We had a lot to say in this one! We gave our Suite-Talkers the opportunity to ask questions and share their opinions on the whole Jada-August-Will “Entanglements” situation and our Suite-Talkers did not disappoint!Also, we revisited the infamous C-word: Communication! This word can be overused and even misused. So, we decided to break it down and tell it how it is from our perspective. We get a little vulnerable and share where we’ve fucked it right up. Take a listen and find out how you might be able to learn from our mistakes.Oh, and let’s not forget - it’s time for another installment of Tryst’s Sexy Toy Chest! In this episode, we review the Lelo Sona Cruise! Wow!As always, thanks so much for listening!Enjoy!Check out AltPlayGround for an awesome lifestyle experience! Be sure to SUBSCRIBE, RATE, REVIEW! We appreciate any and all feedback!How to stay in-touch with us:Email: [email protected] us here for info on upcoming LIVE episodes:Instagram: @thesuitelifepodcastTwitter: @suitelifepodFacebook: Livin the Suite Life (Tryst Loq Suitelife)Don t forget to SUBSCRIBE to the Livin the Suite Life Podcast YouTube Channel!
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Now that we've got that out of the way, make yourself comfortable and join us of living the Sweet Life. She is my beautiful, sexy co-host and wife, the lovely Trist. And he is my wonderful, sexy chocolate husband, Locke. And this episode is brought to you by our friends at altplayground.net. Altplayground.net is more than just a meet and greet for you sexy folks out there. I don't know. I don like yourselves. It's a great resource for everything in LS. They have great features like the podcast corner and conferences. For sure, man. Those are all great resources. But guess what, baby?
It's time to add another awesome feature to the list of what alt playground already offers and we're talking about forums that's right in the forums module you can make some new friends by joining in on all sorts of fun sexy conversations and discussions about whatever you can imagine right also alt playground continues to create ways for you to interact with open-minded people and learn about all things non-monogamy but most importantly right now folks I definitely want to give a shout out to all of our awesome awesome sweet talkers who have joined altplayground.net you guys have heard about all the good stuff that they're offering and you were able to jump over there and represent the sweet talker community man so we are loving that we are appreciating it and ever since uh the national rollout on june 1st the numbers for uh apg have increased and we got you guys to thank for that man so we really appreciate you and um you know let's keep kicking it over there and jump in the community hang out with us send some pics let's talk some shit and let's have a good time absolutely thank you sweet talkers for joining that's right so let's get to some housekeeping folks real quick always feel free that you can email us if you have any questions or comments anything like that email us at the sweet life podcast at gmail.com follow us on instagram at the sweet life podcast there follow us on twitter at sweet life pod if you feel so inclined you can go ahead and check us out on facebook at trist lock sweet life and for all of our awesome sweet talkers who couldn't join us live in the suite tonight always feel free to check out the podcast on all the major platforms you got your itunes stitcher spotify google play iheart radio etc.
Go down the line. You can find us, right? Absolutely. Man, I'm telling you. So, but the big thing is, folks, guess what? We have launched. First of all, we have built together and launched our website, right? Blood, sweat, and tears. I'm telling you. I'm telling you. Yeah.
It took a lot to get into that man to really like you know try to figure out how to build the thing but we figured it out we sat down we grinded it out and um living the sweet life podcast.com is live so you can you'll be able to find uh some more information about us uh you'll be able to check out a lot of our episodes in one spot and just see some cool pictures. Everything on there is us. Isn't that right? Yes. The great thing about our website, guys, is that we want it to be our authentic self. Yeah. So most of our pictures are actually us. Yeah, man.
So, yeah, I mean, it took a lot of work, but we're proud of it. You know what what i'm saying so jump on over there check it out let us know what you think yeah the other sides no yeah absolutely not throwing shade to you guys is all love it's didn't even need to be said it's just something that we're very very proud of and you know we want to know what you guys think so you know it definitely has uh some kinks that i need to work out but i'm tired of looking at that shit. So I had to put it to the side. Just throw it out to the world.
Yeah, throw it out to the world and y'all tell me what y'all think, man. So as always, you know, when you're over there and you're checking out the podcast, make sure you subscribe, you rate and review. We really look at those things, man.
We take your feedback and we try to process it and understand what you're looking for and you know make the show better for you so take some time man uh rate us and review us we really appreciate it it makes us a little bit more searchable uh we can have more sweet talkers more sweet talkers mean we have more opinions more opinions mean we have a better show so absolutely you know we got we want to cover the spectrum um so holla at us you know what i'm saying holla so uh i think i covered everything in the housekeeping honey bun i think you nailed it so you know how it is baby before we get into any of this naughty business i always got to check on you so baby how you feeling well you know i wanted to share an article with you guys that i actually found by accident but i thought it is relevant and it's pretty cool to show how we're progressing See you next time.
Well, you know, I wanted to share an article with you guys that I actually found by accident. But I thought it is relevant and it's pretty cool to show how we are progressing in the lifestyle. All right. So there's a city called Sumnerville. I believe this is how it's pronounced. It's in Massachusetts.
Do not kill me if it's pronounced wrong but their city of sumnerville massachusetts where they basically have changed the rules of what they consider a domestic partnership so a domestic partnership now is is basically identified as the entity formed by people instead of two persons they've also replaced pronouns of he and she as they right so Thank you.
people instead of two persons they've also replaced pronouns of he and she as they right so there is no he she now you are they it also allows two or more people to be in a domestic partnership instead of two right so basically what this means guys this is a very groundbreaking thing that polyamorous partners can now file a domestic partnership within the city. That's major. Yeah, man. Like you said, that's groundbreaking, man, because, you know, these nontraditional relationships are getting some kind of protection. And that's huge, man. They got health care issues, man.
You got things got things you got you got people that need this stuff and you said like uh like you said before it became prevalent because of covid it did it came up because of the coronavirus and people weren't able to see their loved ones because they weren't married um and that's why they changed the rules yeah so they changed the rules to get these people some kind leeway, some kind of freedom to see your loved ones, show support, and provide those health care benefits that they greatly need these days. So, I mean, that's just awesome for the community.
It's a little surprising that it's in no shade to anybody up there, but it's surprising that it came out of Massachusetts. But, you know, that's awesome.
And hopefully it continues on that way in other um in other areas yeah other nations so so kudos to massachusetts the city of somerville that's what's up all right so honey how you feeling baby i gotta be honest honey i'm feeling the way the weekend started i was feeling ready like i'm talking about ready to get into some shit i'm ready to get back into the ls i'm ready to get back out there and start partying with our friends i mean because we've been we've been teetering on the line let's just be real here like we've been hanging out with people we've been going to um you know backyard barbecues and having people come over and have drinks and everything the only thing missing is the sex yes very vanilla but very very vanilla but it was great to see people i'm getting so amped up i'm getting so like uh horny i guess it you know what i'm saying like i'm ready to just let it go like and just you know hey if i don't know let the chips fall but it gets still it still gets scary and speaking of scary right so the whole coronavirus has changed a lot of things and one of the things that was on our docket for the year was naughty in new orleans darn i know naughty in new orleans uh they have moved the uh event to august but in honor of the people who were supposed to do uh supposed to go down last week what they did was they moved everything to be virtual yes which was awesome it was a great idea it was a great idea i gotta say it was a great idea um so they they still had a lot of the same conferences or not conferences the same um workshops workshops yes um and chat rooms with different themes or whatever uh we missed some of the things um but the things that we did participate in it was just okay it was just okay it was it was all right like in the first days but what we had to keep in mind was that this stuff was still going on during during the week it started during the week it was like thursday wednesday wednesday night yeah thursday night and we still got a kid you know we still got life matters and we still got to go to work the next day so and i found it to be challenging for probably for some people too so they weren't able to really join so you can't really give a lot of feedback about those days it was okay we joined them and we had a good time i partied wednesday night we did we did day one wednesday night we partied uh we we turned on the camera they had a good dj they did that dj was slamming and he took our requests and processed our request immediately we was booty shaking in the studio yeah we had the whole thing we had our area jumping right but the unfortunate part was a lot of people didn't like turn their cameras on and and shake their ass with us we thought we was going to like you know hey inspire some folks to like share but people really didn't share no it was it was a little unfortunate in that regard but uh it got a little bit more interesting uh as the days progressed so saturday night was obviously the busiest night because you know they work you don't have to go to work the next day for most people or whatever.
So that night I got to watch a lot of BDSM play, a lot of playrooms, the dungeon playrooms or whatever. Yeah, and there was some ass slapping and balls getting meed. It was pretty intense. I think it was fist slapping. Yeah, man, it was crazy. It was crazy. But I say all that to say a great idea. I think it was well executed. It just wasn't utilized the way it probably should have been or could have been.
It gave you a good taste of what you can expect to be at Naughty and New Orleans, especially for people that haven't been um so i'm really interested in the workshops um that they'll have you know when we actually get to go in person and um and hopefully be a part of the panel yeah ditto and we did get to meet people we did get to meet people we met some new people we got to see another um podcast group that we've not met in person yet so we got to see them online um but it was cool it was cool and we got to meet um some of the event staff that actually um coordinates non-new new orleans and the owners of non-new orleans too so it was cool we got to meet a few people put some faces with some names and it was great not a terrible time no it's not so i left something to be designed it did it did it still left like oh i want to go um so it says our sweet talker so let's get into some of these says that i'm so happy i thought you should be posting this week we're happy you guys are here too happy to be here um another podcaster just goes back to say that to be be honest, it's damn near necessary to have multiple earnings and energy providers to survive in this country.
True. It's kind of high, especially in this area. All right. So we're just going to say what's up to all the sweet talkers. Glad y'all made it. So, baby, you ready to get into tonight's episode?
We got a lot we actually do it so you ready to go jam-packed show let's do it let's go if y'all wonder why i do that this is for the podcast part i was about to say it sounds like you're doing a game show every time all right ladies and gentlemen thanks for hanging in there with us welcome back and again so tris was talking to our sweet talkers we want to say thank y'all for joining you know this show will run um better when you guys are here and you guys are like kicking and y'all always bring the thunder so we we really appreciate it we love it we love it when y'all here to participate so like i said we got a jam-packed one and this is this one is for y'all always bring the thunder.
So we really appreciate it. We love it. We love it when y'all are here to participate. So, like I said, we got a jam-packed one, and this one is for y'all. We want y'all to bring it. Bring the thunder. Let us know what y'all are feeling about these entanglements and black Twitter. And black Twitter. Right? It's a lot of shit going on out here, man. But y'all know what it is. Go ahead, Triss.
I know you had something to say on this one so uh one of our sweet talkers hit us up this week um and basically you know asked us how do we feel about a situation that everyone's kind of talking about now um at the time we had no idea what was going on because we weren't online yet um to even look it up but now once we got the message we were like oh how do we feel let's look up the story i'm sorry i was giggling at one of our sweet talkers she said i'm so sick of that word so what exactly are we talking about lock right what are we talking about y'all know exactly what the hell we talking about let's address that elephant in the room man we talking about uh jada will and that cat august august alcina i think so i'm not even going front i never heard a dude until this time never heard of him we had to ask our teenager i was like who is this i don't know i might be dating myself but you know whatever so apparently um you know will and jada it comes out right so we've all kind of been caught up since this happened and we're doing an episode kind of probably in mid uh what is it the media cycle of this whole thing yeah probably kind of fading fading away but we still want to give you an opportunity to talk about it yeah uh so yeah it came all it all came to light where when this cat august alcina did an interview with someone about uh i don't know what the hell that was going on in his life but it turns out that he had an affair with uh jada pinkett uh smith jada pinkett smith back in the day about four four years ago apparently but what the way he said it was like that shit was like last week you know man that move got me must have been something he was saying it like we just broke up last week.
Yeah, yeah. So homeboy had major, major feelings caught up in this thing. But the way it got on our desk is the non-monogamous aspect of the story where the rumor has been forever that Will and Jada having, uh, they have an open marriage, right? Yes. Uh, it's always been that rumor. It's always been kind of hot, kind of sexy, but then still like this strong black couple, you know what I'm saying? And then to hear that the one that the word came out that they finally got like outed in a way.
And then, uh, to, you know, people reacted, um, as if, you know, people who aren't like really accustomed to the thinking of non-monogamy they got you know what the hell is going on jada oh my god she's cheating and it's just like so many different sides of the story yes so basically how do you guys feel let's not get into like the whole let's let's dissect it a little bit how do you feel about the d what is his name august august even bringing it to light how do you guys feel about that i can tell you my opinion on it while you guys let's catch up yeah some we already got a little bit um duchess is in the room hey what's up duchess how you doing uh she said that he is slick trying to get attention because he has a new album i don't see i even know did not know that all right so august alcina for people who don't know is an r&b singer i did not know that but until this story came out no idea i'm sorry another sweet talker says he was dropping his album yep someone say they agree uh someone else says august didn't want to accept his role as a fuck boy and cried about it so see that goes that goes to my point right so i don't understand why it's like why must you talk about your dick right who cares like you could have had sex with like j-lo janet don't care why now Why now do you have to just come out and say, girl, I was having sex with Jada and her husband was okay with it.
Even if that all was the case. Right. I don't see, it makes you look like a sucker to me to come out and just say, oh, I had sex with last week. So what? Right. Yeah. With whoever that is.
You know yeah man that's crazy that is bananas and it's very disappointing how how put under that pressure you know i wouldn't even call it pressure just whatever he was feeling in that moment he decided to you know just lay it all out there you know that it's it breaks so many codes you what i'm saying like it does the man code every all the code bro code you know i had sex with her yeah i had i had sex with her last week right okay i had sex with it even it was four years ago right i don't see the point of why he had to say he had sex with jada you know i don't know jennifer karen whoever you want to say her name is right it's stupid right yeah whatever it's pretty wild it's pretty wild pretty lame let's see what else we talk about saying uh where are we he's wrong for violating the polyamorous trust absolutely absolutely and that's exactly what we're saying he's wrong for violating that trust man man.
That's like a code, period, in like the lifestyle. Like when we have relations with a couple and we might be hanging out with another couple at the club, we're not going to sit and point out, oh, you know, those two over there? Who? Man, she could really suck a dick. But you know what? There are people in the lifestyle that do that. I'm not saying that's right at all.
And I don't like that's right and i am not a kiss and tell person exactly like we tell you guys stories we tell you names stories again they're stories and then we put nicknames to those type of situations we never tell you right it's so and so we're talking about oh yeah that's that person and i would never do that in person and tell anyone that yeah i did this this and that with so-and-so it's none of your business exactly exactly it's none of your business yeah so he definitely violated that someone else says and the interview with angela yee so that's the interview that uh august did okay okay and someone else says uh aa august uh made a sucker move for the sake of promotion yeah that's yeah now that you guys say he had an album i didn't know he has an album coming out then that part kind of slight it makes sense but it doesn't make it right you know and it's funny because we talked about it when you and i first got the um got the story we started talking about it uh and we mentioned like it worked whatever he was doing it for it worked because i said in that moment guess what i'm about to google him you know i'm about to look him up i'm about to see what was going on look at his music we did all of that because we had i mean we had no idea who he was so let's see it worked yeah man someone else says have kept his mouth shut.
That's why people don't mess. Yeah, don't mess with single males in their lifestyle. Absolutely. That's a good point. That is probably a major concern when it comes to single males that they're going to kiss and tell. I can see that. I can see that. I can see a male getting caught up in his feelings.
I know that people say that as women, we are are emotional creatures and all these things but i could see if he got some good good right and then it was just taken away not by his choice yeah but it was just like nope no more i could see yeah that happening uh let's see someone else says he is young and he was their son's friend damn jada i couldn't imagine dipping in the cookie jar man right it's gross i know that's crazy but i mean this sort of is a grown-ass man he was girl but still you gotta look at him like a kid though right let's see aug was someone else says aug was wrong uh he got bought in as a guest star and caught feelings yep yep uh someone else says that big dick energy doesn't give you immunity from everything and it was more than that though he was hurt and he uh and he is a light-skinned brother oh here we go with smiley face that is saying tongue-in-cheek man yeah he's got his little feelings hurt man yes he did apparently you can see that you know he even admitted that his feelings got caught up he you know really really loved her quote unquote quote unquote um and that you know and they broke up but he was the one that broke it up yeah so now i just want to talk about this part because i started watching the red table i want to get to that last sweet talker thing and we went to the red table one my sweet talker said don't be that couple a right and we are going to dive into that on another episode because uh yeah word up don't be that couple don't be right about that um so the red table we watched the red table Thank you.
into that on another episode because uh yeah word up right don't be that couple don't be right about that um so the red table we watched the red table yesterday yesterday so we watched the red table yesterday and we're in a car we're just sitting there let's watch the red table and see what this is about so we started watching it and i swear to goodness guys and it had to be in the first two three minutes i'm sitting there wondering in my head why does she keep saying entanglement we had an entanglement yes i was sitting there and i'm in the car i said babe she said entanglement yeah man will smith even found so many times that it was it was in my head at that time like why did you say entanglement it kept reminding me and i told you earlier it reminded me of like when bill clinton was saying i did not have sexual relations with that woman and i think that's exactly i think that's exactly what it was right she didn't and that's what will like in all seriousness though like and will was trying to get her to say say that you had an affair like say that you had sex with this guy he was like what happened well what happened jada you know say what happened you had sex with the dude if you're gonna just do the red table do the red table say i had sex with the guy not i had an entanglement it was a sexual relation or any of those things you had sex with this dude and it was a relationship right boom bam wrap it up in the boat that's what it is and i mean there's so many layers to this thing okay because let's let's take a step back yeah she did have sex with him let's say let's say that they talked about it uh well not talked about it but it all happened when they were taking a break right they said it was like a little break it was about he was done with her yes it was four years ago so in that regard sweet talkers i asked you guys did was that okay then should it have been like okay like for her to do what to do her you know i'm saying yeah uh i think it was fine i think it was absolutely fine i honestly guys i don't even need the red table i didn't need it i didn't need the red table i don't need my my celebrities to confess anything to me no it's not my business it's not my prerogative i don't care i do not care i mean it sure saucy is something to talk about something to think about maybe if you want to give it that type of energy but it's not my business you don't owe me an apology dog like tiger woods one of the best golfers ever like my favorite um golfer period um he didn't owe me no goddamn apology i don't want your apology apologize to your wife and your kids I don't give a shit just play you know that's all I care about as a fan yes so this gets to some of the sweet talkers one of the sweet talkers says that she swapped out the word entanglement for fucking yes you exactly how I felt in my head I was like why do you keep saying that someone said that will look like he had been crying yeah yeah it looked like it was tough on him yeah uh someone else said characteristics of entanglements in an entanglement you are trying to get something from the other person that you did not get from a past relationship oh went technical on us so what do you think there sweet talker was it that love because she did mention that she said she wanted to be loved and I bet I mean like yeah but that was one layer to it but you still was fucking you was definitely fucking she was fucking yeah because that little boy was crying about it yeah I agree with you also sweet talker regarding the what the characteristics of an entanglement is but it was deeper than that and then it says I'll see you next time.
yeah i agree with you also sweet talker um regarding the what the characteristics of an entanglement is but it was deeper than that um and then it says jada and will after 25 years of marriage ups and downs they still chose each other for better for worse bad marriage for life if you haven't seen it you you won't get that joke but you gotta watch that watch that Red Table. Yeah, check it out. Bad Marriage for Life. It's kind of wild. Yeah, man. I mean, do you guys think that the Red Table was genuine?
You think it was genuine or do you think it was a little bit of, all right, we know who we are and we know where we stand stand in the black community in the black marriage community let's make this right let's get this right you know what i mean let's execute this thing let's let them know that we are homies and high five and i love you i don't feel like they owe anybody that that's the same like okay why that's their marriage it their marriage. It's not my marriage. You choose to live whatever way you want.
The only thing you got to explain something to is you, yourself, your spouse, your kids. That's it. I don't feel like you need to owe the world an explanation for why you're doing what you're doing. Oh, here's a little bit of juice right here.
I like where you're going, sweet this is a great question great fucking question if the tables were turned it would be socially acceptable for will to do his thing on a break oh and i said that too right but they kind of alluded to that that he did some stuff yeah and and they didn't say exactly what it was but they did and i would expect he did do some stuff it's just he didn't get caught and it's not out in the open it didn't get sloppy with it however i want to play with that um with that hypothetical there like let's say the tables got turned and we don't have any dirt on jada right but we got the dirt on will some some lady just spilled the beans and oh my god he broke my heart and all this shit right yeah is that more socially acceptable do we sweep that under the rug do we have a red table talk with will smith or in today's society of cancel culture are we canceling will smith let's be honest folks are y'all canceling will no they wouldn't know you don't think so you don't think black twitter twitter check me out i'm horny uh black twitter would you don't think black twitter would get them no they would say how would you do that to jada she's so pretty and this and she's the this blah blah but no i think it will go and then and it will come and go come and go i think this is about to be gone and i think so too because who cares they married still whatever you want to do that's just no different than any other lser right you choose to live your marriage the way you want to yeah i think they about to hit that nda action now though i told you they should and then send a gift like the other dude do uh what's doing what's doing right you send them gifts gift baskets with your nda and an autograph baseball help because he's a gentleman all right guys so we are going to wrap this one up but yeah y'all got a lot of stuff oh man um let's just catch a couple of these okay i don't want this to go to waste man this is excellent uh someone was saying that they they both was doing them i agree uh but she's quick to call other people out to the red table oh juicy yeah yeah but i mean let's give her credit though she did bring herself out there she did put herself out there but i still feel like she was a little bit vague i would i well entanglement yeah word up okay um i was only it was her only play right it was her only play to go to the red table it was however if someone else would have done the interview you know but i mean it it was between her and will so i can dig that i can dig that too right uh she just wanted to feel good yeah uh what what movie was that i just just make me feel good uh holly berry joint damn it somebody get me on that one come on somebody hit me with that i just make me feel good with her and um bob bob thornton somebody gonna hit me with that anyway oh billy bob thornton monsters ball there we go come on sweet talkers i gotta be quicker than that up there somebody got me yeah i love y'all man good save there so i'm gonna jump ahead somebody said that the table Thank you.
up there there somebody got me yeah i love y'all man good save there so i'm gonna jump ahead somebody said that the table was them separating themselves from the poly lifestyle oh facts that could be true like this is it it's gonna be us now yeah yeah i think that it showed that they are human but their body language showed that they really don't fuck with each other like that for real uh someone says um like hey we're on a break we are not poly not really poly uh someone says that they could have kept it to themselves it's not a place to judge how grown consenting adults operate their marriage facts on top of facts and this is why we love y'all man really appreciate y'all chiming in on that once we talk again this conversation was for y'all man um it was good to get that stuff out there and uh have some opinions on it and let y'all put it on put it on record man this is some good shit somebody said except beyonce and she has made billions from it oh oh don't nobody give uh give off on on j-Z.
And then they said, except for Beyonce, she made billions from it. Word up. So, yeah. So, hey, thanks again for that, Sweet Talkers. Backy with the good hair. Oh, Lord. In another episode, Trish. In another episode. I just see. Lemonade. Yep. See? Here we go. Y'all crazy.
I keep up with something but yeah it's sweet talking so we're gonna move on to segment two man segment two we're gonna get into the c word i'm talking about communication revisited everybody say that word so much communication like y'all need to be great communicators in the lifestyle you need to communicate it's all about communication right what the fuck what does that mean what does it mean and what does it look like in real time in real life real life not the book that's right man because that is hard it's Like, we say it's easy.
We say, you know, if your communication skills are great, then the lifestyle will be easy. Lies. Lies. So, again, what does that mean? So, to have, like, good communication, does that mean that you're always sharing your feelings? And everything always is roses at the end.
Or to also be a good communicator doesn't mean that you're always sharing your fantasies all that stuff you you like does trish know every single thing about me is that called good communication or that you always have to agree you always have to find ways to agree um that we're moving in this direction is that good communication right right um does it happen this way all the time no hell no nope like we're talking about real life here we're talking about people that have um different feelings uh different emotions and different triggers right some things trigger you uh in a different way then they trigger a different response out of you than they would me.
Yeah. One of our sweet talkers says it's about being vulnerable enough to express your wants and what you are insecure about. Absolutely. Absolutely. I mean, communication can sometimes hurt. Right.
Because we all have feelings and you feel passionate about what you're saying and it can get heated in those moments right like sometimes you just may need to go and get your you know technical foul and go to the coach and say i need a timeout because it gets so heated in that moment and nothing is being resolved but you feel your way about something and the other person feels their way or they may have been hurt by something that your partner may have said to you. You need to take a time out.
Yeah, that's exactly what what I feel like my sweet talker was saying was that it's about that vulnerability. People are so afraid of being vulnerable and saying what you feel, what you want and what what your expectations are sometimes it's it's scary it's scary to let go it's scary to put that put some stuff out there um because you're afraid you're going to be judged yes you're afraid you're going to be turned down yes um and and yeah it's hard and that's what we And that's what we're going to be talking about, folks. We're going to talk about how you guys get through those situations.
Like, let's talk about, like, one of them awkward-ass conversations with that four-way connection or taking one for the team. Like, how do y'all get through that situation, right? Let's keep it real, too, like, because this shit is hard. And these conversations sometimes go south. Like, if you're in a situation, you're. We go south. Yeah. Yeah, it's good.
too like because this shit is hard um and these conversations sometimes go south uh like if you're in a situation you're yeah uh if you're in a situation or you're hanging out or you're at a club or whatever or you got a at a resort and things are starting to pop off or you think they are and then your partner says you know what not feeling it not feeling it and what happens to you like dang yeah you definitely get that little that little foot stomp you know what i'm saying oh some one of our sweet talkers says because communication is the providing and sharing of information but it doesn't include understanding absolutely yeah buddy that's why i love my sweet talkers facts right there the understanding is the key yes and again that comes with that vulnerability and just that trust that somebody will take and process what you're sending and and try to understand it and try to put uh show a level of like compassion uh and some sympathy empathy if need be and understand where you're coming from.
Right. And I think that's the hard part. That's the hard part in relationships. It is the hard part. To get out of yourself. Get out of your own way and really listen to your partner. And it's the hard part in your normal relationship. And it's an extra layer when you're in the lifestyle, which is like a sexy, you know, sexual driven at like atmosphere atmosphere. Yeah. And then you have to communicate things that could be happening in that moment or not or things you may want to happen in the future. So it's kind of like an extra layer of complications. Right. Someone says one hour of play.
100 hours of talking about it hey hey i like that that's one hour of play 100 hours of talking about it that's kind of how it is right and and i think if i may sweet talk i've said it better myself yeah i think that in some cases you could break that 100 hours up in 50 50 right like 50 hours before like are you sure do you like them are we going to do this are we going to take pictures are you going to wear these clothes and then 150 hours after okay so was he too rough was that gentle like did you like it did you like him when they smacked your ass what would you change exactly do you want to do it again exactly exactly it's just so many different ways of that.
I can get that on a T-shirt. That's lovely. I love it. Another sweet talker says being vulnerable is scary, but can lead to sexual freedom and fulfillment. You're absolutely right. Yes, absolutely. You're absolutely right. And that's the that's the benefit of jumping off that cliff. Right.
of um of allowing that vulnerability you let someone in you let the right person in uh-huh you know uh-oh somebody used a lock for lock love it thank you lock that's pretty dope like lock said emotions feelings expressing your thoughts and wants at the expense of the other's feelings right man right that's the thing it's it's tough it can get tricky so again sweet talkers we're asking you what happens in that four-way connection when you're not feeling that situation how do you express that and how does that conversation typically go right what about us how does that go because we've been there we're just asking like what if Locke, was feeling a couple or a person, a partner of the couple, the other half?
But I necessarily wasn't feeling them. I'm the one. So you got to tell me. That's what I'm saying. This is what we're talking about. So how do we handle it?
So Locke would say, hey hey i'm interested in this couple um what do you think i would look at them or we've already been interacting with them i'm sure at that point come on and i say no we're not right okay if you're not into them if you're not into one i'm already picking up on the clues you know what i'm saying i can pick up on a lot of clues but then when we do have that ultimate moment of like revelation like it's time to just reveal how you feel all right babe look you know they've been we've been chatting with them we've been kind of dancing with them what you what do you think are you feeling them you ready to take this thing somewhere and do something and then it's like no no that drives me crazy it does it drives them absolutely crazy it really does but then we it's not like a no and then okay cool right yeah it's a no and then there's a discussion okay why why are you saying no exactly.
And then I say, no can run down whatever it is that i'm saying no to and what i don't feel comfortable with and i think that right there is the most important part is that understanding you know i'm saying that's where we have to gain understanding that's where i need you to be your most vulnerable and and say what it is say exactly what it is that you know you're digging or not digging or what makes you uncomfortable and that's when i need to be able to hear that process that and understand hey moving on you know what i'm saying and sometimes that shit ain't hard it's sometimes hard sometimes it's tough because i'm not looking for all of the things that you're looking for all the time no because you think with your man head sometimes sometimes i do yeah sometimes is is not an emotional connection that i need yes he thinks with his man head and i you know that's not what i think of all the time you don't have a man head i know so therefore i can't relate but um so but it's never um for us it has never been a big blowout of like if when that situation has ever occurred it is just we talk it out and this is what i'm saying and then he'll ask sometimes like what exactly are you looking for and then just like you know i would just prefer xyz for you it's kind of one of them things and pardon me for speaking for you but let me just let me know if i'm wrong i mean we've had this conversation a few times so for you it's a it's not necessarily a thing that you are looking for is one of those things of you know it when you see it you know it's a in the moment like i know by the seat of my pants yeah for me, it's kind of like I got to ask.
I got to check in. If I don't ask, I don't know. Yes, absolutely. But, you know, when I know, I know. And someone chimed in and agreed. It's a vibe. It's totally a vibe for me. And we've discussed this before. I have with you Sweet Talkers on past episodes.
For me, it's all about the vibe vibe if I'm just not vibing and I don't feel like we are connecting as a group then I'm just not interested but sometimes I am interested and I tell him that it's just that I just want to learn like kind of like see more just to make sure that connection is there and not fly in stealth at times there's been times when i landed and he didn't even realize i was even working it that's a fact it's just that we don't work it the same all the time bad girls move in silence yes i go stuff yeah fuck that so but um what about when we got a response i'm sorry okay go ahead sweet talkers says, for me, I have to decide if I'm willing to let them inside me and if he's worthy of being in our space.
That's a that's a big question. That's a big question, too, right? Yeah, that's a big question. And I've mentioned this to also only you can answer to you guys before is that, you know, I'm not down for taking one for the team. It's just not that's not our forte. But, you know, some people can still do it if their partner's interested. That's just not what I prefer to do. No. So. Yeah. So in that way, it becomes like what if it happens to become like a debt system? Right. Well, you know, you took one. I took one for you the other time.
So this so this time let me get this couple has anybody ever experienced something like that you putting money in the piggy yeah yeah and like all right that's all right i'm gonna remember this shit so the next time i want that couple you know with the mohawk or whatever the case you know yeah i'm gonna get that couple and you you guys owe me that one you know right you owe me for that last time when we was up in there but uh that could be that bullshit exactly one of our sweet talker says the energy between couples is a major for me if i'm not feeling it it's not happening bingo bingo so our next one is is that what if you were out at a event if you were out in an event and you wanted to leave like what if one of your partners you know your husband or your wife wanted to leave and you did it is that simple like i'm not having a good time i'm feeling uncomfortable is it kind of one of those things like we we we run uh spartan races right with those obstacle course races and we like to take a big group of people 10 12 people or whatever but we like to stick together it's a team effort so in these races right it we go as fast as the slowest person now right follow me on that metaphor don't get caught up on the word slow right don't hang on that word but in like a lifestyle relationship you're only going to move as fast as the slowest person so if somebody's not comfortable in a situation or if somebody's ready to go, do you just go or do you talk about it?
And sometimes those conversations can be tough because you're having a good time. You might not be like meeting people or whatever, but you might be just chilling or hanging out, having a good time. But, you know, Trist is ready to go or I'm ready to go. I'm not feeling the vibe here. feeling the vibe here so what do you do you just pack up and guys in that conversation when we're saying hard conversation that's a hard conversation to have like we've at one particular event early on i remember what happened um we were at a hotel party yep we're in the mix it's a private hotel party and we.
There are people, you know, there that we know to we're having a good time and things like that. But then as the night progresses on, I just wasn't feeling it. I wasn't feeling the vibe. I wasn't just I was I was ready to go. It was a no for me. I just wanted to go.
um you know i'm gonna put it all out there it was it was two layers it was definitely two layers of my fault right it was the first question which was i was filling a couple and you weren't and i wasn't and i was pushing i was pushing it was bad it was bad and then that made you want to go and i wanted to go yes and then it made me to go. Then I was irritated and I just wanted to go and I was taken out of the vibe altogether. Absolutely. So with that led into a very explosive argument. It was nasty. Because one person wanted to stay and one person was feeling a couple.
And the other person was like, no, I'm not feeling them.
I understand understand how you feel but this is why i'm not feeling them that is not my type i'm ready to go yeah because now i'm irritated and i'm out of the mood that's right and and it can definitely be a mood and it can go south real fast if you guys let it um but you know in those heated moments that when you have in a different like a difficult situation sometimes it's best to kind of take a break like a break meaning like we're going to parlay yeah for a second take a step in the hallway we're going to take a time from out from this conversation and we're going to move it and let's have it in a different form like meaning away from where we are right now so that we could come back to an agreement and if we're not able to agree then we just leave yeah and go home we've definitely matured in that sense and i have and i can say i have also um it's like i have definitely learned how to you know read you number one read you better better and pace myself because I was a walking, talking penis.
He was a walking, talking, moving penis at the beginning. It was crazy. But I mean, yeah, I mean, those are the types of things that you are going to come. You're going to come across. You're going to have those hard discussions and you're going to you're going to fuck up at some point. Yes. But let's see.
Let's catch up real quick with what our sweet talkers are saying um i was someone says that uh when it came to that question about leaving the party someone says we leave never ignored a spidey sense that's right you get that nasty feeling it's time to go oh someone else says hey sweet talker what's up beautiful uh she says that usually we are on the same vibe that's great that's great um someone else says i was ready to play and he was ready to go he wasn't feeling that couple we didn't leave the club but we did go to another room to talk talk it out and that's exactly what we're saying yep yeah sometimes you just got to take that break that take that tv time out you know what i'm saying at that time we did we weren't so crafty we weren't like that clever to just like okay disengage from this situation yep take a deep breath let's talk about it no i was just like you know i'm done we're gone yep you know because we're going to get to this too um we'll get to it we'll get to that i don't want to get ahead but anyway let's catch up again um another one says at the end of the day you have to go home with your spouse and deal with what comes on the back end of that short moment of excitement facts tell that shit to it doesn't go away to young lock tell that to his dumb ass that next morning it's still there you think you're getting some pancakes hell no no you're not these my pancakes still man make your own fuck you uh someone else says uh we have been in situations where one of us didn't feel the situation and we argued about it later and at the end of the day we decided it was not worth it when it's time to leave it's time to leave Yeah, we, about it later.
And at the end of the day, we decided it was not worth it. When it's time to leave, it's time to leave. Yeah. These are savvy. Yep. Savvy veterans in the game. I love y'all, man. Someone else says. And in the end, it's not worth it because there will be other times and opportunities if y'all not right. Yeah. If y'all not right. And the future experiment won't happen. Yeah, that's right. And ultimately, that's the conclusion that I came to. Like, listen, there are going to be other opportunities.
There are going to be a bunch of other couples, a bunch of other people to hang out with and meet and hang out. So let's not destroy home. Take care of home first. Take care of home so that you can come back and it'd be other opportunities for later. That's right. Don't F it up. So the next one is that what if someone in the partnership decides that they don't want to be in the LS anymore? How does that communication go? Right. How does that happen?
Have you guys been in any relationships where someone just said you know what i'm done with this we we're not having any luck we're not meeting anyone or people are mean people are fake people are crazy or it's too much alcohol it's too much drug use or whatever the case whatever that person's uh problem with the lifestyle might be right um it became too much and uh i mean you just throw away your relationship and just say yeah like i want to still do it i'm done with this i'm gonna find another relationship to be in and i think that's the that's a terrible place to be because your relationship shouldn't be based on the lifestyle.
Absolutely. I think your relationship should be based on your partnership, on your love for each other, your respect or whatever that, that those dynamics, those things that brought you to the table for that person, that should be your, your foundation of, of your relationship, not the lifestyle. The lifestyle is just something that you're, you're having fun doing. You're, you're enjoying it. At least that's for us, right?
something that you're you're having fun doing you're you're enjoying at least that's for us right this is something we're having fun doing and we're meeting people and you know having some crazy times but if that went away this won't you know our relationship we're still married in a relationship now i'm not going to front we've we've asked ourselves this question early on like before we had our baby. And it was like, well, if I, Locke asked me, actually, what if I just decided I didn't want to do the lifestyle? So early on, I was like, well, I'm still doing it. Do you remember that? I do.
I was like, I'm still doing it. I'll be a unicorn. I'll just be a unicorn then. That is absolutely not the right response, guys, because your relationship comes first. It would be a lot of dialogue, I would say, if one of us decided we didn't want to do this anymore. We would have multiple conversations about why.
And not really to convince the other person that they shouldn't want to do it but kind of really try to understand why and i think it goes back to that same metaphor of you know running at the fast at the pace of the slowest person right so how do you how do you acknowledge that person's feelings of saying you know i don't want to do this i do not want to share my bed anymore but you say no no no wait no listen he is the thing wait how do there is no convincing of that right i don't know see on the one hand i believe that there's like no convincing like you can't tell somebody what they're going to be comfortable with.
But then on the other hand, I imagine there's a place where a couple can have a conversation about their needs emotionally and physically, and then they can find a way to compromise and say, Trist, if that's what you need, we, you know, we consider, we would consider ourselves like enlightened right we have this this ultimate ultimate but we have these these thoughts of of breaking traditional norms of marriage so why not say okay this might not be right for me but you can go ahead you can go ahead and explore but you'll be the only woman for me does that is that still still like lifestyle related adjacent lifestyle adjacent?
Because now we're in a place where like our marriage is kind of open, but I'm not doing anything with anyone. But you are right. It's still kind of lifestyle related. We got some good shit coming in. Oh, we I'm gonna catch up. I'm gonna let that question linger, but we're gonna catch up. Let's see. Sweet Talker says the lifestyle is just a garnishment. I like that word, a garnishment. And your relationship is what matters above and beyond. Love that. Another one says it's about being dedicated to home base and realizing that this is a small part of the marriage.
It's also about having a strong foundation facts love it uh someone says that we mainly him wanted to take a take a break and at first i was disappointed but after a long conversation we agreed to break for about a year we were going um you were going to get caught up and okay and was getting away from us okay it's probably going too fast and got caught up okay oh we're getting too and it was getting away from us right yeah check me out right so yeah and another one says that now um we had a conversation this weekend that if one of us needed or wanted something extra that we would talk about it you should know how to approach your partner again yep bingo that's the communication part and can't come in guns blazing yeah and those are the hard things man you're gonna have those hard conversations where like i look at tris right and and i'll say okay i got this thing to say to her now how do i land this fucking plane like how do i deliver this message that trist i'm ready to start fucking again the covid is scary but baby i'm ready to start fucking and we've had that conversation we've had multiple conversations about it you know it's to, you know, again, back to what our sweet talker originally said, you've got to be vulnerable.
You've got to let that shit out sometimes. Yeah, it's tough. Yeah, and sometimes you are going to come to a happy medium on certain things. You probably won't. One person is going to lose. Someone will lose.
It's not gonna be a that happy place all the time not all the time and when you're talking about conversations especially with the ls you're not gonna always come to a kumbaya about everything sometimes one person just has to say you know what all right you can have this one live to fight another day live to fight another day i say that all the time you know it's sometimes you just got And I'll see you have this one but sometimes it's just like you gotta just understand what your partner is and just kind of be like all right that's what's most important it's my partner that's right baby look somebody flirting someone says sorry we were late tonight did anyone acknowledge how incredibly sexy tris looks tonight thank you so much you're so kind i know man her little pasties what's your pasties say baby it says fuck me yes i will yes i will all right you do not have to beg uh someone else says that break we used uh to work on us and it was worth it absolutely i feel like you come back stronger you do you take a little time out for us we we were like forced to take a break because of the pregnancy because of the pregnancy and then the post uh baby just trying to figure it out but it was great for us because we were able to redefine who we were like literally we literally had the conversation of okay now what do we want our next act to look like in the lifestyle and we came out both guns fucking blazing man and then covid and then covid and it was kind of slowed things down so it is definitely having a lot of conversations about who you are you know what you want.
And at the end of the day, you know, finding your relationship to be first. But also, I just want to point out, it's not cool for your partner to weaponize. Like, let's say Locke really, really loves the lifestyle.
And let's say Tris was like, I can do with it or without it i'm okay it's not okay for me to weaponize oh well if you don't do what i want to do this lifestyle shit is over we are done with lifestyle anybody ever have that type of shit happen as a disciplinary action right to kind of keep somebody in check like if you want to do this thing then we have to do it my way or this is over yikes that is a nightmare situation man because first of all you're not in a lifestyle for the right reasons at that point absolutely not let's just call that what it is somebody's doing somebody a favor with with the with the hopes of uh getting something out of it later and if that like okay let's just say let's just use that uh on us if you're just allowing me to participate in the lifestyle for the in hopes of benefiting something later like i owe you something later and you're not getting that thing and you're trying to take the lifestyle away from me oh i can't think of a more hella situation man yeah and then there's no then you're not in it for the right reasons and you're using the people like the people that you're you're hanging out with and kicking it with those aren't genuine relationships that's just some shit as a means to an end for you yes and that's not cool at all and that's not cool but i'm sure those people can tell also you know what i'm saying like the people that were that are involved with that said couple um they can tell like we can tell when couples are um a little off being a little off or when we can know the exact opposite really was we can tell when they're genuine when they really like each other like yes i think that's important right did not two passengers on the same flight but don't like each other.
Yes. I think that's important. Right. Did not two passengers on the same flight, but don't know each other. Yeah, man. All right. Someone says, oh, I like this one. One of our sweet talkers was responding to another sweet talker and said that the break gave you more years in the lifestyle because you respected his decision. That's awesome. That's right. Yes, absolutely. And someone said, LOL at lock, you're not the only one. Yeah, I'm a troublemaker, man. I'll be fucking up. And someone else says that we never can consciously take a break.
We just seem uninterested in some events for a period of time. That makes sense. That makes sense. I mean, that's great to be that in sync with your partner. Yes. You know what I'm saying? That's awesome. That's great. Someone says that we look at the LS as a supplement in our relationship. Ditto. Ditto. Someone agrees with Trist. Absolutely. Trist. Someone says manipulation does not a marriage make. Nope. Manipulation and a bunch of ultimatums, period.
Yes basically what it is spiraling down and ls that makes sense someone says agreed yep that's not a marriage yeah wife you're really trying to get me to do the the trifecta yeah you should do the trifecta let's do it spartan spartan up we can go ahead and call it the sweet talker uh uh race oh my goodness when we are able to ever get off of lockdown i know man so guys all right that wraps up the topic but we have tris sexy toy chest coming at you in just a minute we'll be right back. All righty, guys. So, we want to talk about the Leo. Lilo. Lilo. Leo. Yes, we want to talk about the Leo.
Maybe you named him Leo. Leo. Oh, say that again. That was sexy. Leo. Nice job. The Lilo. So we want to talk about the Lilo. It's the Sona Cruise. Yeah. And it's actually pretty, pretty cute. I'm going to show you guys. It comes in this kind of like slick black box. It kind of looks all exclusive, like you're an exclusive club.
So that that's one thing i gotta give lilo man like their packaging is yeah their packaging looks hella hot yeah like the unboxing of these things is pretty sexy in and in and of itself yeah it's like you're getting invited into like an exclusive club right right for sex toys right something but so i want to show you what it looks like so it's pretty it's hand size it's it's hand size it's not huge maybe about four or five inches tall um it kind of looks like a penguin yeah a little bit the little penguin guy looks like a penguin guy has a suction mouth it is black with uh kind of like a gold chrome on the back what what kind of material is that?
Is that like rubber? Is that like silicone? Yeah. Like a silicone? Yeah. Yeah. So it's pretty cool. There's no batteries, of course, waterproof, and you can charge it. All right. So, and I haven't actually charged it yet since we've had it. Not that I haven't used it, guys.
It's just that the charge kind of just lasts a while apparently um there are eight different settings on it so basically they use kind of like a um a sonic kind of vibration and then but it's strong it's like a suction yes it's a massager yeah i like it oh and i said it didn't die now it's probably it's dead no it's working oh you probably use that bad boy up oh yeah it's sucking on your cheek there as i said it wasn't dying yeah so podcast listeners she's putting the the sona cruz little uh clitoral sucker thing on her cheek yeah and that's what you can hear against the microphone uh and um it has a bunch of different pulsations and it pulsates and it has like different like vibration settings so let's get to the good stuff how does it feel you know what guys this is a great toy i'm i'm not even gonna lie because my penguin is not as powerful as this but i was really surprised.
Um i actually tried it on my my hand and on my cheek first when he first got it because lock bought it for me it's great like the suction power and then the vibration is amazing on this yeah yeah it and it actually sucks so that's the key part that's what i was about to say we've had had some other suckers that didn't do that. The other one, they didn't really suck. I keep saying suck. That's fine, baby. But yes, I really wanted to be like, to suck it, to suck that clitoris out and then vibrate it and make it wiggle. So you like a lot of pressure on your clitoris, right? Uh-huh.
And that gave that to you. It did. It gave me enough pressure and suction with the whole vibration with it. And I enjoy it. Yeah. In the shower. Do you have to turn it all the way up like you did the Sibian? No. Or like one of the low things? I think I've only made it to three. Okay. So far. I've only made it to three so far. Out of eight? Out of eight settings? Out of the eight settings, yeah. It's pretty strong. And that's with the vibration. So with the suction and vibration level three, I could probably go to a four. I haven't made it to eight yet. Eight is pretty powerful.
How quick does it get you there? Pretty quick, guys. Is it faster than gone at 60 seconds or what? It's a difference. This is different. Okay. Yeah. So gone at 60 seconds does not have a suction. So that's what makes it completely different. So what do you prefer? Just the straight up? I like the suction vibration. You like the suction vibration over? I like the gone in 60 seconds, though. Okay, hang on. Let me get my question out. Do you prefer the suction vibration or just the vibration? I like the suction vibration, though. You like the suction vibration.
Yeah, that would be my first choice. If I can't get the suction vibration, then I'll go for nice external.
Yeah, sweet talkerer question for you do you think that it will desensitize your clitoris question only one way to find out come on sit still baby let me give me 10 minutes i know i don't know that's a good question is there something that you worry about when it comes to toys like being desensitized i have not worried about being desensitized um when it comes to toys i have to use this one now when we have sex i haven't used this one while we were having sex this is kind of like a me toy so i don't know about the suction and uh vibration while we're having sex that's a good question i have to try well that wasn't well desensitized you know like period i don't think so okay uh someone else says you need to look into tracy's dog if you like the suction vibration look up the reviews on amazon don't worry.
Someone else says you'd have to use it a lot to do that. Referring to desensitizing. The desensitizing. Okay. True. Oh, someone else says yes at that Tracy's dog thing. All right. I love this, man. Y'all so savvy. I know.
So now I have to look it up i have it written down on you definitely are right but guys check out definitely the lilo we've had like two toys oh somebody or so from them but they yeah the toys are pretty legit they're pretty cool i just they come really really slick and i love them another question last question um and would you prefer the mouth and tongue over the toys oh toys you prefer the toys yeah oh shit i mean i gotta step my mouth no but you've known you've known that before though i'm just not for me period i'm not yeah the oral part does not really do a whole lot and it has somebody said ouch it has nothing to do with him it it doesn't matter it's it's great and all but it doesn't get me it doesn't get me there but for it's a way to get me there if you're going to do that then oral that's true my preference yeah again this is not a slight for lock no it doesn't matter who's doing it girl boy it's not it's i don't take it as that i don't take it as that i mean i've known that about you and um and should i have other friends who appreciate my skills yeah it's all good yeah and i mean for real no i'm just bullshitting but no for real i mean i do know that about you and i know what you like so So I'm not, I don't care.
I don't care. As long as we get you there. I don't care how we get it, how we get it done. How we get there doesn't matter as long as we get there. All right. Tris, I'll DM you a pic. Cool. Yeah, do that. DM that pic. Thank you. All right, guys. Well, I appreciate you for joining tonight. Yes. Ladies and gentlemen, this has been a blast.
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