Sexy title, right?! Well, this episode is all about trying NOT to yuck your partner s yum . What might be a sexy fetish that you may enjoy or want to try, it may be a major turn-off for your partner. How do you reconcile those differences? Do you find play partners who might be into your taboo kink? Do you keep the naughty idea to yourself? Press play and find out what we and our Suite-Talkers think!As always, thanks for listening!Be sure to SUBSCRIBE, RATE, REVIEW! We appreciate any and all feedback!JOIN US in Miami, FL for PODCAST-A-PALOOZA May 21 - 24, 2021!!Check out our show and MANY others on FullSwapRadio!How to stay in-touch with us:Email: [email protected] us here for info on upcoming LIVE episodes:Instagram: @thesuitelifepodcastTwitter: @suitelifepodFacebook: Livin the Suite Life (Tryst Loq Suitelife)Don t forget to SUBSCRIBE to the Livin the Suite Life Podcast YouTube Channel!
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Living the Sweet Life is a podcast intended for mature audiences only. We'll be using sexually explicit language while discussing many different adult themes. So if you're under the age of 18, please stop listening. Also, please know that our thoughts and opinions should not be taken as professional advice. We're here to answer your questions about the swinger lifestyle. From newbies to longtime swingers, or if you're just curious, we hope to engage you all and to encourage a sex-positive discussion.
Now that we've got that out of the way, make yourself comfortable and join us It's in episode 44 of living the sweet life she is my beautiful sexy co-host and wife the lovely trist and he is my sexy chocolate husband lock and ladies and gentlemen just want to say thank you again for joining us in this episode man i can't believe babe we are at episode 44 we creeping up on 50 we getting old in this game i'm trying to tell you but nah uh this is gonna be good i'm excited as always i don't know when i'm not excited about our episodes but uh this is gonna be a little uh crossing that line right we're going to going to be toeing that line.
We're talking about spitting my mouth, baby, and all these naughty thoughts you might have. And how do you reconcile those two with your with your partner? Yeah, absolutely. Yeah. But it's going to be good, man. We're going to hear what you guys have to say about it. We want to hear how you have these naughty conversations with your partner. But first, let's knock out some of this housekeeping. Make sure you email us at the Suite Life podcast at gmail.com. Follow us on Instagram at the Suite Life podcast and follow us on Twitter at Suite Life pod.
And for all of our lovely sweet talkers who could not join us in the suite live tonight.
Always feel free to check out the podcast on all the major platforms you can find us everywhere and while you're there subscribe rate review uh we appreciate all that feedback man and uh of course subscribe to the youtube channel so you can be a sweet talker the next time you know housekeeping is uh the house is real tidy babe you know i'm I can knock knock out that housekeeping real quick nowadays huh it's very clean it's very very clean i love it so listen y'all know how it is before we get into all the nitty gritty all the naughty dirty talk all the crazy sexy stuff i always got to make sure i check in with the boot.
So, baby, how are you feeling? You know, I'm feeling like I want the winter to end. It's like winter is coming. Winter came. Now I'm ready for it to end. I'm telling you. I'm just ready for the weather to end. I'm super excited. Next week, we get to meet some of our fellow podcasters that we've met online. I was like, have we met? I paused for a second. It's like, we've never met a lot of people in person. Not in person. But we've met online.
So it'll be pretty exciting to actually meet face to face with some of our fellow podcasters next week in miami and to be able to get some sun and you know bounce ideas and hear great things and new adventures hopefully in the future exactly get up out of this house get up out of this cold weather yes get up out of this ice um the other thing that you know guys i let my swinger flag fly yeah you did by accident by accident so i'm gonna tell you what happened so we went to a um to my sister's house they just bought a new house and we haven't seen it obviously because of covid extremely vanilla extremely vanilla like sister right so we went there um to see their new house and you know congratulate them on getting a new house right so we you know your thing is you go do the house tour we do the house tour we get to the master bathroom we get to the master bathroom and i'm like oh yeah yeah cute and then i noticed the standing shower i was like oh you don't have a tub, but you have a standing shower.
And the first thing I literally say, not just think, like I thought it and said it at the same time. I was like, oh my gosh, you have a really, really big standing shower. You can fit like four people in there. And Locke's laughing. He's like so hilarious. And I said it again. And I was like, no, I'm serious. Like, you could fit, like, four people in the shower comfortable and be okay. And he's cracking up. Oh, Trish, why would you have four people in the shower, baby? Yes, that's exactly what he said. He said, why would you have four people in the shower?
And then when he said it, I was like, oh. You doubled down on that shit. Like, no, you could. You could put four people. I did.
I was like, you doubled down on that shit like no you could as I kept saying you letting your swinger show okay that's a cute shower that's all I'm saying you know all that lifestyle was just hanging hanging on out I was fascinated I was like you know how many many good like screen screenshots you can get in here and just just a whole party in this shower can happen you know um so anyways it was that was really funny that was hilarious but babe how are you feeling me baby i am like you done with this winter shit oh but i'm also excited see the glasses half full honey you got to look at the countdown we are counting down to podcast the palooza and as of today the day we're recording this we are at 89 days left 89 that is less than 90 you know what i'm saying that is less than three months we are getting ready to go see you got your double I don't know.
left 89 that is less than 90 you know what i'm saying that is less than three months we are getting ready to go see you got your double dose of the uh of the shot yes i got one half we're getting there and hopefully people coming down people getting ready uh people hopefully they get some shots too yeah you know i you know kate uh from um formerly swinging down under but now wonderlust yeah wonderlless swingers podcast and uh you know she got all the protocols in place man she's ready ready for action she's ready to take care of y'all stay ready so you don't have to get ready you know what i'm saying and it's gonna be dope like we're ready for these pool parties topless pool parties we're ready for the uh the bar just the the i'm ready for the theme night the theme nights that's what i got that on my list here man you're messing up my how you feeling but no we're getting ready for those theme nights man this is going to be a a blast like from what may 21st may 21st to the 24th we're gonna be down in miami hopefully y'all can join us uh secondly though am i how you feeling i'm feeling proud man like i'm i'm feeling proud i'm feeling honored it's black history month i know we didn't say that in the last episode but i'm feeling real good about it because of my homie the homie bomber and the beautiful bell yo they are doing this black history promo on instagram yo they they are walking the walk not just talking to talk i'm i'm really I'll see you next time.
bell yo they are doing this black history promo on instagram yo they they are walking the walk not just talking to talk i'm i'm really honored to be a part of that um they're celebrating black voices um in in the lifestyle that are firing up these mics doing the podcast thing and they're they're celebrating us so you know everybody did like a little promo thing for them. And they're firing up some videos. It's pretty dope, man. So shout out to them, man. Check out Black and Kinky podcast, man. They are dope. They are some good folks. And they're shouting out people like, who else is it?
Taurus Souls, the beautiful Duchess Cashmere, Bedroom Bliss, Mixed Nuts, and a lot more, man. So check them out. It's a lot of good stuff going on.
So I'm excited about that i like what they're doing there phew i feel like we had a lot going on yeah yeah and don't forget guys we're also um going to post the um code for the pcap we'll be doing that periodically so just check it check it out on like ig mm-hmm ig twitter we're gonna have all that good stuff yeah so uh and our show notes as well so definitely um check out the show notes and you'll see the link there all right beautiful my wonderful wife my beautiful sweet talkers are y'all ready to get into tonight's episode let's do it let's go all right ladies and gentlemen thank you for hanging in there tonight episode 44 let me spit in your mouth that's some nasty shit right so listen i want your natural unrehearsed response to this question baby will you please will you please spit in my mouth no like it's a straight up answer it's not even like oh maybe let't think about it oh you know maybe tomorrow no maybe tomorrow like straight no hey will not happen no hey real quick we got somebody in uh in the suite uh our folks at nk swingers what up good people they saying good evening how was our weekend our weekend was weekend was chill besides me, you know, talking about a shower and four people in it.
But our weekend was great. Hey, thanks for joining us. Thanks for joining us. Hey, let us know what y'all think about this conversation as well. Please. Yes, Sweet Talkers. Hi, all Sweet Talkers. How are you guys doing? How was your weekend? Feel free to chime in if it's your first time.
you can definitely just type anything in for first timers that's right don't be shy we don't bite unless you want us to sometimes now that i'll be interested in but so yeah no yeah right so the spitting thing so you said no so i mean that's why we're here right that's that's why we're talking about it, because maybe that's something that I might be into. But you might not. Well, you are not into that, obviously. You had a real natural visceral reaction. Like, you know, we let's get into how we got how we got here. That's what I was going to say. Tell me how we got here.
So we got to this, guys, because I went on a girl's trip and, you know, you go on or when you get a whole group of girls, sometimes like conversation come up. So this conversation in particular was about like, what is the most weirdest thing or do you have any limits of things that you have actually done or a limit that you won't do? Right.
So the conversation was going and it came up that one of my girlfriends said that you know she let her partner or they both spit in each other's mouths like spit in each other's mouth and my whole face and luckily i had on a mask right because we were wearing masks but my face was like no i'm sure your eyes probably bugged out your head though i was like no i'm at no and she was like you know it wasn't you know it we were just into doing like you know kinky things and i was like yeah i think that's my limit everything so and that's the thing right like so i brought the conversation back to lock and he was like but what if that was my thing Right.
Like, what I bought the conversation back to Locke and he was like, well, what if that was my thing? Right. Like, what if I wanted to get receive the spit? You know, all you got to do is let it out. All you got to do is let it out. You don't, you know, you just provide me with that thing that I want and we should be good to go. No, that's that doesn't do it for you.
I for you i no so no so then the question is like what is weird because y'all mentioned that word weird and limits right so limits yes we're we gotta really walk carefully because there are a lot of people that like that shit and this and let me be clear this episode is not about casting judgment this is about clearing judgment we're trying to clear that judgment that you your partner may have on you for wanting that nasty shit wanting something nasty or or something that may be considered nasty or taboo so we're going to talk about that we're going to figure out what those limits are we're going to talk about some of the limits that we might have or uh and we want to know what some of your limits might be and how do you address that with your partner yeah what is the definitely hard no yeah what's like your hard no yes so my question sweet talkers can partners have a different opinion on what's quote unquote weird or what your limit might be what do you think honey can partners have a different opinion on what's, quote unquote, weird or what your limit might be?
What do you think, honey? Can partners have different ideas of what might be? I don't want to play around that word weird. I want to play with like something that, yeah, like a limit, like a boundary. Yes, I think that you can have that. And that's why you could be in a lifestyle, right? Because maybe your partner is saying no, that's a hard no for them. But then you meet someone in the lifestyle that is willing to do that thing, right? And if your partner's okay with you experiencing that with someone else, then you can still get what you want, right? At the same time, I don't have to do it.
And I was going i was gonna get there too right so it's a win-win yeah it can be it can be so like part of my question was like um i wanted to find out oh not in the question but like more the answer is kind of like um everything is subjective right and just because we're married doesn't mean that you don't find something different sexy you don't find sexiness in something else that i don't necessarily see or or i'm not necessarily attracted to or whatever that can come that can manifest itself in a lot of different ways like as far as like the people that we're attracted to or like you know this this topic of like some naughty shit that you might be into that i'm not quite into right yes uh we got a sweet talker uh nk swingers that says it's probably not too weird quote unquote if the goddess jet set yeah uh jet set jasmine does it that's her thing with a bunch of naughty stuff yeah yeah right see yeah i mean that's her thing nasty or whatever that is whatever you want to call it yes so i have a friend and let's see what you guys think about this so i have a friend that one time we were just um talking you know just start talking about things and one of my friends they they said that a thing that they would like to do is that if a woman goes to the bathroom and they pee and they want them to come back and not wipe themselves and sit on his face.
Yeah. Hey, listen. And I was just like, I respect you. And I respectfully say no.
but like it didn't ask me but it was just like a um a conversation and i was like no i couldn't do that either that's some naughty it is a naughty fetish kind of thing it's a niche request it's something that that person wanted to try or whatever and that's the thing right so some at some point you might run into that person who's going to say yes yeah it might not be your spouse but that's okay right that's my opinion i think that and we're going to get to that right this is exactly what my next bullet point was was that you know to answer the question can partners have different opinions on their limits or their boundaries or what they find sexy or not and i think yes yes but how do you avoid yucking their yum how do you avoid making your partner feel like everything is no yeah or making them feel crazy or judged or you know i think that i think that it could be a very like tough conversation for some couples.
If you feel like you're going to be judged for your request. If I say, you know, you know, I want you to lick my toes, but I'm afraid of your reaction. Like you want to just like stick your finger down your throat and just puke and, you know, make me feel crazy about it. Oh, man, I'm going to be nervous about asking you that, you know, or anything after that. How do you feel about that? I can understand that. How do how do couples how do you navigate, navigate the conversation? Yeah, that's a good one. Yeah, let me ponder on that one.
No, because that one is just like hard because when you say the toe thing i was i was still stuck on the toe part and i'm just trying to figure out imagining toenails really asked me to suck your toes like how would i like kindly say no and but still try to get you what you need right so but still say i'm not the one to do that so how do you do it what do you think who with a lot of heavy breathing and probably say you know what babe i understand that's what you want and i'm here to make sure that need gets fulfilled however I don't think that i am the person that can take on that request right now and you know what i love you i love you to pieces but that's not how that shit would go that's not how that you're saying that shit in front of our friends i want to be nice you would not you would definitely say oh god it would be it'd be a much more colorful reaction they're just like than this you know tryst way of diplomatic you just gave um let me call some friends lies no you wouldn't do that at all all right but uh go ahead so one of our sweet talker says lol i had to be i had to be eating when tris mentioned the urine kind of well i hope your food tastes a little bit food tastes better but yes that conversation really happened yeah but hopefully my friend doesn't like yell at me but yes yep so uh back to the answer so yeah okay so how do you do it without yucking their yum something you already mentioned outsourcing that right outsource those toes that's what the the this a part of the swinging lifestyle is for maybe you can meet somebody who will be into that absolutely maybe you will i mean and the only way to do that is to ask.
Now, how do you do that? How do you ask for your naughty fetish in a swinging situation? What do you think? You mean from someone? Yeah. From like a visitor. Like from a person. You would just say it. Like you try to, you got to be smooth with it. You know, you can't just say, hey, you want to suck my toe? No.
Like, that's not, you try to you got to be smooth with it you know you can't just say hey you want to suck my toe no like it that's not you know you got to be smooth like hey you know um i have this this kinky fetish that i would like to do um is that a in the moment question or is it like a pre-game question like when you're getting to know them talking about maybe in the moment you think it has to be after you've built like a rapport some type of rapport right unless you just know the stranger is just into that like off the back but that's my point like right you wouldn't know that a stranger is into it unless you had that conversation prior to unless they just had some shit on their profile that says you know what i'm down for sucking toes and yes i like feet some people like feet and shit like that yes some people like feet yeah they do yeah they do um but yeah okay so right so you either you can outsource or this is the probably the least this is the frowned upon option you can shut that shit down and be like no no what do you think about that what do you think about like shutting it down saying to your partner no i don't want to do that i don't want i'm i'm out i don't want anybody else involved like i don't want to see that happen what do you think of that is that is that productive i think that we need you would need to have a conversation like multiple conversations about why that person is shutting it down and if it's like a still a firm firm no then you may have to move on from it yeah you just may gotta move on from it right um because i, is that one little thing more important in your whole entire relationship?
Probably not. Right. So you probably can move on from that. So we have some sweet talkers. Yep. Our folks at NK Swingers again says that conversations like these are why we see clear advantages to not making one partner shoulder the full responsibility of sexually gratifying you.
So your limits don't have to be your partner's limits that's smart i like that's what it's all about outsourcing right if you don't want to do it there's somebody that will do it somebody out there that will maybe you know what i mean you can if you're looking for something very specific as far as like bdsm like you and your partner, you you want to explore this BDSM shit. But your partner is just not into it. Yo, there are sites for that. Yes. There are sites that you could find that person to dominate you or that you might be able to dominate.
You know, there are places you can find these folks. There's something for everyone. For sure.
You want to get that last last one then uh okay so it says in real life his big toe would magically magically find his toes near your face and just see my toe like creeping up your chest just like crawling up next to your cheek it's like uh trying to get some head or something yes exactly and i just thought it was like a whole dick and i turned over and start sucking it but it was a toe you're like oh and so um i do so what about this and there's another um scenario so what about if um a woman was on her girl, right? And she was... Are we getting to the list? We getting there? Yeah.
Are you going? You trying to get into the list? I had another question before we got to the list. Oh, go ahead. Go on your question. All right. All right. Then we're going to start comparing the list of limits. All right. That sound good? Yep. Bet. All right. Cool. See, this is why we're supposed to pregame real thoroughly. You'd be like, nah, I'm done.
We-gamed i'm ready i'm a pro i've done this 44 times you're right baby uh so okay so then my question is like how do you allow your partner to explore that how do you do it i guess we kind of answered it really like like we said websites um trying to find out uh asking play partners or whatever what they might be into having those discussions all right fine i figured we answered that one then huh yep all right so then fine here we go so what are some of the areas that couples might disagree on sweet talkers i'm talking to y'all let us know what kind of areas that you know might be a little touchy and we're going to give y'all some examples number one spit in my mouth the title of the episode what is that one why is that one a no or first let's say is it a yes or no for you and i'll answer the same and then we'll say why or why not firm no that's a hard no why why what's what's the reason because i i you know i know like that whole thing is just like no no it's just germy and no and that's all i think about is.
And then you can say, oh, what's the difference between kissing someone? Yes. So kissing someone is one thing, right? And especially if it's my partner. I get that. But I still don't, I would not want him to, like, really, like, get phlegm up. That's nasty. Come on. Or just spit into my mouth, like, at all. That's just not.
Like a big wet just spit into my mouth like at all this is not a big wet pool yeah no this is not gonna happen all right all right um yeah right like i get repulsed just thinking about it like no like repulsed damn all right well me i'll say he's like maybe No, that is a no for me.
I not here for it nope i'll pass i'll pass on that and here's my reason so here's my thing right i don't know about y'all but when i grew up right i was growing up i would eat like a tv dinner right have y'all ever had like one of the old school tv dinners right where you throw that thing in the microwave and the outside of that shit is like hot and then you stick your fork in like the mashed potato pot and like it's cold on the inside yes i can't fuck with like that hot cold thing right so like spitting like kissing it's warm right we both got warm mouths it's warm but then the spit part like i gotta sit back there has to be distance between us so that warm spit from the time it go from they mouth to mine it get cold i'm not here for that cold wet nah nope i'm good i'll pass now if you wanted me to spit in your mouth i feel like i just all of it just be like instinctive dry mouth it'll be like just trying to get something i'll be trying too hard i don't know you know yeah i'll pass i'm good i'll do a lot of freaky shit which you'll see but i don't know i think i'll pass what do you think what's sweet talker saying uh someone said that's a no for us word up and someone else says um what's your views on breast milk since we talk in titties that's a good question now okay so breast milk like sucking breast milk out of a boob i didn't get to experience that with you you did not like after the baby you were like super sore super tender um and i saw the boobs as those belonged to the baby so i don't know that was like maybe my mental limit you know i'm saying like i saw those like your boobs were off limits yeah for some reason i don't know i mean maybe you felt different during that time i you know this one is not a hard no though oh i don't think this is a hard no for me like i could see visually how this could be done i do too um like i would definitely you would like that would have been um like sprayed breast milk all over your chest or something.
Really? You naughty girl. I think so with that. This one is not a hard no. Okay. So this is not a no for me. Oh, shit. I got to knock you up again. But no, we're not having no more kids.
So this done deal snip snip all done i'm good to go all done all right so sweet talker says that we don't kiss partners so we're definitely not spitting and someone else says not to yuck anyone's yum but i don't see the point in spitting right i mean yeah sure not and again maybe that should be the title of this episode not to yuck your yum but dot right but uh yes someone else says oh hey duchess what up duchess duchess cashmere check out the cashmere room podcast always got to give you a shout out honey we appreciate you for sure she says take a big gulp of water before you spit on a person oh savvy veteran yes she is so naughty the moisture going still not doing it what about oh man what about like sloppy blowjobs what about a sloppy blowjob you mean like dry blowjobs no sloppy baby the opposite with all the spit like all the spit like the ones you see on the points where it's like dripping well i can't say that's you no i'm saying would you do that is that oh oh oh does it turn me on to do that no not really i get it because it's like really really you know messy and and wet, and I get it, but no.
You, you're so neat. We got to messy up your sex. I guess so. Got to get your sex messy. So, let's see. The Sweet Talker says Duchess is right. We're talking about the Big Gulp, and let's see. Duchess says, it made me feel powerful. I spit on this man last night. Dang. Duchess is so nice. Duchess is a savage.
Yeah, we about to get them plane tickets girl nah man she's all she always uh come through appreciate you so yeah so okay that was the first one you got one okay so what about if a girl let's go back to this a girl is on her girl yeah right it's that time of the month and that her partner whether it be a guy or a girl wants to still eat your box out while you're on your girl running red lights huh run that red light running red lights let's see um red light okay would i do that yes would you do that nah i can wait i think i wait i think i wait like unless you really really wanted it you don't even like it regular like you don't even yes i was gonna say you know it's gonna be a no for me because regular is just like then it's definitely not gonna be if i'm on my girl and that's just because that's my preference right and that doesn't do much for me down there in that area um as far as you know oral sex sure so it's going to be clear we're not yucking nobody's yum we're just saying what we wouldn't wouldn't do yeah and especially like during a play situation like you probably don't even want to play i don't so i am more sidelined like if or most of the time we don't even go out so if i am on my girl i won't go out or if i know it's just going to be like vanilla and just so something ends up happening it's supposed to be vanilla but sometimes you know it's swingers goodness it's a panty party you know that's all it is and it's just be a panty party for me and i don't um do anything yeah panty party is uh all soft stuff you know nipples blowjobs yeah i kind of help everybody out vibrators things like that yeah we've done that before yeah and it's still a super it's a turn on for me but i just you know yeah i don't dethrone right right let's see someone else says one of our wonderful sweet talkers thank you for joining you're a regular too really appreciate you uh this sweet talker says i would do it if my partner wants that but i don't like uh head pushed down to choke me that's for the sloppy bj i think yes yeah yeah i you know and for the choking part i'm not quite down for that either it's hard to see it's kind of hard to watch like if some okay here's the thing if someone wants to choke themselves with my dick go for it like i've i've experienced that knock yourself out it's hot okay cool if you try to deep throat i'm gonna watch this thing i'm gonna watch you do that but i'm not gonna like grab the back of your head to do that i i don't know it makes me a little nervous about that like i'm real careful with boundaries and and consent and all that shit all right so now sweet talker says how far does dirty talk go for y'all oh wait oh we're going to get to wait that one we're going to pause that one see see so and i'm reading the rest of it because we're actually going to get to that nk swingers knows exactly where this is going yes this ain't y'all first rodeo with this uh boundary shit huh so another sweet talker says i can't do pain that's my limit for the most part word up we're gonna yeah we're gonna kind of get to this one too yes no let's let's address that or do you yeah so okay so wait no i went last okay so I don't know.
we're gonna yeah we're gonna kind of get to this one too yes no let's let's address that or do you yeah so okay so wait no i went last okay so then it's my turn yes it's your turn all right here's another one let's talk about this shit what about coming on you coming on you coming in your mouth squirting on you uh squirting on me what's your answer especially like let's think play situation yes so so if it's you yes i would like you know go ahead and come on me if it's a complete stranger i don't know if i would do that maybe not a complete stranger like if it was friends yeah familiar then yeah i would do that yeah i would do that i would do that for sure would do that oh like on me so i'm not a big and the other thing is i'm not a big come in my mouth girl um that shit gotta be like my birthday like it better be like my 40th yeah i like i'm not a big come in my mouth right girl and swallow like that whole thing is just not for me but i think i can i can literally count on one hand how many times you have let me do that yes come in your mouth yes um and and it's not that it's not like it i'm definitely am not saying guys that oh you know you should not do that it's not what i'm saying at not saying, guys, that, oh, you know, you should not do that.
It's not what I'm saying at all. It's just not a thing for me. Is it like texture? Yes. That's what it is. Exactly what it is. It's one of those things. Have you ever eaten something, like had something and you just didn't like the actual texture of that thing? And it doesn't mean the taste part. It's just the texture of it. Yeah, man. Your damn trace leches. Yes.
It's, it taste part it's just the texture of it yeah man you uh your damn trace leches yes it's like that i don't like um a big okay so this is a good example i don't like oysters clams those things like reminds me of the texture of like cum i can't do it like okay and there's nothing wrong with that that's not the first time anybody's heard any woman say that ever. You know what I'm saying? Like, that's understandable, right? Yes. So, wait. Me? Oh. Go ahead. Catch us. Sweet Talker says that don't squirt on me. I have to know if the girl is a squirter. Oh. Right, right.
I've seen some girls that are, like, freaking water over the room like i was just like i can't do that like i don't like i mean that's like a uh magical that you can even do that right it's like go girl go but yeah i don't want it on me at all uh so necessary talker says that the guy can come on me just not in my mouth only my partner can come in my mouth and then swallow it yeah see and that's for me it has to be like a partner like my actual partner things for the mouth part and that's like only i don't know five times this whole lifetime so less than less less than five times less than no i still got some digits left on that one hand we're working on that shit all right so how do you feel about this lock how you really feel god damn it okay stay professional lock okay here we go no you didn't how do you feel about it i know yeah no no no i'm gonna say all that shit is hot period point blank period like to come on you to come in your mouth to come in her mouth to come on her ass or boobs or whatever here for it here for it that's his favorite thing actually is to come on my ass that is i think you've done that a few times yeah i can say that right countless yes throughout the right?
Countless. Yes. Throughout the years. But what about a girl squirting? Love it. No, on you. Here for it. Not me. Stranger. Did I stutter? I'm just trying to be clear. I'm here for that. Shit. Yes. Squirt all over me. And that's happened too. Like that's happened. Like squirted on my fingers. Squirted on my dick.
All over the place and i had a jolly good time making her do it it's fantastic no i love that shit um it's it's very exciting it's very like rewarding it feels rewarding even though if i'm not mistaken all my beautiful squirters let me know you're not necessarily having like an orgasm like um an orgasm in the in the uh sense, right? I think it's another kind of sensation that you might be feeling. But to me, that felt like she was just coming all over the place. And it was just, I'm doing all this magic. Like, you know, but she's just a squirter. And it was awesome.
And I love every minute of it. And look forward to doing stuff like that again. I mean, I love like getting you there too. like.
You're not like a squirtter and it was awesome and i love every minute of it and uh look forward to doing stuff like that again i mean i love like getting you there too like you're not like a squirter squirter all over the place even though you have splashed on me before but you're like a major gusher under certain circumstances i'm a gusher yeah and that should be like good god that's like two episodes in a row you done got me all horny geez hey listen go ahead catch up with your sweet talkers and stop playing it's just not like all right man come on let me see where are we stop it uh the guy can come on okay we've got that one uh duchess says nope hard pass hmm duchess which one is she's talking about the coming in my mouth oh okay word up yeah all right but you'll spit on somebody asap that a girl yes uh the homie at nk swinger says do y'all have reservations about god damn it listen if you don't get the hell out my notes i didn't read that because i saw it he says i'm speaking about trist if i need to be clear oh yeah we're gonna get somebody going to my booty hole i mean i'm good i'm straight about that like you know whatever like if that is your thing i'll have somebody lick my booty hole i'm here for I'm straight about that.
Like, you know, whatever. If that is your thing. I'll have somebody lick my booty hole. I'm here for that. Yeah. How about that? That's one. That's a limit. I didn't even write that one down. I'm here for that one. You lick my booty hole, babe. We can outsource that one, too. I'm fine with that. But, yeah. Okay. So, they need to get out my notes. Stop playing.
Dutchess says, only on the solstice word up yes that's when i get it too all right dutchess also says that's something we outsource for sure and okay cool so i have one guys i have one so and and this is i haven't done this yet but it's in my brain that i want to do this eventually one day so i would like to put on some heels really really sexy heels and i have a vision that they're going to be like pet and liver black for some reason but really really sexy heels and i want to press on a man's chest with my heels okay on or a woman's ass. I was about to say, is it just a man in this fantasy?
No, or a man's chest or a woman's ass with my heel. Like really, really sexy. Okay. Like, are you going to press firmly on her ass? Yeah, I will let them say how hard you want it. Ooh.
I just i want i imagine michelle pfeiffer's cat woman oh like i imagine you in that kind of shit like that whole black leather with the whip i imagine the whip more than anything necessarily the whole head garb but like the whip the long whip but i definitely want to do that so sign up let me know if you're interested yes the sweet life podcast at gmail.com i'm here for that hey i'm not gonna yuck your yum definitely and i want to be clear we're not yucking nobody's yum in this conversation folks oh that sweet talker says that what if her ass is in hands and it turns out it can turn out messy yeah you might pop that bubble yeah shit come oozing out oh that's not nice that's not nice i'm sure they make them well we're looking for not no i don't even want to discriminate discriminate next the next one i have what about what nk was referring to?
Name calling. How liberal are you with the name calling? You know, when it comes to bitch, slut, all that nasty shit. You know what I'm saying? Like when when people go like that, is that something that's a limit to you, Trist? Is that something that makes you comfortable?
Are you good with that are you good with being called that no I don't think so like I uh well okay so slut whore possibly yes I could do that like you know it's in a play situation like you know you want to be my slut sure i can you know be your whore bitch no like that's the line it's it's bitch is a strong line for me in any outside of a play situation so i i don't use that word very lightly like if i say it you know i'm not meaning it in a very nice way it's not nice at all right right so what about you for me i gotta be honest that one kind of makes me uncomfortable i don't know what it is i feel like i i'd have a tough time calling you all sorts of whores and sluts and things like that i can talk some shit but i don't know i gotta be i feel like i need to walk lightly with the name calling like i don't know i don't know how i feel about the name calling um yeah we spoke about that earlier yeah like you know i'll talk some shit like bring your little ass over here but i don't know about like you know just you know name calling the name calling part is kind of tough for me so that's a limit that might be a little bit of a limit for me, you know.
So, yeah, outsource. Outsource it. Outsource it. Yeah. And honestly, and when I think about it, I probably even have a little bit of a tough time listening to somebody call you a bitch. Yeah, you told me that. Yeah, I might have a little bit of a tough time with that one. But I mean, like the other stuff, that might be okay if you're okay with it.
You know, I have to, I don't to like it'd have to be real situational and i'd have to see that you're turned turned on by it okay if i hear you saying oh or you know responding with like yes sir or some shit like that and you're getting yeah that might do it for me that might make me okay okay yeah someone says that i'm here for the domination trist yeah that's right baby and they also say no name no name calling word up okay you got another one yes so what about this so i also have another scenario um maybe a girl with a gag and she's tied up wait are we talking fantasy are we just getting into the mind of trish no it's just like a limit right and we're talking about your this is very would do this is very specific to say like i would like what i would do is put a girl in a gag and um of course tie her up and spank her okay that sounds like a fantasy babe that doesn't sound like a limit that sounds like something Trish wants and I'm taking notes I'm taking notes I'm here for this maybe I guess yeah so you're just trying to spank somebody yeah okay tie her up am I doing the time.
Am I doing the time? Yes, you'll be doing the time. And then you want to do the spanking. That's right. All right, so we're going to save that whole thing for another episode. That's not a limit. That's a request. I'm here for it. So how about this? Okay. As a limit. Okay.
Or as something that might be a little taboo okay uh and it goes to what our homie said anal sex anal sex slash double penetration uh huh double penetration okay got it um you know someone fucking you in your vagina and someone fucking you in your ass Got it now i got the vision okay so what is that yes or no no so i am not down in general for anal so that's definitely not gonna happen like with the whole double penetration thing i don't know so i've tried the anal plugs we've done that before and then um had the plug-in and you know and then we had sex but however a plug and a dick two different things I don't know if I can graduate to that so I'm not saying maybe a hard no I don't know i just don't think anal play is for me there's nothing wrong with that well okay i'm not speaking for you i'm just going by our experiences not with a penis right i mean okay i'm gonna ask that i'm asking that so is it only no anal for penises for dicks hmm you know i never thought about that part like that Okay?
only no anal for penises for dicks you know i never thought about that part like that so i'm going can i answer for you yes based on experiences you go ahead you're my therapist you know you're sitting here like you don't know the answer to the question i know what the answer is but go ahead it's yes like that's what you've done yeah that that's what we've done like um like you said we've had the um the the butt plug while i was fucking you yes and from what i remember tell me from your experience it was an amazing experience all i know is was one of them times you was splashing one of them gushes.
Well, so I can't say a firm no for this one. I think it's more so I don't think I'm moving, graduating to a penis. Right, right. How about that? And there's nothing wrong with that. There's nothing wrong with that. You know what I'm saying? Do you ever envision like moving up in size of butt plugs? That can be possible. Okay.
That part is a possibility okay i think so word out what about you babe what do you think about it double penetration i'm i'm here for it like um i'm here to volunteer my penis whenever it is available and ready and anybody wants to use it for that i am here you know i'm here for it i'm here to help yeah i'm here i'll gladly help like no i mean we've been in some play situations where you know the the term came up like uh anybody down for double penetration you know uh it was like an orgy that we was in and somebody threw out the the term double penetration and uh i was ready to go but he's like yes i'll do that i will volunteer my services but it turned out to not happen but i think that's something that's on my list of things i want to try um you and i have played with a toy um recently where it kind of provided that double vaginal penetration correct yes it kind of gave you that kind of sensation what did what was that like did it feel crowded in there no it didn't feel crowded in there because a whole baby comes out of there i mean but i mean baby ain't been out in there in a couple years now i mean yes but it didn't know did it give like um did you enjoy that sensation so we're still trying to figure out that toy it's just that because it gets weird angles in there while the dick is in there at the same time so it's trying to figure out the way it needs to be when the penis is actually in there at the same time um so once we figure that out i think it'll be a better experience though but yeah so it was kind of it was uncomfortable like when we were in certain positions um so we're just trying to figure it out so then my next question would be would you be here for the double vaginal penetration yes two penises oh no no no and two penises the same size as yours no i'm okay i no i need my vagina to be in full intact afterwards i don't need two of your dicks inside of me okay i mean i was just wondering i'm trying to know boundaries but like you know like i said i'm here for it like in a play situation if somebody wants to experiment and it's their first time and we had that conversation prior to and they're ready to go and the husband is ready to go and everybody is is ready to try it or even if they've done it before and they just want me to have that experience here for it he's here to help uh catching up with the sweet talkers uh duchess says that teamwork makes the dream work yeah and then someone says that that's a hard no for my partner i think that's the double penetration yeah and someone else says uh can lock kiss a lady friend or play partner hello goodbye outside of play situations mistress like if we just went to dinner or something with some with a play partner can i just kiss her goodbye can i kiss her hey hey boo yes i think you've done that that's what i was trying to think i believe you've done that before yeah yeah too yeah i think so that that's i don't think that's a thing yeah that's the thing for us like i'm i'm good with that and you're i i don't think so.
That's, I don't think that's a thing. Yeah. I don't think that's a thing for us. Like, I'm good with that. And you're, I don't know. I think so. Yeah, I'm good for that. I mean, we've been out sometimes with partners and people didn't even know who was with who before. Yeah. It was super confusing to them. But yes, I, okay. I mean, even if he went out to dinner with some of our other partners and, you know, they kissed, cool. I feel like people respect your boundaries, like, once you've developed that kind of, like, relationship, right? Exactly, exactly.
So, we got a couple more, just a couple more, a little, I want to kind of see where Trish's head is at, and I already know, really.
really here you go if y'all haven't caught on to the theme it's typically no for this woman right now you surprised me with a couple of maybes maybe what about uh water sports babe you gonna pee on me no like if you know if i can't even get to like spitting and you're asking for a lot i'm definitely not peeing on you what about in the shower no just pee on my leg no can i pee on your leg no and i am here for everyone else if that is your thing but i am not no no so mean would you do it no let me see okay hold on let me let me slow down you you would pee if we was in the shower i don't think it i don't know if it would be like physically possible for me to pee when you ask me to you know what i'm saying i don't i don't know if i have that in me i don't know i'm pretty sure like i could muster it up to pee to pee if if it was really really needed like if you really was like just pee on me you know maybe i could and like an emergency maybe so yes you know it's an emergency yes i would pee on you if i needed to like if you got stung by a huge jellyfish and they say oh pee on him i would pee on you on demand like it was nobody's business and then what if i was like oh i would probably laugh in that moment actually that if you just did that and i'm like he actually liked it but just to like in a sexual situation no i'm not peeing on you i might be able to pee on you like i said if i had to muster it up um but i it'd be more likely to happen in the shower like if he was in the shower and you just had pee on me i probably would be able to get that out uh just because it's warm water flowing and i might be able to do that and i'd probably be laughing i don't know if i get anything sexual out of it but if you wanted to get something out of it i might be able to muster that up it's not a desire for me but if you had that desire and you found somebody that was down for peeing on you get that golden shower go ahead do it and just get cleaned up real good like get real real cleaned up get real cleaned up so sweet talker says by the way back on that coming thing uh i'm here for somebody coming on you by the way like if if you wanted somebody to come on your butt like uh you know during a play session and you wanted that to happen i'm here for that too like i'm here to watch that like that'd be kind of hot okay call me kinky but uh yeah here for it so sweet talker says that that's crazy i was just watching an episode of boondocks with r kelly the r kelly trial the r kelly episode dutchess says uh no no word up she says nope that's what's up okay what about solo play see this is this one isn't that atypical right this one isn't so odd a lot of people do this but you and i don't yes but um you know that's something that might be a boundary that might be something that we could revisit um how do you feel about that you, we've talked about it like briefly.
I'm not sure yet. I don't think I'm there yet to do solo play for you. I don't even think I'm there to do solo play with myself yet. I might flirt with the idea, you know, and, you know, flirt with people here and there. But I don't know if I'm there for solo play.
Like unless you went out of town for a long time then i could see that you know doing solo play and you were you know in in that situation but i don't know yet if i'm there yet okay i think i'm getting there too i think i'm honestly i think i'm kind of getting there i get uh a little turned on by the idea of seeing you get dressed up and go out on a date i didn't expect this didn't expect to have that kind of thought but a date with like a couple or a date like with a single guy a single girl like how what do you mean by that good question let's elaborate on what you're saying that's a good question and honestly i think it might be all of the above oh i think it might be all of the above um you know i don't know how i've gotten to this point but i think it's it's more about i think it's about like seeing you be sexual period i like it when you're sexual i like it when you get all dolled up i like smelling you i like uh i like the idea of you being in a sexy situation um of course i like i still have that voyeur tendency right so i still want to see stuff like i want to see pictures or whatever or videos and things like that i want to hear the story like i want you to give me the story too i don't want you to just go out there and just come back and be like hey babe how was it you it was fine no i want to know i wanted to i wanted to feel like i was there because that's the thing that i get out of swinging with you um is the fact that i get to watch you too you know so to have you go out and do your thing i'm kind of leaning towards it like i'm i don't know i might not i might be here for it so i mean i think this is something to continue uh talking about talking through all right so sweet talker says how do you feel about potential partners don't skip over dutchess dutch says that yes we have uh done solo play and then someone else says no but uh go ahead so dutchess let us know how does that work out for you guys like it's are you both doing solo play and then you just come back you know and kind of tell each other like what happened um how are you guys doing it uh and here's one more thing though what about separate room would you do separate room like we're in the same situation um and we're with the same couple or whatever and you and the guy go into one room and me and the lady go to the other room would you be here for that that one i could say yes already like i think i'm there for that one already yeah i think i'm here for that too yeah baby steps yep baby steps uh go ahead get to the question so next we talk it says how do you feel about potential partners asking for nudes or exchanging nudes?
Here for it. Here for it. We do that. Yeah. No face, no case, though. Yes. We do that. When it comes to, like, potential partners or new partners, yeah, we're here for that. Typically, I like to take pictures during a sexy scene, of course, with everybody's permission or whatever.
But, yeah, I like to take the take the picture i like to take pictures i like being in pictures and shit is hot i like videos the whole thing yeah we're here for that um yeah no sweet talker says that i like to see what's going on for sure separate rooms yeah yep same here i like to see what's going on but i also like to have a little bit of imagination like i think that's where i'm going with this now it's kind of like i like envisioning too like i kind of like imagining what might be going on i don't know and i'm also here for like solo play for myself too like don't get me wrong like yeah you can go i have some fun too but i i would like to see what it's like to uh go out and play by myself too um it's not necessarily a top desire though You know what I mean, it's something I would like to try.
But I do. I get more out of it when you're there. I get more confidence when you're there. Okay. I feel sexier as a team for some reason, too, you know? Yep. So Duchess says, yes, the sharing of the story together afterwards is super hot. Okay. Yeah. And then she said also that we usually reconnect very soon. Yeah. And, and again, she adds to say the separate rooms too, but our favorite is same room. We like to look at each other. I like that too. Like same room thing. I get so much energy off of just looking at him and looking at what he's doing. It kind of like drives me for what'm doing.
And I get more turned on by seeing what he's doing. So, yeah, I don't. That's why it's just like I, in my head, single play sounds great, but I don't know yet.
Like, I just feel like, you know, I still need that other energy to, like, just, you know, drive drive i can dig that we'll see uh nk swinger says what is the nice way to let the couple know that you're only interested in one of the partners mistress how would you navigate not being attracted to one of them and communicating this they saying uh yeah what if they only want to play with miss trist and not lock you know i'm saying like that kind of situation how do you actually how would you say that so how would i say that if i wanted to only play with one of the partners in a couple right uh i don't think i don't think that we've been in that type of situation like if we've only if i'm only attracted to one person like and i'm not attracted to both people we typically don't or haven't gone into the situation like at all it has to be an attraction for both or none at all and it doesn't mean that we necessarily have to play with both people it's just that i feel like that if i have that that baseline that if something potentially can happen with all four of us then i'm good i don't want to go into a situation where i'm only attracted to one person and then i have to do the whole conversation of well i really you know just want to have sex with your husband and I'm really, I'm not, you know, trying to do anything with you because I'm not attracted to you.
Does that fall under, uh, taking one for the team? Yes. So I don't do that.
Um, but as far as with us, if a couple approached us and they were only attracted to me and not to him the same thing we've we've always we've actually talked about this before um early on in our play situations is that we won't play yeah like if we you have to be attracted to both of us or none at all and it doesn't mean that he necessarily has to do anything in the situation it's just that if you say oh i'm only attracted to we won't play yeah no like there are times you've sat on like done we've it just been like some soft swap and you've done nothing and you just did things with me yeah you both husbands not not just you by yourself i'm saying that and then it was just like you know soft play and then you joined in okay hmm trying to remember that was very early on yeah i'm trying to remember what that was was that something that was like our first time actually i was about to say was that a situation where they weren't attracted to me is that it is that no no no not it's not that they weren't attracted to you at all it's just that they didn't want you like husbands involved oh yeah no that was just a typical right a soft soft swap yes our very first soft swap situation actually we did have okay so let me back up we did have one situation like that like one in our whole entire time in the lifestyle georgia when we went to the club remember oh yeah we did play with her so we played with a young lady that well you did you did it was more right but i felt like okay so if i was more of a vet like it like now yeah i felt like that situation would have went of different okay so here's the situation y'all we're gonna i'm gonna do it real quick so we went to georgia right we went to try out uh trapeze and we hung out in the club and we met this couple in quotation marks they just got into the club together i think they were like facebook friends a guy who was not hot but the woman was smoking fire smoking hot fire like she was bad um you know we hung out with them we was just like literally just kicking it um and eventually one thing led to another but it was only for the ladies like the ladies got to play together like you know Trist and her looked like they got into a fucking fight like they were just banging on each other so damn hard it was incredible like they it was like an audience just watching them to just bump and grab and and lick and all that stuff it was crazy um and I think what Trist was getting at was that we would have definitely if we were more savvy veterans at the time we would have pulled her from him and he was cool with it because with it yeah she was basically just his ticket to get in the door um but we didn't do that we didn't feel comfortable at that time to do that to separate them and just say you know what you're not attracted to you yeah we're not attracted to you but we'll take her though yes thanks buddy and that's been the only time i think that we've been in that situation facts yeah and we've never been on the other side where someone wanted just one of us right if they did they didn't say it and we didn't know right we didn't play with him anyway right all right cool that was the whole list so now is there any room for growth or compromise um do you feel comfortable saying never in any for all of these or any of these uh is there is it more of like a never say never kind of situation with a lot or with any of them no that we've named because i'm never doing the spit thing what about the double penetration like uh the butt plugs the butt plugs is a thing but not the penises not the penises no and not the two penises no and coming in your mouth never is it like you're 40th or something not me like somebody else oh no that's never it's never happening it's not happening no no no all right well well just just let them come on your belly or your butt that'd be that'd be hot okay okay you're a trip and what about like the name calling that one i could see that one i'll never say never on that one and that might come up one day i'll never i just won't say never on that right uh double penetration i'm here for that water sports i might end up peeing on you one day oh you might be no pain on me on my leg get stung by a jellyfish i'll play on you and the separate rooms never say never yeah so let's just get into this so we can wrap this up sweet talker says that what what is a nice way.
Oh, we read that one. Is it awkward if there is a mutual attraction, but the woman is not bisexual? Yes. I've actually heard that before. Early on, we knew a woman that was not bisexual at all, and she was just in it for the penis. Yeah. That was her thing.
But is it awkward, though awkward though no because i just feel like you could just say that you know i'm not into you know girl play at all yeah and i'm just you know want to have sex cool yeah you can borrow him here for it he's here for it don't worry have you ever said never but then like uh ultimately change your mind at some point sweet talkers let me know if y'all ever said never and then was like you know what damn i thought i'd never do this yes what'd you think i think so full swapping full swap we did say that we said we would never full swap early on and now i can't remember not doing it yeah i can't i mean it's not a requirement for every time right it's not a requirement but you know that was that's it's just where we are yes and what about like bdsm that was something you said no never thought i would do i never thought i'd get into that you know i always thought that was like weird shit i thought it was crazy i thought it was scary but now i'm i'm here for it i'm here for it i like having my toes in the water i can't say i'm a savvy veteran but you know um i like the dynamic that it provides and that just says that i said i never would take a flogging i love a good vlog and now she likes a vlog i love a good vlog now she got all the little purple devils yeah And do i never thought i would do that shit but it's so hot man and what about like kissing a girl you ever thought you'd do that i think it depends on the girl honestly no like i didn't think i would do it but sometimes you know some women are like okay i'll give you a little smooch yeah so.
So what advice do we give? Let's wrap it up. Let's give some like, uh, let's bring it home. Try not to yuck your yum. Yeah. Try not to yuck your partner's yum. I think it's all about exploration, right? Like we're, we're talking about like exploring boundaries with your partner and it all comes back to communication, right? We're always talking about just keep talking, just keep talking, keep throwing shit. Uh, what is it?
Throw something against the wall and see if it sticks and just see and again if your partner isn't comfortable um that's what the lifestyle is about outsourcing trying to see if you could find maybe somebody who's into that shit outsource it yeah i'm sure tris will definitely find a guy that she can uh put a uh long heel in his chest yes i guarantee it we probably get flooded with emails right after this episode send me a dm and i will take you shopping to go get them and make sure i got the camera and some pictures i might let you do that to me i don't know we'll see but yeah i think that's what it's all about y'all you know having those um those conversations try not to yuck your partners young trish was very really diplomatic in her answer earlier even though i know it's bullshit but i think that's the way you should try to address it like if somebody say you know will you spit in my mouth well maybe i maybe I won't, but we can find someone who will.
Absolutely. It's about growth. It is about growth. All right. Well, this has been fun. Dutchess and K swingers, all my other sweet talkers. Listen, we really appreciate y'all. Every time y'all decide to log in on a Sunday night, man, thank y'all so much for joining us. Y'all be safe. you know y'all taking care of yourselves out there hopefully you know y'all staying safe from this covid hopefully you guys if you're down in texas in texas hopefully you're making it um power and water is crazy down there y'all just please be safe we love yall. And I think that's all we got. Oh, right.
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