Wel-cum Autumn Party

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Welcome to the Pineapple Pinup, the Hot Wave Life podcast. On today's podcast, I'm going to... Wow. We threw a party and it wasn't just a run-of-the the mill fuck party. It was so much fun. It was laughter and community and chatting and fucking. It was all the things that make a party a party. And I, of course, made food because I am kind of obsessive compulsive about yummy noises. I fucking love to cook and make people say, oh, yum. I don't know what that is, what that says about me, but I like to pretend that I'm a kitchen witch and that I am making happiness inside my kitchen.

Now, this is, for me, a recipe for great things. You put a little bit of good food, you put some fun conversation, you put, you know, it adds up to an atmosphere. It adds up to energy and it adds up to community and it adds up to a good time. And it was crazy because I had so many of my guys there, so many of my roster there, and it was fucking awesome. Let's go through the list. Red, Tripod, Jeff, Josh, I Love You Man. And then there were new guys. There were guys that I'd never met before.

There were guys that had come to the party because I, we were throwing it and it was fucking phenomenal. I mean, seriously, it was so much fun. There were very few things that ended up being issues. Um, there was very little, but it was so much fun and so much laughter and so much good sex. Now I had, I had brought my waterproof blankets. I brought two of them and I also brought the, there were three beds, the shower curtains that I normally use on beds. It was a really good mix.

The air conditioners were pumping and there were some chilly moments, but for the most part, it was comfortable and fun and just a lot of really good energy. I had five women at my party. There was Canvas, who is fucking phenomenal. She comes to every single one of my parties, and I fucking love her. She is great. She likes to party. She likes to chat. She likes to fuck. And it's essential to bring people to your party who want to fuck. Then there was Unicorn. Unicorn is fucking awesome. She loves to give blowjobs.

And she actually sent us a message after the party that she had gotten like 16 or 17 loads at the party and that was fucking phenomenal I'm so I'm so happy for her and then there was a new addition who we had met at other parties but she was new to coming to our party um vixen she she was freaking, she was so adorable and so fun. And so she had a really good energy about her. They did have a very slow start, but that's okay because not every single party is going to start for every single person immediately. And then I had, oh goodness, who else came? My friend Scoot came. She came.

She was not participating, but she did come and she was cracking jokes and keeping things lively. And it was really just a lot of fun to have her there. And then of course, there's me that's playing. I had so much fun putting together this party, putting together this group of people. And my husband is very instrumental in doing that. He is such a good he's such a good curator of the group of the dynamic of, you know, enough new people with enough solid past people to kind of give it that energy, to give it that really just excellent chemistry. Let's go through how everybody showed up.

Unicorn came with a gentleman and he was a lot of energy. So Unicorn and her friend showed up really early. They came, and my friend Scoot came early. And then, let me see, we had new guys there guys there. There was the new guy, Redbeard. And he was so adorable. And he literally waited a very long time to start playing. And then when he started playing, he had such a great time.

And he actually reached out and said, next time, I'm going to start playing a lot lot sooner which I mean it works whatever you want to do I there's no such thing as the right way to do a party it's however the energy feels to you um Jeff was there and Josh was there and everything got moving there were a couple of guys who were new to the party and um some that were having issues getting everything to work which is fine and the nice thing is is that the gentleman that was having the most issue with that was he just hung out and took everything in and didn't let it become a thing where it was my responsibility to fix things for him.

It was really, really well balanced. It was nice to have somebody who was there just hanging out, chit chatting. It was really excellent. And, um, okay. So one of the things that I did was I had set up on the king bed with this, um, waterproof blanket because to know me is to know that I live at Lake Wanna Come Fuck Me. Um, it just, that's where, that's where I exist.

So I had of course been fucking with Jeff and I had been fucking with tripod and I had destroyed the right half of the bed and I was like okay so much like much like the colonization of America we have taken these 13, and now we're moving into the Louisiana Purchase. We're going, you know, we're heading west. We're going to take over the Mississippi Valley because literally I was making such a huge mess that you couldn't lay on one half of that blanket. And then as the night wore on, my husband, the genius that he is, folded the fucking blanket in half to give me more area to fucking cover.

So it ended up working really, really well. and um I at one point um canvas came in and she laid down on the bed and I said be careful and she was fine until she went to stand up and then she stuck her leg just straight in it. She left soon after that. And I don't know if it was the same. It was for that reason, but it's a lot. And I am glad that everybody was having such a good time.

And that they were all giggling along with the puddle jokes and the, you know, rain showers and the gentleman that actually came with canvas he was really really interested in watching me squirt and getting me to squirt and he was fingering me in such a way that like basically caused my whole body to like explode with moisture there are times out there when it's like there's a lot of liquid happening and i was trying to hydrate all night long it's a lot of fun to be a squirter but it's also kind of one of those things where it's hit and miss with the audience it's one of those things where some people don't really enjoy it and i and i mean i i get up from the wet spot and then I lay back down in the wet spot and it's fucking freezing cold.

It's not comfortable. It's not something that you're like, oh, yay. It's, it's rough. So I, of course, through the night wanted to maintain my ability to play all night or play to the end of the party. And I took breaks. I took time away. And the thing is, is that taking a break is also a very good way to stop something uncomfortable that's happening to you. And I actually had to do that a couple of times because there are uncomfortable things that happen. It was fucking on point. It was good times, good food, good laughter. It was so much good sex. It was great.

And my husband at the end of the night, once everybody started filing out was like, now, now. And we had so much fun. We, um, had a threesome with Josh really quick. Um, not really quick, but we had a threesome with Josh and I kind of had to call a halt to it because of the way that, um, I was in the wrong position and I kind of had to slow down. But because of the fact that I had had an owl moment from the scratch that I had, they were kind of like defeated. And so they kind of stopped playing. We ended up trying to go to sleep. And then my husband could not sleep.

So he and I went to another room and let Josh have the bed and we went to the other room and we played and it was phenomenal. I had such a good time with my husband and reconnecting and having him be vocal about what he'd seen and vocal about what he had experienced and how hot he found everything and how often he saw me with a dick in my mouth and how much he loved that. It was all so incredibly hot and it was it was also something where we decided, we decided to spend the night at the hotel. And this isn't something that we do often.

We, a lot of times we'll get the hotel and then we'll just go home because we're close enough that it's not a big deal. But in this particular instance, my husband had wanted to play right away and then, you know, crash out. The problem is neither one of us sleep very well in a hotel, especially not me. I am surrounded by too much noise, too much light, too much creaking, too much, you know, like I don't sleep well. I slept maybe two hours and I had, I had expended a great deal of energy. Okay. I had fucked my way through probably 16 dicks. Um, so it was, I had expended a lot of energy.

I had expended a lot of effort and it was so much fun, but I needed some sleep. And because of the fact that we had decided to sleep there, I didn't really get a lot of sleep. We ended up going to sleep at like 3.30 in the morning. And by 5.30, I was up and like packing up the hotel room. I played with Josh again in the morning while my husband was sleeping. And then I finished, he took out the trash for me. And then I finished packing up the room and started moving everything down to the car. And then my husband got up and he was like, what's going on?

And I was like, oh, well, this is the last bit we need to do. And he helped me with the very last bit we needed to do. And it was really great. I mean, seriously, so much fun that we got to spend our weekend having this extremely sexy, extremely fun, extremely interesting evening. And as far as I'm concerned, that party was a raging fucking hit. it was so good. And I really hope that everybody who came had a really good time like I did.

A lot of the feedback that we got, and of course, my husband and I are super conscious about the fact that after a party, we want to reach out and make sure everybody had a good time. And we want to say thank you so much for coming because it's important.

It's important to foster that relationship because when something comes up in the future, we want to say thank you so much for coming because it's important it's important to foster that relationship because when something comes up in the future we want them to have a good memory of all of it have it you know have well yeah and then you know and look back at the conversation and see what we wrote and see what they wrote and all that good stuff.

So the contact before and after, the contact at the party, all of that is very essential to what we're trying to do, which is build a community of fun, a community that has common goals and interests and can have a conversation and, you know, all that good stuff. How much fun it was. So I really, like I honestly, this is the way my husband and I really prefer to do the lifestyle. And this works for us.

And I highly recommend it because anybody who goes to these parties and feels the energy and, you know, meets the people and has the conversations, they're going to see, even if you're not fucking playing, you get to talk to these people who have who are like-minded with you and that to me is a gift and a benefit so I am heading to Splash Mocha in December, and I am definitely going to be trying my very level best to be part of the whole thing. And I am working my way into having conversations now so that I can, when we go to the event, there will be people there that I already know.

And like, I'm doing my best to build the anticipation. Another thing I am trying to do is I am trying to get healthy for the event. I really want to work on my stamina. I want to work on my ability to go for longer, my, my ability to sleep when I need to sleep and just get everything kind of in line so that when I go, I can maximize the amount of fun that I'm going to have. I want to do all of this because there are opportunities for us to go out into new and interesting places and meet new and interesting people and create these moments.

This lifestyle is very, very good for people who want to travel and explore and create exciting moments it's not like booking a hiking trip or something like that this is booking a trip to go and meet very specific people and fuck and so the ability to plan your vacation is a lot easier, in my estimation. Knowing that you're going to this event to do, to meet these people and to have fucking huge amounts of fun is just a really good way to, in my estimation, to spend a few days at the end of December. But what's really funny is I'm actually going to two hotel takeovers in that month.

And I am super excited for both. And I really want the the one I'm going to at the beginning of December to kind of be a precursor to the Splash Mocha event. I am looking forward to traveling for Dick, to finding opportunities to go out and get active and get, meet new people and find interesting things to do. It is really one of those things where the lifestyle is kind of geared in different directions to give us opportunities to branch out. And I'm really glad that me and my husband are taking these opportunities to do so. We went to a hotel takeover, and I literally played with one guy.

And that was fine. That was great. And I am really looking forward because I found out my friend, I have a friend who's going to Splash Mocha. I have a friend who's coming with me to Splash Mocha and there's a lot of stuff that's going to be going on and I'm so excited to experience it.

I'm so excited to experience, um, these big, huge events that are, you know, like across the country, across the nation, like across international things, you know, and if you know of an event that's coming up and you know of something that could be fun and exciting, don't hesitate to send it to me because I will be, I will do my best to talk my husband into it because I really do enjoy the excitement because you plan this trip and then you have months before the trip happens where you get to wait, you build it up.

And the anticipation of this is really just one of those things that I am trying to cultivate more in my life. I'm trying to cultivate more anticipation towards future events, and that build up and that rise so that when I get there, I'm nothing but sexual tension and sexual energy. That's my goal. Who knows if it'll happen, but that's the goal.

So because of the fact that we have these trips coming up, because of the fact that we have these hotel takeovers that we're going to be doing in December, I am really working towards making conscious decisions towards getting ready to go to these places, getting ready to be part of the party, planning the wardrobe, the whole kit and caboodle. So if you've been to some of these events, please reach out to me, tell me what I can expect, because I would love to know, I would love to know how people have navigated this in the past.

Give me a little tutorial on the best ways to, like, because I already had a conversation with Seven, and Seven told me a little tutorial on the best ways to like, cause I already had a conversation with seven and seven told me a lot about Splash Mocha and told me a lot about what I could expect over there and how to, and how he navigates the party. I'm different than he is because he's a bull and I'm, I'm a hot wife. So I don't know the rules. I don't know if this is a hot wife convention or if this is a bull convention.

I don't know where the emphasis is at this particular time, but I'm very eager to find out, very eager to look forward to this event, this vacation, this break from normal life. I'm really hoping that it will be something that my husband and I find even more tribe further out from where we are. because I love that. I love meeting the people and talking and having, and I really hope, I'm really hopeful that I will be able to send at least one or two of the things out while I'm there. Like, you know, do some live stuff maybe. Who knows? I got to figure it all out.

I'm not good at any of this, as you can probably tell, but I am, I want to, I want to experiment. I want to do, I want to try about having the conversation. Okay. Um, I want to talk about having the conversation and fucking it up. Um, here thing. I went through a period with my husband where we were not communicating very well. We weren't in the right space. And I brought him something that made me incredibly vulnerable. I brought him a desire for BDSM and I did not approach it right. Okay. Because here's the thing about being vulnerable.

You are going to do anything you can to sidestep that vulnerability. You're going to do anything you can to move it, to change the direction of the energy, because it feels too, it feels too scary to your inside person. And usually when this conversation, like when I had this conversation, I stood there, my arms were crossed, my legs were crossed, my, like I was standing away from my husband. He was on the opposite side of the room. He too was taking a defensive posture because my posture was giving him that be on guard thing.

Um, and I dropped it on him and immediately told him that he was not right for my BDSM journey, that he was definitely not a dom. And that sparked something. That sparked something not great. Okay. My husband and I went through a period of real fear and real tiptoe and real eggshell walking because I had brought something up and basically told him he could not fix it. And saying that to a man is basically like waving a red flag at a bull. It's like, I have to fix this. I have to fix this. And here's the thing about a vulnerable conversation. It sucks. Okay. It's bad. It's not fun. Okay.

You're basically laying out a piece of your soul and you're asking that the, it's like laying out a piece of your soul right before the running of the bulls, right there in the street of Pamplona, okay? You are laying this out there and you're hoping that whatever's coming down that road isn't going to trample it. You're hoping that whatever's coming down that road is not going to, and what's the likelihood that this isn't going to get trampled? What's the likelihood that what's coming down the road is not going to mess it up? So here's the facts, okay?

You're going to have to have the vulnerable conversation and it's going to fucking suck. And you have to be honest. And then you have to walk away. You have to let your vulnerability sit there and not fix it. Okay. You're not going to fix that. You're not going to alter it. It has to be out there. It has to sit there and it has to marinate and it has to wait for whatever the fuck is coming down the road for it okay that is rule number one you have to have the vulnerable conversation and it's gonna fucking suck and it's gonna fucking be scary but you can't you can out of it. Okay.

So now you've had the vulnerable conversation. You've let it sit there. You've let it marinate. It's not the only time you're going to have to have the vulnerable conversation, but here's the thing that I don't think anybody knows. you're gonna fuck fuck it up, okay? You are going to dodge. You are going to put it on something else. You're going to take it away from something that is ultimately a desire of yours and put it into another realm. You're going to put it somewhere else. You're going to put it at their feet. You're going to put it at fate's feet. You're going to do a bunch of things.

You're going to take the spotlight off of you and shine it somewhere else. It's a natural reaction, but I'm going to tell you every time you have this conversation, because you're going to need to have it more than once. Every time you have this conversation, you're going to get a little bit better because their reaction from previously is going to inform you as to how you either fucked up or how you made it better, how you described what it is that you were trying to say. You're going to get feedback and that feedback is going to ultimately lead to a better conversation.

So give yourself that opportunity. Give yourself that ability to have that conversation, to have that multiple conversations, To have those things where you are, where you have some something. So vulnerable conversations do not turn out perfect every time. But what you do as a human is you learn and you grow from each conversation that you have. You learn the better ways to communicate your thoughts and communicate who you are. But I'm going to tell you the best way to reach the point where you really truly want to be is to bear it open from your point of view only.

Don't cost benefit anybody else. Don't fling the spotlight anywhere else. Stick with it. Stay in that heat. Let that heat, let that vulnerability guide you guide you to the place where you're going to be able to communicate the full breadth and depth of what it is that you're trying to get across because that is how other people truly hear you. It's kind of like, I don't know if you've noticed on all of the reality shows and the competitions that are out there. The more sob story a person has, the more pain and anguish they have had to overcome.

The more they can trace it back to this place of vulnerability, the better they do on the show. That's just how we have been trained by the media. So use that training that we all have and explain it from a very deep and vulnerable position. And that is my PSA. That is how I think we're all going to get to the point where we can have the conversations that we need to have better. Thank you so much for joining me today on the Pineapple Pinup the Hot Wife Life podcast. I hope you got something out of it.

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