Pajama party... Those don't stay on long

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welcome to the pineapple pinup the hot wife life podcast on today's episode i'm gonna talk to you about a party that we went to over the weekend. I'm going to, my husband shares his thoughts on pre and post party. And then I'm going to talk to you about how to find events to go to. and then I'm going to give you a little description of the Be Cute Classic and why I think that that is a perfect addition to any playbag, any hoe to go. If you like it, please like, subscribe, and share. And then also check out my show notes for how you can get these things for yourself.

There was a lot of, okay, December is a very busy time of year. It is actually very busy in the lifestyle as well. There's a lot of parties going on because everybody's in a very festive mood. Exotica's in town, which means that there's a lot of parties for the OnlyFans girls to create content. There's a lot going on in all of these realms. And it's very interesting because what ends up happening is the party that we go to at eveninging Endeavors, there is an early vibe and then there's a later vibe. And it was very fun. The early vibe was a little, a little slow.

There were some couples there, but nobody really played. I played with OG and then I was sitting around naked and then I was like, okay. So I put my clothes back on and I went to the other room because hoping that there was more going on over there. There was not. Um, and then, um, somebody actually approached me and did the thing that you're supposed to do. They said, do you want to play? And I said, yes, I do. Because it's kind of the whole reason why I'm here.

My husband was on the couch and we went on the bed, but there was somebody sitting on the bed, having a little chat, having a little talk talk and they were literally sitting on the bed between myself playing and my husband. So his view was kind of obstructed and he was, he didn't start the night off very excited. He didn't start the night off very party vibey. He started the night off a little irritated by a couple of different things that had took place, but he ended up, you know, he ended up powering through and not getting too, too terribly pissed off.

Um, Um, so anyway, I'm playing, I played with OG and of course he did the thing that he does. He gave me some merch and he fucked me for a little while. And the position that he kind of had me in was sort of like pushing my hip out of joint. And so it took a minute for that to recover afterwards, but, um, rally. And then I ended up playing with the new guy who had never really been to a party. He was visiting from out of town and he, and I had a very good time. He, he, I spent a lot of time.

I spent a lot of time, honestly, giving blowjobs because there are times when you go to parties where you, you can suck a dick, but you're not giving a blowjob. Okay. Cause you're distracted by all these other things that are going on. But I legitimately gave blowjobs at this party. And I know that there's, I mean, you stick a dick in your mouth, technically blowjob, but in this particular instance, there is a difference. Like There's a difference between fluffing and giving a meaningful, I am trying to get this down my throat, I am working on focusing on this dick blowjob.

And I was actually giving legitimate blowjobs and I couldn't remember the last time that I had dedicated any time to a blowjob at a party. Now, recently I have been getting back into the blowjob game. I've been giving it a little bit more effort, a little bit less, let's fluff the pillows and a little bit more. Let's suck this dick. And for me, I love giving blowjobs. I really do. I love the internal struggle that goes on between a man and a woman when a woman is, is sucking for all she's worth.

And a man is holding back for everything he's got it is such a conflict of wills and i love that struggle i love it when i hear that noise that that in the back of their throat when they're trying so desperately not to give me the thing that like the biological urge to give me what I want. And they're fighting it with everything they've got. It's a really, it's a really interesting and fun dynamic to play through. And knowing that you have found that spot, that spot that makes their toes curl and makes them really want to give it up, but they won't. I love it.

So anyway, I ended up legitimately giving some pretty great blowjobs at this particular party. There were a couple that I fluffed, But there were a couple that I literally was legitimately going down on. I was blown. party. There were a couple that I fluffed, but there were a couple that I literally was legitimately going down on. I was blowing the crap out of them. And that was awesome. So the beginning of the night. And then my, the visitor was, it was really good, fun play. Um, I feel like he was a little bit nervous.

I feel like he was, this was not his normal scene and there was something going on. I think he may have come to the party to meet me, which is always very weird. I mean, it's very, it's not weird, but it's like, it's very surprising to me, like that somebody would go out of their way to travel to a party to meet me and then not say anything, not say, Oh yeah, I was messaging you. I was checking out your profile. I saw the party. I'm so glad that you were both here.

I'm so glad to meet you i like there's a secretness about people that they don't want to tell you that like, like they expect me to know. And I got to tell you, if I'm expected to know off of pictures from FET, it's probably very unlikely that I will. So if you have actually messaged me and you have actually come to the party to talk to me, to see me, to play with me, then dude, say something.

Tell me, tell me that that's why you're there because that gives us a baseline of something that we have actually had a discussion before, but I don't know your face from Adam off of a picture off of a, like, you have absolutely no idea how many pictures I see every single day on that app. You have no idea how many pictures are sent to me. You don't know how many pictures, like how many, um, like it's a lot of information to retain. And my brain has not decided that it's going to photographically memorize pictures, words, maybe, but pictures, no.

So it was very fun and it was, um, but it, there was a piece of me that felt like that's what was going on, but he didn't say anything. And so I felt a little awkward about that. And I was like, so he and I played and he was nervous and it was, but it was ended up being so much fun. And then my friend Jeff showed up, yay. And Jeff and I played. And of course, Jeff did the thing that Jeff does. Jeff created a man-made lake in the center of the bed that no tell, had any hope of absorbing. And then my friend Toman came in and he was also there and he brought his girl Jay and his girl Jay.

I love her. She's awesome. She's funny and she can hold a conversation and she and I chat and we're half naked and we're laying on the bed and we're like having a whole conversation and we're understanding one another. And it is fantastic. So she and I are playing, but we're chatting. And then of course I got a new pedicure and a new manicure and my manicure, my manicure is fierce guys. I mean, it is outrageously cool. I did a cat eye. So it kind of looks like it's glowing from inside and the light moves within the, within the nail.

So it's like it, it glows differently in light than it does just normally. And then I had my toes painted a very festive Christmas red with lots of glitter. And it was like, they look stunning. And of course, that is my toe man's weakness. So he was literally chewing on my feet. It't a bad thing it was a great thing and it was so amazing because i there was a new friend that showed up and we're gonna call him e because he was eating some stuff i mean he was going down on me and I'm not kidding you. He made me come from oral. He made me not only come from oral, he made me squirt from oral.

And that my friends never happened to me, has never happened to me. And that was fucking amazing. then um my friend h showed up and she is a cuddle bunny. She loves to cuddle. She loves to get into the booby pile and all of us just sort of lay there and we're getting fucked while we're creating connection. So it was J and H and me all laying in this pile, getting fucked by all the boys around us. And it was so much fun. And I really, honestly, I regret what I did next. Um, anyway, so let me go back in time a little bit and kind of go through, I ended up like, it was fun. Oh my God.

It was so much fun, but there were so many boys standing on the orbit that weren't actually playing. And it wasn't until I got up that they came into play. And I, when I got up, I ended up, this is the part that I regret. I ended up saying that we're going to have to leave soon. And that was a cue for my husband to go and get all of our stuff. I didn't mean it like immediately. I meant it like we're going to have to go within like the next hour because of the fact that I was starting to feel the dizzy from not eating.

And I was starting to feel like a little, so I made a mistake in the fact that I said something too early and that cued my husband that let's get going. And so we ended up leaving very early that night. And I kind of regret that because I feel like the party was just getting into the atmosphere that I, that I really loved. And it was very much Thank you. leaving very early that night. And I kind of regret that because I feel like the party was just getting into the atmosphere that I, that I really loved. And it was very much an orgy on that bed.

It was three women playing and dudes galore around us. And it was so much fun because I was getting fucked by this guy while my toes were being chewed on by that guy. And I was getting like massaged by this guy while that guy was fucking me. And it was so just, it was the vibe you're looking for when you're going to that kind of a party.

When you're going to that kind of a sex party, it had a very, it had a very Caligula vibe it had a very pleasures of the flesh pleasures pleasure pile um and it was it was amazing and we ended up chatting and resting and laying in this pile of women and this pile of flesh Thank you. And we ended up chatting and resting and laying in this pile of women and this pile of flesh and just chilling. And it was such a great vibe.

And I regret so much that I stood up and had that moment where I realized, hey, we're probably going to have to go soon and not saying, but not right now, because if I had said, but not right now, my husband would have said, okay. And he would have kept an eye on the time and given me maybe an hour longer to actually participate in all of the fun things that were going on. I just, I regret that moment. I regret that I said things the way that I said them because that would have been epic. But at the same time, it was epic already. It was so great.

We left at almost the perfect time because the ending of our party was so incredibly intimate and connected. That whole cuddle pile was friends and laughter and fun. And it was really just a great party atmosphere. And I really, really loved it. So we ended up, but like I said, we ended up leaving very, very early. And the only thing I left behind was like, because it was right in the center of the bed, because that's how Jeff and I do. That's how Jeff and I do. He literally put, and he came back for more and we made a second mess and it was outrageous.

It was outrageous that he could coax that much fluid from my body. And shout out to my husband, who was basically my hydration dictator, where you need to drink two of those. You need to keep drinking. Why aren't you drinking? Or what's wrong with you? Why aren't you drinking? He very much kept me on a fluid regiment. and that actually ended up helping tremendously when we went to the party because hydration is when you're a girl who lets out her excitement through water, it's important to be hydrated. That's all I'm going to say on that matter. Okay, so we are heading to a party.

What is the theme of this party? Jamming and chill party. Okay. And you were looking at the guest list. Do you have any idea what the ratio is men to women at this one? With this host, Evening Endeavors Parties, the guest list really doesn't encapsulate who's coming, but the guest list itself was a good mixture. I think it was four to 16, so like four to one, men to women, and then of those, like two of the 16 don't play, so it actually is a little better even ratio if what's on there is actually what shows up. Right. And they were all women that we've met before that play. Okay.

What are you most looking forward to tonight? It's been a while since we went to a party, the one we did for ourselves um i like uh i like the social uh the group energy i like all that so that that i find enjoyable at the parties um i get to watch a lot of action and and uh let that build so that's what i'm looking forward to nice okay i'm most looking forward to seeing um jeff because jeff is going to be there and it's been a very very long time since i've seen him we have not been able to hook up since like eight weeks yeah Yeah, it's a very long time.

And I'm very much looking forward to that. As we approach, because obviously it's Christmas time, as we approach Christmas, how much play do you think we're going to see between now and like after new year's after the party or are you at the party specifically or yeah because i'm a busy time of year for a play everybody so are we going to have are we not going to be able to play at any point this year this month because of guests being in town or anything like that? No. The last year's actual Christmas party we went to with Evening Endeavors, it was awesome. It had great attendance.

All right, I was set up to go to this party and a normal two weeks from now with the same host party. That keeps us, that's the 21st. away from the crazy new year stuff just i don't know if i want to go out It's away from the crazy New Year's stuff. I don't know if I want to go out at that weekend. So it might just be a us chilling type of thing. But short of that, I don't think so. Yeah, because we never party. We never party. Just too many memories of going to jail and so on and so forth. It's just not worth it. Yeah, there's too many.

Now we have Josh, so he might come over because he's not really in the party scene much now. So come over to do that but as far as i'm aware we're not going to have any guests except mother is coming into town like the 23rd and leaving the 26th so it's not too bad yeah those are all weekdays. Oh, it's not too bad. Yeah. Those are all weekdays. Oh, it's not too bad. So, tonight there is, tonight's theme with the pajamas. Okay. Not really. So, the next one is just a Christmas thing, right? It's a Christmas thing. Dress up. Actually, I look forward to the dress up ones.

I think we're going to put you back in that dress, the pink and black. Oh, okay. I want to stuff you back into that. I'm actually thinking of that one getting a room even though we won't spend the night but getting a room getting up there early and uh maybe doing some pre-game because we haven't done that in a while oh yes pre-gaming that one because you're off that weekend, so we can do more. Absolutely. That is one of the things that has been kind of a hindrance in the past, is your work schedule. Yeah.

Because I feel guilty keeping you out late at night when you get up at four o'clock in the morning. Um, yeah, exactly. Um, I don't think there are any fan questions that are hanging out there yet. Um, but if anybody has a question for my husband, please don't hesitate to send to them because of course, now that I've got him to agree to talk to me while we are driving to the party, we can, I have time to grill like you had a good time um the party started off really slow yeah it was a lot slower than usually And technically this time, I literally only fucked four guys.

Yeah, yeah, that's true so many people didn't ask yeah it's a common thing lately with the new crop of talent not a lot of uh not a lot of asking yeah but Jeff was there yep seemed like you had a good time with Jeff and toe man yes does some things with some toes that's really really nice no it was great I had a great time Thank you. does some things with some toes that's really really nice no it was great i had a great time i think you had a good time you did that's good that's all you could ask out of a nice party exactly Okay, so how do you find or decide which parties to go to?

Now, obviously, events in your area are going to differ greatly from events in other people's areas. The events in my area tend to be located either an hour south of me or about an hour north of me. Those are the two directions because, as I may have mentioned in the past, I'm a little bit in a wasteland. So how do you find the parties? The thing is, is that it depends on the app that you're on. If you're on SLS, I think they have what's called hot dates and those hot dates kind of tell you where they're going to be located and then you can just show up there.

On FetLife, they actually have the events tab and if you check somebody's profile, it'll tell you what events they plan to go to. So you can actually meet up with somebody based on the fact that you go to the same party that they're going to. So how do you decide which ones to go to? Which ones are going to be fun and entertaining and exciting? That's the thing. It's a party. It's going to be hit and miss. It's going to be who's coming, who's not coming. Check the RSVP list for sure. For sure, check the RSVP list.

If you see somebody that you know or somebody that you're friends with, you can definitely check with them and ask them about the vibe of the party if they've ever been before. Party scene is very, very Thank you. them and ask them about the vibe of the party if they've ever been before. Party scene is very, very, it's very, very hit and miss. It's very, it depends on who's coming and who's doing what and how we're all feeling that night. But it, it can be very. Now the, the thing about events is that it's not just fuck parties. It's also like game nights. It's also like munches.

It's also like, um, meet and greets it's also like stand-up open mic night. There are so many different kinds of events that if you truly want to find your community, find your niche, find your people, that you can explore it in a very vanilla way or in a very, very, all the flavors of the rainbow sherbet way. It is not, it is, it's 100% dependent on your ability to commit time to finding the people that you want to find. So this is, and there's also like, there's a lot of kink community as well. And the kink community has different types of parties than obviously the lifestyle community does.

But the nice thing is, is that especially on FET, that is all interwoven. It's all interchangeable. And you just have to read the description of the party to find out exactly what it is that you're approaching and how you should be approaching it. Because each party is an individual thing. It's an individual organism that is created by the pieces and parts that are attending. So the best part is exploring is always an option. And not participating when you arrive is also an option. Additionally, there's a new app that I found called Swing Social.

and that's where you can go to find things like hotel takeovers. Hotel takeovers are their own brand of next level. They are quite insane because literally they go and they take over an entire hotel and you can get a room there if you get tickets early enough. If it's close enough, you don't have to get a room, but you can get a ticket to get in. It is very, very extreme. It is the party atmosphere multiplied by floors. It is everything. And mind you, I have not been to a hotel takeover in a very long time. So I am going to one in February.

And of course I will report back, But Swing Social is another place where you can go and find events for you to go and explore and find your crowd. There are all sorts of not technically lifestyle things that you can also join. As I may have mentioned, Exotica is in town here. Exotica is something that anybody can go to. It is open to the public. It has a lot of creators and a lot of strippers and stripping companies and all those kinds of things that support it. There are also local craftsmen that sell wares there. Um, it is, it is a very, very intriguing, um, place to go.

I did not find, we didn't go there late enough to find our vibe. There was a, there wasn't much going on when we went. And so we ended up leaving and going to a party. So I am, but there are places for you to go and find things to intrigue you, things to turn you on. Things to heighten your experiences. And places to find people that speak your language. People that are interested in similar things. Find your people. find your events and vet the events, like reach out to people who are going, ask them if they've ever been before.

Because a lot of times these lists, these parties will tell you who else is RSVP so that that way you can know if your friends are going or anything like that. So kind of give yourself room to explore and space to find an event or a party or whatever it is. And that's the best way I know to do it. Um, since most of my kink is on FET, I don't do a lot of searching for events outside because I've kind of found a little niche in there, a little place to hang. And that tends to be easier and the best way for us to do it. But that doesn't mean that there aren't a million ways to find your crowd.

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