Halloween kink or treat

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Welcome to the Pineapple Pinup the Hot Wife Life podcast. On today's podcast I'm going to talk to you about a party I went to with a very fun surprise and then I'll get into more some other stuff. This party was fantastic. Of course it was a Halloween party and it was so much fun and I of course went as a harem girl slash genie. I'm not quite sure but it was was, uh, anyway, it was not a lot of costume. That's for sure. We went to an evening endeavors party. Uh, I should kind of explain my whole weekend though, because my whole weekend kind of fell into this category.

So Friday night, I was invited to a fundraiser for a local charity for, that does good work for children. And I went to show my support and my costume was a pinup girl because I've got that all over the place because of branding. So I went as a pinup girl because it had to be street legal and that was important. I went and I met a couple of friends there and my husband didn't come because he's not he's not into socializing for no freaking reason. I mean I had a good time.

The following day I had to get up and work Saturday and then in the afternoon I was scheduled to go with my friend to see a, there's a studio in our area that does like pole dancing classes and aerial classes and a lot of really beautiful dance type things with accoutrement, more elevated than gravity normally allows us to be. So, um, we were invited to come see the show and it, and I, I had agreed to go because it was a friend of mine and I didn't really know what it was about. But when we got there, it was a legit strip show without the stripping. It was pole dancing.

It was sexy and it was intriguing and it was so much fun. And I literally thought to myself, I want to take up pole dancing because it looked like such a good time. Before I even went to the pole dancing exhibition, my husband was like, you and me, we need time. We were going to go and we're going to play. And he set up an entire like thing and it was so fun and it was so hot and it was like a really good way to just spend the middle of your day. And then I went to the pole dancing exhibition and then I came home, got dressed and ready to go for this Halloween party.

Well, I couldn't wear what I was wearing into the Halloween party. So I kept it street legal. And then when I got there, I changed and it was nice, good reactions. And it was a lot of fun. Now my friend Scoot went with me. She was the person who I went with to the pole dancing exhibition. And then she came with us to the party. And she wasn't sure what she was going to be doing at the party. She was there to mostly observe. So as we got there, we showed up kind of late because we were very delayed by the fact that I had this previous engagement earlier in the afternoon.

And then so we got there much later than the host is used to us arriving. We were he was in the middle of giving the instructions when we got there. So I went in and changed into my Halloween costume and then started wandering around. And I don't know what it was about this party, but everybody there was so incredibly shy. Nobody was asking to play. Nobody was doing a lot. So finally, I just took the bull by the horns and I called my friend Jay, who I have talked about in the past on this show. He's the one who was going to make me some music for this show.

He was there, and I was like, come on, let's go play. So we go into the room, and I have a tendency to talk people out of their hard-ons because I'm so busy making jokes and being funny and trying to put everybody at ease that it throws Jay off his game. So Jay and I were trying to play and he was doing this thing and I don't know what the fuck it was that he was doing, but it was a lot like what happened with me and the lady from the threesome I was in at the previous party. She did something that was on the outside of the hole, but right around the entrance of my pussy.

And not my clit, just below there and around the hole and did something that got me going. And Jay did the same thing with the tip of his penis. Jay did the same thing so well that I literally was just flowing. I was like, wow, thank you. It was so good. And then Jay tapped. And then I had another gentleman approach me. And I don't know if we came up with a name for him, but he was, we'll call him Casper because he was really white. Casper came along, and first of all, he was talented. He was so talented at all of it. I was like shocked and amazed like how much fun I was having with him.

And he was so good. Oh my God, he was so good. It made me really, really like ecstatic. Then, so I was playing with him and he was just like, oh my God, this pussy. And it was really like, it was so hot. Anyway, not the point. But then I stopped playing with him and I started playing with my friend Angel and Angel and I have gone way back.

My very first real honest to God gang bang he was there and he's um a nice hispanic man and we he fucked me for a while and it was like oh good and then um and then i had this asian gentleman approach me and he was fucking me for all he was worth but he kept doing this. He was putting his hands in weird places, like on my stomach, like on my actual stomach. And then like at the, where the bottom of my ribs comes together and my esophagus and literally making me throw up. And I was like batting his hands away because he kept putting them in just weird places. So then he was like, roll over.

So then I rolled over and he literally put his elbow into my spine. Now, anybody who's had a tattoo on their spine knows that it hurts to have something on your fricking spine. Okay. And this kid was using it like he was going to climb out of aine with it. And I'm like, what are you doing? And so I ended up having to stop playing with him, despite the fact that we were having a really good time. He was getting me off. All the things were working, but he just hadn't, it's like he'd only ever played with a doll. He'd only ever played with something whose anatomy didn't matter.

But the thing is, is that hand placement is very, very fucking important. It's an important thing to know where it is that you are putting your hands because you can do some real fucking damage to people. Like he upset my stomach. He made me vomit. He made me like, he practically paralyzed me because his hand placement was all fucking wrong. The fact is, is that there are places on the human body that you really shouldn't put a lot of pressure. And him not knowing that was a little bit scary because he had his hand around my throat. What are you doing?

If you don't know what you're doing, you could really hurt somebody. So he and I played for a little while and then I called it quits. As soon as he took my spine out, I was like, we're done. Bye bye. And then I played. There was another gentleman there who will call him Z. He was there and he, and I have never played before. I've never met him before, but he came in and, um, he was having a hard time getting the condom on without losing everything because the pressure of the condom was just taking him out. And I looked at him and I said, that's fine. You want just a blowjob?

And so he ended up letting me blow him for so fucking long. I'm like, dude, chap, okay, just either blow or go. Because I'm getting lockjaw here. And I kept stopping because I was like, okay, and if nobody's going to fuck me from behind, then this blowjob is not really worth it. And nobody was fucking me from behind. And I kept trying to get people to come and play with me. And it was like, I'd go out, I'd get somebody, and then something would happen. And it was all very, very weird. So I was beginning to think that maybe it was me. But then Casper came back and he played with me.

And we had a really good time. But Cas also played with scoot scoot popped her party cherry at this shindig and he came and she played with um angel and the asian gentleman and casper and it was so much fun we were in room together. And so my husband's there and me and Scooter there. And we're talking and laughing and joking around and having a really great time and throwing in callback conversations. And it was so much fun. And we were laughing so hard that everything was just insane. So finally, I got this other gentleman to come and play with me. And oh my God, he was so big.

He was so big and he was stretching me so much that I was like, I need my ice cream cone. I need it. So my husband gave me my ice cream cone and I was using that while he was fucking me and he got me like he got like the orgasm I had was monolithic I mean it was huge it was and it was um splash mountain kind ofworks, and he had pulled his t-shirt up over his head, so everybody had figured he was in on it, that he knew, but he, at just the moment, got, it sprayed him, I was blowing Jay at the time, It sprayed Jay. And he was like, what? And he looked at my husband.

He goes, why didn't you warn me? And my husband looked at him and goes, you pulled your shirt up over your head. We assumed you knew. She's not new. You're not new. How is it that the folklore around her hasn't gotten to you? And then, so, and it was hysterical. So everybody's making me laugh and he's totally enjoying it because every time I laugh, every time I giggle, I'm Kegeling.

I'm pulling all of those muscles in my pelvic floor tight and he's like enjoying the crap out of it so um he fucked me a while more and got me to a second magnificent orgasm and i was and everybody's staring at him like are you gonna complain about this one too so it was kind of funny and then there was another guy that i had tried to get to play with me who was ready to go, but literally just never, never stepped up off of it. So finally I looked at Scoot and I looked at my husband and said, let's go get a sandwich. So we took off because it was better. It was, it was time to go.

It was pretty late for us. It was, um, and I was just like, okay, we're, we're done. And then the guy who had been hanging around ready to go was like, you're leaving. And I'm like, yeah, I'm not going to sit around and wait for people to finally decide that they're, that they want to do something. You don't have to do something.

It's fine, but I'm not going to sit around and wait because that's not what I that's not what I want to do I want to have fun and then go get a sandwich with my friend and my husband and have a conversation and then go home and have reclaiming sex with my husband that's what I want the later it gets in the night the less likely I am to get those things that I'm there for. So we took off and we went and got sandwiches and then we brought Scoot home and she was all full of giddy. Now, here's the thing about women. You can be all full of giddy in the moment.

You can You can be awfully giddy at the time, but you still need to fucking process it. You still need to go through and figure out what it is that you're accomplishing, what it is that your emotional state is post the party. Because Scoot is very much one of those people who has a lot of emotion tied to intimacy and tied to her body and tied to sexuality. She has a lot of emotions tied to that. And for her, it's going to take some time to unravel it. It's going to take some time to step back and say, okay, so what was good? What was bad? Where do I need to adjust my thought processes?

And she's going to take, it's going to take her some time to process it all, which is great because as far as I'm concerned, that's one of the major keys to playing is you have to take the time to process anything that's happened, whether it's good, whether it's bad, and bring it to that place inside your mind and your, that is, that fully comprehends. Because if you did something that, that was outside of your boundaries, you need to, you need to recover and figure out what, if that's done any damage. It's just a fact of life. So she's processing.

Hopefully I will get her on and she'll be able to have a conversation with me about the whole thing, because I would really enjoy that. I would really like to talk to her about that. Okay, So let's talk about Halloween costumes. Halloween costumes are such a part of the season. Like it's such a part of October, like all of this. And it started when everybody was kids, not me particularly, because I didn't celebrate Halloween when I was a kid, but not the point.

October is really a lot about that gearing up towards altering our personality a little bit, putting on a costume and being something different and fun. And the costumes that were at this Halloween party were fucking phenomenal. There was a guy who came as King Tut. There was a lady who came as a gumball machine. Um, there was another lady who had on a Halloween nightgown. Um, the thing is, is that it was a lot of fun to just be there in that moment, to be there in that place and have fun with everybody with a little bit of whimsy, with a little bit of fun and excitement.

I mean, somebody came as the water boy. It was great. I mean, we had, it was good costumes and it was good fun and it was really phenomenal. But here's the thing about kink. Kink is something where we take on a lot of Halloween throughout the year. We take on a lot of lingerie role play. We take a long, like when I was looking for a costume, you have no idea how many little schoolgirl outfits there were, nurse uniforms, dominatrix outfits. Like we have a lot invested in kink role play as a community because it's fucking phenomenal and it's fucking fun.

And privateadventures.net pulled out a seasonal store that they're putting together like a lingerie line so that that way they can cater to some of those things. And like, I personally find this time of year very intriguing because of the fact that it gives us all an opportunity to step out of our normal. And I actually got my husband into two costumes this year. One, they were basically the same costume, but one had a pair of MC Hammer pants and one was just a regular set of pirate pants. But the MC Hammer pants were freaking hilarious. And my husband really played into them.

And he had, I think he actually had a lot of fun with them. And so that was funny for me. But we spent and it's just a little bit of whimsy. It's just a little bit of added layer to give you that sense of I'm not doing the normal run of the millthe-mill stuff I'm not showing up here in my sweatpants I'm not showing up here I'm actually putting in some effort and I'm putting in some creativity and I'm showing a little bit of personality and it is really nice to put that kind of effort in at least you know for the month of October it's phenomenal.

And I love the fact that we went out and we did costuming type things. Because all growing up, I never had the opportunity to do costumes. There was never a reason to put on a costume in my world. So now that I'm older, I really enjoy that reclaiming some youth that I missed out on. I really enjoy that. And I think that's essential. And my husband and I spent a lot of our weekend being playful and joyful. And it was so great.

I mean, seriously, fucking awesome to be in this with my husband, to be in this place where me and my husband are so connected to one another and so intimate with one another and giving all of it, good the bad and the ugly the the stuff that we're afraid to say we're saying it to one another and that's the one thing about this lifestyle that I think has really altered our relationship Speaking of altering a relationship, I got a message from a, from a listener and it touched me. I mean, seriously touched me because I think it matters. He said, hi, Teresa.

I first heard you on Strictly Anonymous Confessions episode a few weeks ago and have since been devouring your podcast. I felt compelled to let you know how much your podcast has impacted me. Truly appreciate your openness and honesty and I'm grateful for your willingness to teach others. You are incredibly brave. Eek. Sorry, this sounds very tall poppy right now. Hearing the story of your husband's transformation turning jealousy into a kink has rocked me to my core.

It has completely changed my perspective and made me realize how crippling my own trust issues are and how damaging they have been to my relationship with my wife. I too have been cheated on many times in the past that coupled with several other negative experiences that I won't bore you with have left me broken. To be brutally honest, communication and connection you share with your husband is exactly what I aspire to in my marriage. I have hopefully started us on a path to that goal. In just a short time, we have already been reaping the benefits of good communication in our sex life.

After 22 years of marriage, it feels as though I'm meeting her for the first time again. I'm not sure if you even read this or care, but I just needed to thank you. So thank you. Okay. I love that. Everything about that, everything about that moment of seeing things in a new light. that's all I want to do. I want to make the lifestyle so transparently accessible that nobody gets the wrong impression of it. Nobody gets the wrong impression and starts thinking that all we are is a bunch of degenerates who are running around trying to cheat on each other. That's not what this is about.

What this is about is finding joy in life, finding connection, and finding connection through things that other people tell you you can't have. Finding connection in this way that is so deeply and incredibly personal. For me, I am happy that you have found something of value in what I'm doing because it's important to me. And I really do appreciate you letting me know. And that one literally brought me to tears because I've been on that road. I've been on that road where our communication, my communication with my husband was not always great.

My communication with my husband was not always where it is now. And it took a long time and a lot of really like excruciatingly honest moments for us to get where we are. And that can be so painful, but actually so incredibly freeing, so incredibly rewarding. Because the after effects of intimacy, the after effects of being completely vulnerable to and open to attack from another person leaves you open and ready to communicate.

It leaves you open to hearing what they have to say hearing them accept you intimacy is hard and it will never be easy because it's super super scary but it is the kind of thing that when you have developed that trust when you have exercised that muscle much like dirty talk this is a muscle that you have to exercise, okay? You have to have more than one conversation to be truly intimate with someone. You have to have multiple conversations to explain what it is you're looking for, what it is you're seeking, what it is that you're hoping for.

And my husband and I had a very intimate conversation on Sunday, because I had been approached, I went grocery shopping with my husband, which was apparently for me, it literally is like a singles market. But I went to a store, and there was a gentleman that I saw in the produce department. And he looked at me, Thank you. I went to the, um, I went to a store and there was a gentleman that I saw in the produce department and he looked at me and I could tell that there was something going on. I could tell that he in some way knew me in some small way.

He understood, he knew that I was somebody that he knew. And so I was like, hi. And then I,ered off and did my grocery shopping. I ran into him again in the dairy department. And a woman kind of cut in front of both of us to grab something out of the cooler. And I looked at him and I smiled and I gave him a little wink with my tongue out, like just a little, hi, hi there. And then I went to grab the thing that I was grabbing. And he was like, I think I know you. And I said, from a certain website? And he goes, yes. And I said, okay, yeah, no, that makes sense. I mean, that's probably me. Yes.

And he goes oh okay so okay. So I have, like, I've messaged you before. And so I ended up taking him over and introducing him to my husband. And then we kind of chatted for a couple moments and then we exchanged some information. And I told him to reach out to me and let's see if we can make something happen. So he messaged me. And additionally, there was a gentleman that I had met at the party who I had also exchanged information with. I had given him my number and he and I were talking. I looked at my husband and I said, okay, so we need rules.

We need rules for what it means when I pick somebody up like I did at the grocery store and somebody that I haven't played with that I met at a party. What are my rules? What are my groundings? What are our parameters here? My husband and I had a very intimate conversation about what it was that he was going to find acceptable in that moment, what it was that he was going to find terrifying in that moment. And he and I had a whole conversation about these are what the, these are the rules of engagement in this particular situation. We have to have these conversations.

We have to have these talks. We have to have this clarity between us because if we don't have this clarity between us, if we don't have this open exposure, I don't ever want there to be doubts with us. He and I had a whole conversation about how important it is to him that I am, first of all, safe. And second of all, having a good time, doing things that make me feel sexy and alive. He's because that joy is something that he neurotransmits. Okay. He gets on board with it. He can feel my excitement and my excitement becomes his excitement.

My husband and I are very, um, symbiotic in that relation, in that way. he gets a lot of joy from my joy. He gets a lot of happiness from my happiness. He transmits a lot through me because he's not a super emotional guy. He's just not. he's not a super like feeler. I'm a super feeler. I feel all the things. And when I'm feeling all the things, he's actually gotten more understanding as to feeling those things too. He and I have literally broken down in tears watching Armageddon with the whole daddy-daughter shit. I lose my stuff. He loses his stuff. Because it's very personal.

It's an emotion he wouldn't really have let himself have before we started this intimacy, before we um but he is he's becoming more emotional he's becoming more emotionally available to not only me but to himself and so the joy that I am having the fun that I am having he's having it. And I don't think people understand what cuckolding and stag is, because it's not about feeling, getting strange. It's not about that. It's about watching somebody make this person that you love, that you've dedicated so much of yourself to.

You have promised yourself in every aspect of life as a man to protect and to give her this happiness and to be, and to give her so much, to give her the life that you promised her she would have when you when you agreed to get married when you agreed to spend your lives together he finds this a fulfillment of his vows to me his a fulfillment of that life he promised me we'd have. And what's really funny is it takes a turn away from the vows that I promised him, you know, fidelity and all that stuff. But at the same time, I don't feel like I'm cheating.

I feel like because we are doing this together. He is part of it. He is with me. And that can't be considered cheating. This one is getting complicated for me. This one, because it's very hard to explain what it is that a cuck or a stag or somebody who watches his part, it's very hard to understand what it is they're getting from it. But it is emotionally, joyously fulfilling in a way that can't really be described.

And it's not the same as when you're giving someone pleasure when you're giving someone pleasure you're thinking a lot about like mechanics and you're thinking a lot about what's going on in your body and you're not but when he's sitting there watching me be pleasured watching me feel my feelings feel my emotions and feel my just resplendent joy. He gets that same joy. He gets that in a way that connects us beyond him being able to fuck me.

When he and I reclaim, when we're in that moment of reclamation and we are together and we are looking back at what we've done and who we were with and we're recounting that, it's a new level of intimacy between us. It's a new level of that insane perfection that is this lifestyle for us. And mind you, I would never tell anyone that they need to do the lifestyle. That's not what I'm saying. You need to know if you want to do it for yourself.

I'm only telling you about my journey because I think it's important to make sure that everybody understands who it is that's getting something from the lifestyle and maybe a glimpse as to what they're getting. Because whatever we do, we are not doing it because we're deviants. We're not doing it because we're nymphomaniacs. We're not doing it because we have some sort of psychological condition that needs to be cured. We're doing it because it is something that we truly enjoy. It's an activity that brings us together.

And I just want it to be a little bit more normalized so that it's not so incredibly villainized. Thank you for joining me today on the Pineapple Pinup the Hot Wife Life. I really am grateful for everybody who reaches out to me and thank you. Please feel free to reach out to me pineapplepinuppod at gmail.com. All of my socials are listed in my show description. If you head over to privateadventures.net, they have, you can use the code pineapplepinup10 to let them know that I sent you, and I would appreciate the shout out in that regard.

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