Tuesday Talks: The Secret World of Hot Husband Couples

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If you want to party with us and the other faces and names that you know from social media and TikTok, head on over to swingersociety.net. Can't wait to see you there. Hey there, pineapple people, and welcome to the Swing Nation podcast. We are your hosts, Northern Guy and Southern Girl, and we are back with another episode of the Swing Nation podcast. Tuesday Talkin' Tuesday Talkin' Tuesday. Woo! All right, you ready for this week's question? I am. You've already heard it. I did. You're going to hear it again. I did hear it. It's a good question. Yeah. Let's go to the phone line. Hi, Dan and Lacey. I'm Shannon, and I have a Tuesday Talk question for you. You hear a lot about hot wiping and the lifestyle on your podcast, and I know you have a new partnership with wifey.com. So what you don't hear a lot about, it caught husbanding. I didn't even know this was a thing or that it turned me on until my partner and I had our first three sons. I remember him saying that he thought he would look over at me and I'd be crying, but instead I was orgasming. Sometimes I feel like a big, giant weirdo and no one else shares this with me. So do you know anyone else that's into this or have any comments or advice for making it happen more? I believe her name was Shannon. Yeah. Uh, very bubbly personality. I love her. Look forward to seeing her on bliss. Yes. In February, which is sneaking up on us. It really is. It really is. I feel like we were just got off of bliss cruise, but I'm not complaining. I'm excited to get on another one. Not at all. And I'm excited for February bliss cruise, because we have like 30 couples, which is the most we've ever had. And so lots of friends, lots of familiar faces. So I'm excited to go. Right. So it sounds like we're going to see Shannon. Yes. But she wants to talk about or she has some questions about hot husbanding. So Shannon. Hi, my name is Lacey. And I also am very much into that. It's actually very common. It is. You're correct. It's not super talked about. But a lot of people that I know, a lot of females. that I know love watching our husbands with other girls. It's a thing. It's always been a thing for me. If you have heard of something, I mean, I guess I've never referred to it in that term. But if you hear me on the podcast, there's, I mean, even last week on Bliss Cruise, I sat and watched. And a lot of times when I say I'm going to watch, I end up getting so turned on by watching Dan with someone else, I end up jumping in. But I'm very much turned on about watching Dan with other females. It is extremely hot. Even our foreplay, I was just sitting here thinking about it when you were getting things started for the podcast. If you think about like when we're foreplay and we're like dirty talking with each other, it's always about you and another girl. Yeah. It's very rarely about like me getting dicked down. It's always you and a girl. And it's me bringing it up. It's not you. It's me saying, you know, I'm not going to tell y'all what we say, but it's me saying, you know, this girl is going to come over and, you know. I want to see you do all the things. Yeah. Yeah. But it's, I think it's actually very common in the life so just not something that is openly talked about and i don't i don't think there's any like ill intent and i don't i don't think we choose to not talk about it like for any reason i just think it's just not something that's talked about much well i i think a few things so one i would say i think we truly do identify as a full swap a couple yeah first because that is primarily how we play yes um i would say we are we are open to exploring and have explored in some ways, both hot wifing and hot husbanding. Yeah. And probably we would probably be more into the hot husbanding thing. For sure. Than the hot wifing thing. If like we had to pick one. Yeah. I just feel like a lot of times guys struggle with like getting hard or, you know, like wearing condoms because they're not used to wearing condoms or any of that. So like if I had to choose, I know you're a sure thing. Like I know you're going to like dick me down and it's going to be amazing. So let's just bring in a girl so you can do that. I think that's true. If we had to like, okay, you know, we have no kids or nobody, you know, nobody's home this weekend. Let's go be naughty. Maybe let's go see if we can find a single to fuck. I think we would both lean towards trying to find a single female first and not because when you are bisexual, but it wouldn't be primarily for that. It would be primarily for, I think, just the threesome with a girl. You seeing me fuck a girl and fucking you would be hotter than vice versa. But like if I was super into the girl being like me and her playing would not be off the table but i'm just not attracted to all girls like it's not like a thing for all i don't think you would have to be attracted to the girl for the the encounter to happen right um but i could also see us on a random weekend maybe trying to find a dude and doing the same thing so i think we are pretty equally balanced if you had to force us in one direction or the other uh you know or make us choose i think we would maybe choose the hot husbanding over the hot wifing um okay so you also said we talk more about how wifing on this podcast than we do hot husbanding. And that probably is true. I think hot wifing in the lifestyle is just much more talked about and openly. I wouldn't say acceptable because hot wifing is not not acceptable. I don't know what I feel like this is. I feel like this is why lesbian sex is more socially acceptable than gay male sex. I mean, it's just harder to think about. Well, I think I think it's more marketable. It's more it's more profitable. It's more, you know, like you hear about hot wifing more because there's a lot more hot Hot Wifing Porn because more guys will go and pay for that content than the opposite. But I would say when you actually get into the lifestyle and start meeting couples and interacting with people, like we've said, there's probably not as many, but there's more bi males in this lifestyle than you know about. And there's probably more hot husbanding going on in this lifestyle than you really know about. It's just not as viral of a concept, maybe not as socially acceptable as the opposite. Yeah, but I don't think you should worry about it. I think lots of girls are into it. I think it's very, very common. And I say just do you. Enjoy what you're doing, and you'll be surprised how many people are into it. Yeah. Now, she also did mention that we have a partnership with Wifey. That was a partnership just for the Bliss Cruise. I just want to be clear on that. So we partnered with Wifey to kind of help Serenity because it was her first Bliss Cruise. It was her first cruise, period. Her first cruise ever, yeah. So we did work with Wifey for the Bliss Cruise. For that period. They're not a sponsor of our podcast. We don't have a current relationship with them. Maybe one day, but today. Right, if they're listening, they should totally come and sponsor our podcast. And we would love to work with them more. An amazing brand, really a good, I think, if you're interested, again, in hot wifing, I think they're a great brand that really tells that story very well in a very palatable way. So yeah, definitely go check out Wifey. We support them 100%. But I just wanted to clear that up that I didn't want anybody to have a misconception that they somehow are partnered. No, they're not. But they are wonderful. We've really enjoyed meeting them and hanging out with them. And yeah, this is a great, great time on Bliss. Hope to do it again in February. Fingers crossed. Okay, so the second part of her question. So I guess just the first part was kind of like, is this a thing? And is she a weirdo? So the answer to that is, it is a thing. Yeah, it's probably more common than you think. It just isn't talked about as much because I think it isn't as socially acceptable as maybe maybe the other one is. So the second part is, is something you're into. How do you explore that? Uh, gosh. I mean, to be honest with you, I just explore it by not always being down to play, you know, or I can explore it by sitting in, in full swap orgy group play type situations. I tend to, you will just sit back and watch. Yeah. And it may not be the whole time. Like let's say there's an hour long orgy. If I'm sitting back for 20 minutes and watching you, that's still me being a part of it, you know, that's still me embracing that. It may, I may not be doing the full time. Sometimes I sit out and watch the whole time, but I would say most of the time it's a split between the two. I think that's, I mean, if you want to be more intentional with it, that is definitely something that you could put in your bios. Just say that, you know, the wife loves to watch her husband with females, you know, if that, so if that's something that you're into, let us know or something like that. I think that would probably be, the best way. There's also a lot of couples that are okay with the wife playing and not the husband. I mean, I just think, I think with anything that you're into, I think if you just put it out there, eventually you're going to find somebody. Not everybody's going to be into it and that's okay. Not everybody has to be. So you have to be okay if somebody, if you put it out there, you're going to have to be okay if somebody tells you no. But I think if you put it out there, somebody's going to, somebody's going to be into it. when you ask couples or people, you know, what are you looking for or what would you like? Everybody is like, oh, we need more females, more females. You know, I want to add an extra female, blah. But then when you actually get to like us playing like in playrooms with people. It's usually we need males. It seems like we're always short guys. And it's because one, there are a lot of hot husbands that just like to sit back and watch. So, you know, usually if we have a group of 10 couples, there might be two or three husbands that they are hot husband type couples. and they're just going to sit out and watch. So now automatically you have a couple extra females. And then of the guys that want to participate, you know, and this is just normal. Usually there's a couple that can't perform, right? So because there's a couple that can't perform, now you're short another one or two males. So, you know, an orgy of 10 people, you might have, or 10 couples, you might have 10 girls, but only five guys. So, you know, you have sat out and watched several times in orgies. And usually it's not a problem because the male to female ratio is usually still heavily skewed in the female direction yeah it's usually not exact anyway um i think people are all like whenever i say i'll sit back and watch or something like that on tiktok live or something people are like well what does the other husband do while you're sitting watching i'm like i don't know i'm not his babysitter he's probably watching too or he's getting drinks or he's like rubbing her i don't know i mean there's lots of people sitting back watching coming in and out it's not It's not as odd as you think it is. Right. And then I'll say the other thing I think that why having more guys make sense in this situation is it seems like a girl with multiple sex with a girl with multiple guys is a more desirable interaction than sex with a guy with multiple girls. Right. It seems like a lot of the wives that are playing want to be DVP'd or they want to be Eiffel Towered or they want to be sucking a dick and getting fucked by a dick. You know what I mean? Where it's like, sure, would I love a girl to sit on my face? and ride my dick and me finger another one. Like, yeah, that's hot. And I would love to do that. But it seems like because the girls kind of become the center of attention that a girl with multiple guys on her is probably more common than a guy with multiple girls. So again, you end up with, well, there might only be, you know, there might be five girls playing and only three guys. And of those five girls, most of those girls want to take multiple guys at once. So you end up with this, again, a shortage of guys. So I think, I think we need more guys. guys in these spaces like yeah well that's not what her question was about though no but what i'm saying is that wasn't what her question was about but if we're talking about her to have opportunities to watch her husband i'm just giving you her sitting back and watching in these situations i think is okay because i think a lot of girls in those situations would be more than willing to have multiple guys yeah and i think something especially like on a bliss cruise when you're talking to people they're like what are your dynamics and the fun thing is just like throw it out there and be like you know what like our single girls for him to fuck in just normally like maybe outside of like swinger clubs and spaces um we've done well we have not done we haven't done any single females but we've you've sent me off one time to play with another couple you know what about that kind of stuff well i mean so are we talking lifestyle people or not because i'm a little confused well you know i guess i'm trying to flip it so if you if we were a hot wife couple what you'll see a lot of hot wife couples do will do is you know the wife will get on tinder or get on Plenty of Fish or get on whatever. And just look for single guys. And then they'll have a single guy come over. The husband will sit in the corner. If you want me to be honest, we've never had good luck with that. Can you go on Tinder or any of these things and find somebody, maybe, that are not lifestyle? Maybe. In my opinion, I think it's better to just get on a Swingers app and find a unicorn, find a wife. that's willing to play without her husband. That's just my opinion. Do you feel like that's safer? For sure. As far as like not causing issues in your relationship? For sure. Because I do see what you're saying. So, and maybe this is sexist in some way, but I do think in the vanilla world, more guys are willing to have random hookup sex where girls are usually looking for somebody they can trust and want an emotional connection with. Well, I think girls are probably looking for random hookups and think they're okay with it. But the truth is, a lot of times that's hard. And even if you do it, it's hard to just walk away from that. And so I think when you have somebody that is non-lifestyle, you open yourself up to them wanting more after the fact. And so part of me thinks if you find somebody that's in a relationship or is a unicorn who is used to this, I think you might have a little bit better. And I guess to be clear, that is not specific to one or to males or females. We've known plenty of hot wife couples that have told us like, yeah, the guys, the boys keep falling in love with me. You know what I mean? Like that's an issue where guys develop feelings and want more. And so I don't think it's one way or the other. But I do think if you look for people to play in a life, you know, if you're looking in a vanilla world for people to play lifestyle, you are at risk of them. not necessarily understanding the dynamic or maybe not understanding what they're getting themselves into and then maybe getting a test and feelings getting hurt and things like that like i could see if we were out of town at a bar and a single girl come walking up and we like hooked up with her didn't get her number and sent her on her way never talked to her again to me that's totally fine but like i'm not probably not gonna do something like that in our hometown because she's gonna probably like you're probably gonna dick her down really good and she's probably gonna come knock on her door and i'm not i don't you know i don't want to deal with that right yeah so i guess that's the the balance there Maybe you guys are different. If that's something you want to venture into, I think like everything, you just have to be very, very clear about what your rules and your boundaries are to that female before you interact with her and explain the dynamic. It sounds like there are full-swap couples. I don't know that for sure. To me, I think the safer way to do it is just play with couples and just say, hey, we're into this. Is that something you're into? Do you mind if I sit back and watch? Yeah. I think for me, just as somebody who enjoys this dynamic, that seems like the easiest way to do it. But that's just my opinion. I agree. I agree. And we actually, I think because we're content creators, you lend me out to other content creators. We probably play more in that. When I play without you, we do do it in like orgy settings and stuff. And that's usually like Lacey's just taking a break and, you know, needs a little break and she sits, you know, in back and watches. But a lot of the ways you see me doing that is you're like filming me. Fuckin' another girl for content. Super hot, yeah. I can remember the first time that we did that. And they were like, we need to use Dan. And it took me a little bit to realize that they didn't want me in it. They actually just wanted you. And at first, I was like, oh, I don't know how I feel. But it was actually really hot. And now I enjoy it. Now I'm like, he's got to do work. I get to film. Uh-huh. Well, I can think, you know, one of the last videos we actually posted on our OnlyFans, you know, go check it out um is i had sex with tara yeah and you were gonna just sit back and watch and film and then you can actually it's kind of hot because the way you filmed you can see you rubbing your own pussy while while we're in the background yeah at some point i just showed myself because i was like playing with myself so i just showed it and then i was like then at some point i put the camera down and hopped in because i couldn't take it anymore yeah i needed to get in on that action which is a hot like it shows i think that's it's a good scene because it genuinely shows yeah i genuinely You were trying to just sit back and watch us fuck. Yeah. And then you got so turned on that you ended up, one, masturbating until I think you might have squirted a little bit. Yeah. And then jumping in and having sex with us. It was hot. Which is funny because now that I'm thinking about it, that's exactly like what Daddy Mike does with Daphne, right? Every time he tries to film her in a scene with me or another guy, he ends up getting turned on and jumping in because he just can't stand it. He can't keep his hands off of her. Yeah. I love it. Yeah. Whatever your play style, I think it works. I think just communicating to others, how you feel and what you're into is acceptable. And somebody is going to also be into it. Yeah. Definitely know you're not alone. Hot husbanding is a thing in the lifestyle. Lots of couples are into it. We're kind of into everything. We like full swap. We like hot husbanding. We like hot wifing. And I think they all have their place. Yeah. All right. So if you have a Tuesday talk, hopefully that answers your question. And thank you. That was a good one. Thank you. Thank you. If you have a Tuesday talk question, we would love to hear from you. 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