Day off Date with POV

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welcome to the pineapple pinup the hot wife life podcast on today's episode i'm going to talk about a day off date with pov filming and i'm going to talk I have another clip of my husband talking about'm at home by myself, like all alone, and those are the days that I spend doing things that aren't necessarily in my husband's fun zone. I do a lot of crafting. I do a lot of Thank you. aren't necessarily in my husband's fun zone. I do a lot of crafting. I do a lot of weird baking. I do things that are kind of solitary endeavors.

But on this day, when I was home alone, I embraced the chance to do some crafting and get ready for the holidays that are like coming way too fast. And as the day wore on and I was finishing up the projects I was doing, I realized that I had this opportunity. I had an opportunity to invite somebody over. Um, so he texted a couple of friends, one said he couldn't. And then the other one, Josh said on my way, um, he is remarkably the most available guy I have ever started a thing with. He is the most available guy I have ever encountered in this type of atmosphere.

He lets me know when he is not available. If I ask him, hey, are you available? He will tell me right away. No, if he is available, he is like, you tell me when you tell me what time I will be there. Let's, let's get this thing done. He is always coming in clutch for me. And I love it. He was close by too, because he was working in the area. And so he was like, well, I'm going to have to go home and shower. And I'm like, why don't you just come here and shower? I mean, honestly, we have done so many more intimate things than you taking a shower at my house. So come on over.

So he came over and my husband, I texted him to let him know that he was coming over. My husband was very specific about what he wanted me to wear. So I went upstairs and I put on the things that he wanted me to wear. It was purple lingerie. and he wanted me to answer the door in this lace bra cups, Daffinus faux skirt that splits down the front and like splits down the middle in the front. And then a pair of, I don't know if you can call them panties because literally the, there's one triangle of fabric and then there's just strings everywhere else.

And this is, believe me, this is G strings are something that people actually wear, but I'm not entirely sure what they're wearing them for. You're not wearing them for comfort. You're literally just wearing them to expose everything quickly, which is awesome. And they, they work perfectly for that. Um, so anyway, so I'm dressed that way and he makes sure that he tells me for sure that he wants me to answer the door that way. So I answered the door and he and Josh comes in and we of course take photos to prove that I did in fact answer the door that way.

So I'm sending him photos as we're going and we go upstairs. Now my husband and I record a lot of content, so much content in fact that recently, this is a problem that a lot of people have had with their Google. All of a sudden my phone kept telling me I'm out of storage and that I needed to buy an upgrade so that I could maintain the function of my phone. I had done it but it still wasn't working because I didn't hit the button. Anyway, it's a problem that a lot of us have had recently because Google decided that you make it free for everybody to use Thank you.

Anyway, it's a problem that a lot of us have had recently because Google decided that you make it free for everybody to use your platform until such time as you're not getting as much on your platform and then you start charging people. Anyway, it's a genius, it's a genius plan. I mean, they're number one in the world for a reason. Anyway, um, so because of the fact that my husband and I do record a great deal of content, I started recording on my phone only to have, get about six minutes in before my phone died. Now, I was not paying attention. My phone was like, I am out of storage.

I'm not doing any more. I quit. And so it sort of just went black. And then we were in the middle of what we were doing and totally didn't notice. But I have another phone. So we picked that phone up and we started doing POV shooting. Now, POV shooting for me is so sexy. Um, like there are problems with it, of course. The angles that you get, the things that you see, the close-ups.

Again, I'm not super comfortable with how my body looks, but I am absolutely positive that if there were any genre that I was going to watch, it would be the genre of the POV because it is what I was seeing when I was in the moment. And at points, Josh took the camera and was recording.

He was recording me on top, which is not an angle that usually anybody gets to see other than the bull, because it is mostly from the back or from the side or something like that, where you're not actually seeing what's taking place between the two of us and all of the shimmy and shake that's happening on his dick. You're not getting that. You're getting some far off view of abundance of flesh moving about. Whereas when you're doing POV, you can see the lips opening to allow access to this column of meat that is invading and what kind of give is happening within that pussy.

You can see it all taking place and how the column is just engulfed and then released and then engulfed and then released. And, and I mean, he was getting angles of the, of doggy style as well, where you can see that same ebb and flow, that same swallow and release, that same like penetration from an angle that is usually reserved for the one person who's doing the inserting. He and I had a great deal of fun playing with that POV camera. And I am absolutely positive that there is something about doing POV that is more, you are more included as the viewer in the intimacy of the moment.

You are more included because there are things that I've never seen that I got to see. Like obviously never seen is like, but like in this moment, things that I wouldn't be able to see because I don't have a giraffe neck. Like if I had different body parts, it, this all would be very, very different story. But the thing is, is that because I don't get to see the same things it was it's very fun for me just to get those angles and it's very primal and intimate and shows the base need that is being fulfilled with this act of penetration.

It is all of the quiver, all of the delight, all of the spraying. For me, I love it. And I really wish that it didn't interfere so much with the actual activities to do those shots, because it does very much hinder your ability to be in the moment when you're trying to maintain the shot. You know what I mean? And so occasionally, I think that the, that that kind of stuff might be done because I do find it incredibly erotic. I find it incredibly intimate and inclusive and makes my husband part of the... Obviously, we shoot these for my husband, but then he does other stuff with them.

So because we shoot these for my husband, that is my goal, is to include him in what was taking place in that moment, in that room. I personally am a huge fan of that. And I really am grateful that Josh was able to, you know, come along and accommodate me. Um, but anyway, so basically we, um, he's actually started that day. He licked me a lot on that day. He, um, he was very attentive with his mouth and it was amazing. And I got a story about that later. But anyway, I really, we are really looking forward to the moment when my husband and I and Josh can, when Josh and I can play condom-free.

Because I am, I have my rules. I only, we test and then we go condom-free with only one other person. So I'm only condom free with Josh. And then, um, if things change and Josh and I are no longer, then when we'll start the process over, it'll start with testing. It'll start with, you know, blah. Okay. One of the things that I truly do look forward to is going condom-free. I am very interested in going condom-free with Josh because of the fact that it is a much different dynamic. It is a much different feel. It is a much different endeavor.

And the reclaiming with my husband just sloshing around in someone else's funk is just, it's out of this world. It's unreal. And for that and that alone, I really am looking forward to, we're very close because the process does take time and the process does take complete and utter trust that you're going exclusive with me and me only, And I'm going exclusive with you and you only as far as the condoms go. Um, I am not going, I've never, I've never been super good at exclusives. So this is the one thing that I'm actually like, I will fuck other people, but they will wear condoms.

And that is kind of our hard limit because it's not just me that I'm playing with. I'm playing roulette for more than one person, and that's not fair. So we do it in a way that maintains our safety. And we do it because this is somebody that has shown up for me time and time again, and has been time and time again, my go-to. So that is why in those times when I do go exclusive with this one act. It is important to me. It is, um, serious and I can't wait anyway. Um, but that day we did, um, because of the fact that the camera failed, we did do a lot of POV.

And I could only imagine how awesome it would have looked to catch him covering me in cum. And I'm kind of looking forward to doing some POV shooting when we get to that point. Anyway, I think it's hot.

so um everybody has a few questions that they kind of want to know from you okay um how long did it take you to convince me to do this one minute oh no we talked about it for a while before i finally agreed several several months where we were talking seriously about it where i actually expressed my expressed my actual fantasy versus the play we were doing and the fact that it could be real and then basically went from there and it was a couple months of saying this is what I want and disbelief skepticism let's not say disbelief let's just say skepticism okay so what has been your um takeaway from all this what has been the highlights for you all of it honestly um it's extremely exciting it's something i didn't even know I would like the way I liked it.

When we had dabbled before at parties, like, it's, I was more scared. And with my new found, we only live once thing, I kind of let down my guard and and just embraced it and um and it's it's been great so um i think that you're getting um in a just sexual way, very satisfied and getting to have a lot of fun and adventures. I'm getting satisfied. I still get to have all the same amount of time that we've always had and made for each other.

um our fantasies even though we're out actually living a lot of them we still have fantasies in bed every time we talk nothing has gotten more boring or oh i'm just having sex with you this time or anything like that um all the things that i was always afraid of is is has not been yeah and uh as a matter of fact i think our sex has gotten better yeah because we talk so much more absolutely and we say things so much more boldly yeah it's always hooded before it was always like part of the fantasy you don't want to turn anybody off um so that's always been you know in in parts of sex or for both of us right um you know you had a lot of things you were into that for a long time I didn't have any idea and this was not even in the realm of a possibility for a long time even when we went you know to the club or to the hotel takeover party and things like that it still was just the slightest little dabble and you know I don't know.

you know, to the club or to the hotel takeover party and things like that, it still was just the slightest little dabble. And, you know, we would message somebody and then giggle. And then nothing happened. Yeah. And then, you know, my side backed out of it. And then, you know, I voiced concerns and you ran away once I voiced any concern at all. Exactly. Well, that's not because it wasn't worth, it wasn't worth the relationship to do this versus lose a marriage and family and the whole deal.

So, but now that we've kind of gone back and my life changes and my position in life have changed, that's, that was what, 15 it was late 30s i think and it's a lot different now that i'm in my 50s and and you're at least that um but it's a lot different um it's a lot different have a different perspective in life that um we've done the just get along to get the kids through and you know you don't want to make waves or do anything too risque and we did all that the kids have grown and moved out and eventually they'll stop using all our money and um but they've they moved and and became adults and so that allowed us to have our adult time and i think we're going in full force and and it's been great it's been great i agree yeah it doesn't mean they don't have issues but but we've uh them and go from there.

And we always have said that no matter what, there is an absolute stop button to the whole of this. It would go away in a moment's notice if it meant the relationship.

And that's, you know, at least until we settle our relationship issues at that point it would be full stop and with that comfort mixed with you know you only live once um i think it's gone well and we've taken a couple of breaks yeah like not long breaks i mean a couple of months here a month there yeah but we took those breaks for the health of our marriage for the health of ourselves for the physical health for the physical health yeah that was things it's just it's just part of life so exactly we've uh and also still the fantasy i mean it's it's no it is not a lie um the only porn that i've watched in probably over a year now has been porn of you um but that's that's what i you know that's what i masturbate to that's what that's what is my fantasy is what's happening so So, and get to watch that back and all that.

It's, it's been, I mean, obviously I'm getting a lot out of it and I believe you are as well. I am. Yeah.

The other thing that this has really done for us is it's gotten us out of a rut because for a very long time, the only thing we ever did was on the couch watch tv this is the this is part two of the whole thing is um i made a conscious decision that i was tired of being tired what we were doing yeah we we stayed home we really dedicated ourselves to raising children raising children and doing all that that bullshit and and neglected ourselves absolutely and our relationship yeah well my relationship did pretty well but but i mean it was definitely with accommodation for each other in a lot of ways um to make the peace and keep the peace and we still had a pretty good relationship i mean we still were sexually active and and like to see each other generally um but but we just didn't go out we just didn't go out at all and we didn't foster a lot of you and me time yeah we fostered a lot of together time but it wasn't you and me time absolutely so ever since the adjustment in your attitude and your only live once philosophy we have become more we've become more of a team i feel like i feel like we really listen to one another and really um hear each other and there are still conflicts obviously because it's a freaking marriage not a it's an apartment exactly real and i love the fact that our relationship has bloomed in such a way that we are experiencing new things and finding new ways to be together and finding new ways to connect.

So I got from a listener, I had a few questions that I thought you might have some good input on. If you don't, that is fine. How do you go about planning a sex party? I mean, what do you do to make sure ax murderers don't show up seriously though? How do you go about making sure that everybody who shows up is respectful, polite, no STDs, et cetera. Um, he goes on to explain that it takes time to get to know a person well enough to be sure they'd be a good fit, blah. So that's, um, okay. Actually, I'm going to read that.

It takes time to get to know a person well enough to be sure they'd be a good fit for my wife and I. The chemistry has to be right. We all walk away with a smile. Our face is very good memory from the experience. Um, okay. So that's not what a sex party is.

A sex party is not about chemistry and intimacy and, um, all of those long-term in-depth, like emotional connections that make everybody a sex party is literally wham bam thank you ma'am next in line it is without a doubt bacchanalia it is hedonism it is um all of the taboo things that we're not supposed to want from a stranger coming from a stranger, all the things that we're supposed to be too polite and too refined to act. It is animal style. Let's just fuck. I don't need to know you're like half the people that I fuck. I don't know their names.

I don't get their names until after they get up off me. This is, that is the difference between what you're talking about with the setting up a, like a special meet for you and your lady. Um, but let's talk about how to set up a very successful sex party. You can't know if you're throwing a party, all of the details of your guests. Parties are not for everyone. And if you need intimate and emotional connection, then you aren't getting that at a party. My husband and I do RSVP so that it has to be accepted so that we can vet the guests.

My husband requires that they have a photo on their profile, be close to the area, and we get a balance of the guest list girl to guy ratio. You're never going to know if they are STD free or if they are serial killers, but you do the best you can and you require that they wear condoms to keep the risk at a minimum. Even if someone tells you they are STD-free, they can lie. And even if they supply you a test results, those can be fake. There's a lot of faith and offsetting of the risk. You do what you can to protect yourself by being proactive with the available protection.

And most of the time, serial killers are not going to attack in a group, which is why parties are much safer than one-on-one meets with someone you've never met before. Have a venue, have a theme, those help, have a date and time, advertise on your preferred app, and then you decide who gets to come. Make sure you have drinks and snacks, condoms and lube. We have speakers for music, shower curtain liners to prevent damage to the mattresses, wipes, and extra towels. Those are the basics of what we try to, we actually have a go kit.

And this is one of the most important things I can tell you about party planning, control your guest list, control who you are inviting ratio wise, numbers wise, because you can only do the best you can do with regards to who shows up. But if you are inviting 60 men and two women, your party is going to be a sausage fest. If you get a ratio of like maybe six women to, you know, 18 men, your ratios are much more conducive to actual play.

I am not a hundred percent sure how you can make sure that the people, the women that you're inviting will play or that how you know that the men that you're inviting will ask them to play. Um, that was a lot of the difficulty that we ran into last time was that there was a lot of, uh, shyness going on with the men and the women just weren't being asked. So that just meant that I went on a marathon tour with my vagina. I was, I was, uh, the party favor of the year, that one.

And it's fine, but you have to make sure that if you're doing a party, you're not doing a straight up sausage fest because it will not be a successful party nobody will leave there going wow i had a great time everybody's gonna leave there going god i wish i could have gotten some and especially if you're charging for the party i mean if you're charging for the party because it is not cheap to put on a party at a venue at a hotel it is not inexpensive because you are buying things like condoms and lube and shower curtains and you are supplying a hotel room and snacks and there's a lot of financial endeavor that goes into this.

That is why many of the party planners, they make sure that they get a certain number of girls lined up. And then when they throw their party, they advertise that those girls are coming because there are certain girls that have a reputation that they will play, that they'll play every time, no matter what, no matter, like season doesn't matter. So it is very, very important to make sure that whatever it is that you're doing, you've got your ratios correct. And if you are charging, you want it to be a good experience because Yes. doing, you've got your ratios correct.

And if you are charging, you want it to be a good experience because that is how you get a good reputation and get a good following and get a good influx for every party or endeavor you set out to do. It takes a minute to get that vote of confidence from everyone, but it takes only a minute to lose it. I've been to some parties where it was nothing, like nothing was going on, nothing at all. Nothing was happening. And those are the ones that we don't really go back to.

So, or you get, if you're not controlling what you're doing, you get these events that happen where it's standing room only and nobody could fuck in there if they wanted to because you're all in a pen and there's a walkway and that's it. Otherwise it's bodies stacked on bodies. When there are 12 couples going at it on one bed, that is more than any bed is supposed to be. I mean, and it's too much and there's not enough room and then it's too hot and then you can't breathe and then you start to get panicky and it feels like the crowd is coming in on you and it's because it is.

When it's too crowded, you need to be able to control the atmosphere of the room. You need to be able to control the temperature in the room. You need to be able to put together all of the comfort modules that you can to make sure that people are having a good time and that they have space to do the thing that they're there to do. So you have to think about the number of women you are inviting versus the number of beds that you have, knowing that beds can be shared because I've been at parties where there was this one party.

Oh, I think I may have told you about it, but I was on the bed with a girl on her back being fucked by her guy while her friend, And her female friend was massaging her, getting fucked from behind while I was on my back next to them getting fucked. It was the most surreal and intriguing, um, mashup of bodies and like pleasure sounds. It was amazing. It was so much fun. So sharing a bed is not uncommon, but what you need to know is like, how much can this room take body-wise?

And you have to really put thought into that because the last thing you want is people to leave because they didn't have a place to do their fucking. I mean, it's a fuck party. That's what you're there to do and if you don't have room to do it, it's going to end up giving you a bad reputation in the party world. Thank you so much for joining me today on the Pineapple Pinup, the Hot Wife Life podcast. I really hope you enjoyed today's episode. If you have any questions, hit me up on my Gmail, hit me up on my socials. They're in the description. My Gmail is pineapplepinuppod at gmail.com.

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