Naughty For a Purpose: Giving Back & Getting Dirty at Club Trapeze

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If you want to party with us and the other faces and names that you know from social media and TikTok, head on over to swingersociety.net. Can't wait to see you there. Hey there, pineapple people, and welcome to the swing nation podcast. We are. We just got back from a trip to trapeze. We did. First trip to trapeze. I think it's been almost, I think last time we went was January. Yeah, it was January of last year. This year. Oh, yeah. Oh, yeah, that's what I meant. But that would be almost a year ago. So it's been a while. Yeah, it's been quite a while. So a little back story. Every year around Christmas time, we do a toy drive. Yeah. And we donate. We've actually donated the toys to various toy groups over the years. But the last two or three years, we've kind of stuck with Toys for Tots. One, they're the easiest to deal with. Yeah. The most professional. And you don't have to worry about where it's going. Yeah. And it seems to get distributed. You know, it's hard for us to vet. some of the smaller groups that, you know. Yeah. I would like to do the angel tree. That's one that I think it's big. But the problem is that we do our, we turn our stuff in too late. We would have to be better prepared. But that's something I'd like to do in the future, maybe. Yeah. That is the nice thing about Toys for Tots. Even if we don't get the toys until like now, whatever they don't get distributed this year, they have it for next year. Yeah. But we did actually, even this year, they were just collecting the boxes and stuff around it. the stores and stuff this week. So I don't think they distribute them later in the week. So yeah. This time when we dropped off, it was actually like one of their, I guess, central drop-off facilities. So like you said, they had the trucks coming in from like all the businesses in the greater southeastern region area where we're in. And they had a whole warehouse. Yeah, they did. So again, to kind of just piggyback on what Dan said, if you follow, if you go back to probably the first Christmas we did this podcast, So we started in August. So that would have been that. I don't know what year that was. You'll have to go back. 2021 would be my guess. Yeah, we went to a Lifestyle Connections Hotel Takeover, which is in North Carolina. And so you can go find that podcast. We actually do a podcast with the owners. And then we do a podcast just talking about our time. But they actually do a toy drive every year. Something that they had started years ago. And I think they donated it to some local. It's a local group. Yeah, it's not Toys for Tots, but they do donate it. And that place counts on their toys like every year. And so just on a whim one night, Dan was like, we should take donations and we could go buy the gifts and bring them. Basically, use our platform. Get people on TikTok and Instagram. We're probably just on TikTok. I don't think we're on Instagram at that time. Get people on TikTok to donate and then we essentially will go do the toy shopping. And I think we even said at that time, we'll match up to a certain dollar mark. Probably not. Back then, it was probably a little less. Yeah. So yeah, that's what we did. And I think we've, I don't know how much we raised. We'd have to go back and look, but we've always done fairly well. I think that one was one we just did like a couple of days before. So it probably wasn't as much as they are now. But so yeah, so we did that. We, we matched up to it. We've always, we always have done a GoFundMe because it's just the easiest way to get, you know, when you start doing Venmos and it just personal information. Yeah. So, and we just, the service fees out of our pocket. Well, from Swinger Society. And then Swinger Society now matches up to $1,000. So it started with Lifestyle Connections. We've kind of continued. I think we've done Tempted. We've done Eros. And now this year we did Trapeze. Yeah. I think we did one. Did we do a Red Room one time? Or that was it? Four? Yeah. Okay. Yeah. So it's been great. So yeah, huge shout out. So this year we raised. Oh, go ahead. Sorry. No, I was going to say huge shout out to LSC for. implanting that idea. And then huge shout out to everybody that donated. And then I also, I've seen, you know, I posted a couple things about our donations on like Facebook and Instagram and stuff. And there were several other people that said, oh, our club or our group is doing a toy drive for the kids this year. And so I think that's great. I think I'd like to see. Yeah. And the reason we do it is to show that swingers are more than like sex parties and getting drunk and dancing and. Secrets did one this year. Yeah. I think they did one last year too. That's awesome. Yeah. So. Yeah, so this year we've raised $2,000 and we cut it off right when it hit $2,000. So honestly, we probably could have gone more. But we actually physically go and buy the toys. So we could only do something. Yeah, we got to cut it off. And then we matched $1,000. So we purchased ourselves $3,000 for the toys. And then Trapeze took donations. You got a discount if you brought a toy. Thank you to Trapeze for doing that. Yeah, which they had a decent amount of toys there. And so we loaded, we brought all the ones back from Trapeze. We load them all up. And then Monday we went and donated them all. So thank you very much, everyone that donated. Yeah. And if I had to guesstimate from like the size of our pile that we knew the price of and the size of the Trapeze pile, I'd say we're probably somewhere around $5,000 in toys that got donated. So that's, you know. It's pretty good. It's going to be a lot of happy kids. Yeah, for sure. Thanks to the Swinner community in this area. So thank you, Trapeze. Thank you, Swinner Society. Thank you, everybody. Follow us and donate it to that. Definitely. And then go check out. We posted some pictures and stuff and some videos if you want to see the big piles of toys and us going shopping and loading it up and all that. So thank you if you donated. It feels nice to do that. It does. And I feel like we do a small part in it and I'm very grateful to the community to kind of allow us to be a part of that. So thank you. I like the toy shopping. It is fun. We actually like he buys the boy stuff. I buy the girl stuff or pick out the girl stuff. He picks out the boy stuff. And we could tell our age because We always do like a lot of Care Bears, Light Bright, Etch-a-Sketches. If it was a toy that was around when we were children, we're probably going to buy it. Yeah. This year they had Furbies. Yeah. I hope this generation still likes those toys. Okay. So you want to get into it? All right. So now that we talked about the toy drive and Christmas, let's talk about our trip to Trapeze. Yeah. So basically we reached out to Trapeze and was like, hey, we do this every year. Can we come and do this? And they were like, We always love a good excuse to go to Trapeze. I wish we could go more. Yeah. I will say, so Liz, who is the former manager of Trapeze, has retired. And so they have a new manager. I'm not going to say her name because I don't know if she wants me to do that. But that's a little sad to see Liz go. If you've been a loyal Trapeze person, you probably know. They even have like, they would have birthday parties. It was like the theme for the night. She's a very staple part of, a huge part of the Trapeze. It was different without her. So it was a little different. But thank you to the new manager. Yes. For allowing us to come in. Who's a she. Yeah. Was very gracious in allowing us to kind of. You know what's funny is I'm going to say this on here which some people are. They. Somebody had told me when we got in there that they had been having trouble with Diamond Club and influencers and stuff like that. And I was. I thought it was so funny because I was like it's not us. I've been here for a year. We have not been here since January. Because we always get blamed for anything like that. And I was like, it's not us this time. We have not been there since January. So let me clear our name. If you've heard any rumors about there being, I don't know, issues there. With pictures or videos or whatever it is. Now, I will say, specifically, I think this is a thing the entire lifestyle community is going to go through. For sure, yeah. Because I do think social media and even influencers or swinger influencers is a new thing. We were kind of at the... an army term, the tip of the spear, I think, on that. But I think every club is going to have to kind of develop policies or best practices. It's like, what is the, like, a good word? It's like you need them to grow, but it's also like you don't want them there, but you don't want the cameras. You have to do it in a respectful way. Exactly. So we'll talk about how we did that in a respectful way here, but I just wanted to throw that out there. Yeah, I think it is mutually beneficial to both the influencers and to the clubs and, you know, hotel takeover groups and, cruise lines and all that to have influencers to show the amazing places and safe places they have and what they can offer the community. And I think, you know, having people put that out on social media is beneficial for them. It's beneficial for the influencers to get the, you know, the, to get the traffic from that. But I think, yeah, I think you need the right policy so that you're not accidentally outing somebody or something like that. Yeah. So don't let anybody tell you that it was us. We didn't do it. Okay. So anyway, we, um, we left home around lunchtime on Friday. My goal was to kind of get there. We went, okay, so we decided to kind of make a content weekend sort of out of this. One, because if you don't know, we release one new video a week on our OnlyFans. We were coming up on like having no content. So we really needed to work. And the fact that we weren't really, yes, we were hosting it, but that didn't require a whole lot of work on our behalf for this weekend. We were like host couple. Like we were just there. Yeah, we were just there. We weren't DJing. We weren't running tickets. No. We didn't have to decorate. No, we got there one hour early. That was it. So because of that, we were like, well, let's just kind of make it like a working weekend. Daphne and Mike, who are BFFs, live about an hour-ish. Outside of Atlanta. Depending on traffic, obviously. Yeah, yeah. You'll hear about that. And so we were like, what if we come stay with you Friday night? And then Saturday night, we'll get a hotel club. We have, like, we always say at the Marriott Lithia Springs, right there, close to Trapeze. That way, we're not driving really, you know, we're not out trying to drive across Atlanta at 2 a.m. So that was kind of the plan. We didn't know what we were going to do. We were going to figure out how to make content, but that was our plan going into the weekend. Right. So I wanted to get to Atlanta a little bit before Daphne and Mike got off work. She was working from home. So we got there probably about, Like 4.30, would you think? Yeah. And about the time we got there, well, she texted us on the way. She was like, I've got to go get my nails done. Yeah, what the fuck is that? I'm like, why didn't you do that before? You had all week to get your nails done. You wait until we show up. So we got there and literally we were there for like 20 minutes and she left, which they just recently moved. They moved like within two weeks of us moving. So back late winter, early spring. Yeah. We both moved at the same time. And so we got to see their new house. They had been doing some improvements. We got to see that. It was nice. It was nice. And then Daphne left shortly after. And we literally sat around and like just talked for two hours. It took her like two and a half hours to get her nails done. So us and Daddy Mike just sat around and just talked about nothing for two hours, two and a half hours. It was nice. That is nice. We don't get, the funny thing is we usually only see our friends mostly at our, events. And because of that, we don't get a lot of time to just hang out. I think we've talked about that before. We don't often we skip meals and dinners and we're just kind of door dashing and we're kind of always on the run when we do these events. So going to their house and being able to just sit there and just talk about whatever, you know, was nice. Not an experience we get in the lifestyle very often. No, I loved it. And then when she got back, we quickly threw her shoes on and we went to their little. Their local Mexican joint. Yes. Which we ended up being there for like. Ever. Forever. Two, three hours. It's a really good Mexican place. But we just. It was fun. We just sat around. We talked. We drank. We had cheese dip. You know. We just. It was really. It was a nice. Nice night. Now I will say. I'm going to give you a little credit here. Me. You've been vlogging. Yes. Consistently. Mm-hmm. On your TikTok. Mm-hmm. And so you vlogged. I guess. I don't know. Is that what you call TikToking? Yeah, let me pull it up for you people that are like, I know y'all are going to say, what is it? So the account is at MissMRS underscore swing underscore nation. So if you want to follow along, I literally take you on. Your everyday. My everyday. So going into the weekend, people were. Right. They were pretty excited to see what we were up to. Right. So you vlogged this whole weekend. Yeah. And you've got some of your video. You're crushing me. On TikTok, which I take a little bit personal. Good. I'm glad. But also, I would love to hand you over that part of it and be able to do more, you know, focus on some of the other stuff. So maybe I'll quit TikTok if you keep blowing up. Listen. What? Don't get ahead of yourself. I've only been doing this for like, I don't know, maybe. Well, that's your problem. In a month from now, you could quit. Yeah. I don't know how long I've been doing it. But anyway, if you follow it, I mean, I've been doing it since before Thanksgiving. Yeah, you do several videos with hundreds, 100,000, 10,000, 20,000. Yeah, but I literally do at least, you know, two to three videos a day depending on what we're doing. Yeah, if you are another influencer, I really feel like, especially TikTok, but social media in general is kind of changing from this trending audio silly dance stuff to more of like content like behind the scenes, the day in the life. Well, I really wanted. Educational stuff. Yeah. Like long form, almost YouTube like content. Yeah. I really, wanted to do it because I think people think that we live a very different life than we do and the truth is we almost have like two different lives like at home we're just a regular couple now like for instance I have my son this week we did have to leave and go podcast that's most normal couples don't do that night and I realize that but otherwise we really but you might have to leave and go do a night shift yes at the fire station yeah but for the most part at home we cook dinner six nights a week at home I get up and get a kid packed lunches you know I mean we we very much live a very normal life and I think people when they see when they see our training videos and stuff on TikTok I think they think I'm like fucking a different guy every night which I think they think we're out partying which to credit to you you have created this world where they feel like that's what I'm doing which is what we want them to do right we want them to see that we want them to come to the parties we want them to subscribe to the OnlyFans I mean Like, so you did your job, right? Too well. Because they think that I'm just out banging different dudes every single night. Or partying it or drinking. And the truth is, is we do that like one weekend a month. In the summer, when things are crazy, we might be gone two weekends a month or two weeks a month. But for the most part, our life is pretty chill when we're home. And so I really wanted to show that aspect of our lives. Now, it is very fun when we leave and go out of town and get to show you behind the scenes. But it's also, I wanted them to see what it's like normal. Yeah. Well, I think, you know, again, I've been kind of trying to educate myself on the new trending ways of doing stuff. And I did see, you know, some people talk about the day in the life stuff only works once you have a following. Like, so building a following on whatever the, you know, you have to provide value to somebody. So whatever the thing that is that they care about. So for us, it's kind of introducing people to the lifestyle and on parties and, you know, what are the top three things you should bring to a club? You know, all those kind of trendy TikTok-y kind of things that we've been doing for the last four years now. But then I think once you get an established platform, people then are more curious what your life is actually like, I think. Yeah. That was a complete tangent. Tangent, yeah. But I said all that to say that you blogged this weekend. Yeah, I blogged, yeah. And it did very well. Yeah, so you can literally see us at the Mexican restaurant. So yeah, we, it was fun. We had a great time. We went home. And this is where we were like, Like, okay, we've got to make some content. So we're going to go off another side tangent, but you just got pellets. Yes. You were, before we even left the damn Mexican restaurant, you were like, we're fucking tonight, right? Yes. And I'm thinking, you know, there's been several times where we've hung out with Daphne and Mike to go to a club or whatever. And that Friday night, I'm like, we fucking? And you're like, no, we're fucking tomorrow. Okay. So yeah, we have to go on another tangent. So y'all have listened to me talk about my journey with my testosterone and like my hormones and not feeling like myself. I finally just I think after the cruise maybe I was like fuck it I'm just gonna do it because so many people have said just do it. I know Dr. Shore is pretty against it and obviously I take what she says very seriously but even like my hairdresser who is a vanilla was like it changed my life getting pellets. And I was using, you know, I'm using the same doctor that she's using. So I think after the cruise, I was just like, you know what, I'm just ready to feel good. I'm ready to feel good. I want to, I want to be excited about fucking again. You know, I feel like I've lost a little bit of the lifestyle in the last year. I think it's more than my testosterone. I think it's my parents being sick. I think it's medicine changes. I think it is testosterone, but I just. Right. Hormones slash mental health, right? Yeah. I just think that I at least needed to give myself a fighting chance, you know? So let's figure, let's see if this is it. So I made an appointment very shortly after we got home from the cruise. And this was when they could get me in, was that Monday. And I ended up, you went to Atlanta for business meetings. I ended up staying home because I was like, I'm getting these pellets. Cause if I canceled, they couldn't get me into like the end of the month. So my understanding, just so I'm clear, the pellets, and maybe this should be on a doctor's store podcast, but the problem with you were taking this under the and sometimes you'd forget to take it and it didn't it just doesn't get in your system where these pellets is you put them it's in your system and it's like a slow burn yeah they're there all the time right yeah and i'm actually somebody since we've been talking about this there was somebody that said that so i do hrt or trt replacement hormone therapy and uh i do injections and it's every i do it once a week usually i do it on sundays and i am bad at sometimes i'll forget not take it till monday or tuesday and but um somebody told me that there's male pellets yeah there is i told you that Yeah, and that same thing. Yeah, I saw it at the doctor. So I might look into that. So anyway, I got him. So today is Wednesday. I got him a week ago, Monday. So yes, Friday. So Friday night, I was ready to fuck. I was honestly ready to fuck all weekend. You were trying to fuck before. You're like, where is the check? Let's go back to the house. I'm ready. Well, I think we had just been sitting there forever. I was kind of over it. But no, I definitely. and two days in, I'm pretty sold on the pellets. I mean, we'll see what the, I don't, I get my. You probably haven't got even like the full effect. No, I go in a couple weeks after the first year and have my blood work done. So I'll get an updated what my levels are and everything. So I can report back on that. But yeah, so we'll see. We'll see how this goes. Right. So we left the Mexican restaurant. Tangent number two. Ended up back at their, their house and then basically went straight into having sex. So yeah, we were like, what are we going to do? So Dan's fucked Daphne just about every way. You can fuck him. Yeah. So we had kind of chatted while we were driving over. What if I sit in like a chair and masturbate? And we brought up this idea because we actually did this. It was you fucked Southern Swaps, whatever. They keep changing their name. Yeah. What's his name now? He's got a... Mike Longshaft? Something. No, it is Mike Long or Mike something. I think it's Mike Long. And she's... Tiffany Bell. Tiffany Bell, yeah. So that couple. But there's whether... Southern Swap, if you know them from. The couple formerly known as Southern Swap. We did a shoot with them where he fucked you while she sat in the corner. And that was actually a pretty hot video. And I think it sold pretty well. So we're like, well, let's just flip that. Yeah. Because the problem is we have lots of videos of me and Daphne fucking. You're not in most of them. So like when we go to sell them on OnlyFans, if you're not in it, people are kind of like, meh. You know, like they're subscribed to your channel because they want to see you. So this was like kind of a different way to show you. Yeah. Even though I was fucking Daphne. Yeah. And it just so happened in their room, they have this like couch thing. of a cuck couch. Yes. They are into hot wifing, so that kind of makes sense. Yeah. And she happened to have her wand, and so I borrowed it. And so basically, I just made myself cum several times while you and her fucked on the bed. It was very... So again, Chainless Plug, if you want to go see that, you can see all these videos on our OnlyFans. 80% off through Christmas. Oh, wow. 80%, which means you get the whole thing for like $10. And we have over 150 videos at this point. And you get instant access to all 150 of them for $10. That's pretty awesome. It's crazy, right? Yeah. After that, after you and her kind of wrapped up, we just ended up like doing like, wait, is it a full swap? Well, can we highlight one thing while I was fucking her? Do you remember what I did? I made out with her. Oh, yeah. What'd you do? I didn't get jealous because I knew what you were doing. It made you cum though. Oh. So if you've been around for a while, you know that I, for some reason, Dan can fuck the shit out of somebody, like lay her down, like take her to Poundtown, do all the things. But if he like romantically kisses another woman, it does something to me. And it's kind of become a thing where he knows it doesn't and occasionally will like lock eyes in a sexual experience. And he thinks it's funny to like make out with a girl and like staring me down so basically he's making out with her and we're staring at each other and i'm masturbating while he's fucking her and you were coming and i was coming which lacy had you know we talked about we had just a recent podcast about like hot husbanding where lacy has this king oh for sure i love it it's we walk this fine line of obviously if i make her too jealous she's gonna get upset and just kind of ruin the whole thing right but if i make her just enough playing with jealous right it turns her on. Like it makes her horny. It makes her insatiable. So it's, and I know because it's, it's Daphne that it's a much more safe. Yeah. Then if I did it with some random hot girl we just met or something. Yeah. I would be giving you the eyes. Like you would be having a different reaction, but it was a risky move in this situation. But I think it worked out. You fed off of my horniness. It worked out pretty well. Yeah. I forgot about that. Yeah. That was really hot. I wonder if that's, if you can catch that on I bet you can't. Really? I don't know, but I bet you can't. So after that, we kind of all four jumped in. I don't think, I didn't have sex with Daddy Mike, but he went down on me and I sucked his dick. So, but, but essentially it was basically a full swap. You soft swapped, the rest of us full swapped. Yeah. Yeah. Because Daddy Mike and Daphne, they're like a hot wife couple that sometimes swaps. Yeah. And really when he jumps in for a full swap. He mostly wants to fuck her. Or he wants to reclaim her. I just kind of let him do what he wants to do and I'm okay with whatever that is. If he wants to get down and fuck, I'm usually like, let's do it. If he doesn't, that's fine too. I'm just kind of like, I sort of let him lead in that and whatever he feels. He really likes eating pussy and buttholes. And he is very good at it. He eats like it's cake. Like a fat kid. You always see those memes that are like, if you find a man, that genuinely enjoys giving you head or going down on you. Marry that man. Daddy Mike is that man. He is that man. He would never fuck you and just eat your pussy and your ass. That would do it for him. I would be just fine. I always tell Dan, Daddy Mike eats the best pussy. I'm okay with it. Let him have his thing. I'm not bad at it. No, you're not. You don't eat it like it's the last supper. You don't do that. Can we reference that? Is that inappropriate? Yeah, probably. Who knows? But towards the end of the content, which, I mean, that really wasn't content. We were just doing our thing and the camera was up. It's the classic case of these are our friends that we fuck anyway and thoroughly enjoy it. And we just put cameras up. Yeah. To capture. So towards the end, we could tell Mike wanted to come. Well, wait, hold on. Before he came, you came. Did I? Do you remember that? Oh, yes. Yes. And I'm trying so hard. Daphne is like slopping it up. And I, if you. Oh yeah. That's going to come across in the content. I'm trying so hard. So I'm like, I don't know if you can see me on YouTube, but I'm like, got my face like turned away. Yeah. Like trying to just like, not, not acknowledge it. Not because I get really freaked out by cum. And she's over there and she's like. And I like, she was like rubbing. You might have gagged on camera. Oh, I gagged on camera multiple times. I was trying so hard to. I had my eyes closed. I was looking away. We'll have to see how Tara edits that one out. Oh, it was so bad. I was like, this fucking bitch. And so then we, we ended up hanging out for a minute, but we tell Mike needed, like, he was having trouble coming. So we finally left. Yeah. And left him finish. It took me, I mean, I think I jerked off to come. Yeah. Because I took Viagra. Yeah. But yeah, he, he, with us in the room, I think. So we, we went into the living room and they, they fucked for another 20 minutes. Yeah. But then after that, it wasn't super late. And because we hadn't seen them in so long, we ended up sitting up on the couch and chit-chatting for another couple hours. Mike ended up falling asleep on the couch. He was snoring while we were. We just laughed. I know one of your vlog posts, you caught me and Daphne cuddling, which really we did that for the vlog. We weren't doing that the whole time. And you took a little video. Yeah, I did a bunch of them. So yeah, that was pretty much our Friday night after that. We went to bed. Oh, we went to bed and then we had sex. Again. Me and you fucked. And then you came again. I did. Which we forget to talk about a lot of times on the podcast when we talk about sex. We talk about what we did in the flame ring. The swinger stuff, yeah. So I'm trying to do a better job of telling people. So we went back and fucked more. Yeah. Well, it had been probably three hours or more at this point. I was still shocked you came back. And you're not a big multiple comer. And from penetration, I think. No, I stopped fucking you and then you finished jerking off. Remember? No, I don't remember. Yeah. Because I was, we had had sex the night before too. So I was already a little sore. And I had the big plans for the next day. That's true. Big plans. Yeah. All right. Well, I think now is the perfect time to take a little break and hear from the partners and sponsors of the Swing Nation podcast. And then when we get back, we'll talk all about Lacey's big, big plans. Yeah. We'll be right back, guys. 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We appreciate you guys. Lacey, one thing I don't leave home without when going to a swinger event is my ED medication. That is correct. Performance anxiety is 100% a real thing. orgy room with 100 people in there is way different than having sex at home in your bedroom. It is. So I like to have what we call little insurance policy and have some of that ED medication in my pocket. Shameless Care is who I use for that. And they actually just came out with a new product called the Shameless Duo. Yeah. Which is a combination medicine that has Viagra and Cialis in it. So that one, you can be ready whenever. But also it's got that dose that you can take. when you're, you know, as you're getting ready to go to the playroom and you need that to kick in. Yeah. So I love it. I mean, I used it at Hedo for the first time and that combination. You kind of pretty much switched to that, haven't you? That's basically what I use all the time now. Yeah. So if you're looking for ED medication, if you're new to the lifestyle and you're going to an event, you might want to get some and have it just handy in case you need it kind of thing. Yeah. And the really cool thing about Shameless Care is they don't set you up on a reoccurring plan. So you're not going to get all of this ED medication. that you have in your nightstand built up. When it's time that you need more, you'll get an email from them and they'll ask you, hey, are you ready for another round? And you can respond back. Yes, please refill it or no, I'm good right now. Thank you. So it's really cool because you don't end up with all these extra pills and spend a bunch of money that you're not, you know, you don't need to spend. Yeah. And my favorite part is you don't actually have to go into an office and talk to your family doctor or a military doctor. Go get you some lifestyle insurance. All right, guys. Check it out. Lacey, if you're going to be a swinger, you need to be a responsible swinger. I agree. And part of being a responsible swinger is getting tested on a regular basis. Yeah. Now, something I didn't know is not all STI, STD testing is the same. That is correct. Not every family doctor fully understands how you should be getting tested. That is correct. is a full panel. Another doctor may have a completely different version of that. And being somebody in the lifestyle and engaging with multiple partners, what you should be getting tested for is probably, if you're not telling your doctor that, what you should be getting tested for is probably different than what they're thinking in their head. Yeah, because they don't know your lifestyle. Or even if they do know your lifestyle, there's a like, for instance, there is a new one called Imgen. And we just recently met a doctor. at a lifestyle party and said that she had never even heard about it. And so she was awesome that we had educated her on that. So a lot of these doctors don't, they don't know it all. Right. So if you are going to participate in the lifestyle, you probably need to get tested from people that are meant to do this. Yes. So we use, I know my status is the same people behind talent testing who are the, there's a company that tests all the porn stars. So they're used to testing people that, um, with multiple partners. They know all the latest on what STIs are, you know, coming up and spreading and they track all the stats. I mean, they know how to test people for STIs. They're the experts. They are. And if someone that you engage with, you know, if they have used I Know My Status, they can actually give you a QR code and you can scan it and you can see their results right on your phone so you can confirm everything that they're telling you. Yeah, 100 percent. So please, if you're getting tested, get tested the right way. We recommend using I Know My Status. You can go to theswingnation.info, recommended apps and products. Scroll down to the I Know My Status icon and you can get a discount off your first test. But please, if you're being, if you're swinging, if you're engaging with people in the community, please be safe about it. Go get tested. Yeah, because we want you to fuck like a porn star. For sure. All right, guys. Welcome back. Welcome back. Thank you for listening to our sponsors. Lacey loves our sponsors. I do. Because actually, I know my status. I do. You really, really love them. I do. I do. They're a great company. Yes. All right. So go get your STD tests from I Know My Status. Show Lacey that you love them as much as she does. Yes. All right. So when we left you, We had just had some hot sex with some of our good friends. And then even, what, reclamation sex after that? Reclamation. Yeah, reclamation I think is the term. Yeah. Before we went to bed. Yeah. Are you second guessing how you said that? No, I don't think so. I think I said it right. Okay. They'll definitely say something in the comments if I didn't. Yeah, they'll tell you. They'll tell you. All right, and that brings us to Saturday. Yeah. So this is club night. It is. But before club night, And Dirty Daphne had made some plans. Well, actually, Mike had made the plans. So a couple of weeks ago, we had done a Christmas shoot in my hometown, like where I'm from. And we basically we rented out like a photographer studio and we used it for TikToks and Pinterest and stuff. Anyway, Daphne and Mike had came and we were kind of planning this weekend. And Mike was like, so I was like, Like, hey, I really need content we gotta make. He's like, what if I invite over this guy that had came and fucked Daphne several times? He's like, what if I invite him over? I was like, okay. I guess I was feeling froggy that day. So he texts him, and the guy was like, sure. I think he texts him back while we were sitting there eating. So we ate lunch after we took pictures. So Daphne and Mike had scheduled him to come, basically, Saturday at noon. So. Do you know his username? The person that came? It's something horse. It's literally horseman. His only fans is horseman underscore PPV. Which I had never met him. So if you know anything about, like we've talked on this podcast, we usually, when we make videos with couples, we like to meet them, we like to get to know them, all this stuff. That kind of helps with our OnlyFans. Had knew it. You knew him. So it wasn't like nobody knew this guy. You know, I felt. It also happens to be, just happens to be, that he's a younger, attractive. He had a six-pack. Black man. Yeah. With a giant penis. Well, that's where the horseman comes in. Yeah. Probably, I don't know, 10, 11 inch dick. Yeah. Did that play a factor in your decision making process? Oh, for sure. Yeah. I was going to say, so Lacey normally doesn't make content with people she doesn't know. I'm pretty sure. If somebody asked to make content, she'd be like, well, let's hang out at the party this weekend. And if we feel a connection, we'll do something. But for some reason, this young, attractive black man with this giant penis who she had never met before, she was more than willing to get right to it. I don't even remember his real name. No, I do. Never mind. I just remembered. Yeah, I just remembered. Yeah, so anyway, so Daphne and Mike had scheduled him to come at noon. When I woke up, because I I rolled over and she had asked him to come at one. She was like, we set up way too late. We got stuff going on. So anyway, I got up and went ahead and came downstairs and started to hang out because I knew she was up because she had texted me. And Mike was cooking us breakfast. Oh, yeah. He always does. And she helped. She made the eggs, I think. He went and got Dunkin' Donuts the munchkins or whatever those are called. And he made breakfast. Yeah. So he made breakfast. We sat around again and just chit-chatted, not munching nothing until me and her had to get ready. So I brought all my stuff downstairs and got ready in the bathroom with her, which was fun. I always loved doing that. And I think part of this part is, were you nervous? No. You weren't? No, I just wanted to get ready. I was nervous, but I wasn't getting ready with her because I was nervous. I made her go first. No. Well, that's what my thing. I guess my point was one of the things I like about the lifestyle or even making content and stuff like this is seeing you kind of like get giddy and excited and nervous. Yeah, I was nervous, but I made her go first to kind of help me not get nervous. But yeah, so we got ready. He came. He was such a nice gentleman. So nice. Professional, like clean cut. Just real nice. Well-spoken, educated, good guy. Good guy. Honestly, in the expectations I had, he blew them out of the water. We've made content with people we don't know before. And usually we fall into this trap of they're really, really hot and they reach out and we're like, well, fuck. I can think of other couples that were with the abs and perfect bodies. Yeah, we can. You want to make content with us? We will do whatever you want. We fall into that. Not so good. Yeah. Yes. In this case, and I think the fact that, you know, he had made content with Daphne a few times and they knew him very well, you know, obviously they were able to speak for his character and they were 100% correct. Yeah. Super good dude. So. So hats off the horseman. Yeah. Okay. So then it was time to start. And Daphne was like all business. And I loved it because I was nervous. Yeah. She was like, okay, so you're going to fuck me here and at this angle and we're going to put the camera here. Yeah. And okay, you ready? Get in your underwear. Are you good to go? Do you need any water? You got lube? You got condoms? Yeah. And then before I knew it, she's up on the kitchen counter getting fucked. You know what I mean? I was like, oh my God. And we're like hiding in the bedroom. Right. Because we're trying not to be like in the background of any of the cameras. So you did three scenes with Horseman. I did not do three. Well, there was three scenes done with him. Daphne and him did a scene where they fucked on the kitchen counter. Yeah. Very, that was sexy. I think he picked her up. Yeah. He rubbed it in my face, little skinny bitch. And then you did a scene with him in the bedroom. And then you and Daphne and him did like a FMF. Like a threesome. Yeah. It was hot. All of all of it was hot. At one point, he did like pushups with his dick in my mouth. He throat fucked you. Yeah. In the pushup position. Yeah. And I could tell your eyes were like, Lacey's not one to get throat fucked. You're definitely not one to get throat fucked by like a 10 inch dick. No. But you took it like a I did. You were gagging. You were drooling. Your eyes were watering. Yeah. And I can remember, because I'm filming this the whole time, and I can remember thinking she would never put up with that for me. I would not. I even told you that when I got up. That was one thing I was thinking. The second thing I was thinking is like, look at her, little pro here, little pro girl. When I got up, I was like, look at her go. I can tell you no, but you know, like when you, not that I couldn't have told him no. If I felt uncomfortable, I would have, but you know, I was a little bit shyer about it, you know. But what was funny is I had to say, I had my pellets done that Monday. So this was Saturday and I still had my bandages on. I didn't take them off until the following Monday. So like he was having to like kind of work around it. But he couldn't. It was kind of funny because it didn't really hurt. So it was okay. We were just trying to keep. While I was filming and usually like your ass jiggling on somebody on a giant dick would be like the first camera angle I would go for. We had to shoot around it. But I was trying not to get your. I mean it wasn't. It's just a little X bandaid. It wasn't a big deal. But you know. You were. self-conscious about it. So I was trying to. I squirted all over him. It went over his head. I think. He had a shower. He had a shower. It went over my head. It was fun. And then me and Daphne and his was fun too. At some point she was like sitting on his face and I just like reverse cowgirl and just had my way with him for a while. I just was slow and took my time and just I didn't want to get off. And you. You took the whole thing. So what, you know, the 10, 11, 12, I don't know how big it was. I would guess 10 ish, maybe a little over 10. Um, you took that whole thing. Yeah. Um, in your mouth and in your vagina. I need to see the video to see if I really took it in my mouth all the way. Look close. Close. I mean, it might've been the angle, but yeah, I think so. Listen, we like angles. It's fine. Y'all believe I took it all. I don't know when those videos are dropping probably here in the next couple of weeks, but because we're out of content is the season. 80% off, go subscribe now. That video alone is worth the $10. Yeah. We can talk about this a little bit. You get a lot of criticism for not doing a lot of interracial content. And for whatever reason, I don't pretend to understand it, but interracial content is very, very popular. You don't do a lot of it, but you don't do a lot of it because we just don't have relationships with a lot of male content creators. We just don't know a lot of male content creators that... People of color. Yeah. Yeah. And so it's not that you're against it. It's not that you don't want to do it. We just don't have lots of opportunity. To be honest with you, and we talked about this when we left, I really enjoy black guys. They love the shape of my body. Yeah. And they make me feel very sexy and very seen and very, like, they look at me like I'm a snack. And I personally really enjoy that. Yeah. So yeah, it's definitely not, we don't seek it out. We don't, like, message every black guy on the internet and say, hey, come fuck me. But when it happens, it's great. So yeah, I enjoyed myself. I feel like you might be seeking it out more and more. The more experiences you have with that, it seems like the more you like it, the more you might be seeking it out. Is that accurate? And I think this is a good lesson for men. Women really like feeling wanted. And I think they do a very good job of a curvier girl of really appreciating that. Oh, my God, your ass. Oh, I love your curves, those tits. Just like how we talked about Mike eating pussy. That's kind of how I feel my whole body. You wanted your whole body? Yeah, and that feels really good. And I'm sure women could do that for males, too. So yeah, I like feeling like that. If that's what every experience like that is going to be? Yeah, I'll take it. You're into more interracial? For sure. Message us, guys. Is that what you're saying? Yeah. Reach out to us. Yeah. Okay. So then what was funny is after he got done and, you know, he's like rinsing off and getting stuff. Me and Daphne was like, hey, let's go. I was like, hey, let's take some New Year's pictures because we have a party for New Year's, but we're going to be running around like crazy. Let's take a couple. Let's take five minutes and take a couple of New Year's pictures. So that way that's done. So as he's like, you know, showering, getting the stuff, We're putting on our lingerie. And Daphne was like, you can go. You can go now. And the way she said it was almost like she was dismissing him. But really what she genuinely meant is, we're going to keep doing pictures and more work. You don't have to say. You don't have to feel obligated to stick. But as soon as she said it, she was like, oh my god, oh my god. Of course, we gave her shit. We were giving her shit about it. We're done with you. We used your dick. You can leave now. Thanks for fucking us. But he was so nice. He was so nice. experience. And you never know, you know, when you don't have a relationship with somebody, what those type of content shoots are going to be like. And we generally, genuinely, generally try to avoid those because we have had a few bad experiences. But man, if they were all like that, I would do much more of that. For sure. Yeah. Okay. So all of that, we hadn't even got to trapeze yet. So we, so after he left, we take our, as he's leaving, And we're taking our New Year's pictures real quick. And then we literally, it's like 2.30, 3 o'clock. So we were like, okay, let's get to the hotel. So we packed up everything, loaded up, and headed to the hotel. Yes. Now, the problem with heading to the hotel, it was during, it was like 4 o'clock, 5 o'clock traffic. Well, we left at like 3.15. It took us two hours. What would normally be a 45-minute drive, it took us two hours to get to the hotel. There was like two wrecks. And it was also like, And it rerouted us. You had to stop and go pee at one point. I had to pee. Which added like another 20 minutes. It was a nightmare getting from their house to the hotel. Yeah. So by the time we got to the hotel, it was like five o'clock. Yeah. Maybe a little after. We were all a little bit like, not pissed off, but like, we wanted to sit and chill for a minute. So we were kind of like. Yeah. So we had. Frustrated. But you know, it is what it is. We had arranged with the new trapeze. owners to go in before the club opens and to make some TikToks and to film some content. We've had a good relationship with Trapeze for years now. If you go on their website, Lacey has done their tour video for them. We always, when we go there, we try to make TikToks and help promote. They always share the content, but we always do it when the club is not open. Correct. So there's no risk of getting people in the background There's no... Except for the workers. That is hard. Yeah. I struggled, which we'll talk about that in a minute. But we were very careful not to get anybody in the background. Yeah. And it doesn't make any of their... Because some people get times when you see people with cameras and stuff, the members can get uncomfortable. As they should. Then they get complained. So anyway, we went ahead an hour before the club opened and made some content. Yeah. So we had to be there at 7. It's like 5.15. So me and... So we needed to leave. Like you had originally told us we needed to leave at like 6.30. Like, shit, we have like an hour, essentially. By the time we got checked in, got to our room, everything, we had like an hour. So me and Daphne went straight in to getting ready. Now, okay, so the theme was Babes in Toyland. Right. So I'm like, okay, first of all, I thought the theme was The Grinch. I looked at Travis's website. For some reason, I thought I saw The Grinch. So I was like, I'm going to be Cindy Louie. Grinch giveaway on Friday. But even that was like at their ugly Christmas sweater party. Okay. I don't know. I saw Grinch. Yeah. Okay. And I went with, I'm real bad about not reading. If you heard from this, like the, we've messed up themes. We've messed up the cruise. Yeah. We messed up a few things. So I saw the Grinch. And so I was going to be Cindy Lou's. I've seen this really cute costume. I wanted to kind of like use it as inspiration. So I'd ordered this pink dress. Well, then I pulled it back up and saw that, no, it's babes in Toyland. Right. And you've already got the pink dress. I've already got the pink dress. And it's almost too late to really order anything super specific. You maybe could get Amazon in. Yeah. And it's also like trapeze. And it wasn't like if it was secrets or something big, I would have definitely figured something else out. But because this was just an odd trapeze, it wasn't a whole thing. So I was like, let me just figure a way to wear this pink dress. So I'm like trying to come up with it. And I was like, I can be like a doll. Like I guess I ordered these like pink heels and I wore. All right. So for babes in Toyland, you decided to be the toy. To be the toy. Okay. Because that's what, like, talking to Daphne, that's kind of how we took it, is toys. That you dress up like a toy. Yeah. Which is kind of a cool theme. Yeah. So she was going to be Little Bo Peep from Toy Story. Mm-hmm. And I was like, well, I'm thinking about being, like, a doll, like, wearing my hair in pigtails and putting, like, blue bows and wearing, like, little ruffle socks and maybe I'll get, like, a baby doll. Mm-hmm. That worked. You're going to look like a baby doll. Yeah. Or a toy of some. You know, like a toy. Like a toddler type doll. Yeah. Yeah. Okay. You pulled it off. Shut up. I'm going to punch you. Okay. So, two nights before. This was Wednesday. We left on Friday. I tried the dress on and Dan was like, I'm just not a fan of that dress. It wasn't. It was not a bad dress. It just didn't. It screamed. Um. I don't even know what it screamed. It screamed like a beauty pageant, not sex club. Yeah. Which nothing really screamed that I wore sex club. Let's be real. So this is Wednesday night at like midnight. So I panicked, ordered an Amazon dress and shipped it to Daphne and Mike's house. I also went to Target that Thursday and I was like, well, because, you know, I don't know how that dress will fit. Let me see if they have anything here at Target. And they actually had it. Now we have four pink dresses. We have three. Three pink dresses. Three pink dresses. So I was like, let me see if they have one. So basically, when I got there, I had two dress options. Yeah. Because I left the one you didn't like at home. There was no point. So. You're returning that and getting your money back, right? I took the tags off of it. Oh my goodness. I'll wear it for something. Don't worry. I don't believe you. So anyway, so as we're getting dressed, I'm going back and forth and back and forth. And Daphne is And she looks friggin' adorable. One of the best costumes I've ever seen her wear. It was cute. It was very cute. Little Bo Peep, yeah. And she had a corset on, like little ruffle shorts. Well, she had the little sheep hook. What do you call that? Yeah, I don't know. You know, the cane thing, the walking cane hook. She had a little stuffed animal sheep. She had the blue ruffle short thing. Yeah, she was adorable. So it just so happened, I happened to be in pink and blue as well. Right, same colors. Same colors. We didn't plan it. I look like her assistant. or something but then at one point i'm getting dressed and i was like i just look like a child well what you said a minute ago is you wanted to look like a little girl that's what you were thinking a baby girl a little girl like that's what you looked like you looked like a child a toddler which is fine but not at a sex club right you didn't i don't think you thought that out fully i i thought it because a baby girl a baby doll looks like a little girl so you're basically dressing up like a little girl in my mind i was a toy not a human so it made sense to be like a toy you know so so we're standing there and we have to leave in 30 minutes and i look at y'all and i say i feel like i look like a little kid and nobody nobody said nobody said no you don't everybody you look cute nobody said anything they're like uh and i was like i know but here's why i think we reacted to that way it's because we're so used to getting torn apart on the Internet. Yeah. So not nobody was thinking you look cute because you did look cute. You're clearly not a little girl. You're a 40 year old woman. Right. You just were dressed up like a cute girl. Yeah. Nothing inappropriate. Nothing, you know. Yeah. But we have so much shock from putting things on the Internet and then getting to our part about that. I think we all at the same time, we're thinking, oh, fuck. Yeah. Like, oh, shit. Yeah. We're about to get. And to be fair, we've posted pictures of that night because we actually talked about like maybe we just don't post these because we just don't want to deal with this we're like no fuck it like we're we're adults we're doing well i said it in my vlog we're not being inappropriate and so you posted it and i haven't seen anybody say anything nasty to us which actually surprises me even in the vlog i say it and it that video got a decent amount of views and nobody even negative like i've gotten caught fat i got told i look like the mask and listen i get like people that maybe are a little bit offended by when you dress like that you know we've heard the Same thing about schoolgirl outfits. Or Disney. That's sexualizing minors or something like that. That's not the point of it. That's not what you're trying to do. We would never try to do that. You're just trying to look cute. I was just the girl that was trying to wear the pink dress that she bought. To be fair, there are people that are into the whole age play kink. They wear diapers. They wear pacifiers. I don't yuck anybody's young. As long as who you're engaging with is actually a consenting adult, I'm not going to yuck or, you know, even if it's not for me. Yeah. But the point of this is we were terrified that you were going to get torn apart from it. Well, I think y'all were also freaked out thinking I was about to have a breakdown. You seemed like you were on the fence of freaking out. Maybe it was the pellets. I was like, I'm not going to, I'm not. I'm going to be okay. I'm going to be okay. I did change my dress back and forth like two or three times and I ended up deciding on the one I went with strictly because. Well, you were worried about your dress. Yeah. You kept changing your hair. You were worried about the back of your hair. You were worried about your pigtails. Yeah. You were having a little, I think even at one point looked at me and said, I'm not okay. Yeah. But I pulled it together. You did. I ended up, which was smart, wearing the dress that was the most comfortable. Right. Like, I wasn't messing with it, you know? Right. So I knew that once I got there, I'd probably feel okay about everything else. But like, at least I was actually comfortable. Because that's the truth. Once you get somewhere and you start drinking and dancing and having fun with your friends. Yeah. Nobody cares. You forget what the fuck you're wearing. Yeah. It doesn't matter at that point. Yeah. So, anyway, we get in the car and we go. Again, there's another fucking wreck. And we end up being late to trapeze. Yeah, we GPSed it before we left. Because I wanted to leave 30 minutes. And you and Daphne GPSed it. And you're like, Dan, it's three miles. It was seven minutes away. It's seven minutes. And I was like, okay, we'll leave a quarter of instead of 30 minutes of. And then we left a quarter of and we ended up being 15 minutes late. So, we get there. And, you know, we get checked in. and drop our stuff off. And so basically I have 30-ish minutes to get as many TikToks as I can. You know, and I want to highlight the club. I want to, you know, show. And because it was right, and we've done this before and we've gotten there even earlier than seven. But because it was like right as they were opening, there were so many employees around that I felt like I was dodging the employees. I felt like I was a little bit in their way. They needed to walk by. So I started to get pretty anxious because of that. And then we went into the playroom and we were trying to get some stuff. And then you had some people that came to meet us. So you had to go to the front desk. So it was Bella, who is the flirty pineapples on social media. She's on SDC. She's everywhere. She's another pretty big influencer. She actually happened to be driving up from an event in Florida. Florida back home and she has friends in Atlanta that she stopped and spent the night with and so I had we had been you know she was like oh you guys are doing a party in Atlanta just so happens I'm here so I was like oh yeah bring your friends come out we'll meet you and then so we had said hey if you want to show up early we're making TikToks which they were late too because of the wreck so they got there like 10 minutes before the club yeah so you were like leaving to go get them and so so I was very frazzled so right before they unlocked the doors me and Daphne realized that we have not taken any pictures at all. So we set the ring light up and I just put it on like video. And me and her do individual pictures, group pictures. And then I go to turn the phone off, like turn the camera off. The whole fucking thing wasn't recording. So then we had to redo it. And literally the employees are like running back and forth and back and forth. So by the time they unlocked the doors and you got back in there, I was about to like. You're like yelling at me. Like where the fuck were you? I did not say that. But you were like upset. You're like. I was like. I was very. Because I needed help. I needed somebody to take my picture. I was like, I'm trying to get them in. This is the thing, right? This is the behind the scenes. Every time we have an event, that like hour or two before, hour really, 30 minutes before the doors open, it is high stress. And I just wanted the ring light to be away. I didn't want anybody to see it. I wanted it to be like that didn't exist. So anyway, and then not to mention when you're making TikToks and videos and stuff in a swingers club, there's porn and pictures everywhere. So you have to be extremely careful where you shoot and what you show. And it was just, it was a little bit of a shit show. I'm not going to lie, but we managed. We got some cool TikToks. Yeah. Pictures didn't come out so great, but we got some pictures. Luckily it was you dressed up as a little girl and we didn't really want to post them anyway. So we didn't get that many. It's perfectly all right. Yeah. Yeah. So you can see Lacey dressed up as a baby doll on Instagram. Yeah. But I will say, All night, I was obviously self-conscious about it because everybody, I would be like, my outfit's supposed to be a baby doll. Which is funny because nobody dressed like babes in Toyland. What was everybody else wearing? Christmas fucking sweaters and Christmas dresses and green and red. Yeah. Except for me and Daphne. It was basically a Christmas party. Me and Daphne. If you and Daphne were dressed like dolls. We looked like we were going to a gender reveal party. We're in our pink and blue and everybody else is in Christmas. So every time I would meet somebody, You had to explain what you're saying. I'm like, this outfit is supposed to be a baby doll, but I kind of look a small child. And I know that's weird, but I'm sorry. You know, it was like word vomit because I didn't know what to say. And then people were like, didn't that made it weird? Because people were like, huh? What? So yeah, it was a little weird. You did change in the lingerie. Towards the end. Towards the end, yeah. But it was pink lingerie. It didn't really, I ended up taking my hair out of it. You looked like a baby doll in lingerie. Yeah. It didn't get any better. Listen, you don't always win them all. You know, you don't always not. Y'all always tell me you love my theme outfits and stuff. You don't always. Yeah. Doesn't always hit the mark. Doesn't always hit the mark. But it was a great night at Trapeze. Drinks were great. Food. Food. Oh, my gosh. We get there. So we as soon as they open the doors and they open officially, we went and sat down and ordered food. Well, wait. Which is what you need to do. We tried to order food. And Lenny was like, of course, somehow we ended up the last ones to order, which was fine. We sat in the back. We sat in the back. She was like, we're doing a hold on food right now until the kitchen gets caught up. We were here an hour before it opened. I thought it. I didn't say it because I wasn't going to be that girl. She was like, but I will come back as soon as the kitchen opens. Honestly, it was like 20 minutes. She came back. There was eight of us. She took all of our orders. The food came out in like 10 minutes. Do you think they prioritized our food? Do you think they bumped the line for us? I didn't think that, no. I didn't either. I don't know, but when she said the kitchen is backed up, we're pausing food. And then like 10 minutes later, she came over and took our order. And then the food almost instantly came out. I was like. Maybe they had gotten. Well, I think what a lot, what they brought out first was steaks and mashed potatoes. I'm sure they already had the mashed potatoes made up. And the steaks were all. Well, they probably just make them as fast as they could to you. So I didn't think that. She didn't seem to know who I was or even care, to be honest with you. So I don't, I didn't get that vibe. But the food came out. I just wondered. I don't know if they did or not. Mine was wrong, if you want me to be honest. Oh, okay. But I mean, it was okay. I still ate it. I didn't complain. I mean, I ate. I got chicken tacos, but they had everything on it, and I don't. Yeah. I just kind of picked the chicken out, and I got. It was really good. I had the macaroni and cheese, but everybody loved the food. The food was so good. So I got the steak, and I'm telling you, I've had worse steak at steak restaurants than what that. The mashed potatoes were very good. I can't remember their steak before. I'm trying to think of the last couple of times. And it kind of was like, meh, it was okay. It was like buffet kind of steak. This time it was like steakhouse steak. Now I'll say, I had a breakfast later and I thought it was terrible. But we had it up front. We had it up front. So I think it's kind of hit or miss depending on, you know. So if you don't know, in the Diamond Club, you can order food made to order and they bring it out to your table. In the front of the club, in the normal part, they have buffet food. Yeah. So what we're talking about is what we had for dinner was the made to order food. was excellent. Yes. Later in the night, we did have the buffet food and it was kind of meh. Yeah. I also brought the Panac, which we talk about Panac quite often here. They came out with a green flavor. So good. It was margarita. So I brought the bottle and we opened it. We had pre-ordered it back when it first came out, but we just hadn't, because we don't really drink when we're not home. So we got it. Everybody got to try it. It was good. Very good. We danced. We danced. We came back. We ate. We danced. We fucked. Well, we, It came back and forth. So we ate, we hung out, then we danced, and then we came back to the Diamond Club again, and then we went back out and danced some more, and then we came back. It was hot in there. It was very hot. There must have been something going on because we were real close to the air condition thing, and it said 70. There's no way it was 70 in there. Well, I think maybe what it might have been is that we had this, here in the South, we had this cold snap where it was like 30, 40 degrees every day. The day we went to Trapeze, it was 70 degrees that day. So I almost wonder if they didn't adjust, like if it was on heat and they hadn't turned the AC and so it took a lot. It was very warm in there. It was warm in there. Very warm in there. More so than usual. It was warm in there when I was making the TikToks. So, you know, normally it's warm once you get a little. Usually it's cold when the noise is there. Yeah. Because they cut it so far down because when you put so many people in. It's like they try to get ahead of the crowd, yeah. So at some point we, so just a couple of people to mention that were there. The Cranberries were there. was there, Daphne and Mike, Bella and them. Yeah, Bella, which she's the flirty pineapples. Yeah. And then their friends. Yeah, their friends. So there was there was quite a few. We actually sat at the table because like when we came back when the time we sat at a table, we met a couple that was from like the town over from us. We met several couples that were new. So at some point we decided that we were in the pad. The pad people were there. There's quite a few people from pad, which if you don't know what that is. Pineapples After Dark, which is like an Atlanta-based group. Very similar vibes to like Sorner Society. Younger kind of, you know, 30-40 group. Yeah, but primarily based in Atlanta where we travel. They host meet and greets and things in Atlanta, yeah. So at some point, like us, Stephanie Mike, and the Cranberries, we had decided that we wanted to play. You were all about it. To be honest with you. I think I said, Lacey, do you want to play tonight? In my head, I'm thinking we fucked Friday night. We fucked Saturday, too. Don't forget about that. Me and you did, yeah. And then, I can remember saying going into Trapeze, I know what's going to happen. Lacey's going to end up fucking this hot guy with this giant dick. And then, by the time we get to the club, she's going to be fucked out. Yeah, you did. But you were all about it. To be honest with you, I was kind of take it or leave it about the fucking. I just like fucking at Trapeze, you know? Like, I genuinely enjoy like the dime the playrooms in the diamond club so i knew that we were gonna fuck so i'm like let's just do it here basically i don't really like fucking in our rooms like at hotels and like on the cruise and stuff i would much prefer right if you're gonna fuck especially if you're gonna fuck and squirt and do all the dirty stuff i want to go to somebody else's bed i want to like leave when i want to leave you know i want to like so anyway so we the beds were pretty full um we went back there was when we When we went back, there was two couples in there. And they were kind of off to one side. And we said, hey, do you mind if we use this side of the bed? And they're, oh, yeah, sure, no problem. And so basically almost everybody you just mentioned came back with us, minus the flirty pineapple. Bella didn't come back. Her friends didn't come back. They were watching, though. Yeah, they were watching. Well, I guess they did come back. They weren't in the orgy. So we all come back. So it was us, Daphne, a hot Georgia couple. Cranberries. Cranberries. I always want to say cran-apple. I don't know why. That's a good name. Cran Apples? It is the Cran Apples. Is it? I think it's the Cran Apples. It's one or the other. It's one or the other. It's Cran something. And that was it? Yeah. Four of us? Yeah. Yeah. So we all get in the bed and we start fucking. Very quickly. And when I say very quickly, I don't even know if we had our clothes off yet. Honestly, I didn't even know that there was that many people in Diamond Club. I think everybody that was in Diamond Club came back to watch. To watch. The room filled up. So if you know Club Trapeze, if not, go watch Lacey's tour video. But in the back, there's actually two big orgy areas. There's one that's by the couches. And then there's another one you go around the corner to like where the smoking, the new cigar lounge. There's another big playroom back there. This was the one that we used. So there's the playroom, but then there's curtains. And right outside the curtains, there's kind of the seating area. So that whole seating area was standing room only. Basically in front of the curtains was standing room only. That was the largest crowd that we have attracted in quite a while. I can't think. Dallas. Dallas was pretty similar. I think Eye Candy, their Halloween takeover last year, we had a pretty big crowd. I don't know why, but I guess because it's swinger side of stuff, maybe so many people have seen us fuck. It's not. But it felt very much like we were circus animals and like in a zoo. Does that make sense? Yeah. For lack of a better way to explain it. There's a fine line between I like that and it's too much. And I don't know where that line is. It does give me like a little bit of like of a big head to know that like people want to watch us fuck and like I get some joy out of that. I'm not going to lie. I'm not going to sit here and sugarcoat it and pretend like I don't get. I'm a little bit of a voyeur too. So you add that on top of it. It like kind of makes me proud. But there is a very fine line between people casually walking and people gawking and people like following. us into it. It was a lot. I'm going to be honest with you. All the guys were struggling to stay hard. Including me. Yeah. Because it just at some point became too much. It was just. I think. It kind of ruined it. I mean. And I don't. I don't want to like make anybody feel bad that ever stands around and watches. Or if you were in that group and were watching. I'm not. I'm not saying it to make you feel bad. Because that's what that area is for. Yeah. Like to be honest. If you were standing watching. That's what the point of that is. Yeah. But it was just, it was a lot. And so at some point we just kind of wrapped it up because it was just, it was a lot. I don't know how else to describe it. But I mean, again, when you play a trapeze, you kind of know that that, but it was way more than a normal watching. It wasn't like we were doing anything that entertaining. It wasn't even like it was that great of an orgy. I mean, and I don't mean that to like, to discredit anybody that was in the group. It wasn't that great because They were watching We were all overwhelmed Yeah I mean everybody in there was nice and wonderful And so it wasn't them It was just like There was so much pressure from the outside That We couldn't really get very far So I You know Me and you started off together And I fucked you And I was That was all good And you know I was hard for that And then I fucked somebody else And then I went to fuck A third person I'm not going to say which person that was But I couldn't Because I Fucked you stopped, fucked somebody else, then stopped, then went to fuck the third girl. And, you know, because I cleaned up and stuff in between and swapped the condoms and all that, I was struggling. You know, now it's like, we've been fucking for 30 minutes now. And there's a lot going on. And I think at that point, there was even, you know, more people were in there than when we started. Well, now people are like standing and talking because it's kind of wrapping up. And I felt bad because I feel like she took it a little bit personal. Well, I think she thought that me and her husband were really fucking. And he was also struggling too. Because like you, because like after we got back. She had said some kind of comment like this happens to me all the time, which it happens to you all the time. So I think that's, but I get how that, I felt, I genuinely felt bad because I felt like she thought it was, I wasn't into her or it was a, it was a her thing when it really a hundred percent was a situational thing. Well, and I think she thought that me and her husband, which he, I mean, we honestly, he made me squirt. I mean, he was doing all the things. So I had a great time. I don't want to take away. from our time together. But I think she thought that me and him were, like, going to town. But that really wasn't. We were having fun, but with doing other things. And they actually invited us to come back and go to their hotel room. Several people wanted. It was kind of a talk. And honestly, by that point, I was done. Like, I had fucked all those times. Yeah, I think she had said something to me like, oh, we should just go back and fuck. And honestly, that would have been better as far as the performance anxiety part of it. Yeah, it would have. But I just know you. You fuck. You eat. You go. Especially 30 minutes back to the hotel. You're done. Yeah. Because by the time I put my clothes on and get back, I just didn't. Honestly, I ended up fucking you when we got back to her. I didn't even really want to do that. I was like, I'm done. I'm done. I was exhausted. I was just kind of over it. And we ended up getting dressed. Well, Daphne got mad at me because I didn't even get to her in the orgy. I never got to fuck her. I know. She gave me shit the whole way home. There was so much going on. Yeah, they kind of needed a corner to go hide. Yeah, but he ended up was like, he came. Mike, yeah. So that's the funny thing. There's four guys. Three of us were struggling. Mike came. Which Mike is the shyest out of all of the four guys. I mean, I don't know one of them very well, but of the other, the rest of us, Mike is shyer than any of us. And the fact that he was hard as a rock and he was probably turned on from the days, you know, seeing her get dicked out, you know, for two days in a row. I'm sure. Yeah. So Mike won the show. He did. He did. It was pretty funny. I will say, last thing on the orgy, there were some girls, at least one particular girl, who was moaning about how great Swinger Society events were and how she missed them. I think we might have sold some tickets just from the noises and the squirting she was doing while saying how much she enjoyed Swinger Society events. We're not going to say who. We're not going to say who, but there was somebody there that thoroughly was having a good time and was accrediting in that to Swinger Society. So I think I just wanted to note that. Yeah, you did a good job. And I think because there was such an audience there, there's probably a few people that were listening that went and booked our next Secrets event. Yeah, she did us a favor. So I appreciate the vocal support. Yeah, the words of affirmation. I do. And it made me feel good, too, because I was the one fucking her when she was saying it. Oh, that would make me feel so good. If I was fucking some guy and he was, oh, God, I'd feel like. I need a kid to more Sawyer Society events. You wouldn't be able to tell me shit. I miss these orgies. So after that, we got dressed and we went and had breakfast out front. And then it was pretty much time to like go. I got the alcohol, got changed and everything. You and Mike loaded up all the toys in the truck. And me and Daphne were hilarious in the back of the car. If you want to see what it's like coming home from a swinger party. Me and her. Which is funny because we hadn't had a drink in hours at that point. Right. But we're like. I'm going to be honest. You almost seem like you're high. We do. But we. Because you're laughing so much. But neither one of you had any. No. There was no shivers. There was no gummies. That was just. But like I was laughing so hard. Like in the video you can see. Like I'm crying. And we laughed for like an hour once we got back to the hotel. Like at it. We were just cracking up at ourselves. We thought we were the funniest people ever. But no. I mean that was. I think I had. two drinks at Trapeze. So that's me, two drinks. So when people say Lacey is shit-based, that if you want to see what they're talking about, that's basically it. Yeah, I really enjoyed it. I had a great weekend all together. Yeah, I did too. And I really enjoyed Trapeze that night. And I think we even talked about this a little bit. The DJ was good. He was okay. It wasn't like blow you away, DJ. There was no lasers. There was no lights. There was no light show. There was no LED wall. It wasn't completely packed out. People weren't even dancing that much. The dance floor wasn't even packed all night. But it reminded me of like how it used to be kind of. You know what I mean? Yeah. Like an average party. Yeah. With an average crowd. Yeah. But just a fucking blast. Yeah. Like I think you can have fun. You have to make your own party. I just think we're so used to all we want sold out events and big name DJs and packed dance floors and lasers and lights. That would be you. That would be you. And I genuinely do want all that. I don't say any of those things you do but I do think sometimes you can go to a you know a normal and he does kind of like that for us and sometimes bliss crews but even then those they're stepping up their game you know especially at least the weeks that we go and uh but to just go to a normal normal club on a normal night and have genuinely a good time well I think like the thing to take away is everybody just lifestyle differently and for some people that's how they do the lifestyle you know they don't go on They don't go on these crazy things that we are very fortunate to get to go. You don't have to have a sold-out club. Yeah. But you can have just as much fun and make just as cool of connections as something like that. Honestly, maybe even more so. For sure. Because think about it. On a sold-out night on that club, when it's shoulder-to-shoulder, it's harder to talk. It's harder to connect. There's no room in the playroom. Yeah. Well, go back and probably listen to the January from last year. It was insane. It was so busy. I don't even know if we played. If we did, we probably fucked on the couches in the VIP or something. I think it's all good. I think it's all. No, we did fuck because I remember I ended up playing DJing in my underwear and my socks at the end of the night. There's a bug crawling on there. You might be able to see that on YouTube. You can see it on YouTube. It's a bug right there. It's a stink bug. I was trying not to scream. I just pointed at it. Okay. Yeah. And that's it. Anything else for the Swing Nation listeners? That's it. Well, that wraps up Trapeze. Again, huge shout out to everybody that donated to the toy drive. Thank you, Trapeze, for facilitating that for us last minute. You guys are the best. If you're in the Atlanta area, go check out Club Trapeze. They truly are like a staple, I think, in the lifestyle community. A really good example of what a club can be. So go check them out. Yeah. And just a quick note, we will be at Open Instincts Hotel Takeout. for New Year's Eve. Electric Pleasures, which is our new hotel takeover group, is sponsoring it. What are we doing? We are sponsoring. So we are doing the production. Okay, the production. I mean, we, I mean, basically me. Yeah, not me. So you're going to have an LED wall. You're going to have laser lights. You're going to have a light show. All the things that Dan was just talking about, not needing, you will have that there. Right, but it enhances your experience. So I'm going to be DJing. So I'm going to be DJing. DJ Sunshine will be DJing. And Reverberate is their normal DJ. He'll be there as well. So it's going to be, if you're looking for something fun to do for New Year's, definitely go check it out. You search Open Instinct Atlanta. You can also find links to it on swingerside.net. You can find a click through link there. So go get signed up for that party. That party sells out every year. So I think last time I saw they said we're going to have like six rooms left or something. So go book the New Year's. New Year's Party. We'll see you in Atlanta for New Year's. Yep. All right. Anything else for the Swing Nation listeners? That's it. All right, guys. I think with that, in a world full of apples. Be the pineapple. Be the pineapple, guys. Bye. Bye. If you've enjoyed our podcast and want to support us, leave a five-star review wherever you're listening. If you want to see more of our content, you can find links to Snapchat, Twitter, Instagram, OnlyFans, and more in the show notes. Come join the conversation with us and other Swinger Society Discord server. If you have questions or feedback, email them to us at theswingnation at gmail.com. Make sure you head on over to theswingnation.net and keep up to date on all things Swing Nation. We thank you so much for joining us, and we'll see you next time. 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