the that's the way you're supposed to go right right um so yeah it was kind of what were we looking for with that by having that kind of idea about people like what were we looking for to say like your your relationship needs to be solid um what am i what am i risking by being with you two am i risking that you two are out there sleeping with other people separately?
Because I because I believe that, you know, an unmarried couple are cheaters. They're cheating on each other. That's the same bullshit people think about us. Correct.
And the thing is, is that over the years, it's funny because you have these married couples, not the same that are the people i'm talking about that this is what they said to us but you have married couples that mess up in the lifestyle and get divorced right so what do you say about that right like how are you better than the people who aren't married if you're in the lifestyle and you still cheat and do things right but then you're worried about the people who aren't married and say that they don't have no skin in the game and you know they're just here to sleep with this person and that person but you could be married and do trying to do the same things i don't understand it so what do you think of the quote-unquote couple the two friends who use each other to get inside this swinger club because it's cheaper let's just say it's cheaper okay you know it's cheaper for the guy to get in as a couple than it is for him to go in as a single male so he says hey home girl we're going to the same place you know you want you're a unicorn i'm a single male how about we just pay together to get in um what what is that what does that say to you so i think that's different though okay and if that's the case and they said that like hey we're you know two single people then i think you would treat that separately like we've done that before right huh we have yes remember the trapeze chick right yeah that's that's where i was going we that wasn't us though we were together they were not together that's what i'm saying i know but you said it wrong you said it like we did that no we didn't they did it i'm saying we treated them separate right okay we met some people who did that yes right they came together but she lived her life it was hanging out with us and And he doing his thing roaming around so no i don't see that necessarily as a red flag if they're being honest about it yes and they were being honest about it right okay so it says that my man and i have been together for five years and been in a lifestyle for four years we're not married and don't feel the need to explain anything either you want to play or not bingo yes exactly i love him and he loves me just the same as if we were married yeah bingo i don't feel like it's i understand what people are saying right because they want to see how serious you are in your own relationship but you need to do that with everyone is what I'm not just because they're married or not because they're married.
It should be with everyone. You try to understand, like, are these people straight and they're not crazy. That's it. Or jeopardize your relationship or put some type of drama. That's right. You need to be checking their character, not just their relationship status.
Thank relationship status thank you yes the character it goes much more than just if you're married or not correct right like our sweet talker says like they love each other they've been together all these years they got history they got you know and they do the lifestyle thing whatever right because they they're good folks right you know i'm saying so you shouldn't judge them by just if they got a ring on their finger or not maybe they don't ever want to get married right you know maybe they got businesses and things they don't want to uh what is oprah and uh fucking stedman you know what i'm saying hey but you think i'm gonna turn out oprah no i'm gonna hit that right i hit that right now and then sweet talker says that just sounds like they are business savvy yeah he's talking about when they get in the door right to get in the door right all right all right and he did uh see and sweet talker says not looking to get married yeah right and they're done that exactly right that's exactly what i was about to say next is that maybe they had like shitty divorces in the past life and they don't want to ever get married again but they got that agreement and we do like to have sex with other people yeah so i'm not gonna judge you for it no sweet talker says that we're not married and are comfortable in our relationship if you don't want to play with us we're okay with that boom yeah and sweet talker number one says what uh how is separate play with non-married couples different with married couples.
correct sex is sex it doesn't make it better because they're married um i'm not married i have a partner and we don't get that question oh we do we do get that questions about our status c so that still happens it does still happen huh hey all these years ago babe yeah damn that's That's interesting. Yeah. That's wild, man. But hey, ago, babe. Yeah. Yeah. That's that's interesting. Yeah. That's wild, man. But hey, look, listen, I ain't judging none of y'all. Come on. Come on through. He's like, I don't care what your relationship status is.
As long as you're good and you ain't got no drama going on. We good. And that's the that's the bottom line is no drama, no craziness. You know, that's all that really matters. Yeah. And just know being no one bit for me, no one being deceful yeah because that can happen regardless married or not like as long as you're being up front and this is what's what's going on and this is what i'm about and this is what we're trying to do with the woo then we good that's it all i don't need to know your social security number and all that that's right that's right so this was fun. This was great.
Sweet Talkers, thank y'all so much. Really appreciate everybody chiming in. I want to send another special thank you to BeachBedCouple on Twitter. Holla at them. Give them a follow.
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