Now that we ve gotten the jitters of the first episode out of the way (Phew!), we d like to share with you a few more of our Firsts. In this episode, we reminisce and share stories from our first year in the swinger lifestyle. That year was filled with parties, traveling, and making new friends as we tried to discover ourselves as swingers.We share the things that we ve learned about ourselves as we embraced what the lifestyle had to offer. Listen in on our first time at a swinger club (cont from last episode), hotel takeover, visiting Desire Riviera Maya, and even a few details about our first soft swap!Enjoy!Email us at: [email protected] us on:Instagram: @thesuitelifepodcastTwitter: @suitelifepod
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Speaker1: Living the Sweet Life is a podcast intended for mature audiences only. We'll be using sexually explicit language while discussing many different adult themes. So if you're under the age of 18, please stop listening. Also, please know that our thoughts and opinions should not be taken as professional advice. We're here to help answer your questions about the swinger lifestyle from newbies to longtime swingers,s and poly triads we hope to engage you all and encourage sex positive discussions now that we got that out of the way make yourself comfortable and join us in living the sweet life she is my beautiful sexy co-host and wife the lovely trist and he is my wonderful sexy chocolate husband lock Ladies and wife, the lovely Trist. And he is my wonderful, sexy chocolate husband, Locke. Ladies and gentlemen, thank you so much for the support that you've shown us thus far. We really appreciate you taking the time out to listen to us. Thank you guys for encouraging us and supporting us on episode one. We really do appreciate it. And now we're on to episode two we're super super excited we have a lot of new topics that we want to capture tonight so let's get into it so first i want to start off with a little recap you know we teased you last last time with the um we had a little date coming up with a lifestyle couple that we uh, played with and that have been involved in our lives for about five years now. Something like that. Yeah. Something like that. They're real cool people. Yeah. So yeah. What, where did we go, babe? You think you'd be able to say the word this time? I don't know. I always say it wrong. Every time we went to a speakeasy, we went to a speakeasy, right, right. Uh, yeah, we yeah we had a really good time and uh it just turns out that this speakeasy was located about 30 40 minutes south of where we live um so we already live in the south and this thing was kind of you know a little deeper down in the south and surprisingly it was pretty dope it's pretty dope they had awesome drinks they had some really good uh drinks and they were uh game of thrones themed yes yeah so we're some game of thrones nerds and it turns out those drinks were right on point yes they taste smoky and it was just awesome the drinks were great yeah they were really really good but um now while we were down there at this crazy place that we just happened to find or the Trist actually happened to find, we learned a little bit more about that area, babe. Didn't we learn a little something special about that? That particular speakeasy? We did. We did. Well, everyone else learned, but I had already done some research prior to going they have lingerie parties yes where you can't take pictures and bring in phones you can bring your phone but you can't take pictures or anything once you're inside sounds like a lifestyle man and i mean it just it's kind of funny how you kind of just gravitate towards the lifestyle at a certain point you think you're living your life you think you're just going to a nice little regular bar nope turns out we're going somewhere where they show titties and didn't tell us oh yeah and you can you can dress up and we're not gonna let people take pictures yeah it sounds pretty lifestyle it's like sounds like sounds lifestyle friendly to me so yeah we'll definitely be back we had to find out how to get on the exclusive guest lists and uh you know get on their uh email chain like okay yeah we we know about this party we we yeah y'all fit the description so yeah we'll be back absolutely and when we come back we bring in others so i hope they ready yeah so everybody be ready yeah i don't know if this particular crowd is ready for what we're gonna bring what'd you think i don't know they may surprise me it's definitely in the south you don't i mean they may surprise us and be ready to go down there. I don't know. We will see. We roll deep. So what was some sexy points of that night? You remember anything kind of hot about that night? I mean, it was great to hang out with friends and to be able to do something that no one has actually been to. And we had no idea what it was really into yeah um but it turned out to be great and we had a good night a good date night yeah we did it was really good to connect with these folks and not have any children involved right like the last few times we've kicked it with them there's been somebody's kid hanging around or woke or you know whatever we whatever. We didn't have anybody to tend to. It was all grown up time, far, far away from home. Drinks, sexy women wearing their sexy clothes, you know, dressed up in high heels and revealing cleavage. And it was just it was dope to be in a spot where you could just let it all hang out again yeah and it was great uh for me to be able to just dress up and start feeling like Trish again that's right that's right and this is nothing better ladies and gentlemen please believe me when she gets in that mode uh it's it's a sight to see uh so yeah I mean you know it was with these folks, getting back acquainted. You know, we've seen them in the past. We've seen them recently. But again, like I said, it was kind of kicked it on some some parental stuff, you know, just just kicking it or whatever. But this time we got to get a little frisky. We got a little little touchy feely. I saw a little hand action underneath the table. Yeah, maybe a little bit. Yeah, okay. I know you had your legs hanging out. You had some nice little shorts on there. It was a pretty warm night, so I could see his hand underneath the table kind of rubbing your thighs and everything. And then you'd rub on my leg while he's rubbing on your leg. You know, his wife was kind of out of my reach, but it still pretty hot yeah so um yeah it was it was pretty cool to get uh just kind of shake the rust off a little bit the night was great i mean like i said it was it was awesome to kind of get reacquainted it's like going you know to meet an old boyfriend again you know trying to get to really know each other again after a few months have passed or you just haven't been able to really hang out so it was great so tonight we're going to be talking about our first our first year of first yeah i'm pretty excited to talk about this guys our first year we kind of just went ham we was 90 miles per hour we was going we did we we definitely went zero to 90 in like two seconds flat uh it's like once this door opened to this this crazy wild world uh we just we just had to see everything we had to consume as many products as we could in the lifestyle just to see what we liked and what we didn't like we definitely were the consumer i would call it that we definitely were your typical consumer anything anybody told us about If it was a party, um, if it was an event, uh, if it was a party um if it was an event uh if it was a club anything we were told about and we had time and we weren't doing anything that weekend we went absolutely in state out of state across the state didn't matter we was it it definitely didn't matter like we was ready to go we were we were so pumped up so we're gonna take you back real quick like i know we talked about this a little bit in the last episode but we kind of want to give you a little bit more of a recap of um what it was like on our first night at the club the very first time we went to the club yes so we want to take you guys back and just talk about that first experience and just a small recap from the last episode um we mentioned that Locke's younger brother told us about this particular club we decided to go to the club and we went to the club that night it was a anything anything anywhere anything anywhere party a party yes and it also was a blackout party so we went to the club and there's some interesting things we left out in the other episode so our first night we mentioned the host couple they were awesome they kind of gave us the layout and the lowdown of what to do as far as the flow of the um particular clip but what we forgot to mention is that that same night we had saw or met another um attractive couple that we call pasties yeah it was quite a few um quite a few hot couples in there that night but this one particular couple um the missus of the couple uh she uh this was actually my first time seeing anyone wear like pasties over her nipples like right you sure sure i saw it in like uh burlesque shows or whatever on like hbo uh real sex like late night you know what i'm saying uh but this was like the first time seeing it in person i think they had seen it was like sparkly or something like that i know they definitely got my attention yeah they were sparkly yeah they got my attention to anything that sparkles i'm in absolutely yeah that's definitely your's definitely your Achilles heel, like something sparkly that you're just done. It's a wrap. Yep. I'm all, I'm all about it. So like Locke was saying, so we, that caught both of our attention immediately and she, she was, she was hot and she was a social butterfly and we're like watching how they interact with people that's around them how they how they're around the people that um when they're walking around the club and we're like hey hmm who who are they and she actually walked up i think it was to me actually introduced herself and then told me that you know her husband is over here and kind of talked to me to try to you know just to say oh you know is this your guys first time and we're like yes uh they were very welcoming right um these are like she said we're going to call them mr and mrs pasties i'm sure the mister will not appreciate being called pasties so i'm sure we'll come up with a better name for them. But they had been around the block a time or two. They know the game. They've been in a lifestyle for many years at that point. And they saw like, you know, they saw the deer in the headlights look on us and they kind of swooped in and essentially took us under their wing. Um, not on this particular night, but another night after this, after meeting them, uh, we set up a date to come back at the club, come back to the club, uh, and just hang out like, uh, and find out how all this is supposed to go. Right. So what do you, what was that like when we had our first date? When we had our first date. So this is our first date like after coming to the club at that point I think we had only been to the club maybe twice I don't I don't really remember the exact number but it was a few times and we had our first date back with them and it was so dope so really cool i just want to just just go into this so we met them the first night we go to a date night with them but it's at the club the club wasn't really busy this night so we really got to sit down and talk to them and what they did for us the information that they gave us that night helped us navigate that whole first year what kind of information did they give us so they kind of told us kind of just schooled us on how this thing works um they would tell us that hey you know they they introduced us a to a lot more people that they did they did we met so many we met the owners we met like a few other like of their friends and it was kind of like that lock in that key so what they did was they actually linked us in to all the people that all the usuals right all the regulars of the of the club right they these this couple I don't know. was they actually linked us in to all the people that all the usuals right all the regulars of the of the club right they these this couple uh mr mrs pasties they are like regular so they kind of plugged us in to the people that you always see there and that was super helpful because these people are veterans and we were like i said newbies so they were able to just like take us under their wing and show us how the game is supposed to be played. They showed us the courtesy that you would expect from from swingers. I know people usually have like the high the expectation or the preconceived notion that swingers are grabby and touchy and feely or like really aggressive or assertive. they showed us that that is just not the truth that was the biggest takeaway that I can say that I got from them that and the the term that we all hear no pressure no pressure that was the first time we actually heard that term and we're sitting here like huh what does that mean they're like oh don't think because you come on a date with them you came on a date with us that you know that there's pressure to do anything like there's no pressure but if you want to that's totally up to you if you want to go home that's totally up to you there is this is a non-pressure situation like we really just want to get to know you guys absolutely and we with that conversation kind of like let your guard down you let your guard down because you're sitting here like okay so you're just not gonna just try to like pounce me right you're not gonna pounce me you're gonna you know just try to get to know me great you know that's that's awesome yeah so we were able to sit there and just really pluck their brains about just lifestyle um how long you've been doing it how to meet people how do you go on to dates just like lifestyle etiquette you know they yeah they set the bar and they set the tone for us like they don't even know this to this day honestly they i don't think they know this you're right we never had this conversation we've never had this conversation with them and we're still friends like to this day we've never played or anything like that but we're still really good friends with them but they schooled us and that set the tone for our entire like year yeah not not only just the the year but like just our lifestyle trajectory in general we were very fortunate enough to have like my bro like i said my brother uh who has been in the lifestyle at that point for some some time we had him to lean on for some advice him and his wife and we had Mr. and Mrs. Pasties who were also very instrumental in you know just teaching us the etiquette and protocol you know how you approach each other or how you approach another couple how do you engage with the male you know male on male interaction which can be uh kind of intimidating for some we were very fortunate to have that couple and um my brother and his wife uh show us how to uh play the game in the beginning to show us the etiquette we were very very fortunate to have that um wouldn't trade it for anything we definitely wouldn't't trade it for anything. In the later episode, I'm sure we'll go more into like different terms that we've learned throughout the years as far as lifestyle. But again, let's piggyback just on this. Our couple, Mr. and Mrs. Pacey's, they helped us not to do what we call the crash and burn.
Speaker2:
Right. Yeah. We'll definitely discuss the crash and burn in much more detail, but go ahead and tell people what that is. But the crash and burn is when you are new to the lifestyle and you, instead of discussing things ahead of time and kind of working your way to get through things so meaning like to go through i call them levels you just try to do everything at one time and basically you crash and burn we've seen people just break up yeah you just fizzle out right like You you go 100 miles an hour past your comfort zone because you think and burn. We've seen people just break up. Yeah. You just fizzle out, right? Like you, you go a hundred miles an hour past your comfort zone because you think this is what you're quote unquote supposed to do because maybe you see a hot couple participate in some activities and you may have had a fantasy or two, uh, but you're doing things that you maybe, uh, a weren't emotionally prepared for, uh, or B you B, you probably just didn't have that conversation up front with your partner. So maybe they weren't quite prepared for it. So so then things fall apart in your relationship. You put your relationship in jeopardy prematurely. So we're definitely going to have a more in-depth discussion we're going to open up the suite um to that conversation in a future episode sure because i definitely think that is a key point no crash and burn when you're a newbie absolutely yeah you definitely want to pace yourself in this game so yeah let's go to the next um first in the first year What else did we do first? What was our next one? So it started with the club. Then we decided we wanted to do more. Did we do a hotel takeover or did we travel? We traveled. So we mentioned that we wanted to, that people would tell us things to go try. So in this particular time, somebody told us about a spot that was in Pennsylvania, right?
Speaker1:
Yeah, it was in Pennsylvania. So the spot in Pennsylvania was called TJ's Lasting Impressions. Yeah, another swinger club a few hours north of us. We actually took a unicorn with us.
Speaker2:
We did. We did. Not our actually took a a unicorn with us we did um we did not our unicorn but a unicorn that's correct kind of let her go out and float around and do her thing man and she did her whole thing she did her whole thing right so we heard about this club and uh we heard it was a little different right and and the advice that we got about uh about about this club kind of stands out to me. But we're going to also talk about this in another episode. So, again, us being a black couple, we the one of the first things that we've heard. And when we joined the lifestyle was that as a black couple, you got to make sure that you're friendly, be be outspoken be outgoing because people are going to see you as intimidating and we kind of took this as gospel right we we kind of um it made us a little apprehensive in the beginning because we thought that we had to go out of our way to be something different and we took that up to new jersey what was it not jersey pennsylvania with us so we show up um to tj's in pennsylvania and this is a spot where you basically can spend a night right yeah they do have uh they had like uh it was like a hotel small motel i guess connected to, connected to the Swinger Club, which was cool.
Speaker1:
Yes. Because it was in the middle of nowhere. It definitely is. It was in the middle of nowhere. And so you can stay there overnight. They feed you. And then you party. And they have a whole huge hot tub, actually. Yo, no. We're going to go ahead and call that what it is that was a spa room that was it was a spa room yes it was a spa room that was like a bath house it was pretty legit it was pretty legit it was definitely pretty surprising that this was a literally in the middle of nowhere they had a spa room with like these showers yeah and oh we're going to talk about the shower let's talk about the shower we'll get there no go we can go now okay but wait but there's another first that we might be missing in this and i gotta be real like this the first this was the first time and correct me if i'm wrong but This is the first time that, like, we got naked in front of people, right? Yeah, you're right i forgot about that you're right yeah this was before we went on like a vacation or anything so yeah once we got enough liquor in me it was just like stomping around the place with my balls out dick out just walking around like you own the joint and it was like the best feeling in the world it definitely was you you're absolutely right forgot about that yeah man sure did yeah and then we got to uh partake in the uh the bathhouse portion yeah and i love that thing we basically we gotta make it our first time having sex in front of people it was it was in a bathhouse shower. Yeah. Once we spent a little time in the hot tub, kind of flirting around, I think in the actual hot tub. It was like a swimming pool size hot tub. And in the middle of it, if you swim out far enough in the water, it was kind of like a little platform that people can sit up on or maybe, you know, someone can sit on. And one would assume some action partakes on this on this little partition sitting up there. Right. So if I'm not mistaken, I think I had Trist up there and I think I took a little taste of her, spread her legs and got a couple of licks in just to get the party started and then we made our way once we got ourselves all uh loose and goosey got ourselves up went over to that uh to the shower that was like right there and we went to town we did yeah man we went to town i think it was um maybe some people just kind of walked by yeah we had some people just walk by and kind of just stop and stare how'd that make you feel at first i was like okay what if people just come in and see us but then after i mean a few drinks you just i didn't just didn't care and we were just in that moment with each other which made it just like great we were so just engaged with each other absolutely that we didn't even know the unicorn that we bought with us also was in there oh i lost her no i didn't know she was she came in to peek in to make sure we were okay and then she disappeared but word up but yeah that was literally our first time doing that in front of people like walking around with no clothes on and we're staying in some place we have no idea we're just staying the night up there and then we all partied we went to sleep and we went home the next day yeah that was pretty awesome that was our first road trip to a club then we went to another one where we go babe whoop whoop we went to georgia to trapeze atl shawty yeah hey so we went to trapeze so we're here hold on let's let's let the people understand how serious this was for us right we went down friday after work we sure did and at that time i was working nights and we're talking about a nine-hour drive we went down friday at midnight got there 9 10 a.m crashed this is we We went friday midnight so basically saturday morning got there saturday morning about 9 10 a.m crashed on her home girl's couch slept pretty much all day got up got something to eat went right back out party that night uh and then hit the road sunday morning that's how serious it was it was was serious. And again, we're talking about our first year still. So we hear about this place. This is another place we hear about. We're like, okay, we've been to TJ's. We've done that. Then we hear about this trapeze. I'm like, in Georgia, I was like, okay, well, we got a friend that lives down there. We can just go. So we have this bright idea. We're just going to go after work on Friday, and we're just going to drive down. Because why not? Exactly. It was like, why not? Let's go see what this place is about. We were blown away. So we go in, and we're like, oh, my goodness. A, they feed you. So TJ's fed you, no georgia feeds you a you can't serve yourself they have servers they would not allow you to serve yourself or anything like that with your hands or anything like that yeah so they they serve you food from like the buffet and the food was awesome so we eat and we go and we party and at this point we had like we said we have been to a few clubs already so we're a little bit more comfortable with who we are yeah we're a little more comfortable in our own skin at this point so yeah so the cool thing about this club was it's pretty much like any other um swinger club uh where it's um you know bring your own alcohol or whatever and you check your you check your liquor or whatever and then they they make your drink and then they make your drinks as you can probably hear my wife making herself another glass of wine sorry guys but uh yeah so you check your wine or you check your check your wine and then uh what made it very cool was that in the back okay in the front area you got the party room you know you got all your seats and you got your party place where your disco is happening you got to strip a pole boom boom whatever party uh and then in the back when it's time to go play um they have an area where everyone has to get naked yes that's the best part to me because you don't have many spectators well i mean you will have spectators but it's a level playing field there aren't you won't see anybody in there just kind of like, you know, with a with a pair of pants on and you're walking around completely naked. That makes people feel uncomfortable and very vulnerable. So in the back, they have a locker room. Everybody goes in, checks their locker with the locker attendant, not necessarily yourself. You know what I'm saying? So you got the locker attendant. necessarily yourself you know what i'm saying so you got the locker attendant you put all your stuff in and then they lock it up for you which is pretty cool and then you go to the back they give you a towel so everybody maximum has a towel you know what i'm saying uh so again it just makes it a level playing field it makes everything um a a lot more equitable everybody feels uh like you're on the same playing field yeah and the differences so we kind of knew even at this spot we knew how it was going to work with like the playrooms and and how you can you know reserve a you know a private room or some of the rooms have themes we were familiar with that concept from the first club they didn't have themes did they Thank you. know reserve a you know a private room or some of the rooms have themes we were familiar with that concept from the first club they didn't have themes did they at trapeze no i think they were really not really but there they had the different rooms that you can um reserve so the one they did they had i mean they had cool rooms but they weren't themed they weren't going to find like a luau room or a stripper pole room no it was like they didn't have that but they did the room with the window they had the room with the window two adjoining rooms that was connected by a window it has a huge basically window that goes from the floor to the ceiling pretty much almost the entire wall the entire wall is made of glass so you can decide in that moment if you want to close the window or leave it open close the curtain and leave it open right so because it's our first time we were kind of nervous so we we we decided to close it we we we chickened out but we decided to close it and that was fine that was one of our like limitations that night but then but then we go to the hot tub so they have i think it's like three smaller three individual like maybe like seven person hot tubs yeah three seven person hot tubs in the back so not like tj's where there's this big giant pool this one was kind of like individual hot tubs so we are in the hot tub and we're you know just chilling playing with each other and you know kissing and and just trying to get into um our groove and we see lacy and uh and and the other guy and her guy and the other guy um so we see we we see lacy and i'm like wow yeah but i mean yeah she was she was hot and uh i think they were actually having a little bit of difficulties little little technical difficulties getting things done he actually having a little bit of difficulties, a little technical difficulties getting things done. He was having a little bit of a hard time, but yes. So to speak. So to speak. Yes. So long story short, we decided to give Lacey what she needed. Well, yes and no. Right. So we went over over we introduced ourselves after things got a little more chill with them so we went over we talked to them got to know them a little bit better um you know Tristan Lacey got a little closer uh got a little you know petty little little feely touchy feely and again this is like our one of our very first encounters we were still super new into the game and it was a pretty sexy seeing her flirt seeing Tris flirt and seeing someone flirt back and I think that this lady was actually in the game for a little a little while because she was she was kind of advanced you know she was a littleive and she could see that um maybe Trish needed a little bit of coaxing I guess you know what I'm saying but not in an aggressive assertive way but just kind of in a flirty way and it worked where we uh eventually found ourselves in the group playroom without Mr uh what did we call him the other guy yeah the other guy the other guy so we call him the other guy because we found out that they weren't actually a couple yeah they just kind of met on facebook met on facebook and just decided to come together to the club because they both wanted to come so he literally was the other guy just another guy just another guy so we didn't know that during the time that you know the flirting was going on and we were in that group room with her and it was super hot because she was on lock feeling on him and she was mostly feeling on you that was an amazing show you guys put on a wrestling match like i've never seen in my life and all i could do was stand back and look on with pride like yeah that's that's my baby right there like i mean you guys are just bumping and banging and pushing and shoving i swear it looked like a fight if i didn't know any better it looked like you know a ref needed to jump in and kind of break that thing up but i wasn't doing it and then afterwards of all of the escapades yeah we went and got breakfast we went and got breakfast so they fed us again so we went and got breakfast and then we carved up for the next round and then we we we figured out the whole how they weren't together and and i'm thinking like i wish we would have known that because i told lock that i would give him a threesome i was like we could have had that threesome if we would have known but again this goes back to the first couple that we met that taught us that protocol that protocol to be respectful don't you know just go across the line don't go you know try to not engage the guy but we didn't know they weren't technically together right so it's kind of like we could have not engaged him but we didn't know that so we didn't That didn't cross line basically right and so by the end of that night we um we had already you know disconnected from them we kind of made our own way and uh found ourselves having sex again uh back on the dance floor pretty much it was like the club was shutting down and we were going to get every single minute that we could oh we got every last dime we spent that night we well worth it had sex on the dance floor we had sex in the room with the windows at the hot tub in the group room we were there it was awesome it was awesome unbelievable so it was great yeah we definitely twice and then they fed us so yeah i mean it's a win and the food was good the food was bomb we were not expecting that by the way definitely thought it was gonna be yeah we definitely thought it was gonna be strip club food so yeah it was a win all right babe so yeah on to our next first uh in the first year what else did we do we decided after our first visit that we're going to actually go and visit a resort so we wanted to do as many things in between that time to actually go to the resort to get us ready for that to get us ready for being somewhere where it's not a club where you just go home so all of the events that we did in between that we were getting ready to go to desire at this point our first visit to desire and if you never heard of desire we're talking about desire riviera maya uh it's right outside of cancun on what is, the east coast of Mexico. It is a dope resort. And so we're going to go more into like the actual, what we liked about Desire in like one second. So before we went to Desire, like we said, we went to Taboo Social Club. We went to TJ's at this point. And we also went to Traze in georgia the last thing that we did before we went to desire was the hotel takeover which locke was alluding to earlier so with the hotel takeover we went to a friction party at this point we had never done one so we're like oh this is the last thing we can do to kind of get us ready for desire if you never heard of friction i'm sure wherever you're from you probably have like a local uh lifestyle scene friction is a party group here in the um the dc metro area and they put on parties hotel takeovers all up and down the east coast i think at this point we haven't gone to to one in a little while, but we're definitely looking forward to getting back out there. But at that point, we were just excited to try something new. We heard about them, and we heard about another group called Synergy. But this particular party was coming up soon. It fit all of our metrics. It was soon, it was close, and it wasn't very expensive, and it looked like some hot couples. So we registered, and we went.
Speaker2:
Yeah, and it was close to the time before we were leaving to go to desire so what were your expectations when it came to a hotel takeover you know i was really in my head just trying to figure out how they were going to pull this off like exactly how was that going to look how was the scene going to look what type of people were going to be there are we going to run into anybody that we already met or that was going to be a whole bunch of craziness going on yeah what i was nervous about was like what do you mean takeover like we were very very green in this whole thing like we had no idea what you what they actually meant by taking over an entire hotel does that mean we have a um the whole floor does that mean we can walk around the entire hotel naked um what can we do what are our boundaries here people having sex in the lobby or what after we registered and everything we found out very quickly that that's not the case right there's still a level of decorum that you have to have when you go into a hotel takeover. It's not a lot, but, um, there are different levels of hotel takeovers. Like some of them, they only run out a few floors. So, uh, you might be, uh, in the building with families, there might be families, there might be a wedding going on or something like that. So you see other you know some people that make you uncomfortable so the host will let you know you know you can't walk around nude you have to be covered up in the elevators or in the public areas like the lobby or whatever you have to make sure you're covered up with the robe at least the hotel takeover like they have like a club scene they have like a party where everybody goes and gets all dressed up i think this particular one was what camouflage yep that's exactly what it was it was camouflage because we didn't have anything to wear i know right i don't know what we wore but i know everybody else participated we we definitely stuck out we were new to the whole theme night thing too yes we were definitely new we didn't know at that time that's a good point we didn't know at that time that people actually participated in the theme night and actually took it seriously so we did not dress up that night we just i mean we dressed nice but we didn't like dress up and like theme i was like nobody's gonna participate in that and they did we ought to of ourselves. Now, if we could go back and talk to, you know, newbie us, I would definitely tell them to take the theme night serious. Like take that theme night. Very serious. Theme nights is a serious game and lifestyle. And, you know, and we didn't know that. Like this was our first themed night. So we totally just didn't know that that you know us as adults actually dress up dress up and participate in it and that's the fun part of it right that's the fun part of being on a lifestyle where you can just that's i think that's why they call it play i've heard other um podcasters like question this whole thing like why do we call it play, you when we're doing some shit that's very grown but uh it's because you actually i believe that you just get to let all your inhibitions go you just get to put away all that uh all that grown-up shit man and just have some fun and you're just playing like you get to dress up in a costume you know what i'm saying on like On like a on a regular weekend in May. And it's a no judgment zone. It's no judgment, right? Like come as you are and you'll be accepted. There's always somebody for you. You're going to have some fun regardless. Yes. So we go to the hotel takeover. And at this point, we don't see anybody that we knew at that point. So we go to the party. Even the hotel takeover kind of has like a flow. You get there, everybody checks in, you kind of like chill, you, you know, get your room together, you pregame in your room, you have some drinks. They have a party that night that everybody goes to and they have a pool party if it has a pool. Right, I don't think this one had a pool this one didn't in that sense so we went to the nighttime party and who do we the club scene who do we run into we run into mr and mrs pasties so it was great to see them because that kind of like made us a little bit more at ease because it was like oh my gosh this is, this is like one person we know. And then, of course, we met more people that night through them that they were friends with. So it just made it that much more enjoyable. Yeah, I was relieved. I was relieved. Yeah, absolutely. We could just let our guards down and just kind of have fun and see what the night takes us. Definitely. And it just didn't feel so closed up. Yeah. Yeah. And we're not ones to really try to find people to just like mix in or whatever. We were really good at having our own fun. That's kind of where we came from with this whole thing. Like there was nothing better than going to the club and just seeing Trist swing around on the stripper pole. You know, she used to take classes at that time. So she would just get up on there and just swing around and then everyone would gawk and stare. And that was enough for me. You know, we were able to make our own fun, get in our own zone. And that's kind of what we took with us to this party but just having that that backup having some somebody there to to to break down some boundaries um between us and the other people we're able to just kind of like blend in a little bit and meet some people shake some hands you know and learn a little bit more about the whole lifestyle just from more experienced couples that was pretty dope it was definitely pretty dope so we're on this elevator and we there's a woman on elevator and she is tall and gorgeous beautiful she's a very tall she's a very tall beautiful woman she definitely is she was super nice her husband was really cool um so the next part of this experience was that yeah we go from the club scene to what happens next like everybody kind of migrates out of the club once you start finding the people that you're hanging out with everybody kind of migrates to the bedrooms or to the to your floor. And what was that experience like when you got to the hotel floor? What did that scene look like to you? So when we got to the hotel floor,
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it was basically everybody just had like their doors open.
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And since we were like new, we just, we were like, we don't really know anybody.
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When you get up, when you go in, you look through the hotel on the hotel floor. It's kind of like the meat market, right? I don't know like we don't really know anybody when you get up when you go and you look through the hotel on the hotel floor it's kind of like the meat market right remember we always call it like that meat market it's kind of like everybody's just kind of standing out in the hallway some people in their robes some women in their bras some guys in their underwear or whatever everybody's kind of just like lingering waiting for something to happen so some people might go into room 101 you kind of pull them in and that door closes and then some people kind of left over uh and then they go into room 103 and then doors closing it's like so slowly the doors are closing and it's like opportunities are getting very very scarce scarce and everybody you you're kind of wondering, so do, am I supposed to go into somebody's room? What if nobody asked me to go in their room? It's kind of like getting picked last and dodgeball. Yeah, it definitely was. It was like being just like, am I going to get picked up or not? Yeah. And luckily we met met this beautiful woman on the elevator. Now we run into the beautiful woman again. And she literally, quite literally, came out and asked us, like, hey, do you guys want to come in? You want to play? And kind of tagged us on the shoulder. Like, okay, you're in. You're in. Now come on in. And we were sitting there like, okay, so now we're in this room. Now what what happened now what happens so everybody's kind of sitting around everybody's kind of sitting around and it became more like a vetting process of elimination how many people were in there you think maybe about eight different couples in there and then what ended up happening is like i mentioned there was a process of elimination. There was one particular couple in there that the woman, not even the man, the man was pretty chill. I don't know if you remember that. The man was pretty chill. The woman was very aggressive. So she was kind of like, okay, are we going to do this or what? Let's do this now. She started walking around with do remember with the strap on they gave her the boot yes she started walking around with the strap on on put her strap on on and just dangling the strap on like okay let's go like are we going to do this or what and that couple got the boot they kicked them on out of there yep that they the beautiful lady kicked him out because she felt like they they were doing way too much yeah it was it was a strictly uh soft swap situation and she made that very clear literally and i and i gotta give her that i gotta give her the the fact that she she vetted everyone and i and now as a um quote-unquote veteran um i can appreciate her being more uh up front with everybody about the expectations because you don't you don't really want to make anyone feel uncomfortable in a situation that they are not prepared for that's a recipe for crash and burn that is a recipe for crash and burn he's absolutely right like at the time we were kind of like turned off what we mean by she set the tone for what was going to be and what was going to happen. What she did was she told you the rules. So she gave. Which is also appreciated. Yeah. Before anything popped off, she gave the absolute rules of what was acceptable and what wasn't going to be accepted. And if you did not follow the rules, then you were going to be kicked out yeah and i again um looking at it again from another lens of more experience i definitely appreciate that um at the time though we were like oh my gosh at the time it seemed like too structured you know we kind of wanted things to flow we kind of just wanted to see where things went um and it made us feel a little nervous and a little rigid um but honestly without that we probably could have gotten ourselves into some trouble that we weren't prepared for absolutely yeah absolutely so um you know the sexy part of it is is that you know we got to see um all the ladies just kind of do what is it called a puppy pile or a kitty pile or something like that um just kind of jump up on the bed and just kind of fool around and play around but then um all of a sudden it was kind of like a one two three red light you know and then you switch and then all the women would get off the bed and she uh the beautiful woman kind of ordered the women to play with their men
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Thank you. light you know and then you switch and then all the women would get off the bed and she uh the
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beautiful woman kind of ordered the women to play with their men and then all the women would go play with their men and try to reconnect with their men or whatever and then again one two three red light you know and then we switch again and then all the women got back on the bed so you know it it was definitely way too structured uh for our play situation yeah for now like so what we've what we are learning in this process at this point is what we like and don't like so that when we went to desire we kind of knew okay what not to get ourselves into because we learned a lot from that one experience of what we didn't like and we know that we're not a couple that likes a whole bunch of structured yeah to be like okay now we're gonna do this okay now we're gonna do this right right yeah and i don't think anybody likes being told what to do you understand your boundaries and your limitations when people set them forward in the beginning like okay um for instance like no anal please don't stick your finger in my ass without my permission or or people don't like to be kissed or anything like that how i go to anal and you go to kissing so yeah right oh no that's what's up yeah no you're right yeah um so yeah that's exactly what i'm talking about so um we're not talking about that we're talking about like being directed uh in your play session to do certain things it's different one two three stick it in four five six now out right right yeah that's not that's not how we go so we yeah like she said we definitely um we definitely learned what we're liking and what we what we don't like at this point and we went back to our room we ended up leaving and went back to our room and had sex again and and went home the next day yeah but at this point i think we were maybe a couple of weeks out from our trip to desire so we are pumped up still we're like we're ready for desire we feel comfortable about going so now now we fly we're going to transition to our first time our first time to desire now in the weeks preceding uh once we registered and everything uh for desire we we actually registered with a group uh because you know we we saw in all the chat rooms and all the message boards that you should do your best to go to desire or another any kind of like lifestyle resort with a group because you're guaranteed to have a lot of people there and you're gonna be able to blend in with people of the same mindset because some some resorts will have people that are there who are like um maybe just want to be naked want to be free or whatever but um if you want to be guaranteed to be hanging out with lifestylers or swingers you should definitely go with a lifestyle or swinger group we found a group called the what were they called babe though the why nots the why nots and the hot tamales and the hot tamales yeah yeah um and it was pretty dope it was actually pretty dope they were very welcoming people um online right so this is the month like i said maybe a month or two uh preceding the trip uh where we would do a yahoo group um where you could see everyone's pictures um you post your picture and everyone gets to kind of like message each other, uh, talk about their flights and just talk about, um, all the different things that, uh, you plan on doing all the things you're excited about. So I'm pretty sure like, since we've gone, like, um, people probably not doing that many groups on Yahoo anymore. I think it's it's moved on to kick people do a lot of kick groups it was cool to to to mix and mingle online before we got there yeah we didn't really understand at the time what we what the purpose of that was right until we show up at the resort after months of dealing with this group of people online um we knew that the group was just a little bit older than us or whatever we didn't care we was just gonna go down there and kick in and see how things went uh so we go and again this is our first time at a lifestyle resort where anything goes and everyone's going to be naked so our expectations were so high it was so crazy we just didn't know what we were going to see had no clue so we go in we finally get there after all the travel or whatever whoop de whoop uh we check in they give you a little uh glass of uh champagne or whatever you're welcome and uh we got there early enough um before our rooms were done but we were able to go get lunch and again so we've had this message board for a long time and people got to see our pictures. And I think we might've been like the only black couple, uh, in this group, which is cool. So we kind of, we kind of stuck out a little bit, right? As you'll see as, um, uh, as a minority in the lifestyle, you kind of do, but anyway, so we're walking around, we're checking out the place and we just got off the airplane airplane i got my shorts on and whatever and we're fully dressed and just checking out everything and trying not to look at all the titties is walking by it's like oh my god people are actually naked here so we're walking back yeah it was crazy it was so crazy and everybody had beautiful tans uh but we're walking uh and we're walking past the pool to get to the lunch area and we hear our names oh my god that's lock and tris and then a few people just get out of the pool butt naked butt naked come walking over and i'm trying my best as a guy just butt ass naked walk up straight to me and i'm trying my best to just look him in the eyes i'm gonna look this dude in the eyes and he's gonna come over and he's just like hey you know it's nice to meet you guys meanwhile his balls are just dripping on my shoes and i've never been in such an awkward situation in my life but it was cool right i mean when in rome, you know, you just kind of just take it, you're just there and you're like, okay, so this is what we're going to do. We just going to drip all over me. All right, cool. You know, nice to meet you. We've seen your profile. So, you know, whatever, uh, it's good to meet you. Glad to have you guys had glad to have some new blood and obviously you know we didn't know what we were actually getting into as far as the uh the age level of this group and they were a little bit older but we didn't care they knew how to party and they knew how to treat us they knew the protocol uh so we were able to eat and everything we're not going to go into the day to day of this trip but we just learned a whole lot man we learned a whole lot from this trip What was the key thing that we took from this trip? And I can tell you what I think the key idea that I took from this trip go ahead you tell me what you think and I'll tell you mine if you don't have anything that's cool I don't think so all right remember the lady I can't remember her name but when we would introduce ourselves we learned that i forgot we learned that she told us you you do not introduce yourself just as you meaning when i go up to someone and i go up to the male or the female of another couple i'm no longer just lock i'm lock and trist that's what i am that's who i represent i pervert i represent both of us so every time you introduce yourself you introduce yourself as lock and tryst and i think we do that no matter what we're doing now yes i forgot that that happened literally it was like early in the morning she came over and sat on the porch little chair thing oh yeah she was a teacher she just came over and sat with and sat on a little porch and was like butt naked by the way yeah she was butt naked early in the morning she just came over and sat with us and just started talking to us and she said that and it stuck it stuck and i was like you're so right i love it i love that piece um i take that into the vanilla world and it just it just feels right it's just one of them things you know you don't have any proof that it's right or that it helps people to remember you but um it's just it just feels like courtesy it feels like chivalry uh from my perspective anyway to just introduce myself and my wife or my wife first and then me or whatever whatever the case but to to present yourself as one unit because that's what we are especially in the lifestyle we're one unit you're not going to get us apart I mean some people might play that game but not you know not us you know that's just not how we roll we are together and we play together and you're not going to get one without the other yes absolutely i totally forgot that we learned that and and um desire but yes that was a key point that we took away um and that we still use to this day actually so we go out to places places and meet people. Yeah, absolutely. So what about the first time we got naked at the resort? What was that like? Oh, my goodness. Okay, so we were so scared. We just didn't know what to do, like what to expect, what was going to happen. The best advice we got for that was just go, your bags off and get naked and hit it we did and that's exactly that's exactly what we did we were nervous we were nervous we did it we were so nervous especially after the guy jumped out of the pool was like hi how are you yeah that was funny that was crazy we're like are we really doing this we're here we're're here already. Went right back to the room, spray sunscreen on every part of your body. Now, that was a first. Oh, and also, you know, just your preparation as a male was my preparation was bananas. Shaving every inch of my body. Absolutely. Yeah. I'm a believer that if you expect me to be groomed you need to groom yourself too so yeah we we hit it we um doing some flip-flops and a hat and nothing else and and we like hit it and it was like okay liberating are we doing this and it was it changed our entire life it really did we learned how to just be free i came back home and i i don't think i wore underwear for like two months he didn't it was terrible it was a bad time but it was bad he was like i don't need those anymore i was like but you're not on vacation right now but i wanted to be so bad he did he was like, I don't need those anymore. I was like, but you're not on vacation right now. But I wanted to be so bad. He did. He was like, but I don't need these anymore. I'm like, okay. It was definitely a great experience. We learned how to be at the resort, how to take pictures for our vanilla friends and our family to show that we're at vacation, but not look like're at a nude resort right right make sure nobody's in the background make sure no signage right any of that and then take your shit off as soon as possible as soon as we can yeah we took all of that and we took some we did a sexy photo shoot you forgot about that oh yeah don't worry you guys are going to see some of those shots eventually on our instagram or uh on our twitter feed we did an amazing shoot you forgot about that oh yeah don't worry you guys are going to see some of those shots eventually on our instagram or uh on our twitter feed we did an amazing sexy photo shoot i would did some photos on the pole we did some photos in the beat i wish i had the the lady's name you know the photographer's name because she definitely get a shout out but hey shout out desire for your photography crew definitely do shout out for desire and so the last thing we're going to just mention about desire is that that also was our first time that we met a couple that we basically booked essentially so we was on vacation and we were on vacation we were at desire we were. We were at the pool at the hot tub and not even saying a whole bunch of words. We met this couple there. So, yeah. So hold on. I'm going to give you my perspective. And then I want you to give me what happened on the other side. It's pretty funny how this all happened. Right. So we chilling in the, in the hot tub and there's a similar couple to us, right? Like, uh, and. side it's pretty funny how this all happened right so we chilling in the in the hot tub and there's a similar couple to us right like uh and by similar i mean they kind of like-minded they didn't really follow the crowd when you go to desire you'll see that the crowd kind of moves like a school of fish everyone kind of goes the same place at the same time but this particular couple kind of strayed away from that normal schedule or routine of everyone else just like we did we kind of just did our own thing so we were at the hot tub where everyone else was probably at the disco so we got a chance to like talk to them so we're in the hot tub and i think trist is sitting next to mrs first time we're gonna call him mrs first time mr mrs first time yeah all right mr mrs first how about that so mr first is kind of lingering on the side and um mrs first is over there kind of sitting with trist and we all just chilling kicking it in the hot tub whatever then me and mr first kind of had to go to the restroom right so we dip out we go to the restroom and in that time we had a little bit of second to talk, you know, so we're kind of just seeing where each other's at. And this is my first time hearing this kind of dialogue, which is, you know, trying to close the deal. Right. So, Mr. First is kind of saying, you know, where you guys at, where you guys got like to do. We don't really like we don't like to full swap. And meanwhile, I'm like, oh, oh man is this guy like trying to close this deal I'm like okay all right cool um I don't know uh let me check in with my wife so then we talked to the ladies to see where they were and we we got out of the water and then I talked to Trist and I asked her her thoughts and she said sure because what i didn't know unbeknownst to me mrs first was uh getting a little handsy under the hot tub water oh yes it was going down it was going down and i had no clue no clue and she was so smoking hot yeah she had a uh she had a big booty for a white lady she did big booty it was nice well put together she was so well put together and she was a little older yeah that's right they they both were just a little older yeah uh well put together a couple beautiful couple and so then we're kind of like walking back kind of everybody kind of strolling to see what was going on and we posed the questions to the ladies to see where their hair was at and the ladies would uh they said yes they said they wanted to go and we said awesome whose room exactly and i'm like yeah come come to mine you can come to my room your room my room please come to my room and uh so we did so the ladies came back the ladies um mr and mrs first they came back to our room and we had a little bit of a soft swap situation right we where we just kind of watched the ladies kiss and roll around and kind of play around while we watched them. I mean, it was just like watching live porn. Yeah. And this is our first time with doing this as a soft swapping with a couple in the room. And yeah. What was that like for you? What did that feel like for you? Well, it felt kind of comfortable because we were doing it together and it was something that we had built up to at this point. We had done all these things to kind of build up to this. Were you nervous? Yes and no, not that comfortable because, again, that was just that was also my first also really just being in that situation with. Right. Like, so like all the way in the room one on one, like we had played around, we dibbled and dabbled, but there was nothing like this situation. This situation was was much more intimate, right? Because we were one on one with another couple. We've we've messed around in little rooms or whatever. Um, but this was like a one-on-one situation where we thought that anything could go, but it was clear that, you know, everybody was on the same page. Cause at that time we didn't want full swap. It was just, it was a soft swap situation. We, uh, we, we just wanted to see what it would be like to see women play around, um, and just have parallel play. And that's when you pretty much just have sex with your partner right next to another couple having sex. And yeah, we were very elementary at that time. And that was that was hot, though. I mean, you know, to each their own, if you ever get to that point, you know, it might take a couple a long time to get to just parallel play or it's just soft swapping absolutely because some people can get into the lifestyle and just want to just be voyeurs or exhibitionists and never get to playing in the same room with somebody and that's what we were we were that for months and then we just decided that let's take it to another level yeah and we did that yeah we did but we stayed voyeurs and exhibitionists for a long time i gotta tell you the sexiest part of that night it could be that night or the the next night because we ended up playing with them again we were very comfortable with them and they were comfortable with us um but and they didn't consider and i'm sorry i don't mean to cut you off but i don't know if you remember they didn't consider themselves swingers they were nudists yeah they did they had some uh identity issues going on but whatever so uh yeah the sexiest part of that night was that um once everything got all hot and heavy and you know once the ladies kind of uh were ready for penetration you know i was able to be inside of tryst i think from the back and his mrs first was kind of laid back he was missionary on her she reached up underneath me and kind of just fondled my balls while I was going in and out of tryst. That was amazing. One, it just feels good, right? But then just the idea of, of where I am, what is happening right now, blew my mind, blew my socks off. it was an amazing thing to just have that happen we were able to like actually hang out with them one more night but um yeah that made the trip i agree it definitely did yeah that was it was unexpected and i gotta be honest with you Um, going into that, to that vacation, I was at the point where I kind of just was going to let it flow. I had been putting some pressure on Trist to try to find that perfect couple that we could play with. And I felt bad about it. So I made it a point to, like, just leave it alone when we when we go down to desire like i i don't want to set any expectations on her i just want us to go down there and have a good time and she surprised me by saying that you know that we're having a little hanky panky in the hot tub and and was ready to play absolutely note to men just sit back and chill like things kind of just fall into play don't put expectations on someone just chill yeah that's definitely a good point and i mean um yeah that goes for men and women in in the lifestyle like just don't put pressure on your partner um but we can definitely talk about that in another episode you know the whole no pressure right like uh there's a culture of um having fun and having these expectations but you know having having an agenda in your own mind that is a recipe for disaster it definitely is because they aren't always going to plan the way that you think they should yeah they're not gonna yeah they're definitely not gonna go according to plan they're not right not not always but um so desire was it was a great trip like it definitely set the bar for us it did it set the bar and yeah, it was an awesome trip, which is why we're planning on going back sometime soon. But we will definitely get to that. So, yeah, I mean, that was our desire trip in a wrap. So we're going to move on and talk about some things that we got upcoming. Definitely. So I have my Vegas trip. Vegas trip. That is that is what less than 10 days away now definitely is yeah less than 10 days away it's gonna be awesome so here's what you learn being in a lifestyle you learn how to be a good host and i always tell lock this um the thing is is that we're having this girls trip that's just really with some of my friends and then some of my lifestyle friends it's funny that we was talking about that earlier with another couple another lifestyle couple earlier today how many of these people are vanillas totally vanillas i think we have an even split actually how many girls are going 10 well okay include me nine okay all right so about right down the middle about five and five how many of the vanillas know that you are lifestyle all of them but one and i think that's very interesting right um one that you know you kind of allowed your lifestyle to seep into your vanilla um which is quite brave of you honestly yeah but the thing is is that like again you kind of treat like a boyfriend kind of just say hey you know i got this new boyfriend and you know he's dope you don't really go into a whole bunch of details about what that is yeah you kind of let them know that there's this thing that you do these activities that you partake in but you don't give the gory beautiful wonderful details absolutely not and and again because i treat it like dating i wouldn't give you the whole you know plan out from you know a to z about what i did with some guy it's the same thing so i treat it as that i i won't give you all the intimate details of what exactly went on or didn't go on you know leave that to your imagination but we will make sure that uh she shares with you our listeners our guests yeah i'll share with you guys just not with all the vanillas just not with all my vanilla friends right my vanilla friends and again we'll get into a later episode about what some of these terms are for those of you out in this world that kind of doesn't know what we're talking about when we're using the terms like vanilla. So tell us about your themes. So themes. So themes for the night. We have a. Basically, we have a kind of like a hat and heels day during the day time we're going to go to a pool party that night we have a blackout theme night to go to the club is that neon no so the blackout theme night actually is when you're going to dress in your hottest tiny black outfit dress dress, lace, whatever makes you sexy. You got to be sizzling sexy that night for the blackout. So we're calling that basically Black Friday. Black Friday. I love it, babe. So Black Friday. And then Saturday, we're going to have a neon night just because I like to wear bright colors. So it's pretty fun. So it's kind of going to be themed as a fun night that I love to just have fun with different colors. So neon night is going to be called the Afterglow. The Afterglow is going to happen on Saturday. I love it. I love it. I can't wait to see pictures. I can't wait to hear stories. stories yeah and i think you're doing a good job of hosting you got all the ladies excited you've been doing your uh on your all your research and you've been doing all your texting doing your text groups and uh yeah all your chats and got all the ladies all worked up and and ready to go man so and it's just so funny i'm sorry it's cut in but it's so funny because you start treating all your relationship as lifestyle basically of how you actually go about something the protocols is what i'm referring to that you do like you create i created a group chat for this and say hey and started talking to each other in the group chat with everybody in the group chat i don't know if that's a lifestyle thing, but that's probably where we learned it. It is absolutely where we learned that. You're going to set up a suite and have the drinks and the snacks and all of these things to kind of set up the atmosphere. Right. That this is going to be a fun, weekend i can't wait you deserve it babe you've been a fantastic wife and partner and mother to our baby so um you know i can't wait to to do my service and you know be a full-time single dad for a few days absolutely and uh we look forward to seeing your face time um and sending uh i want you to send some sexy pictures or something oh most definitely i'm going to send some naughty pictures you gotta keep me excited i have it all planed out make sure you post to instagram too let let our um let our listeners our guests let our guests see what you're up to out there too absolutely but let's talk about also what you have coming up while i'm away yeah um again i just want to uh shout out to everybody at the playground group um i'm i'm getting ready for that thing ready to uh go to the to the meet and greet uh hang out with some uh beautiful couple the hopes aren't very high um i'm again i'm just looking forward to getting in the mix and meeting some uh fellow podcasters and and shooting the shit with the people that we already know um and maybe making a connection or two with another couple but it's my expectations aren't very high cause I'm,'ll be a single male and you know um i'm not quite sure how that's going to go or be perceived so whatever i'm just there to kick it and uh make some connections and uh kick it with some old friends so yeah um and we're definitely counting down to uh our next desire trip this will be the first one in a what since the since the first time we've been out there um this is this will only be our second time going so we're looking forward to that this is actually your quote unquote push present for having the baby but i get a little bit of action on that one so yes he gets some he gets some push present to present to you yeah so yeah this is gonna be awesome so we're we're uh under 200 days now which is a celebration i think we've got about 195 days left until we get there at this point and i can't wait and i'm and i'm so ready i got my floating device i didn't have any of that the first time i got my floating device i'm ready to go. I got my floating device. I didn't have any of that the first time. I got my floating device. I'm ready to go. I got my bathing suits for my vanilla shots. I'm getting ready. Well, we enjoyed you guys tonight. Thank you so much for coming in and listening to us in the suite. Yeah, we'd like to thank you all for joining us in the suite. It's been a it's been a blast putting this all together for you. Again, we'd like to thank you for living a sweet life with us. Be sure to subscribe, rate and review us on iTunes, Spotify, Google Play or wherever you listen to podcasts. feel free to email us any questions comments or 90 thoughts at the sweet life podcast at gmail.com that is the sweet life t-h-e-s-u-i-t-e-l-i-f-e podcast at gmail.com you can also follow us on instagram at the sweet Life Podcast and on Twitter at Sweet Life Pod. So do you have anything else to say to our lovely guests? Until next time.
