Halloween part Duex: Post Halloween costume party

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Welcome to the Pineapple Pinup, the Hot Wife Life podcast. On today's podcast, I am going to talk about a party that we went to, and then I'm also going to get into a couple of ethical monogamy things. all right i went to a party party on Saturday night and it was a Halloween do-over. Like Saturday night after Halloween, we're still in the Halloween spirit. Let's play dress up. So I went to this party and it was so close. Oh my God. In comparison to where I've been before, this party was so fucking close. And I was like, this is what it feels like to not travel for hours to get somewhere.

So it was amazing in that aspect. Amazing in that regard. I highly recommend. So we went and it was in the woods, a very nice area, pretty secluded. And I mean, they had outdoor areas with a fire pit and then they had indoor areas where you could smoke in the Florida room that they had blocked off from all the wind. And, um, there was a lot of places to play and it was pretty much a really, really good time. Um, they had extra sheets and they had, um, waterproofing on all the beds.

So if you made a mess, you could, and they also supplied, you know, pads for those of us who know that we're going to make a mess. And those who know that there's going to be a wet spot after we're done. So it was really like a lot of fun. It was a good hang. It was a good time. Now, they had one room that was set aside for privacy. And so you could kind of go in there and you were only asked only be there for like 15 minutes or so. I don't know what happened, but at some point that door got closed and I don't know that anybody opened it again for hours.

But we went and the first person that I played with was a smaller man. He was very short in comparison to me. And we played and he knew that he probably wasn't going to be able to, he wasn't going to last very long. So he kind of tried to hedge his bets by doing a lot of oral, which everybody knows, since I've talked about it on here a lot, that I'm not super great at Thank you. last very long. So he kind of tried to hedge his bets by doing a lot of oral, which everybody knows, since I've talked about it on here a lot, that I'm not super great at getting off on oral.

So especially like, I just don't, I'm not great at it. So that ended up not being a very long play session because I stole his soul. I stole his soul rather quickly and I did not give it back. So when we left that room, I ran into Jay and Jay was like one of my original bulls. One of the guys that I had met so long ago at a party. He was my, it's a poo down here. when he meant it's a pool down here. So Jay and I, like, I have not seen Jay in a very long time. I haven't seen Jay since we went to that house party in someone's basement with a futon.

So where there weren't enough places for people to sit um so he and I haven't seen each other for a very long time so as soon as I saw him I was like ah so he and I ended up going and playing and I brought a waterproof blanket thinking that that would be a good thing to have on hand so I didn't have to bring a towel and all it took was playing with Jay and that thing was toast. That thing was no longer a waterproof blanket. It was now just a water blanket. So Jay and I played and we played for a while. And he and I have the same rapport, the same silly jokes and the same fun.

And my friend Scoop came with us again. And she was like, kind of interested and hanging out and seeing what was happening and having a really good time. And she again played at this is the second party in a row that she's come to with me, where she's decided to break free and just play and just do it. And it was, it was awesome. It was awesome to see her get into the groove. She also had played with her very first black man while she was there and ended up playing with a couple and found that there are certain lengths she can't do. It was fun though. It was was a great time.

And then, so I played with him for a while. And then it was like, we decided to kind of get up and move around and see what else was going on. And he decided he wanted to play with my friend with Scoot. And so he played. And then I went out and I found somebody to play with. And while I was waiting for him to go and get his bag, because I require condoms when I play, he went to go get his bag, and another gentleman came up and said, can I warm you up while he's on his way? And I said, sure, no problem, go ahead. And he went down on me. And everything was going fine.

Until all of the sudden, he started blowing raspberries on the inside of my thigh and on my vagina. And when he did it the first time, I was like, what the fuck? Why are you blowing raspberries? And he proceeded to keep doing it. So when it came time there, because there came a moment later when, um, somebody was like, you should play with him. And I was like, and we're going, um, because I'm sorry. Like I don't, if I've, if I, if I'm saying what the fuck, why are you doing that? That doesn't mean that I'm fully on board.

That doesn't, that doesn't say to anybody, to anybody hey she likes this we should do it more that says something completely different at least I think so and it's one of those things where he wasn't paying enough attention to know that he wasn't he was crossing some lines for me so anyway I ended up playing with this other gentleman and we'll call him the firefighter He was fantastic. He was so fantastic that I exchanged that I had it set up so that my husband and I would be contacting him to set up a play date. And we did. And I will tell you much more about that. But it was fucking amazing.

And he was like I he was so shocked at how much like how much liquid i was getting like how much liquid he was getting out of me i'm literally like i am so dehydrated at one point so we ended up leaving um like i hung out and spoke and talked to a bunch of people because scoot was still playing and we had so much fun oh my god and she was playing and she went into this other room and she was playing in the other room and like just wandering around and i had a really really great time until some it was starting to get a little tipsy um that there was a bunch of people who were not up straight anymore, who were, you know, in the center of the room about to, you know, fall down.

That's usually my cue to pack it up and let's get out of here. Let's go grab a sandwich. And so that's what we did. It was fun. We had a great time. Everybody there was so fucking fun and funny. And it was a really good time. And we were talking to people and chatting it up. And it like I was actually super social at this particular party. I found different groups to sit in and talk. And it was it was a lot of fun. I had a really, really good time. And it was so nice to see Jay again, because Jay has been MIA for such a long time. He's been not in the same sphere as me, which tends to happen.

So people tend to move to different parties because they get invited to more parties and more opportunities as things go on. As they meet more people, they start to become more accepted in other areas. And so they get invites that necessarily you don't get because you haven't played with these people. So he kind of tends to run in different circles than we do. And we're finally starting to get some of those invites that are a little bit more exclusive than we'd been getting before. Because a lot of the stuff that we go to, we just find on the events page and just go to those events.

So because of the fact that we are expanding, we're going to more house parties. We're meeting more people. And as we meet those people, they introduce us to other people who are having house parties closer. And then we start having more rapport and more fun and more things. And it's great. And I fucking absolutely love it that we are expanding our horizons because it really is nice to be able to drive shorter distances and meet new people and become part of a new group. Because there's a lot of clicking going on.

There's a lot of like, well, I was invited to so and so's party, but, you know, so and so doesn't like, you know, so it's, it's high school. The thing is, is that we're humans, we're going to have in group out group, we're going to have tribes, we're going to do all those things. And we're going to have drama. And that's not necessarily the best thing. But it's the truth. It's what we're going to be doing. And I know from experience that the more we can mitigate that drama, the more we can mitigate that in-group, out-group, the more we can.

But at the same time, these invitations are limited because space is limited. You can't invite everyone. You can't have everybody come. You have to cull the field because if you don't, your party is standing room only, no place to fuck, bodies everywhere. And it just turns into something that like me and my husband went to one of those parties. We went to a standing room only party and decided it wasn't for us. And now we don't go back to that party, even though their numbers are better now. We don't attend that party because that party left a bad taste.

You have to have space for the people you have invited. The people who have been invited to a fuck party have to have space to do the fucking.

It just is how it it is and that is the only thing I can really say about it you have to and so because of the fact that you have to have room you have to call your your invite list to make sure that the people who are coming are a people who want to be coming and people who want to party and people who want to fuck and people who want to play and all this other stuff you have to kind of get some you have to have some because believe me I've had parties where I invited the right number of women and the right number of men and none of the women played and it was really rough for the guys because it was not rough for me because I got as much dick as I wanted twice on Sunday, you know, like for me, it was great, but it, it kind of sucks to be standing in line to ride the rides when you shouldn't have to be.

But I mean, that's why it's the most magical place on earth, right? I'll see I'm kidding. But anyway, so that is one of those throwing the right party, throwing the right atmosphere. So that's why these, as we get into the right groups, So when we get invited to the different parties, it's, we're starting to come around to see some of the people that we originally partied with that we haven't seen for a while. So yay, fingers crossed.

I'm grateful for, and the best thing about going to a party where you don't really know anybody and then you see somebody that you know you like it's kind of like being it's the first day of school and you see the person that see somebody that you knew from your previous year it's like oh good at least I know somebody here somebody I can talk to somebody who knows me somebody who has common language with me and it's not so. Not that I'm scared at any of these parties, but you know, you know what I'm saying? It just makes you a little bit more comfortable.

And believe me, I was very comfortable. But we ended up staying there for a while. And then we went home. And we got home early enough that we weren't completely zombied. So it was a really, really good party. It was a really good time. It was really good fun. Okay. So I want to talk about ethical non-monogamy. Okay. I want to talk about when somebody hits you up and says, oh, I can only play between this hour and this hour on this day and this day. And, um, I can't call you cause my phone is broken and I can't email you because my email's full. Like, you start to get a sense.

You start to get a sense of what it is that they're hiding from. And what they're hiding from is a lie. What they're hiding from is a secret. What they're hiding from is the inability to be honest, okay? So you can feel that this person is in a relationship, is married, something like that, and that's fine. I'm down with it, 100% down with it. Because you get one turn on the marble, you might as well live the life, right? My thing is, is that my husband and I have a rule that we don't play with married people, knowingly, okay?

And the reason that we don't play with married people who are telling the lie is because we don't really need the drama, okay? And my husband doesn't want the bad karma out there. He doesn't want the bad mojojo because it is he's been there and he doesn't want to be the reason somebody else is there somebody else had to participate or feel that way he doesn't want that so he has we have made it a rule in our relationship that we don't do that. And here's the thing. When somebody is cheating, they try to stump you with a morally dumbfounding question.

Like, you go to these fuck parties, how do you know everybody there is not cheating? Okay, I'll give it to you. I'll give it to you. I will give you that somebody there could very well be sneaking around behind their spouse's back I will give it to you that not everybody there is telling the God's honest truth but I didn't invite them there I didn't make myself available exclusively for them while I was there I did not not play into their delusion. I did not play into their lie. I did not facilitate their stepping out.

I didn't do that because like, but I ask my questions when I play one-on-one. I say the things that I need to say when I'm playing one-on-one. If you want to be invited over, if you want to play, I'm really sorry. And here's the thing, I will play with somebody who's married if their spouse is in the know, if their spouse knows. Like, for example, the gentleman that I met, the firefighter, he is married. But at the same exact party that he and I fucked at, I met his wife. I talked to his wife. She said, you guys should definitely play. My husband said, you guys should definitely play.

Everybody's in the know. There's no secrets. There's no shame. There's no hiding, there's no lie. And that's the difference, okay? It's the hiding, it's the lie, it's the drama. We're not inviting that into this thing that is our relaxation, that is our play, that is our fun. We're not looking to cause emotional upheaval in anybody's life. And I cannot control what somebody's going to do. I can't control everybody's marriage, but I can control myself.

And I'm choosing, and I don't, there has to be a way that you can see the difference between fucking somebody at a party, whether you know their marital status or not, and inviting somebody to your home. You have to see the difference. Whether you are trying to get some strange, trying to get some trim, whatever it is, you have to be able to see the difference. Okay. I don't judge you for how you choose to live your life. That's not my place. My place is to control my side of the fence and my side of the fence is I don't play with married people without their spouse's consent one-on-one.

I go to parties, I play at parties, but I'm not the reason that most of them are there. I'm not, that's not why they're there. They're there because they're there for a fuck party. I did not invite them. This was not about, so for me, that's the difference. I'm controlling my side of the fence. I am keeping my side of the fence as clean as I possibly can. And that's all I can do karmically. That's literally like all I could do unless I decide that I want to stop doing this lifestyle, which I don't.

When you have to ask the morally dumbfounding question to poke a hole in the way that me and my husband do things, the rules that me and my husband have set up. You're asking us to break our rules. You're asking us to break our promises to one another. And that's not what we want to do. Just because there's some moral ambiguity that you can see in the way that I do things does not mean that my husband and I are morally ambiguous to what we're doing. We have rules that work for us.

And because of the fact that I am not courting, I am not conjoling, I am not, like, I barely even ask people to fuck me at parties. They ask me to fuck them. So like that to me, I'm not, I'm not inviting that drama into my life. Unknowingly, I might be the cause of some drama, but that's an unknowing situation. That's not something that I have common or intimate knowledge of. Just know that when you ask the morally dumbfounding question, when you ask the question, well, what about that? That means that you'd like me to blur my lines a little bit more, blur what I'm doing a little bit more.

Asking that question is basically asking me to step outside my comfort zone because of the fact that you found some moral ambiguity there. And that's not something that I or my husband are interested in doing. And my husband and I know what the other one is doing. We're completely ethically non-monogamous together. I don't do things that he doesn't know about. He doesn't do things that I don't know about. We're doing this together. And we're not lying to one another. We're not hiding things from one another. He goes through my phone every fucking night.

He goes through, I go through his phone like whenever I need to. We don't have the lies. We don't have the secrets. We're trying our best to live our life as out loud as we possibly can without hurting anyone else. And that is how we're choosing to live our ethical non-monogamy. How you choose to live your ethical non-monogamy or your unethical non-monogamy, I don't, that's not for me to say. I don't care. That's yours. That's what you're doing with your life.

How I live my life is through that communication with my husband, through those rules that we have set up, through those things that we are using to define the parameters of this non-monogamous life. It doesn't matter if you think or you feel that I should be able to fuck you, you don't have my consent in that regard, okay? I have these parameters where my consent is given. And I can't help the fact that your life is not as easy to navigate as mine. But I'm not going to, I'm not going to try to navigate it either. That's my, it's not my place to judge what's going on in your relationship.

And I don't even care to, but it's also not your place to try to poke holes or find the loophole. And if you wanted to use the loophole come to my fucking party come to the party fuck me there but you can't because it's not during this day between this hour and this hour and it's not this day between this hour and this hour that's the difference that's the difference And if you can't see that difference, I don't really know. There's really nothing more I can do to define it.

Anybody who stands in judgment of the fact that I go to parties and I'm probably playing with married people who probably don't know, I'm hoping you can see the difference. I'm hoping you can see the difference between what that means and inviting somebody into my home to play with me, despite the fact that they're non-monogamous unethically. Because it's, again, not my place to judge. But also I don't have to participate. So I think that's the best answer I can give to that particular question if I'm honest. Okay. So I have some things. I have some exciting news.

I have a project that's coming up. I have a project that's coming up with one of the guys from Hopeful from Cuck My Life and Drew from the spades newsletter the spades magazine the three of us are starting a podcast the cuck a cuck a bull and a hot wife walk into a bar and basically what we're doing is we are sitting down and having conversations about things that affect the affect us in the lifestyle we're having conversations about, and we're getting all three sides, all three points of view.

Now, mind you, they're just our points of view, but it's going to kind of give you three different aspects, three different lanes things are coming down. Now, if you have a question that you'd like answered by a cuck, a bull, and a hot wife, don't hesitate to send me any questions that you have and I will read them out on the new podcast.

You can send them to me at pineapplepinuppod at gmail.com until such time as we get everything set up with the cuck bull and hot wife podcast but still you can still get it to me and we would be more than happy to answer any of your questions as a matter of fact some of the people who have written to me with questions that i think would be helpful to get additional points of view on i have used those over there so if you have sent me a question and i've answered it on air check check it out over at uh cuckbull hot wife and see if we you got more answers to your question it is a lot of um it's very entertaining to talk to these gentlemen about lifestyle topics.

And we have such a good time. We spend a lot of time laughing our butts off. And I like the fact that we're having conversations where you get more than one point of view, More than one angle to the story, because everybody in the lifestyle has their own point of view, has their own story. But we can kind of give you some generalizations from the different points of view. And we talk about all sorts of things. Like one of the episodes that we have recorded was, what's your worst fail? What's your fails? Like, let's talk about our fails.

And that one was really interesting because it brought up the fact that bulls don't fail a lot in the lifestyle. A bull life is much more prone to success than the rest of us. So it's a really interesting conversation and it's a really interesting podcast because of the fact that the three of us are there and we're having the full conversation. We're having the full counterpoint point conversation about things that are kind of important. And I really hope that you'll tune in and I'll give you more details as to when we're dropping that.

But I am going to invite Hopeful and Drew on to have conversations with me before we launch that podcast. So stay tuned for that. And hopefully that will be coming up in the next week or so. Thank you so much for tuning into the Pineapple Pin Up the Hot Wife Life podcast. If you have any questions or you have any topics you want covered or you have anything that you just want to say, don't hesitate to reach out to me, pineapplepinuppod at gmail.com. Also, you can reach me at, you can DM me at any of my socials, which are listed in the show's description.

And I look forward to hearing from you because I'd really like to expand the conversation.