Party in the South

Transcript

Welcome to the Pineapple Pinup, the Hot Wave Life podcast. On today's podcast, I'm going to talk about the party that we went to on Saturday. I'm going to talk about some history stuff that comes into play. We went to a party down south, and down south is much easier for us to navigate more miles in the same amount of time. So we were under the impression that this party that we'd been invited to was so very fucking far away that it wasn't going to be worth it for us to go. Turns out though, it's only like 15 minutes longer drive than going to most of the parties that we go to up north.

So we decided to do it and it was a treat. It was a great location.

It was like a vacation rental where there were like these two condos that were connected and it ended up being like four king beds and four bathrooms and two kitchens and two living rooms and there was just plenty of space two patios to the whole deal and it was really great space to have multiple people out there playing and we were invited by the fireman and the fireman is somebody that I have obviously been invited to other parties of his and we've gone and this time I was hoping to play with him because he and I have played outside of the party and oh my god so much fun and I was really hoping that i'd maybe get another shot and didn't happen this time bummer but anyway before the party started i came in and we were talking and he was telling me that he'd been listening to the podcast thank you shout out thank you so much for listening and was telling us was really excited and wanted to share it with the assembled crowd I have made up little business cards that have QR codes that lead you to my various and sundries and it was exciting that he wanted to promote it unfortunately I didn't realize how embarrassing that would be for me to have it promoted right in front of me because he went about it in a this girl we have a famous person here and I'm like I'm not fucking famous like let's calm down like it was very embarrassing and I was a little mortified but it was it was worth it because if I even get one new listener from it worth it I am loving doing this and so that's kind of one of my big things is that it really helps when people get the word out and people tell, you know, and people actually go and listen.

It really helps. And I'm super grateful for anybody who spreads the word, but not the point. So we're at the party and now I'm kind of a little bit embarrassed and I end up talking to several people. Now there were people there that I have been to other parties with, but never gotten the chance to play with. It was amazing how few people at this party I'd actually played with in the past. So it was like a whole new crop, a whole new adventure. The three guys that I ended up playing with that night were all new. Even though we'd had conversations in the past and we'd had flirting in the past.

We never actually got a chance to play, at least two of them. One of them, that night was the first night I'd ever met him, and we ended up playing and it was spectacular. So let's kind of set the scene. I was wearing my blue dress. It's a blue dress that's cut all the way down the center on the front to the waistline and then has absolutely no back. So it's a braless adventure. And then the skirt is real tight and it comes down just above the knee.

It is a blue dress that if you have seen my profile on FetLife you know that dress because it's my profile picture but I was wearing that dress and nothing else because that's how I roll and so we're at the party and you know he reads the rules embarrasses me a little bit does a shout out for the show thank you so much and then now it's time to play and there was a gentleman that the fireman had like brought over specifically because he's like you're gonna love this girl come talk to her and so he and I ended up talking and then once once the rules were read we were like you want to go play and so we ended up going and playing now he was so fun I mean seriously so much fun we're going to call him one of the things that he did was he made me feel incredibly sexy he was so effusive he was he did make it very very clear that he did not want to come he wanted to be able to last the whole night and I was under strict orders not to make him come and so he of course started by warming me up and he did a really fucking good job I mean seriously the hook the clit whole deal, like just warming everything up, making sure everything was online and yum.

So he and I start playing and he puts on the condom and he sinks in for that first time and feels that warm heat clamping around him. And I thought there was a chance that he could lose it right there. He was surrounded and it was insane because he was, I could see it on his face that he was truly awestruck, which is super flattering for the girl, okay? When you're down, when you're laying there and somebody is sliding into you and it is that awestruck moment that the breath catches and the eyes roll back in their head and the incredible pleasure that they feel is evident on their face.

It is hugely complimentary.

Now, mind you, the same thing is happening where it's like, wow, stretching the penetration, the farther, the farther, the more nerve endings they're touching and it's incredible it's that moment is really something that you can't capture in words it's a moment that is really transcendent and he groaned in this way that made it sound like I was tearing his will tearing his desire to stay firm in this decision not to come and it was so incredibly empowering and I was really enjoying it so he but he sank in and then he started to move and it did not take long for me to start to.

It did not take long for me to start the fountain, for me to start pouring liters of water, liters of girl cum all over his balls. Now, we didn't, we brought our play bag for, at least we brought our play bag.

We did, however, forget our waterproof waterproof blanket so I was reliant on these pads these medical pads these medical pee pads to prevent damage to the beds now I don't know if we have been on this journey together long enough for you to understand how wish and a prayer these pee pads are they are here's the hope here's the dream but I don't know that it's gonna work so he and I are playing and I am just gushing and he is just enamored and he keeps saying things like you are so fucking sexy and it is really working for me it is like it is working my brain it is working my body it is like giving me the warm feelies I am coming like forever and he and I are very simpatico in this moment we are very like connected and I could tell that he was really really on the edge of enjoying it too much and so I I looked at him and I said, you want to talk about baseball?

Which made him laugh, which brought him down off the edge.

So we are, the thing is, is that I understand the desire for people not to want to come, not to want to blow everything in the first 10 minutes, because then the rest of the party stretches stretches out like will I or will I not be able to rebound and so I understand that desire and I understand why people and I don't want to ruin the party for the other ladies I want everybody to get a shot at playing with whomever they feel that tingle with so I don't want to take that away from anyone but at the same time girl likes to snatch her some souls you know what I'm saying so after Em and I play I got up and I put on my robe and I went out and I ended up at this corner with Jay who I had met at two other parties and B who I had met at one other one other party.

And we had had, all of us had had, like, I had had chemistry with Jay, undoubtedly. Like, we flirted, we talked, we had, like, mental stimulating conversations. And B was just so much fun. And I did, and I was like, well, let's go play. So I ended up going going in and playing and I don't know if they knew who I was talking to so we all ended up in there and I ended up playing with Jay while I was sucking B and Jay and I were like there was a lot of like really good connection and really like delicious play and he was getting me going and then he decided to tap out and B came in.

B came in like he had something to prove. B came in like he wanted to destroy me and oh my god yes. He fucking made me come buckets and to the point that this silly little pee pad I'm on could not keep up. I destroyed the fucking bed and this is the bed that the hostess of the party was supposed to sleep in that night and I destroyed the fucking bed. Do you have any idea how guilty I felt? That was awful. But at the same time, I did my best. I did everything I could. I put the pee pads down. I did. But this guy was daring me, daring me to come more.

Like playing that card that's you, you know, you've got it in you. You should just give it to me. Give it to me. Give me your come. And I was ready. I was ready, willing, and able. And he's moving me into different positions. And he's like, no, now we're going to fucking go. And there was this one position. And this is a position that I have fantasized about a lot. Okay.

This is a position that you wake up in the morning and you think huh that would be nice so basically i'm laying on my side stomach ish area one leg straight one leg bent face down and then he straddles my straight leg and fucks me from behind that position has been a constant in my spank bank that position has been a thing for me and when he put me in that position and started to fuck me like that. I went nuts. I went like Bellagio Fountain. I was just everywhere. And he is getting soaked and the sound and the just everything is insane. It was so much that he, I ended up snatching his soul.

was really really awesome so after I've ruined the bed and I do my best to clean it up I put towels down I did what I could I picked up the this pad and I threw it away and I swear to you it weighed at least five pounds but I threw it away and like I did my best to clean up after myself it did not work and the hostess was super pissed but sometimes it just that's the shit that happens um i go out and then i'm sitting down and i'm having a conversation i'm talking to and his wife and i'm talking to another couple and i'm talking my husband is there and there's another gentleman there and we're all sitting around talking and my husband's like, you know, when you sit around talking, it kind of gives people the impression that you don't want to play.

And I'm trying to figure out the balance there because I am trying to be more social. I am trying to be more connected. I am trying to work on being open to more in-depth play. Even in these situations, even in these party situations, I am working on being more present with the person who is being a vagina invader. I'm trying very hard to work through the transactional and start creating a little bit more intimacy.

So I don't know the balance yet, obviously, but Marcus, but M and I decided to play again and was still incredibly effusive, still incredibly dialed in on telling me how beautiful he found me, how sexy I was, how incredible I felt, how voluptuous my breasts were, how just he was so like zoned in on seeing me in that moment that it was really fucking hot and I snatched his soul don't tell anybody but I did I got it that was for me and then we laid on the bed for a while afterwards and he just sort of like was petting me on my pussy while I was just and we were just sort of staring at the ceiling chatting.

And it was really kind of nice. It was just this respite, this moment. And then I looked over and my husband and I, my husband was nodding that it's time for us to go and he's putting on his shoes and getting my dress out. So at that point we sort of packed it up and decided to head out, but it was such a good party. I'm really bummed that I didn't get the opportunity to play with the fireman. I did spend a lot of time talking with him and his wife and it was fucking awesome. I love them as a couple. I love them individually. She's fucking hilarious.

And one of the things that my husband is really adamant about is that we need female friendships in the lifestyle. We need male friendships in the lifestyle. We need friendships because there's only a certain number of people that you can talk to about your play.

There's only a certain number of people that you can tell your story to and I am one thing about being down south though is that there the whole place rolls up the sidewalks so fucking early so even if we got out of there at a reasonable time there's no place to stop and get a sandwich because sometimes like when when we leave there, when I leave a party, it's because of the fact that I usually have to go get food or my husband is exhausted and we have to get on the road before he passes out because he can't drive and sleep at the same time, even though he's tried.

So it's one of those things where the South has some drawbacks in that regard as well. So we do our best and we left there. One of the things that my husband and I talk about a lot is friendships in the community. He would like for me to be friendlier. He'd like me to make friends in the community, friends with females, because here's the thing. As we get older, friendship, the more they study friendship, the more they realize that friendship is a huge thing for your health, for your sanity, for your mood, for all of those things. Friendship is a very, very important thing.

And men tend to have fewer friendships than women. So that is one of the things that my husband really wants me to cultivate in the lifestyle. And I want him to cultivate it as well.

I want him to have conversations and be able to talk to people about the things that we are facing as a couple and the things that he himself has, you know, things that he himself can't necessarily, there are certain things that you're, no matter how intimate your relationship is with your partner, there are certain things you have to work out with somebody of the same sex, somebody who understands what it is that you're trying to convey. So that way you can help hone your message in a way that the other sex is going to hear better.

Friendships are vitally important to making sure that we're stabilized in our moods and like we have somebody who we can talk to when things get weird and somebody who might have some perspective that can help us because no matter how much we try no matter how much my husband and I try there's going to be differences in our perspective there's going to be differences in the way that we view activities that are going on and his concerns about how I'm going to take it can be helped by having a conversation with somebody who understands where he's coming from specifically.

So friendships are very, very important and exchanging, you know, conversations and having interests and talking to people is very, very good for the soul. And it's good for the community too. It makes us stronger. It makes us so that when we have meet and greets, we have this, it's more than just, well, yeah, let's fuck. Because no matter how transactional I am, my husband would like me to develop that skill of having a conversation about being able to talk about movies, being able to talk about I'll see you next time.

And my husband would like me to develop that skill of having a conversation about being able to talk about movies, being able to talk about experiences, be able to talk about things that we're interested in outside of just sex. So I know that when we go to these parties and we meet these super interesting people and we have these in-depth conversations that it is so incredibly exhilarating in a way that's not necessarily sexual, but not necessarily not sexual.

So it is one of my big things that I would like to kind of bring to the forefront, that having conversations and having these build-up moments and taking time to find people who are interesting and deciding to talk outside of the party atmosphere is really, really important. It's really, really, it's investing in your mental health. It's investing in your connection to the community. It's investing in everybody. It makes us all a little bit more solid, a little bit more secure.

And I am grateful that my husband is really, has really always pushed for me to talk to the women that are there and create these friendships, create these bonds, because it helps. It helps to have somebody who you can talk to and say, oh my God, because it's hard for my husband to understand some of the things that I go through.

It's hard for my husband to understand some of the things that I go through it's hard for my husband to understand when I say it's embarrassing to make a mess of the bed and have other women have to lay in it it's embarrassing he doesn't understand that because he sees squirting as a sign of good deeds done and women see it as a another wet spot we have to lay down in and when it's not your wet spot it's a difference it's a different scene so having a conversation where the person who's who I'm talking to understands what, what I'm going through from a perspective of how females view something is really nice.

It's really comforting to know that you're not alone out there in the world. And when you have these friendships, when you have these people that you can talk to, it makes things so much fucking better. I am working very hard at creating my network, creating my friendships, because most of my vanilla friendships have gone away since I started doing the podcast and since I stopped working. And there was one particular friend that I had forever who has, we literally had a falling out. So, and she had done her very level best to isolate me from other female friends.

So now that I have, And now that I'm kind of rebuilding my network, kind of rebuilding my bonds in the, throughout the world, it helps. Female friendships are fucking amazing. And male friendships are fucking amazing. And taking the time to actually talk to one another, even as if it's just a fucking text throughout the week, is so fucking worth it. It makes everything a little bit easier to go through.

Knowing that you have somebody who is there to tell you, or talk you down, or help you out, or answer questions, or we've got to start building we got to start making sure that our friendships are that's one thing that this community has really given me hope about it's really given me hope that I have the ability to make friends with interesting people who share interests with me because whether we like it or not the lifestyle for me at least takes up a lot of my free time takes up a lot of my interests I mean I have found a hobby that gives me orgasms it isn't that the best kind of fucking hobby I'm not saying it's the the only hobby I have but it's a very big time suck of my hobby time and I wouldn't have it any other way.

I love it and I love the fact that there are people out there who enjoy the same hobby that I do. Being able to have a conversation about it where nobody's going to walk away clutching their pearls. It's fucking fantastic. Having the ability to talk about fantasies or experiences or all of that with people who understand your language, who understand your atmosphere, is phenomenal. And personally, I am grateful that I am finding that. I'm grateful that I am finding that.

I'm grateful that I am spreading my wings and taking that on in a way that my husband has always encouraged me to, but very rarely do I listen to him the first time he speaks to me. As you've probably heard me say a hundred times on here. It is so incredibly fulfilling to have more in your life than just one person. It's really nice to be able to say something.

And my husband and I have spent a lot of time recently talking about his friendships and the fact that I'd like him to have those friendships and I'd like him to have conversations with people who are not me so that he can so that he can be able to share his thoughts and feelings with somebody other than myself because while he can tell me anything sometimes I don't have the right experience background to be able to help him with the conversation. I don't have the same mental hurdles that he has in the conversation. So it helps. It helps a lot.

And and I like it I like having options and outlets because I don't know friendships as you get older become more unattainable and having a place to find and cultivate friendships is beyond anything because everybody knows you've got your work bestie you've got your school bestie you've got your but at some point when when do you become but the other thing is is that when you become friends with people you have people that you might want to travel with you have people that you might want to go and experience longer events with. You might be able to get everybody going in the same direction.

And it can be a lot of fun to share it with your tribe. So I think that finding friendships in the lifestyle is important for men and for women. And maybe while we're having the conversations, we can start zeroing in on deeper, funner.

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