My Splash recap

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Welcome to the Pineapple Pinup the Hot Wife Life podcast. On today's podcast, I am going to go through my experiences at Splash. My experience at Splash was really not describable. This is a problem for me. This is, it was a lot, but at the same time, it was magical. It was amazing. The best part about the whole experience was that it was everybody knew what they were there for. Everybody knew what they were, that we were all there and we had the same agenda. And it was flirting in the elevators, flirting in the lobby, flirting in the parties, flirting. It was so connected.

It was so everybody was on the same page. It was fucking beautiful. I mean, I loved it. So what we were doing, we showed up there in the evening, the first night. We got there, all the play spaces were closed. It was time to start gearing up for the party, but there was a lot of meet and greet going on in the lobby. And we went to the lobby bar. My husband got me a drink. Maybe it might have been a little bit of a mistake because I did not handle my liquor very well. It was a lot of fun though.

I mean we like I had one drink and it because of the fact that I rarely drink it got me a little tipsy and then that wore off right away. And I didn't feel at all impaired to flirt and talk and chill. We, I just, I mean, I can't even begin to describe the level of sexual energy that was there. The level of sexual desire that filled every aspect of this particular party. It was so much fun. And it was so much flirting. And it was a smile and a nod and a, oh, hi, because we'd been chatting online and hi, because we hadn't been chatting online, but we should have been.

It was a lot of chemistry and sexual desire that just permeated everything. And I said this on Seven's podcast because it's true, okay? I actually got to tape a podcast live with Seven from Hot Wife Confessions. I gave my confession the whole thing like at this event and it was amazing. I mean, I had so much fun just even being on his podcast and sharing the information that I like to share, like sharing who and what makes me tick and all these other things. For me, it was outstanding. And I was really grateful that he allowed me to be a part of his splash experience in that way.

There were a lot of things that I was not expecting. I didn't really have the option to bring people up to my room because we were sharing the room with another person. And that made it so I just, there was a level there that didn't feel, that felt a little disrespectful to bring somebody else back to a room that we were sharing with somebody else. I know in the future that that is something to think about when I'm booking these out. And believe me when I tell you, it was such a great experience. I'm definitely going back. I'm definitely going back to this, to this type of event to be able to.

It was so natural. It was so connected. It was so like, I can't even like, I can't even get through the number of adjectives positive that this was. The, first of all, the event is run like a well-oiled machine, like a top. The thing, just everything is them. Their rules are posted everywhere. There is nothing that is in question is so, and they curate the people coming to the point that when you are there, it is so like-minded. It is so like it didn't feel clicky.

It didn't feel, um, now mind you, I met a woman at this party who, um, her, I'm not going to out her, but oh my God, I am, I feel like she might be my best friend was like, it was so incredible to meet this person that I understood and we got to be weird together and we got to and she was there with her husband and he was a great and we all got along and they were so fascinating and I was astounded by how much fun it was to even just sit around and talk to people. It was eye-opening. It was intriguing. It was all of those anticipatory emotions. It was the thrill of the flirt.

It was the, um, it was the hunt. It was all of it. It was chatting with people. And I mean, seriously setting. The thing is, is that they had these party rooms, which is something I'm so incredibly used to. So incredibly like, because I, I don't set myself up for rejection. Okay. I want everything about this to feel good. I want everything about this to feel sexy and fun. So I don't set myself up for rejection. I don't ask people to go on one-on-one things with me, but they're allowed to join in on anything I have going on group-wise.

So this is a step I need to take, a step I need to evolve into, being willing to put myself out there for rejection. Because just because something isn't going to work out, maybe it's timing, maybe it's lack of desire, maybe it's all sorts of things, maybe it's prior commitments, maybe it's, you know, there's a ton of reasons somebody's not feeling well. There's a ton of reasons why things aren't going to work out. But you're never going to know if things would work out if you're not willing to risk putting yourself out there. I wanted to experience as much as possible.

But because of the fact that I'd limited myself to just do it playing in the playrooms, it made it a little bit more frustrating for people who weren't exhibitionists, for people who didn't actually enjoy playing in the playrooms, people who wanted to meet people and then go back to their room. So, but I wanted to be open to all of it. I wanted to be open to, and I did. I mean, I went back to somebody's room and I had an amazing time. It is never, I was never at a loss for something fun to do.

There was one time where I felt awkward and it was because of the fact that I had agreed to join in on a huge group session that they were doing in the big playroom. And I was surrounded by beautiful, thin, just all the shades of like female gorgeousness. And I was the only one not playing. And I was like, I'm not going to lay here and start to let the negative self-talk come in. I'm going to get up and I'm going to go. And because I made that decision, I got up and I was going. And it was so funny because I met somebody while I'm going to go.

And because I made that decision, I got up, and I was going. And it was so funny, because I met somebody, while I'm trying to get dressed, I met somebody who listens to the show. And he actually was like, I'm such a big fan. And my wife is right there. And, and I was like, and so I went over and I introduced myself. She goes, Oh, my God, we squirted on the same sheet.

Because it wasn't like I was alone the whole time time I was there long enough to make a grandiose mess and mind you a lot of the it was so nice it was so nice the way that they had this whole thing set up everything was waterproof there were sheets you could change out so that nobody had to lay in your puddles it was amazing and all of this, it allowed me to get to the point where I was just free. And I didn't concern myself with the fact that I was making a mess. And one gentleman took the time to nickname me Squirtle. And mind you, I did not want that to stick.

But now that I'm putting it out there in the world, I have a feeling that it might. It was already going to stick with many of the people who heard it and many of the people who I had met. It was fun. It was really funny. And the thing is, is that I met with one guy and he, okay, this was seriously some six degrees of separation because my friend Drew from my other podcast was supposed to be coming. He had some life stuff come up and had to cancel and wasn't going to be able to come, but his friend was going to be there.

And I was there on New Year's Eve and he, it was the last night and he said, I want you to meet my friend while you're there. So he set us up so that we could chat and found out that she was literally like maybe 10 feet from me. And we were, and we ended up like meeting and talking. And then I found out that she was with this guy that I was, I had set up a date with and he was running late because he had to finish watching Stranger Things. Now, I get it. I understand entirely. But it was really funny because we spent our entire play session making jokes and giggling.

Now, mind you, there was another gentleman who joined us who probably was put off by the fact that we were giggling and making funny comments to one another but we found it incredibly sexy and incredibly light-hearted and incredibly fun and my husband was like just stick a dick in her mouth so she'll shut the fuck up and like even that was fun and funny like there was so much going on because there were areas where there was this room that was the wife watching room. And it had these almost like beach cabanas, where it was shielded on three sides.

And then you had chairs set up in front of each one. But you could kind of like if you were in the audience, you could kind of see into at least two or three of them, if you were in the right position.

So my it was the way that you could get privacy without doing privacy without doing rooms there was the group room which was called the oreo and then there was a laser room which we never went in because well we went in but we never played in there because you want to talk about distracting like i would have been like a cat chasing the fucking lasers off the walls it would have not been good and then they had of course a glory hole room which I didn't take advantage of this time I might have should have but I didn't and then they had another room that I never played in either but they had so many rooms and they had so many spaces and they had so much fun going on here.

And they had themed parties and we, we had costumes and I did costume changes all day long. And it was just, it was incredible. It was, I felt sexy and engaged in a way that I just, I mean, I can't even describe how incredibly involved I felt. Now, here's another thing. I did not get the way I normally do, where I feel the need to cling to the side of, to cling to my husband's side.

I, he didn't, he wanted to go up to the room and rest because his social battery was burnt out and I was like go on go for it and I went and did sat in on a podcast and I went and found a play space and I like I did these things and then I went the time that I went to check on him I met a guy in the elevator and he was like why don't you come to my room? So that's what I did. I went, checked on my husband, then I went back and he and I played in his room and it was fucking phenomenal. The thing is, is that I did not feel out of my element in any way.

I didn't feel like I needed a shield or a buffer. I felt so incredibly welcomed. And it was so fun to be there in that space that was just intriguing and exciting and worth it on every fucking level. With every good thing comes a bad thing. Now I have met so many incredible men that I would love to play with again. And they are scattered across the United States and Canada in a way that I way that I'm like, I, in order for me to do this, I'm going to have to travel for Dick. I'm going to have to set up like, like excursions in order to meet these guys again.

probably we'll see each other again at future splash events and I'm just fucking excited about that but it was one of those things where it was a little bit disheartening to know that this was some amazing connection. This was some amazing sex. This was some amazing chemistry. Now, and now I'm not going to be able to see them again. It was like, it was like going to summer camp. It was like going to summer camp, knowing that maybe you'll see them again, but it's going to be a very long time. And that's not cool. But at the same time, it was so awesome meeting them.

It's exactly like summer camp. And as I'm saying this, that's what, that's how I'm feeling. I'm feeling the excitement of all those memories I made, the excitement of all those things that I did and all the people that I met and it was so fucking fun. But now I have to go back to my real life and I've got post camp let down right now. It is, it is something that I am wandering. It's good. It's fun. It's exciting to have this opportunity. Now, I did try to ease myself back into reality, and I'll save that for another episode, but I'm not kidding you.

I met so many people that I want to interview. I met so many people that I want to have conversations with. I want so many people that I want to continue to have online connection with until we can meet again. I have met people that I want to be friends with. I have met people that I want to learn from.

I mean, seriously, it was the most immersive, the most immersive the most this is too hard to describe now mind you I'm doing this over like several episodes because it's too hard to do on my own so I'm bringing in a couple more people I'm bringing in my husband I'm bringing in my friend I'm bringing in a couple more people. I'm bringing in my husband. I'm bringing in my friend. I'm bringing in a lot of people to talk about what this was because it is too hard for one person to grasp all the things that happened. I fucked so many people. I couldn't even tell you the number.

I couldn't even fathom a guess. And it was so great. I mean, seriously, it was so great. It was so great talking to people and doing that commonality of language and purpose. And it was so intriguing. Oh my God. It was awesome. It was fan-fucking-tastic. All right. That being said, I am planning to go back. I am planning to go back to at least two more events this year. Possibly a third. I don't know yet. It depends. Things are getting a little crazy over on my end of the spectrum right now, which is fine because that's what life does. Life is going to throw us curveballs.

Life is going to throw us impediments. Life is going to throw us all sorts of stuff. But that doesn't mean, that just means we have to prioritize those things that we find fulfilling, that we find a whole thing worth doing. Every aspect of it, from the playing and the meeting and the talking to the podcast, all of it to me is high priority. So balancing that with new obligations that I have is going to be a little bit rough. And I know this going in, but at the same time, I'm prioritizing spending the time that I can doing this.

Because when you find something so incredibly fulfilling, when you find something that is so incredibly fun and gives you so much back, you have it, you owe it to yourself to find a way to do it, as long as you're not causing harm. Really love to get my new BFF on here about that. And so I'm going to reach out and see if I can get her to come on and, you know, hope fingers crossed here, put out good vibes for me. Okay. I'm also hoping that I can, she had some amazing insights as to what we were seeing and what we were experiencing at this party.

She had some thoughts about what was going on and how women alter based on the time and space in their life. And I would love to get her on here to discuss it more in depth because she was incredibly intriguing to speak to. She was incredibly intriguing to be around. I just, I would love to get her on here to get her take on just all of this. I know that it's going to be a lot to ask, but good vibes. I'm telling you, good vibes.

so we've had some development in our relationship my husband and i he has decided to go full cuck um this is moving into by curious is, he has made the decision that this year is the year of the cuck for him. This is the year that he is going to fully embrace that role. That is going to come with it. Some alterations in my behavior, my play. I'm going to need to become more dominant, more exacting, more referential to what it is that I'm searching for so that he is able to provide. And a lot of it is about what he wants me to have him do.

And this is where I'm beginning to have a little stress because as a people pleaser, as a fantasy fulfillment slut, it is very hard for me to dig through all of the noise and find out what it is it's actually driving me. So in that same realm, because of the way that I actually process my thoughts, my desires, my, I write, I'm writing a lot right now, right now, just writing, which is great because it helps me to process either verbally or through that process to find out what it is that's at the core. Thank you.

which is great because it helps me to process either verbally or through that process to find out what it is that's at the core. Now, I have lived most of my life being bratty and submissive and I know that one particular part of my personality shall never shift and that is the bratty part because I find being a brat sexy, intriguing, fun, and funny. I find being a brat to be everything I want it to be super fulfilling in every single way. So I am having to evolve. I'm having to learn. I'm having to grow.

I'm having to reach out beyond myself to try to figure out how to embrace not only this brat and submissive, but also add a little dominant into there, add a little domination. And I'm thinking that the best way to do that is to find a bi dom who will dominate both me and my husband so I can learn through example how to do this. I can learn through example how to take it to the next level. I am somebody who likes to take in a lot of information, process a lot of information, pull all the information in and then find ways to utilize that information later on.

So because of the fact that I want to learn this, I think I need something very specific. I need somebody who can teach me how to dominate while at the same time being a submissive. It's going to be a really, it's a really hard ask. It is not something that is, you know, you can buy on the bookshelf, but I'm going to, I'm opening my search. I'm doing that. Now, one of the biggest fears that my husband has about evolving into this vicarious cuck or bisexual cuck is how it will affect people seeing me.

The fact is my play life won't change unless we have consent from the third party to bring my husband in. That's the only, but we're such huge advocates for consent and how deeply important it is to have consent on all levels that we're definitely not going to put somebody in a situation where they haven't fully consented. So my play life is going to continue. My play with my bulls is going to continue. My play at parties is going to continue. But we're just adding in another aspect. We're evolving. We're finding a new layer.

We're finding a deeper connection through experimentation and evolution. This is something that I really want to delve deeper into, but feel like I need the kind of instruction that is going to level me up into this person who can take that control. Show me what it is that I am working for and I can do it all day long. If you give me the tools, the understanding, the full mental process, I can follow it. And just showing me isetically, I'm an empathetic learner. I'm doing all of this in the different roles.

So here's hoping that through the power of positive thinking and hope that I will be able to find somebody who can fulfill a role like that, that will help me evolve to a place where I can become dominant, where I find it safe to be demanding. I really want that. I really want to go to the next level and demand things and take pleasure in having my needs and wishes fulfilled. My, my whims what it would be like to have your whims catered to. And that's what I'm trying to get to. Where's my line? Where's my edge that goes from being my whim to nag? And I want to explore all of that.

I want to explore deeper with my husband because this is a role he's decided he wants to take on. So if this is a role that he wants to take on, I want to explore it with him because that is the whole nature of our relationship is to move into the exploration, move into the things that are, that have been taboo for so long. But now we've opened doors to see where we stand and delve into our sexuality 100%. So here is hoping that we can find somebody who can help us in this endeavor.

Thank you for joining me today on the pineapple pinup the hot wife life podcast i am so excited about just everything that's going on um i have just i'm just so excited that you're all joining me for this journey because this journey is going to be exciting now reach out to me at pineapplepinuppod at gmail.com or at any of my socials if you have questions, concerns, things you want to share, stories you want to tell. If you want to be on the podcast, let me know. I'll see you next time.