Sunday fun

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Welcome to the Pineapple Pinup the Hot Wife Life podcast. On today's podcast, I had a date with Josh and and I kind of go into all that, and my husband joins me for a little bit to tell you what he saw. And also, I have an exciting announcement about something that I have upcoming. I got a call from a lot of my friends over the weekend. I got hit up a lot for hanging out and it was really nice to hear from everybody. And one of the people who hit me up was, of course, Josh. And Josh and I have been missing one another because life has been lifing. I'm in the middle of a big old remodel.

And every time I I turn around there are contractors in my house. So, um, it's been a little difficult to touch base with him. So he hit me up and I was like, Hey, why don't you try to swing by? So he, we finally connected and you can tell when somebody when you haven't connected with somebody in a very long time how things become a little bit more intense um the he was eager to fuck me he was eager eager to, um, play. He was definitely in a zone of big time desire to do. And so was I, I mean, I was a hundred percent right there.

I had had a great weekend and he was coming over on a Sunday afternoon and we went upstairs and we did all the things that we were supposed to do because my husband, being that my husband enjoys certain things, like he enjoys the filming. He enjoys getting those home videos from me. He, we did all the things. We set up the camera. We, you know, chitchatted. We, we had a really, really good time. And because of the fact that we had, um, it had been a while, there was a rekindling.

There was a desire to, to like build back to that comfortable place where we were and show how eager we were to be there. Um, part of the thing that we, as humans tend to do is we spike. So because we were in such a good place, um, mentally, and we both were very eager to be there. We ended up having very dynamic sex. Um, he was more dirty talk. He was more, um, interest. He was, it was, it was a little bit more dynamic than it, I guess, usually become, usually is. And I think that's part of the reason why swinging is such a huge turn-on is that it is not the same old, same old.

It's not the rut that we all tend to fall into where it's, okay, it is time for us to have sex. Let me suck on your balls. Let me play with your penis. Letting, oh yes, touch my boobs. It's not the same script. It's not the same thing. And that's one of the things that has actually developed a greater repertoire between me and my husband. We don't fall into the same, okay, well, it's Saturday night. I guess I should roll over and we should fuck. No, it's much like, I don't know. Everything is more heightened.

And one of the things that you can fall into with a bull, especially a bull that has kind of a regular schedule and comes over and does exactly the same things before he takes off, is that, and I don't do well with being bored. I don't do well with not having any alteration in the script. I need a little improv a little jazz a little something something to create that connection that alive that new because you the one thing we never want is my brain to wander we We don't want that. Nobody wants that. Locating it afterwards.

But it was interesting to be with Josh when he was so amped up, when he was really just fucking ready, ready to go and ready to do it hard and fast and just turn over and you climb on top. And it was very, it was, it was nice. It was at a really good time. Um, cause we did, we, I started off with a blow job with him. Um, deep throat, messy, wet, you know, just deep, deep want more cock in my throat kind of, um, blowjob.

And then I did, I climbed on top of him, but he, he kept using these black condoms that we had and looking at it this this looks like a contractor trash bag on my dick and it was funny because it kind of did because it was very dark plastic black and it was it was a little odd but it was it was fun so um I climbed aboard and I rode that man. I rode him like we were being chased by a posse. I, I was, uh, sliding and pulling and just jamming everything I could down onto that cock. And it was, it was really, really good.

So of course, after a time, I'm a big woman, you know, things don't move that quickly normally on my body. And so we, we have to tap out and roll over. And so then I became a straight pillow princess and he fucked me. He fucked me missionary for a little while. And this was when, no, actually, no, we, I rolled over onto my stomach and he fucked me doggy for a little while. And then he laid me flat and fucked me from behind, which is a position he and I really, really love.

When I am laying flat, my legs are together and he is sliding in from behind and I'm sort of arching my back ever so slightly so he can get that real, that perfect angle that goes straight down across my G spot and just, it's like a roller coaster and it is fucking phenomenal. So then after that, we rolled over and my husband had been coming up and down the stairs to take his own video. He'd been coming up the stairs, taking a little video, taking a couple snapshots, going back down. And then he came up at just the right time because I was ready to go.

I was hydrated and things were popping off. and from two different angles, my, we caught me squirting all over Josh from literally his lap to his hairline. It, we caught the whole, all the action and it was crazy. I'm sorry. I don't understand. I don't understand a lot of this and I feel guilty sometimes when it happens. And like, there's a lot going on with me because I am not sure how I am supposed to feel about this. Now, many people have said, you're supposed to feel great about this. This is a skill that is good. And some people have been entirely grossed out by it.

So I am trying to balance between the few that are grossed out who I'm really sorry, but if you've ever heard a negative comment, that's the one that reverberates in your head, not the, Oh my God, you were so amazing. Nobody hears that after it said, thank you so much. And then it's gone. But tell me you sucked balls. And I'm like, oh shit, I sucked balls. I sucked balls. And I will ruminate on that for days. So the happy go lucky, the good stuff that people say, it penetrates to a point, but the ones you keep with you are the negative thoughts. And it's just fucking human.

I don't know why we do it, but it's just fucking human. So because of the fact that it's just fucking human, and that's what's going on, I am having a hard time balancing the many, many rave reviews with the few grossed out reviews. So because of that, I do have a lot, a very hard time figuring out whether it's a good thing or not, whether I should apologize or not. But there's part of me that thinks it's ridiculously funny when somebody ends up with a chest full of like girl cum because of the fact that my pussy went, went girls gone wild.

Like, I don't know why everybody has to have a wet t-shirt contest around me, but there it is. So I am not a, sorry, this is therapy for me in case you hadn't noticed. This is me trying to circle through the thoughts that run through my head. But anyway, because of the fact that we caught this not once, but twice on, it actually happened two times and both times we caught it on film. Um, I like, I don't know whether this is something that my husband is going to be like celebrating or whether it's just going to be like another day at the office. I don't know. It's a thing.

It's something that obviously I think about. So because of the fact that, um, it was, we were really keyed up, everything was going great and everything was going. And I mean, we fucked, we had two different rounds and then natural progression. He took off. It was a great night. It was a great time. It was fun. And I'm really grateful that things have gotten to the point where I am having straight fun. There's no anxiety. There's no like stress. There's no, should I be doing something else? Oh my God, I've got to get that.

I have been recently listening to a podcast, which has actually asked me to be on, um, Cuck My Life. And Cuck My Life has been talking about like one of the things that I heard while listening to them, because they are very, very insightful, especially if you are looking to become a cuck. It is very insightful about the things because everything, they're very good about seeing the fact that everything is a trade-off. Okay. If you want to spend time or want your woman to spend time fucking other men, then you probably need to free up some of her time. And I've gone over this before.

One of the things that guys don't seem to understand is that if you're approaching your woman about a fantasy that you want to fulfill, about a fantasy that you want to delve into, then you need to free up her headspace to hear you, okay? So you're definitely not going to bring up your fantasy on a Tuesday after she's just gotten the kids to bed, just finished making dinner, just finished doing the dishes, just finished putting in a load of laundry, just finished making lunches for tomorrow. Like the list of her to do's is too long.

So what you have to do is break her out of her routine, set up special moments, set up special times so that she can be there in the present and not running down her fucking to-do list. Because I'm sorry, guys, we all have one. We all have a constant loop of things that we've got to get accomplished because we have so many things that are riding on us doing the job that we were apparently biologically born to do. But that's not how it has to be.

And one of the things that Cock My Life really went into that I found so incredibly amazing was that when you are asking your woman to go and do something like this, go and be part of this type of lifestyle, one of the things you're going to have to do is pick up some of the slack. Take when she goes to play with a bull or when you guys plan a weekend away where you're going to go and play. Some of those things that are on the to-do list that have to get done because good God, man, it's not like they're going to magically do themselves. You're going to have to pick up some of the slack.

And it was highly enlightening to hear these men talk about the fact that their main job is to create enough space in her world for her to not only have the actual time to do stuff, but the mental capacity, the stress, the less stress of all the things that she should be doing, take away some of that guilt, let her know that, Hey, this is going to be taken care of. You go, you do, you enjoy.

And I found that so incredibly accurate because anybody who wants to approach this life, Anybody who wants to take on hot wifing, anybody who wants to be a cuck, anybody who wants to be a swinger, this is a time commitment. This is a new hobby you are taking on. And this is not a hobby that takes five minutes here or there. This is a hobby that takes a little bit of dedication, because depending on how you do it, you have to find the avenues in which you're going to do it. You have to cultivate those avenues. You have to then go down those avenues. and all of this to say, that takes time.

It's not just one thing. It's not just like, and the thing is, is that the more you do it, the more you realize that it brings so much to your relationship, that opening up that time, that giving that, giving that peace of mind, giving that stress-free moment is a hundred times paid off with what you're getting back. But I really like I'm very impressed with the way that they're approaching the cuck life. I think that it is awesome that they are looking at how women are hardwired and saying, maybe we can take that down a notch. Maybe I can take some of that on so you don't have to.

Maybe let me do the dishes. Maybe let me make lunches for the kids maybe let me do the dishes. Maybe let me make lunches for the kids. Maybe let me, you know, there's like a whole list of things that if you took them off our plate, we'd be a little bit less. And the crazy thing is, is that that's what my husband has always done for me. He's always been there to pitch in and help out and do some of this stuff so that I don't feel overwhelmed. And I have time to feel sexy in my own body and sexy in my own mind. So I freaking, I'm glad that it's out there.

I'm glad that there are people out there advocating that there's some sacrifices that have to be made. And if you want her to be able to sacrifice, you have to help. Okay. So we had Josh over today and Josh coming over on a Sunday is not not an unusual thing and this one was sort of just random out of the blue he was in the area we said come on over so i want you to talk about he really worked hard to get the video. I want you to walk us through what you saw. You told him to pull out and he pulled out and you squirted up his chest. I think that's what you're speaking of.

Yes, because he was working very hard to get that that video. He was working so hard to get that visual. And I wanted to know from, because you were, of course, watching and filming on your own. Yeah. And I was wondering what, like, does it, is it as exciting over there as it is over here? You know what I mean? i think watching the group excitement is exciting watching you scored is is not as exciting as it's a little mundane no it's just it's just it uh i know it's a possibility so i don't ever have that surprised look after this many years.

It's never a shock to you that the sprinkler is about to go off. Yeah, exactly. I like it. I like it a lot. I think it means a lot as far as when somebody's having sex with you.

It's very rewarding to say, hey, you did a good job because there's never enough of that from either side right you know there's never enough uh affirmations right during sex i think for most people exactly um so for non-verbal it's a very good you know when when you either feel that clamp around your cock or um when somebody squirts or um you finish and you look down and and everything's very juicy and drippy those are all affirmations that most guys as they come up in their sex lives that's you know what they start to look for right to find out hey am i doing okay at least yeah and i just want to put it out there yes no i thought that was a good session i thought you had fun yeah i did and he had fun so pick that every time exactly I'll see you next time.

I think it's time to refresh our toy closet. I'm heading over to privateadventures.net because I am running very low since the party. I'm running very low on condoms. So it's time to restock with another gross of condoms and find something new. And we got an ice cream cone. Well, my husband calls it an ice cream cone. It's a personal vibe that we take to the parties now. And privateadventures.net has been very helpful in getting us stocked in our play bag. So if your play bag needs a refresh, head on over and let them know I sent you.

When you check out, use the promo code PINEAPPLEPINUP10 to let them know I sent you. I'm actually very excited that I've been tapped to be on a podcast, Cuck My Life. And I will, of course, let you know when that's going to be airing and all that other good stuff. But I am really excited about this new chapter in my podcasting journey. Sharing my story across other venues so we can kind of cross-pollinate is kind of exciting. And listening to other people's podcasts and how they do their shows and how they do their scenarios and how they set everything up. I am intrigued by it all.

This started out as just a personal passion project where I wanted to just talk about how this lifestyle has changed my life, has given me so much more than I could have ever imagined. My relationship with my husband is so much stronger and so much more connected. And there's so many things about the fact that this lifestyle has added to my marriage and added to our lives in a way that I just really can't describe. We are so much more in sync. We are so much more together. And that seems like it would be the antithesis of what this does.

And it all depends on why you're getting into the lifestyle. If you're getting into the lifestyle because you're looking for some strange, it might not be what you're expecting it to be. If you're getting into the lifestyle because it is adding to your relationship with your person and you know exactly the pros and the cons of what's out there and you've really thought about it, and this is what you want, it can be so incredibly satisfying. It can be, it can build bridges. It can build communication. It can build, um, trust. Strangely, weirdly, it builds trust because nobody's hiding anything.

There are no secrets. Everything that's being done is being done right in front of my husband's face. So there's nothing. And the thing is, is a lot of times people get trapped up in what other people will think of them. And that's another thing that has really come to me full force is that I don't really care what anyone else thinks about me. As long as my husband is good with me, as long as my husband and I are communicating and as long as my husband and I are on the same page, what does it matter if what anyone else thinks of me?

And because of that, it has allowed me to use my voice to bring positivity, a better understanding of what it is to be a hot wife, what it is to be in the lifestyle, the normal freaking people that are in the lifestyle. We just happen to be a little bit freer. And the other thing is, is it's brought me freaking confidence all day long. I am, I look around and I say, you know what? I may not be everyone's cup of tea, but I am somebody's cup of tea. More than one somebody's cup of tea. More than a couple people's cup of tea.

And it has allowed me to be in my body and be, and mind you, I am never going to get rid of the negative self-talk. And because of the fact that I know I'm never getting rid of the negative self-talk, I try not to let that intrude too much. But I also realized that when I walk into a party, I'm confident. I am proud to be there. I'm proud to be with my husband and my husband is fucking eager to watch me play. And people are eager to play with me.

And that in and of itself is a huge gift because a lot of times women, especially women who don't fit the front page supermodel standard of every magazine we've ever seen, it is nice to know that we don't have to hide in the corner, that we don't have to shroud ourselves. We can take up as much space as we want to. Fucking A, baby. I take up a king size bed every time I go to a party. And I fucking mess that shit up every time. Because you know what? I have every right to be there. And nobody looks down on me for trying to be there.

And nobody thinks that I'm taking up too much space while I'm there. And that is a gift that this lifestyle has fucking given me. It's given me the ability to just stand in my body in the full light and say, this is who I am. And I'm okay with it, like it or leave it, whatever. Because it's such a fucking gift, and I cannot stress it enough. If you are looking at the lifestyle, and you are looking at the possibility of being part of this, but you're too afraid, but you are not sure if you're going to, or if someone is ghosting you, has ghosted you, or none of that fucking matters.

Because here's the thing. I dwell in the safety of the fact that my husband loves me. And when I come home at night and I sleep in his bed, he loves me. And he is proud of me and he accepts me in all of my flaws. And that is such a fucking gift. And when I go out there and I, and one of the things that I will say flat out is that the reason that my husband and I do parties is because we were tired of trying to, it was a little bit heartbreaking to get men to try to pay attention to me for longer than a quick, sexy chat. And going to parties eliminated so much of that for me.

And it allowed me to meet wonderful people who I would then basically bring into my stable. So I am more than happy with what the lifestyle has brought me. I'm more than delighted with what the lifestyle has given me. I am beyond ecstatic about the relationship that my husband and I have developed by communicating deeply and intensely over the lifestyle and how that has bled into our everyday life.

I am very, very glad that I have an audience who wants to hear the sexy details of what happened the night before and I'm grateful to all of you who do listen who take the time and I really hope that we can. Thank you for joining me today on the pineapple pin up the hot wife life podcast. if you would like to reach out to me, you can hit me up on my email at pineapplepinuppod at gmail.com. You can also reach out to me on all of my socials, which are listed in my show description. More to come, I hope, actually. So keep an eye on that.