Deeper into Cuck: my husband plays

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Welcome to the Pineapple Pinup, the Hot Wife Life podcast. On today's podcast, I'm gonna talk about a couple of different things. I'm gonna talk about a fantasy that my husband had that I was able to fulfill. I'm going to talk about a, somebody needs more information on Dirty Talk. I try not to put judgment on people's sex and sexuality, and I try not to put judgment on people's fantasies and the way they choose to sexually express themselves. And I think that's what I try not to put judgment on people's fantasies and the way they choose to sexually express themselves.

And I ask that you do the same in return. Not everything that happens is going to be your cup of tea. And this particular episode may not be your cup of tea, but this is something that my husband and I are playing with. This is something that my husband and I are delving into. It is because of the fact that we are ever-evolving, ever-changing individuals who allow our sexuality to grow as we experience new things and our mind is open to new things. Okay. So I'm asking for less judgment for each other. And that's all I'm asking for. Because I have no shame over what we did.

But this episode may not be for everyone because of the fact that it's not your cup of tea and that's absolutely fine. Okay. My husband and I have been flirting with the idea of my husband helping me seduce my bull, helping me suck his cock, helping me get his, his cock inside me. um, my husband taking on this submissive role to benefit my arousal, to benefit my pleasure, to add to the next layer for me, get him more involved in making sure that I'm properly pleasured. So this is something that my husband and I have been looking to do.

It's something that we have been discussing and going into detail, making sure that neither one of us are, you know, freaked out by it, making sure that neither one of us have residual emotional baggage from it. Because I'm sorry, there is a lot of stigma around a lot of things based on when you grew up, based on when you were introduced to the world at large. Okay. And so because of the fact that there are these societal things that are permeating our brains, sometimes there's an emotional hurdle beyond that which we would normally have to overcome.

So in this particular situation, we both needed to make sure that we were on the same page and that everything was copacetic. We had a lot of conversations about it. We had a lot of role play around it. We had a lot of a lot of things regarding this. And my husband and I decided to play in this bi-curious world. We had a friend over and this friend is somebody I've known forever for a very long time. He is one of my favorite people. And he and I had asked him in advance, because this is not something that you go into hopefully. This is not something you go into springing something.

This is something you go into with everybody fully aware of what was going on. Everybody fully aware of what was going to happen. Everybody fully aware so that nobody is blindsided. Nobody's snuck up on. So to make sure that everybody's on the same page, I texted with my friend and I said, you know, would it be okay if I had Tim? I basically asked him how he would feel. Asked him if it was okay. Asked him if this was something he'd be keen to play a role in. And he agreed to it. He agreed to play in this role play with us and see where it went. Nothing, you know, too crazy.

Just maybe, you know, extra mouths. So I invited him over. He came over and I made him dinner and the whole deal.

And we played before dinner, obviously, because you and I both know that I'm not going to play like I don't eat before I play it's just not going to happen so we played and it was hot I mean it was really good he and I played together to get warmed up and I had a couple of, um, I had a couple of doubts about my ability to deep throat and put those to bed that day it just depends on I guess the girth of the cock if the girth of the cock is entirely too wide for my throat there's just no shoving and forcing and going that being said I was able to deep throat him on our date and it was like sigh of relief Thank you.

going. That being said I was able to deep throat him on our date and it was like sigh of relief and then we so we played and of course waterworks are everywhere and everything's going crazy and it's so much fun and then we kind of took a break and we were resting for a second and my husband looked super eager. So I looked at my friend and I said, is it okay for me to bring him over? And he was like, yeah. So he, my husband came over and I basically did it like I was doing a tutorial. I said, this is how you suck a dick. And then I did it and then I I let him do it. And then we did it.

And we were, it was all very, very like, it was all very erotic. It was all very steamy. It was all very hot. And then we started to play again. And my husband's playing with my clit while making sure that the guy's getting in the hole correctly.

And he's playing with me and he's touching the gentleman and everything was just incredibly, and my husband felt like such a part of the play in a way that he hadn't before, in a way that he hadn't really, because you can be part of the play in your role as a cuck or a stag or whatever by just being there and making that part of your fantasy come true. But being there to help increase my arousal was next level. The fact that he was actually an implement to making things hotter was next level for him.

And that's all I'm ever looking to do is evolve, is to level up, to create new and intoxicating opportunities for the two of us to create this whole, you know, new world. Because I mean, you get to a certain point in life when sex can be whatever sex is going to be, you know, it's going to be a little bit lame.

It's sad times and it's going to be a little bit routine and it's going to be a little bit, but when you have decided to make this part of your identity, and you've decided to change things up, and you've decided to take the bull by the horns, and live every day as exciting as possible, it gives you the freedom to explore things that you never thought possible, to explore things that you never considered would be on the repertoire. So this was just a new thing that my husband and I had noodled around with, played with, and now all of a sudden we were bringing it to fruition.

It was one of those that it happened, we did it, we had fun. We then went back, back, had dinner, went back upstairs, played some more, played all sorts of different ways, like I'm sucking my husband's dick while I'm being fucked from behind. I'm laying on my husband's leg while he plays with my clit while this other guy fucks me. Um, he's coming underneath of me while I'm, you know, doggy style.

There's all sorts of things that are going on that are new and different and just increase the attention to where we are and what we're doing and giving it more focus and more opportunity to delight, if you will. And so after everything was done, we went downstairs and we were sitting there watching TV and chatting.

And of course, checking in with one another, checking in with Tim, checking in with my bull, making sure that everybody was on the same page, that everybody was okay, that everybody had not, that we hadn't crossed any boundaries, that we hadn't gone past anybody's consent and how we felt about it. Because it was very exciting. It was super exciting. It was a lot of fun and we had a great fucking time and everybody was on board and everybody was cool with it at the end of the day and everything worked out really, really great for us. So now what does that mean? Is that now what we do?

Is that now the only way that we play in the future? I don't know. But I do know that for days, I mean days after the event, my husband and I were revving on the high. My husband and I were going back to it, reliving it, finding emotional connection through it, doing all of the things that make this lifestyle so incredibly fulfilling for us. We went back and we actually relived, rehashed, emotionally took the journey with one another. And it has been days and days and days of incredibly fulfilling sexual encounters with my husband through this thing. My husband is ignited. He's excited.

He's writing that new experience. And my husband is super great about new experiences. My husband is super great about allowing them time to resonate, allowing them time to be relived, to be, to feel that anticipation, to feel that anxiety, to feel all of that once again, so that it can create that same intoxicating arousal. He really enjoys re-returning to the scene, returning to the video, returning to the everything that is the two of us. And re-rehashing it and using it again and again and again to create that same kind of fierce energy and desire.

It is, it's been, and mind you, within 72 hours, I had come in my eye three different times, not to mention my hair, okay? I don't know what's going on, but nobody can aim. But so it's one of those things where I'm literally getting like, it was so much, it was so much enthusiasm and excitement that cum was just flying. And three different times in the 72 hours after like from the event on I had cum in one eye twice and the other eye once so it was a little it was a little bit of um it was a little bit of eye trauma but but for the most part, we're through it.

But that kind of raging excitement, that kind of over eager, incredible arousal, the next level, the dirty talk, the all of it just builds and becomes this whole thing, this whole individual like microcosm of an event that ripples throughout many, many things. I don't even know how to describe it anymore. I'm, it's, it was so much fun. It was epically awesome. And I'm very glad that my husband and I took the time to cultivate it together and then took the time to cultivate it with my bull because it was an experience that I think all three of us truly enjoyed.

And I'm, and I feel closer to both of them through that experience. Um, and of course I'm not going to speak for either one of them when it comes to it though. Hi, I have a question for you that I hope you will answer. I really enjoy hearing dirty talk from my wife while we're getting it on, especially dirty talk involving other guys she has been with. I like some degradation talk and I love hearing about things she has done with others. I can tell she's kind of, she kind of has a hard time with this and I think she's afraid it will hurt my feelings on my part.

How can I assure her that I have some cuckold in me and thrive when I hear her dirty talk? Also, what are some of the things you say to your hubby when you guys are in the moment that drives him over the edge? Okay. This is one of those things where you're going to have to talk about what you're getting from it. What it makes you feel when she says things, because I will be honest with you. This is step one. Okay. This is always step, step one. This is how things begin in most cuckold relationships. okay there There's talk, there's taunting, there's elements of this, okay?

So you have to explain what it is that you're trying that it does for you in order to get her to understand. So for my husband, he likes hearing about things that I've done with other men. He likes hearing about experiences that I've had because he likes hearing me talk about how I've been pleasured and how pleasured I am and how much I enjoy like getting that dick. Some of the things that I taught my husband with are things that people have said to me.

Like there was one guy who told me that he was going to ruin me with his horse cock and that my, the walls of my vagina would never touch my husband's penis again because he was going to stretch me so far that it would never come back. And I told my husband this and it made him a little bit crazy and he really enjoyed it. And the thing is, is that we have to, women are going to be hesitant to share with you things that they think are going to hurt you because we're not necessarily afraid of you, but we're not not. Okay.

We don't want to do anything that's going to hurt your feelings or cause you to feel vulnerable or cause you to feel things that you may not understand and may not know how to control. It is something that we're taught from the very beginning of time, something that is downloaded into our DNA. Don't poke the fucking bear and don't hurt the bear's feelings. Because if you hurt the bear's feelings, the bear is going to lash out. Cornered animals tend to fight back. Okay.

So because we know this going in, because we know that women aren't going to purposely hurt your feelings, unless there's true understanding of what it is you're looking for, what it is that we're going to be able to provide you. It takes a very long time for women to get over the fact that they feel like they're being tricked, that they're being tricked into telling you something so that you have the excuse to be mad. It just is. It's facts. It's norm. It's, this is a thing. Okay. So if you were to say something along this line, I was thinking about you and that boyfriend you had that time.

And I was thinking about what he did to you with his cock, about how he kind of held your hands above your head and bucked you really deep and hard and wouldn't let you move and how much you found. And I was thinking about something like that and how pleasurable you found it. If you talk to her about how you'd like to be talked to so that she feels safe enough to share with you her made up, her real, her slightly left of reality fantasies, I don't know. I don't care. That's not what I'm in the business of.

But if you give her reasons and understanding of what it is you want her to share, she's going to be much more open to it. Okay? But you have to explain it. You have to explain it and you have to keep explaining it and you have to keep telling her. I really love it when you talk to me about it makes my dick so fucking hard when I hear how these men have pleasured you and how they're better at pleasuring you than I am.

Because when you tell me these men are better at pleasuring you, I get to live in the fact that they, that you were pleasured by these men and how fucking erotic you found it and all the things you found erotic about it and how every time you talk about it, it ramps up the wetness of your pussy. And then I'm driving into that wetness knowing that this is for somebody else's dick. That kind of thing breaks through a lot of fucking barriers, okay? It takes you down different thought patterns than you would normally go down.

So taking a moment, taking a moment to truly explain to her what it is that you're looking for, what it is that you're seeking from that conversation in that moment, what you're trying to get from her is so important because it takes some of the guesswork out of it for us. I'm sorry, but we spend a lot of time trying to figure out what it is that you actually want from us.

And whether it's, because here's the thing, if you want us to tell you how fucking phenomenal you are in comparison to somebody else, that's different than wanting you to tell, wanting us to tell you how great somebody else was in comparison to you. But if you're not defining, if you're just saying, talk to me about past experiences, talk dirty to me, she's not going to know how to give you what you want. And she could stumble into a landmine that could cause damage between the both of you. So lay it out. Tell her the truth. Tell her. And here's the thing.

If you make yourself vulnerable to a woman, she will make herself vulnerable to you. Quid pro quo here, guys. This is what we do. You give, we give you back 10 times. You tell, we tell you 10 times. Like, this is what women have always done. As a matter of fact, I think there's a parable about it, where if you give a woman a ring, if you give a woman a house, she will give you back a home. If you give a woman a child, she will give you a family. Like, there's all sorts of things that women take what you give them and they multiply it. The same is true of this, okay?

If you give a woman a little bit of vulnerability, a little bit of understanding into your brain, a little bit of talk to me like we're, talk to me like you trust me not to have any ill will towards you. I'm going to give that back to you a hundredfold. It's just going to happen. My husband had to speak to me about this so many times and had to explain it to me in a lot of different ways so I could understand what he was looking for, so I could trust that he understood what he was looking for. Because one bad experience kind of put us on a slow boat.

And you don't have to be on the same fucking slow boat. All you have to do is be honest. Tell her that you love thinking about the fact that her pussy is wet for her ex-boyfriend John dick, while you're fucking her. That it makes you so hard and so crazy and sloshing around and somebody else's arousal is just fucking hot. That it's something that you love to think about. And it's something that you love to feel.

And when you, the wetter she gets, the more the more you know she's thinking about somebody else's cock and that makes you incredibly insanely hot and it will explain a lot of things it will explain a lot of things to her that may not have made sense and now mind you I don't know I don't know anybody's wife well I know a couple people's wives but I don't know your wife and I don't know Thank you.

I don't know enough about your relationship to be able to speak individually to your relationship, but I can tell you that on a general principle, vulnerability from you will breed vulnerability from her. She'll give you more of what you want if you tell her how to do it. Tell her why she, why doing it helps you. Because never couch any of this towards what it's doing for her. It's not what we're talking about. We're not talking, you don't need to mansplain her feelings to her. You need to mansplain your feelings to yourself and then explain them to her.

You need to tell her what it is that this does for you okay because it's when you want somebody to give you something and you want somebody to give you something specific it helps them to know exactly what it is that you're seeking it's just how just how anything works. Anybody who's ever tried to buy a Christmas present knows anybody who's ever tried to buy a birthday present knows this is just one of those things.

So I think that you will find that dirty talk, especially in, um, asking her to relive old memories is, and believe me, my husband, my husband talks about, my husband likes it when I talk about what a bull has done for me. Um, and I say things like, oh, do you remember that time when that, when Josh came in and he took me and like, he was sucking my tit. And then all of a sudden he pulled back and like, I sprayed the whole room. Like that kind of stuff.

When I talk about things that happened and what it did for me, those are things that really helped my husband to achieve that next level of arousal that next level of desire and helps him to refocus and go back to this moment that we shared and he loves that revisiting that moment that going back and partaking of the same arousal more than one time Um, he, So I just talk about things that me and my bulls have done and talk about videos that I have made.

And I talk about things that will spark in my husband a memory of a moment that he was a part of, because he is very good at going back and recollecting those same feelings that he had at the time. So, um, I don't know if that's a full explanation of what I, how I talk dirty to my husband, but, um, that's a pretty good estimation. And I do talk about how wet other people get me and like all that other good stuff, because I think it's important to talk about. thank you so much for joining me today on the Pineapple Pinup, the Hot Wife Live podcast. I really hope that this answered your question.

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