DESIRE! DESIRE! DESIRE! The wait is over! We ve been counting down for what seems like forever (a year and a half!) and the time has finally come! Time for us to make our return to Desire Riviera Maya! This super sexy lifestyle resort located close to Cancun Mexico was the destination of our first LS vacation 5 years ago. We re pumped to make our return!In this episode, we describe the resort and how it s set-up for tons of sexy fun! We chat about what we re looking forward to and the things that may make us a little nervous. Most importantly, we tell you a few cool things that you should pack when you go!Be sure to follow us on our social media to take a look at our pics and videos from the trip! This should be fun!Thanks for listening!Enjoy!Be sure to SUBSCRIBE, RATE, REVIEW! We appreciate any and all feedback!Podcasts mentioned in this episode:By the Bi PodcastBlack N KinkyPriory SocietyThat Couple Next DoorRoom 77How to stay in-touch with us:Email: [email protected] us here for info on upcoming LIVE episodes:Instagram: @thesuitelifepodcastTwitter: @suitelifepodFacebook: Livin the Suite Life (Tryst Loq Suitelife)Don t forget to subscribe to the Livin the Suite Life Podcast YouTube Channel!
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So, hey, everybody out there, man, we want to go ahead and let y'all know what we're talking about tonight we're going to be talking about riviera maya desire right back yeah man we've been counting down and we are anxiously awaiting the next weekend so we can get out of here but before we get into all of that y'all know i gotta ask my boo how you feeling beautiful i wanted to say i'm feeling one uh-oh but so right now so everything is trying to come to a head we're also dealing with if in the dc area um weather change yeah so i'm kind of a little bit if you hear my voice um i start sounding like a frog i'm drinking tea but it is starting to feel the sinus issues so my voice is going to be going up and down like a little boy going through puberty but it's all good um it's okay i'm going to push through but as far as how i'm feeling otherwise than that right is that um i'm excited i'm so excited that um so fun fact so a few days ago thursday thursday was halloween right so thursday was halloween and uh naughty and new orleans released their theme nights for naughty new orleans 2020 and i looked it up and all weekend i've been so excited i've been shopping already and it is october she has i am literally so excited when do we go to naughty when is naughty naughty is not until june june of 2020 please check out their website it is a super fun event so we've heard this will be our first time going but We'll be right back.
june of 2020 please check out their website it is a super fun event so we've heard this be our first time going but tris is excited to go and i am bringing my a game yes yeah you are so uh for any listeners of the podcast right now it is currently november of 2019 she's shopping getting ready for a party that is going on in june of 2020 so yep she's ahead of the game i'm all the way ahead of the game and mostly also excited that we have a trip that's right around the corner and i'm already shopping for 2020 but our trip is next week to desire and yes so i'm excited about that So how are you feeling, Locke?
Man, I am feeling excited of course i feel like i'm always saying i'm excited but i am man it's just so much to be excited about um i feel bad that you're sick i always want you to be uh you know tip-top condition i want you to go ahead and drink that tea and uh get yourself uh 100 because we only got a week left babe i know i got a week left but i'm gonna be fine i'm feeling good i'm feeling prepared i'm feeling relieved that we are here um i'm feeling excited that we're back in front of the camera it's been a minute uh since we've done this you know we we you know we've done a couple episodes uh that were that were uh normally recorded but this is this is great man i'm ready to get back into it so you ready to get to tonight's episode baby let's do it let's go so currently guys the suite is now open feel free to post any questions or comments feel free to post all night long and i'll be here and lock will be here to answer your questions that's right all night long so the suite is open to all of our good friends, our lovely sweet talkers.
So, baby, since tonight we are talking about all things desire, man, this is exciting, man. So we've been we've been doing this for a long time now. We've been counting down. Bless you, honey. That's OK. I'll edit that out. So don't worry.
So, yeah, we've been we've been waiting patiently for for this trip man we've been we've been ready uh well been getting ready for about a year and a half now yeah so yes no yes i think we we purchased this trip we booked this trip back in june of 2019 yeah over a year okay well yeah so what's the purpose how did we get here what why did we get here a little funny story about that but how did we get here so we were pregnant well I was pregnant yeah yeah and I felt like I deserved a push gift and that's the biggest rip-off in the world by the way if. If anybody's listening, I'm sorry.
I'm just going to go ahead on my old man rant. I can't do push gifts. What are these things? This is some millennial shit. Yeah, and Trish wanted a push gift. So therefore, I asked for a push gift, and of course, he laughed. I did. Because he thought it was funny. I did. But I wasn't thinking it was funny.
I was going through a lot with my body my boobs was huge yeah that ass was amazing big jugs my ass was super huge yeah i'm like i deserve a gift no no that's fine so instead of an actual gift a tangible gift i didn't want that i said well let's go to desire you give me trip to desire and um i'm ready to go and he's like really really you know because we're pregnant we weren't doing a lot of lifestyle things then but yes i want a trip to desire so it just worked out we planned it so like perfectly planned it without even knowing it we just picked picked this month to go in November and we just, it works.
Yeah, we did. We, we essentially wanted to go a little bit earlier this week, but they were having a full resort takeover by our friends at by the by podcast and their crew at swing set desire. I'm sorry. Life on the swing set.
um i'm sorry life on the swing set that's it life on the swing set everybody over there is kind of hanging out and this is a pretty um incredible event by the way i mean this is the only time that desire opens up their doors to uh bisexual um basically any couple that is non-traditional meaning you know not just man and woman and that's pretty that's pretty great it's awesome that they allow that group to go in it sucks on the other hand that desire only allows this you know once a once a year but it's good that they're taking steps in the right direction so shout out to desire and shout out to life on the swing set and definitely shout out to by the by podcast yeah so i'm looking forward to this trip the last time we went was in 2014 yeah last time we went was 2014 and that was when we first got into the uh the whole lifestyle thing newbies wet behind the ears bees what was that first time like man what do you what's like your fond memories of that first time going so the first time we went we went and we mentioned this in a previous episode before too that we went with a group called the fluff and fluffer no it wasn't the fluffer notice it was uh the hot tamales oh there it is okay the hot tamales i'm sorry and the why not and the why not sorry not the fluffer nurse but shout out to them too um he's right it was the why nots and the hot tamales so we went with that group i had no idea like what the heck we were doing but we went uh with them to desire and it was great it's a great time yeah it was a cool time man i mean that crew has been um been traveling at that time they were traveling together for quite some time but you know i mean shit it's been what five five years since we've been and we're still getting their emails and they're still rolling um so that that crew is was pretty epic i mean they were a little older than us but they show you how to party they was partying all night long anywhere you can think of there was some fucking going on they was they was getting it in did not give a shit and you know and what we learned a lot yeah what did we learn we we learned a lot from that group honestly um i think that that was i want to say that that was the trip that we ended up talking to an older lady i don't even know if you remember this story but we we talked to an older lady and she was basically i believe this was that desire where she schooled us on how to introduce yourself oh yeah that was this place wasn't it yep it was it was yeah well you introduce yourselves as lock and tryst and not just lock right yeah you've heard us mention that before but this was actually at um at desire so yes we randomly ran into this woman like i think we just walked out of our room we randomly she just started talking to us and then she said what you know that that's how you should introduce yourself we was just so new and we're like and it clicked and ever since then five years what later yep five years later that's exactly what we do all the time all the time so we got some comments coming in so it looks like sounds like you are still feeling those mimosas yes indeed i'm not i am i took my nap so uh for all y'all that don't know um which is pretty much everyone but yeah man we uh we went out to brunch today had a few mimosas lockhead in celebration They at about five, six.
Don't judge me. He wasn't driving. I was. Yeah, man. It was pretty awesome. It was pretty awesome. Yeah, it was just a celebration of one of my best friends. You know, they're getting married. So yeah, whoop, whoop, celebrate that. Wedding. Yeah, we got a wedding coming up.
So yeah, don't be surprised if we show up in somebody's wedding pictures with our masks on and shit and tris let's just don't pull no boobs out i can't make any promises you know i can't you like to forget where we are sometimes well you know i'll just be in the zone with you beautiful and pull your boobs out that's right so class reunion we got another comment says damn trist and the ladies yeah that's right looking good you know i try to make him look like glistening so they're just like sitting there that's right hey looks like we got a new sweet talker too so thanks for for the compliment we appreciate that thank you thank you for loving the podcast we appreciate appreciate that thank you so much and feel free to join us anytime so uh let's get to it babe what else we got going on for uh this desire chat here we go so we're going to desire and we're super excited um you guys if you didn't if you didn't see it on our ig or facebook i'm going to tell you what happened so last week we we're now we were 10 days out i get the mail as usual it tells me hey hey tris you have a summons for jury duty i was like excuse me shit who me y'all gonna have to chase my ass down y'all gonna give me i was like i sit there and i look at it i say you mean me right like me i'm out of town so i'm reading it trying to figure out like any and literally had to read each bullet point because i'm trying to find one that that loophole the loophole right to get me out of this did you get out of it i have no idea i did all right so we good i'm literally it let's say it was 10 bullet points on there it was the 10th one and then it had small fine prints under it if you have a planned trip and you're going out of town you can reschedule i was like Thank you.
on there it was the 10th one and then it had small fine prints under it if you have a planned trip and you're going out of town you can reschedule i was like me i'm out i am out i'm out i got on that computer so fast so hey babe i think we got a little bit ahead of ourselves we're talking about desire as if someone isn't listening to us for the very first time what is desire riviera oh what is it so sorry give them a quick little little brief synopsis yeah riviera maya is a lifestyle resort where it is clothing optional um so you can be clothed or not and basically yes you can choose or not choose to participate where's riviera maya mexico make it's in a cancun in mexico that's right basically yes um the resort is really really nice it is super secluded i would say yeah it's definitely like a secluded off the i wouldn't say necessarily off the beaten path but it's it is like its own little spot right um so with desire they have uh three properties underneath they may have more i don't know but i know they have desire riviera maya then they have desire pearl which is uh i want to say it's bigger it looks bigger but i believe it's actually smaller smaller amount of rooms yeah but it's still the same theme they have their own private beach they have their own pools their own hot tubs where it's clothing optional you can walk around ass out titties out penis out all you want and um yeah and enjoy all the amenities and all the beautiful sights there yeah so yeah so if you are old school and and this is even like almost before we were little kids but it's like the a side and the b side of the tape right so the a side of the tape was i would say is ruby and maya right that was their first property yeah so and then the b side of that cassette tape would be Pearl go with the A side yeah they I think they actually yeah go with the A side but you know and when you when you're looking for a podcast or whatever and you google or you look up um podcasts on desire you're not going to have any shortage of them this is one added to the bunch you're going to see or hear a bunch of different opinions you're going to hear people talking about riviera maya has the better party then you'll hear people talking about pearl has the better party it's definitely up to you we know in our experience that riviera maya had the better party it seemed like everybody was you know the the resort was a little bit more compacted so everybody felt a little closer um and you felt that that uh not necessarily like the tradition but like everybody was just very it was very comfortable yeah everybody was real comfortable with each other so it was real easy to just get naked and let loose and it's set up like a more like a villas kind of feel at Ruby and Maya.
It's more like villas and Pearl is more like hotel. Hotel-y. It was tall. They had the real tall hotels. Right, right. But I will say at Pearl, their hot tub, man. It's amazing. It's the biggest hot tub I've ever seen in my life. It's like a big, huge swimming pool. Yeah, yeah. But so, yeah.
So that's basically what it is for those of you that are um new um to listening tonight that's basically where we're going we're going to desire we haven't been in a while right we've been going to other places that's right so let me ask you this honey um since it's been so long since we've been um things have gotten in the way of course we've been trying other things so what has changed um since we last went what do you think are some things that are different about the resort in general so what we've heard and and all we can go is what we've heard from friends or in the pictures that we've seen right they actually redid the main pool so the main pool was a little smaller from what i believe i remember it wasn't huge so they redid it and they did a swim up bar yeah they made that thing a swim up bar yeah and then kind of cool and then we were talking last night we believe also that they put beds around the pool yeah and that wasn't there before so i'm pretty excited to see how they redid that area but as far as like updating their rooms and stuff their rooms was pretty nice um then so i don't i mean we will we'll let you guys know when we get back but you know how did the room look because the rooms were really nice then like that is one of the biggest differences that i can say between um desire and hito right was the amenities yeah no shade to hito we had a good we'll have a good time at hedo but it was definitely uh we caught hedo before they did their renovations let's just put it that way yes i mean they're still doing renovations now but um the amenities at desire we've always said that was we it's a different type of vibe or feel um than it is when you go to so who would you say has the better party like what's the party like hito i'd say hito hito had the party but we went with the dope group shout out to young swingers week um i think they just got finished their fall um their fall event yeah hito and i saw some some shots online um and looked like it was an epic epic group i'm pretty sure it was yeah they know how to party but um yeah so i'd say that the party is definitely um at at he though but desire is just a stunning beach it is it's just a beautiful atmosphere man and great pictures for the purpose that we're going which is kind of just to reconnect and get away from all the bullshit you know this is this is the lifestyle vacation that we wanted that we chose take some sexy pictures on the beach goddamn right y'all man i'm telling you we're gonna fuck your ig up in a minute so just be patient bear with us i can't wait i'll be all up in i'm talking about we got tripods and shit we got the little bluetooth shutter thing we we're about to tear it up so y'all be ready he's like did you bring it right right so beautiful hey uh what has changed about lock and tryst since the first time we went to Desire?
So, again, we were newbies. We were fresh out the water. Fresh-faced newbies. Fresh-faced, you know, we didn't really know much about anything. I still had hair on my head back then. You did. You know, now I'm rocking the bald thing. We just didn't know anything about anything. Our first experience with a couple was at Desire. It was not full swap. It was soft. It was soft swap. She had a big old booty. She did. Bless your heart. But we just didn't.
If we know as us now would have been then it would have been probably a different type of situation we just did not yeah no i mean just you know a lot of anything i mean we can right we can take a step back from that even from the lifestyle shit and just say hey let's just be 100 like we wasn't even married back then oh yes i forgot about that nugget you know we wasn't married then we weren't engaged we were just two crazy ass kids that wanted to go and run around naked and actually we had just started back dating again we did so everything was like new at that time everything was new and some people would say that that's kind of dangerous right you go around and you just start dating someone yeah and it's all this temptation around you want to go go to this place and get naked that's right that's right but uh we were able to go ahead and get that done and uh we stayed on the same page we didn't have any any trouble we had a great time it was all drinks and raccoons and shit oh so guys that part still hasn't changed actually yeah so far i've heard they have these raccoons and i am not i'm going to take a picture and i'm going to post it because i swear to goodness they're like small children's guys standing with their little grubby hands everybody on youtube can see us and they go like this yeah and they want pizza and they want you to feed them and they tell you not to feed them right i didn't feed them they're like don't feed them because then they want to keep trying to come back to you to get food but they standing are like small children's eyes i swear to god they're like three feet tall they're a raccoon that big before they're like a small puppy yeah i mean but you know it's all good wanted some of that late-night pizza too, babe.
Actually, bigger than a small puppy, but yeah. They were not like a Yorkie size. They were way bigger than that. Hell yeah. So, let's see. Not only has our personal life changed, we got married, we had the baby, and just our whole vibe of the lifestyle has changed like you said we were definitely soft swapped in so now we've we've definitely figured out a little bit more about our likes and dislikes we've tried a couple more things we've gone to a lot more parties we've gotten naked in a lot more places and yeah man um we definitely grown definitely grown in our lifestyle skin.
We grew up, babe. We grew up. Yeah. And thank goodness. So now when we go back, what are we taking with us? I mean, as far as like personality wise, like since we're quote unquote different or we've learned, we're taking a little bit more of a party vibe with us. What do you think? Yes, because, you know, now and when you go anywhere you're naked that's right he comes to the room he's like bags down draws down everything down clothes off hell yeah that's let's go out the door that's right you got to man i mean hey we paying all this money crazy.
Like, you pay more money to bring less clothes and shit. Bullshit. For nobody to see the clothes that you bought, you don't bring them because what are we wearing them to? It's genius. Yes. Goddamn genius. Absolutely ridiculous. I'm about to start some shit like that, right? One of our sweet talkers also says that the raccoons. The raccoons. I forgot about them. I know. Goddamn right, raccoons. The raccoons are huge.
i watch them shits right yeah man but no so how did we how did we prep how we prefer this thing man we've we've been we've known this thing was coming um since you were pregnant we booked them when you were pregnant so how have we been getting ready since then what do you think what do you remember about all this so first i just started getting clothes and trying to figure out not getting clothes but trying to figure out okay what are you actually packing because yes you don't need a lot of clothes but you still need some clothes and that's what lock forgot actually he just boarded up the other day but yes so i'm trying to figure it out like okay so what are you taking and then we got the themes okay so what's that and just trying to like figure it all out right like what what are you taking and then as far as other prep like you start exercising that's the biggest thing we exercise anyway but it seems like when you go on vacation i don't know about you you guys, the sweet talkers, but when you start going on these vacations, you exercise more for some reason.
Yeah. And I don't know what that is, especially if you actively already exercise. I don't get it. That's something I definitely want to open up to you guys, sweet talkers.
Tristan and I, in getting ready for this episode, we had a nice discussion about um desire prep right and lifestyle vacation prep in general when you're when you're getting ready for these things um i wanted to mention that we do what did we do oh the uh the poll on twitter if you guys follow us on twitter i did a poll about two weeks ago maybe asking like when you go getting ready for a lifestyle vacation how do you prepare uh meaning do you do uh do you change your diet do you up your exercise um or do you just say fuck it take me as i am and not surprisingly i'd say the first one the the number one in the poll was you bump up your exercising right but then it was pretty much a tie for the other two um there were there was no uh distinguished um no difference between uh take me as i am and you change your diet so i wanted to kind of explore the idea of take me as I am.
Right.
So that's fine but why do we exercise why when you're going to these places do you feel like there's a reason to kind of just like buff up or slim down why can't you just take me as I am what is that what do you think one of our sweet talkers here let's see what we say says because you want to be in your best form it's a confidence builder got you got you right that's a good answer that is a good answer that's definitely a good answer we appreciate that um yeah I mean I guess you you do you want to feel confident when you're going out there um to maybe meet other couples right when you if your intentions are to go out and to play uh or to make friends in that in that capacity sure you want to you want to feel good about yourself right what do you think yeah i think so and i think it's kind of like the mentality of like when you see not even just in the movies or if you were you know on the playground in play school and um you know they're picking people for teams you don't want to be the person you don't want to be the last to get picked for the damn kickball team and shit so you want to be in your best form okay so i get it it's a confidence builder and you want to be in your best form so did you get picked you want to get picked for the team okay okay sure but i mean um i'm just gonna play devil's advocate i'm gonna be the one on the other side here shouldn't you just feel that way anyway shouldn't you just feel like fuck it you know what's losing this extra 10 pounds of water weight gonna do and i'm asking you guys sweet talkers so feel free to chime in bust my balls if you got to i'm just saying like you know take me as i am why he he's talking big game but he oh i've been in the gym i'm just saying again this is just devil's advocate for the sake of conversation don't think that he was sitting here like i'm gonna sit here all this time and do nothing hell no i was doing that intermittent fasting bullshit driving myself I at night every day weighing himself talking about oh i gained it see now you put my business out there he drives me insane i just look at him and roll my eyes like if you don't stop i can't look i can weigh myself in the morning i I can weigh myself at night.
Don't judge me. If it changes any type of form, he is having all types of fits. That's right. But hey, look, if y'all have any comments on that, or if you don't feel like, oh, here we go. We got something. Read that. I can't read that. I'm blind. I can't see. Okay.
It says that we're a couple ones she said okay she says that oh did you build up the stamina ah that's a good point that's right you want to be uh you want to be fit for fucking that's true you want to get your cardio in so that you can last oh do that again baby prop yourself up on that chair like that oh hey nobody want to gas out you don't want to gas out there no you don't you don't want to be the person you don't want to be the person in the scene in the moment and just gas out say hold on wait yeah tag tag somebody else in the game yes no no i need a time out you You don't want no timeout.
Hell no. You want to have that stamina to let go. That's right. You know? Hey, thanks for the comment. Thanks for the question. You get it at. This is awesome. Yeah, no, you're right. Okay. So, yeah, that's definitely why you want a reason, a good reason to be working out. Absolutely. And for us, it's just like, so I have to eat. I'm not one for starving. No, you're not. I get hangry. Yeah. Very hangry. After play sessions, you definitely got to get up and eat. Yes, I have to eat. So me starving or, I mean, I've heard other friends do different things. I have to, my regimen is not eat nothing.
I just cut back on how i'm eating certain things so i'm definitely not the guru to sit here and say oh i ate like salad and this and that because i didn't that's just not gonna happen because we're going after that late night pizza and i heard they got tacos now that's another thing that's different they uh at desire they usually have because they know all y'all uh naughty people be fucking all all sorts of hours of the night that's right we got to keep that we stamina is one thing but you also got to get that food at the hot tub uh all hours of the night and the playrooms all in the in the disco they call it the disco don't judge me i'm not that old i'm just saying they call it the disco so after that they have the late night um pizza stand so and it's good i remember it being really good and i don't know if i was just hungry but no we had it multiple nights and it's good and it's like your personal pizza with i'm not sure whatever the toppings were but whatever you needed i know you was able to get pineapple but that's i mean you who gives you pineapple at like three in the morning that's so dope but now they've added tacos what the fuck needless to say i will be working out on this vacation as well i'm not i will be um because it's going to be insane but that's too much eating so i i definitely will be working out during vacation but otherwise other than that so besides doing you know exercise cardio and of course buying your best outfits to look your very best um what else do we do what else we got uh let's see hey what we bringing with us oh the prep this is the this is the list okay so i got a mean fucking list of stuff i'm bringing with us i bought up clothes i'm talking about batteries oh i understand but i bought it up clothes because lock he just thought he was gonna bring a suitcase full of toys yeah i mean yes i definitely almost forgot that i needed to bring clothes i would say how are you going to go eat at the restaurant yeah because they do require that you wear pants and shit when you go eat because they actually have like different restaurants that you make reservations for but you have to wear clothes and some of them you actually have to be dressed up for so i'm sitting here like where were your clothes at he's like oh i forgot i definitely forgot i almost forgot about clothes i mean i got i got the stuff for like the theme nice but i i almost forgot like clothes normal pants normal pants but that's okay we got it so he's straight on that now what else we bring here sunscreen sunscreen that's right make sure you bring a bunch of cans of that shit yes because one time he got sunburned.
That Mexican sun is no joke. Yeah, it's not fun. I get the sunburn. I didn't know I could burn, but that was new. Yeah, he didn't know. Getting burnt up on my shoulders and nose and all that stuff. And it's not fun to get burned on your penis. Yeah, you don't want to get no sunburn on your dick. So make sure you spray. You got to spray top to bottom, ladies and gentlemen.
Top to bottom because you are yeah bare ass naked all the way naked cannot wait what else we bringing with us babe so we say we're bringing toys what toys is on your list so i honestly don't know yet you want me to bring them i'm no i don't need i'll bring all that shit oh someone says coconut oil mr earl coconut oil works well when you're on a naked vacation all right that's a little factoid little tip for y'all yes hey thanks a lot for that one thank you for that tip but um so yeah we're bringing toys i have no idea i am going to bring a new toy the one i talked about in the last episode that i got yeah the uh if Thank you.
for that one sweet talker thank you for that tip but um so yeah we're bringing toys i have no idea i am going to bring a new toy the one that i talked about in the last episode that i got yeah the uh if you if you're just tuning in if you're just catching us this is your first episode listening to sweet life uh check out episode 10 yeah where she talks about the gone in 60 seconds if you listen to that one you'll know what we're talking about yes gone in 60 seconds that's all all you get 60 seconds so it's small enough to take so i'm taking that i don't think i'm going to take the wandy okay um and then you talk about the new items that you purchased that's right yeah i bought a couple of new toys for you um for me you guys hit it like paul's he bought new toys for me you're welcome that i have no clue what they are that's right that's right um but we can shout out our friends again at by the by podcast if you take a listen to their podcast man i'm telling you there's some good stuff in there they got some discount codes for adamandeve.com and of course love was like yes I was able to take advantage of that.
You can too. So go ahead and check them out. Yeah, it's good stuff. It's good stuff. Wee wee. Yeah, no, they're good folks. Good folks. But so toy cleaner. Oh, yeah, right. Funny story with that. So we're sitting there. We're going through a list. Okay, so what do you have? What do you need? Things like that.
And I'm and i'm like i want to try a different toy cleaner because for me i tend to be a little bit more sensitive to things yeah um which is i don't try a lot of people toys and things like that because it's just i'm just different when it comes to sensitivity so i go to um pull up and i'm like, Hey, let me go to, let me go to the sex shop that i normally would go to for like shoes yes shoes stripper shoes stripper shoes i mean they have the best shoes so anyway they switch locations um the store is called heart's desire is actually in suitland maryland so i go and i pull up and it is noon this is very important to the story it is noon on a weekday so i pull up and and i in a car beside me with a guy and a girl and they were about to get out the car nate and i pulled up beside them to take a parking space they literally the girl was about to get back in the car she's nervous to wait for me to figure out where i was going before she got out of the car i was like oh please we're going to the same place come on right so let's go at noon on a weekday so we go into the store oh yeah i need to be at work but go ahead right so i go into the store store first and then they come in behind me i greet the young lady at the counter and i tell her hey i'm here for some toy cleaner she asked me you know like what do you use now i was like that you know i really don't remember the name off the top of my head but i want something different so she said okay so we're going through the different products and things like that and i mentioned again that i'm a little bit more sensitive so she says hey and mind you she's like a tiny little cute thing with big old boobies and she's just sitting there and she's like yeah i'm sensitive too you know you should use more vegan products that doesn't have and it also has like organic ingredients things like that because she's more sensitive as well.
I was like, oh, me too. Who knew? Right. Who knew? So we started the discussion and then she literally, this is how it went. She asked me, hey, so, but what type of toys do you have? And literally it was like the look on my face was literally paused like that. It was like. my face was like, you start blushing. And then, and then literally I was sitting there, a bobbling mess, babbling mess. I was like, who, what, me? Like, what toys do I have? Well, let's see. I got a double-sided dildo. Right.
i'm like trish snap out of it you got this so i was like so i have a wandy i have a this i have that and i have all that back there i have all that that's on that wall right here and she's like oh okay but i was not expecting the question so my face literally was like and then i just started like stuttering so who knew you could make the the chick at the counter blush that that had to be your first that was the first right so that was my funny story about the toy cleaner for desire but shout out again to hearts desire yeah we've been shopping there for some years we've been shopping there for some years they you know check them out yeah so what else we bring we got to bring we got a tip from some savvy veterans a few years ago to bring your own um energy drinks right like some five hour energy drinks we're gonna pack those bad boys whatever yeah some red bull um what else we got oh shit gotta bring that little blue pill y'all shh he's a mess gotta bring that guy man i'm just saying oh it's your swinger insurance man let's just be real you know swinger insurance sometimes the nerves yes oh see that's why you gotta uh do you do some more homework on your podcast yeah and we're learning now actually so that the we're feeling new to this, right?
New to the game with that part, that decorating your room. Yo, I cannot wait. To decorate your room. I cannot wait. Amazon is your friend. Like, I fucked Amazon up. Amazon's my homie.
Yeah, so, again, you know, the homies at Black and Kinky Lifestyle and Priori and priority society man um if y'all check out their ig they do uh they decorate their rooms man like you know they it's basically like you just want to set the atmosphere if you want to bring somebody or set yourself um set yourself apart from the crowd you decorate your room a little bit you set the the ambiance you you not necessarily light candles but you bring those little uh little fake candles with the little lights or whatever yes he was in the house playing with him already goddamn right we got remote to them shits he's like look that's right what he does and you got the uh any kind of like little party lights and stuff like that i mean it's just all about setting the ambiance man and this is gonna be going to be our first time doing that.
So I'm super excited to set that scene. You got a lifestyle club in your room. Damn right. Set it up. That's right. I got a playroom. So make sure y'all follow us on IG and Twitter, man, because we're going to make sure we post some pictures, maybe some videos, and see what's going on in there.
Yeah, as you guys you guys can see he's super excited he was so excited that he even left toys toys out in our room on top of the ironing board listen man they had to charge what do you want me to do mind you we have a whole teenager in the house so i'm sitting there if i walk in and see this is up here what are you doing it was on the ironing board he's like we grown we grown we are but you just left it like whole toy just blah sitting there it had to charge she needs to get a job on the iron board like hey we going outside it's a neck massager honey that's all yeah that's what he said she may think it's a massage that's right not she's 17 she's not crazy but yeah so he's super excited about all his his fun toys i am i'm excited i'm excited my toys not even his toys i guess and little does my beautiful sexy co-host and wife know but i got a little something set up for her also got a little something got a little something going on down there that she don't know about I'm excited to uh i'm gonna see if i could take some pictures but um i might be a little preoccupied y'all so we'll see got a little something set up so follow us on the next episode to figure out what that was because i want to know too that's right y'all um actually uh let's go ahead let's move on to what are you excited about honey what are you excited about when it when it comes to this trip because i'm getting a little excited just sitting here talking to our beautiful sweet talkers about this are you getting excited your nipples getting hard because you were like here like they are you getting excited they are you getting hard um so what am i excited about i'm actually excited just to see the resort i want to see what's changed um this is the first time i think ever actually that we've gone to a lifestyle resort without a group being there or a plan right time you know that we knew that a group was going to be there yeah basically this time we just pretty much threw a dart at the calendar um and figured out you know our baby would be one by this time we're probably going to be exhausted and tired and crazy and yes this time will work yes so yeah we picked this time again um the life on the swing set group had the week taken so we just picked the weekend and we like fuck it let's go yeah so i'm excited about that just to see and i'm also excited about getting my canopy bed because i'm gonna be living my whole best life and taking a whole bunch of naked pictures on the canopy bed what you think you're gonna be drinking down there honey tequila sunrise tequila sunrise yeah uh we got a uh a sweet talker there are your nipples still pierced yes they are thank you that's why i was making fun of him yes nipples are pierced and they're probably really hard right now because he's talking about Desire.
He's getting excited. Don't y'all worry. I'm going to show you all some pictures. It's going to be some hot pictures. And that's another difference between now and then. Last time we got the professional pictures done, if you don't know, Desire Riviera-Ramaya has a photography staff on campus. and they'll set you up early in the morning where you can run around all over the campus, all over the place, all over the resort and take pictures and all sorts of sexy situations. Um, stay tuned this week on IG. I'm going to post some pictures of my beautiful Trist.
Uh, they gave her a full run of the, um, of the, of the disco, uh, where she was able to take some super hot pictures, uh, on the stripper pole. I mean, and there's one hanging. Wow. Right behind us. Yeah. If you guys are tuned into our YouTube live, uh, you can see it right over, right over her head, man. It's something to be seen, but, uh, yeah, just stay tuned on our IG. You'll see some good stuff. So, yeah, I'm excited about that. What are you excited about? I'm excited about the theme nights, man. Oh, yeah. Yeah, we got some pretty good theme nights. What do we have?
We got Desireland, which is I don't know what the fuck I'm supposed to wear. I don't even know what I'm wearing. I know. But for you guys, they pretty much lay it all out. It's pretty much all about the women. It's about what? The women. Oh all about the women the women oh pasties pasties burlesque but the guys is just like you know throwing a button up and some slacks or whatever flip flops we don't give a shit come on just show up and then we have what the masquerade uh so again stay tuned you're going to see these masks out there. Mister and, what is it, mistress? Masters and mistresses.
Okay. Masters and mistresses. So we're going to do a little bit of kink wear. So we're looking forward to that. And then there is your famous couple or something like that. A famous couple. A famous couple. Yeah, so we got some pretty good ideas coming up. We're not going to give away the whole game, so you guys just stay tuned, man. I'm telling you, we're going to tear these pictures up, man. We're going to get some good stuff out there for y'all. Yes, and this is also the first trip that we're bringing our own swag. Oh, right, right. Yeah, I'm excited about that, right? We made some swag.
Yeah. I'm excited about it. That's right. The beautiful Trist is gifted, y'all. I'm telling you. So she put together some nice little T-shirts or tank tops for us. And we got our little drinky cups. We ready to go, man. So kind of a funny story. And maybe you sweet talkers, I want to know what you call it. So I ran across a conversation that someone else was having, and they were making fun of their mom because their mom called it, we take our cups on the trip, right? But we also take cups when we like going out before we go out. We call those roadies.
You're going to take a roadie with you, right? Sometimes, yeah. Yes. Don't judge me. Right.
But she's saying that her mom, the person I was having the conversation was saying that no one uses that term anymore talking about her mom because she called it a roadie and i had to interject i was like no shit we call it a roadie so without that old are you i was about to say are you just dating us are you saying her mom obviously she's much older than us i mean the person that was having a conversation is no oh no her mom is older than us i think you made us old but we call it roadies too like i mean what else do you call it she was like a cup that don't sound too creative it's not roadie sounds better they gotta be cute so what else we looking forward to what uh we're checking out um i'm looking forward to carrying my roadie cup.
Yes, you are. We're checking out what? When we get down there, the third part of there. Oh, yeah, Temptations. That's right. So like I was saying earlier in the podcast that Desire has like at least three, at least three properties. We got Desire Riviera Maya, Desire Pearl, and we got Temptations. Temptations is in another part of Cancun, Riviera Maya area. I think it's about a 30-minute ride away. I think so. Something like that, a little cab ride away. But this particular resort is just topless, right? It's not necessarily a swingers resort. It's a party atmosphere. It's a topless resort.
It's adults only, obviously, but it's owned by the same people that own desire so we want to go check it out we've heard of yeah we've heard of other groups uh shout out to playground group and that couple next door uh they go once a year they usually start the party at temptations which i think is the way to go you want to start there yeah they start there for a couple of days get all topless and get get loose and goosey and then go to desire riviera maya or pearl i'm not sure which one they go to after but then they really cut loose but what what we've been hearing about temptation is that the party is bananas right yes and the party is crazy like you can hear the music all hours of the night man and everybody's just partying and kicking it and then um the vanillas you know uh mostly like the atmosphere is like people who are let's call them fringe you know that people are kind of on the fringe of the lifestyle that's kind of curious about checking it out maybe you'll find some or you might find some people that just say you know no we're not swingers or whatever but they just want to be naked but i think the appeal is you know trying to find out who's who at least that's kind of sexy for me i think so yeah i think it's it's kind of sexy to try to figure out who's who i think that'll be fun so i'm looking forward to checking this place out now mind you you know we're paying a lot of money to go get naked i'm not super enthusiastic about putting clothes back on he's not no so he's like we can go for a few hours i'll take one for the team right and we can come right back bring my ass right back i'm gonna get undressed on the way back to desire so uh sweet talker errol let's see i think we are looking forward to your post desire podcast oh yeah we hope to have some awesome stories to share man we're looking forward to getting down there and making some friends and uh seeing what's gonna happen we're actually gonna take some of our equipment with us and do some uh we get inspired yeah we're gonna we're gonna make sure we get some live sound for you guys we're not gonna make you too upset i might get a little bit of sound of the wind on the beach and all that shit but don't get mad at us we love y'all we're like it's okay it's okay yeah so i'm a little upset that we don't we're going to miss uh our friends at by the by podcast um they're actually they're going to be leaving out the same day that we get in when we unfortunately couldn't make it in on time to just basically just shake their hand on the way out the door.
But, you know, super dope people. They were able to they were willing to to accommodate us, to meet us and say what's up. But on the other hand, we are going to meet some friends at Room 77 podcast. Man, those two clowns, they are awesome. If you've never listened to their podcast, it's hilarious. Check out Room 77 podcast. These two are Americans who left the States to live in Mexico so that they could work at Desire. They work at Desire and they perform massages. They do the massage workshops, the Yoni massage and the, I forget other one for the for the dick.
But but they do these massages and they have workshops on, I think, Tuesdays and Thursdays, maybe other days of the week. Regardless, we're going to one of their workshops. It's going to be awesome. We can't wait to meet them and hopefully we can get some sound with them. We'll see. We'll see how it goes. At least some pictures or two. So, yeah, man, we got a lot of stuff to look forward to when we get down there. Absolutely. I can't wait to go. Is there anything that you're nervous about? That's a good question.
You know, and to be quite candid with our sweet talkers, you know, this is our platform to be 100 and kind of like our couple's therapy, if you. Um, we had a nice little discussion about that last night when we were getting ready for the show. Uh, so some of the things that I'm, I'm nervous about was, well, the main thing was just pretty much living up to my expectations for us. Right.
Um, I wanted every, I kind of have this sense that I want everything to be perfect I want everything to be great I want you know you to have the experience that you're looking for and we've been waiting for for so long it's something I've been getting ready for I want everything to just go right and what did you say my response was was that think that that's, that's good to have that expectation. But if something doesn't go according to plan, it's okay. Don't freak out. Right. Right. Because we've been down that road before and you're 100% right.
You know, it, it kind of rubbed me a little, a little bit the wrong way yesterday. It did. It did. And I'm not going to front. He gave us in his feelings at first. I got a little upset. I got upset. But I mean, it was like, you know, I didn't want us to bring the negative into the conversation at all. I just kind of wanted to just go and have a good time straight up. But she was 100 percent right, man.
You know, after after we talked about it and I just had a second to really pause and think, you know, there she has good reason to believe that sometimes when things don't go according to plan that I will get into my feelings. And that's something that I've I've been learning about myself and something that I'm glad that my wife was able to pinpoint and say that that's a point of concern for her.
So without her being 100 um honest with me that's something that you know i would have never known so i'm definitely appreciative of that and i'm more aware that you know it doesn't matter right like it doesn't matter how things shake out like i just i just want us to have a good time yeah yeah and i just want to see the on your face. I want you to be stress-free because it's been a tough couple of months for us. Yeah. And at the end of the day, that's what it's about. It's about having fun. You know, if something doesn't go according to the plan or the way that you imagined it to go, fine.
Right. Let's just, you know, move on to the next thing or figure it out. Yeah.
Just it that's right that's right and it's like there's two sides to that right we've talked to some pretty savvy swinger friends of ours and they say you know um and maybe i've listened to a few podcasts that say the same thing like if you go into like a resort or to a party and you say you don't have any expectations you're lying yeah you're 100% lying like you have an idea of the things that you want to do and you want to participate in um but a lot of people say you know don't go into parties with expectations just know that you're going to have a good time okay all right sure you can I can see both sides but yeah you you expect to have some kind of fun you feel like you paid all your money you want to have a sexy good time especially us we're pulling out our passports people like yes right this is some high-stakes shit we upgraded our room we are not playing yeah we're not fucking around so you kind of have a level of expectation uh but it's all about managing the disappointment yes that was a good point yeah, you just got to manage the disappointment.
Like if something doesn't go that way, be cool. Be cool about it. Find your way back to your happy place. Find your way back to your happy place and always remember to connect with the person that you brought to the party. I think that's key.
You just find a way to connect back with that person and remember the purpose of being there and the purpose for us was to reconnect and to be free and to kill all this stress and just have a good time oh we got a good sweet talker question here can you speak about your play style in that type of environment do you have rules that differ from more what is that intimate encounters okay our lifestyle yeah like okay in that type of environment when you are away from home hey man i'm not gonna say anything goes but it's like you're kind of on the clock you are you're kind of on some stuff does some stuff in your normal day-to-day like at home not day-to-day okay but when you're at home and you go to parties and and things like that it's a little bit different than when you're at the resort you're a little you speed up yeah a couple of a few of those steps so um you still for us we still have the pleasantries of you know hey how are you of course small talk here you know?
Of course. A little small talk here, Nick. You know, it's not like, okay, here we go. Here it is. No. You know, it's not like that. But so we do still try to feel the vibe out. Yeah, you definitely try to feel the vibe out. Maybe you go to dinner or you meet up and go to lunch. You try to get the feeling of this person. But, okay, let's just be real. You kind of speed things up a little bit.
You kind kind of speed through the process but you vet them enough that you're comfortable to have some fun that's just us a lot of people don't do that whatever whatever your play style is cool if you want to go to a playroom and participate in a full orgy hey no judgment knock yourself out yeah but we're kind of more so on that social swinger aspect so we do kind of like to get to know you maybe know your name or your fake name whatever the case so you know we kind of want to rap and maybe have a glass of wine maybe laugh and giggle a little bit so for us it is a little bit more of an intimate encounter yeah it's kind of more of an intimate type of thing um so when you're uh yeah i think i was about to lose my train of thought there so yeah i think that i think for us is just a little bit more of intimate encounters.
I mean, that's not to say on a drunken Saturday that you, you know, yeah, something could happen. I don't know. That's true. Like when you're at home. Right. Yeah. But but yeah, most of the time is intimate encounters when we're at the resort. It's still that way, even at the crazy parties when we're at Hedo for somehow we still find that. That's true.
It's kind of like when you're at home uh you're looking to build those relationships a little bit you're kind of looking for not all the time okay like you said it's like a little drunken saturday or whatever the case you you just ready to party even at the resort like i said drunken saturday night it's like oh you leaving tomorrow okay all right let's make it happen but yeah uh like i said um we're just kind of like in that social social swinging type of thing so we'll we'll take numbers and maybe make some dates and do a little flirting and uh you know maybe set a date um hey where some things are actually going to go down but when you're in a resort that you gotta pick it up yes you're like pick it up let's go let's go let's speed this up a little bit that's right that's right um it just always worked out for us i mean a lot of people we've met at the resorts we are friends yeah hey thanks a lot for the question keep them coming keep them coming yeah um yeah we we definitely appreciate all the activity tonight folks i think we saw a lot of new faces or names coming up on the on the sweet talker line um so honey do we have anything else before we go are we are we looking forward to any other guys please tell us what you're doing for new years oh yeah still trying to figure this out yeah man we're looking for what we're gonna do for new years yet yeah we got a couple options but you know we want to pin this thing down man it's officially november so we we trying to get this thing good oh new year sucks right now we have no idea we're so we just have no idea where we're going yeah um yet but yeah if you guys have any ideas or know of any party shoot them to us because we're still open trying to figure out where we're going for new years yes right we know we're going out though oh we're going somewhere so we might end up over your house one of your sweet talkers just say the word so hey everybody hey um this has been an awesome awesome night we appreciate you guys taking some time to kick it with us.
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