Spicy date

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welcome to the pineapple pinup the hot wife life podcast on today's podcast i'm going to talk to you about my date with the first guy who ever threw me a gangbang. And then the second one, and then I'm going to have my husband tell you about the things that we've encountered that have been kind of fails in this. I have a couple of listeners who wrote in about Cuck Cleanup, which is so exciting. And then I'm going to give you a toy review from our new friends over at privateadventures.net. Stay tuned for that. And of course, all the links are in the show description for today.

and pineapple pinup 10 If you want to support the privateadventures.net and to the podcast. It is funny how when you have known somebody for a while but you have lost touch with them a little bit how things change um but then everything kind of falls right back into the pattern It falls right back into that shared history. I know I have a big, a big thing for her history versus mystery, and it's true. I really do. I think that that's a great way to describe what it is when you go for something familiar versus something exotic and new.

So I had invited a friend, a gentleman who had actually facilitated my very first gangbang. I had invited him over this weekend. Um, well, by the time this airs, it'll be a couple of weekends ago. Um, I had invited him over because I had a rare weekend with nothing planned. I had no one coming to my house. I had no one going, like we didn't have to go anywhere. We didn't have to do anything. And for legit reasons, for legit items, we got to spend the day working on just our house and us and chilling out and recharging.

So because of the fact that I have this rare, um, weekend at home, my husband decided he wanted to stack dates like cups. Um, he was like, why don't we just invite a few of our friends over and see what happens? Well, what ended up happening is I got two dates that weekend and then one got a brain check. But the one that came over, I had, like I said, he had done, he had facilitated my very first gangbang. And because of that, because of that shared past, he and I have actually played together many, many times and he has a tendency towards more dirty talk.

He has a tendency towards being a little bit more aggressive and I'm not going to lie to you, I love it. I love it. I think that that is very hot. And the way that he basically takes control of my body and its positioning and how I'm going to go and what he's going to do is something that really speaks to a piece of me. It really speaks to that piece of me that's eager to try BDSM, that's eager to look at BDSM as of something viable. My problem middle having a real disconnect between the scening and the playing. So I'm not entirely sure. For some reason, in my brain, they were connected.

And in reality, I have not found them to be. So I am probably completely off base. But it is something that I have looked for less than because of this whole hot wifing experience. So back to my date. He came over and we chatted for a little while and my husband and I are huge fans of sharing our time with people and creating memories and content and all of that stuff. And we are very, very respectful of people's desire to, you know, people's consent. And he was fine being filmed as long as he could wear a mask, which was absolutely fine with us because that's great.

Um, he and I played for an hour and a half. He destroyed my bed. there were not enough towels um handle the lake that he created. And he and I just found that click, found that place that when you are truly striving for that connection to your history, people who understand your body, um, he really did just lock in and understand what it was that my body needed and he kept me going.

Now something that has been happening as of late is that people are allowing me to use my wand during our playtimes which I don't know if that's a dangerous precedent or not, because my wand tends to become a crutch for me. It tends to become something where I am so greedy that I don't want to feel the build. I don't want to, I want to just go straight to. The problem is, is that my wand actually does a different kind of build. It doesn't work. It's not just automatic, but what it does is it's creating this energy within my nerves that is, I can literally feel it build. I can feel it grow.

And when something distracts it, or sometimes something gets hit at just the right, the wrong angle, and, um, it ends up that my nerve endings kind of like short circuit for a second. Um, I can feel it go away and it's so frustrating. So I'm not, because I can't always tell, I can't always feel the build when I am, when I'm not using the wand. I can't always be like, sometimes it just, it's on me and I don't know where it fucking came from. The fact is, is that when you are engaging your G-spot more and more, um, your G-spot tends to rule all and it tends to be the water work and the show.

And sometimes those orgasms that I'm having aren't pinnacles. They're not actually like high rises. But when When I use my wand, I find the high rises. I can come multiple times in a row when you've stimulated both my G-spot and my clit. It is like Bellagio's fountain. You could set it to music. It is just constant going with a gush, gush here and a gush, gush there. It's very, I call it the five minute orgasm because that's what it feels like.

It keeps going and keeps going and I can't shut the waterworks down and I can't do anything but live in this moment when I am the embodiment of an orgasm. That's all that I am. I have lost muscle control. like I am literally just a locked in to my own self kind of, um, but with him, we had to play in such a way that, um, we were cutting off the recordings when we were taking breaks and we were turning them back on. And it was very interesting to me because he never called a halt, but never, but like a couple of times I thought that we were calling a halt.

I was, it was a little bit, there wasn't a lot of verbal communication as to what we were doing outside of the sex. Like I had moments where I was like, are we done? What's, what's okay. Am I getting up? What's, what are we doing? And, um, it ended up being, uh, actually quite a long session and it was a lot of fun. And we spent, he ruined my bed, like ruined it. My towel was useless. We pulled the towel back and there was still a puddle. I was like, what are we doing here?

But of course, when I have a shirt that literally says morning, I make puddles because I do, it is not like, it is not like a minor, it's not like a minor flow of water. It is not like, and what's like, I don't know. I am baffled by it many, many times. And it is so much fun to try to figure out what my body is actually doing but at the same time that's how this shit goes. Our bodies are, no matter how well we know them, they're still mysteries because we have no idea what's going on below the surface many, many times. So, um, it was very exciting to be in that weekend of play and connection.

And it was a really, really great time. Um, and he was obviously my first victim and I really, really had a great time with him. What are the things that you have found to be not as good as you expected them to be trying not to have dead air um i i have found any of it actually off-putting. When we first started figuring out the way we do things, there were some rough times with flakes and fakes. Yeah, like, there was some tough times with that, but it was just us learning our own game. Absolutely.

I mean, you had your first single first single you know by yourself date that kind of kicked it off which started from a session in the spa right um i said i can make it happen you know and i was talking about the fantasy and you saying i can really make it happen and and you did um it went from that and we we played down at the glory holes and they uh and that became very i mean that was a thing but then we evolved into we didn't like it that much right but but that was the first time you had somebody somebody actually penetrate you in front of me which we were very concerned about right as a as a myself individually was very concerned about this has all been very scary but just more of i don't give a fuck i'm gonna try it right i'm tired of holding back but it was very scary i mean for any guys that have are sitting there now like what if i you know what if i think negatively of her after and you know okay great it was sexy but what if i don't feel good about being with this person after for us it worked but but it's definitely a real thing it's definitely a feeling but we wouldn't experience it and it was amazing um i think that's a phenomenal way to kind of break the ice is that type of glory hole situation absolutely because it shows it starts it started off very just my mouth very much just absolutely he watched me give blowjobs for it was like through the glory holes we did that like two trips two times and then the third trip and then that was the theater and we went on the couch and and i used toy on you in front of um a room full of people absolutely and they were uh that was like i've never seen it was like literally walking dead coming up to us with set with cocks out like oh, touch me.

It was kind of creepy. Yeah. But we, you know, we had figured out what ours was. So it went through that phase. And I think on that same trip, we then went to the Glory Holes. And that was, I think. There's that room in the back of the theater that we went to. Yeah, well, that was, yeah, that was after. So we went to the Glory Holes.

And the and the glory holes there was a lot of gay activity happening um so they weren't really interested in you they were hoping that i was more ready to play um and so then we went back into the theater um and that was when the the poor little man um but he knew that we were going he had messaged us because we had put it out there that we were going so i think it's very important especially if you're doing something like a glory hole considering the type of crowd they usually get yes bring your own bring your own toys bring your own accompany bring your own guys because that the a lot of the glory hole is is male male um and it's kind of the you don't know what's on the other side right Thank you.

because that the a lot of the glory hole is is male male um and it's kind of the the you don't know what's on the other side right kind of at least you can fake yourself and um and it's honestly because there's not a lot of women that are um that are into that and on a just a random wednesday evening right um but that's fine i mean to each everyone's own it was a very sexually charged area but but the uh like we had a couple different and if you remember that the guy in the back of the theater room the where the first time you actually had sex as we had hoped we were having sex a couple times in the private rooms in the glory hole area and it didn't work one one gave you oral um and one you gave oral um the uh and it was amazing and it was a next level thing but actual uh you know talk in vagina penetration that that didn't happen until that last time um and then we didn't go back again because we had such a the glory hole thing was was kind of off put it yeah the rest of the freaking knives couldn't get anyone yeah there was no cop coming there was no coming and so when we went back to the theater that's where the straight guys were apparently and we went in these little back rooms that were so dark you didn't see anything um but but that kind of added to it exactly um we were you know we were there so but it's gone all the way like from that progression and then we learned okay well we didn't enjoy that we went to private meets um which given a choice i would tell everybody don't do private meets to start off until you get your game a little better exactly i would go to parties but but that's just worked for us and the reason that parties worked for us is because of the fact that it was a target rich environment everybody knew what they were there for yeah And we were able to, from from that find people who were very interested in actually meeting yes very much they they um and i think it was very i'm not i'm on your side but to have people that were straight up into you where there was not even a question mark that sex together wasn't going to work absolutely it was on the table um and we just i don't know maybe we're just too old we just were like we don't have time for dating like like fuck that and And we're weird because there's a lot of people that are like how could you you know how good and because i don't need it i don't need romance and yeah i need safety um comfort and that's why we adapted it's we may be missing out on people but it works really well for us in our area hotel parties literally happen every weekend and we found a party promoter that goes every other weekend so we're literally meeting 20 guys that all are at least interested in in what we're into um and then we if we find one that is actually you know that that is at least somewhat intriguing we go and and we book another one um and private meets and and meeting even any any like our full-time bowl um it's been through we tell people straight up we don't meet one-on-one and that's what our adaptation has been and it's been awesome i i cannot say enough how much the parties um okay so i'm going to say something from my standpoint when you are a bbw when you are a big woman there are a lot of fears that you're not going to be what they're looking for when they finally show up so when we go to these parties and these men prove that they are attracted and want to play It makes it so much easier to be comfortable in my own skin yeah and that's how actually that's why the parties worked in the beginning for me so well is because of the fact that i really felt safe in my attractiveness because there's always that I mean, you're a woman and you grow up with a Barbie doll and you know what women are supposed to look like.

And that doesn't actually translate to the real world, but it kind of, you feel like it's translated to the world one way or the other. So, and that the parties being able to give me access to people who were interested in fucking me and then they did fuck me and some of them were fucking awesome at it. It gave me the opportunity to say, Hey, let's see if we can't set something up with them and put it in a more casual, like in a more intimate setting, a more less people, more details.

details it's the the one-on-ones are where the filming comes from and uh and our you know all that and all that evolves from um but it's based on just having comfort if you're if you're not comfortable if you're not comfortable it's gonna suck absolutely um but you know you're also really not good at slow down it's not your thing so parties are real good for that as well because usually they say we're going to give the directions or the instructions at eight and by 802 you're naked and so you know that's kind of worked for you as well i'm on a mission we have little time we're older we want to go home i need to get fucked and food and home and that's that's our quest for those evenings at the party absolutely and then sucked again again exactly yes we're getting ready for our party now so we should go we should go well thank you for having me thank for coming on.

I really appreciate it. So I got a response from a listener when I had, they were listening to the Cuck, Cuck cleanup, um, pod and he responded with an answer to my question. I just listened to your cleanup podcast and I'm hoping to share my side of the desire of wanting to clean up my wife.

I can't talk for everyone as I do like cum, especially my own, but these are my points that make clean, make me clean up clean up my wife I'm a lover of pleasure seeing my wife's pleasure is the ultimate the first time I ate my wife's cream pie from her bowl was after talking to my wife about how much I would love to feel me using his cum as lube though after watching them go at it and him coming in her I was about to have my turn but she thought she thought she needed pleasure too. And in the spare of the moment, I just dived down and started eating her.

After a little, I started using my fingers to pull his cum out as I licked and making her cum and then licking up both of their juices. They were both absolutely shocked by me, but my wife liked it and I didn't mind. Though later she asked me if I may be bi, which brought up heaps of emotion and questioning within me. As I said, I love giving, seeing, hearing, and also receiving pleasure, but came to realize I'm straight. Some may call bi curious, but no, in the heat of the moment, I may get close to the bi line or maybe even cross it. I love kissing my wife after she's given a guy head.

When they've been going at it and he comes out of her, I won't hesitate to grab it and guide it back in. One time my wife, particularly wet, and her juices were all over his cock after riding him. She told me to clean her juices off his cock, which I did, and then followed by licking her pussy to prepare her for doggy. I also love cum kissing, though I've only done it with my cum. I also like licking my cum off of my wife if I finish on her tits or body or arse. To be honest, my ultimate fantasy is to watch my wife with two or three guys.

When they finished, one would have to finish in her, the others on her chest, face. I would reclaim her by going down on her and then she would ride me while I lick her tits and kiss and lick her cum covered face. So back to your question. I believe the passion for cleaning up a hot wife is down to two reasons. One, pleasure and two, making a statement that she is yours and knowing that your bond is stronger than theirs. And I would have to agree. I mean, that's a lot of the same reasoning behind my husband and how he cleans up after a bull. It is 100% about me and my pleasure.

And it is him taking that pleasure to the next level, that mental hurdle that most, most of the time we all have to get over. Now I did have another, um, listener reach out to me about the exact same thing, and he gave me some great insight from an evolutionary standpoint. So based on cleanup podcast, you're wondering why men were into the cleanup of the kink so much. I think I have an answer in the realm of evolutionary biology.

This is theorized, and I believe there's some evidence to support the notion that the penis gland serves the function of pulling semen out of the vaginal canal during coitus. This occurs before the copulating male emits his semen. Thus, evolution has selected for penis morphology that it does a better job at this function. Thus being the fittest and best shape penis heads clean out more of the competing semen. In other words, the fittest penis heads are more likely to have reproductive success.

I hypothesize that we have the same sort of thing happening with men who are driven to clean out the female's vagina before inserting their semen. Men who like to suck, swallow, and otherwise remove competing male semen from a woman are going to have an evolutionary advantage in reproduction. Thus, the drive to eat cream pie genes will be favored and passed on. Of course, this does not happen every time. Fit selection is often about tipping the odds just a bit. And of course, we make our own deliberate choices about egg fertilization these days.

But in the history of man in the past centuries and millennia, it was the best scraping penises and the men who love to eat cream pies that got us to where we are today. Men who love to eat and destroy another man's cum have won the current round in the game of evolution. I guess you could say that cream pie eating is masculine, is a masculine real man sort of trait. so that is a couple of different um it, it was, it was mind blowing that I got to on the exact same subject because it very much is something that has that evolutionary drive feel to it, doesn't it?

It's something that would make you the most likely to produce if you are destroying the other male's seed, the other male's deposits. It's that to me, I'm sorry, I'm going to geek out a little bit here because this is very much the kind of thing And I'll see you next time. um, deposits. It's that to me, I'm sorry, I'm going to geek out a little bit here because this is very much the kind of thing that I love to wrap my little brain around. I love to wrap my head around how we have gotten to this space in our evolution.

And this is not, this is just proof that monogamy has never been the, the most accurate evolutionary choice. If this is something that has evolved and is something that is sitting within men who want to reclaim their woman, this is probably because of that you don't know where, like you don't know which seed is in there. So in order to be the one that produces an offspring, you'd need to have some evolutionary traits that would make you more successful in that realm. And by making yourself more successful in that realm, you are destroying the competition in the moment.

Monogamy is not something that has been around forever. Okay. Monogamy is something that has evolved with our myths. Okay. It is evolved with our religions. It has evolved with, it has evolved with our societies. It is not something that is natural born to the animal kingdom. And as base as we are, we are animals. Okay. We are animals in our amygdalas and how we have come to be. So this is something that I think is kind of so interesting, don't you? I mean, sorry, I'm going full geek here. Because when you think about how our society has evolved, how it has come from, like, literally tribes.

And when, like literally tribes. And when like, it's, it's just, it's, I'm sorry. I'm going entirely too far down this rabbit hole, but it is so interesting to think about how the evolution of man has come down to those that have been willing to do I'll see you next time. to think about how the evolution of man has come down to those that have been willing to do the cleanup, the ones who have been fighting to make sure that their seed is dominant, their seed is alpha their seed is implanted.

Um, and I think our myths evolved to make that easier for the, for men who weren't into that, to be able to also create or procreate.

I am going to deep dive on this probably on my own time and not really bother you with my evolutionary studies, but I think that this is a couple pieces of the puzzle that I really appreciate that you guys are giving me feedback, giving me information that I can share with my listeners and kind of produce more, um, thought provoking ideas because evolutionarily, if that is what we are into, if that is, is how we are preventing or ensuring that it is the right seed that gets to the egg, I love it. I think that that is a perfect understanding, a perfect foil for how the cock mindset works.

It's not about monogamy. It's about being the one who comes in and takes it all, takes it all back. The one who is strong enough to remove all the other seed and reclaim that as your female. I love it. I think personally, I think that is so incredibly, it's all about the base parts of our brain working to create the best pleasure and the best momentum for our kinks. I mean, I just, I love it. Today, we're going to try something new. I'm going to try something new. I'm going to give you a product review from a purchase that I made from Podfriend Private Adventures.

I'm going to put a link to their website in my show description for today, as well as a link to the actual toy that I'm going to tell you about. And today we're going to talk about the Bora Rabbit Tapping G-Spot Vibrator. So this is a typical rabbit with the shaft and the bunny ears that, you know, tickle the clit. Purple, it's got silicone, you know, the whole deal. What makes this rabbit interesting and different is that it's got a, basically a little piece inside the shaft that waves back and forth and does percussive tapping to your G-spot.

And you can change the, obviously just like the vibrator, you can change the speed, you can change the rhythm, you can do all of that with the button controls. The button controls are actually fairly easy to use. There's a central on button and then the lower button is for the clit vibrator, and the upper button is for the G-Spot Tapper. This is very smooth entry, very sleek design. It's designed to be very, very comfortable inside your body. It's sleek and smooth.

And then the tapper is a very, very cool feature for women who are either trying to train their G-spot or are trying to stimulate their G-spot during self-pleasure. It is less powerful than I'm probably used to, but that's something that is probably not going to be adjustable for, like, there's no way that you get the kind of pressure that I'm obviously used to on that but it is something that does create opportunity um it is an interesting interesting toy and it is something that if you are not used to your g-spot being stimulated, that this could be enlightening, eye-opening.

It could be very, very educational. This is something that gives you the right angles and the right adjustments for exploring this area of the body that's not really super GPS friendly. It is something that especially if a woman has never found her own G-spot, that would be very, very helpful for that. It is interesting. And it is, I wouldn't say it's, for me, it's not mind blowing, but at the same time, I have a lot of G-spot experience. So for me, it's just, I'm looking for the deep, deep like stimulation, as you can tell from all of my descriptions of the hook. But it is a great toy.

It is fun and it is fun to use with another person. I used it with my husband and it was a little, it was teasy. It was, it was very, um, it was, it was very, I don't even know how to describe it. I'm sorry. This is not going very well for me. It was very stimulating mentally to play with this with my husband. It was more about the options and it was more about the teas. It was very, very delicious with my husband. The power cord is really super easy to attach.

It comes with a USB charge that has a magnetic latch to the bottom of the toy, so there's actually no openings in the toy for like water or lube or anything to get in there and kind of mess with the mechanics. So it's all very sleek and neat. Um, the, it's hard, smooth, and it's, it's really lovely to hold. Really lovely to feel the varying speeds on the G-spot, because there's varying speeds that go, and then there's rhythmic ones where it's like, I'll see you next time.

There's speed, and then there's rhythmic ones where it's like, so it's very interesting in that it can rearrange your, it can rearrange how your G-spot is being stimulated and it can, and you can alter it during the play really easily. And so since you can alter it and you, it can help you find the right rhythm for the moment. Um, the clit stimulator also has the same, um, it's got the power levels of straight vibration, and then it also has the rhythmic alterations in the vibration. It is a beautiful toy. It's such a pretty purple.

It is a great gift if you're trying to provoke someone's G-spot to get somebody to feel their G-sp a little bit more, to stimulate it just enough to make it come to the party, if you will. It's a good precursor toy to start the evening and then get your G spot woke up enough that it can be front and center, as I like to say, front and center, 100% part of my play. I don't know if I could use it just as a solo act. I don't know that it would be enough to get me all the way to where I'm trying to go. For me, it's more of an appetizer than a main course.

But if you are training your G-spot, this might be a good start, especially. Anyway, check it out over at Private Adventures. And like I said, check out the link in my description. So take a trip over to privateadventures.net and check out their products. It's a fun place to go and take a look. It's got all sorts of toys for all sorts of adventures that you want to have. If you want to support, when, during checkout, put pineapple pinup 10 in the, um, promo code box or something, and it will let them know that, that I sent you. Um, thank you so much for, first of all, listening.

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