Episode 001 - Welcome to the Suite

Transcript

Welcome to the Livin sweet life podcast she is my beautiful sexy co-host and wife the lovely trist he is my sexy chocolate husband and co-host lock and again we'd like to just thank you all for joining us and living the sweet life i want to make sure that this is a awesome So, let's go. And again, we'd like to just thank you all for joining us and living the sweet life. I want to make sure that this is an awesome experience for you. We're trying to do something a little different here. We're going to give you a little bit of background on what we plan on doing here. Right. So.

There are a ton of lifestyle podcasts out there telling you a bunch of sexy stories and a bunch of tips and tricks to navigating your way through the lifestyle. We got a few of our own. I think that we know no shades anybody out there. We we definitely are podcast listeners and we support all of them. And we just want to do things a little bit differently.

We want to bring perspective so we i think we have a pretty unique perspective we are a fairly young as far as the lifestyle concern fairly young black married couple uh living in a major metropolitan area and you know we got a family we got um jobs and everything that we gotta adhere to uh but you know we want to, we want to give you the lifestyle from our perspective. So we're excited to do that. So in this podcast, you can expect to hear us share our experiences. Uh, we're going to be able to give y'all a little bit of, uh, advice.

Um, and we're going to hopefully get into some, some cool stuff. Like as far as like reviews on sexy resorts, maybe some clubs, places that we've been and things that we're hoping to do. Maybe some groups that you might want to join or look into. But we're just trying to make this an all all encompassing experience for you with a little bit of a twist. I can agree.

So the twist is going to be after a few episodes of getting to know us, giving you a little bit of background on who we are and how we expect to do things we're going to do what we call opening up the suite to you right we're going to post a youtube live stream uh so that you can interact directly with us too um we'd like to offer you an opportunity to pose questions to us directly and we'll answer them right there on the spot. All the while, we're going to be recording and able to put this up on a podcast and, you know, build a network that way.

We want to be able to give you, you know, as soon as you have a question, you can just come right out with it. So again, we are 100% podcast listeners. We have a ton that we listen to and that we love and we appreciate you guys have laid down the groundwork for uh living the sweet life and we just want to give you guys a few shout outs you know we definitely listen to the black and kinky lifestyle those are actually some dope folks appreciate y'all laying out some support offering advice and tips on how to get into the game and, uh, working on the sound and everything really appreciate that.

We definitely listened to, uh, that couple next door, uh, swinger diaries. Yeah, everybody, man, we just, you know, um, we appreciate everything that you guys have done to, uh, have us, you know, follow behind you in the footsteps, swinging down under. Shout out to them, too. So how did we get here to start a podcast? Well, interesting story. So I was pregnant and we recently had a baby. And while I was pregnant, my husband decided to listen to podcasts. Absolutely right. And then he decided to let me know that, hey, we should check out the podcast.

I think that the podcasts are very interesting. So while he was having his idle time of nine months of no LS partying, he was able to get his fix from the podcast. And that's how we ended up getting into the podcast. Yeah, you 100% right. I mean, man, again, I got to say shout out to Swinger Diaries and that couple next door, man. You guys kept the imagination running.

I mean, I'm out there mowing the lawn uh cutting you know cutting the grass washing the car at work riding through city traffic all the while listening to y'all making the time go by man you just kept the lifestyle going for me and for her too but definitely for me keeping the imagination going all this time and i I appreciate it, man. It was some smoking hot stories there. Yeah, it sure was. And it was a grueling nine months for me. I stayed sick majority of the time of those nine months. So I really appreciate your stories and the different things like that. All the tips and everything.

It was all the tests that lock was able to listen to while we were waiting for our new bundle of joy ready to come out, ready with both, both barrels blazing, come back into the scene. Yeah. I mean, speaking of that, it's like, you know I'd like to call this our act too. Like, cause Trish said, we were pregnant for pretty much all of 2018. Right. And that stopped everything. Like we had to take a pause for the lifestyle. You know, of course, you got to do what you got to do. You got to put family first.

But then we I mean, we were into the lifestyle hot and heavy prior to we were partying a lot. It was almost like on a monthly basis. We had a regular play friends, friends that we were just hanging out with, but everything came to a stop. So now we're at a very unique time in our lives. And we kind of want you guys to enjoy that with us, or at least go on a journey with us. We're going to call this act two. This is a, the our podcast, not podcast relationship, but this is the beginning of our lifestyle journey all over again. And it's from a different perspective.

One, we're super busy with a brand new baby. Two, we're just trying to rekindle relationships that may have dropped off in the past. And just three, just trying to get back out there and just see new stuff so it's we got multi-levels of uh engagement here that we're just trying to fire up and also give you guys perspectives or things that we've learned throughout the years yeah um how many years have we been in this see i may get this wrong and then he's gonna you know come at me afterwards fire at me afterwards. Fire you up. Seven? We're close. Actually, it's six, I think. Six.

I think we started in 2013. Six. I was close. Yeah, you were. You were close. I give you credit for that. You get an A for effort. I try.

But, yeah, we've been in the game for about six years, and it's a lot of stuff that we've learned and a lot of tips that we picked up from some folks and we just want to share that stuff with you yes indeed yeah so you know we definitely want to plan on being you know we're always going to what you can expect from us is going to be like straight up honesty right we're going to always give you uh the real and dirty we're going to just give it to you funky we're going to tell you you know um the good with the bad whatever you need to hear we're going we're going to keep it real with you um you know we're going to give you the best answers that we got right i mean we're not professionals and we'll make sure when uh the next episode comes out we're going to have our disclaimer in the beginning saying that we are not professionals right just take our advice with um with some common sense with it you know you gotta check out with other people we're not medical professionals so anything that you hear from us is just uh pretty much just our opinion so please take it as that yes and i agree with lock it's it's just based off of our own experiences experiences that we've met um with people that we've met throughout the years their experiences and that's what we plan on sharing with you guys absolutely and you know we want to set the expectation of the frequency of the show we're probably going to do the show about once a month right um you know but but we hope to be able to do it a little bit more often than that we might be able to sprinkle in in an extra episode here and there.

You know, just be on the listen, you know, go ahead, subscribe early. And whenever we drop one, you'll, you'll get the notification. And eventually, as Locke mentioned before, the first few episodes will just be strictly our podcast.

And then eventually we'll go live and we'll be able to stream live and you can ask us questions absolutely man i'm really excited about that how you feeling about that babe i'm really excited about that i'm kind of nervous about the whole thing but we will see how it works out yeah yeah i mean i think it's gonna be dope though right i think as long as we get out there and uh we keeping it real and we um you know let people know what's going on and let them know what to expect like here's something that we didn't mention we're definitely covering our faces sorry about that yeah we're gonna go live but we're gonna cover up our faces and any identifying marks so the reason why we're gonna cover up our identity of course that we we have kids and we have parents and things of that nature Here we go.

to find marks so the reason why we're going to cover up our identity of course that we we have kids and we have parents and things of that nature um so yes we're adults but we're not that adult we still we still want to remain as a soccer parents right and then i expect when we go to our kids school so because of that we we will and and again we're just getting to know you world I'll see you next time.

a soccer parents right when we go to our kids school so because of that we we will and and again we're just getting to know you world i don't want to let you all the way in on our first date you know so we gotta you know keep it sexy um as much as possible um but again we're we're super excited about the show we super excited about going live eventually, streaming your questions and asking questions. Because I think that that'll be great for other lifestylers to be able to hear your questions. Right. Or just people interested in the lifestyle.

People that might be on the live stream who are curious about the lifestyle. You know, I definitely want to reach out to them too. Uh, want you to be able to, to jump in and just listen in on the conversation or even, you know, uh, for someone who might be interested in a lifestyle, come across our, our, uh, podcast and hear people asking questions and they get those questions answered in real time.

You know, that, one thing we definitely want to do we want to reach out to our audience in real time and then just you know post the thing as a podcast correct so we're going to move on um hopefully you guys get a good feel for what the show it's about and what we're about and what our expectations are now i want to talk about who you are yeah now we want to talk about who we are as an individual person who is that sexy trist who is she i can tell you who i think she is or what i know let me tell you no i can talk about myself i'm just saying i know you can do that jesus okay so trish so trish as a person as individual i am a very spunky mid well no late 30s at this point late 30s i'm a mother of two i also have step kids we have a very uh mixed Thank you.

no late 30s at this point late 30s i'm a mother of two i also have step kids we have a very uh mixed family uh culturally and yeah we make it work and again we mentioned that we just had a baby so it's a big huge mixed bowl of circle that we have going on in our household i'm very creative um and i just like to live yeah like there's no um lock can attest to this i can decide tomorrow i want to cut off my hair off and it will be off um yeah i just kind of go at you know at the buy the seat of your pants seat of my pants you do and just decide you know hey i want to this whole room to be blue and today it's going to be blue right so um but otherwise i think that's pretty much it i love to go party i i love a good time i love good vibes from people but at the same time i know that i can give off to people especially when they meet me for the first time sometimes um that they don't know how to read me and it's just because i'm trying to understand who you are as a person so So I don't automatically just open all the way up when I meet people for the first time.

Right. You don't. Except for some liquid courage. Now, if I had some liquid courage and it's already going down, yeah, you don't have to worry about any of that. Yeah, you're super friendly at that point. I'm super friendly to everyone. You might throw your leg over somebody.

I might over somebody i might throw my leg somebody some sugar i might do all of those things yes if the liquid carriage is already flowing in the system and usually it is most of the time so i'm not alcoholic no but most of the time if we're partying and this is already flowing then pregame it's called the pregame babe yeah the pregame the pregame is real yeah the pregame is very real but so let's talk about who you are yeah but real quick i want to just go ahead and uh and piggyback on what you were saying about yourself like yeah maybe you come off as a little standoff to some people in the beginning but that's just because they don't get they don't know you like i know you they don't you know they're not ready right like i mean i've noticed that you know you can come off as very eclectic or very eccentric and then um but when you are around people you do take a time take your time to scope them out and get a good feel for people before you loosen up and that's nothing there's nothing wrong with that you take as much time as you need uh before you uh give your real self to people you know i just i definitely want to give that advice to anyone out there like you know you go through your process the way you go through it you take your time if you want to get to you know kind of scope out the scene or get a feel for someone notice the little things like does he open her door for her or does he go get her drink or you know little things like that whatever you're looking for uh and you're taking your time to scope those things out just do it you know because that's what you do and i love that about you that's something i had to get patient when i had to learn that about you but yeah and i noticed details i'm a detail oriented person names now I'm gonna tell you yeah you're good you're good with faces you're good with faces I'm terrible with names like you can tell me a name in two seconds I'll forget but I can tell you details about the shoes you had on what color they were like I can tell you what we talked about all of these things but your name it's your superpower I don't know.

I don you're gonna hear it every now and then don't hold it against me whatever it's all good yeah you may hear a southern twang for me and I'm not even from the south but I used to think I was from Florida because I lived in Florida for a second big ball of confusion is what you are um yeah we both are pretty athletic we love to work out I definitely love to work out I love to push my limits and try to try different things. Like my wife said, you know, I love to explore and try new things, man. I love to have some fun. I love to I've become more outgoing, I think, you know.

When I got this lady in my life, I kind of had to, you know, keep up or or move to the back of the bus. But I managed to hang in there with her, right? So I'd like to call myself an introvert. Other people will not do that. He's definitely an extrovert. I've been referred to as a closeted extrovert, but I'm not really sure. I like to call myself a social introvert.

about that he can work a whole room depending on the situation if i have to then i don't want to but if i if i'm in a situation where i just want to have some fun i'll make it happen but yeah so that's us individually now who are we as a couple babe without going all back, we don't need to do all that. We don't need to go all the way back. Let's just bottom line it for the people, right? So we dated in high school, our senior year of high school.

We met, we dated, then we broke up, and then we kind of got back together a whole bunch of years later yes we can agree on that part we can agree on the bottom line but if we get into the details she don't like it we don't agree because she dumped me yeah but that's okay you know i might be holding a grudge maybe 20 years later but it's okay it's all good it brought it brought us back together so yeah so we uh we got back together a bunch of years ago um and we got married recently you know once we started talking that ls stuff i was like yeah i'm not losing this one how did we get there how we get to this whole ls so he likes to like breeze over this part so we got back together um before we were married actually um lock comes up to me and he says hey my brother told me about this place oh yeah what did your brother tell you what was it what kind of place was it your brother told you about this but you tell the story better than me.

What did you tell me? All right. So the way it went down was, you know, my little brother and his wife. Yeah, that's right. I said it. My little brother and his wife, then girlfriend. But, you know, I think they was working their way on being married or whatever. So they was real young, real adventurous, crazy-ass little couple.

But, you you know i kind of looked up to him in that right so they they party all the time they had their little apartment they was chilling you know they always disappearing come back or whatever and i'm like what's up what's all it was all this right so he come up to me and tell me that they're going to a uh a swinger club you know i've heard the term term swinger before but i'm like yo they that that shit is still around like these people aren't in the 80s by now you know what i'm saying so then he um he tells me about the swinger club um near where we live at you know up a little up north uh from where we are and uh he tells me all these amazing things all these crazy crazy stories, yo, people are having sex and, but it's really cool.

It's really chill. Nobody's really trying to do nothing or whatever, but unless you want them to, and then they can watch you and you can watch them. And it sounds really exciting to me. So I was, you know, I had that information in my head for a couple of years, as a matter of fact. And then, uh, Tristan and I, we started working our way back together, figuring things out. We get a little closer.

We started actually laying couple of years as a matter of fact and then uh Tristan and I we started working our way back together figuring things out we get a little closer we start actually laying this thing down as a as a dating and we moved it moved in together and I felt comfortable enough uh to present the idea so I say to her you know hey my brother told me about this spot, right? Where they do these things. And it's kind of crazy. And then she says. So when we going? Boom. I'm ready to get down on one knee immediately.

So he tells me about these stories and I'm sitting here like, really? And that's here in this area. And at the time, I just moved back up into the area. I had been back up here maybe, what, a year at that point. And I'm like, what, where, and this is here? And he's like, yeah, this is here. And I'm like, great.

Meanwhile, I had a massive erection just because you're talking about yeah my mind started racing i'm like when are we going yes let's go and he is literally looking at me heart beating out of my chest no it may have been beating out of your chest like in your body but your face was frozen absolutely sure you gotta so you gotta have a poker face face. So act like you've been here before. Right. So he, so he calmly says, so we, so you want to go? Yeah, let's go. Let's go check this out. Let's go see what he's talking about. Let's see what this is.

At this point, um, at my brother-in-law now, he basically, they have moved have moved on they've been in the lifestyle for years at this point at that point yeah at that point i think they were in a lifestyle for at least between four to six years at that time yeah so they were they were like years savvy veterans veterans at this point and lock tells me about you know this this place and like okay so let's go and i believe we went the same weekend or that she told me about i think it took us a little while to actually go are we gonna get into the to the first time we went there are we doing that now we don't have to well okay so hold on before we move into that the first time we got there we need to talk about no let's get into that no no let's get into that let's get into that because then we can move on to like who we are as a all right yeah we're just rapping go ahead right so let's talk about that experience so we decided to go um to the club so we go to taboo social life club.

and that's near baltimore area so we decided to go so we go to the club and we go in and we're like locked arms oh my god super nervous i mean walking in the club like arm and arm yes and and we're sitting here like okay you want us to put our information in this computer like what exactly is this going you know you want my name name like so yeah like you want our whole government name and an email address like and where is this email going to become like it was just like a whole thing but it was like it was like a typical newbies thing right like when you're when you're fresh in the lifestyle you kind of get a little bit nervous about the people that might see you or the information that you're giving up who might see it yeah you you like legit nervous yes so we're sitting there like oh my gosh are we really going to do this so we go in you know and of course i think we pre-gamed at home we may have had some drinks or something like that so we go in very likely we you know get our number for the club we have our member number for the club and they're like oh you dropped your liquor off and the thing was was that so Taboos a social club is very great about they what what are called host couples right so the first people we meet they're like oh you guys are new and it wasn't a super busy night the first time when we went so it was great so we we met our first um i i would call this couple the big booty couple, right?

So, I mean, oh gosh, her booty was smashed up. But it was so perfectly shaped. But in a shaped. And it's like so perfectly shaped. It was ridiculous. Yeah. Okay.

So anyway, so they were our host couple and they kind of came in they told us you know the whole ropes of it you dropped your alcohol off they put the little number on it they showed us the uh downstairs level yeah where all the rooms are the playrooms and all the different types of rooms this was before the club really got jumping so they actually um they opened up a couple doors you know you got to see the different themes of the rooms and it was really dope really dope but yeah in in future episodes i'm gonna give you a couple uh stories about those rooms yeah we'll we'll tell you about those in in the future but so our first experience is that they tell us about that and they tell us about you know the rules they tell us about the rules.

They tell us, you know, hey, that, you know, the light means this. The red light outside the door means that the room is occupied. Correct. And if the door was unlocked. Then that means that they are allowing you to come in and to watch. And that was our jam. And that was our jam. So here we go.

So our first is we're like, oh like oh my gosh so we're in this place right and we're like oh so if the doors are unlocked then that means you want you to come in and if the red light is on then you know somebody's in there so we're like taking all of this stuff in and then they're like oh they're telling us about the time so at midnight you know everybody goes downstairs and we're like okay so what happens at midnight and then they're telling us about the time. So at midnight, you know, everybody goes downstairs and we're like, okay, so what happens at midnight?

And then they're telling us about the themes, the theme that there's a theme and then there's this. So we're like taking all this information in and it's sitting there with us like, oh my gosh, like, what is this?

So we go on a night that there was a theme night that night do you remember uh the neon night it was like uh no it was a blackout blackout it was right and what is the blackout mean blackout party is when uh the clock strikes midnight all the you know the club is already lit up um in the bar area but in the party area in the club part it's kind of lit up it's kind of got their little black lights on you know some soft lighting I don't know. I don lighting. But at the stroke of midnight, it goes black. Whatever you got going on, it has to be like neon for someone to see you.

So the club went completely black. And he's missing the part. It also was a blackout night but it was a everything anything anywhere party i didn't realize that our very first time we went i didn't realize that i thought it was just a straight up blackout party but okay you're teaching me something it was everything i know anything and everything was going on but yes it was that's what it was that night that was the also part of the theme that night. So, again, this is our first time going in. So, they tell us about the theme nights and we go in and we're like, okay, cool.

So, the midnight comes and, yeah, and everything starts happening, right? And we're sitting there literally locked arm in arm, like literally, like with our around each other. I think this was no, I know, I know this was the first time in my life I'd ever like seen someone getting hit live in front of me. Sexy shit I ever seen in my life. It was amazing. You know, it was a whole nother world actually seeing people uh, people having sex in front of me. And I think that's what kind of drew us to the whole lifestyle in general.

Like we didn't, we didn't have any grand expectations of sleeping with this person or that person or whatever. We wanted to actually see what sex looked like from other people. Like, you know, it was we were definitely um voyeurs yeah yeah it turned us on to watch people the the windows you know seeing people um in the dark you just see dark silhouettes heads bobbing bodies moving and shaking and um obviously kind obviously having sex.

And it was it was something so exhilarating about it uh even being able to go downstairs and um take a look into the the orgy room it was like a big playroom it has a window on the outside and we uh we would take a look out there and while I'm looking through the window I'm rubbing on Trish's ass or she's feeling on my pants. And we're getting excited, but we're nervous about going in. So we definitely didn't go in our first couple of times. But it was definitely the catalyst for where we are now. Yes. And as far as who we are now, let's talk about that. Let's talk about.

What kind of swingers would you say that we are are we yeah as swingers like what's what are we all about i would say that we're very situational absolutely and we'll get into this again in in more in depth in later episodes to pick this apart. But we're very situational, meaning that we kind of just pick and choose whatever the situation feels like in that moment sometimes.

It's not all the time like that there's this set thing that it has to be this way and that's not who we are can i tell you how it's defined how mr and mrs jones i've heard them uh describe this uh shout out to we gotta thank podcast but they describe uh i love the way they describe how they are and what it's called is a social swinger. You're a social swinger. Like we're not the people that's going to go to the club and just pick up somebody, uh, randomly. That's not our target. That's not our aim. That's not what we do. We get a thrill out of making friends.

We get a thrill out of meeting new people, um, making new friends. And then if something happens, it happens, right? We never really plan how things are going to go out or how things are going to go. But if we leave the club just with a new number or email or Instagram, whatever, a new con, some new contact information of a, of a, an attractive couple, that was a successful night.

Or if we leave with no numbers sometimes we're good with that too and even sometimes we're just good with that because there are times we just going out just to go out to have fun yeah just to do like an adult thing just go out dance and see my wife on the stripper pole so with some pasties on and that just makes my night and it is just fun So it's and there are times it's not even if we met no one new or anything like that yeah we could still say we had a good night we had a good night absolutely no i definitely agree with that i'll definitely second that uh but yeah i would say that that's who we are right you know it's not our bag to you know go and try to bag everybody that um that we see you know whatever to each his own you know i'm not gonna like uh by the by podcast says you know shout out to them i'm not gonna yuck your yum like if that's how you get down and that's what you went to go for it man have a good time you know that's just not how we roll not at all um and again of a lot of how we do things is i treat it as and i'll also go through this in a in a future episode as well is that i treat this as dating as dating like when i was single i treat this exactly the same way so if i wasn't just a random person that just goes out and you know and bag every guy that i see because he's hot this is also treated the exact same way for me yeah we're just dating as a couple and that's the way we've seen it that's what's been successful for us but again to each his own and uh we'll definitely get into uh more details on that and answer any questions that you have on that type of thing so uh how long we've been doing this we said uh six years about six years yeah and i i'm i want to say like you know in the beginning you know uh at first once we got over the whole uh voyeur and exhibitionist stage, and once we started moving into actual play, soft swap and everything, in that stage, we saw swinging and the people that we brought into our bedroom as an enhancement to our sexual journey.

But since then, it's kind of taken on a whole nother life form, right? Like we've actually incorporated swinging and swingers into many avenues of our life that we didn't think that, um, they would be a part of, uh, for instance, um, one of my best friends is a swinger now. Uh, he's helped me to, uh, purchase the engagement ring for my wife.

Um um we've had swingers at our wedding yes at our surprise wedding with our family and our kids exactly right um we've had swingers spend the night over our house to meet our families we had swingers you know we we've done a lot of these things we've let these we've let down the borders that we've thought um we were supposed to have up we kind of brought them down uh just as a natural um just as time has gone past right um what else like um so we talked about a wedding already we've also incorporated them into just our regular family lives like our baby shower yeah birthday parties our baby showers hell you um you actually have a book club with a bunch of swingers and i have a book club with a bunch of swingers that's absolutely correct yeah i mean our book club as well so it it basically has taken on its own life in itself and we've learned how to make both worlds coexist when we are being parents we're being parents when we are hanging out with our vanilla friends we're hanging out with them but we've also have been able to merge those two worlds together absolutely but but very cautiously right like you don't want to just bring you know uh some super vanillas over uh and hang out with your swinger friends where titties just might happen to come out you know what i'm saying or a random butt plug might be passed around like hey look at this look what i got you know and then you freak out and we've learned that at other friends parties where this has happened we're supposed to be just a regular party and it's like hey what about this butt plug right here check out these uh little gifts butt plugs for all the ladies butt plugs here we go and yeah so yeah i mean that's the point right like we went into the whole lifestyle with all these preconceived notions and all these borders and how to protect ourselves and you, you know, we'll never, uh, that was something that we did.

We, we made the mistake of saying never, like we'll never have swingers come over our house. They'll never meet our kids or they'll never know my real name, but all that stuff just came crashing down. The, um, the more comfortable we got with the friendships that we built. Uh, so yeah, that's, that's. And I'm sorry to just add on to that. And also, um, our friends, I mean, some of them, we've never done anything with some of them we have. And then it's the next day we're like, Hey, what up? Right. So what's, what's good. What's going on? You know, it's not a big deal of a thing.

It's just like, yeah. Okay. That happened last night.

Now let let's go play football or we're going to go out to a bar or like i said the book club and it's not a big deal right you never know how you're going to evolve in the lifestyle we had no clue that we were going to get to this point we were very private people we thought that we were just going to meet people at the club and pretty much leave them there we had no idea that we was going that we were going to build lifetime friendships in in this thing in the lifestyle yes i can agree yeah and i mean and and i think that's the beautiful thing about it and if there was anything that i would quote unquote sell about the lifestyle is that it's it's just that it's a way that you make these relationships.

Some of your.

Once you're naked with people, right, like if you're around people and you just so happen to like be in a place where you can feel free enough to just let go of all those inhibitions these people get to see you for who you are literally and figuratively you're actually able to get rid of all those preconceived notions all those pretensions all those things that kind of that you you learn to build up uh to defend yourself from all outsiders you get rid stuff in the lifestyle and you get to, people get to see you as who you are and you get to see people as who you are most of the time for the most part, right?

You get to just be as genuine as you want to be. You get to be your true self.

Like, um, uh, Tristan and I are still catching stuff, uh, for going to our 15 year school anniversary what is it called yeah your 15 year anniversary or whatever it's called uh reunion and we were like partying like we were at a lifestyle event y'all almost pulled her titties out it was crazy he really did yeah it almost forgot where we was at yeah and but people look at us looked at us at that at that time and to this day and saying how wild and free we are and that's just how we are and that's what we've I'll see you next time.

Yeah, but people looked at us at that time and to this day and saying how wild and free we are. And that's just how we are. And that's what we've become in this lifestyle. So much so that it almost transitioned out. It almost spilled out into our real world. So now I'm trying to be a lot more careful about where that is. And not pull out a whole boob. Yeah, I mean, right.

Yeah, don't pull out a boob don't pull out titties that's lesson number one no titties at the 15 year reunion right but i mean we take the lifestyle wherever we go that's not necessarily meaning that we're trying to uh you know uh party with vanillas and pull them to our bedroom or things like that no it just means that we care we take that free spirit and we take that um that love for other people and we take that openness and we try to emulate that wherever we go like we go on uh lifestyle i'm sorry we go on vanilla vacations like we went out to mexico for uh one of tris homegirls wedding uh maybe two years ago, a year ago, almost two years ago.

Yeah, and we partied like rock stars, and people didn't quite get why we were so loose and so free and so friendly and so talkative. By the way, that is like the number one characteristic of swingers. So whenever you're around me, I can tell. I got a radar for swingers if you're like a sixth sense i'm trying to tell you it's like i can say it sense it and the first thing the reason that i can see it is that you're just friendly you're friendly and it's a shame right because you think that vanillas or just people in general should be friendly but nope most likely you're a swinger ifinger.

If you're friendly, most likely you've got some swinger in you, from my perspective anyway. But yeah, so what'd you think? You think that's us right there, babe? Yeah, I think it kind of gets us in a nutshell for now without getting too complicated right now.

But, you know, I'm looking forward to telling more stories about us um we definitely have more to go into our first club experience we haven't even dived into that um we have more stories about our first year in general yeah um our first year we just went ham anything you told us about 100 miles an hour we was there we were at it it didn't matter if it We'll be right back.

in general yeah um our first year we just went ham anything you told us about 100 miles an hour we was there we were at it it didn't matter if it was in the country or not we were there we'll definitely get into that we definitely get into that in a future episode um i'm excited about this podcast um in general yeah because i think it's going to give both of us time to really just talk through our different viewpoints and hear from you guys, other lifestylers, just to see what you think about the questions that we're going to come up with and just kind of get some feedback from there.

Yeah, we're definitely excited, man. This has been a long time coming, you know, just to actually sit down and get this episode done tonight. You have no idea what we had to do to get here. But we're excited. We're really excited to go forward, answer your questions, start interacting with you, open up the suite, invite y'all in and just see what you got.

Let's see what you're made of let's see what the questions you have and um you know see if we can answer them or maybe someone else in the group can answer them but we're gonna we're gonna give you that opportunity and uh we're looking forward to we're looking forward to giving you something a little different so now we're gonna talk about a couple things that's coming up for, right? Some stuff that you might be able to listen to in upcoming episodes. Actually, babe, what we got going on tomorrow? We got a little something happening tomorrow that might turn into some fun.

I won't say the word where we're going because, you know, luck says I say it wrong every time. But we're going out tomorrow. To a speakeasy. Yes.

We're going there tomorrow with a few of our lifestyle friends say it for them you got everybody curious now a speakeasy we're going to a speakeasy it's a speakeasy all right that's enough yeah we're going out with some uh some good lifestyle friends of ours that uh actually been our uh pretty much our go-to for a couple years now um most of the stories you probably hear will probably uh involve them but a beautiful couple uh we're looking forward to hanging out again this is our act two right so this is us getting back into the proverbial sweet swing of things um and uh we're just looking forward to getting back out there seeing what we can uh get into maybe we'll have some kind of sexy episode maybe we won't but we'll see what else we got on the docket babe i'm going to vegas baby yeah you are you leaving me here with our brand new baby i sure am how many days you going out there i'm going vegas from wednesday to sunday yeah that's gonna be a good time this is all girls trip right as far as i know so interesting fact it is an, but again, as we mentioned, we're merging our LS friends with our regular friends, and the thing is that it works.

It does work. So, yes, on this girl trip, there is my LS friends that I've met. Some of them I've never done anything with, and then they're my friends that I've had for years. Yeah. gonna be great yeah have a great time yeah so i'm i'm looking forward to uh hearing your crazy stories i mean you've got theme nights planned and you got a few little sexy activities planned uh and i and i think when you get back um you're gonna have some good stuff to about. What was your assignment? I gave you a homework assignment. I don't remember. Yeah, I know you don't.

It's for you to get a couple numbers, right? I wanted you to talk to some dudes. Yeah, I think he's crazy, and I'm not doing that, but yes. Yeah, we'll see. We'll see. So, yeah, on my side, while you out there shaking the tail feather with the with the crew, I'll be back here holding the fort down. I'll be going to a playground meet and greet. I'm actually looking forward to that. Been some very welcoming hosts giving us the avenue to come on in and allowing me to actually come in as a single male. Shout out to technology because I planned on FaceTiming in.

So, yeah, I mean, I can't believe that I'm actually calling myself a single male. That's something that we've kind of strayed away from. We haven't had any experiences with single males at this point. But to be going to a party as one is a little different. This is going to be my first time actually, you know, going in there by myself, solo, a little nervous, but I know some folks there, so I know they're going to take good care of me. Yeah. Again, shout out to the hosts of Playground. Really dope people inviting us in, welcoming me.

So yeah, it's gonna be a good look probably come out with some stories i think the uh black and kinky lifestyle they'll be there shout out to them can't wait to uh kick it with y'all again uh and i believe that couple next door should be in the building also so yeah i'll be in some uh some royal company when it comes to this podcasting game. And, uh, hopefully they don't mind me picking their brains. Uh, so yeah. Uh, what else we got coming up in this year? We are doing a major, major countdown to desire. Yeah, right. We're going to desire towards the end of this year.

We are right about 200 days out. And yes, yes, I am counting down. But this is going to be our big comeback. This is going to be like the culmination of our comeback tour of our act, too. By then, we should have ourselves ourselves together and we should be back in the swing of things. We'll be having a good time.

I think this is by the time we get there, it's going to be the tail end of a group takeover and i want to say it's the life on the swing set takeover i'm not quite sure but i believe by the bye will be out there uh so maybe we'll be able to uh get a drink with them on their way out the door once we uh getting started but yeah we're ready to just hit the ground running. So, um, Hey, you know, I'd like to just say, thanks for everybody stopping by, uh, hanging out with us in the suite.

Again, we're looking forward to, uh, actually opening up the suite to you after a couple of episodes, we're just going to give you a little bit more about us and then we're going to open it up and we're going to see what you got. We're going to see how we keep this conversation going. I want to give you all some contact information for us again. You can definitely reach us via email. Please send us your comments, any suggestions that you have, any tips you think that we can do a little bit better, any stuff that you'd like to discuss later on in a few future episodes.

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