Is it time to shake our asses yet?! Hell yeah! Well....maybe! In this episode we recall where we were a year ago when the world shut its doors. We talk about how we managed to keep our sexiness in tact and more importantly, how we plan to get back to all the hot, naughty action the world has to offer!As the world starts to slowly recover, what will the outcome be? Will couples start to require vaccinations for play partners? Will we start to see vaccine notifications on couples profiles? Listen in on what the Suite-talkers think!As always, thanks for listening!Be sure to SUBSCRIBE, RATE, REVIEW! We appreciate any and all feedback!JOIN US in Miami, FL for PODCAST-A-PALOOZA May 21 - 24, 2021!!Check out our show and MANY others on FullSwapRadio!How to stay in-touch with us:Email: [email protected] us here for info on upcoming LIVE episodes:Instagram: @thesuitelifepodcastTwitter: @suitelifepodFacebook: Livin the Suite Life (Tryst Loq Suitelife)Don t forget to SUBSCRIBE to the Livin the Suite Life Podcast YouTube Channel!
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Living the Sweet Life is a podcast intended for mature audiences only. We'll be using sexually explicit language while discussing many different adult themes. So if you're under the age of 18, please stop listening. Also, please know that our thoughts and opinions should not be taken as professional advice. We're here to answer your questions about the swinger lifestyle from newbies to longtime swingers. Or if you're just curious, we hope to engage you all and to encourage a sex positive discussion.
Now that we've got that out of the way, make yourself comfortable for joining us in episode 46 of living the sweet life she is my beautiful sexy co-host and wife the lovely trist and he is my sexy chocolate husband lock you know it's the shea butter baby the shea butter keeping me chocolatey for you it is i love that shea butter on your head actually it's making it nice and smooth for me well ladies and gentlemen again thank you so much for joining us in episode 46 living the sweet life is going strong and we're having fun doing it we are excited to be here and we're grateful for everybody who chose to join us tonight is going to be a very interesting kind of episode right we're going to be doing some um you know we're going to kind of look back on the year that was 2020 and looking beyond 2021 uh because you know it's been crazy for all of us but let's talk about some of that good stuff man the world is actually starting to turn around um and we're having a good outlook on things we're feeling pretty excited and we want you to feel excited too uh so let's talk about it um but first i know we got to knock out some of this housekeeping stuff we want people to know how to keep in touch with us so uh if you want to follow us on instagram at the sweet life podcast and follow us on twitter at sweet life pod you can You can always email us at TheSweetLifePodcast at gmail.com.
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Y'all know it is and when you're there do the like um what is it subscribe rate review we always love that stuff we always appreciate it and then oh right uh if you want to be a sweet talker the next time jump over to youtube hit the subscribe button follow us hit the little dingy bell thing so you're notified whenever we go live and y'all can join in the conversation man we love to have you we're welcome you with open arms huh huh babe Thank you.
dingy bell thing so you're notified whenever we go live and y'all can join in in the conversation man we love to have you we're welcome you with open arms huh huh babe i think i think so yeah and open boobs and open boobs yes that'd be great love it love open boobs but yeah man so uh we'll we you know just stay in touch with us hit us up up anytime. We love questions. We love sweet talker topics. If you have any ideas and things that you want to talk about, we always welcome those ideas. We like to share, share, and share alike. All that good stuff. Right, babe? Absolutely.
So, y'all know how it is, man. Before we get into all the shenanigans with all the sweet talkers, hello, sweet talkers. if you see y'all know how it is man before we get into all the shenanigans with all the sweet talkers hello sweet talkers if you see y'all coming in um you know before we get into all the crazy stuff i always got to slow it down take a minute checking with the wife so baby how you feeling you know i feel like you got something up your sleeve know. When I start with a pause, it's like I got a good one for you guys. I got a good one for you.
So, guys, have you ever played the game Never Have I Ever? Hmm. Yeah, we've played that in a hot tub a couple times. So, this is interesting. So, Never Have I Ever. Mm-hmm. Holy shit. You ready? I am. I think so. Never have I ever played with someone previously. Mm-hmm. It could be a single or a couple. Okay. It could be whatever play style. It doesn't matter. Got it. All right? But never have I ever played with someone and then showed up months later to do what I call the eat and play. Eat and play means we ate and then you played again. Right. Months after the fact. Months after the fact.
Stay with me. I'm trying. We played one time and then we played again months later. Right.
So never have I ever showed up the second time to another date with someone else's socks and said hey lock you forgot your socks so the so the question would be in this it's not a game actually guys i just brought it up because i like to never have i ever showed up at someone else's house with a pair of socks um so we had a friend let me just back up for a second uh we had a friend that we played with months ago uh like literally months ago i can't remember um but it was a while back and they showed up at our house and they say hey lock you forgot uh your socks the last time we were playing but here's the twist here's the twist to it so lock looks over at me he accepts the socks he looks over at me and he's like like looking like a deer in head like shaking his head and i'm like what does that mean like what is the shake head like we need to talk like what's going on so i'm trying to read him because i'm a little bit tipsy at this point as well so i'm like what are you doing so he tells me these are not my socks these are not my socks and i was like are you sure he's like yeah so i'm thinking like oh he's he's just tipsy too like let's talk about it later let's talk about it later so no no no like legit the next day uh those are not his socks so right so I think the hilarious point to this is if you are unsure.
Yes. Whose clothes you're bringing over to your swinger friend's house, don't bring that shit. Just chalk it up to the game. Like, you know, you can't be bringing, hey, Trist, here are your drawers, your panties that you left. Yes, it's like. Sorry, those aren't mine.
It's like when you were dating, right and you you are in a you're not in a relationship you're in a situation right right whatever they want to call it right fuck buddies exactly and the girl shows up you're like oh hey here's your panties but you know that you smashed some other chick but and then you just give her some panties that's basically kind of what happened no that's exactly exactly what happened. And not that we took offense to it, but it was just like, if I'm not asking you, hey, I left something at your house. Right. You can chalk that up to the game. Just chalk it up.
Just chalk that shit up. It's just a pair of socks. Chalk it up to the game. You do not have to run that risk and saying, you know, here are your socks. Maybe. Right. These probably are yours. No, they're not. They're from your other fuck buddies. And that's okay.
And okay that's okay but you just outed yourself a little bit i mean you know it's just a little awkward didn't say anything you know we didn't even address it i just kind of like took them you know tossed them and i found it hilarious yes and i'm here are you sure yeah he's like those are not my socks yeah okay you looked at him he's like, you don't wear socks like that. You're right. They're not your socks. So, yeah. So, that was just kind of a funny story. It was very funny. So, Locke, how are you feeling? Me, baby. Today, I am feeling like a hypocrite. Mmm.
You know, usually I'm the one with, like, the emotional little how you feeling. No, this time I got a pretty ridiculous story as well.
So a couple of weeks ago, weeks ago tristan and i were kind of you know we found ourselves in that quickie mode right we had a little bit of time to ourselves it's like okay let's get this on and we told y'all before in prior episodes that our quickie spot is the shower shower yeah so we jump in the shower you know and then the water starts to splash in and we're ready to get it in finally slide inside of her sexy self and you know we're getting down like it's smashing yeah oh my god it's just like water splashing everywhere just going going crazy sounds amazing yeah what's the point of this story here we go so again feeling like a hypocrite because you know we're going and going it's getting hot and heavy and i'm getting close to to coming right in this time boom nice magical release all inside of her and it's crazy oh it's wonderful right it never felt so good you know legs trembling you know by body shaking and the water still splashing and you know everything on magical moment.
Right. And then I pull out of her and then she's like cleaning up and it's this mess. You know, it's a little bit of a mess. Sorry. It was a lot. Right. But, you know, and then she says, oh, my God, you made a mess. And I say, you know, I saw good baby. It's OK. It's good for you. It's a little bit vitamin D. d it's okay just rub it in yeah it kind of plays into our last episode we talking about you know spitting my mouth right so he thought it was all cool on that episode as well check it out guys but he thought it was cool in last episode like oh yeah just come all over someone it's.
It's good for your skin. Right. So then, you know, she's kind of cleaning herself up. And I'm laughing a little bit at her like, ha. And then I'm trying to, you know, we're still in the shower together. And I'm starting, you know, soaping myself up, cleaning up a little bit. And then she looks over at me and says, you got cum on your face. Yeah, guys. He had like a glob of cum on his face like the movies.
Something about Mary isn't it that that's the name of the movie something about mary when he had to come and it was like he did like that and put it in his hair oh god it was on his face but the thing is i freaked out about it i'm like get it off get it off get it get it i'm like washing my face furiously like scrubbing and she's like cracking up like you want me to rub it in and like oh baby this is sexy you know let me just rub it all in but he freaking out i freaked out straight panic mode with my own come on my face but you know did i get it off is it off so that was not his sexiest moment not my sexiest but that was funny yeah definitely a hypocrite but it was it was hilarious exactly one of the sweet talkers hey duchess duchess cashmere checking in hello sis she says that's what you get that's exactly what he gets it is that's exactly what i get i got it i got it i got yeah that's what i get and dutchess also says there's room for a deeper conversation there definitely is yeah it definitely is room for a deeper conversation it's more than just a funny story there's like you know why why i freak out so bad right like what is that what am i nervous of it's mine it's mine it's yours your juices it is it's all that it's all that you know so yeah it's definitely room for a deeper conversation there and we might get into another episode of that somewhere along the lines you know after i see my shrink exactly but i'm expected to like rub it in let me put it in your mouth all that right which you want to freak out but i mean i put your cum all over me you know I don't mind that i'm not asking you i'm talking about i'll lick my fingers all that but i'm not asking you to do that fair whatever so anyways i thought that was hilarious i think i laughed like the whole day you did about it you made sure to tell friends about it i'm like what about the sperm story, babe was too funny so i got a quick question before we get into tonight's episode folks so listen and i want y'all to ponder this as we cut to the little break and all you know how we do it but um shoot this to me shoot me some responses let me know what y'all think this is just a side question that came to my head so before you have a play time before you go out and do a little playtime you know playtime's coming you know you about to hit with that couple or you about to go to that orgy or whatever it is you about to go on that trip so do you have sex before that playtime i want to know like do you guys like um do you do you kind of like solidify your thing before you go to a playtime?
So a lot of people have and talk about reconnection sex, right? Post playtime, you have reconnection sex. But what do you call the sex that you have before playtime? Is it disconnection sex? Right. I'm wondering, is it disconnection sex? Is it some kind of sex to like sex to like maybe you know i'll see you after this is over you know um or is it something kind of like to solidify the unity of your relationship before playtime or is it just because you're like super horny like you're you're just jazzed up by by idea of what's coming down? You know, you know, something sexy is about to happen.
So you say, oh my God, I'm so charged up. I need to get this first one out, you know, before we go to a play time. So what is that? I'm gonna let y'all ponder on that. Somebody actually called it pre-connection sex, pre-connection sex.
Let me how that's it with y'all so now my beautiful wife my wonderful sweet talkers are you ready to get into tonight for joining us this is uh this is good this is uh it's been a year babe it's been a whole year since the the whole quarantine happened you can see it all over the news you can see it on all like the sports um the sports channels i mean it was like march 11th was the last day that the nba canceled all its games right the first day they canceled everything like the whole thing just shut down and people kind of take that day as the day that the shit got real. Right.
So with that in mind, like that, that whole year, that anniversary came up. I want to check in with y'all, man. I want to see how everyone is doing. I want to find out how y'all been. Right. And the world is slowly changing. We're starting to move. You know, Tris, how are you feeling about things? I'm ready to go out there and get it in. I don't know about you guys. I feel like a caged animal that I've been caged that for so long and I'm ready to go. Man, that quarantine fatigue was real.
Not only the quarantine, but just like the whole thing, like just like just the you know the the sickness all of that stuff like the sickness you know all the people that are just like it's just a bunch of nastiness the news it's just not positivity i'm ready just like you to shake my tail feather like get back out i'm ready to get out there to i mean because guys pre-covid we had like so much going on we had trips lined up we had we started meeting some new friends we had just had our first threesome oh man oh we had other threesome type of situations we were trying to line up yeah so it was just like all of these things were happening and then we went to covid so right right so.
So one of our sweet talkers chimed in on the question that I asked. And for those who might just be joining us, the question I asked was, so if you have sex prior to playtime, what do you call it? You know, is it pre-connection sex? Is it like a disconnection sex?
Someone called it solidifying sex um i like that yeah you kind of solidify your relationship or maybe solidify the game plan moving forward okay cool appreciate that so again now we're going to jump back to the topic tonight so um yeah i mean at this point shout out from canada that's a new sweet talker hi welcome welcome nice shout out from canada love it love our international sweet talkers i have friends in canada i hope y'all get to see them this year yeah we're gonna get to that too soon uh we're gonna get to talking about that so okay we're gonna knock this out right like let's be let's keep it on front street tris we have been fortunate enough to get vaccines we got that vaccine yeah so i mean just our mentality is starting to shift just enough just a little bit to feel a little bit more comfortable to put ourselves in different situations we don't know how you guys are we want you guys to be as healthy and as safe as possible we're not here preaching about the vaccine we're just telling you what our situation is you know what i'm saying i know people have a lot of reservations and we know a lot of african americans or black folks have a lot of reservations because of uh historical uh the historical context of you know vaccines and everything not here to dispute that whatever whatever you know, whatever your proclivities are to that, you're going to have to work that out on your own.
We're just talking about our experience. So from our experience, Tris, how was it getting the vaccine for you? So it was, the first shot was okay. It was fine.
The second shot is the one that does you, like, almost, I would say everyone has, that I know of has had the same thing like something has happened with the second shot and for us it was just like fatigue uh really sleepy most of the time right like just wanted to lay down and take a nap and that was pretty much the end of it uh slight fever like that but that lasted for like five minutes and then that's it so it wasn't it wasn't that big of a deal exactly for me you know because you got yours before me you got your second round before me uh i was really i was going off of every your entire experience is based on like the timeline of how you felt at what time you know around the 24 hour mark were you sick were you feeling anything no around the 36 hour mark did you start to feel a little bit yeah i did right so i was kind of preparing each moment you know based on your clock so i had a little bit of a heads up in the game so i you know vitamins and motrin and all that stuff and he cheated i did i used my cheat sheet you my little guinea pig yeah and some say you know just to see if you was going to turn into a zombie exactly so you could decide if he was going to do it right right but no um so all i really had was like a headache the next morning um you know it felt like a little bit of a hangover headache pop some motrin boom good to go and then later on around that 32 36 hour mark i started getting a little sleepy, got a little cold, went to sleep early, woke up at around 1 a.m.
It felt like fucking Spider-Man. Yo, like I felt like superpowers engaged. I could not go back to sleep. I was just like energized. I just I felt really, really good. And then that was it. That was it. Now, you know, moving on. And that was a couple of weeks ago. So, you know, the superpowers are like in me feeling good. So we hope that everybody's out there making the best decisions for you and your family. Just be safe. Take all the precautions you can. And, you know, with that in mind, let's kind of take a little journey back. So, Trish, you kind of were alluding to this.
Right this time last year the hammer came down man like the world was like stop all your sexy shit stay your ass in the house how how'd that make you feel how did it make us feel what do you remember it it was just like okay so now what like we have these new relationships that we're trying to develop that we just started so what happens now right you know with those relationships and then how do we see our friends that we already have right um how do we start limiting like how many friends we can see like when can we see them and things like that yeah so it was kind of trying to figure all of that out at the beginning and a lot of people were starting to do like zooms and and all of those things that kind of started the whole okay now we did a few zooms now how do we do like face to face right like phases of it it really was it really was it was like the first initial shock of stay your ass in the house was like no it was like it was like denial it was like what is it the the five stages of grief i was definitely in denial like okay wait no when they say maryland they don't mean this part of maryland you know what i'm saying they mean the dmv they meant the d and the v part yeah no they don't mean the m right and it was like you know that shit ain't hit home yet it was like okay because we literally had a sexy date planned like we had the hotel room yes we did we had the hotel room booked it was like gonna be like all nice hotel it was a nice hotel and it was with a couple we hadn't played with at that time yet you know we were it was a long build-up these were long time friends and they are so fucking hot yes and we were just building it up and building me and the guy we were just talking about it we had these plans we were going to surprise them in little ways and the shit was going to be dope like i mean and we were just like falling into the sweet life so you know i had to get the sweet you know it was like we were going to this was going to be like our thing we was going to have an amazing story to tell it was going to be fantastic and the world said no but i was like but wait hold on just give me one more week one more week and we could get this done yes but then we had to cancel and it was yep fuck you know nothing it was crazy so i mean but that wasn't the only thing we had to cancel what were some of the things we had to cancel like naughty in new orleans hell yeah we had to cancel um some house parties um that we had planned like it was like a christmas party and i think it was a valentine's day party that that came later that came way later at that time there was just like another house party coming up oh right we were planning like another house coming up at that time you're right and that was going to be fun and i can't remember how many more couples yeah i think it was going to be at least eight to ten couples i don't know and it was going to be at a new place yeah it was it was going to be great so so sad let's not talk about the depression i know but it always gets better it always gets better so you know and during that time like you said you know we had to figure it out and like you said we did drive-bys and remember those those were kind of cool yes the drive-bys when you leave your swinger friends gifts at their door and you talk like on the lawn yeah that was how strange that was that was the first like the meet face-to-face part right was talking on your lawn for us like literally you dropped your gift off at the door ring the doorbell run back to the grass right run across to to the street and they stand on the porch and you're like in the street and you're kind of it was not sexy at all like we had on sweatpants you know your your hair was whatever it was it was just literally just to see your friend but the thing was it was very thoughtful it was right and it was kind of like one of those pay it forward things like we had some people surprise us and then we went to go surprise someone else and it was kind of like a circle and i think honestly now and i was saying it out loud i think that was the development of the bubble yes that's how we developed our bubble yeah that is you know um just our friends, taking them liquor because everybody could use a good drink.
Everybody was using some alcohol. At this time. And like you said, also the video conferences, the Zooms, that stuff was kind of fun. Remember we even watched, what was that, the video thing with the crazy porn? Hump Fest. Hump Fest. We did Hump Fest together. Have you guys watched Hump Fest?
Yeah, Hump Fest actually actually just ended uh not ended but you know what i mean like they had the the viewing a few weeks ago yes actually some of the scenes where i really really liked like i told you i like the scene when the girl was pressing on the guy's chest like that's now one of my fantasies is to wear a high heel pet lever black heel i got it all figured out i was going to get to that today too i'm going to you know press on someone's chest i don't know if it has to be a man or a woman i don't really care but yes i got i think i got the idea of it from hump fest is what i'm saying and i was kind of intrigued by that i was like oh that's hot that's awesome that was well that's well worth the price of admission just having you have a new fantasy yes i would definitely pay out again i am ready for that scene guys so our new sweet talker yeah our new sweet talker says we were not even allowed to meet family in canada no yeah we weren't either i was terrified to go see my mom i remember we did a drive-by for my mom's birthday yo that was the worst decision ever like we made everybody fucking cry it was terrible but let's move on yes let's not talk about sad crazy shit but yeah no i mean we just taking a look back it has been a year and a lot of stuff has changed so um so for us what was our swinging game like in 2020 orgies yes yes we went from harley no orgies to orgies yeah well okay let's not be let's not exaggerate it was one orgy no it was not in 2020 in 2020 oh you so you're trying to be pacific yes in 2020 because technically the other one i'm talking about in november i'm talking about yeah during quarantine like oh okay yes you're right uh someone chimed in hello sweet talker thank you for chiming in you're a loyal one too we really appreciate you uh they say we have an ls club that's 10 minutes away from us and the fact that we couldn't go was heartbreaking now we don't know if the club is going to survive this oh you know yeah that that does suck and you know it's it's going to be very interesting to see who makes it who makes it it's going to be interesting you know um about a year i guess a year about a year ago now we had uh vicky from taboo on the show we did an an episode with her.
She's the owner of Taboo Social Club in Catonsville, Maryland. You know, we got to do a check-in with her. We want to really see how she's doing. We got to do a little follow-up. Last we heard that the club was making it, you know, barely scraping by, but with the doors closed.
And that's the thing she stuck to her guns uh and kept the doors closed this entire time uh but she's making it so we're really rooting for her we definitely want to get her back on um to see what her plans are and maybe if she's uh having something or grand opening or limited capacity whatever it is we want her to be able to come out here and let you guys know about it but yeah um we definitely hope that other clubs make it and it's going to be very interesting to see who does yes yeah we appreciate that comment sweet talker um so yeah what was sweet sweet what was uh sexy times like for us it was only that one orgy but we did have a pretty good time we did have a pretty good time yes everything was kind of few good time.
Yes. Everything was kind of few and far between, especially in the beginning. Like when they told us to stay home and stop. Yeah, we did stay home. Yeah. And the thing about that, the interesting thought to that was with me was that there was no FOMO. Because we weren't the only ones who had to stay home. It was everybody.
So, you know, yeah, it was like, you're not you're not missing out on anything it was just everybody just you know home doing the same shit crying and drinking and you know it's like fuck when is this gonna be over counting down you know what i'm saying in your sweatpants huh yes working in the yard stupid shit like that but uh towards the back end of 2020 we started getting kind of selective what about you sweet talkers what was it like for y'all um did you find yourselves being more comfortable towards you know the later end of the summer uh towards the fall of 2020 were things starting to open back up for you were you um sticking to your bubble?
Because we were. Right? Trish, we had a couple of sexy little episodes where we got with a long-time couple that we played with. And you got to experience your little dominant side. What happened there? We tied her up? Yes. You with me? Yes. I'm here. We tied her up. Yes. Okay. I am here. I got to check in on you. I posted a booty picture of that on IG. I'm here. Oh, okay. Yeah, I did. Yes, it was a, okay, so it was, it was, part of it was a little bit uneventful, but I told you that. Of that episode? No, go ahead.
Yeah, so it was kind of of it was kind of uneventful for me so okay oh just that that okay hold on all right that one particular episode with the the bdsm playing around that time yeah you were saying that was uneventful it was okay okay what okay so some details that we that were good at least in my eye, you know, I got to experience, you know, tying up another woman while you watch. Now that was, yeah, I did. That was hot. That was sexy to me. That was hot. You know what I mean? Yeah, I agree with that. We were not at home and I was like working the ropes off of memory pretty much.
And it was pretty cool to try that on someone different. Have you watching, having you take pictures take pictures you know we kind of strung her arms up and we kind of spanked her and kind of dominated her together i thought that was pretty fun of that that episode now yes you're saying so the actual sex wasn't that great i'm saying that though that scene of it was just like uneventful i mean it was okay. I love the part watching you do it on a different person, right? Okay. But I think that I'm a little bit, I don't know.
So it's kind of one of those things that we had a different type of experience with our unicorn, right? And I think because she is really more into the BDSM, that experience is way different. Okay, fair enough.
Yeah yeah so so then when so when we had the other experience with the couple who's not really into bdsm but they're like hey yeah you can try it it was like it was sexy to watch you do it on her but the excitement of it for me okay was just like okay okay and i can dig that because i i'm not super experienced but i know that there are kind of like protocols with it right like and i felt like the husband kind of broke protocol he kind of broke the scene up a little bit you know uh he was a little anxious not anxious but like eager he got very eager during the uh during the scene and would kind of like interrupt with his dick you know he just kind of okay so yes then maybe that's what it yeah i just was like not it kept breaking kept breaking the scene it kept breaking the scene no that's fair okay yeah because that did bother me a little bit so let's catch up with some of the sweet talkers my uh duchess says that we got a lot of sex toys for sure yes we did we did the same thing we just you know amazon and uh you know what was this what's the site uh liberator liberator we found a whole bunch of shit there um duchess also says new kinks sensation play duchess damn it i'm gonna have to get you on the show again we got to talk about this sensation play that's awesome someone else says we were just starting to explore and then the pandemic happened and put things on hold that's unfortunate that's unfortunate and i'm sure there was a lot of people like that too right uh who were kind of just now getting hip to the game or trying to learn and you know uh just got you know got got the courage up to get online I'll see you next time.
were kind of just now getting hip to the game or trying to learn and you know uh just got you know got got the courage up to get online you know to make a profile and then next thing you know you're not allowed to meet people yep damn that sucks you know that just says that yes i love dominating with my husband yeah yeah so i want to get into it i just i just think that it gotta be in a in the right environment for sure we gotta invite our unicorn over again uh-huh or just the right couple we can figure that out yeah uh long time sweet talker chimes in what's up big guy that's my guy uh he says we have done nothing since the last time we played in our bubble yeah and that's understandable that's understandable man because this goes up and down it's like spikes and spikes and valleys you know and someone else says i got my wife a magic wand there we go that's what i'm talking about about yeah because we bought some toys during the uh during the covet too and that's when we're going to do our uh 2021 uh toy what is it uh top toys yes yeah that's when we're going to do our 2021 toy.
What is it? Top toys. Yes. Yeah, that's going to be fun. But, yeah, so we had the spanking time that you, you know, kind of a wash. Then we broke in the hot tub with some sexy folks. That was sexy. That was fun. And we had the one incredible orgy on Halloween.
And that was that was literally it you know that was it after that it was just like okay you know well you take a break yeah we had to and then i think you know the numbers started going crazy again so we had numbers started going back up again that's what it was yep and we had to shut down the christmas party that we had planned it even rolled over to valentine's day and we had to shut that shit down too yeah but everybody understood it was just like you know quarantine number you know our timelines and quarantine just wasn't going to work out no hard feelings fine let's all be safe right absolutely but that that orgy was incredible i just remember beautiful bodies beautiful bodies everywhere everywhere Yeah.
And got to play with, you know, women that I hadn't played with before. But, you know, we've been friends for a very, very long time. Got to see you play with guys that, you know, you wanted to, you know, really hit at home with. And that shit was very sexy. I just remember him hitting it from the back watching uh watching him hit it from the back that was hot yeah we gotta do that again we do gotta do that again uh-oh hey if you listening yes i just hit on you you know who you are oh damn and i have another that i haven't hit yet. That's right. You better get him. Climb that mountain.
Climb that whole mountain. Because he is a whole mountain. Uh-huh. Get him. So someone else says that we've been to small house parties. And that's fine. That's fair. That's what's up. Hopefully you had a good time. And that's what ours was. It was like a small, quote, unquote, gathering. We'll call it a gathering. And it wasn was small. It was only nine of us. Right. It was one unicorn. Bless her heart. She's a wonderful participant. But yeah. So that's what that was like during, you know, during like the end of the covid.
So now what people now what especially for, you know, people who are starting to get the vaccine, like everything's changing.
changing it's starting to change you know um just to go back to the sports reference um you know sports facilities or arenas are starting to allow participants uh not participant patrons or people to come in and watch games uh you know um and we saw it during the nfl season where people were starting to go to games wearing masks spread apart whatever things are changing and now we got this vaccine millions of people have taken it um and are feeling a little bit safer yeah a lot of swingers like our whole squad is like ready like charged and ready to go justice league who's ready to party we're ready we're ready so i got a question um so will the vaccine become like a new dating requirement what do you think trist for me yes i'm trying to say like anyone that's new like if you're in my bubble for the most part we've been doing this anyway the whole, right?
But for me to meet a whole new person that I don't know, I think yes. I think that COVID, having a vaccine is going to be a requirement. And I'm still going to ask, like, you know, how you feeling? I mean, that's why we bring it up. It's interesting.
interesting i mean i think that it would be the same thing is asking it's going to be a natural conversation to have right same like you ask like um have you are you are you good you don't have no stis or uh any of that type of stuff right do people have that conversation let's be honest like do people really have that conversation as often as we would think they do are you asking people do you have any stis i don't think so to be honest let's be real like you're not you got the herp you know you got the clap you want to share that info you want to show me your results no no i don't i really don't think people are having that conversation but we're going to have it about this vaccine and okay I see No, no, I don't.
I really don't think people are having that conversation. But we're going to have it about this vaccine. OK, I see. And to answer that question, to answer the question of, you know, will the vaccine become a new data requirement? I don't think so. I'm on the other side. I really don't think it'll be like a requirement of to bring people in because I feel that people are going to, one, a lot of people are not going to give a shit, you know. And then, two, it's going to be people who have the vaccine who believe, OK, I'm good. Right.
They're going to say whatever you have, it doesn't matter because I am good. What do you think? You're going to have people like gonna have people like that yes indeed you are i am just not one of those people but you will have people that will say that and that's fine you can believe what you want and that's okay like i am not invincible right and i'm not gonna sit there and pretend that i am so i'm still going to take some type of precaution. Yeah, I think I'm going to take some precautions, too. But I am going to feel a lot more comfortable. I really am. Indeed.
I'm going to feel so much more comfortable. I do feel more comfortable enough to go to an event. I mean, we're going. That was one of the things that we spoke about. We're going to PCAP, for example, right? We're going to PCAP in May. We'll tell you guys the details on that towards the end of the show. But we're going to PCAP. May 21st through the 24th. There you go. He got it. But that was one of the things we talked about. Like, are we going to be able to get a vaccine by then? And I was fortunate to be able to, like, I was one of the first in the first group to go in that first wave. Right.
So that made it better for us to make that decision. Definitely made us a lot more comfortable to feel like, you know, when we get down there, we're going to be, you know, we're going to be in a better situation to feel more comfortable to meet people and hang out and maybe get yourself in a crazy situation.
um and speaking of pcap and you know vaccines they actually in the pcap chat group it's an entire chat dedicated to people who have gotten vaccines yeah and there are a lot of people a lot of people almost every day someone's saying that they got the vaccine you know i'm getting my second one tomorrow and everybody's kind of cheering them on and congratulations it's pretty awesome and it's making me feel really really comfortable it's making me feel even more comfortable to go down there and just kick it and hang out with new people um you know but with that being said like trish says i'm still gonna take precautions i'm still gonna wear my mask in like crowded situations you know like today i went to the golf to the driving range and like too many people started getting around me like i i got the i got the shot dog but i still put my mask back on i still kind of you know clammed up and uh got the fuck out of there once it was time so i think we're all going to have a little bit of ptsd afterwards um so yeah let's catch up with a little sweet talkers uh so about that house party uh they responded and said that it wasn't nothing spectacular but it was something to do to get out of the house i can dig that because you know the house you go stir crazy uh and they also say i've seen parties um was that i'll see parties wanting or a requirement oh oh wanting that as a okay got it yeah let me clean that up so i've seen parties wanting that as a requirement or a recent test they're talking about the vaccine right yeah they want the vaccine or a recent test wow uh and then someone else chimes in and says that yeah people don't ask and i agree people don't really ask about you know um you know your your uh stis and all that stuff they don't really ask um and dutchess says guilty word up right you know it's that's the way that's that's often how it is i don't know if it's bad form or not but it's hard to have that conversation you know i'm asking you about covid so and i'm gonna be honest i don't know if i will i mean i'm i figure like in in conversation it's a it's probably easier to ask about the and i expect people to ask me i have a picture of my shot right in my of your of your chart of my actual chart in my phone just just so i can have it right right and that's the next conversation or topic or question uh sweet talkers was do you think the covid is going to be like a new sti you're going to consider it that people are going to and i and based on the responses i think people are just kind of like not really not really i don't think so so another question is uh trish do you think people will update their profiles with their vaccine like this i got that vaccine right right you trying to go out so i can hit it i can totally see people doing like this i got it i can totally see people going out on a date you know um just as like you know just as people put on their profiles you know what is it drug free dnd or whatever drug and disease free i bet it's gonna be ddc drug disease and covid free or some shit something yes or vaccinated sense i got that yeah or maybe no i don't think they're gonna post like pictures of their card or no no no maybe blur out their names and their info but yeah i'm i wouldn't put it past folks i wouldn't put it past folks and i don't blame you like that's fine fine by me like it would make me feel a little more comfortable if i'm scrolling on profiles and i see somebody said that they had the vaccine and they might it might start turning into like a preference too people put like preferred you know vaccine preferred you know uh if you if you have yours or whatever yeah so it's gonna be interesting man so baby what do what are the plans to resurface like because i'm literally like licking my chops i'm ready to get back out here i'm ready to go shake that ass i'm trying to i'm trying to uh keep myself like you know temper my expectations because i need to to your pace.
If we go to my pace, I'm just going to leave out the house naked. Oh, my goodness. I'm going to get arrested. It's going to be awful. I am ready. I am so ready to meet some people. I'm ready to reconnect with some folks that we didn't, weren't able to visit during the COVID. I'm just ready. I'm ready to party.
And we got folks up in new jersey we're like hey you vaccinated yet yes oh one of my sweet talkers says i'm ready to let my titties and coochie out oh bless your heart yes i'm ready to see titties and coochie just you know out like i'm excited about it man like i'm so ready i'm ready like that's like a requirement when we go on vacation or go to the beach or something i need to be able to go somewhere to pull my dick out yes you know that pmdo gotta be able to pull my dick out got it yes love it and love a new beach i i can't wait to go on vacation like to go on vacation to go to hito to go to desire and those things and i know people have been going during the covet it was just not something i wanted to do like during the actual like you know outbreak of everything but i can't wait to go to hito like right trying to go so what else sweet talkers what are y'all ready for man are y'all ready to go to clubs is that will that be your scene uh going to clubs or are you going are you ready for uh house parties uh or if you've been going to house parties are you ready for like bigger house parties you know what i mean like instead of those small intimate with your bubble are you ready to open your bubble up you know what do you think trish are you ready to go to bigger house parties so i'm'm thinking, you know, I want to go gradually.
Okay. Like, I definitely am going to go, you know, gradually because I feel like I need to learn how to be a swinger again or something. Like, because, you know, you're with your bubble a lot. And this is just being for real. You've been with your bubble for almost a year or a year practically, right? You haven't really met anybody new and all of those things.
Not to say forgot but you just need to go you know get out there and get your swag back yo that's a good point i didn't even think about it that way right like you might be a little out of practice as far as like meeting new people and having those uh initial conversations that that newness because i mean like you said earlier we definitely shut everything down and it was so crazy because we were just getting into to a lot of newness yeah we had just like uh created profiles on apps so that we could meet singles like we were ready to go and literally just said fuck it you know we ain't gonna do nothing like you know nobody's meeting anyone and there's no point in even trying to build relationships because we don't know when this is going to end so yeah that's a great point babe like yeah it's gonna be kind of out of practice yeah and so to see some sweet talkers that just says that yes to the coochie yes to the coochie i say yes all the time uh Talker says, OMG, I can't wait to go to Hedo.
Yeah. I can't wait. I think I'm trying to go in November. Yo, listen. I'll tell you about that, too. Yep, go ahead. Never Sweet Talker says that I can't wait to go back to Temptation. I still haven't been. We haven't been. I'm trying to do a double trip, though. I want to go to Temptation and then, you know, end with desire. All right.
Never Sweet Talker says that I'm ready for a hot wife situation oh man i like it exploring fantasies look at you naughty would that sweet talker uh please let me know would that be your first time doing that you know um is that something brand new for you or were you guys into the hot wife situation before the covet and you're just like ready to get it started again let me know i'm interested and someone responds to dutch's with the go ahead i can't do the yes i don't do it i can't do it right no you can't i don't know why uh-huh another long time sweet talker hey beautiful says i'm ready for the meet and greets those are fun man i love me some meet and greet those are fun like we just get to walk around and just you know put your best foot forward and you're just like smiling and handshaking we all know what we're here for yeah making those connections that's fun those those are a good time oh man i do miss a good meet and greet all right and that just says ready for a bigger house party yeah yo before the covid man we went to this house party like i swear to god that was a good house party i think that was one of the best house parties i've been to it wasn't even one of it was definitely the best it was crazy i'm talking about a pool hot tub uh a trampoline that turned into like a play play area.
It was playrooms all over the place it was like a massage table it was incredible it was a sibian yeah it was definitely you couldn't even fuck with that sibian no the sibian couldn't fuck with you yes exactly i i was that was not a good candidate for uh sibian yeah but yes that was a great party. We turned that thing on turbo. It sounded like a fucking boat was driving by. And I was like, nah. Nope. Over it. Damn. Yeah. And, you know, but it could be I had just had a baby. So it just could be my sensations at the time was just, I don't know, kind of out of whack, I think. Fair enough.
But it also could be that it's just not for me. Okay. We'll see.
Because, I mean, you don't know okay kind of out of whack i think but it also could be that it's just not for me okay we'll see because i mean you you don't really uh dig internal toys anyway no and that was definitely like an internal yeah but we just turned that vibration all the way the fuck up man it's not like a jackhammer and it was just like no damn yeah so it just all depends that pussy is dangerous babe yeah i try but uh okay yeah so what about clubs are you ready to go back to some clubs i'm definitely ready to go see vicky man i can't wait to go to table we i mean it's like home base it is home base you know i want to go in there i want to see the the normal people hopefully everybody made it through on the other side of this thing and we can go and just say hello and get a drink and tip the bartenders and tip the dj everybody who's been on a stripper pole yeah man get my groove on i bet you bring some lysol spray that damn thing yeah i got some wipes oh yeah but i mean you know it is going to be a different thought process with everything in there but i mean i i do look forward to the day we get to go back and just kick it you know yeah just just for nostalgia you know what i'm saying my friends exactly uh someone else chimes in and says i'm ready to shake my ass dance on the pole and dance on people know what i'm saying all of the wonderful things that come with the club all of the above twerk a little bit you know with your g-string on all of it right yeah i'm ready oh man and watching you do it and watching you like undress get comfortable enough to undress in the club.
Damn, it seems like a lifetime ago. I know. And I want to be able to prance around. Strut your stuff. Strut it. Love it. In the dark room with all the fun little themes. Yes. When they turn all the lights off and it's like anything anywhere. Yes. It's just people just fucking anywhere you want.
Yes oh yes so sexy that's where you get to really explore your exhibitionist side too you know you get to really like put on a show you get to just be out in the open you know even if you're not playing with other people you know you get to we got a lot of enjoyment out of just having sex out in open period and that shit was hot and just watching other people oh i long for the days i know i'm sweating and shit i promise i'm getting fucked up uh so another sweet talker says that's what we get for taking the club for granted facts we sure did we sure did like when it was there we'd be like nah not this weekend you know maybe next month or whatever but now oh definitely missing it definitely especially after this conversation i haven't really thought about it like this but i'm ready i'm here for it so what about like um opening up the bubble and meeting new people online you ready for that i am i know you are you're always ready before me i don't know yet i'm not somebody gotta be the gas and you to break babe i know i know i'm not sure i am i am ready to do like the online thing okay i'm ready to to you know put the little paddles and you I'm ready to, you know, put the little paddles in, you know, three, two, one, clear, you know, boom, give that a nice little charge and kind of revitalize our online presence to see what's out there, to start having conversations with people, to see if we can at least start maybe setting up dates to meet new people.
You know, I'm interested in that. I'm not saying, you know bam thank you ma'ams or nothing like that i understand yeah like meeting people like you know i love our bubble i love our friends but i'm sure that they're excited to meet new people as well you know everybody's kind of like you know um just excited you know uh because like we said earlier you know a lot of our friends actually are fortunate enough to have the vaccine. So I'm sure everybody's thinking what we're thinking is like, you know, OK, well, might be time to start looking around again, you know, checking, checking things out.
Someone says, I think we missed the nonjudgmental and sexy charged environment for sure. Yeah, for sure. And that's the kind of feeling that I want to get from like the resorts and everything. Yes. Yeah. So go ahead, Trish. What are you most excited for, honey? Peacock. Peacock. So Peacock is going to be my first adventure. Yeah. Peacock is in May. Podcast the Palooza. It's going to be dates again. May 21st through the 24th, man. And it's in Miami. Yeah, down in Miami. Miami is wilding out right now. Hopefully they get their shit together.
They get it together because we didn't know anything about it. They just put a curfew in for 8 o'clock. I'm like, let them get all this out right now because in May I'm trying to be topless at that pool with a drink and have my costume outfits on and look like fire fire walking down the street for sure baby that's you in sweatpants don't even try thank you babe thank you babe so just so you know peak out yeah i don't come to to play games we don't come to fuck around well not in the bad way not in a bad way so y bring it. You bring it because I'm going to bring it too.
Someone said Miami is on the loose right now. Because people know that right now Miami is kind of, or Florida has been really loose with their restrictions. People are starting to feel more comfortable. So people are actually flying in there to think, you know, hey, it's on and popping here, right? You know, you go down there and they tell your ass you got to go back to your hotel room by 8 o'clock.
you know people are actually flying in there to think you know hey it's on and popping here right you know you go down there and they tell you as you gotta go back to your hotel room by eight o'clock you know people are getting mad about it but you know it's going to get better i think it's going to get better you know with their restrictions they're going to slow all that shit down people are going to start to get vaccinated and things are going to start looking better looking up by the time it's pcap time because we coming down down. We're going to have a good time. Yes.
We're coming down to clown, man. And we hope y'all come and join us. It'd be awesome, awesome if we had, like, a sweet talker or two say hello. Yes, it'd be able to say hello in person and actually have a conversation in person. For sure. Have a drink. It would be great.
Yeah, so that's what I'm looking forward to like what um what i'm looking forward to is you know more online stuff i do want to you know make our little presence known there i'm looking forward to maybe meeting more singles having some kind of single fun there um whether it be male or female but we'll see if we can get you there your comfortability whatever makes you happy babe i am excited to see you explore your bdsm side i i know sweet talk is our too right yes so guys i will be getting into something yeah like at some point in time i want to get you those boots we got to do a little uh online shopping or whatever we gotta see if we can get you them boots that you you're talking about.
I want to see you put your foot on somebody's chest. That shit is hot. And they'll say, yes, mistress. Yes, indeed. I can do this. Did that do something for you? I think that did something for me. I'm just saying. That's hot. So, yeah, I'm interested to go down that hole. And definitely more travel. Are we thinking naughty in 2022?
yes we haven't decided we haven't decided but we're still talking about that yeah yeah negotiation right right i call that negotiation i'm thinking about 2022 um you know everybody's gonna have their shit together and it's gonna to a better look than right now right now we're getting kind of busy with 21 and we're still kind of waiting to see how things go um it's gonna be more of like a local flavor for the most part anyway we're gonna try to get out a little bit do a little traveling like i said to pcap and whatnot and we actually We just got invited to Hedo in November.
We're looking to make that shit happen yes he he's he was so excited about that we got invited by our friends uh in canada uh to go with the dirty pervs oh in november so i'm like i don't give a fuck who's going he's like i don't care what group it is it is. You ask him. See, usually the way this goes, folks, is I ask her, does she want to go somewhere? And, you know, she usually makes the decision and then we figure it out from there. This time she asked me, I'm like, what the fuck are you asking me for? Let's just do it. Like, you don't need my permission. Like, let's just go.
Whatever the dates are, figure it out. Like, we're going. I was like, okay, so he said we're going. I stay ready. I just need to figure out the dates. Stay ready. Yep. So, yeah, I mean, that's what I'm excited for. And most of all, man, and no bullshit, I'm looking forward to having an event with our Sweet Talkers. Yes. I'm looking forward to it. That's what got shut down, too. We didn't even bring that up.
We were going to have a meet and greet because that's when we had been in the game for like a few months months we wanted to do like a meet and greet and then we couldn't do it no more yeah i'm looking forward to doing that maybe we'll be able to rope in you know black and kinky and bedroom bliss be able to rope their asses in and do something yeah you know to to talk i mean but i'm really looking forward to meeting some sweet talkers man and um building this community in some kind of way because y'all some good folks man we really appreciate y'all chiming in making time to hang out um don't forget to check out duchess cashmere sorry duchess i forgot to shout out your show you know i always do that for you duchess cashmere and the cashmere room podcast always check out her sexy work always always good stuff she gave uh her last episode was like an ode to the men man like just the worship of the man and duchess that shit made me feel so good about myself girl proud to be a black man proud to be a strong sexy brother for you you made me walk with my head high after that episode y'all check that shit out it was dope it was dope but nah um so yeah i mean listen hopefully everybody's out there being safe you know we want y'all to take care of yourselves we want y'all to make the best decisions for you and your family uh you know we're just trying to do the best that we can for ours um and whatever makes us feel comfortable so we want y'all to do the same thing we want y'all to have a better 2021.
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I think she wanted to do her own thing. No. I'm not included no more. No, you're included. You're the cameraman. But it is for the most part. He's the one that's taking the pictures. But, no, it's just like because we have other content, like I said, that we want to put out there to show you guys, too, and kind of like Tris' day-to-day things that go on, different, like, video clips that are going to come up there. Yeah, it's going to be some hot shit. It's going to be some hot shit. We're working on everything. We want to have fun with that.
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