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Living the Sweet Life is a podcast intended for mature audiences only. We'll be using sexually explicit language while discussing many different adult themes. So if you're under the age of 18, please stop listening. Also, please know that our thoughts and opinions should not be taken as professional advice. We're here to answer your questions about the swinger lifestyle. From newbies to longtime swingers, or if you're just curious, we hope to engage you all and to encourage a sex-positive discussion.
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Ladies and gentlemen, thank you so much for joining us here in episode 53 of living the sweet life she is my beautiful sexy co-host and wife the lovely trist and he's my sexy chocolate thunder husband lock and we are back listen i know it sounds like i say that all the time every episode but hey look we made it today we made it today we had a little bump in the road a couple days ago going live on a sunday but uh we're back here on a tuesday night special night um and we appreciate you you know we're here to talk some fun stuff we're wanna what's today's subject.
We're going to be talking about an FMF plus BDSM equals some good time. So, yeah, we're excited to talk about it. We excited to share about our experimentation and all the fun we've been having lately. But first, I know what it is. We got to knock out a little bit of housekeeping housekeeping so i want to say email us at the sweet life podcast at gmail.com uh follow us on instagram at the sweet life podcast and follow us on twitter at sweet life pod i want to say special thank you to all of our wonderful sweet talkers who might be listening right now on Full Swap Radio.
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Let us know how we're doing because we always want to improve for you absolutely yeah baby um i see we got some sweet talkers coming in here on a tuesday night we appreciate y'all hit us up in the chat let us know y'all there we always want to give y'all some some shout outs you know what i mean we we miss y'all man uh so beautiful before we get into all the shenanigans all the craziness all the wonderful sexy stories that we're gonna be telling tonight you know i always got to check in so baby how you feeling so okay guys so sunday sunday was rough so right before the show um i actually got heat exhaustion basically is what it was it literally See you next time.
okay guys so sunday sunday was rough so right before the show um i actually got heat exhaustion basically is what it was literally uh was outside almost for 24 hours if you want to include the whole time uh came home thought i was we was fine i wasn't in direct sun i thought i was fine i started to get these little cramps my wrists and then started to feel predator like like know, the sound that Predator makes, like in the movies, it's like a sound he makes, right? That's how it felt like my whole, like, GI tract was making that sound.
And then I felt like Predator got me in the woods, grabbed me, and I was looking at him, like, in the woods with my eyes open, but my guts was outside.
Okay, how i felt this is horrible this is how i felt right as your partner you did not describe this to me it literally felt like predator had me right so that literally happened like almost 30 minutes before the show started so i we we couldn't do show basically on sunday um i'm feeling much better now obviously so now we're doing it on tuesday fantastic listen i had no idea you were that miserable i literally was i was trying to like you know act like i'm a soldier but i was not feeling too hot literally almost 30 minutes before the show started. It all came crushed down on me.
But much better today. Otherwise, how am I feeling? So, guys, we've never been to Naughty in New Orleans. And it looks like we will never go. So the new dates were posted for next summer and we can't go. We've already started planning a trip. Actually, a big birthday trip for the both of us, but with a lot of lifestyle friends. So definitely expect some stories to come out of that. I'm looking forward to that. So we won't make it to Naughty because we're already planning a trip before these dates even came out.
So I'm kind of sad about I really really am I know and I heard that it was a good time like we've been seeing some good publicity about it we've been seeing uh hearing a lot of good stories and my uh my dear friend Duchess Cashmere Duchess if you are in the room please hit us in the chat let me know you're there um my chat is acting funny again I don't know what I'm what's happening yeah, somebody hit us up in the chat. Let us know. Because, yeah, I've been seeing Duchess's, her live, what is it, her live streams and all that stuff.
And some of her video clips and some of her pictures from down there. It looks like she had a blast. It looks like she tried out some new things and met some some cool friends and met some of her fans i'm so happy for that sister man she's she works hard she deserves all the good all the good things all the wonderful things absolutely absolutely so um also uh how i'm feeling so we went to we talked about it in our last um episode about the meet and greet we went to.
we went to a meet and greet I actually met a young lady a unicorn at the meet and greet so it's kind of a funny story guys I didn't really get to talk to her that much the only thing I kind of just you know I got introduced to her I was kind of like oh my god you know she has good energy wow uh this is a cool unicorn to meet and then when she was leaving it was kind of like okay you know nice to see you hopefully we'll get to talk again right she leaves um fine a couple of weeks later she facebooked uh requested me and i'm like okay by your government by my on my government page right and i'm like yeah cool it's all good you know all good and uh facebook we are facebook friends and i'm like oh you know cool and i'm telling lock like remember this unicorn we met this net and kicking it off of that so then she messages me on the side like immediately immediately not immediately but she messages me on the side yeah and i'm like okay yeah hey and i'm expecting to see like hey how you doing the next thing she actually say hey is this is this you and she pulls up ancestry guys ancestry and i'm like yeah that's that's my name right like it was my actual name with the correct spelling like everything so yes that's my page so so we go um and i'm in there and i'm sitting there like all right what's the problem and she's like it says we're related guys how ironic is that right i meet someone and a meet and greet for lifestyle turns out that's your cousin that's like my My your cousin my cousin by some way form but dna wise you're my cousin is what i'm saying so i go and i run and i tell lock and he's like no way so i'll go find my password to ancestry and we go in sure enough she shows up on there and that's my cousin so i'm joking with him and i'm like okay so do we need to start screening people now for like to make sure like login to do you i think that's inappropriate we can't be asking people for dna samples be like like are you my cousin but luckily there was no play session or nothing like that because it could have gotten a little bit weird you know like but there was nothing going on it was just like really just a meet and greet hey how you doing but could you imagine that and then later you become friends with somebody and it's like boom hey you guys kind of know each other better than you thought a little bit awkward but no um huh i don't know what to say other than you know she's like what five generations down so it don't really count like yeah that's how he had it spent in his head right some of our friends said that i'm not going to claim that they did he agreed though i do he was like you know what you have a good point and i'm like no no it's no point no honestly it just sounds like a you problem not a me problem and he said that too he said that's your cousin that's not my cousin bingo you see how he do me he just like throw me under the bus yeah no but uh i think that's really cool really small world so it was very small world sidebar people listen i can't see your chat on our computer screen but i got you on my tablet we can see you guys now he did something now on the main screen yeah i messed with some buttons but however uh sweet talking number one said hey sexy people hey beautiful life wouldn't be right if we wasn't in here i'm glad you can make it on this tuesday uh looks like we have a new uh sweet talker never saw that name before but she says he or she says uh hey sexy chocolate people hey yourself hey and there's my girl dutchess what up sis she says hey i'm having technical issues sorry um it's all good we're just glad you made it in there and she also says that she had a great time she said she loved it um at naughty in new orleans oh that's awesome that is awesome and looks like everybody's saying hi to dutchies and they're saying hi to sweet talking number one and there is nk swingers checking in they said what's up people full swap radio alt playground movement yes that's right cool shout out all your affiliates go ahead go ahead get that free promotion there at our expense we want that break breakdown on that though no it's all good um yeah duchess said she'll give us the exclusive interview oh okay let's talk about it yeah for real we got your email we're gonna do all that uh for sure that'd be kind of fun for real for real um and sweet talking number one says uh freak jeans all in your family apparently so right apparently so oh i love it that's fantastic so all right a lock how are you feeling oh my beautiful queen i am Number one, I'm relieved that you are feeling better.
Thank you. Yeah, it was definitely a man down situation on Sunday. You know, myself personally, I was out in that sun with you and I was feeling the effects of not only the sun, but a little bit of that wonderful ganja. Your situation was completely different.
It was working its way through my body my body uh but i was able to rally you know right before the end and we thought that i wasn't going to be able to make it through the show and i was fine all day yeah it was literally 15 minutes before and my boo went down was like you know what can't make it she really tried but uh i'm just glad you're okay thank you you know that's first and foremost secondly I'm a little bit perplexed today why you ask why I was waiting I was waiting sorry it's okay no um because on Saturday you know we had finally went out on a date with a couple that we have been very very close with for a long long time you we've heard multiple multiple stories of us talking about this particular couple beautiful couple they live a couple hours away really really nice um and we've had our little bit of ups and downs with them right uh we tristan and i had decided that after our last play session with them there this was like back what in March honey I don't even know yeah well I know it was March yeah it was a long time ago it was a long time ago and we decided you know all right hey let's go hang out let's let's throttle it down a bit and let's make this as vanilla as possible because we just don't want to complicate things they seem to get complicated with them every now and then so we were just like you know what time that we're chilling time we just take a step back chill hang out bring the kids let's do a cookout outside and call it a day right this time i ain't even pack no condoms in my pocket that's how serious i was that's how vanilla you was yep i was i was dedicated to the mission of straight chilling and uh turns they weren't or at least he wasn't right but I asked right I asked I remember like it was just one question said do you think that they're expecting us to spend a night and you were like no yeah because I didn't I did really didn't think so right because we were under the impression this was just like a little family barbecue we're gonna get the kids and bubble guns and water water gun fights and all that shit all that stuff and uh you know soccer perfectly fine which was cool right because we needed that anyway yes it's like a reset just a reset a hard reset and you know we didn't want to keep living under the expectation that every time we see you we're going to fuck you exactly even though i don't see you often it's often but still every time i see you doesn't mean that i'm trying to smash not every time not every time we just wanted to do some chill shit so we got over there and we're doing the chill shit and we was hanging out and um and then it came like an awkward point of the night where or evening it wasn't even that it wasn't late and wasn't dark really we was just kind of chilling me and the guy and the guy mentions you know hey i can't wait until later and we're and i said oh we're leaving dog like i didn't we don't have any bags we don't have anything and he was blown kind of devastated i feel like maybe we should have done a better job it seems like he was under the impression that we were automatically we should always assume that we can come out and spend the night.
And I was we believe that we don't want to ever make any assumptions. Somebody is going to be like, oh, yeah, you could spend a night or that's the assumption. I'm not going to do that. And I know we have our kid with us and they had their kid.
And we're not saying just because you have your kid have your kid you can't play but at this point we had never done that and we just didn't want to make that assumption and we just didn't want to do that right so again maybe our fault in this was we should have clarified 100 but i didn't feel like we needed to know because our play happens our kid situation is different you know our kid is not that type of sleeper and all of that that just does not work for us we don't play with our kid in the same house because it a it would never work she's not going to stay asleep people like we can barely have sex you know with each other and her stay sleep i would not be able to do a play session and be like she's gonna stay asleep yeah yeah i mean i'm never gonna say never i'm just saying like right now we're yeah that's what i'm talking about yeah i'm not saying ever right now yeah it just wasn't the the time or place or the fit anyway we just went in the mood so why i say i'm perplexed is that you know we had this really long standing friendship and then after that night we hadn't hadn't heard from him.
Nope. Crickets. Chirp, chirp. Crickets. So I'm wondering how this is going to go. Stay tuned. We'll let you know the end of the tale when it comes up, man. I'm good. I'm done with being called to the principal's office. Is he going to take me as I am or we won't have to refigure something else out? Yep. Yep.
But no, we're going to probably re-talk about this again because here's my plan guys my plan is to actually sit down and have that hard conversation that i actually talked to you guys about um in the last show about expectations i want to make sure you know my expectations up front now like let's talk about this out loud and and you know what i'm expecting from this day forward as far as i don't want to play all the time when i see you most of the time right now if we have our kid who's still a toddler until she gets probably a little bit older this is our situation um hey are you good with that and what is your expectations when we hang out with you we have to have that open conversation with them at this point we do but then we get into that thing of oh here we go again having a weird conversation no it's not gonna be weird because i'm having it so that we won't have this weirdness when you thinking that i'm gonna spend a night every time i come to see you and i'm like no we're not spending a night so we can clear this all up with a communication about what is the expectation and be be done with it so that's my plan no you're absolutely right and we have some sweet talkers uh agreeing uh duchess cashmere oh of the cashmere room podcast check her out uh says i'm with you hard pass and someone else says that's why you have the conversation before with the other couple of what you, yeah, what you're expecting.
And that just says, are they new in the LS? No, hold on one second. And I agree with that, right? But I think sometimes we get past that because you think that you've known these people or you've done things with like any of your LS friends for a certain amount of years, right?
Or goes by and you're like we shouldn't have to keep having this conversation you kind of know should know how we're rolling but apparently we need to have this conversation because awkwardness keeps happening yeah you're right we definitely do um dutchess also says oh yeah she asks are they new to the ls no they don't think they're ls by the way okay but see here comes the shade so now we can move on to the next one no no no no you're right facts yes you're all about to get in trouble it's only when i can't speak my thoughts that we have issues I shut up it's my turn when he did not be talking that we have issues and thank you for joining us and living this real life tristan come on man do we have to have like a little uh baton between us go ahead i'm good no man um i'm just saying no they're not new to the lifestyle however they do not claim us they don't claim our kind you know what i'm saying you know they don't they don't like the term swinger or a lifestyle or whatever but they like to other people so i don't know what the fuck i don't know what you call it oh man so who else chimes in uh yep someone says they agree with the combo yep uh we have couples that we travel with and we let them know that it may not go down just just letting them know i agree with that too right see and that's that's how i okay we are not going to derail this conversation we're going to get out of how you feelings we almost 20 minutes in okay real quick my feeling on that is i feel like i do not and i especially feel this for you trist i feel like you should not have to tell someone that you're not planning to have sex with them.
I feel like you have that choice no matter when it is. Oh, yeah. Even real quick. Even if you say before we go on this trip. Yeah. Yeah. You know, I'm I would love to play with y'all. I would love to.
You have the right to say no at any moment you have the right to change your mind and i don't give a what they are expecting you can always change your mind you see what i'm saying yes so that's how i feel about you know let you know setting expectations and letting people know like i understand like like if you know we got some a couple that wants to come and hang out at like 10 o'clock at night on a Friday night or Saturday night and having like the general understanding or the general feeling that something may go down and this goes down to this goes back to like our other conversations of organic and planning and all that stuff you stay ready you know what i mean you stay ready you got the condom in your pocket you got the stuff in your bag you got all these things ready in case the yes happens but if the no happens you got to be good with that too you see yes so i agree with that that's where i'm at all okay people say they agree with the conversation i love it um they sound poly to me some uh duchess says uh someone said i love it and another person says jaded that's what you call it yeah they pissed they mad uh and someone says i agree well spoken thank you yep and another one sells i agree with that perfect all right that was a long how you feel that was a long how you feel when you miss sunday and then you come on tuesday you got time to think about more thoughts i know my emotions and shit i feel a lot i'm feeling a lot you had time to like really think about it trish stop okay okay all right so phew my beautiful queen my lovely sweet Talkers, are you ready to get in to the rest of tonight's episode?
Let's go. Let's do it. She's rusty. Let's go. all right folks now that we're back on track, this is episode 53 and we're talking about FMF plus BDSM equals shit. That's a lot of letters, but it's a good time. But yeah, no, I mean, hey, babe, I mean, lately we've been talking a lot about experimenting and trying new things and walking on the wild side and pushing our envelope and um really like exploring who we are in this lifestyle thing just sexually period right i mean what do you think yes mostly we've been talking Locke and his new adventures for the most part.
But I've had some new experiences as well. Right. Right. And things that I've been kind of trying out that has also been outside of what we normally have been doing in a lifestyle. For sure. So, yeah. Now we're going to talk about me and put me in the hot seat, I guess.
yeah um yes I mean yeah this is you know when you say that Locke has tried some new stuff yes I did but with your consent right yes and and even with me trying something new it's a part of you trying something new as well by like sitting in the sidelines and we'll go into a little bit more detail so um so how have things changed for us how have we started moving the ball down the the field a little bit differently so i just think that in the lifestyle um especially we've been in for almost eight years you start to almost it's almost nine oh sorry almost nine years now almost nine years in october yeah coming up i think almost nine years so what happens is that especially uh where you've had like different experiences you've seen different things you've gone to different parties those things start to develop especially for me i'm a i'm a visual person so visually i i that's how i am with everything um so i just learn experiences by visually seeing different things or learn how to build something by just watching the things so in the lifestyle it's kind of the same way for me and then i you know start trying new things saying that oh well i like that or maybe i don't like that um and that's kind of how i've evolved like in the lifestyle and just knowing like what i get bored with um things that i want to try together and also some things i just want to try separately what kind of like leads me into um a little bit of what we're talking about right right so yeah um exactly i mean you're exactly right i mean i can't tell you that you're wrong about the stuff that has appealed to you and we have like you said seen a lot of different stuff and say oh right like wow that looks sexy i want to try that and it first started like one of our first house the as a matter of fact first house party we went to we saw someone using ropes yes and from that point forward we the seed was planted um of something that we would end up trying many years later but nonetheless it was always there something underneath so we eventually incorporated that into our personal play um and as of late um something different that we've tried was Trish mentioned it was a little bit of separate play right yes where at the house party in one of our previous episodes where Trish um didn't feel like playing no you know and she just said hey Locke go ahead live your best life right so you kind of watched and then you disappeared and you came back so that was something new right yes um and then again another happening uh recently was trist you know we found ourselves hanging out with some friends and some stuff started happening in one room and trist went to another room where yeah i know I like a good vibe yeah and the vibe was and the vibe was just lined up perfectly and I was like I'm ready I can feel this vibe yeah so you were in like uh another room from me and I was kind of doing some soft play stuff and you was in another room and you were a bad girl yeah and now it's so hot like you you had sex with another guy like a good close friend of ours but i missed it like i i heard about it but i missed watching it and oh man i just it was a great great so first how i started like hold let me back up for a second because i just a little bit so okay so first it was just like we were chilling with friends that part did happen yeah um but the vibe was just like literally we was just talking about like real like life stuff that was going on but there was just a vibe right it was just him and and we was just sitting there talking and the vibe you can you can literally feel it in the room But they would see that they it, and I could see that moment, and I knew I wasn't, I did not need to be.
And there was nothing in that moment that happened. Uh-huh, that's it, I was just. There is nothing happening to you. You know that you don't have to die with you. You know that there is nothing happening to you. You don't have to die. You don't have to die.
nobody like throwing like sexy eyes or or trying to touch there was nothing going on it was just like a vibe that from that kind of like just set the foundation for that the rest of it that happened that night and then of course you know we we end up at some point after that you know just chilling and lights was dim and then you know things kind of get sexy and hands start touching See you next week.
some point after that you know just chilling and lights was dim and then you know things kind of get sexy and hands start touching you know and it's just like you know do you mind if i touch you here oh yeah i'm like you know i've been waiting for this right now that vibe was i mean because i love being like once you you got me in and i'm like we vibing and everything's great and it was cool um because uh our friend's wife was there too and she was just chilling she was like a fly on the wall that was just like there's like i'll be quiet y'all just do your thing kind of like right so it kind of just made the whole situation uh a really mellow non-pressure right like situation where everybody was just like i'm down for this right now and it kind of just built right you just described the way that shit is always supposed to go down like that's just how it should go and that's the most organic like when we talk about organic that situation was probably the most organic situation probably that i've had like in a while not to say that anything else hasn't been like fun it's not about the fun part i'm just saying of the it was kind of really unexpected because nobody was really that wasn't like a thing nobody was thinking about any of that it literally happened and it happened and we had great bomb sex and you know and my friend's wife she was just there like you know you guys are so hot she was just like sitting there and i was like when y'all were done she came into the other room where i was kind of messing around and just told me she had to just like share like that was beautiful what they did i was like shit i missed it out and he was like i missed it yeah i was like you're not about to blow my vibe i'll tell you later whatever i wasn't i was not hot i was too mellow to be hot that's so awesome but no it was great it was it was awesome okay that was a unexpected sexy story that was the kind of that was not in the show but yeah yes that's what that's what happened i love that appreciate that story baby um yeah duchess says she was enjoying in the show oh the wife yes she was she was because she told me all about it like yeah oh got me all warm babe i didn't expect to get this okay we're gonna move things a little uh move things ahead so why are we having this conversation because like i said bdsm plus fmf for those that don't know, FMF is female, male, female, threesome.
So we were able to talk to one of our unicorn friends, beautiful woman who we had played with before. And we started exploring some some fantasies. Yes.
She mentioned to us before that she had had experiences in the BDSsm world and trissa and i you know we dip our toes in a little bit like we'll fuck around with each other just a little bit maybe play with some paddles and we definitely played with the ropes and everything but it was something different um to bring someone else in yeah it for me guys It's just that I am wanting to explore more of my dom side and that is not with my husband like what turns me on about the dom side is that i don't want my husband to be my sub at all like i'm fine with being your sub and that this is the first time he's hearing some of the stuff that i'm going to say um i'm fine with being his sub you know being the brat and all of those things right but it does not necessarily turn me all the way on for my husband to be my sub um and for me to dominate him um that's not what i'm looking for i'm actually am interested more so in the dominating of a sub of a man or a female who's not my husband, um, for the most part.
And, and what, what that is, is that I'm still developing what exactly I want in that situation to be. I know for certain that I still want to put on this, have this scene.
I want to put on these black pet and lover heels and i want to literally step on a man's chest i have two volunteers you do yeah they're they're piling up i have two volunteers now uh that will let me do it so i am very much interested in that for some reason that's like my thing and my scene um but that's what i want to do um duchess says uh she said my husband and i do the same thing uh co-doming and i was going to ask you is that something that you wanted to explore more like the co-doming or you just want to be straight dominant and I be a spectator? No. Where do you foresee me?
I actually like that. I like the co-doming when it comes to someone else or me doming. But if it's a man, I want to dom. You can't do nothing. I just want you to chill. But a female, I'm okay with co-doming that situation but in a with a man no like i'm good because i like especially with a man i have this thing i want to be called like yes mistress and he supposed to let me know that's he wants more oh you all like i'm like i'm getting my thoughts in what i want out of this still i I'm still developing it. But I definitely want a man to tell me, yes, mistress.
I find nothing that's going to be hot. I'm like, oh, I, you know, and tell me that you want more or tell me what you want. Or just so you can be bad and you just say, yes, mistress. And I tell you not to say, yes, mistress. And you say it anyway. So all of this shit is hot.
But me issue one teeny tiny complaint i would like to hear this before we go on air or but i didn't want you to hear it before so here's the thing i told you real quick okay one thing one thing real quick all i'm saying is is that we need to have these conversations honey like because we can make this stuff happen i just just need to know this. I need to know some of this stuff. But I'm still thinking about it. So it's not something literally I was writing out my thoughts for the show. And that's when some of it just starts developing like, oh, yeah, I really want this thing.
And then I want this and I want that. And I wanted it not to tell Locke did not know what my notes was for tonight because I wanted to get his natural reaction to what i'm saying so just like you guys are hearing this on youtube right now or on the podcast streams it's his first time hearing some of this stuff too but these thoughts are there so that's kind of how i'm developing in the lifestyle when we say that like lock has had his experiences where you, I've let him do like single play and then I've had the one experience with kind of single play.
But for me, I also have this whole other side that I want to explore more about and not just with females, but I want to do some of it with males. And I'm not into like the public community, like humiliating someone. Sure. That's not I know for certain that that's not what I want to do. Yeah. Duchess says I'm here for all of this. Hey, I'm here to tell you, Duchess, me too. I would love to just watch her explore this side of her.
Like like she said, a lot of new um i you know we've taken like a bdsm quiz and all that person a bdsm like personality quiz or some shit like that it tells us a lot about us and that we have switched personalities and all that stuff um and we're gonna get into a little bit of that um as we go along but yeah like wow some of the stuff is kind of new and i'm excited like i just i want to take it from this microphone into the real world you know what i mean like i want us to really dig into this stuff and sit down with like a glass of wine and really talk this out and maybe watch some porn you know some stuff that kind of goes down that road and see, you know, how we know what's the next step and then find some people uh to participate whether i'm just watching or participating or not you know i think this is hot so thank you tris for enlightening me and us you're welcome uh catch up with some of the sweet talkers says that uh i want to be dominated by a female because i'm always the dom female okay well let us know when you're around somebody else says two volunteers make that three volunteers and oh there you go let me know uh-huh like for real send me a dm but no no i'm bad serious like if we're around or near i'm definitely interested uh-oh careful what you wish for i think i've recognized this name i think that person might be going to pcap encore uh-oh look at you she's like Oh, shit.
Like, where? Oh, that just says, I domed a couple in Naughty. Yes.
look at you she's like oh shit like where oh that just says i domed a couple and naughty yes i want to hear about that too that's right can't wait to hear that yep see see you there they said see you there oh shit you better bring your flogger bring my shoes yep bring them heels stay ready but uh speaking of pcap encore don't forget to check out the link in our link tree um and join us down there it's gonna be a great time november 5th through the 8th um yeah we're gonna be hanging out doing our show um not our show but you know i'm saying doing our presentation kicking it uh shibari lessons pool parties all sorts of cool stuff it's gonna be a great time yeah um so let's get back get back to the story honey get back to the story so we had this wonderful wonderful unicorn is beautiful um wonderful woman a long dark hair beautiful sexy accent and just one of the most to try i'm okay let's get to the body, right?
One, she has an ass for days, beautiful ass and wonderful breasts. Right, babe? Just large, big, perfect. She's petite, but she's like the Coke bottle shape, the perfect Coke bottle shape. And we hadn't seen her for a very long time, but it's always a pleasure talking to her. So the type of person that she is, she's always like open and honest and just shares all of her life. Like she just shares how she feels about the world. She's very like smart and and cute and funny. And she also shared like her fantasies. We mentioned that like she shared her BDSM fantasy.
So sweet talkers, I have a question for you. So do you have a core of like people like a couple or a group of friends that you can experiment with? And if so, you know, how do you share your fantasies with them? You know what I mean? Because we have a good group of friends that I wouldn't be shy asking to try something new. Okay. And, you know, and I've heard, you know, people in our core group of friends asking each other to, you know, Hey, I'm interested in this thing. And the best thing about it is they make you feel no shame.
Nobody makes you feel any shame, no, no kink shaming and that's one of the best things and in a future episode i will tell you how um i failed at a dvp you you got to get another round of that babe i know i just took my uh you had your had your chance yeah like i'm gonna i'm gonna be able to make this happen but i took my swinger insurance a little too late and uh my whole body didn't join the party so i'll get into that another time epic swinger fail but give me another chance yeah please baby please but anyway yeah let us know i mean i think that's very interesting you know if you have that it's a very it's a very special thing to be able to say you know i want to try this thing um and to have people trust you with that and in this particular instance uh we're going to call her holly right yes that's what we decided that's what we decided when i went through so many names uh that holly she was really open to experimenting with us you know and showing us the ropes because we had dibbled and dabbled in it the first time we had played with her where she kind of domed me you two kind of co-domed me right and it was so hot though oh it was really really sexy you know because one this was our first threesome that experience oh yes that experience was our first time with a threesome i didn't know what the fuck i wanted to do i was just happy to be in the room right i was just happy to be here right so y'all gonna slept slap me all around and whatever you know it was a lot of fun um but at this point for we're gonna call this night one this was at our place we had invited her over this was um you know pandemic has subsided everybody's kind of starting to get their vaccines all that stuff everybody's in good condition like we was ready to hang out Thank you.
over this was um you know pandemic has subsided everybody's kind of starting to get their vaccines all that stuff where everybody's in good condition like we was ready to hang out and at this point had we i think we we'd already shared some of our fantasies but did we say that we were going to do any bdsm stuff that night do you remember no yeah no not not that night no right we just kind of had it on the menu yes right we what she was into. So we kind of set up the room with some sexy lights and laid out some options. You know, we got some toys here. We got some... Vloggers. Paddles.
Whatever you need. It's all here. Whatever we take is your fancy right now. He's like, I got what you need. Right, right. So it was really, really hot. And you two were dressed so sexy.
You had on something that was kind of is that burgundy or wine it was like a wine colored uh two-piece yeah yeah so sexy and she had on like a black almost corset yeah the g-string and the garters like the black garters but they weren't even attached to anything it was just kind of dangling down it was so fucking sexy um and the way the night got started was you know dinner appetizers whatever drinks chilling um good conversation then we go upstairs to our bedroom and then um we decide to take things kind of slow and start off taking some pictures so you two kind of played around on the bed got some pictures in your lingerie you kind of laid out some so uh very sexually and i'm standing all the way up on the bed taking some you know sky pictures it was really really hot so the way we got it got into everything was like a three-way massage right that was kind of our way of getting it right undressed we broke out the coconut oil and everybody was just kind of rubbing on everyone.
What did you what were you thinking at that moment? I was just like, OK, this is going to be a great night. Yeah. It's about to be wonderful and go down. Right. Yeah, it was it was very hot. So once we would kind of move past like the three way massages, Hallie actually tried to recall from our last experience where she was doming. Yes. And she said she kind of gave me like a firm like instruction where she wasn't expecting to bite back.
I said no no not tonight so i kind of hit the switch button right i think that's where the switch comes in with me it was like i wasn't in the mood to be a sub you know i was i was more in a dom space i wanted there were things that i wanted to see happen things that i wanted to see go down and i don't know how we transitioned from that that quote-unquote power from me to you yes but then I kind of just moved out of the way and so then I just picked up like a flogger I was like do you want to you know do you want to try this so I'm like sitting here in my head I'm like this is my chance I get to do something you know like get to do something dom with a female so I I get the flogger and I just start like going to work like just you know I found myself and this is where I still got to get out of my head right because I feel like I'm still new to domi um i find myself like smack is that okay like like are you okay like that type of thing right that's what i find myself doing like in my head and saying out loud like oh my god are you okay and the person's like totally fine um it's just me like i think that's what i have to get used to right because i'm like'm like, oh, my gosh, was that too hard?
Are you OK? And that and I don't want to do that like during the session. So because I don't want to break the actual moment. Right. So maybe I just need to figure out a safe word. Exactly. Or like to let me know if that's not OK. Yeah. Or if it's too hard or something like that. So I'm still developing that part. Otherwise, like spanking her. It was really I enjoyed it. So let's describe what that looked like. We have what is it is easily a seven foot mirror on one side of our bed floor all the way almost up to the ceiling. Right. It's just a big mirror in between the two windows.
But you can see our bed, right? Yes. The reflection of our bed is right there directly, right? So Hallie was on her knees, sitting straight up on her knees, looking at herself in the mirror, while Trist was on one side flogging her with this big leathery flogger. And I am just in heaven taking pictures. Yes. Making sure that I can kind of get next to the mirror so I can capture Hallie looking at herself in the mirror.
And I'm just taking pictures of her and Trist and then hearing Hallie moan as Trist flogs her and it looked like she was just getting off watching trist flog her yes i don't even know if the feeling had anything to do with it but the look if she was feeling what i was feeling just the look of it was super fucking sexy right so how'd that feel like you know once you I know you're saying that you kind of was feeling a little sympathetic. But what were you thinking as it was going down? Because this was your first time vlogging someone. It was my first time vlogging someone. And I was excited.
But at the same time, I was a little nervous. Yeah. And I was excited at the same time. So it's kind of like a mix of things, just to like do it and making sure that oh my gosh that i don't miss her ass and accidentally hit somewhere else or something like that but um i thought you did a great job it was it was great i enjoyed it no i thought you did a great job i looked like, you know, you were the smile on your face was incredible. I mean, just you were so happy to do it. Like, you know, I don't know. I've never seen you so in such a joyous mood. To get to snake somebody's ass.
Such a like a willing participant.
But no but no i mean so that was the first time you had done that and that was the first time i had gotten to really see it we i think we kind of played around with that the first time we played with her but not like this now yes i think the little toy flogger that we had the first time was like the little leathery yeah leathery but a little plastic way yeah and we kind of just like did a little jingling around with it and y'all mostly kind of like slapped me around with it but yeah but this was so much hotter and um and then we moved on into into the sexy play where she would go down on you and I'm behind her going down on her or even inside of her while she's uh licking you and it was just a wonderful wonderful experience um and you know after that uh some time had went by and you know we wanted to hang out again and um but in between we had a little bit more conversations we had sent her some pictures of the stuff that we had been working on as far as like the ropes and all that stuff so we set up another play date at a hotel this time yes beautiful hotel down in the city right it was really nice really nice i want to stay there again it was really nice i know it was like a suite yeah we got the little suite because we you know we got to represent sweet life sweet life yeah so um we met up at the hotel anything for for the sweet talkers i'm sorry uh no they're actually listening oh they're quiet because they're listening then i shall proceed um yeah so we met up at the hotel we started with drinks down in the hotel lobby and uh then trist remember a little secret spot you found little cuban restaurant remember that oh yes and that was yes.
And that was very unexpected. I was just hungry. That's right. And it happened to be this really, really cool restaurant that I had never even heard of. Really nice little hole in the wall, man. It's a nice vibe. It was a good time. Good food. Gave us more drinks. And we were able to talk a little bit more about stuff that we wanted to try later that night.
Got ourselves all loose and gooseyy we were ready to go back and i know that the bartenders was kind of trying to figure out like what the heck was going on because it was i was on one side locke was on the other side and she said she was sitting in between us right and we're both like sitting there like talking to her like she could be my date his date you don't know whose date is it's going on and the bartenders are like sitting there like looking at us i'm like and they could probably hear some of the stuff we were talking oh yeah because we were not quiet no so it was it was a great night i think the bartenders were down yeah but i was behaving i didn't even you know solicit i was good you were very great yeah i was very satisfied trust me, yes, that was dinner.
We got back to the hotel, short walk, you know, holding hands and kind of rubbing just a little bit, you know, keeping the people confused. It was wonderful. Get back up to the room. So I had something very specific that I wanted to see.
And I'll let you know my I'll let you in on the the gambit so the idea was that i wanted you to to be in one half of the room then in the bedroom portion of the hotel room and i wanted you to to play i wanted you to start making out and touching and feeling and licking and doing all this stuff and then my fantasy was to walk in on it to kind of walk in and see what was going on okay here's the gambit while you were doing that i was feverishly on the other side of that room looking at my book trying to get my mind right for these ropes right because we had talked about working on the ropes and i was completely out of practice i was like oh my god how do i tie this night and i'm i'm scrambling and i'm looking through the I'm going to go to you know practice a knot on my damn leg and make sure i got it right wow still untied it actually we gave her a choice too before we even got started the did she want to wear the purple rope or the red rope do you remember that babe we did yeah that's right she chose the red she did and it looks good on both of you so again i you know got to do some of my dom stuff which i loved you know i think, I think this one, though, we can call this is co-domy, though.
This was absolutely co-domy. So once I made my way back into the back room, you know, I got my practice in, made my way back there where the ladies were. We kind of just no words were said. It was understood.
So I pulled Hallie off of you pulled uh you kind of just let me do my thing you grab the camera yes right i love that we were just ready like you know what i want get the camera get the camera ready so you grab the camera and i pulled hallie back in and um i did what's called a dragonfly sleeve it's not complicated uh once you get like the uh get the main knots going it's like a a two-armed what is it uh restraint like with your arms behind your back with layers of rope holding it down at about four to five inches apart all the way down to the wrist yeah it looks pretty pretty though it's really pretty when you do it right this time and you know i'm hard on myself yeah i didn't do a good job he was kind of nervous because we haven't been able to try ropes in a while it takes a little bit of time right so um we just haven't had that time to do it so he was just like so like i like, I want to get this done.
So he was doing it. But then, you know, he kind of like was like, I don't want to do it too tight. I don't know if she'd like it because it's different when you're doing it on someone else versus the person who you've been practicing on. Right. Because he kind of knows if it's going to be too tight for me. But again, this is why we're doing these things. That's right.
That we're experimenting and again back to my earlier point it's great to have someone that you can experiment with a friend you know somebody that you can call on and they can call on you and say hey i want to try this thing and we say okay cool let's pick a date yeah you know what i mean right so yeah that was the first go around trying that on her it was also great like to see him do his thing on someone else um you know he's done like like wrist ties which is like really really simple but this time you know he was actually doing a whole what i would call like a session like he actually tied um her arms up completely and not just like oh i just put this little thing on your wrist um so it was great to watch that and take pictures and I was getting turned on by it and then he released her to me and I was like yes yep my turn sure did and you did not hesitate to bend her over on the bed very carefully because her hands are completely bound yeah you know without that you're just gonna fall flat on your face without any kind of balance or coordination you gonna fall on her face so we let her down gently so she was kind of resting on her head and neck with her arms and her ass up in the air behind her back and what did you do baby and then i took a flogger and i well first i you know i just we teased her i teased her um We kind of do this thing that we didn't even know that we do.
Oh, she did tell us that we do a thing. We both do a thing where we get close enough to your space, whatever, wherever that is. That's right. It'd be on your neck or any type of space that you could say that's kind of a turn on for you.
Close enough to where you just feel that we're there feel our presence and feel our presence but we will not we're not kissing you or anything you just feel us there and we go up and down in like in that area and it's like a turn on apparently yeah and she said we both do it i didn't even know that that was a thing that's so fucking cool i love that we both do it apparently and it's probably it it probably is the case because i mean we obviously have sex with each other but yeah that's the thing that we do apparently i'm gonna go ahead and say you stole that from me okay i don't know i don't care no it's so cool i mean i think that's a very cool thing to hear that someone says that, hey, you both do this thing.
Did you know that? And at that moment, we didn't. We didn't. I didn't realize it. I didn't know that you did that to other people. No. I know it was a trick in my bag, but I didn't know it was a trick in yours. I stole it from you, babe, probably. That a girl. I don't know.
No, it's though i love that though i love that that was so sexy to me hearing that we do a thing yeah so we do that and a few sensual touches on her and then i mean this was prime teasing position like with her hands bowing behind her back and her ass up in the air uh perfect for spanking she was just she was asking for it so what happened babe what'd so um then i grab a flogger and i spanked her yeah you did and we laid her over the uh cushion so we had part of the s chair cushion we had part of that with us we didn't bring the whole daggone chair because that's just like a whole thing trying to put that in the hotel we've done that before yeah this time we only bought just a piece of an accessory right um to the hotel which was great for like laying her over it puts you in still in a perfect ass ass up you know face down ass up position which is the way i like it right that's a part of a song i think it's ludicrous yeah i was not trying to do that So that's the way I like it, right?
That's a part of a song. I think it's ludicrous. I was not trying to do that on purpose. That's the way we like the book. But yeah. So yeah, it made for a great scene. So for you, this was still exploring something new for you. How did it feel doing this new thing, breaking out from the normal sex of, you know, whatever it is? Like, I don't think we've had like a normal threesome experience with this young lady. No, it's a quote unquote normal. Yes. We've always had some kind of BDSM aspect. But exploring that for you was what? Go ahead.
It just makes me want to do more and it's and like not just like more of her just some more in general right because i still want to get this i have a man part of it that i still want to do that i haven't gotten to yet and i still want to be able to explore more stuff with like um females just to see what else like i can be done and what else that i want to do right i don't know if it's i want to learn rope on my own and tie people up and do the co-tying no idea but i have more that i definitely want to do i love that oh man you know we forgot to use that night was the door restraint oh right we done packed this dag on door restraint and we couldn't no we we couldn't use it oh that's because they had no door yeah yeah that's right we bought it and we couldn't use it because the the doors were sliding yeah not an actual like a regular door so we couldn't use it that night because i was ready that's okay my bedroom got that got up yes i definitely was ready for that um but yeah so that's how i'm developing like in a lifestyle and it's not with all of my friends you know it's not a thing like oh my gosh i gotta do this thing with everyone but there is a thing that i want to so what's next what's next on tris agenda and I know you don't like agendas, right?
But what's next? How do we experiment more? How do we develop this? How do we fine tune what you're into? So that's a good question, right? Because how do I just walk up to like a lifestyle couple and say, hey, do you mind if I step on you? Like, I don't know how to approach those conversations at all yet.
Um, but I'm sure I'll have to figure out how to get there yeah it's because I want to be able to experience these things right yeah I mean I think it'll just be like it'll happen in conversations with one with close friends yeah right because one one of the men who volunteer is a close friend. Yes. And then, too, if it is someone new, it's about having those discussions on what are your fantasies or like you're saying, what are your expectations of us?
I'm not saying we expect to step on your chest, but I think having those open conversations with new people or new couples or whatever it is could include a safe space to have a conversation of fantasies. Yes. These are some of the things that we've done. These are some of the things that we might try in the future. And people might just say, oh, you know, no, no, thank you. Or some people might say yes.
Like we've met a lot of different couples who are into some different things and we've never tried to yuck their yum no um we might not be into that but whatever you know to each their own but we can still be friends we can still kick and we might even still be able to have sex right exactly like if you're not into it i'm totally cool that i just that, you know, I want to be able to experience new things, too. So, yeah, I mean, I think and I have another thing, too, for a guy. And I think I would like this for a female as well.
Like if we are in public, let's say I do know that or we've had other sessions, let's say, and I know that this is your thing and you like to be Dom.
Again, like I mentioned, like in the same conversation i don't like to public humiliate anyone like that's not my thing but in public what would be a turn on is if one of my subs walked up to me and kind of did like a whisper in my ear or found some clever way of getting my attention just to tell me uh what they wanted is you know and what they were looking forward to later on that night or if they you know just wanted me in general to dominate them like if they just told me that i think that that would be a turn on it you know it gets get tickled my fantasy a little bit i think your fancy is getting tickled right now so so yeah i like those types of things more than i think like your mic down so people can see you blushing i i do i like that part more than i would like like public humiliating somebody and that's not and i'm not knocking that that like i want to be clear about that that's just this is not part of my journey as far as what I'm saying by dominating someone for sure.
No, that's totally understandable. And that's that's cool. I love it. I could sit and listen to you talk about your fantasies all day. I swear to goodness, if I have to pretend that we're going live just to get you to just start talking, let's just do it.
Like I for it um no babe i'm excited like let's do it let's let's sit down and talk about our fantasies more you know what i mean let's get some wine let's pop some turbo and uh have these little discussions man after the little demon goes to sleep right so yeah no we encourage that for all of you sweet talkers man like keep having those discussions um keep talking about your fantasies and hopefully that you guys all find you know uh a group of people or a couple or whatever it is your safe space where you can explore all that cool stuff i think someone else in the chat said that they were down and naughty and uh yeah had their first bDSM experiment experience as well.
Tell us a little bit more about that. I want to hear some of that in the future. Yes. And Duchess says that, yes, it's a couple. The lady is straight, so she doesn't play, but she is very kinky. Yeah. Okay. Yeah. Yeah. I'm here for all the stories, Duchess, for real. I'm telling you. Hit me up. Yeah, Duchess, we're going to do that follow up. We're going to do that quick. In the meantime, folks, while we're getting that all squared away with Duchess, I'll see you next time.
stories duchess for real i'm telling you hit me up yeah duchess we're gonna we're gonna do that follow-up we're gonna do that quick um in the meantime folks while we're getting that all squared away with duchess we got another episode coming up on red flags listen this is a sweet talker topic try saying that 10 times fast or five times right right sweet talker topic so yeah we saw a post a couple weeks ago from some sweet talkers um who mentioned uh a very unique red flag and we want to hear from you guys we want to hear some what are some red flags that you might see on someone's dating profile um or a red flag that you might even get in person while you're out on a date um or whatever it is you know what are some red flags that make you say, whoa, we got to take a step back.
You know, we're going to steer clear of this one. Right. So these wonderful sweet talkers, we are going to give them a major, major shout out. I want to make sure we do it right. The next episode. Yes. Their Twitter handle, all that good stuff.
I can't think of it off the top of my head right now, but we'll have it for next episode so send us some of your red flags hit us up on twitter hit us up on ig or send us an email email us at the sweet life podcast at gmail.com and hit us up on instagram at the sweet life podcast and hit us up on twitter at sweet life pod with your red flags that's gonna be a good conversation so hopefully you enjoyed this episode man and thank you guys for joining on a tuesday night on a tuesday seriously thank you sweet talkers for for joining on on this night yes we know it's not our normal night uh make sure you check out the link tree look at the pcap any other of our links that's up there.
Please check those out. I know we didn't do PCAP any justice today. Listen, PCAP is going to be lit. PCAP Encore down in Dallas, Texas, November 5th through the 8th. We are going to be in the building, hanging out all weekend long, you know, having a great time.
supposed to be a really really good look yo the uh what is it the hoover yes the internal app that we have to meet and greet people online has been on fire it's been jumping yo and i'm telling you it's some people i i cannot wait to see and y'all know who you are sweet as honey oh i can't wait y'all know what it is i cannot wait i hope you get that one and uh yeah we're gonna see y'all soon man and uh we're gonna put some stuff together we're gonna have some dinner we're gonna have some drinks we're gonna chill dance party i like to dance i know you do and uh make sure Tris bring her flogger.
And my heels, I guess. Yep. Hey, people. Again, just to echo Tris, we really appreciate y'all jumping on a special night. And thanks for bearing with us. And Tris, I'm glad you're feeling better, baby. I am definitely feeling way, way better. And check out the OnlyFans.
And I'm going to be making some updates there soon that's right thank you guys i appreciate you so much all right folks we're getting out of here y'all take care be safe out here and we'll talk to you soon bye again we'd like to thank you for living a sweet life with us to everyone who couldn't join us live in the suite check out our podcast on itunes stitcher spotify google play and iheart radio be sure to subscribe rate and review feel free to email us at living the sweet life podcast at gmail.com you can also follow us on instagram at the sweet life podcast and on twitter at sweet life pod don't forget to subscribe to us on our YouTube channel at Living the Sweet Life Podcast so that you can be a sweet talker the next time.
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