The Party where I test History vs Mystery

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Welcome to the Pineapple Pinup, the Hot Wife Life podcast. On today's podcast, I'm going to talk about the party I alluded to last week. so while discussing history versus mystery i alluded to the fact that I had gone to a party and it was very prevalent at this party, the difference between history and mystery. Two of my old friends that I have not seen in a hot minute, the Togai and Jeff, were both at this party. And there was also the OG gentleman who very much likes to be a dominant. And it was very, very apparent that I tended to veer towards my friends.

And I don't think it was necessarily because they were my friends. I think it was because they are happy and they are fun and they take absolutely no seriousness to this realm. They are serious about fucking, which is a huge benefit. They are serious about pleasure. But other than that, they are there to have fun. They're there to be at a party, to be social, to be engaged and fun and funny and all of those things that I really, really respond to. I respond to, well, let's be honest, I respond to a big dick and I respond to humor.

I think that when situations could be awkward, you can lighten the mood with a quick joke. There's no need to take this that seriously. And the reason that I say that is because I'm not going to go home with you. I'm going home with the man who brought me. I'm going home with my husband. There's absolutely no need to reach some emotional depth, to reach some primal area. The only primal scream I want to know anything about is the one you make me have when I'm fucking coming for five minutes straight.

And believe me, the one person who's done that at that party, Jeff, Jeff has actually given me a five minute orgasm and it was still wordless, still without words. Yeah. Um, so my friend was there and the toe guy loving my polish, loving my fingernails, loving my toes, loving all of it. And he was there before his date, which is not unusual.

Um, so he and I were like, Oh my God's been so long and then we ended up just fucking but I was at the time being motioned over by OG and so I kind of had gone in to get changed and then I ran into my friend and then he and I just started fucking and it was amazing it was what's really my friend. And then he and I just started fucking. And it was amazing. It was. What's really crazy is he's filling me with his dick, giving me orgasms. And we are chatting about everything that's been going on in our lives and being fun and funny. And it was orgasmic on many, many levels.

And so much fun and we giggled and we left and he took pictures of my feet and it was amazing because he is very much a he is a great lover uh he has girth and length and he is a great lover. Uh, he has girth and length and he is powerful in his thrust. And he is, um, he has really good rhythm, really good timing. He's amazing. And I love him. I like, he is so much fun to hang out with and talk to. And I like to have conversations that don't actually happen with me on my back. I mean, those conversations are great too, especially added with other things, but so great.

So then we then we played for a little while and then the OG had gotten tired of waiting for me and had found somebody else, which was cool. I'm like, go for it because that's kind of what we're all here for. And, um, my friend had gone down to get his date and there were other, there were all sorts of ladies there. I was chatting with the ladies. We were talking, we were doing the whole thing. Um, it was a lot of fun. It was real calm and casual. And then Jeff showed up. Oh. Yay. Oh. Sorry. I'm just having some very visceral memories. Jeff, of course.

And, like, we started making Fuckin' Come Falls. We started making, like, Wanna come fuck me. It was so messy and it was awesome. It was so great to, first of all, see him again. And I know that it had only been like a week since I'd seen him, but it was like getting a second present on Christmas. It's, it doesn't get old. I'm sorry. It just doesn't. It's yay. And I think the most interesting point of the night is when I ended up on the bed with the girl, H. We'll call her Honey. I ended up on the bed with Honey. I ended up on the bed with another female, Jay.

and we were surrounded by Jeff and the Togai and Gray and I don't remember what I call him, but he's there all the time. We'll call him Ant.

And we were literally the three of us just surrounded by all this maleness um jay was on top of tow guy and they were she was riding him like it was the rodeo and jeff is behind me pounding me like he's gonna get something out of me that nobody else can and I think he did and I'm playing with female body parts and they're playing with and I've got hands all over my body it is very bacchanalia it is and then I've got Jeff whispering in my ear, that's so hot. And it was amazing. It was so much fun.

It was the difference between, in that moment, you can feel the difference between female skin and male skin. You can feel the difference between hyper-groomed and rough and ready. You can feel the differences and the energy and you, it's all coming from all the places and it is really just undeniably sex. It is undeniably See you next time. really just undeniably sex. It is undeniably opulence. It is undeniably a wealth of pleasures. and it is way, way good. So... and it is way, way good.

So the thing that I love is that you can have all of this pleasure and you can have all of this sensory overload and you can have all of it and still have fun and laughter. It doesn't have to be, it doesn't have to be that. It doesn't have to be deep and meaningful. It can also just be happy and fun and giggly and exciting and all of those things. It doesn't have to go to the darker. And the problem that I have with people who need to emotionally connect with me is that I don't really do comfortable emotional connection. I do very, like emotional connection for me is very uncomfortable.

And it's a damn good thing that I found my husband and I, and he basically forced me into more deeply emotional shit early on in our relationship so that that way I could handle it from him. But when people come to me overly earnest, I get real. And it doesn't lead to more orgasms for me. It leads to more walls for me. Emotional just doesn't trigger the thing that you're trying to trigger within me. So let's get funny. Let's get giggly. Let's get happy and fuck like bunnies. That's all I'm saying. And I don't know if that's the wrong take on life, but I don't really care.

I get all of my emotional needs met by my husband. I'm there for physical needs and physical needs don't have to be deeply, dramatically they can be fun and light and adorable and so sweet and so just yay and i will i will niagara falls all over anything you want me to if you make me giggle if you make me laugh i actually know that when i laugh my pussy clamps Thank you.

you want me to if you make me giggle if you make me laugh I actually know that when I laugh my pussy clamps down and I know this because I was in the middle one of the very first parties I went to with the toe guy he we were making jokes back and forth and I literally was laughing so hard I had clamped down, and he was like, I can't move. It is, my, laughter is the one thing that gets me through everything, and I wouldn't give it up for the world. I love having fun. Because guess what, guys? That's what this is supposed to be.

And if you're there for emotional connection, I'm really not your girl. So there's a lot. So there were a lot of guys there that I have in the past had many, many rounds of very, very good orgasms with. But I tended to stick with my pack that night because I knew it was not only going to be physically arousing, it was also going to be fun. It was going to be so much fun.

giggle we would laugh we would say funny things we would call the elephant in the room out it was it still is and that's what i get from history versus mystery somebody who wants to giggle with me is always going to have that connection with me that you can't get when you're trying to figure out the mystery when you are in mystery mode you're maybe not glancing into the you're maybe trying to take it the wrong direction. And so for me, history, and I make that connection through laughter and fun more than I do through emotions.

History for me is winning, but I'm not going to say that mystery is ruled out because mystery has its place as well, because you can be so excited and you never can tell who's going to let you laugh with them or who's going to be silly with you or who's going to, you can't tell from the outside who your people are going to be until you get in there and you play with them. So I'm not ruling it out. I'm just saying, I don't know. I don't know how to say it better than that, that it, my, so good. It was such a fun party. I had such a blast. And when I left, I felt really good.

I felt really good about all of it. Yummy. me. Okay, boys and girls, I want to talk about sexual crime okay in the mail it happens late teens early 20s it's that sexual crime when your hormones are running all over the place in there and you you can go for, you can go multiple times and, you know, everything, a breeze makes your dick hard. Like that kind of emotional or that kind of sexual prime where it's not tangled up. But women, as you may have heard, go through their sexual prime in their late 30s, early 40s. And there's a very good reason for that.

Your hormones, mostly your ovaries, realize that you are running out of viable eggs. And it is time to get pregnant as many times as you possibly can. So we're going to go into overdrive and you are going to fuck like a bunny. You're going to have to fuck all the time. You're going to have to fuck whoever is there. You're going to have to fuck all the time. And believe me, having gone through this, I know what I'm talking about. When I was in my quote unquote sexual prime, probably still am to some degree, but it has gotten a little bit more manageable.

But when it first started, it was, it was insane. It was like nothing I'd ever felt before. It was like there was a beast inside of my vagina screaming, feed me dick. And even if I had just had multiple orgasms if I had literally been fucked into a coma. The instant I got up from that bed, it was like, who's next? My vagina was hungry. My vagina was so needy. and one of my favorite phrases during my entire sexual prime period, um, still was, I need to slide down a cock. It was, it was the most insane I think I've ever felt. It was constant.

It was, if anything triggered a stressor, my vagina was like, let's do this. If anything triggered my emotions, my vagina was like, let's do this. It was like being a teenage boy. I mean, seriously, the slightest breeze made my entire body one big erogenous zone. We don't talk about it very much about what it means to be quote unquote in your sexual prime as a woman. We don't talk about how being premenopausal makes your body do things that evolutionarily have been very, very important. when the when the end of your breedability comes along, like your body knows, this is what I'm designed for.

So we need to get a move on if we're going to get this done. And it's not something that they really tell you about. They talk about this in such generic terms that like sexual crime for men, we know exactly what that means because they go into detail. They tell you all about it. And then they say a woman doesn't reach her sexual crime until she's in her late 30s and 40s.

So I'm here to tell you that there's a point at which when the hormones kick on and you're not crazy, you're not insane, you literally feel like you need to be bred all the time, that you would be fine being in, being a porn star. You would be fine if your job all day long was to get railed out because that need is always there. And it is, it's insane. And the fact that I've told many of my female friends when this happened to me, I had no clue what was going on. I had no idea that I was not losing my mind. Everything became sexual.

Everything became like, uh, my skin felt like it was, like everything was so sexualized. And it is important because a lot of times that is when many couples start looking to the lifestyle because her need is so, and his ability might be diminishing, okay? If you guys are roughly the same age, or he's a little bit older, or whatever, you might find this to be true. You might find that that's when we're seeking the lifestyle. Because your hormones are demanding to hormone. Okay? That, oh, I can't even tell you how true and accurate that right there was.

there is nothing that was going on inside of my body that didn't make me feel like I was a pervert. I needed it all the time. Everything was a sexual innuendo. Everything was about, let's fuck around. Let's fuck. And it's a rough hang if there's, if there's nothing to help you through it. Now I have every fuck toy known to man. Well, not quite, but I have quite a few. I almost burned my clit off writing my Symbian. Okay. I am not even going to lie to you. That was, that's truth.

There were a couple of times that I came out with actual literal like sores on my lady parts because I had ridden that Symbian for too long at too high a pace because I needed it and I could not stop. So for anybody out there who's listening, who may be entering into this particular phase in her life, you're not crazy. It's biological. It is 100% unavoidable. You can believe me. I talked to my gynecologist. I talked to so many people about why am I constantly, why like, and I walked around with slippery lips all the time. I was ready to be fucked at a moment's notice. It was undescribable.

It was not, it was, well, considering that's not a word, it was indescribable. But anyway, back to the point, it was a period that lasted for a very, very long time. And it, like I said, I think I still have the trails of it, but I know for certain that before you get a handle on it, before you start to feel normal, it can feel like your pussy is the energizer bunny. Just going and going. And I don't think that's a bad thing either. I kind of like the sound of that. I got a interesting question from E. Hello.

I really enjoy your podcast and wanted to ask you and your husband, how do you deal when a bull fills you up more and or gives you the greatest pleasure that is more than what your husband offers. That's my jealousy and concern with this that's actually making the leap into doing stag versus vixen scenario? Um, I don't know. Um, I don't, I don't get too deep into everybody's history. Um, when they, because they usually just send me something really quick and, but I'm, I'm going to dive here. If you've ever been in more than one vagina, they're all different.

Even if you haven't, just trust me on this, they're all different. There's no such thing as a vagina that feels exactly the same way. There's different muscle tension, There's different levels of fluidity. There's different, um, patches of, you know, skin that are, it's just, it's different. Okay. And one vagina may fit your cock like a glove, and one may not. Dicks are the same. No dick is the same as somebody else's, because there's so many things that are involved in the process of the fucking. It's the length, it's the girth, it's the rhythm, it's the intent, it's the mental stimulation.

There are so many things that are different from dick to dick. And there are people who are going to give your dick to dick. And there are people who are going to give your partner different pleasure than you can give them. It's just a fact. I mean, it's kind of part of the reason why we do this is because there are infinite ways in which two bodies can come together. And the thing is, is that it doesn't matter what kind of pleasure a bull or a swap gives me. It doesn't matter. Okay.

Because I'm there to have that pleasure and then go home with my husband who fucks me to orgasm every time because he knows me. He knows me. There's nothing about me that he doesn't get. And he likes to use the stimulation I've had previously as a tool to arouse even more pleasure from me because he understands my mind. I have something with my husband that I will never have with a or a swap or at a party, I'm never going to get something so awe-inspiring, so five-minute orgasmy that's going to take me away from my husband.

And that is because there's something beyond sex with my husband okay he and I have communication and understanding and history and a life that we have built together because I gotta tell you it sounds like guys are like man, I wish she was mine. The fact of the matter is you probably don't. I mean, I wake up sarcastic. I cook and make a complete disaster of our kitchen and then look at my husband and say, will you clean it up? Like I have traits that are so flipping annoying that my husband should be sainted. He just should be.

He should win a Nobel Prize for being able to talk me off of ledges. He should be able, like, there are things that a lifetime together will be greater than this momentary pleasure. Nobody's dick is so amazing that it's going to take somebody you're emotionally bonded with away from you. And if it does, then that's something else. You're not in it, I don't think you're in the lifestyle for the right reason. If you're in the lifestyle for shopping, if you're in the lifestyle to shop for a better alternative, then basically you're just getting permission to leave them.

so it has you have to understand the reasons behind why you are entering into the lifestyle. I know the reasons my husband and I entered into the lifestyle. I'm going to share some very personal stuff with you right now. So you understand. My husband went through some medical things that made it harder for him to be the man he wanted me to have, give the kind of pleasure he wanted me to have. And because he is afraid of losing me, he fetishized seeing me with other men because he thought that that was maybe going to happen. I was going to cheat on him.

So he built this in his head, found a way to turn it into a fetish, which turned it into a kink, which brought us to the lifestyle and allows me all the physical pleasures I could want anytime that I want them. And it allows him to be part of it. If you're not approaching the lifestyle in a let's have fun together kind of mentality, if you're approaching it for, and like, that's a mistake that a lot of husbands, I think, have made in the past where they're like, I want to open up our marriage, I want to be here. And like, they make jokes about it all the time.

I recently heard a spoof podcast where the husband wanted to open up the marriage and then the wife finally just agreed because she was exhausted. She's like, fine, just whatever. And she went out and found amazing sex. And he went out and found that he wasn't as viable as he thought he was. So he wasn't able to turn it into anything.

And it was very, it was funny because it had a ring of truth to it i'm really sorry guys it like it's that movie hall pass all over again where you think that you're going to go out there and you're going to meet a ton of women and you're going to around and you're going to do all this stuff and then it doesn't end up that. The fantasy never lives up to it. But being a part of the lifestyle is about two people who are looking to do something together with more people. I can't stress it enough. You have to communicate.

You have to go into it knowing eyes wide open what it is that each one of you is seeking. And you have to be honest about what it is you're seeking. If you're looking for some strange and really just want to have some strange and then come back and rekindle the familiar, say that. It's okay. That's completely allowed. But you have to be honest about what you're going into it for. Because if, just because you think it might hurt somebody's feelings, doesn't mean that you shouldn't say it. Doesn't mean that you shouldn't, if that's how you feel, you need to be honest about how you feel.

And you need to tell them, I'm looking for some strange. Because I want to experience more from my time on earth and come back to you and have the life that we have built together. That is permissible. That is okay for you to say. It is also okay for her not to want, not to want that. And to be honest about not wanting it. I cannot tell you how important it is that when you communicate, you're communicating the truth, your truth, whether you think it's going to land or not, you've got to be honest about what it is you're seeking.

Because if you're not honest about what you're seeking, then you're basically creating a story that you're not going to be able to live up to. It's very hard to remember your lies, especially when your ball's deep in a woman. Okay? It's hard to remember your lies. So be honest, tell the truth, find out what the level of interest in the thing that you're actually seeking is. Okay. I'm down. I'm in. Like as long as you're being honest with yourself and your partner, that's lifestyle, baby. Let's do this thing. So bear that in mind. But to get back to the question, it's probably going to happen.

The bull is probably, a bull is probably going to give her more pleasure than she can get from you or different pleasure than she can get from you. But the likelihood that he is going to have the emotional history and the entire built life, like the Lego blocks of the life that you have built together, very doubtful. And if she's in it just to go get some pleasure and come home, it doesn't matter because she went out and got the thing that she wanted and now she's coming back to the life that she has built. It's going to happen.

And if you're jealous of the pleasure that other people can give her, then you need to probably figure out why you're fetishizing this anyway. Why that jealousy hasn't stopped you from mentally imagining her with her legs wrapped around some guy's ass while his cock is plowing deep into her. Just a thought. thank you so much for joining me today on the pineapple pinup hot wife life podcast um again you can hit me on pineapple pinup pod at gmail.com you can also check out my insta the link the username and all that is in the description of the show.

I really appreciate all of the reach outs and I am thoroughly enjoying interacting with my audience. Knowing that somebody's out there listening to it is just amazing. So reach out. Let's chat.