EDM, Orgies & Shaq? Our Breakaway Festival Adventure

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If you want to party with us and the other faces and names that you know from social media and TikTok, head on over to swingersociety.net. Can't wait to see you there. Hey there, Pineapple people, and welcome to the Swing Nation podcast. We are your hosts, Northern Guy. And Southern Girl. And we are back with a full episode of the Swing Nation podcast. Yeah. Full episode. Oh, yeah. On today's episode, we're going to talk a little bit about a recent experience we had. Yes. But not at a swingers club. Yes. Not at a hotel takeover. Not at Secrets. Not at Hedo. Not on the Bliss Cruise. We went to a music festival. We did. With lifestyles. With some lifestyle friends. And we had a little fun. Yes. So we went to Breakaway. Which is like a smaller music festival, right? Would you consider a smaller one? Oh, I don't think it's smaller. I mean, I think it's bigger. It depends. I'm thinking like smaller than like an EDC. Yes. Burning Man or something like that. Yeah. But bigger than like say Electric Pleasures. Or a local. Or a local. Yeah. Like you know bigger than because there's music festivals all over the country. And the music festival you know I think nowadays when you say music festival we or a lot of people think about like EDM music festivals. But there's there's banjo music festivals and you know there's all kinds. So yeah. Anyway so we went to Breakaway which is an EDM music festival. And we actually went to Huntsville, Alabama for that one. This is the first year they've done that in Huntsville. It's not far from us. We were thinking about going to the North Carolina one that they do in Charlotte because we have friends that go to that one. They're always talking about how awesome it was. A lot of our friends went to that one last year. This year the group was thinking of going to this one. It happened to be a kid-free weekend and we could make it work. We were like, let's do it. All right. We went Friday and Saturday night. We left home. We got to the hotel around like 4-ish. Our hotel was like maybe 10 minutes away. Thoughts were we could Uber pretty quickly and get there, stuff like that. And the hotel we stayed at was actually like a really nice hotel. And it had like an outdoor mall attached to it and stuff. So it was really a great location to be at. It was. So we got to the hotel around four. Let's talk about who all was there. Sure. So it was us, Daphne and Mike, Tara. We talked about Tara. She owns Entice, which is who runs our... She used to work for us for the podcast, but now she broke off and started her own OnlyFans management company called Entice. Yes. Our Jersey couple, y'all know them. They've been around for years. They have a couple that... tends to travel when they come. I feel like they kind of come together. And also, Jersey Couple is no longer from Jersey. I still think that's their name, though. They relocated to the Gulf Coast. Yeah. So I don't know how we... I guess they're still Jersey. Yeah. But their friends who are still in Jersey came as well. They've came to a lot of things, yeah. They were there. And then Southern Bella and her husband came on Saturday night. And then the VIP couple. Remember, what did we call them? I think that's what we've been calling them. Okay, well, it's SSL or something like that on Instagram. And she's got like Southern, some kind of name. I don't remember. But VIP couple from Secrets. The wife came because the husband could not get away from work. And we ended up making content and stuff during this trip. So she came in late Friday night. So she was there for all of Saturday's activities. And then Britton Cass, who we've talked about on the podcast for years, they were also there. They're big music people. A lot of these people are very big music people. So we were happy. There was a good, small but mighty group of people. Agreed. Yeah. Agreed. So we got to the hotel around like four-ish, and the actual breakaway started at four. But like music festivals are, so they end early. It's like. At least this one does. This one does. It was over at like 11, which it's Swing Your World. That's like... Early. That's a dinner time, you know? So we were all very excited. But none of us were going to get there at four. We were really just getting to the hotel around that time. And so we pretty much got ready, which Dan and I were already ready. But before we got into like our rave outfits, Tara is actually also a photographer in like real life too. And we've been really wanting to update that picture y'all are seeing when you are listening to us. Dan has like no facial hair. Yeah, if you look at your CarPlay right now and you look at that picture of us, that picture is three years old, four years old at this point? Yeah. At least three years old. We've tried to retake it a couple of times, but none of the pictures have just landed. None of them felt better than what that is. I mean, we've used all the pictures we've taken. That just, for some reason, that picture stuck. And honestly, I saw one of the pictures that Tara took. And I still wasn't even, I mean, it's a good picture. I don't know. I don't know what we're looking for. It just hasn't. Well, we just recently took some other pictures. Yeah. For another project. I almost wonder if we might be able to use one of those. Like change the clothes we have on or something. No, I mean, there's the clothes we have on is fine. Some of the pictures. Yeah. Okay. Um, so, so before we got ready, we, I threw on like a purple romper and you put on like a colored shirt and we stood like against a wall and took like 20 We have a revamp of the podcast coming in December, January maybe? I don't know because now I'm thinking we should wait until after that other thing comes out. We're wanting to redo our whole setup. We're sidetracking now, but where we're sitting. We have big plans and we just haven't actually executed them. Well, we can do all that, but I actually want to change, like you're saying, the cover photo. I was even thinking about maybe changing our logo. But I don't want to do that because we just used our logo. We just did something kind of big. You can't know. It does have to do with the podcast. You won't know about it until like February. So since we used our logo in that thing, I don't necessarily want to change the logo before that thing comes out. True, true. So maybe we just change everything but the logo. Maybe, yeah. Maybe. Okay, anyway, stay tuned. But before that, we took some pictures. We'll see. You'll see those pictures eventually. I don't know what we're using. So what I was thinking is maybe we let that come out. And then after that, we can kind of rebrand. Yeah, maybe so. Not rebrand, but update our brand. Update, yeah. So we did that. And then we got into our theme wear. So the cool thing about like music festivals, a lot of times they don't really have themes. You just kind of pick whatever you want to wear. So I was thoroughly confused because I thought there was a theme because you had told me the theme. Not realizing that that was the theme that you and your friends had made up. Yeah. So as like a group, we knew we'd be taking pictures and stuff together. So we were like, okay, why don't Friday night we wear black and white? And then Saturday night we wear colors. But truthfully, it was really just kind of like whatever you wanted to wear. That was just sort of our loose theme. So when me and you were talking, I was like, Friday night we're wearing black and white and Saturday we're wearing colors. Right. So I thought that was like the breakaway theme. No. Not realizing that that was just something that you girls had made up. No, we had just came up with that. And I think, honestly, they had done that. The friend group did it last year at Breakaway, and it was just easier to keep it. Also seems to be a thing that groups that attend these festivals dress alike. Yeah, we were not the only ones. We saw people were there in Shrek costumes. Yes. They had a whole Shrek family there. There was a cow. There were some cow people. There was lots of groups that dressed in theme. So that seems to be kind of a thing. Yeah, for sure. And those are both pretty simple, like black. white, colorful. You can kind of make of it whatever you want. So Friday night, we wore this black and white chain reflective. It was not my personal favorite. Mine didn't fit my body super well, but it was cute. I got it at iHeartRays. If anybody is wondering, if you saw those pictures, I got that there. I liked my shirt. It was pretty cool. I felt cool. I felt rave-y. I was one of the cool kids. I love that. I did a good job. And then I had done some braids for my hair. I actually did them myself at home and then just put them in my hair the night of. They kind of drove me crazy, though. Did they? I think I asked you about it when you were making them. I'm like, is that going to... Because you were sensitive to like... Being overstimulated. Yeah. They overstimulated me. The whole, to be honest with you, just before we get into Friday Real Deep, I struggled. Friday night. So if you've been like a listener of the podcast, I've been on this whole journey of like coming off Lansapro, going on something else, changing, going on testosterone, being tested for ADHD. It's been like a whole ass journey. And when this happened, this was like the first week of October. And I think I had stepped down on one of my Lansapro doses. I was very much struggling with just like My irritability, like just not being in my head, not overthinking. Things have gotten better now. We're recording this at the 1st of November now. So this has been like a month, like right at a month. Yeah, October was a rough month. Yeah, so I feel a lot better right now than I have. Even though today is my first day on ADHD medicine, I kind of feel a little crazy right at this moment. So anyway, I think that's important to talk about as we go into this, because I really struggled Friday night, but kind of bounced back on Saturday. But overall, during this time period, I was very much struggling with my medication dose. Does that make sense? Yeah, it does. Okay. So we got completely ready, and we headed off for a night of fun. The people that I really wanted to see was the Chainsmokers. They were going to be there on Friday night. You were a little confused because we knew we're not. We do not claim to be like big music people. Well, here's the thing. So I really like music, right? And especially since I've been DJing, I've gotten more into music and I really enjoy it. But we don't claim to be experts. I am not good. But I'm not good with this. Like I like watching movies and I'm really into movies and I watch a shit ton of movies. I'm not good at telling you who the actors are. Like I don't. memorize people and know. Yeah, I mean, so like when I hear a song, I can be like, oh, I really like this song. But me telling you who is playing it or who the DJ is in this case, I'm not very good at that. Yeah, well, I knew the Chainsmokers. They've had a few hits. And I didn't know there was like some DJ ties as far as like one of them were DJ. I think some of one of them sung. So there was some confusion there, but I was really excited to see them. And then also Miley Cyrus, Brandy Cyrus, her sister, DJ, which I thought was, like, really cool. So those were two of the highlights for me for Friday night. So, like, a little bit about the setup. There was two stages. So definitely a smaller stage, a more intimate, like. Yeah, so, you know. Well, there actually was three stages now that I say that. Music festivals that we've done in the past, which really the only other big one that we've done is EDC Orlando. But that took place very much in a field. And some of the other ones I've seen, it seems like that's pretty typical where it takes place in, like, an open, area. This they actually did, it was at an arena. Like an amphitheater. Right. And so there is some space outside of that theater, but not a lot of space. No, they did a very good job of like finding locations. So like one was in like almost like a wooded area. It had some open space and that's where they had the silent disco, which we thought was kind of, I thought it was kind of stupid, like looking over there. But when you go over there, it was actually really cool because there was three DJs and like people's headphones had different the different DJs. It was actually pretty neat. I really liked that. And then there was... And the other thing that was cool about that wooded area is there's like these wood carving things. Yeah, like creatures. And they're like big heads and stuff and like robots, which is funny because you would think like it's almost like perfect for an EDM festival, like the way that's decorated. It was just part of like the venue. I don't think... And it was... It kind of reminded me of like where the wild things were, that book. They're like large, Like, almost like, bigger than a car. Like, wooden sculptures. Wooden sculptures. And so, like, I think Dan posted a picture of me, if you go back. That's one of my favorite pictures. You're actually in that black and white outfit, and you're, like, leaning up against one of the big wooden heads. Yeah. It's just kind of a cool-looking picture. It was super cool. And there was a couple of them. But right next to that, they had a bunch of food trucks and stuff, which was fun. And then we ended up eating there both nights, I think. And then they had, like, it was outdoors, but it had like a cover over it. But it was shorter, like, I'm trying to, like, it was a more intimate type setting. Lower ceilings. Lower ceilings. You're a little bit more compacted in there, closer to the DJ. And then they had the stage, the main stage, which was inside the amphitheater, which was where the big people play, like the superstars, I guess. I actually kind of like the one with the lower ceilings outside a little bit better, personally. It just felt, It felt like you were in almost like a lifestyle club, kind of, not going to pay money to see somebody that's a big, huge star. No, yeah. It was more, like you were saying, more intimate. You could get closer to the stage. It just felt, I don't know, higher energy, I guess. Yeah. And Brandi Cyrus played outside in that area. And I thought, me and Tara both thought it was pretty cool that she opened up with one of Miley Cyrus' songs, which I thought like a no to her sister. which was a nod to her sister, which was really nice. But most of the time we spent was inside watching. Do you remember who opened for the Chainsmokers? I don't remember any of their names. Cascade played. I think it was before the Chainsmokers. I can't remember which day. It's been a month now, so I don't remember which day. But there was a lot of good DJs. Yeah, I didn't know them because I'm not a music buff at all. I don't know anybody really. I just enjoyed the vibe and seeing people. There was a lot of lifestylers there. I was very shocked. Yeah, we actually ran into random people that we knew. Yeah, and people that we didn't even know, but like were from like kind of the same circle. It's kind of like proved to me that like EDM and the lifestyle kind of music, they all go hand in hand, which considering that we're doing electric pleasures was like a reassuring feeling for me. Smokers came on. We were in. So we did the VIP. So it wasn't quite as crowded. But something happened. And I'm not even really sure. Do you remember? But like, I got super anxious. I think you were, I think I got a little jealous. I think you were giving attention elsewhere. And I don't know why, but I got a little jealous. And then I just got overstimulated. And I just felt like, I don't know, I just felt out of sorts. The medicine. And I can remember one point Jersey was trying to dance with me and it was like all I could do to stand there. And it wasn't anything. He was being like so sweet and so kind. I just was not okay. And Daphne and Mike had went up because like where the VIP section was, there was like a roped off area that you could also sit. And they had went and sat down just to like kind of rest a little. So you at some point was like, let's go sit down with them, which was honestly like the best thing you could have done for me. of got me out of my head a little. And I actually genuinely enjoy it. And I really feel like we were able to turn the night around personally. Yeah. No, I agree. Yeah. I could tell you were just, you're anxious. And obviously I knew everything that was going on with your medicine. And you really didn't even do anything to make me feel jealous. I think it was just like an internal, it was my medicine. I danced on one of the other girls for a grand total of like 15 seconds. Which is like ridiculous. You know, like I'm not that girl. Like, it was my medicine playing tricks on me. My mind. I was just not hanging. The best way I can describe myself during this period of time is like, I was not regulating my emotions correctly. And so, and I knew that and I didn't want to like be a brat or cause a scene. So I just kind of like shut down on this. Yeah. And then, so when they went and sat, I'm like, hey, do you, I could tell you were getting anxious or whatever. I'm like, hey, do you want to go up there and just sit down and get like out of the crowd a little bit? And then we did that. And yeah, Daphne and Daddy Mike were up there. Then you relaxed. And I've actually loved sitting up there. That was like... Does that mean we're old when we don't want to be in the crowd dancing? You want to be sitting in the stadium? Well... Well, you didn't sit down, though. No. You could sit up and dance all the time. But it was nice because we were a little bit away from people. We could see a little better because we were at a slight incline. I felt like the seats were better. I don't know. I just... But you do... Even at lifestyle parties, we are usually the couple that goes right to the front of the dance floor. We're right in the middle of the crowd. But even in those settings, it's very typical. Most nights, at some point in time, you'll be like, I need to step out. I need to step away. I need to go breathe. I don't like to dance with people. I feel like I'm not a good dancer. Let's just be real. I'm not a super talented dancer. In the lifestyle, a lot of people grind and bump. I just overthink. If you go one way, I go the other. It just ends up being awkward and funny. I just prefer to do my own thing. A lot of times if I can step away from it, I feel a little bit more comfortable. It's either that or stand against the wall. I'd rather not hold up the wall. I'd rather be a part of the party and have fun. I get awkward when I try to dance with somebody. It's funny because I'm somebody that knows that about you. We've been together long enough. I've figured it out. Even when you come dance with me, I'll dance with you for a minute or two, and then I know you need to step away from me. But it's funny because I'll see other guys come up to you and dance with you. It's not personal, I promise. They'll hold you. They'll grab you to hold you to dance with you. Not holding you against your will, but they're trying to dance on you. They're grinding with my hips. I can tell after a minute or two that you start wanting to get away. I get antsy. to be bopping around. And I bet you've probably, I bet there's over the years, there's probably been dozens of guys that think that you don't like them because you ran away from them. No, actually quite the opposite. I probably am into them and that's why. If she let you grab onto her at all, she's probably into you. If she didn't instantly pull away. But yes, Lacey's dance capacity, especially with a partner, is probably about three minutes and then she needs to breathe. Yeah, it's not personal. It's like an internal thing. You know, like the only time I really don't notice it is if I'm like taking like a Shivers gummy or something like that. A lot of times I will be a lot more carefree. I guess I lose a little bit of those inhibitions. Yeah. And several friends are like, Lacey, you're such a good dancer. I'm like, it's the gummy. It's not. It's not me. It's the gummy. I just, I don't know. It's like a, I don't know. A mental block. Yeah. Yeah. I can't get past it. At this point, it is what it is. It's not personal. I promise. It's just me. But I ended up really, really liking the Chainsmokers. They were my favorite of the whole weekend. And like Southern Bella and the VIP couple's wife, they weren't there for Friday night. And I was kind of sad because to me, the Chainsmokers were by far the best. They were my highlight of the weekend as well. But that's the kind of music I like. I like that music that you can like like sing to yeah but then it has like a good drop and a good beat yeah um that's the kind of EDM that I really enjoy yeah I like songs I know but like remix into like cool beats and stuff so um it was really it was really cool I genuinely enjoyed it and I had fun with like all my friends and so Taro cracked me up she was like thought they were hot and somehow decided like she was gonna get to the front of the stage and so like nobody realized if it was like we were all finding each other to walk out and she was like You were like, where's Tara? She had just, like, V-bombed. And we were like, what are you doing? She's like, I went up to the front of the street. She was, like, living her best life. Yeah. And I loved that for her. But really enjoyed Friday night. And after that was over, we pretty much, like, worked our way out of it and then had to wait for an Uber to go back. And it was pretty lovely to get back at, I mean, it probably took us to like 12 to get back by the time we like got out. It took a little bit for the Ubers to get there and stuff. It was quite lovely. We didn't have sex. Right. I don't know why. Did me and you have sex? I don't think so. Maybe. I feel like if me and you were having sex, Tara would have because we shared a room with Tara, but we had a conjoined room with Mike and Daphne. And I can't remember why. I felt pretty nauseous all night. I even didn't really even have dinner because I felt so nauseous. So I don't, I don't know. It's the classic all day. We're all like, oh, we're going to fuck and we're going to have an orgy. We're going to get back early. And it's going to be great. So orgy at 11 o'clock. Yeah. And then like, to be fair, you know, we were there for whatever, six, seven, eight hours. You're dancing the whole time. And you're like headbanging. People all traveled in from different places that day, you know. So yeah, we got back. I think people just disappeared and went to bed. It was like the classic, you have to change locations, right? From one space to the other. It happens when you go to a swingers club and then you're like, oh, let's all meet back at the hotel. And it was like a long period. So we had to walk out. We had to wait. We were in two separate cars. Then we had to, you know, it took us like an hour. We totally lost whatever like mojo we had. And also, I personally think like me being off probably fucked up some mojo. I'll put a little blame on myself and I'm okay with that. You know, I'm doing much better now. So that's a plus. But yeah, so that was our Friday night. Yeah. We woke. You want to take a break and then come back? Or you want to go straight into Saturday? I think now's the perfect time to take a little break and hear from the partners and sponsors of the Swing Nation podcast. And then when we get back, we'll talk about what happened Saturday. I'll be right back, guys. Lacey, the question we get asked on social media and TikTok, Any other question is how do I find lifestyle people, lifestyle events, lifestyle parties, lifestyle cruises, lifestyle people? I think I already said that. Yeah. In my area. Basically anything lifestyle you need. How do I find it? You need to get on a Swinger website. And SDC is one of our favorites. It's really big here in the Southeast U.S. for sure. Yeah. And it has all the clubs listed. It has all the parties listed. Yeah. is, you can find our podcast on SDC. Yeah, you can. And if you want to try it completely risk-free, we have a free trial link for you. We do, yeah. So how do people go and find that free trial link? If you go to theswingnation.info and scroll to the bottom, you're going to find some of our favorite products and brands, and you're just going to click that link and go straight there. All right. If you guys want to find lifestyle people in your area, go sign up for SDC completely risk-free. Yeah. And see if it works for you. I agree. All right, guys. Go check it out. Lacey, one thing I don't leave home without when going to a swinger event is my ED medication. That is correct. Performance anxiety is 100% a real thing. Having sex in an orgy room with 100 people in there is way different than having sex at home in your bedroom. It is. So I like to have what we call little insurance policy and have some of that ED medication in my pocket. Shameless Care is who I use for that. And they actually just came out with a new product called the Shameless Duo. Yeah. Which is a combination medicine that has Viagra and Cialis in it. So that one, you can be ready whenever. But also it's got that dose that you can take when you're, you know, as you're getting ready to go to the playroom. And you need that to kick in. Yeah. So I love it. I mean, I used it at Hedo for the first time. And that combination. You've kind of pretty much switched to that, haven't you? That's basically what I use all the time now. Yeah. If you're looking for ED medication, if you're new to the lifestyle and you're going to an event, you might want to get some and have it just handy in case you need it. Yeah. And the really cool thing about Shameless Care is they don't set you up on a reoccurring plan. So you're not going to get all of this ED medication that you have in your nightstand built up. When it's time that you need more, you'll get an email from them and they'll ask you, hey, are you ready for another round? And you can respond back. or no, I'm good right now. Thank you. So it's really cool because you don't end up with all these extra pills and spend a bunch of money that you're not, you know, you don't need to spend. Yeah. And my favorite part is you don't actually have to go into an office and talk to your family doctor or a military doctor. You can do it all right online from the privacy of your home. You just go to the website, you fill out some forms, the doctor reviews it, approves you, disapproves you, and you move on from there. So if you would like to get some medication, you can go to the swing nation. dot info click on the little recommended apps and products scroll down to the shameless care icon click on that and that's going to take you over there there's some discount codes there for you so you can get a discount off your first order but uh i highly recommend if you're going to some events or parties go get you some lifestyle insurance all right guys check it out lacy if you're gonna be a swinger yeah you need to be a responsible swinger i agree uh and part of being a is getting tested on a regular basis. Yeah. Now, something I didn't know is not all STI STD testing is the same. That is correct. Not every family doctor fully understands how you should be getting tested. That is correct. What one doctor thinks is a full panel, another doctor may have a completely different version of that. And being somebody in the lifestyle and engaging with multiple partners, what you should be getting tested for, If you're not telling your doctor that, what you should be getting tested for is probably different than what they're thinking in their head. Yeah, because they don't know your lifestyle. Or even if they do know your lifestyle, there's a like, for instance, there is a new one called MGen. And we just recently met a doctor at a lifestyle party and said that she had never even heard about it. And so she was awesome that we had educated her on that. So a lot of these doctors don't, they don't know it all. Right. So if you are going to participate in the lifestyle, You probably need to get tested from people that are meant to do this. Yes. So we use I Know My Status. It's the same people behind Talent Testing. It's a company that tests all the porn stars. 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Thank you for listening to our sponsors. Lacey loves our sponsors. I do. Okay, so when we left you, we had just done night one of Breakaway, Huntsville, Alabama. Boring. We went to bed. Chain smokers. Amazing. Yeah, for sure. But no sex. No sex. Okay. So we woke up and Tara, I mean, not trying to throw her under the bus, but she was hungover. And I think it was because I don't think she drank a whole lot. She just, I think she got a sugar drink and it just didn't sit well. It didn't sit well. So we were like, we have to go eat. And so there was a cheesecake factory within walking distance that was serving brunch. So we all walked to cheesecake factory, which I had never had their brunch. And I thought it was pretty darn good. It was pretty good. Um, Tara was feeling so crappy that she made it through like half a brunch and had to like, she was like, I have to sleep. And we also knew that we wanted to make some like OnlyFans content and stuff like that. And she was like, there's no way I can get through all of that unless I go take somewhat of a nap. So, um, she left and then we finished up, um, the VIP couple, the wife, she came and met us down there. Um, Southern Bella and her husband, Farde, had not quite made it in yet. They had something going on. So they got there mid-lunches time. So after we had Cheesecake Factory, we went back to the room. Tara was still sleeping. I ended up taking a nap in the bed with Daddy Mike. Yeah, I have pictures of that. And then you and Daphne were just like, were you working? And then she was getting ready or something. I don't know what y'all did. We snuck off and had sex. Oh, for sure. Yeah, that's awesome. Yeah. Did you make her come? No. No. Yeah. I don't know. I probably was working. Yeah. I think we were all like Tara was asleep in the room. So we like kind of left her in there and we were all in. Right. We had conjoining rooms. Yeah. Us and Daphne and Daddy Mike. And so we let Tara have our room and we were hanging out in Daddy Mike and Daphne's room. And yeah, you crawled in bed with Daddy Mike. And I guess I was working. I don't know. I was probably posting TikTok. Yeah. You and her were sitting at the table or something. I don't know. So after. Tara woke up, we got ready, and it was time to do a little work. And we get shit for going to lifestyle events and doing work and doing OnlyFans. Well, we weren't at a lifestyle event, so you can't get mad at us, the same people. They'll still get mad at us. But truth be told, Dan and I were like out of content. Yeah. We released one new video a week, and that's, I mean, that's like four or five a month. So, I mean, that's a decent amount. up. We had planned to do, like, my goal was to have two guys fuck me while they were wearing, like, Halloween masks. I thought that would be, like, kind of cool. There ended up being, like, three guys there that had only fans that wanted to participate, and we happened to have quite a few masks. So it was you, Daddy Mike, and Fire Daddy, which is Southern Bella's husband. I went first, I think. Yeah, I think so. Which I've learned, if you listen to this and you're OnlyFans, girl, I've learned that if you have scenes where you're going to be doing it, especially when the guys are going to be fucking multiple girls, just get it over with. Because a lot of times dicks quit working, people get tired. So I think that might have been first or second. I think Daphne went first, actually, now that I say that. So I hopped in. And I think there was like, it was like Daphne, me, Tara, Southern Bella, and VIP couple. I think by the time we got to Southern Bella, like, half of the, like, two guys' dicks weren't working, like, at that point. Well, yeah, because it was, like, two hours of fucking. Which I felt bad, you know, just kind of, but that's happened, like, when we went to Nashville back in the summertime. Yeah. Adventure couple, she was last to do, we had, like, a five-guy gangbang, and she was, she never even got to go. Yeah. Because, like, we just, like, by the time you get through, like, four or five girls, the guys are wore the fuck out. Yeah. Well, in hindsight, that's like that's I don't know you probably it's too much to try to do five gang bangs using the same guys yeah you know I mean like it's just a lot yeah um that's what you know I've never used Trimax before but in that situation it's like man I wish I had yeah for sure um but we did that so we got all the girls in or at least some version of it so because the kind of the guys kind of came in and I think you and Southern Bella's husband pretty much stayed in but Daddy Mike kind of came in and out depending on how he was feeling. Which I was just happy he hopped in. Because he doesn't always. He's a little shy. He can get shy. Not with you so much. But with people he doesn't know. Yeah. With people he doesn't know. Which I can relate to that. So that's okay. And then after that we did like an all girl. I guess orgy. Because it was five girls. Right. I guess that's considered an orgy. So we did a five girl orgy. Which was pretty hot. It's funny the way. It was like. on rotation. I can't remember. Who had the strap on? Who was wearing the strap on? Southern Bella. Southern Bella was wearing a strap on. And then we had a magic wand because there's five girls. So one girl didn't have a partner. And then the other two girls were just, you know, scissoring or whatever the hell you were doing. Yeah. So we did it like on the station. So everybody was taking a turn with the wand and getting fucked with the strap on. Yeah. So we would do like, well, no, it was like one girl was getting fucked with the strap on. One girl was using the wand. And then the other two girls were going down on each other. Yeah. like do two minutes swap two minutes swap so we wanted to get like 10 10 minutes so we did it that me and it's funny whenever the girls got to the wand like nobody wanted to give it up that was the favorite even daphne was like i can't stop i can't stop i'm gonna come i'm gonna and it wasn't even on video i don't think but she was like i had to finish um but we did that and then we also took pictures we might have done this to four way fucks i was gonna to correct you because we did it but first yeah it's okay i was just thinking more about sex um so we took pictures so we wore like denim shorts black shirts and then we all had halloween masks on so we took pictures and we made tiktoks and we decided to use the hallway yeah which you know we're lifestylers we forget that not every hotel is a hotel takeover so we're like well you weren't inappropriate you mean you were in jean shorts and black tank tops yeah we were i had a bodysuit I mean, I was completely covered, but we were like in the hallway with like the masks on. That's what the funny part was. And like occasionally somebody would like walk into the hallway and we were like, sorry, we're ridiculous. And then one time we did something on the elevator. And so we're like standing waiting for the elevator. We were trying to get you coming off the elevator with the masks on. Yeah. And there was like a guy there. We were like, all you can do is say sorry. Sorry. We are fucking ridiculous. Sorry, we're grown-ass adults in our 40s making TikToks in an elevator in public. In September. With Halloween masks on. Well, I guess technically it was October. I could see if it was like Halloween week. It was not. It was like the third or fourth of October. But we did all of that. Even got a few lingerie pictures. And we were kind of, I was kind of exhausted. I saw that. Taking those three dicks. Yeah. And doing all that. I mean, just like smiling and being pretty, it just takes like. Well, you took three dicks and you had lesbian sex. Yeah. And your strap on. So really you took four dicks and. That strap on is like. Yeah, that's a good dick. Yeah. It's a, it's above average. It's a girthy, girthy thing. But of course it was like time for the Saturday night. Like there was no rest. No, we had to get, get changed and go. This is where I'm envious of like people that, I don't have OnlyFans because there were several couples there that didn't. And they went shopping and walking around. And I'm like, I want to do that. Yeah, but the difference is they work from nine to five, five days a week. I know. You do not do that. I know. So you have to work for three or four hours at an event. I know. I'm still envious though. So we got ready for Saturday night. So Saturday night was colorful. So we did, Another outfit from I Heart Raves. It was animal print, leopard print, colorful, which any excuse to buy something colorful. And it looks like, what's that brand called? Lisa Frank. It had Lisa Frank vibes. Yes. For sure. And somebody had the exact same outfit on. Yeah, they did. They did there, which was fine. I think they might have been swingers. I think they were, yeah. Yeah. And I think I was waving at her like, we have the same outfit on. I think she knew who I was. Because they're kind of from, Not the same circle, but sort of circle within like a bigger circle, you know? So I think, but I was like, we have the same outfit on. So it was kind of neat to see somebody. I didn't mind it at all. No. No. So we got to break away. I don't know what time to say. Six, five, six. Yeah, probably. Yeah. Yeah. We didn't have dinner. We had only had that brunch. So we ended up eating. There was a hibachi. It was good. Yes. It was very good. trucks in and around the amphitheater there. Yeah. And they were all good food. Yeah. Like, they had all kinds of things. And one night, Daphne got kettle corn. Mm-hmm. There was a kettle corn booth set up, and we ate on it, too, and it was very good. The food was delish. And the drinks. They had a lot of seltzer-y type drinks. They also had, like, liquor and wine and stuff, which... Yeah. So, we got there. We had dinner. And it was really just time to jump into it. We started out outside, I believe, under the lower roof type area. We were listening to some guy. Don't know who he was. Apparently, he is Shaq's favorite. Yeah. Because we're standing there. We're just vibing out. And all of a sudden, here comes Shaq. Yeah. So if you don't know, Shaquille O'Neal, so the basketball player, is now at EDM DJ. Do you know his DJ name? DJ Diesel. Oh, yeah. DJ Diesel is what he goes by. And he was the headline. Yeah. Well, one of the headlines because there was somebody after him, too, right? No, I thought it was four. He landed. He ended it. Okay. But anyway, and so he was the headline for tonight. And yeah, we're sitting there just kind of vibing out and dancing. And he comes up almost beside. I mean, he was like two people away from us. Southern Belly got a very good picture of her and him. So we were that close. I mean, like he walked. We were kind of at the edge towards the front. And so where he kind of walked in was, like you said, like maybe one or two people ahead of us. It was crazy. What was crazy to me is seeing, like he has security and they basically have to like, people are like trying to swarm him. Yeah. Like all the time. Yeah. Like the entire time. And like they have to like, the security is like having to tell people like. Yeah. Like stand back. Like if you want, yeah, if you want to take a picture, he'll take a picture with you. But you can't like. Because he's laughable because he's like two times the size. The security comes up to his waist. Yeah, he was like a big guy. But that was really cool. We were like taking pictures and sending it to friends. Well, I just think, like imagine being that guy. Like he can't go anywhere. He can't go to the grocery store. He can't go to the, you know, he loves EDM music. And he's just trying to be there and support his buddy. And like security is literally having to keep people from swarming him. Yeah, but he was also putting his arms around people. Very social. Yeah, he did a super good job. He didn't stay for long. Yeah, a couple minutes. Yeah, but I guess that was one of his favorite DJs, so he was showing support. That DJ ended up coming out during his set as well. That was just him showing his support, which I thought was cool. It was cool, yeah. So that kind of got the energy going. We were like, we're so sure. Yeah, so this day, so here's the thing about Saturday. It was mostly dubstep music. So if you're not, if you're not at EDM. I'm not like a, I don't really understand. Right. So if you're, if you're not an EDM person, I would subscribe dubstep. It's like. Describe. Heavy, the heavy metal of EDM. It's like the head banging, like the very loud, very like in your face. Yeah. Version of EDM music. Yeah. And it's, it's exploding right now. Like it's becoming very, very popular. But I was surprised like this majority of this day, most of the DJs that were DJing were dubstep DJs. To include DJ Diesel. Yeah. Before him was the guy, the people that started with a K. Cascade? I think so. Because I know Brit had wore like a shirt from them. And they were really, I think she was really, they were, I think, pretty. Most of the DJs that day were pretty hardcore dubstep. Yeah. So like, we kind of, this night kind of went by fast. I think he came on at like 945 or something. So like, whoever was before him, I think there was like, before him. We ended up staying out inside and listening to both of them. And I think they were all kind of big people. I just obviously have no concept of a lot of music, so I didn't really know. But I thought it was pretty cool. We ended up, again, going back to our spot. Not because I was panicking or freaking out or anything. We just ended up liking it up there for a lot of Shaq. So let's talk about him a little bit. He kind of cracked me up. He just cussed and screamed. He was like... Yeah. And this might be the problem for me is now that I know how to DJ and understanding it a little bit, I don't think he was DJing. Really? If he was, it was very, very minimal. And so I've looked up Shaq before and been like, oh, is he a real DJ? Or is he like what they call a pushback? We don't want to piss off the Shaq people, babe. I'm not trying to piss him off. I'm just saying from watching him perform, he touched the controller, Very little. He would like scream. He'd be like. And when he did touch it, it was like. Mosh pit. Right. He would like cut the volume to be like. Everybody make a mosh pit. And then he'd turn the volume back on. And then he'd be like. Girls only mosh pit. And then he's like. Take care of the ladies. And then he's like. Fingers up. And everybody like. Fuck you. And like. It was like. And what's funny is when we were leaving. I heard somebody else going. Mosh pit. Because like. That's like literally. All he did. I mean. I thought it was really cool. And he would cuss a lot. He was like, I'm coming out there. Don't make me fucking come out there. Bosh pit. He ended up going out kind of in the middle. They had railings set up where the security and I'm assuming medical and stuff where they could kind of get through the crowd without having to get through the crowd. And he came into that middle thing and came like halfway out, which is cool. He's definitely an entertainer. I've even looked him up in the past. I was entertained. I'm not going to lie. And I even looked him up in the past when I saw he was a DJ and stuff. I'm like, is he really a DJ or is he just an entertainer that is entertaining behind the DJ booth? And I found some video clips. He DJed in college. I've seen videos of him scratching and stuff. So he definitely knows how to DJ. I just don't think for these sets, he was doing a lot of it. Yeah, that's okay. I mean, if I was Shaq, I probably wouldn't do it either. I didn't mind it. I'm curious. He almost had an assistant. Did you see, like, there was a couple times another guy, like, stepped in and, like, messed with the controllers a little bit? I mean, like, if I was on Jack's level, I'd probably want an assistant DJ. Do I get to be, like, an assistant swinger one day? Like, assistant podcaster? Listen, there's been several times in playrooms you're the assistant. You just hand water and lube the ground. Oh, yeah. But, no, I thought it was a lot of fun to see him. He was cool. It was good entertainment. I don't know how, you know. I was a little disappointed he wasn't DJing more than he was. Yeah. I was also a little disappointed that the stadium itself was not full. And they've already released 2026 schedule. And they're not coming back. So I'm kind of glad we went. But it was a lot of fun. I mean, that was pretty much our Saturday night. Well, when I heard they were going to Huntsville, Alabama, I was like, I don't know how big of an EDM scene there is. In that part of the country. So I was a little surprised. I will say I loved it personally because it was like, I don't think they sold out. I assume they didn't sell out. You didn't have to wait for drinks. Right. There was no lines for drinks. There was no lines for the bathroom. Even, you know, we were in the VIP section. There was lines for the bathroom for the Ricker and the girls. Yeah, a few times, yeah. But nothing like EDC. No. But anyway, and you could get, I mean, we could get fairly close to the stage. Yeah, we were very close. Whenever we wanted, yeah. So it was kind of cool. Yeah, no, I mean, I had a great time. It was fun. When we left, it was pretty cool because like all the strip clubs and stuff had like after party. Like free buses and stuff. Yeah, so we were sitting there waiting for our Uber and stuff and then you could see people when we were like, oh, to be young. Yeah, yeah. So we ended up going back to the hotel. I didn't, honestly didn't, because we had fucked so much during the day. not super, like Daphne and Mike wasn't playing. Jersey, they weren't playing. So it was really just like us. And then like Southern Bella and them had said something. And we were, I was like almost asleep or wanting to go to sleep. And I had also fucked him that day. And I was just kind of like a little over it. And you were pissing me off. You were like, you had acted like you had not had sex. And forever, you're like, so we're going to fuck? Who are we going to fuck? What are we going to do today? I'm like, and I think because you were so eager, it like almost made me less eager. Does that make sense? Yeah. And it was like, you were just, you just wanted to fuck. Yeah. So here's my side of it is yes, we had fucked during the day and you had come and squirted and done all the things. I had not come at all. So basically I got like dick teased all day and then everybody all day was talking about how we're going to have this big orgy and all this stuff. Five Girls is Dick Tease. Yeah, you're right. It was a Dick Tease. You're right. I feel so bad for you. And that was it. I did not feel that bad. Like we had fucked a decent amount. Anyway, I was ready to fuck. You were ready to fuck. And Southern Bella and them even came into the room and I was like, we're not. You're like, I'm done. I'm done. So then we're like laying in bed and we're like talking to Tara and she's like, listen, I'm divorced. Well, I was trying to fuck you. Yeah. And you were like, no. Yeah. And then you're like, you can fuck Tara if you want to. And then you're like, and I was like, well, I don't know. if she wants to. And then you're like, Tara, do you want to fuck Dan so he'll leave me alone? Yeah. And she's like, listen, I just got divorced. I don't get fucked very much. If he wants to fuck, I'm totally down. She's like, but can you record it? Because I could use the content. Yeah. So I was like, sure, fine, whatever. So then I had to get out of the bed and then I'm like recording them. Well, then all of a sudden now I'm turned on. So I'm like two minutes. No, it was more. So then I'm like rubbing my clit. And so then I'm like, well, shit, I might as well just show myself rubbing my clit. So then we just, And then somehow you ended up fucking her. And then you came over. She came a couple of times. Then you came over and like finished fucking me. Because you were turned up at that point. Yeah. And then I was turned on. So then we had a whole. It's what always happens. You're at the end of the night. You always get tired and you just want to go to bed. But then as soon as fucking starts, you turn into a wild Lacey wanting to fuck everybody. Why did. I need that. Is there like something to get me from there to there? Yeah. I thought. Have you tried that shame on stuff? I have. I have. Yeah. Did it do anything? Yeah. I mean, maybe, yeah. I don't notice, like... Well, I think here's the mistake you need to make. I think I've taken it the wrong time. You need to take it beforehand. Yeah. So you need to take it 30 minutes before we're going to leave the club. Yeah, before it's time to start. Right. Yeah. You can't take it, because the problem you have is... I take it in between the club and... The desire to go to the playroom. Yeah. Once you're in the playroom, you want to fuck everybody. Yeah. As soon as, like, sex starts, you flip that switch. But it's the, I just got done dancing. Yeah, I'm tired. I kind of want to fuck, but I'm also tired. I also want to roll up in my heat and blanket. So you need just to bridge that gap between the. Yeah, I do. Leaving the playroom or leaving the club and getting to the playroom. Once you get there, you're good. It's that little bit of time. It's the decision making on whether to go or not. Yeah. It's where you struggle. Yeah. So we ended up getting a whole nother thing I conned in, which is always a plus. Yeah. And then I felt bad because we told Jackie. I know I felt bad because we weren't because we really weren't. I mean, I was like cozy in the bed. Like. And what's funny is Tara had on like her cute little, they were like, they're like mom pajamas, but they're like actually very cute. I wonder if that video has come out. Yeah, it's a good video. It's actually like very cute. Like, I wish I slept in stuff like that. I sleep in like a t-shirt, you know, in shorts. Yeah, it was like a silk PJ set. Yeah, and she was like, you could wear it around your kids. Like, it wasn't like that. No, it wasn't like slutty looking. It wasn't like lingerie. She was like in for bed too, so it was hot. being very hot. So anyway, if you have not winter only fans and watch those, you should because they're... Both good videos. Yeah. All right. And so that wrapped up. Then it was the next day we got up and drove home, which was a short drive home, which is what I love. And that wrapped up our trip at Breakaway. Yes. But it was the perfect segue to get to experience a little bit more music festival because we did indeed just launch Electric Pleasures. Yes. Which, if you've heard from this, We've got accused of being, what was it, hashtag posers? Yeah. But we are not claiming to be the end-all, be-all. We don't know. We know that there is a connection between lifestyle and music, and we wanted to throw hotel takeovers, and so we were like, why don't we throw hotel takeovers that lean more into music? And so that's what we're doing. But we're not, we have never claimed to be the expert. No, I agree. Yeah. I mean, so, I mean, we've been throwing lifestyle parties now for. So we know how to throw a party. Almost five years. Right. So we're. And we know how to find good DJs. So put that together. Right. I feel like we're okay. We've been throwing sold out events for almost five years now. Yeah. Across the country. Yeah. And that's important because each, you know, what the vibes in Dallas, I think, are different than the vibes in Nashville. For sure. Different than the vibes at Secrets. Right. So we've kind of, we're pretty, I think we're pretty well in the lifestyle and lifestyle events. You're right. We're not festival people, right? But I'm a DJ. I play EDM music. I like music. And so I think... I like dancing to it. I think combining those worlds, and we have some people. One of our DJs has DJed some major festivals and stuff like that. So we have people that have the experience on the festival side. We have the experience on the lifestyle side. We're going to combine those two things. So what Electric Pleasures is, you haven't heard of it yet. This is this new brand that me and Lacey launched with partners. Yeah. And we've publicized who the partners are. So it's actually Bobby. Yeah. Who is he does. His wife Bobby and his wife. Yeah. And they do open instincts parties in Atlanta. Yeah. Very typical swinger hotel takeover type parties. But Bobby is very good at contracts. He's very good at he knows how to use like SDC like marketing. Yeah. Especially marketing within the lifestyle community. I mean he's probably one of the the best in the industry at doing that. So we've partnered with him to do this and then we've brought it, you know, we have some DJs and stuff that have experience in the festival world. So bringing all that together to make Electric Pleasures. So if you don't know, anyway, so what Electric Pleasures is, is really is that. It's a mix of lifestyle. So think a place where you can take your top off, where there's a playroom, where you can be sexy and wear sexy outfits. So take that and then combine that with this music festival type energy. So think, you know, instead of like most Those lifestyle parties have maybe one, sometimes two DJs. Our first Electric Pleasures event, we have eight DJs, right? And so they're going to do sets just like, you know, at Breakaway where the sets are only like an hour, an hour and a half. And they're going to play everything from girl bop type music, which is, you know, like top 40 dance music, like EDM style dance music to like dubstep. We have a DJ that is a dubstep DJ. He comes from the festival world as well. So really kind of mixing all that together to really, I think it's going to be good. I'm excited about it. What I really like about it is you can be one or the other. You don't have to be like a major EDM person to enjoy this. You can just go with it as it's a lifestyle party. I get to see my lifestyle friends. There's going to be a playroom. I get to be topless. But on the other hand, if you're more of a music person that is okay with a sexually open environment, you can be there for the music or anything in between. It's not for one or the other, which is what I like about it. Yeah. Another good thing is because it's electric pleasures and we're calling it an alternative lifestyle festival, right? And so because it's a festival now and not a swingers party, it really opens us up into how we can do our marketing and stuff as well. And there will 100% people that will be there that will be there just for the music and the festival side of it and not so much for the sex or the swinger side of it. that will be there mostly for the swinger side of it and not so much for the music and the festival side of it but like you said it's kind of a choose your own adventure whatever you're into whatever you're there for i think it's also a good if if you are curious about the lifestyle it's going to be a tone down it's not you know there's not many people well i say there's not but there's not going to be as much in your face sex as there is at like a secrets right secrets people are doing blowjobs on the side of the pool people are fucking you know people are squirting on the motor bunny it's a very which is a fun vibe and we love that so i don't we're not getting rid of that vibe so swinger society is still a thing and we'll still be doing anytime we're doing a swinger focused sex focused party that'll be done through swinger society electric pleasures is a completely different brand and that's it's a music focused brand right so when we have an electric pleasures party it's going to be that festival music focused with a side of sex where swinger society is like swinger with a side of music yeah Yeah. Well, that's it. We're super excited. So we talked a little bit about it. But the first event is in January. Gulf Breeze, January 23rd and 24th, which is right near Pensacola, Panhandle, Florida. Yeah. And it is 50 percent. It's more than that now. So I think we only have maybe 30 rooms left. So if you do want to attend, you know, we only have like 30 ish rooms left. Go to you just go to swing reciting dot net. Yeah. Or the electric pleasures. It's electric dash pleasures dot com. but if you go to any of our social media you'll find links to it it's byob it's gonna you know it's on the water it's not it's on the bay side correct it is on the bay side yeah the ocean yeah the ocean so um and there's like a little beach it's gonna be january private beach there's a private restaurant it's gonna be january so we're not you know we're not gonna i mean you never know we might get lucky and it might Yeah, but even in January, it's like low 60s is the average temperature, which if you're coming from, you know, we have friends coming from Massachusetts and from, you know, Michigan and places like that. Probably low 60s in January sounds exciting to you. It's actually probably perfect dancing outdoor type weather. I'm actually excited because I was scrolling looking for outfits and I found some that had like furry chaps and stuff, which I would never buy that for a normal swinger party because historically swinger parties are like a gazillion degrees because there's so many people packed into like a little ballroom and because this is going to i mean there is a ballroom but there is going to be outside i feel a little bit more i get i feel like i can wear some things that i probably wouldn't typically wear yeah it reminds me we did that party at the grove yeah it was like 60 degrees yeah you know low 70s that weekend but that was it was the best it was the best weather ever yeah yeah it was because we did an outdoor party for that as well but we're super excited we can't wait for it that's actually um we're when And this comes out, I think we'll be the Bliss Cruise. I don't know. It'll either be the week before or the week of the Bliss Cruise. And so between. No, I think this will be this week. So this will be coming out Thursday as we're driving. So we leave Saturday on the Bliss. So after Bliss, this is really our next big party. And this is the end of January. So excited, ready to start looking for outfits. And yeah. Yeah. We talked a lot about the weather, but there is an indoor club as well. Yes. So during the day, we'll be outdoors. the DJs will be playing out there. But then at night, we move into the indoor, which is like a ballroom club area. And it actually is a low ceiling area. So I think it's going to very much have like house party, you know, kind of the speakeasy at naughty kind of vibes. Yeah, I'm excited about that. Yeah. So it's gonna be a good event. So if you're in the Gulf breeze, if you're anywhere in the southeast, or maybe you're somewhere up north and you want to get away for the for the wintertime and come party with us, go Check that out, swingerside.net. Again, we're down to only 30 rooms. There's an overflow hotel that's right next door that we'll spill into that. But you want to be in the main hotel if you can get it. So go get those tickets now. And we look forward to partying with you in January. Bliss Cruise is coming up. Yes. Are you excited for Bliss? I'm very excited. How are you feeling? So we talked a lot this episode about your mental health, about whether you were into playing or not. You've kind of been on the fence. How are you feeling going into Bliss? I feel pretty good. Yeah, I feel pretty good. I feel like your medicine is kind of balanced out right now. Yeah, I started ADHD medicine today. And I feel a little weird, but not... Like jittery? Like high energy, low energy? Because that's the thing. Lacey was reading about the medicine last night, which was probably the worst thing you could ever do. Yeah. Because it made her, you know, freaked out a little bit. It made me nervous, yeah. But it also seemed to be like people were saying it put me to sleep, and then people were saying it made them hyper. Yeah, some people said that we're jittery. and stuff. But a lot of what I read was it makes you very tired. It's a non-stimulant, so it's not like Adderall or anything like that. Not that there's anything wrong with that. But I am pretty damn tired right now. I could take a nap. But we've been pretty busy, so I haven't really had an opportunity to be sleepy or be lazy. So we've been pretty much going since I woke up this morning. But yeah, I mean, I feel pretty good. I don't particularly want to be in the playroom every single night, but I think going into it, I'm going to encourage myself because I know just like as we were talking about in this podcast, once I get there, I'm like golden. I'm going to encourage like be like YOLO to try to go every other at least. I think that's like a good. This cruise is also like a solid week, like Friday through the next Saturday. Yeah. We have the pre-party Friday night, and we get on the ship Saturday, and then we get off it. So that's a long cruise. So I think that's a lot of pressure to put on not only me, but my vagina for that long. So I think going into it, if I could just encourage myself to engage or be in the playroom, at least every other day, I would be very proud of myself. They are doing a very good job at this cruise of opening different options for play outside of just a stereotypical playroom. They have an outdoor playroom. They have a playroom. You watch a movie and there's like a grass. Have you seen that? No. They have like a grass area with like a movie screen and you can actually like, I think you can bring a towel or something and like. Is the idea that they play porn or something? I don't know what they're doing. Or is it like an actual movie? Baby, I didn't read. I don't work there. I don't know what they're putting. This is like our. No, but like drive-in porn would be kind of hot. Yeah, that would be hot. Yeah, I agree. I didn't ask. I didn't read in the thing, but that would be, I'm like, I'm always down for like new experiences. So like fucking in the grass in the middle of the ocean. Yeah. Bucket list. Yeah. While the way, like I'm totally down for that. They've got some daytime things. Um, so yeah, I mean, maybe that's it. As we get older, maybe we need to do more daytime play. I like daytime play. Yeah. Because it's not something we've historically done much. No. At night. I just, I'd like to just like, Not even sleep, but let me just rot in the bed and scroll my phone. I don't want to be messed with. Even if you get the internet package, it's terrible. There's not a lot of phones going. I'm excited to go. I'm going with some good friends that I enjoy fucking. They listen. They prayer. Bliss Cruise, since we have another minute or two, they just came out with an app. There is a Bliss Cruise app. If you are going on Bliss Cruise or you're going on a future Bliss Cruise, I highly recommend getting an app. It's pretty good. people messaging us already, which makes me kind of excited. You've been doing the messaging. I have. I went back and read a few. You've been being a little flirty on there. Well, I've been trying to respond to everybody and I've been trying to like put myself out there, like kind of like already setting the tone. We need to get better about talking to people outside of our circle. And I don't think that that happened intentionally. I just think we've had a lot of people fuck us over, for lack of a better word, over the last few years. A lot of people have just done some pretty shitty things. What has ended up happening is I become much – I was already introverted. I think I've became more introverted. I've closed my circle even tighter. I don't really open up to a lot of people outside of like a core one or two. It's a weird thing when you have to – when you interact with people that you constantly in the back of your head have to think, if I piss this person off, They might go on Facebook, Reddit, and just start talking shit about me. Yeah, because we see people on the cruise, and they don't even come up and speak to us, and then they go on Reddit and say, well, we saw them, and they seem stuck up, so we didn't talk to them. That's not really fair. Or I saw them in the playroom, or I saw them here, and I saw them there, and they did this, or they did that. So that puts me in like, somebody who's an avid overthinker, that really puts me in like a weird spot. Do I just walk around with like a fake smile? Do I walk around like saying hello to everything? So anyway, it just makes me overthink the situations. And so I really think I have to do a, I have to purposely put myself outside of my box. So when people have been messaging us, if they're like attractive and they're like, before I would just respond like, thank you. You know, nice to meet you. Now, if I like look at their pictures and be like, I would fuck them. I've been like trying to like put that vibe out there. You're going to set up some dates for us or what? Um, no. But I'm trying. Like, if I find the couple attractive, I'm like, hey, look, you know, I'm like, if you see us, grab us, say, hey, same, you know, we'll say hello. I really would like to push. I would like for us both to push ourselves outside of our limits. Like if that there's like some under 45 meet and greets, I would like to go to that. There's just like a couple of things like that that I think we need to do just to kind of break ourselves from the typical. We have a couple of close friends on this trip, but not... Like Daphne and Mike are going, and I love Daphne and Mike, and I love when they go. That's my favorite, because I feel like I have a built-in best friend. Travel buddy. Yeah, but sometimes it's nice to go without people that you... Because sometimes we can also use them for a crutch. Yeah. And this is one that they're not going on, so I think we need to purposely push ourselves outside of the box. Okay. Calm down. And I found when I do that, I have... a better time. Yeah. Hedo was wild. Yeah. I think about like the few times we like think about Reno couple. We met them in the pool and we were just like YOLO and then like Army guy. Remember we met them in the pool on Bliss and like YOLO. Met them in the pool and we went and fucked. We went and fucked. You know like those are. During the day. Yeah. Yeah. Like those experiences are some of my favorite and I think because the podcast has gotten so big and because people have been quite honestly pretty shitty to us I've just like reverted in and like lost a little bit of that. So I'd like to get back to that a little. All right. That's good goals. That's good goals. So anyway, if you're going to be on the Bliss Cruise. Sorry, that was long winded. No, it's okay. If you're going to be on the Bliss Cruise and you have the app, you can find us on there. Yeah, message us. The Swing Nation. And if you see me, even if I'm like, even if I look like I'm like on a mission to get to the buffet or wherever I'm going, just stop and say hello. She always looks like that. That's just how my face looks. Yeah. It's not, it's not on purpose. All right. Well, Anything else for the Swing Nation listeners? That's it. All right, guys. I think with that, in a world full of apples. Be the pineapple. Be the pineapple, guys. Bye. Bye. Thank you, What are you doing? What are you doing? How are you doing