Tuesday Talks: Why Is There Always Food at Sex Parties?

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And we are back with another rendition of Tuesday Talks. Weissie! I'm going to come up with a name for you. Weissie! Like Danny. Danny. Or something. Yeah, that's hilarious. Your nana. Shut up. Your nana calls you Danny. Doesn't she? Yeah. Yeah. There's actually, I'm not going to say it here because you'll use it, but there is a nickname that I don't like that my family uses. So anyway. All right. So we're back. Now I need to know. Now I need to know. We are back. Oh, don't make me message your mom. With another rendition of Tuesday Talks. Yes. All right. All right. Are you ready for this week's question? It's different. Let's go to the phone lines. Hi, Dan and Lacey. My wife, we're more into the BDSM scene, but we love your podcast, and your advice is always helpful for us. So maybe this is because we're more into BDSM, where blood and other fluids are more common, but at a lot of the parties we attend, either swinger parties or BDSM, there are food spreads, and my wife and I are always kind of weirded out by the proximity of the food to the sex, but I feel like we're Do you eat the food at sex parties? Thanks. Do you eat the food at sex parties? Okay, so if you are listening and you don't know what he's talking about, it actually is semi-common for there to be finger food type things at swinger parties. Specifically, some of the more, I don't know, some of these parties where it's. thing with finger foods by the bar at club tempted uh i can even think i've been to a lot of hotel parties where they order pizza at like midnight um you gotta fuel the people up if they want them to fuck all night they gotta have food in their bellies food is not unusual at swinger parties and events so what he's saying is he has some concerns about where people's hands have been and then them going and eating said food and they want he wants to know our thoughts and he wants to know one do you eat the food and then two what are your thoughts on that decision making um i would say i eat the food sometimes there have been some that i went to that there was like no way i was touching that but it looked like something somebody had made at their house and brought it in like almost like a potluck so i don't particularly want to eat at that but i also don't want to eat at that and take the sex off you know i'm not like a big potluck person just in general um i totally eat the food at trapeze I've ate the food attempted. You've had pizza several times? I've had lots of pizzas. Of course, that's like Domino's or Papa John's. They bring in the whole piles of pizzas. But you still got to reach in there, maybe pull a piece off of another piece. Yeah. So yeah, I do partake. Do you partake in the food? I think I agree with you. I actually probably partake more than you would partake. I think I'm a little less picky with food than you are. But I would say I make a similar judgment call. If there are, where people are clearly, repetitively putting their hands into the said food to get it out, I will probably not participate. If it's food, you know, you think about like tempted or I'm sorry, trapeze, they serve you food like you're at a restaurant and then they clear your plates. So like nobody's touched that food but you and the restaurant staff. They're also like. Even the buffet, they're very particular. They have to put the food on your plate. You don't reach for the spoon. If you do that, they will yell at you. Yeah. So they serve you the food. And the food there is not. I mean, yes, in the diamond club, it is sort of close to playrooms, but there is a definite division between them. But like in the main dining, it's very separate from, you know, it seems like almost two different things. So yeah, you do, we both partake. I'm not weirded out by it. I'm going to be honest. I don't know if like, I've never been to a BDSM party, so I don't know if they have a different, if it's a different situation. I can only base it on what we go to. I'm not, I'm not weirded out by it. people eating the food and then coming and playing with me. If I'm worried about your hands being clean, I'm probably not going to fuck you. That's just the truth. Like I'm going to fuck people that I know if they eat, they're going to wash their hands and they're going to. Well, I think the concern is actually the opposite way that you've had sex and now you're putting your hands back on the food. Well, most of the food that we get from places is going to be like a piece of pizza where you just grab the one or like sometimes I'll have the staff putting it on plates or even like at Tempted. None of the stuff is really. that you put your fingers in. There's tongs. There's things like that. Yeah. So I mean, I'm obviously going to use my judgment. Like if it looks graimy, I'm not going to eat it. But if it's if it seems okay, I am. I've never seen somebody like walk in and just stick their hands like their gross hands. I've never I've heard. Does that happen? I'm sure. You know, I'm also not a super huge germaphobe. And I maybe they these people are. But yeah, the Honestly, like we're swapping bodily fluids, you know? I'm squirting on you, in you, around you, your finger. Like there's a lot going on. Like to me, that seems like a minor detail. That's like kind of having like a kissing rule when you fuck someone. It's sort of like to me, kissing is not a big deal. So like it's not something that I'm overly worried about. I do understand. So you're saying you realize when you go to a swingers party and you're engaging in sex, you know, specifically like group sex and stuff like that, that there is a germ exchange that's already happening. Yeah. So at the odd chance that somebody maybe touches your food that has had some type of bodily fluid on their body, well, you're already engaging with multiple. I kind of know that. It's kind of an assumed risk. Yeah. Yeah. I kind of know that. But obviously if I walk up to the food and it looks like somebody's had their grummy hands in it and it looks gross, I'm probably not going to eat. And honestly, most of the time that I'm eating at a swinger club is going to be like prior to prior to the sex. Yeah. Yeah. That's what I was going to say. So I think a few things. One, most of the swinger parties and things that we go to, the food is before the sex. Right. So the exception to that is like a breakfast or like pizza. And I trust the pizza that I'm describing it by the slice. Right. Right. So that would be the two exceptions would be at trapeze. They bring out breakfast and that's what usually would go eat breakfast after. But again, they are serving you that breakfast. You're not co-touching. Yeah. The only I guess the probably the most questionable thing would be pizza is if you're reaching into a box of pizza that somebody else has reached into and potentially touched other pieces. Pizza usually is post sex. But at that point in time. And honestly, there's usually you want that pizza so bad. And there's usually like 10 or 20 pizzas, depending on the party. Just get a new box. Right. Go find a new fresh one. Yeah. Yeah. I guess I'm more I'm worried about like STDs and like in consent. I guess those are probably the things that are to my forefront. But I don't want to dismiss what they're thinking because I do realize that there are people that are more like germ focused. I don't want to even say germ focused. That's not really, that's just being cost having good manners, you know? Well, I think that goes back to good etiquette, right? So if you are eating food, one, do it before you go fuck, which most places that's what you do. You eat the food, then you go fuck. So there's no real issues with that. Now, if you're getting pizza or you're getting breakfast or something after you fuck, go wash your hands. Go rinse off. Be a human. Be an adult, right? And make sure before you touch food that you are clean to do that. But I do think that if you're somebody that kind of gets weirded out by it, it's totally okay just to go to like- You don't have to partake. Yeah, you just go to Waffle House, which honestly, who the fuck knows where their hands have been? You know, like- It's true. I mean, or you can, you know, hit a drive-thru on the way home, but like so- But again, Taco Bell, where have their hands? Yeah, so I think it's okay. I think it's okay if you don't want to eat the food. I don't think that makes you like a weird person. I think it's okay if you eat it. I think it's all about personal preference. And I think just do whatever makes you feel right. Yeah, but there is nothing better than post-fuck pizza. Yeah. Like that is the best kind of pizza that they make. Pre-fuck pizza is pretty damn good too. No, no. Listen to me. Do not give Lacey pizza before we fuck. Whatever you do, if it's Midnight, it's one o'clock and everybody's hungry. Get the fucking done before you get the food, right? Listen to me. Do not fuck that up. If Lacey gets pizza or probably other people before they fuck, the fucking is not going to happen. She's going to eat that pizza and she's going to go to bed. You're not wrong, but I still love some good pizza. But yeah, I mean, I just, but yeah, I mean, I definitely think that there probably are grimy hands in there and it is probably a little weird, but I also do understand why there is food. There. People are drinking. People are doing a lot of work. They need calories. Right. You got to feed that body. And personally, I love a good food. You got to carve up. I like when hotel takeovers and stuff do the pizza. I obviously would prefer something like... Whoever were you talking to, somebody was just saying that they used to bring the pizza into the playroom at Naughty in New Orleans and they stopped doing that because of this concern or this type of concern. Oh, I didn't know that. Right. But I mean, pizza in the playroom at 2 a.m. the best spot for it, but I do agree that maybe putting it down in the lobby, so once you're done fucking and you're getting ready to go to your room. Listen, if we just got done with an orgy and somebody sends a box of pizza down in the middle of that orgy bed, I'm not washing my hands and I'm eating that shit. Maybe I'm a dirty girl. I don't know. Whatever it is, call me that. Yeah, but I think it's okay if that weirds you out. Yeah. I mean, that's kind of what eats their own, you know? Yeah. Just like if doing oral or doing somebody squirting on you freaks you out or something, somebody coming in your face freaks you out. Just don't do the things that freak you out. Right. I do agree with you. Sucking somebody's dick or licking a vagina from somebody you don't know is probably more dangerous germ-wise than touching a piece of pizza that potentially somebody else had their hands on that they didn't wash their hands. Yeah, I've got bigger things to worry about. I think the risk is probably more on the sex acts than it is on the getting Receiving Food Act. I'll do some naughty shit for some pizza, babe. Yeah. But make sure she does it before, again, before you give her the pizza, make sure she does the naughty shit. Lacey's also known for promising you all kinds of stuff to get something. And then once she gets the thing, not delivering. So if she's saying she'll do naughty things for pizza, have her do the naughty things and then get her the pizza. That's funny. We just went to Tahoe and they made pizza. They were like, nobody, we're I'll cook this pizza until everybody fucks. Right. Yeah. We came back from, like, the strip club or something, and somebody's like, anybody want some pizza? And I'm like, do not put pizza in. No, it wasn't even you. Somebody else said it. Yeah. Fuck first. Yeah. Pizza second. I'm like, I've got a reputation now. Right. Anyway, so I hope that answers you. I don't know if we gave a lot of insight, but that's our opinion, and hopefully it helps. Right. One, I would say food needs to stay at swinger parties, that the carbs are essential. Yeah. Two, If you are engaging in food at said swinger party, be an adult. Wash your hands. Do not, you know, do the right thing, right? And then three, if you're really that concerned, don't partake. And then four, the germs you're getting from the orgy are probably more of a risk to you than the germs you might be getting from shared food items. Yeah, just saying. So, but again, make your own decision. Yeah. You're an adult. You're free. to make your own decisions. If you think the food, the germs exposure via food is too high of a risk for you, you don't have to eat the food. He just said it kind of freaks him out. Like it kind of weirds him out. I get it. It kind of weirds me out too. Yeah, I feel the same way about food at strip clubs. Like it's kind of like, uh, but then I've also had some really good food at strip clubs. So it's like, yeah, it's a little sketch, but you know, I've done worse things. You're right. So, okay. All right. 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