After party Nov 16

Transcript

Welcome to the Pineapple Pinup, the Hot Wife Life podcast. On today's podcast, I'm going to talk about what happened after the party. Also, I'm going to talk about how lifestyle evolves. And then I'm going to kind of give you the rundown on playing with people who are married. I've already died down probably around midnight. People had started filing out. There were very few people left. There was a couple, two single men and one single woman. Josh, my husband, and myself. The other room had two queen beds. And the room that I was in had a king bed.

Now, this king bed had been the site of flooding. Um, it was, it was not great. There were towels all over it. There was, it was, but that's where we decided to sleep. And Josh decided to spend the night and he slept in the King bed with us. So Josh had come in and he'd had a little bit of a headache because he, I don't know, but he had a little bit of a headache. So he had fallen asleep. And my husband had went and gotten me food. And then after we ate, we were heading to bed. Now, there were still party years in the other room. And we were fine with that. You know, let them be, let them do.

And we went to our room because it was my husband's turn. It was my husband's chance to be part of the party now. So we went into the room and Josh was sleeping on the other side of the bed and my husband and I began to play. He was so eager to reclaim this well-used pussy. He was so eager to take it back that he didn't care what else was going on in the room.

And he and I began to play, and he slid into me with that groan, that groan that tells you that he has been waiting for this, anticipating this, and that all of his anticipation and thoughts about that moment paled in comparison to the way that it felt to sink his rock-hard, abused cock inside of that swollen, deliciously abused cunt. It was magnificent. It was this moment that you could hear it in the depths of his soul. And he slides into me and he begins to fuck me like an animal.

Like he is possessed and Josh wakes up and he rolls over and he begins playing with my tits and I begin under the sheet stroking his very hard cock. My husband is losing his fucking mind. Thank you. stroking his very hard cock. My husband is losing his fucking mind. He is like, go play with him. So I go and start playing with Josh and Josh, ready to fuck me because this is, you know, eroticism. This is hedonism. This is everything that we're not supposed to want, but makes us crazy to fuck. So he climbs, he climbs over me and he begins to fuck me.

And my husband is next to me and he's playing with me and I am stroking his heart. And it is the two of them. And they are both like so eager to play this game, to play together with this. And it is so hot, so erotic, and so unbelievably. And this is the first time that my husband has ever actually engaged with sex with me in front of other people. Well, actually I did give him a blow job in public once, but this was, this was a very threesome type moment. And this was the first time my husband had ever been truly participant in a threesome with me. It was a mind-blowing experience for him.

He and I discussed it for hours later on when we had time together. He was literally mind-whacked. It was such an out of body, such a, he'd never been more present, never been more in the ether, never been more, you know, it was so many things that it was very hard for his brain to fully calculate what was going on. And it was so hot for him. It changed the game for him. It added another layer of kink to the kink that we already had. It brought forth this new opportunity that maybe he'll be able to do again in the future, it brought forth so much feeling and desire and fantasy.

And it started his entire brain cooking at the same time that his cock was so fucking hard. And he literally, like he and I, I sleep terribly. He usually sleeps like the dead. And that night, neither one of us slept. I slept maybe about 15 minutes. I was exhausted, but I slept maybe about 15 minutes and he slept like not at all. He spent the entire night like half hard thinking about everything that had happened, thinking about everything that happened at that party.

And then as the, as the stirrings of dawn started lightening the room, my husband was full erect and full ready to go and full playing with me. Now, we are still in the bed with Josh. Josh is asleep right over there. And my husband touches my un-lubed pussy after a night where I fucked 17 men multiple times. It was a little chafey. It was a little scuffed up. It was a little yikes and uh i made some sort of a squeal that woke up Josh. And Josh was like, and I said, and the lube was on Josh's side of the bed. So I'm like, lube, please give me lube. So we end up, he, Tim and Josh exchanged lube.

They lubed me up and we're back at it. I mean, seriously, the three of us are back at it. We're back to full on fuck fest. It was, I was fucking Tim while I'm fucking, and then things are, we're shifting and I'm fucking Josh. And then I'm going back to my husband. And then my husband is like finishing in like spectacular fashion. And it was fucking insane. I mean, I'm, when I tell you that like a little bit of lube and I'm ready to go, it's not a joke. I mean, I was, I had very shaky legs all day on Sunday because we had this party on Saturday night all day on Sunday.

I'm grocery pre-shopping shaky legs all day on Sunday, because we had this party on Saturday night all day on Sunday. I'm grocery shopping, shaky legs. I had worn, I had used my muscles. I had used them in the way that they were designed to be used. And I was loving it. My husband, like that whole scenario with Josh and Tim at the end of the night and the beginning of the day was a feat that I don't think my husband's been able to do in, in years, um, since his health troubles began. Um, The fact that he was able to fully perform in the morning was amazing.

And it altered his perception of what he could do, of what he could be, and the part he could play in future fantasies. I am grateful for these moments that change our perception of who we thought we were, that change our identity in such a way. Okay. Like I know it seems small, but the fact that my husband in the past had tried to participate in something like this, it was, but it was very early on. It was the first time we were doing a hotel meet after a party with, um, a young, a young guy, G and it was, he tried to participate with us and it just wasn't working. It wasn't happening.

And so my husband honestly got an identity marker from that moment. He believed that he was not capable of participating in those moments with me. And that night, that morning, altered his perception of his role in our kink. I don't know if he's going to start playing. I honestly don't. I honestly don't know what the future holds Based on this new information But I can say that It was Such a great Thing That this threesome happened Not just that night But also that morning And that my husband felt F fully involved in the entirety of it. That was such a great thing.

And I am beyond excited to see where the next chapter goes. To see how we evolve within this kink, evolve within this lifestyle, evolve within our relationship. Because I know that there's that constant need for people to find the next big excitement, the next big, you know, well, this is passe and blah. I don't ever want to feel that way in my relationship. I don't ever want to feel like we're in the motions, just mechanical about it. I don't want that. I don't, I want to be fully engaged mind, body, and soul. I want to be fully there.

And new things like this bring you keenly aware to what is going on within you, within your partner, within the lifestyle, and within the possibilities of the future. I cannot fucking wait. It's gonna be so god so on one of my podcasts I asked are you able to integrate your kinks and I got a response from someone and he said um you asked if we've ever successfully combined our kinks my initial instinct is to say yes but as I started to think about my wife and I's journey I'm Thank you. You asked if we've ever successfully combined our kinks. My initial instinct is to say yes.

But as I started to think about my wife and I's journey, I'm sort of realizing that maybe it was our relationship between ourselves and our relationship with the lifestyle that grew to include more kinks. About five or so years ago, my wife and I started having a conversation about her exploring with women. She began to realize that she was sexually attracted to women and I loved that for her and I told her not to hold back. We can figure out how she could explore that part of her sexuality.

As our relationship grew and the experiences in the lifestyle grew, we began to add more things from soft swaps to swinging to her pegging solo guys, me playing with some women solo to our current stage of exploring her desire as a cup queen. That is what I think many of us find. Many of us find that we are evolving within the lifestyle. Not so much that we are evolving within the lifestyle. Not so much that we are, um, not so much that we're combining new kinks, but that we are finding our boundaries being broadened, our desires being realized more fluidly.

And I think that's what's happening with my husband. I think that that night at the party, it changed something for my husband. I do not know yet where it's going to lead, but I do know that it is something that my husband is going to probably want to explore more. because whether or not you come to the lifestyle with one thought and one thought only, the lifestyle really does help broaden your mind, give you opportunities to see things in real time and in real life that maybe didn't occur to you before, maybe didn't sparkle within you before.

But now as you are developing these new friendships and developing these new play times, it becomes part of the everyday, part of the normal, part of the, this is not, this is not going to make me a bad person kind of morality shift. It's exposure to new ideas and exposure to new opportunities within the lifestyle that we've already created. I agree with him that I don't think he necessarily combined his kinks. I believe it was a growth, this situation. And I believe all of us are on a journey of growth.

I believe all of us are on a journey to create more adventure, more excitement within our own lives and our own marriage. But at the same time, as long as we're keeping that Thank you. more adventure, more excitement within our own lives and our own marriage. But at the same time, as long as we're keeping that marriage piece close and tight, and that's where our focus is, we're going to find and we're going to define our lifestyle journey differently as we move along. It's only natural. It's only natural that evolution take place, evolution within yourself, evolution within your partner.

And that is why when things start to evolve, we maintain the conversation. My husband and I are going to have many, many conversations about what happened after the party. Most of them are going to lead to sex, but many of them are also going to lead to a clear definition of what it is that's acceptable between us and acceptable between what we can get consent for from our bulk.

So this is, without a doubt, one of those moments when a lifestyle becomes a growth opportunity and and we are in the midst of it, and we are looking at it from all the angles, and we haven't made any decisions about what we're doing moving forward, but we're opening the conversation. We're having the talk. We're doing the homework because when things shift, when they alter, that is okay as long as both parties or all parties or however many parties you want are all in agreement. Because as I preach time and time again, consent is sexy and it is necessary.

You are playing in a realm of there's a little element of danger there. But if you are getting clear and concise consent and you are asking for it every time and they are giving it every single time, then you're not in the gray. You're in the black and the white and you are doing the right thing. I understand that it is the most important part of the lifestyle. And again, I go back to consent starts from inside of you and then goes to your partner and then ripples out from there. Make sure that everybody is on board.

Anyway, now that we're evolving, now that we are finding new avenues, now that we are exploring what a threesome is and what my husband's participation in that type of arena could be, I am very excited about it. I'm very excited because it was a little bit mind-bending for me because it was very um permission based it was very, um, permission-based. It was very, go do that. It was very little, little activities for me to go and handle little, um, experiences for me to go and experience with permission. And the permission was happening real time.

And the permission was coming in the form of light little orders, light little, now go, go over there. Now, now go do that. And it, I, hello, I'm sorry. I'm a Capricorn. Give me a task, baby. Give me a task and I will rule the world. I'm not kidding you. It is the hottest thing in the whole freaking world for me. I love that. I love that when, oh, so hot. I'm sorry. It's just fucking hot. Little tiny orders, There's little tiny achievements that I can make. Oh, yeah.

Anyway, I know that each one of you are probably experiencing something very similar, where you are exploring and adapting and going to new places within the lifestyle. And that is freaking awesome. Because I do know that probably each one of you entered the lifestyle with a certain set of ideas, a certain set of parameters, a certain set of rules. And I know that they have probably changed. So reach out to me, tell me, I'd love to hear it. And let me know if it's okay to share it on my podcast, because I'll be honest with you.

A lot of times I get these things and then I feel like I want to share them. And then I, I want to ask permission and just let me know in advance if it's okay for me to share, because sometimes I get overeager and start a podcast and forget that I didn't necessarily get consent to share the details of what you sent me. But just let me know in advance if you can. Appreciate it. I got a question from a listener and I don't know if it is something that I've answered before. And honestly, this is something that I don't really feel like can be answered enough.

He asked me if we play with married people whose partners do not know. Um, the short answer is no, no, we don't. Um, can we always be 100% certain of our partner's social life or relationship status? No. And especially at a party, there's no way for me to vet every person that's there. There's no way for me to get into their relationships. But knowingly, I do not play with married people whose spouses do not know that they are playing in the lifestyle. And the reason for that is because it is the one hiccup that my husband has.

He does not want me to play without him knowing, and he doesn't want to do that to anyone else. This is a very firm rule that we have had, and we have missed out on a lot of people, I wouldn't say missed out on, but we have passed over a lot of people because their relationship status was sticky. Their relationship status was not honest. And the one thing that my husband and I are adamant about is that we are honest with one another and that we tell each other what's going on, what we're doing.

This is not to say that anybody's situation is the same as ours, but this is the line that we have drawn. This is the boundary that we have created. And this is the kind of boundary that we don't get flexible with. If we know that there is a spouse out there that's being cheated on, then we don't necessarily want to participate in that behavior. And that is, and I am not here to say what's right and what's wrong. There are all kinds of reasons why people get into the lifestyle. And there are all kinds of reasons why they do or do not communicate with their spouse.

I am not here to put that on anyone else. My relationship only works when my relationship has these particular notes in the symphony. Other people are facing different things and therefore it's not my place to judge them, but I am also allowed to have what I would want done for me to come into play. This is not absolutely not a dispersion on anyone because I don't have to be in your marriage. I have to be in mine and my marriage works best this way. So if your marriage works best another way, that's absolutely fine.

But the reasoning behind my husband and I is there is too many, there's too much at stake when there are secrets. There are too many people that can be hurt if there are secrets. And for my husband and I, we're not in this to hurt anyone. We're not in this to create anyone's drama. We're in this to relax and have a good time and create a life with the two of us and some added adventure. Okay. Our desire for no drama is pretty, pretty steadfast because the last thing that anyone needs is to be screamed at by somebody's wife. And yes, yes, I have gotten some angry texts.

I have gotten some angry messages on my platforms because of the fact that people are under the impression that it is somehow my fault that they're, that like, because I couldn't properly vet this person. I had met this person at a party. They had gotten my number and we had tried to explore more. And then that led to, but as soon as that stuff starts happening, I block the number and I walk away and that person is no longer part of my play, no longer part of my circle. And that's not to say that I have any judgment against them, but if you have some drama, I just don't need it at my door.

I try to keep my doorstep really clean. So when you bring your drama to my door, I can't, I don't need to be a part of that. I don't need to be a party to whatever's going on. So again, that's not a judgment. That is just a, how I choose to live my life and how my husband and I choose to play within our lifestyle. And that is because it is hard. It's hard to live with the secrets and it's hard to maintain those. And when you try, people get hurt and we don't want to be part of anyone's pain. So that is why I do not knowingly or willfully play with married people.

And believe me, there have been a couple that I severely tempted, but that's the line and I'm not going to cross it. I'm not going to cross it because I have more respect for my husband than I do for a dick. I, I, my husband and I are in a great place because of the fact that these rules are in place and I am excited by the fact that there's opportunity out there. There's opportunity. If I pass this one over, it's, there's going to be another opportunity. And that is lovely. Oh my gosh. so lovely. Anyway, I hope that helped. I hope that was the answer that you were looking for.

If it is a don't ask, don't tell situation, it's usually very the public realm, not so much the private realm. The more private things get, the more those questions get asked. And as long as the answer is correct, then yay. And of course, I'm not doing background checks. I don't have that kind of time. I'm trying to get laid, not do a book report. Jeez. Anyway, but at the same time, you understand where I'm coming from. You understand what I'm saying.

Thank you for listening today to the Pineapple Pinup, the Hot Wife Life life podcast i hope that you got something out of today's episode about the evolution of the lifestyle if you have any questions or any comments or any stories you want to share let me know if it's okay to share them on the pod um you can hit me up at all my socials and you can also hit me up on pineapple pinup pod at gmail.com. Additionally, all of my socials are listed in the show description. You guys have a wonderful week and I'll talk to you next week.