Costumes!!!!

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welcome to the pineapple pinup the, the Hot Wife Life podcast. Come on, y'all, it's fall, and today I'm getting into the season. No, if it's just me, but this time of year really lends itself to the kink life, to the kink lifestyle, to the kink genre, because it is all about dressing up and role play and setting the scene and creating the environment. And I don't know about you, but I am heading out to like, I've been invited to so many Halloween, Halloween things that like, it's coming time to find costumes. Now, here's the thing that you have to go, like you have to delve deeper into, right?

There are different kinds of costumes. They're kind of... to go like you have to delve deeper into right there are different kinds of costumes there are costumes that are street legal and there are costumes that are decidedly not and he and as we approach the season it's really nice to know where to go to find adult plus size costumes right um I don't know if any of you can help out here, but there are so many places that are all about selling the French maid and selling the, um, school girl and the sexy cop and the sexy firefighter and the sexy nurse. Of course, We'll see you next time.

the, um, school girl and the sexy cop and the sexy firefighter and the sexy nurse, of course, the sexy nurse. I am interested to find out what the theme this year is because I have seen a couple harem girls that were actually really, really cute. And I'm not going to do any spoilers because obviously I'll put up pictures of my Patreon. But I think I've got some good options coming. And here's the thing. It is a lot of fun to go and look, but there's also limitations, especially when you're a girl my size. I am tall. I am round. I am dangerously curved. I am in all the classic ways, a BBW.

so I know that when I go out there to find a costume, I am looking for something that's going to have a lot of tit room, a lot of ass room. And I still want it to be sexy. I still want it to be something that makes me feel confident about my body and who I am. This is a huge thing to think about. And are you doing couple themed costumes? And if you're doing couple themed costumes, what does he go as? I mean, I did see one that was actually really kind of cute. And it was the League of Our own, uh, uniform for the Rockford peaches. It was adorable.

And so then I'm thinking you, of course, have to dress your husband up as Tom Hanks, as the baseball playing manager. There are all kinds of different things out there that if you're trying to create the magic of the season, and you're trying to create the fun and revival of letting go of being part of the fall and the Halloween and the, it's going to be, it's something that takes some planning. It takes some effort and it takes some energy to actually go and find something that's going to fit you well and be what you want it to be.

And because of that, I think that it's important to do some research, find out where the costumes are, find out where, um, like I went to Halloween costume.com and there was nothing on there that I would feel comfortable wearing to a kink party. Of course, there's always Sheen and Amazon.

But I'd like to know where there are some real, and I spoke to the guys over at privateadventures.net, and they're actually going to do a season-based pop-up sale on their site site so definitely go check out privateadventures.net because they are going to do a whole costume and lingerie shop for halloween um and of course if you go there definitely use pineapple pinup 10 to let them know that i sent you all that good stuff so there's a lot going on in in the costume world right now and we need to take I don't know.

So there's a lot going on in the costume world right now, and we need to take a minute to acknowledge what it is that costumes give us in kink because it's part of setting the scene. It's part of setting the wheels in motion to get the air of what the sexy thought process is of developing the fantasy. Okay. So when you have that role play scenario that is going through your head that, you know, oh, I, I'm a school girl, and I've been naughty, and I need a spanking. And you definitely want him to look like a headmaster.

You know, the, the sweater vest with the tie and the glasses and the slacks and the paddle in his hand. yeah no that one that one's getting to me right now.

And you definitely want to use this opportunity, these moments when these costumes are kind of desired and required to create a little bit of that magic, to create a little bit of that fantasy, to create a little bit of that je ne sais quoi, you want the, because when you build out a fantasy, when you build it out with what clothing you're wearing and what it smells like and what the room feels like and the ambiance and the music that's playing, when you put the time in to figure out all of those little intricacies, all of those little moments and build the fantasy, because porn is porn for a reason, guys, okay?

Porn is porn because it talks to the fantasies that we have rolling around in our head of the spicy little French maid who wanders into the library to dust. And then she climbs up on the ladder to dust and her ass is in your face. And so you just want to dive straight in. There's a lot going on in these scenarios. And because of the fact that porn takes these fantasies and builds a world around them, you can too. You can create these moments. You can create this space where your fantasy can come to life.

And mind you, it's never going to feel like your fantasy, but that heat that that fantasy generates within you can come through when you do a little bit of extra, when you do a little bit of costume and you do a little bit of role play and you do a little bit of mood lighting and you do a little bit of mood music. It can build itself into this whole world. And as somebody who really honestly loves being a fantasy fulfillment slut, that shit is amazing.

The amount of electricity you can create by reenacting a mental image that you've had that made you horny in the past can create this next level arousal in real life, in this give and take moment. It's never going to look exactly like your fantasy. It's never going to go exactly like your fantasy. But the walking into a scene that has done it for you in the past gives it that extra spice, gives it that extra yum, or as the season might call it, that extra pumpkin spice.

So we're looking at the fall and we're looking at the costumes and I'm looking for the opportunity to use this as a stepping stone to create more heat, to create more scene, to create more fantasy, to build it in my head and then have it come to fruition before me. I am very excited about the anticipation that that is going to create. I am very excited about the stories that it's going to write. I'm very excited about the Thank you. anticipation that that is going to create. I am very excited about the stories that it's going to write.

I'm very excited about the heat and the cuddle and that kiss and that, you know, just that, sorry, I'm really having trouble getting my words to come out the way that they're supposed to because there's no way to describe what this is. What this is, this opportunity that we're standing on the brink of, this moment where we can create so much more than just she showed up in lingerie and I fucked her, you know, that kind of thing.

This is exciting and I am excited and that is an important thing because living in the excitement, living in the ache of anticipation makes the orgasm reward so much sweeter. Building it brick by brick. So go visit my friends over at privateadventures.net. Take a look at what they've got in their seasonal section. And just know that this is an opportunity for you to push the envelope, expand the thinking, go further, go longer, do a little setup, do a little aftercare, do a little reconvene, talk through what it is that you liked and what you didn't like.

See if you can fine-tune it, refine it, rediscover it again in a week or so. That's the best part about kink is the opportunity to keep on doing it, finding different ways to make it hotter, finding different things to make it sweeter. Anyway, I really hope that this fall you guys are surrounded by the joy of the season and the costumes and the fantasy provoking that's there. I really hope you find all of that because I think this is the best season for kink. It's the best season to let your freak flag fly and be anything you want to be and experiment.

And don't wait for anyone else's approval. Go and be the weirdo that you want to be. Go and be the kinky freak and just let your flag fly hard and fast this season. I can't wait. Thank you for joining me today on the Pine pinup the hot wave life podcast i really hope that your holiday season is fucking fantastic and full of all sorts of fantasy um definitely go to privateadventures.net and check out what they've got stewing doing.