Snatching souls party

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welcome to the pineapple pinup the hot wife life podcast on's podcast, I talk about the soul-snatching event we had on Saturday. Any party day for me starts with a to-do list. There are so many things that I have to make sure are on point so that I will feel comfortable to play. My comfort level is very, very important because if I'm uncomfortable, I'm definitely not going to play. I'm not going to play as well. I'm not going to play as eagerly. I'm not going to be who I want to be at these parties. Okay. So my to-do list starts with, uh, how long ago was it that my hair got done?

How long ago was it that I had a wax? Um, I have to go to the nail salon and either get my feet and my hands done or just my feet done. I have to go to, um, I have to stagger my eating so that I am not hungry, but also not just ate before I got there. Um, and probably the most important thing that I have to do before any party is hydrate. Um, hydration is so important that my husband actually at before the last, before this party that we had gave me a list of the fluids I was supposed to intake. It was a glass of orange juice, three full Stanley cups of water, all before the party started.

So I had hours to do it and, um, it didn't quite make it, but I had supplemented with other things. Like for example, I had the orange juice and I drank a cup of coffee and then I had one Stanley full of water, but then I had to go to the nail salon and nail salon ended up taking me so freaking long that I didn't, that I was only partway through the second one. So after the nail salon, I got home and then I had to go and take a bath and get everything else all prepped up.

Um, make sure that I had shaved my legs, make sure that, you know, everything was the way I want it to be before I go to a party. This is me. This is about making me feel comfortable in my own skin so that I am not crazy. So I'm not in my head. So I'm not self-conscious. Um, because the one place that you don't want to live in a fun atmosphere is right inside your own head.

Listening to all the doubts about everything that you have going on you just that's not where you want to live you want to make sure that you have quelled as many voices as you can before you get into that room and the reason that I say that is because it doesn't matter how fucking confident you are. It doesn't matter how wonderful and brilliant and beautiful you are or handsome or when you're in that room, you have to be present in the room and not inside your head where your head can talk to you about all of the flaws it finds within you, especially in comparison to everyone else.

It is one of the things that I myself have worked very hard to make sure that when I am stepping into that room, I'm at my most confident. And when I'm in those rooms, I am very confident. I am very in the moment, take charge, do what I went there to do. I'm in that space. and I am usually feeling really good about being in that space. And I'm not thinking about, you know, the fact that when I got into the bathtub, my toenails got screwed up. Um, I'm not thinking about when I, you know, I'm not thinking about all the other things that I could possibly be thinking about.

I'm in that moment, in that eight, in that space, just being present, which is the gift, really. The fact that I am not overthinking every little thing I say, and I am not overthinking every little movement I make, because believe me, I, that is what I would do if there were videos of this, of whatever it was I was doing. I would overthink it. I would seriously put it in my brain and it would ruin everything for me. It would literally make it so that it was incapable of being part of the moment.

And that's not, that doesn't have anything to do with anything other than the fact that that's the human condition. Anxiety, overthinking, regrets, it's all part and parcel of being a human. And when I allow myself to just be present in the room and not think and not dwell and not ruminate. It makes it so that I have such a much better time. That is why, and believe me, there have been moments, there have been moments when I'm like, oh my gosh, I hope my leg's not too stumbling. And it takes me out of the moment and makes me not present with the person who is who I'm playing with.

And that's not fair to that person. And it's not fair to me. And it's not fair to, you know, put that rumination or idea of ruminating, because I'll be honest with you, it usually doesn't happen when I am at a party, but it sometimes does happen when I'm with like a bull and I am really, um, kind of freaked out a little bit when that happens. Like I can't let it overwhelm me. That's one of the things that as a human, I'm trying to overcome and not allow it to intrude because when it does intrude, it takes me a beat to bring myself back to the pleasure.

It takes me a beat to find my center back in the present. And all of that to say that when you are in these situations, in these rooms, experiencing this type of interaction and play. The place you need to be mentally is in that room, which is why my to-do list is so very fucking long. My to-do list gets longer every fucking party. Um, I have to make sure X, Y, and Z is taken care of. I have to make sure that I got makeup. I got to make sure that, and my outfit choice has to be on point. It has to be, um, on, on brand with the party atmosphere.

There's so many things that I end up checklisting that it becomes kind of a, it becomes its own anticipation. And that's something that my husband and I are trying to explore more. I'm trying to get out of the checking things off the to-do list and into the anticipation more. Um, my husband lives in the anticipation, but also his to-do list before a party is so much smaller than mine. And he doesn't have any problem being present in the moment when things are happening.

So this is really an exercise for me to become more anticipatory of the adventure, more playful for the upcoming thing, for the upcoming party or the upcoming interaction. This is me taking the time to get more in the moment, more, um, this has been taking the time to actually spend time in the anticipation in the build-up in the pre-climax in the like all of things. That is really where I am trying to find myself. We had a party over the weekend. It was a soul-snatching gangbang event. Thank you. We had a party over the weekend. It was a soul-snatching gangbang event.

It was entitled such because there's something really awesome about making a man come in situations like that. They don't necessarily want to, but sometimes they just can't help themselves. And when you take it from a man like that, when you make a man come like that, it really does look like you've snatched their soul from their body. So that was the premise behind the party that we were having this weekend. We made some epic mistakes. We also made some weirdly workable blunders. Um, we decided to have the party a week before.

Um, it was something where we were discussing, um, what we wanted to do since we had missed out on the hotel takeover parties and we'd just gone to a couple of local things. And I kind of like one of the things that Thank you. And we'd just gone to a couple of local things.

And I kind of like one of the things that is really difficult is as you move through kink life and you go or are invited to more and more parties and more and more events, and you are more and more part of the lifestyle scene, it gets harder and harder to decide where you're going to go, what you're going to do for the weekend, because you get invited to so many things and you don't want to step on anybody's toes by throwing a party on the same night that they're throwing a party because a lot of your social circle is the same and you're probably going to draw some of their crowd away.

So there's some politicking that goes along with doing parties and being in the lifestyle. And we are having a conundrum about this coming weekend because there are two different parties that we would like to attend. And it's, you know, it's, it's a lot. It's a, it's a lot because you have to make choices and you have to decide what you're going to do and all that good stuff. So we decided to have this party kind of on a whim. We didn't do a lot of advertising, but in our sphere, you kind of don't really need to do a lot of advertising.

We had within an hour of putting it up over 20 requests to come. It was a lot of negotiating with my husband, a lot of talking through who should, like how much room will we have? And the party evolved as the week went on because we got women who wanted to come and those women, um, if they were playing would need places to play. So it changed the dynamic of the hotel room that we were looking at.

So what ended up happening, instead of getting the normal room we would have gotten, we got adjoining rooms with queen beds in each, like two queen beds in each, because we were expecting three other women to show up. Now we sent out the invites. We did all the stuff, we sent all the information about, you know, where to be, and then we arrived at the hotel. Now, there are very few things that can go wrong with room placement. Because most of the time, you get a room and it's like, whatever, and then everybody Thank you. can go wrong with room placement.

Um, cause most of the time you, you get a room and it's like, whatever. And then everybody just kind of shows up there and ta-da. Um, the one thing you kind of don't want to announce to the hotel staff is that you're having a party. You don't want it to be necessarily known. Um the adjoining rooms that we got were within eyeline of the front desk. Anybody standing at the front desk, anybody working at the front desk was going to be able to see any and everybody who walked into that room.

So my husband quickly pivoted and started sending out messages that maybe this wasn't the best hotel room to be having the party in and that we would completely understand if anybody wanted to not come. Um, but we had probably 10 people tell us, Oh no, I'm on my way because my husband basically said, my wife will still be here. My wife will still be playing. It was a really good time. It was a really good, basically where we were, it was the door had a complete shot into the room. Anything going on in the room was going to be completely noticeable if you opened the door.

Now we did have a joining room. So there was one room that we kind of used for play. And then one room that we kind of used as just staging where everybody kind of just lounge around, but there was really no place to lounge around because there were two chairs in the room. One was like an armchair and the other was like a desk chair. And so there were two chairs in each room and then there were two beds in each room and there was really no place to sit and just hang out because it was all just right there. They were not great rooms for what we were attempting to do.

So we, um, we had somebody arrive 15 minutes early. Now this was John number one and John number one, he was very eager to play, very eager, um, a bit touchy feely. And I'm like, we do the first part of any party as like, we have to wait for everybody to arrive so we can kind of go over the rules so that we can all be on the same page. And that's just time to socialize But I'm super not great at socializing I have gotten to some sort of point in my life where I'm not real great at small talk And I'm great at chatting, but I'm not great at small talk.

So, um, it was very interesting because John number one and I had a mutual, um, connection to a mutual connection professionally. Like we, we had a common field that we both worked in and it was, it was about 30 minutes of talking about work, which is to my husband, basically the least sexy talk you can have. And it wasn't really building the atmosphere, but it was giving us something to distract from the awkwardness of the fact that we weren't ready to play. And, you know, we just needed to kill some time. So that ended up working out pretty well.

But John number two showed up really close to right on time. And by about, um, so the party was supposed to start at 630, everybody arriving slowly. And then by seven, I was so bored. I was like, okay, these are the rules. And then I got down to business with John and John. It started with John number one behind me and while I was on my hands and knees. And John number two was laying down in front of me. So I was giving John number two a blow job while John number one was figuring everything out.

But John number one was figuring everything out digitally and, um, orally sort of mapping the terrain, if you will. He was really priming everything to get started. And it was really, it was really great that he did that because the, I'll get to why that was such a great thing in a bit. Um, so John number one is working away at the lower half and John number two is being very aggressive. He's doing a lot of pushing my, pushing my head. He's doing a lot of groping and pinching. Um, he's doing a lot of very dominant things.

At one point he put his hand around my throat and choked me a little bit. It was all, I mean, right there in my wheelhouse, don't get me wrong, but it was a little bit, I've never really spoken to this man before and he's got his hands around my throat. It was a little on the tipping point between sexy and serial killer. And I'm joking. I'm joking 100%. It was actually really, it was fine, but it took me a minute to get my brain into the vibe of what he was trying to do because I was unaware that it was coming.

I was unaware that that was his proclivity and I was unaware that that was something that he was going to engage in with me, a literal stranger. So for me, it took a minute to click into the sexiness of it. It took a second for me to realize that this wasn't, I'm still in a safe place. I'm still doing, and this is, while this is a stranger, I'm okay. So it just, that was, it threw me off my game for a little bit. Um, but it ended up working out great. And then John number one and John number two switched places. And while they were switching places, um, uh, Q showed up.

So did Jay and Kobe and Kelo. So all of a sudden there's a lot of men there. There's a lot of, and there's a lot going on. I have a cock in each hand. I have, I am, you know, getting fucked by X, Y, and Z. And at certain points, like I have to rotate. I have to flip like a fucking pancake because if you're on your knees for too long, it starts to wear out your elbows and your shoulders. So you have to flip over. And for some reason, I was really feeling the pillow princess vibe. There was something about the cocks in my face from above allowing me, you know, to use my hands.

Um, and just the positioning of my lower body was making it so that I was able to come a lot. And I, John number two is, has taken over and I decide that it is, I'm, I'm getting close. And so I take one of my hands and I use it to stimulate my clit. And in so doing, I set off an orgasm And I said to John to pull out. And when he did, he pulled out at exactly the right moment for his dick to become the catalyst for the fountain. And he ended up super soaking my hand, my arm, my thigh, my face, and part of the wall. Yes, it was his fault because I don't do that when I'm by myself. Okay.

And no matter how many times I tried to use that excuse, nobody's buying it. It's always my fault. Whatever. So anyway, Okay. So then like now it's just going to be rotation. I think the next person to step up to the plate is going to be Kilo. I have, and Jay's there and then Kevin shows up and Kevin's like, hey, my husband told you, your husband told me to tell you that I'm Kevin. And I'm like, hi, Kevin. I'm, and so I ended up giving Kevin a blow job. And then while I'm giving, like I'm giving two blow slash handjobs I'm being fucked.

And it is occasionally I'm going to have to let go of a dick so that I can manipulate the clit. And so it's kind of like this constant ever-changing rotation of where I'm stimulating and who I'm stimulating. It was for a very long time, just me. And I think it ended up being nine guys. Hold on. I'm Hold, bear with me. John one, John two. Yeah. Um, Yeah. Okay. I guess it must've been like nine guys. Okay. So it's me and nine guys for a very long time at this party. But later in the evening, my new friend A shows up and A is awesome. I cannot tell you how awesome she is.

She is cute and funny and she and I have a lot in common, uh, geographically. We actually come from kind of the same place back in Cali and she and I kind of are very close geographically now. So we're just always just kind of very close to one another. So I ended up talking to her when she finally showed up. Like I had literally gone through, like, I mean, okay. So at some point Jeff showed up and Jeff Thank you. Like, I mean, okay. So at some point Jeff showed up and Jeff, um, yum. Um, so like there was no point at which I didn't have every person there stick in my mouth or in my pussy.

It was very, It was a, it was a constantly rotating, but I think the most important thing about this particular party is that everyone needed a poncho. Not one person got out without being in the splash zone. It was epic waterworks. And I'm not talking like this was literally me squirting everywhere. I ruined a bed and two towels and I started on a third. Um, but it just, it like, there was, there was no hope for it. Um, and what's really funny is A and I were talking for a very long time and it kind of brought a lull to the party.

It brought this lull in the momentum and everybody just sort of like kind of sat around and started chatting. A was still dressed and we were talking and we were getting to know one another and we were having a really good time and everybody was contributing to the conversation and we were all kind of just standing around and I'm completely naked. And finally, after a while, I was like, I'm going to put on a robe until we get this thing back into gear. But the nice thing about doing something like that, where you pause in the center where you pause to find, relate, find interesting moments.

Um, the best part about that is that it kind of gave everybody time to just relax and start having fun at the party and tell jokes and tell funny stories and be, and give some experiences of our lives and kind of give everybody a chance to not only get to know each other biblically, but kind of get to know each other traditionally. It was such a great time. It was fun and it was laughter and it was really, really good. and my husband kept floating in and out and he kept looking at me. And I'm like, finally I got up and I went to figure out what it was that he wanted to talk about.

And he wanted me to get the party started again. So A had gone into the bathroom and started removing her accoutrement. And so it was time to get the start party back in motion. And so we did. And she was having fun on her bed and I was having fun on my bed. And then she just, then she made a choice and she said, do you mind if I join you on your bed? And I said, not at all. This was a decision that was made by her in the moment because it does bring a lot of chemistry in that moment, having everybody on the same bed.

It is so much energetic fucking and it is so many body parts and it is so much skin and it is so much. There are two women right there and there are so many men around them. And it's, it's very visually and mentally stimulating for that scenario to be going on. And she and I are touching one another, you know we're connecting and giving each other just a little bit of female energy that brought more to the scenario. And she was sitting up against the headboard when Jeff and I were playing and Jeff does the thing and he made me come so hard that literally I showered her.

I, he Jackson Pollocked the fricking headboard. He like sprayed the pillows. Like we, like we made a mess and like there was nobody safe from, from the spray that night. And it was amazing. And it was really funny because I don't think that A knew what was coming. I don't think A knew that that was something that I did. And because of the fact that that is something that I do, um, I don't know that she was prepared for it the way that the guys were, because the guys had all been kind of part and parcel and they'd all been kind of there.

But I think some of the most interesting things that happened that night were, um, through conversation. I found out that Q was a listener and we had, we had never hooked up at the same parties, despite the fact that he'd gone to parties that I would have been at, had I been in town. So he and I had just constantly been missing one another. And so, but he told me he was a listener and he really enjoyed that. And I'm like, that always blows me away. The fact that people actually listen and that they seek out opportunities to have conversations with me or, you know, more.

Um, that is always very, um, that's incredible to me. So Q and I ended up having just like, like, Oh my God, it was awesome. It was really awesome. And of course he knows Jeff because he's been to many of the same parties that Jeff has been to because Jeff goes to the same kind of parties that I go to. So we're in the same circles. And it was just really funny because we got to talking about when people listen to the show and the fact that I have had many people tell me that I'm going to listen on my way to work.

And I'm always like, that's a really brave move because it, it's going to be a whole day of, of, uh, you know, semi and, uh, you know, awkward moments with that HR might have to get involved. Um, so we actually were talking about that and we were telling jokes about that Jeff actually listened to a couple of the episodes on days that he really shouldn't have. And he's like, yeah, I'll be with you in a minute. Um, but yeah, it was, uh, it was so much fun and the jokes were flying and it was a lot of community and shared experiences. And it was really just freaking awesome.

And as the night was wrapping up and people were heading home, it was just more and more camaraderie. It was more, um, it was more, um, community. I mean, there's really no other way to say it. It went from something that we were expecting to be horrible because the room was just not right for what we were trying to do to being a very intimate and delightful evening with everybody who came having such a fabulous time. I was very impressed with the level of fun that we all had and the variety and the, um, intensity. Um, at one point I did use my ice cream cone.

I have a mini vibe that we call the ice cream cone. I was using the ice cream cone on A while she was playing with a couple of different people and that was a lot of fun. But then my ice cream cone died. So I'm going to have to charge that for the next one. But it was so great to meet this fun and vivacious woman who wanted to play and wanted to be part of it. And it was funny because she was actually the last party I went to where she showed up. Um, and then she was standing by the door and everybody's like, do you want to play? And she was like, um, I just got here, give me a minute.

And then she went into the other room and when she went into the room, everybody sort of migrated that way. So I was like, um, I just got here. Give me a minute. And then she went into the other room. And when she went into the room, everybody sort of migrated that way. So I was like, I'm out. I'm going to go get a sandwich. And she and I talked about that at, um, we talked about that at my party. We talked about the fact that when everybody went that way, It was too much time for me to think about how I was feeling and how I was like, Oh, well, I'm a, I'm a bit peckish.

I think I'll go grab some food. So I basically abandoned her to this room full of people. And they all thought that she was going to play with everybody. And she's not that like that. She's, she won't just play with you because you've arrived. She has like, she wants to play with who she wants to play with. And that's basically the thing. So she is really good people and And I am so incredibly excited that I met her. I'm so excited that she lives close by. I'm very excited to see what kind of friendship we can build.

Because the best part about friendships in the lifestyle is there's none of that competition that you see. Well, actually that's not true because everywhere there's still female competition. It still happens even when there's no need for it. Because I recently had an incident with another lady that I had been kind of, um, friends with that a competition element came in and sort of wrecked it where now she's gone. And I mean, I understand, I understand entirely, um, that some people, it is a competition and some people want people to like them better than they like other people.

I am grateful that I have my husband and that as long as I have my husband, I have that peace fulfilled. So it's not necessarily, but obviously that's not entirely true because I went to a party with, um, and I've told you about that where I went to a party and there was I've told you about that, where I went to a party and there was a lady there and I was absolutely positive that she was going to have everybody with her and then, but it ended up being a great night for me. So I'm learning more and more that while our base instinct is to be competitive, I don't know.

that while our base instinct is to be competitive, it really doesn't need to be. It doesn't need, especially in lifestyle, it doesn't need to have competition. It's one of those things where there's tea everywhere Thank you. have competition. It's one of those things where there's tea everywhere and someone is going to drink all the varieties of tea. There's somebody out there who likes the flavor of tea. So So learning through this particular journey has been crazy cool. thank you so much for joining me today on the Pineapple Pen and Pot Wife Life podcast.

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