We crammed a lot into this one! This episode is full of some fun stuff. We took a BDSM Quiz to help us hone in on our curiosity of the Kink world. We share our top archetypes results - some may surprise you. They definitely surprised us!We talk about how we were fortunate enough to be a part of the erotica producer, Erika Lust s blog highlighting non-monogamous relationships. Then, we get into our experiment with exploring different types of porn! Now, that was fun...and turned into a sexy good time!Finally, we present you with a 7-day Intimacy Challenge. Check out the details and let us know how it goes!As always, thanks so much for listening!Enjoy!Be sure to SUBSCRIBE, RATE, REVIEW! We appreciate any and all feedback!Check out Erika Lust s Blog on Non-Monogamous Couples here!Also, check out her films at xconfessions.comHow to stay in-touch with us:Email: [email protected] us here for info on upcoming LIVE episodes:Instagram: @thesuitelifepodcastTwitter: @suitelifepodFacebook: Livin the Suite Life (Tryst Loq Suitelife)Don t forget to SUBSCRIBE to the Livin the Suite Life Podcast YouTube Channel!
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Living the Sweet Life is a podcast intended for mature audiences only. We'll be using sexually explicit language while discussing many different adult themes. So if you're under the age of 18, please stop listening. Also, please know that our thoughts and opinions should not be taken as professional advice. We're here to answer your questions about the swinger lifestyle from newbies to longtime swingers. Or if you're just curious, we hope to engage you all and to encourage a sex positive discussion.
Now that we've got that out of the way, make yourself us in this episode of Living the Sweet Life. She is my beautiful, sexy co-host and wife, the lovely Trist. And he is my wonderful chocolate thunder husband, Locke.
And ladies and gentlemen, thank you again so much for joining us here in episode 22, Deuce De of living the sweet life so tonight we are going to be talking about some pretty cool stuff baby we got what we got the bdsm test results that we took we got trist actually tried out a little bit of pornography yes i did i'm so proud of myself you know what baby i'm proud of you too i am so proud of you and then at the end of the episode today we're going to talk a little bit about uh a little intimacy challenge that we're going to be doing with some of our friends so hang in there all the way to the end because we want to see if you guys participate and see how you like the the whole challenge thing all right all right so uh yeah man that's going to be episode 22 so let's you know real quick take care of some housekeeping items if you want to email us feel free to do so at the sweet life podcast at gmail.com if you want to follow us on instagram follow us at the sweet life podcast and follow us on twitter at sweet life pod if you are so inclined go ahead and check out our facebook page at trist lock sweet life and always if you uh have not had the opportunity to jump in the suite live with us please feel free to check out the podcast on itunes stitcher spotify google Google Play, iHeartRadio.
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If you follow us, you make sure you see everything in the right absolutely all right ladies and gentlemen without further ado we're gonna get into things but y'all know how it is number one rule i always gotta check in with my baby so trist how you feeling well guys i am actually feeling okay Like um no I'm feeling great actually um as Locke mentioned we launched our first mini video um this week on YouTube on our YouTube channel and basically our mini videos is just another way for you guys to be intimate with us and to answer any questions that you may have or we can answer some questions for you as well um but we're just giving you another venue to basically uh get to know us and comment on anything that we're actually talking about and and that gives us time to to like break down some of the um conversations that we may have said on a youtube channel but when we were actually doing the podcast but we didn't actually get to break down all the way so we're going to start doing these mini videos and i'm super excited about it that's right man uh you know trist is a producer director of all the videos i'm just showing up for work it feels good to kick my feet up every now and then and just feel like the sexy talent but no i, I mean, in all seriousness, man, I'm just I love it.
I love it. I love the fact that she's taking a hold of this thing and she's trying to grow the sweet life. And she's trying to make us a little bit more transparent, make us a little bit more available to you guys at all times. And, you know, hopefully you guys receive it well. So just hit us up. Let us know how you're feeling about whatever we got going on. And we can keep modifying and keep changing and, you know, suiting your needs, man. Absolutely. And feel free to join in the suite, guys. And one of our suite talkers says, hello, sexy people. Hello. Hello to you, too. Wonderful lady.
How are you doing? Thank you so much for joining. All right. how are you feeling baby i am feeling encouraged i am feeling encouraged hey real quick always want to say you know shout out to everybody out there i want to say you know hopefully uh everybody within the sound of my voice is safe and half healthy and happy and uh you know i wish the to everybody. I hope y'all are maintaining through this crazy crisis. Uh, and you know, I hope the, I wish the best for you and your loved ones. Right. Um, and we just want to let you guys know that we're, we're going to keep on working.
We're going to keep on, uh, getting in front of the mics and get in front of the cameras and give you guys some kind of relief hopefully we're giving you something to laugh at and talk about or whatever and part of that actually is something that I'm feeling really encouraged about is because thankfully you know the Suite Life has kind of been taking on another little another little gear you know what I mean we kind of hit another gear um we were able to sit down and do a quick little uh interview with uh normalizing non-monogamy uh so stay tuned for that um we did an episode for their podcast and that'll be coming out sometime at the end of april really dope couple yes that was a lot of fun they're really really nice so check it check them out um we get to do a little bit of background on who we are and what we all about so yeah check out that episode when it comes out um and uh part of what tonight's episode is going to be um is based on another little little success that we had recently um and that was erica lust the female provocateur uh erotica producer uh extraordinaire herself uh actually put out a post on ig uh we reached out and uh she wanted to talk to couples that are representative of uh non-monogamy right so we reached out and they reached back at us and told us they wanted to be wanted us to be a part Thank you.
that are representative of uh non-monogamy right so we reached out and they reached back at us and told us they wanted to be wanted us to be a part of their blog yeah that's pretty exciting news for us yeah it was it was so incredible right so we got an opportunity to be interviewed and to be a part of their blog uh for erica lust and uh i mean it's just it was awesome it was awesome it's pretty exciting i mean uh living a sweet life is kind of building and taking on its own life so we were very grateful and appreciative to be a part of um the blog for erica lust yeah yeah so it was pretty awesome and again you're going to hear more about um her and her work uh later on through the podcast it was kind of the catalyst for everything to come it was so we will get into that all right um i guess that's about it babe that's how i'm feeling so you ready to get into tonight's episode let's do it let's go all right ladies and gentlemen thank you so much for hanging in there uh we got a couple sweet talkers chiming in hey hey uh we got somebody saying congratulations hey thanks a lot really appreciate it another person said that's awesome all right thanks a lot everybody i mean you know every every time you guys jump in here um and post a little something it makes it all worthwhile we really appreciate it you know i've said it before that this show is nothing without all you guys um you know it's an audience driven show you know we're just your voice so you know the more you talk the more we got to talk about so we appreciate you guys jumping in and we having some fun doing it absolutely thank you guys so much that's right that's right so without further ado let's get talking about this bdsm quiz yes you know we're not going to take too much of y'all time because y'all didn't get an opportunity to take the quiz, you know, so that's not fair, right?
Right. So we're just going to give you a little brief description on how we got here, right? So if y'all listen to a lot of our podcasts or any of our other content or whatever, you might have noticed a little theme, right, that we kind of dibbling and dabbling in the world of BDSM and kink. Would you say that, Trist? I would say that's true. Yeah.
I mean, yeah i mean we've been kind of curious it's kind of been around it's been like a little reoccurring theme lately so something that we've been kind of like uh just just wanting to check out a little bit more of um i mean you've always been one to uh accept a little smacking on that ass i mean who doesn't like a little smacking every now and then i'm sure our sweet talkers can relate to that yeah let us know if y'all like to get that ass slap so i mean that's been something right like um we've done floggers floggers you bought your own flogger i bought you one for christmas yes um what else have we done uh we've gone to the uh the D.C.
fetish ball, which was definitely eye-opening. Absolutely. Yes. What else have we done? We've gone to the the D.C. Fetish Ball. Yes. Which was definitely eye opening. That was that was a wild experience. Right. With the electro of like fan. Yeah. It was like an electric shock. Like fan. Yeah. It was great. Yeah. It was pretty awesome. So, I mean, we got to see a lot of stuff. It was like a major sampling of like the BDSM kink community. Yes. And it's kind of arousing, right? It's kind of intriguing, something that just got got our attention.
And it's something that we definitely want to explore more of. Even our last little escapade with our unicorn, she's kind of into the whole bdsm world and she introduced us to a couple of things um shit that like i said in a previous episode that i had even didn't even know that i was into like you know just actually getting right my body slapped around it was pretty hot man it got me going uh so let's see. We have a couple of Sweet Talkers chiming in, babe. Yes, we do. So, Tris, you look great in red. Thank you so much. I appreciate you. She does. I try.
I try my best to figure out what I'm going to wear for the show for you guys. Next Sweet Talker says that I'm a switch. All right. Our other sweet talker says that I'm a sub. There we go. This is great, guys, because we're going to get into what we found out on the test. Yeah, we found a little bit about ourselves, man. So real quick, we're just going to go ahead and get into some of those definitions. is you know if you guys went ahead and uh took some time and did a little google searching for bdsm test or bdsm quiz like the first option that pops up is what we did, right?
It doesn't take much. It doesn't take much searching, that is. But it was pretty helpful. It was actually pretty cool to see all the different archetypes and definitions of what people can be characterized as. Yes.
Um name a few you got let's see who someone said that they were a sub and a sub is someone who's submissive someone submissives like to follow yes some like to give the control away to their partners some like to have it forcibly taken from them hey sweet talker what kind of you you like to he's like i want to know i mean you know i want to i do want to know right i want to know if they if they prefer to like give it away or yes you know kind of taken away yes yeah and someone said that they were a switch what's the switch honey so a switch is basically someone that can go back and forth they don't really um they don't really like to be um in a role of one of the other like in control all the time and they don't want to be the person who is in the non-control world right right so they kind of like like to switch it up like a little variety like a little back and forth and you know uh an outsider once told us both of us that we were switches right yes and and um let's see based on what the the archetype said on the quiz or whatever said that uh switches tend to like other switches yeah um oh our sweet talker said that they like to give control that's awesome okay cool cool so she uh prefers not to have it taken away prefer to give it right okay that's cool that means you got to earn it yes if y'all listening so let's go through some of ours okay all right so our top five after we took the quiz it's just so funny that we're talking about switch so my number one is that it came back that i'm a switch no surprise yes i like variety i would not like to be in control the whole time but i also want to be in control sometimes so i'm kind of one of those undecided people that one day i may feel this way and the next time I may feel this way.
So that's my number one after taking the quiz is that I am a switch and that you were a switch. And I got it. I got to agree with that assessment of you, period. Like this is how you are in life. I think so. Like you are a force to be reckoned with at any given moment. But then there are moments where you just say, help, like I need help or I need you to take control. I need you to to do this thing for me or, you know, and those are very few and far between. But yes, that's definitely related to your personality. But so what was your number one? My number one was actually an exhibitionist.
No surprise there. Nope. I like to be naked, man. I like to be naked. I like to people for people to look at us when we're having sex. I like to for us to be seen. I like for us to be heard. And I have been known to try to put on a show. Yeah, he should show off. I was waiting for him to finish, guys, so he can like go through all of that.
You know you know oh i just like to be naked and all of that no he's a show off i mean it's fun right i i enjoy picking you up and tossing you around and all that cool stuff all i have to say is that bruno marr's song gorilla would never be the same again oh yeah that was from our uh sexy episode down in desire so check that out show off check out that total show off but so what's your number two my number two is a rope bunny rope bunny and you know i recently only the only figured that out right that i enjoy being restrained but not restrained in a way where it's like um i'm in distress We'll see you next time.
I enjoy being restrained, but not restrained in a way where it's like, um, I'm in distress. Oh, like restrained with ropes where it's like sexy still like having rope, like, like right now, if you guys are watching the live show right now, if you see my outfit, like if I had like just ropes in between here and underneath my boobs, like over top of Thank you.
if you guys are watching the live show right now if you see my outfit like if i had like just ropes in between here and underneath what's here like over top of my boobs underneath kind of like a harness over top of me of my my breasts oh that would be a total turn off it's just like the touch of the ropes and having it up against my body that turns me on but not in a way where it's um i'm in pain right like in pain in a way where it's sensual but not in pain in a way where i'm like screaming because i'm in pain right that makes a different type of pain i guess that makes sense to me i mean you know i'm sure some people like that pain some people like to push their their threshold of pain, the line between pleasure and pain.
Yeah. I just think it's something sexy about ropes. Yeah. For some reason. So we're definitely going to explore. And that was pretty much the point of this, right? Because we kind of dibble and dabble in the world of kink and BDSM. We're really, really newbies.
So we wanted to kind of like hone in on the things that we might be interested in so we could dig a little deeper yeah so let's jump in let's catch up with our sweet talkers real quick um some people said that they like to give control uh black and kinky shout out to them hey what's up guys thanks for joining uh someone said nah really lock yeah i am i like to be naked in front of people sweet talker and you know it you've seen me walking around no he'd like to be show off but okay so uh sweet talker says that i'm in control so much in my regular life that i need my dom to take control over me in the bedroom when we go out and you know i feel the same way like i'm in control a lot as well but i don't know sometimes i still can't completely give it up i still need to be in that control so that was your number two you did your number two uh nope i did what was your number two uh rope bunny what was your number two my number two was actually a voyeur that's no surprise either no surprise i mean i like to watch and i like that was how we started though we did we started off as voyeurs uh so another sweet talker said uh yes i only submit to my partner there you go yeah and someone else said that the sensation of ropes on the skin is very erotic i agree i so agree with.
It's something about that that I want to just explore. I'm not like I haven't put my pulse like finger on it yet, but I'm going to explore that some more. Hell yeah. That's going to be that's that's the number one. This is a good one. Go for it. How about tying your hands up with a necktie? Have we done that? No. Yes, we have. We have. Have we?
Yes have we have yes facts yes we have we did it on your birthday um a year ago something like that and uh i don't think i was the one doing the tie-in if i may say so well it's not the same as a rope because i don't remember it so right like Like, and he'll say, like, just because you don't remember, it never happened. Pretty much. That's how you are. That's how you are. Terrible. All right, go ahead. Sorry. Number three for me was vanilla. Now, let me tell you guys, the question was just kind of, like, screwed up for me. Like, I just couldn't, like, figure it out.
The question really was if really was if your partner it was on the lines like if your partner's not getting their sexual needs met would you be okay with them going out to get it somewhere else and of course what do i say babe you said no hell no no no so it pinged me at number three is being a vanilla. OK. But whatever. Yeah. I mean, we've talked about this before. Like I've I've laid it all out for you. Like if I wasn't sexually satisfying you, like my marriage is number one. Right. Like I want to stay married to you, to who you are.
And if I wasn't pleasing you, we can talk about finding ways for you to get pleased and this is fact he did say that this is a real conversation guys it really was it was a it was a definite heart to heart that we had and if it was um you know if it was something that i wasn't doing or you know i couldn't satisfy you you know we can explore other options i'm i was okay with that at that time and you know and it still remains so you know it's all good with me luckily you don't have to worry about that all right so what's your next one right uh my number three was actually a switch so we've covered that but yeah i mean that is something i to – I didn't realize that I do like to submit.
I do like that. I like it when you can – your assertiveness turns me on. I think that's what it is. I love it when you are – when you tell me what you want, when you tell me how to get it, how to get you there. That shit is hot. Yeah. I love it. And my last one was Voyeur. Was it four? You're number four? Oh, did I do four?
You got do four you gotta go oh i'm so sorry guys that's number four number four for me is a voyeur okay so i i i absolutely i like to watch right that's my thing i i love to watch it's like watching live porn for me so being a voyeur is definitely up my alley it's no surprise that that's in my top five mine was a rope bunny he wouldn't be tied up maybe yeah you know i can see that i can see how i would like to be tied up but that that's that's cool i i'm really interested in doing the tying though i know i feel like that's um like a a dedicated like artwork that i can get behind like something i can really just sit back and just like um just zone out and just get done i would i would love to do that uh black and kinky says definitely love an aggressive woman absolutely i agree with that man uh what else you got and my last one is being a submissive which is kind of surprising but i think it goes along the lines of me being a switch We'll be right back.
And my last one is being a submissive, which is kind of surprising. But I think it goes along the lines of me being a switch. Yeah. But, yeah. I think it goes along the lines of you being a switch and kind of related to what that sweet talker says. I just don't like being in control all the time. Yeah, you don't like being in control all the time. Yeah.
And I think, you know, we'll get there when it comes to uh our porn exploration but yeah yeah i mean it's just certain triggers that kind of surprised me oh so the sweet talkers black and kinky acts uh have we ever seen someone having sex or doing something that we didn't like um not that we didn't like we saw a whole bunch of like new shit when we went to that um that bdsm house party oh yes that was some pretty wild shit but it wasn't really people having sex no but we saw like uh was it i i dare to say it was like a knife pulled out some some kind of Oh, yeah. Yes, you did.
Or like some spurs or something like that. It was. It was a knife and some spears. Yeah. So it made me a little uncomfortable. That just wasn't our flavor. Yeah. It's fine. Yeah. So these. My last one. Yeah, I was about to say, what was your last one? Was a brat tamer. huh? That suits, because somebody can be a little bit of a brat every now and then. Sometimes, I guess. So we figured that our top five, they kind of were in sync, actually. Yeah, they are. For what we think we are and what we think we like.
It seems like we might be a pretty good pair, pretty good pair thankfully thankfully after all these years of marriage um so yeah it's gonna be it's gonna be pretty cool we're gonna keep you posted on our exploration of uh of uh bdsm the community if anybody has any suggestions on you know stuff that we could try out or yeah please let us know if anybody know anything about some floggers man i'm trying to find a really good one so hook me up send me a nice little website or something i could check out yes and i will one of our sweet talker says that are great tutorials on youtube oh perfect and edge play who you know that is when you are teasing and getting your partner all the way to the edge of climax, but don't allow them to do that.
And then you say, no, no. Yes, that's pretty fucking hot. That can be hot. That can be hot. No, no. That can be pretty hot. All right, guys. So, again, tell them about where we found it. I think we just Googled it. Yeah. Yep, literally just Googled BDSM test or BDSM quiz, and it should be the first one right up there. Check it out. And let us know your results. Hit us up on IG, Twitter, whatever, email. Let us know what you guys think. All right, baby.
So, y'all ready to get into the next topic all right trish tried porn she was a bad girl this weekend y'all so here's the thing right if y'all listen to any of our other episodes you're gonna hear this woman swear up and down i don't watch porn i don't watch porn right she swears she doesn't watch it i don't and we're going to get into her reasons why but we're going to talk about how we got here how did we how did i get her to actually sit down and watch so what it was was again like i mentioned earlier um we got we were fortunate enough to sit down and do the interview with erica lust.
And like I said, as who she is, is a major erotica producer. You can call it porn if you want. Right. But I mean, that's what was on her website.
So, I mean, but it's a different brand of porn, if you will um it's more sensual uh it's more i'd say natural because it's like real people it's basically just real people they're not like you know beauty beauty pageant models or anything like that they're just like regular people um you're going to see some bush you might see some armpit hair you know there's they're very very well done films they are right yes beautiful like 4k films um i'd say no longer than 30 minutes um but beautifully directed um well acted um so we got an opportunity to sit down and, you know, once we did the interview, they gave us a one year subscription to all of her films.
And we saw this as an opportunity to sit down and compare. Yes. Let's compare all the free shit, all the, you know, straight up Pornhub, whatever, to another, let's just say higher quality porn let's see what we got right right so this isn't the first time we've sat down and watched porn before have it was it no and this isn't the first time we actually well i've actually heard of urculus so yes we um was we were actually going to watch it prior to us doing the blog um What happened was that our unicorn, I happened to mention the same thing, that I do not like porn.
There's nothing on porn that turns me on, that gets me hot and bothered. It just doesn't interest me at all.
And I got the response from our unicorn was that, well, you're not watching the right porn right porn and i'm like i've heard people tell me that before and no i've listened i've looked at other ones and i just it just doesn't work for me so she said have you ever heard of erica less and i had not at that time and um i was going to check her videos out because i'm like okay let i have nothing loose let's see if it's something there and fast forward and yeah we got the opportunity to participate in the blog and then we decided to compare here we are so questions for you sweet talkers how does porn intersect in your relationship or in your play do you guys do you watch it with like your partner do you watch it individually and uh yeah i mean you know we used it early on um because i thought it was something hot you know i thought it was something hey you know let's do this sexy shit together this is before the baby you know we had time right and a little bit of privacy right so you know it was something that we wanted to kind of explore just a little bit but it was it was tough tryst was not feeling it so why is that honey so for me um it was a few things so my thoughts were when i'm a visual person so when i'm looking at it it just felt unrealistic to me the way that it was set up it just wasn't something that would naturally actually happen and even though i know okay yes it's choreographed and yes it we know that at the end someone's going to have sex it just came across to me as being unnatural and corny okay so i couldn't really get into it because of that that was just like i couldn't like relate and that's like any porn like that was any porn i mean because if you go to like like again if you go to like porn hub or something like that you get you basically get right to the fucking most of the time you get right to it you know all you gotta do is click the right one yeah and it's going to be some some sex happening yeah and that wasn't anything that you were uh you didn't like that at all no i did not it just wasn't interesting to me i felt like it was um it was just too it was just too like vulgar no just just like too choreographed like I don't know.
It's just like, you was just too, like. Vulgar? No, just, like, too choreographed. Like, I don't know. It's just like, you know, put your right foot here. Okay, now let's get the fucking. I don't know. It's just like, it just didn't seem like to flow naturally to me. And it's not that I'm a square or anything like that. I mean, we're in a non-monogamous marriage. Right. So it has nothing to do with that.
It's not anything to do with, oh, am I uncomfortable watching porn porn does it make me feel a certain way none of those things it's just that it felt very unrealistic to me and again it's just because maybe i hadn't found the right type of porn but i definitely can see the benefits of porn like you learn a lot you know, different positions to try, maybe different type of scenes you want to do in your relationship or by yourself or how to masturbate differently. Like, I get the benefits of it. I just had found the right one to make me get in the mood, I guess.
Well, spoiler my thing shit always has been always will be right i mean uh growing up i mean it was just like you know of course it was curiosity uh it was like you know i wanted to learn how to be good at sex i wanted to figure that shit out what does a vagina vagina look like? What does that shit look like? I have no clue. And then, of course, it's just awesome. And then you just start exploring, like, your fantasies. Let's catch up a little bit on Sweet Talkers. We got a little bit of action happening there. So someone says that we watch both together and individually.
Also, mutual masturbation while watching it. Hey. It's nothing wrong with that.
Just hang on tight for the rest of this show black and kinky says the bell talks too much dorn porn yeah we're gonna get to that one too oh man this is funny man uh we got another one says i watch it alone it does nothing for me to watch with somebody else that's a different take that's interesting i guess because you're probably trying to gauge if they're enjoying it or not um i found myself that way when we were watching it together uh i found myself uh kind of looking over at you to see if you were enjoying yourself okay you know i wasn't i didn't allow myself to enjoy it as much early on uh so maybe i can understand that and sweet talker let me know if i hit on that one um let's see we watch it individually we do share ideas and scenes that we like that's yeah that's awesome that's what i'm talking about and it goes back to my point of you know that there are benefits to watching porn definitely definitely and that's that's definitely one of them is that you get to share in those fantasies um a lot of uh podcast advice or swinging advice you know when people say that uh they want to introduce their partner into the lifestyle um some common advice is maybe you should sit down with your partner and have them watch porn yeah you know watch some of the fantasies and just kind of broach the idea that way say you know here's something that's kind of sexy so what do you think of that you know what do you think of having two dicks in your face you know right and going off of how your partner responds is something that you can maybe start having those discussions and work your way into a lifestyle situation so yeah yeah hey sweet talker we see you we see you thanks for all the love on ig and uh on youtube we always appreciate that thanks for jumping in there uh another one black and kinky says porn is made for men who want to get a quick nut for most part i see what trish is saying yeah you're absolutely right how it just gets to the fucking you know it is and it's always the angles and positions that uh exploit the women more than anything you see a lot of pussy you know what i'm saying um the whole pov thing you see it's always the point of view of the man you see the dick going i mean it is made for us but we will get to the differences we will so let's talk talk about our little exploration baby how did we start um when we when we started we checked out a little bit of pornhub so we so we went to Pornhub so we started with Pornhub and they're like I don't even know millions of different categories it felt like it's just like so overwhelming to figure out like okay so where do I start with which title to start with and and category and those types of things so um we started with reality yep yep and somebody just chimed in amateur porn is the best and that was pretty much uh on the cusp of what we where we started yes it was like reality it was like reality and it had to do with like oh i'm the cleaning lady yeah which she was hot right it was a hot cleaning lady like you didn't even see her face you only just really saw her her body.
She was cleaning. I was like, okay, so I'm here with you. Then we get to the point of where Dave's about to start. She was cleaning under the bed. She was cleaning under the bed. Then she was just like, I got stuck. Help me. Dan's in distress. I was like, this would not happen, but I'm still here with you. But then the guy comes over and it was and then it was like, at first you had me intrigued. You almost had my nipples hard.
And then it was like, oh, for me, the guy came over and he had on these regular boxers, you know, like the boxers you just wear when you're just walking around the house, not the sexy ones that fit your body and, you know, show all of the man goods, like the ones that you just pull out the pee hole. Okay, what you're talking about is the difference is, yeah, you're talking about the regular boxers versus boxer briefs. You like boxer briefs. Okay, well, sorry. All right, I got you. But, yes. I got you. He had, yep, there you go. He had the regular boxers on. He had regular boxers on.
So then, so he comes over and he had on socks, regular boxers, and a big old T-shirt. And I was just like. So here we go. So this is what it's always like when we try to watch porn, right? So she gets down to the nitty gritty of the details of the guys in the socks.
And I looking at an ass and she's looking at his socks and his boxers and the rug and why is the rug that way this shit would never happen this is bullshit you know yes he kept the socks he kept on and he kept on his dag on t-shirt okay so this this became like a it was ultimately a pov all you see is like you know his dick coming out of his boxers you see the bottom of his t-shirt and it was pretty poorly done so you know he didn't shave he had a bush so needless to say we we clicked we closed that one out yep so i was like uh-uh next nobody got excited no and what else did we try after that so then we um well we looked at a couple of the other titles there were some other ones in there like young and old like young women with older men or they had like asians or ebony um but we made it to the sensual oh yeah the sensual we did open the sensual because i thought maybe like a little bit uh slower paced a little bit more foreplay maybe something that'll get tristan motor running right yeah so we got there and then here we go she's criticizing the soft yoga music okay so it basically there was no speaking or anything they had yoga music playing and it looked like we were in yoga class but they were having sex they didn't even get to them didn't even get to the sex part i could i got distracted by the sound of the music being like yoga or we were at a spa so we closed out of that one and we closed out of that so then we found our way to bondage yes and here's where shit got interesting again we've kind of been going down this bdsm kink road right so we go to the bondage spot and this is where tris spent the most of her time i did we found a clip of a woman who was she was tied up to a bedpost tied to a bedpost elevated elevated and her feet was off the ground to a bad post um and then the uh the gentleman comes in um and like continues to tie her up in different ways and wrap her neck and wrap up her eyes and she's moaning and pleasure and yeah this is the one we let play the most right we let this one play long look at your smile you smiling now so he he got her pretty much all the way aroused and you know he was spanking her on her ass and he was getting her all the way there and then what happened he just walked out she was completely blindfolded and he turned off the lights and she said oh that's yeah he got her all the way there and it was like okay it was i mean because i mean honestly he got us there too it was like a tease for us you're building that suspense and we're getting more and more excited excited and then bam nothing into the video wow it was it was very cool it was cool it was cool i like that so then we kind of stayed in that rabbit hole of bondage and uh we decided to go ahead and check out some rope play uh the rope play um some stuff was a little bit graphic what happened when we when we we got to those little spots?
Some of them just was not, it wasn't as sexy as the bedposts. It was just kind of maybe. A little too rough. Too rough. So I'm not, I don't think I'm a too rough person when it comes to that. Yeah. Yeah, so it was a little bit too rough. Felt like that. I was actually kidnapped and somebody was really trying to kill me. It's not my thing. I forgot we came across that one. Yeah, that was a bit much. It's just not my flavor. I understand that maybe other people's place is not mine. That's right. And that's that's the thing about like Pornhub point in general. There's something for everybody.
Yo, I'm about like porn hub uh porn in general there's something for everybody yo i'm telling you you could type in anything and you will find something for you yeah uh black and kiki says the anticipation intention can be powerful yes absolutely 100% agree another sweet talker says withholding orgasms can be fun but torture it can't be be. I agree. Yes. I love it. So. So, okay, that was something that kind of got us, kind of got us going, right? That was kind of fun. It got the party, like, okay. So, what other types do you guys search for?
Like, we went down this rabbit hole of BDSM and ropes and all that stuff.
Tell share if you don't mind of course share uh what you what do you guys click on i also did a little click for glory hole i'm going to let tris take a little thing about this glory hole it's something about the anonymity of it it's kind of hot to me i don't know glory hole um we did a little search for like a quick search for threesomes we did um and i think that was really it for the porn hub experience and i think we was ready to go ahead and check out some of that erica lust porn so then we we go to erica lust's website and then we start doing our search there yeah we checked out the categories there what did you find about the categories what did you notice there so i noticed immediately like the site it was just set up a little bit different it didn't feel as overwhelming as the other site i can kind of really focus on what i may want to go to as far as like clicking on or trying out um so i appreciated that okay okay uh real quick some they responded uh let see.
Someone said they'd like to check out amateur cam couples. I love that. That's pretty hot. Like having web cameras. Yeah. I love that. Someone said massage play. Someone said cuckold, glory hole, threesomes, and amateur BBW. Oh, wait. Very specific laundry list list i love it man yes uh let's see bomber search for cosplay catwoman in particular that's hot that's hot see i bet that's pretty sexy nice uh and someone said when i watch individually i like a good gangbang five or six that's what i'm. You can find anything. Everybody has very specific tastes.
Sweet Talkers, do you find that it helps with your fantasies? It helps you define your fantasies? Or do your fantasies define your porn? You see what I'm saying? That's a good question. So let me know what y'all think about that. So, yeah. So you said that it was a much better, easily managed website. Yes. It Very user friendly. Yes. You could tell. I mean, this was a pay to play. Right. This is a this is not a free Web site. Right. So she's people are paying. So there's going to be a difference in quality. Yeah. Yeah. You know what I'm saying? I mean, it's for me.
Everything is it has a certain type of like choreography or, of choreography or how they're going to play out. But I felt like hers was done a little bit more tasteful. I don't know. It had like a story to it. Right, right. And I think that's what I needed. It had a story to it, so it kept me more engaged as far as, okay, what's about to happen?
Instead of like oh i arrive and we're fucking yeah when we were pre-gaming for the show you said that it was a little bit more realistic yes her stories were more realistic to me that i could really see how okay the disc can play out right right and you said that it was like watching a regular movie it was it's like watching a regular movie to me i thought that was cool i thought that was a really good point to make because it did feel like that it felt like uh real actors doing and doing a thing it's not like did you order this pizza yes i did come on in here set that sausage pizza you're in this like on my hot box lingerie outfit and ready i don't know but yeah it wasn't like that at all it wasn't it was it was a lot more engaging you know something that really caught your attention so uh it took us a few tries to actually find something that really like um rung to us or that spoke to who we are and what we were looking for yes so i gotta say you know let's just be real here like when you click on some stuff it's gonna be some shocking shit every now and then yeah it will be it's gonna be some shocking shit you're gonna turn on something and it might not be your taste but that's okay too okay it's something out there for everyone yeah i mean because we clicked on an episode uh not an episode of um i don't know a film uh and it was like a couple two couples it was one couple male female going to a to meet up another meet with another couple male female and the party started getting getting jumping you know the the women were kind of sitting down and the men were having drinks at the bar having you know a couple drinks together they start dancing next thing you know the men start kissing yeah it was a little bit of a shock we did not see that i didn't see that coming we didn't see it coming that's okay you know it wasn't our cup of tea but it might be for somebody else yeah and that's cool so you know we kindly clicked the x but but a button and went back to go find something else because it's something for everybody, everybody.
You know, so then. So that's a question I wanted to ask you guys. Are you when you're like looking for porn? Are you looking for people that are comparable to you, like to your are you looking for certain physical traits, I guess? like are you looking for big booties are you looking for certain physical traits, I guess? Like, are you looking for big booties? Are you looking for micro penises or whatever? Some people might. Some people like to see that type of stuff. You know what I'm saying? I don't mean to laugh. I'm so sorry. It's okay. But yes, there's something out there for everyone.
Yeah, I want to know. Do we need to catch up?
I think we got to catch up with some people here my fantasies define my porn yeah i i like that right so you have an idea in your head of something that you want to see and then you type it in and then you try to find it i like that that's cool uh someone says i use it to uh use it to prepare my wife to be a hot wife maybe you're learning like little tricks and stuff you know of course you can't use this as a specific guidebook but i can understand you know you can you can watch some of the stuff to get some ideas uh bell also likes hentai interesting bomber likes uh porn comics very cool very cool those are like um the japanese oh yes yes we saw that that's very cool yeah that's very cool i like it uh not the sausage sorry yep they're the sausage pizza that's right uh let's see i also get off on lifestyle podcasts like yours bomber and bell thank you our unicorn diaries mick and renee just to name a few hey hey thank you we appreciate the love thank you and big asses i cannot lie i love it i love looking for big ass girls who squirt yeah that's cool and as we talk it says that i'm 5 11 curvy and i prefer to watch women who resemble me very cool what do youish?
You know, I don't have a particular preference as far as watching porn. I think that that more so for me pertains to real life. Yeah. And that's why I turned that question to you because I knew the answer. I'm like, yeah, I knew you was going to say that. You kind of like gravitate to women that kind of resemble you. And I'm not complaining. I like women who have curves too. You do. You like curvy women. Yeah. OK. So, yeah. So let's get into what we saw. Right. The first couple of flip films that we saw, we didn't quite get. It was like a baker scene or something like that.
then let's get into what we did like okay the first one that we liked was um the apartment oh yes the apartment tell them what happened i don't want to give the whole thing away for you guys but so it's basically um a couple uh lives in an apartment and they're having sex but they're having sex with the windows wide open i know you guys have probably had some sex with the windows open. Yeah, just straight up close to the window. So then across the street, this other woman, she would look inside their window while they're having sex and they kind of knew she was.
So they would just kept doing it.
Basically, they knew she was watching and then they would write a little letter hold the letter up to the window and say we know you're watching and she write a letter back and say oh yeah you know and long story short they invited her over and it was just super sexy it was have her have to have that idea of a fantasy like that coming true where she came over and you know I don't even think they exchanged names I don't even think so but I can see it happening yeah the way did it happen I could see that actually happening in real life so I think that that's what for me made it hot because I can see someone having sex in a window and someone watching it across the way and getting turned on by it.
And then just like, hey, you want to just come over and party with us? Yeah, that'd be the neighbor directly across. But you're forgetting about the neighbor that's upstairs that can see down in your ship. Oh, well. And they call it a popo. Well, whatever. It's certainly fine. I don't care.
The next one that we ended up watching was so real quick let me just set the scene for you guys because this shit is about to go left and i need y'all to catch up here we go so if you're watching us on uh youtube live you can see that i have headphones on right yes so we have a full house we got a whole situation with everybody upstairs the kids and everything so we came down to do this little time apart from them we locked all the doors this was our time this was our date time we were all smelling good it was nice we had we was all sexy yep that's right that's right so we were right here in front of this very camera uh watching porn on this computer that you guys are looking at us on right now with the headphones on because of course you don't want the kids to hear this shit upstairs right turn it up too loud or whatever so we had the headphones on and we're watching this stuff together so now you understand this was the scene this was the scene so then uh we turn on another another scene uh of two couples i don't know, it was like a barbecue or a cookout or something.
A cookout or something, yeah. Who cares? But it was hot. So they were just like hanging out at the pool and, you know, the one, you know, couple A, the husband went to rub on the wife of couple B and vice versa. And it just turned into like it felt like a real organic kind of situation that we've been in before it felt very very familiar it did uh and again to set this scene we have these cans on yes and next thing you know you know this is on each other yeah this is when i asked tris i had did a little check-in. So, you know, you feeling a little tingle there? You feeling a little something?
And she responds, yeah. And then next thing you know, we click pause. We ran and got some of the Uber lube and, you know, and Sweet Talkers. Somebody mentioned mutual masturbation. And that's kind of what it turned into. Yes.
But it was like thing it was like we had these headphones on it was almost like a goddamn um silent disco yeah like a silent disco where all this wild shit is happening only in our ears and it was so so sexy i mean i just sat back in this chair and she dropped her leg up and we broke out the what toy did we have the lilo the lilo that's a new one we'll talk to you guys about that at another episode and uh you know i was stimulating myself um and while you were playing with yourself and it was just so so sexy it was just so we were being so patient uh-huh uh and also while the sound of other couples having sex and being pleased in our ears it was it almost took us like back to a party right you felt like you were at a swinger party or something and we could see it visually and hear it it was just it was it was quite a scene in here yeah it was very sexy I mean being able to like look over at you while you're playing with yourself and then look back at the at the computer screen and seeing these hot people having sex it was super hot it definitely was right and I think that's something that we definitely got to keep on exploring here we got to try that again yeah and i mean guys you would you you would have been proud of the sexual ballet that occurred i mean yes we didn't even get cords like tangled up or any of that everybody still kind of remained intact somehow no drinks were dropped nope yeah man it was it was a very sexy scene in the suite.
If only these walls could talk. It got kind of spicy. Yeah. So I mean, so, babe, how do you feel now after it's all said and done? Do you think watching like some pornography could be something that will help? You know, I think so.
So, OK, so now that we've compared to different um type of sites i will we track my statement of that i'm not into porn i think that it has to be a certain type of format for me to actually stay in tune with what's going on right in in the actual act itself we know that now that I like Bdsm like rope play but not like to the point where i'm like someone is being kidnapped and you know tortured in a way that it feels like they're you know whatever their life is being threatened not in that way but um in a more sensual way yes like i enjoy a little bit of pain of watching them do a little bit of pain flogging and all of that type of stuff but also i think i'm more of a realistic story type of person okay and not just like hey you do the peace guy and you come over and then you just you just fuck the peace guy because he showed up at the door that's not my thing you kind kind of feel like it's something that could actually happen.
Yes, right. Something that could actually happen. But you guys, please feel free to comment on a YouTube channel. Let me know of any other sites that you want to recommend for me to try.
I am open to looking at anything that you may suggest because um i want to find out about more things that are out there recently actually earlier today we had someone um dm us about some porn that it's basically sound audio porn audio audio porn right yeah yeah uh and we had an opportunity to check it out right before the show started thanks uh thanks a lot uh sweet talker um i think this person was on instagram i actually sent it over um yeah the audio porn was actually very interesting yeah it was it was on a website called try quinn.com that's t-r-y-q-u-i-n- com.
Yeah, I thought it was very cool. We only had time to, like, listen to one snippet or one episode. It was about maybe five, ten minutes or something like that. And she had a really nice, sexy voice, so I could get how that can be a turn on. It was like a first-person narration where you only hear one person talking.
You only hear, like, if I was listening to trist on the phone you know if i was listening to her having a phone conversation i can only hear her talking uh but this person is narrating this entire story yes um and it was pretty fucking hot yeah it's pretty fucking hot i mean it lets your imagination just run wild on what the person looks like or what the partner looks like or what the scene looks like. Yes. If we could just sit back and just have that together and just sit back and listen with an extended amount of time, I think that could turn into some fucking. Absolutely.
Some of our sweet talkers are saying, let's see.
Oh, that's the way they feel about when they hear podcasts are sharing their stories their play stories true true this is true audio porn is fantastic there you go so he was holding out on his black and kinky i just found out about it like a few hours ago somebody said mutual masturbation is the best it really is it's a whole nother level it is it's a different um level to that yeah that's right it's another level of intimacy and patience yes um because you know you want to just ram it on in there but no it's about like just enjoying each other and letting her enjoy herself uh so that was that was definitely fun yes it was fun all righty and so another sweet talker says that uh sounds nice especially if you love the sound of sex yes i do uh-huh someone else said i like to read literatica so i can paint my own picture of what the people look like yes and that's what i actually said about this audio um that we listened to earlier i was like you can kind of like make your own story about what exactly is happening or how it looks that's right that's right i love it babe uh we got anything else in there um then blackie kinky says that tris might like Black Widow podcast.
Well, I'll check it out. Yeah, I mean, so porn is basically like a safe space, right, for you to just try anything. Yes. To dibble and dabble in your fantasies, to figure out the things that you like and might not like. It's definitely a safe space for that.
So another sweet talk hit us up and i think that person's in here tonight thanks again for reminding us do you make your own porn and how does that play into your life right oh like um we we'll make like porn we'll we'll take pictures of play sessions i'll take videos of play sessions but you and i haven't sat still and just like made a video no we haven't done that actually and that's something i want to do he's like i want to try i just got to keep you still long enough yes and another sweet talker says that have i ever watched lock with no interaction no that's a good one to try right right not solely i mean we have like done the mutual masturbation in the same room but it's always kind of like because we're just getting ready and we're getting close and we get close to each other it's not for a very long time okay you never like watch me to completion no no no um but yeah i would love to do that that'd be hot uh let's see you'll love our unicorn diaries uh point is like wine is an acquired taste all right so very cool very cool um yeah so the last thing if you guys will bear with me one second right after we get back we're going to talk about the intimacy challenge we got to say again thanks a lot this has been awesome folks um this has been a lot of great dialogue trish did you have anything else to add real quick no i didn't yeah so this has been fun this has been fun so when we get back folks we're going to go over the intimacy challenge something that's going to keep your bedroom nice and spicy uh while you're quarantined with them loved ones yes all right so hang tight with me right back all right ladies and gentlemen so we're in a couple of chat groups with a bunch of different lifestyle friends and one of our groups uh actually came up with i don't know if they came up with it or they discovered it whatever it is uh it's called like the intimacy intimacy challenge it's a seven day intimacy challenge and here it goes it might seem daunting at first But after just a week of intimacy you and your partner will have a new and much sexier normal so here's how it goes day one recreate intimacy from early on in your relationship like do something that you used to do back in the day right like back when you was young i mean i know you're probably fucking the movie theater and the movie theaters are closed right now but you can kind of recreate that at home not with your socks on no that if you was in high school and you was with the pants around your ankles with your boots on i say you do it i say you do it because it's funny uh day two explore a fantasy you've never tried before i think that could be fun day number three keep it spontaneous i guess let's just pull up you know find a spot you know make it happen um whenever the kids are asleep or whatever just just run to the side.
Hey, there you go. Somebody said fucking in the car. There you go. Hell yeah. Let's see. Day four, switch it up. I don't know. Maybe that means if you are the dominant person, maybe kind of submit. Have the other person slap you around and put you in a position to have some sex or something like that. You know, day number five, pick a place outside of the bedroom. Oh, see, well, then we can't be fucking in the car all the time. We got to find somewhere else. Yeah. Maybe a closet, you know, maybe the bathroom. But yeah, the shower is our spot. Yes, the shower has been our number one spot.
That's the only place we can get away, man. Well, we switched it up. We came to the studio. That's right. That was hot. Then day six, plan a date night. Now you're going to get a little romantic in there. You know what I'm saying? And then number day seven, do it and talk about it. Right.
But so the next part is each night, just make a quick video of you two saying how you enjoy the experience of togetherness right do a little something do a little uh video diary for yourselves and kind of have something to look back on and if you ever want to try it again uh later on in the year you can always see what you did you know what you did so you know what you want to do next time yeah then our sweet target says that you don't mess around and have a quarantine baby this is true um another sweet target says that outside on the patio or the deck i love that i love that i'm down i'm down or in-hmm can we get up there no our attic is too complicated well hey man Trish this has been fun sweet talkers again we are nothing without you we really appreciate you guys thank you so much I'm in and we love the activity tell your friends you know tell them join in uh whatever the case we love having company so let's keep the party going but absolutely don't want to leave you guys without saying you know stay safe um it's some serious shit going on out there um you know we're just trying to bring some levity to your do your day yeah um having some fun but i know it's you know we're just wishing the best for you and yours um and hopefully we'll be out of this craziness sometime soon y'all so absolutely keep washing your hands thank a health care professional um you know you know just take care of yourself and try not to stress out too bad man we're gonna be all right right yes we're gonna make it through we're gonna make it but thank you guys for joining and look out for those mini videos on our youtube channel as well um but thank you sweet talker so much we really really appreciate all the support your suggestions and your comments just everything that's right we appreciate you guys thanks for joining bye again we'd like to thank you for living a sweet life with us to everyone who couldn't join us live in the suite check out our podcast on itunes stitcher spotify google play and iheart radio be sure to subscribe rate and review feel free to email us at livingthesweetlifepodcast at gmail.com You can also follow us on Instagram Be sure to subscribe, rate, and review.
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