Let's Celebrate an Anniversary

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Welcome to the Pineapple Pinup, the Hot Wife Life podcast. On today's episode, I want to talk about so much, but I'm going to limit myself to planning my anniversary. All right. So as you know, my husband's birthday is a very extravagant kind of affair where I would do like a gangbang and have multiple men there, multiple cameras, do very Pornhub-esque type of celebration. For my anniversary, I want something more romantic. I want something more connected, something more delicious, something that involves more time, he and I, one-on-one.

So ultimately, what I would do is I would plan a weekend away, get a hotel, stay a couple of nights. And then I would invite over friends for one-on-one meetups, um, have a big suite where my husband has a place that he can lounge and watch and then have a big bed where me and my friend can play tell all hours play play and play and then when our time is done have that immediate reclamation with my husband take that fuel that I have just added to his fire, that neuro, mirror neuroning, pleasure center, firing, getting his car cock hard and throbbing, ready to take me and take me back.

And have it be immediate gratification, not delay until we get someplace else, not delay until everybody else clears out. We get one guy out the door and he and I are on. He's cleaning up the mess that was made. He is taking back that pussy that he owns. He is owning it all over again. That is that connection, that animal desire for the person that you've decided to go through life with. Reconnecting on that very intimate, very visceral level. After I, um, afterwards, um, after we had been in that heat, that reclamation, that, that desire, we would probably go to dinner.

Um, and then maybe head over to the casino. Cause ultimately my husband's favorite things are fucking me, watching me get fucked and going to a casino. I'm not sure that's the right order, but for this podcast, that's the order we're using. The desire quelled, we go, we have fun. We're together in this very post-coital haze, very awash with all of the love hormones. We go and we have fun and we giggle and we laugh and we play games. And then maybe the next day I invite another friend over and that friend plays with me.

And once again, my husband is given that opportunity to clean up the mess and reclaim me. The thing about my anniversary is that I want that. I want that intimate, that one-on-one, that this is the person that I married. This is the person that I want to be with. This is the person that I sleep with at night, no matter who else is fucking her, no matter who else is, has a taste of her. This is the one that I choose to go to bed with every night. Because the same is true for me. My husband has given me carte blanche to fuck whomever I want.

And whether or not it's obvious from this, if my husband wanted to fuck someone else, I would be a hundred percent all for it. I am willing and all that other jazz. That's, this is not about just me. Okay. But this is the kink that we're doing. This is the kink that we're into. This is the kink that we're using to express and connect with one another. So in that particular instance, no matter who I go and fuck, Thank you. and connect with one another.

So in that particular instance, no matter who I go and fuck, no matter who I go and suck off, no matter who I go and do whatever with, every night I come home to my husband. Every night I go to bed with my husband. And every night we are side by side in our bed, whether there's a mess on that bed or not, that's where we are because that's where we choose to be. And that's what I want my anniversary to be about. I want it to be about knowing why we decided all those years ago to say yes, to say I do. And reclaiming that intimacy, that romance, that spark. That's what I want.

I want my anniversary to be a hundred percent all about that. So spending a weekend away, having multiple partners come and play with me, but having it be in a setting where my husband and I are one-on-one. That's what I'm looking for. That's what I want. I want that very intimate, very desire, very, I want all of that. I want all of that to be what we're doing. So an anniversary is a time to reflect on all the years we've had together, all the adventures we've decided to take together.

This is about going through and recapturing our time, recapturing all of those moments that have bonded us together, formed that connection that made us strong enough to go out and do this thing, this wonderful, kinky, fun, adventurous thing. Thank you. Thank you. I am very in love with my husband probably now, like any marriage, uh, we've had our ebbs and flows. We've had our, you know, here's and there's we, it is not, I will never say we've had a perfect marriage.

Um, there were times that it was very emotionally disconnected, but having conversations about your deepest, darkest desires, about exploring something together has literally brought us to a place in our lives where we are so connected. And here's the funny thing. It's not all the time. We still go through moments of time when we're like completely not on the same page. We are at opposite ends of the same, like we're at opposite ends of whatever argument we're, we're trying to wade through. This has not made my marriage perfect.

What this has done is given me the opportunity to lose the fear to say whatever it is I need to say. It's given him the ability to lose the fear to say whatever it is he needs to say. Do we still have communication issues? Yes, because no matter what, we're still going to be humans. But the thing that I really, really love is knowing that that communication rift that we're having is brief. We're going to come back together. We're going to find our way. We're going to say the thing that we got to say and then get back to the place where we're us.

And sex has always been a very lubricating, no pun intended, it lubricates our communication. When my husband and I are very vastly not on the same page, if we go and we have sex and we connect physically, we will find a way to come back together mentally and verbally and all the other ways. So when I celebrate my anniversary, when I celebrate that, yes, That is so profoundly about remembering why he and I began and how we got here, how we got to this place.

It's for me remembering that those vows are true today, no matter how we've altered them, they're true today as they were when I said them. And he is still the guy that I would say I do to. Probably the only guy I'll ever say that to in my life. Um, and I cannot help, but love where we are and what we're doing. So the, any anniversary we do, there would be a lot of reclaiming, a lot of varying moments where he gets to come and take back what's his because I will be his forever. Oh my goodness. I'm so excited.

I got a very long email from a listener and I'm not entirely sure how much I'm allowed to share, but I just want to say thank you so much for reaching out to me. It means so much to me that you guys are listening, getting something from this, and that you tell me that you're getting something from it. I got a couple, I'm going to try to do this broad strokes because I don't want to be too, I don't want to give too much away because they may or may not want to be outed on this. I'm not sure. Um, but I got an email from a couple who had been, who had grown up very, very religious.

And they had stumbled across my podcast and it started a conversation. They have been listening since February. So basically I began. And they found a way to have the conversation and now they are in the life full stop. They are using an app that I'm, that I still have not explored because I just like, I don't know how to use it.

And so I'm probably going to reach out to them and get some pointers on how to use the app that they're using, because I am a huge fan of anything that brings closer to our kink community, anything that brings us to the point where we can find the people that are out there playing and the parties and all that stuff. I'm very much into it. I would, I am personally, we have been using FetLife since the beginning. And for me, FetLife is, it takes all of the guesswork out of, because there are events posted, there are messages, there are like numerous ways to chat. There's boards you can post on.

It's like, it's such a convenient app and it works very well. It is so much, um, it's so easy to get everything done in such a short amount of time and find the things that you're looking for so easily that like I personally, I'm not sure how to approach another app. Um, they're using the field app and I kinda, I, I started, I started a profile. I downloaded some stuff.

I, I did some things on there, but I literally couldn't, didn't understand, didn't know if that was going to work because, um, I, I didn't know enough about the app and I don't know if it was popular enough in my area at the time. So what I'm hoping for is that I can get some details from this couple that emailed me and find out how they're using the app and what it is that it's giving them. Um, because they mentioned that they, that their house parties where they are and there are places that they can go that are very much, um, swinger friendly.

So I'd like to get more detail to see if it's something that is expanding, um, across the board and expanding hopefully in my area. Because if I have mentioned this once, I've mentioned it a thousand times. I do live in a little bit of a wasteland. Um, which means that if there is a place that I should go to travel for Dick, please reach out and tell me where that is because I am interested. I am interested in taking weekend trips with my husband, going places and finding fun things to do. And by that, I mean fun people to fuck. there's so much out there, so much that I want to explore.

And I am eager, if not too eager to talk to you all about how, first of all, thank you so much for listening. And second of all, um, what you're getting from it, because sometimes I don't know if I'm on the right track or not, because literally it's me in a room by myself with a microphone and a computer. And sometimes I don't know if it is my own echo chamber. So the fact that people are reaching out to me is freaking awesome because it allows me to kind of gather what it is that's helpful, what it is that's not so helpful and hone my craft a little bit. All right.

I don't really have any questions from any listeners. So what I want All right. I don't really have any questions from any listeners. So what I want to talk about today is my anniversary is coming up. It's coming up early fall and I would love to plan a great weekend getaway for me and my husband. Like I said, he really loves casinos and he really loves the life, um, the lifestyle. So if I could find someplace to travel to, that would be fun, maybe has a casino, maybe has a lifestyle life, nightlife. Um, someplace that I could come and maybe meet up with a listener.

I don't know, but let me know if you think that there's a great place that I should visit for my anniversary. I would love to hear from you. I would love to figure out some travel plans because I want it to be special. I want to actually make an effort to make my anniversary everything that it should be. A celebration of us, a celebration of him, a celebration of our life, a celebration of the lifestyle. All of that is part and parcel with what I'm trying to do now in this time of our lives when we are creating memories. I am so down.

So if you know, or can think of a great place to travel, please hit me up, pineapple pinup pod at gmail.com. I am very excited to hear from you. so let me know. Thank you so much for listening. I really cannot say enough how much it means to me that you guys are out there liking, sharing, subscribing, talking to people about it. I really, really appreciate it. Um, if you're out there talking, maybe hit me up, uh, pineapple pinup pod at gmail.com. I'm also working on my socials. So stay tuned for that. And if you want to know my socials, I'll let you know.