3 Drives for Dates

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Welcome to the Pineapple Pinup the Hot Life podcast. On today's podcast I'm going to talk about three dates that I drove to. Sensing a theme, it's March. It was post-date where he came to me and he flogged me and I told you about this. I had decided after that date, after he came to me, that I was going to go and meet him. So cut to a random Tuesday. Random Tuesday, very soon after the original date, I drove to see him. It's been a really long time since I've driven for Dick.

It's been a really long time since I've, if it wasn't if I wasn't going to a party, it was always happening at my house. And there's something about the comfort of your own home that makes things a little different. It things a little comfortable almost stagnantly so like like very little growth is needed like very little participation you go in your shower you put on your lingerie you lay down on your bed and you don't have to work as much. You don't have to work as hard. You can really be relaxed in the moment. You can really be relaxed in the timing.

If he shows up two hours late, then it's two hours you spent doing something around your house, something you were comfortable doing. That being said, I love having people come to my house. I love having dates at my house where I can immediately switch into reclaiming gear. I can immediately switch into me and my husband and our normalcy. The flip coin, the flip side of this coin though, is how incredibly anticipatory the drive there becomes. How much you're anticipating what you're about to encounter. There's a more nerves, there's more edge, there's more impending coming up.

There's more, there's more of that that you get to experience more of that build. And since this is something that I am trying to reclaim, trying to get back into, because when I'm at home, I can be comfortable doing things that I would normally do.

I can, you know, go and putter around in my kitchen and I can sit down and read a book and I can do all of those things and I don't have to think about where it is that what is about to happen I can think about other more mundane things and so that level of distractibility maybe is creating a little is creating a little bit of my complacency a little less of the build a little less but here's the thing I'm going to give it up. I fucking love having people come to my house and I love the immediacy of the reclamation.

I love all of that to an extent that it's, it's, I don't think it's better or worse, but there is something very exciting about getting back into driving for Dick and going to this man's house, he has a bent, he has a kink towards the things that I'm interested in. He likes to do the flogging. He likes to tie me up. He does. And he did. He did those things. He tied me up and he flogged me and fucked me. Oh my God. Yeah, it was great. it was amazing. And then we played. And one of the things that Dom-centric bulls tend to do is think about the entirety of the experience.

Think about the entirety of what the atmosphere they're trying to build. he planned out with curated music playlists. He planned out every aspect of what it was that we were going to get into. And he took the time to think about things that I liked, things that I wanted, things that I had mentioned. He took the time to really build a scene.

And that's something that's very interesting about BDSM versus you know straight hot wife or just fuck parties or whatever is the level of scene that they're trying to create they're trying to move it into and see this is where I think my husband falls off the BDSM train he likes things to be spontaneous and he likes things to be organic. And when you spend a lot of time curating something, it loses a little bit of its improvisation, a little bit of its authenticity, a little bit of its first take wonder. And I understand where he's coming from with that.

But at the same there's something especially I don't know I'm not going to speak for everyone but something I really really like about the fact that his focus is on what is going to make me the most involved the most turned on the most connected and I find that very I find it awesome but then again who wouldn't it's very it's kind of probably one of my more narcissistic traits the fact that I like his focus on me but anyway not the point so I went to his house and he tied me up and he flogged me and then we moved into the bedroom and he flogged me some more and then he went down on me like he hadn't eaten in a week and it was thanksgiving dinner it was let's tear this thing up and it was it was fucking phenomenal then he had curated it in such a way that there was a specific song that was going to play while he fucked me.

And he had to vamp for a couple of songs until that song came on. So, but then once that song came on, it was fucking outrageous. He fucked me so good and so hard. And the anticipation that he felt getting to this song and the fact that he had to hold off on his own things to get to this song because he knew that I wanted to fuck to this song was insane. He was so feral. That night ended up being awesome. Total mess. I felt bad because I forgot to bring a waterproof blanket with me.

And so he ended up having to sleep in my wet spot, which bad oh okay so drive number two I had met a guy at a party and he had messaged me and he really wanted to play with me but it had been a long time since I'd seen him and I didn't really let's be frank I didn't really remember him so I wasn't expecting the person I showed up to see. I was expecting something different. And I was not at my best that night anyway, because I was giving a blowjob at the wrong angle. And I was, I ended up giving myself a sinus headache while I was there. And that doesn't ever bode well.

So on top of feeling a little awkward awkward and then both of us getting off I was like you know what I'm just gonna head home because I don't want this to get worse I don't want this to get I don't want this to become a migraine where I can't see and it was important to me that I not cancel on him despite the fact that I had been feeling a little off anyway, but it was important because he had, he had made it very clear. Let me know by this date, if you're not going to be able to make it. And I was like, yeah, I'll be fine. Everything's good.

And then that day it was like, so I showed up and I, we played and it was very quick. And I was just like, you know what, I'm going to, I'm going to take, I did the thing and I know I'm cutting it short. I'm not going to feel bad about the fact that I don't feel right and I don't feel good and I want to go home. So I did, I went home and that night was, it was just interesting. It was interesting in the fact that I had different expectations of what it was because, and he kept saying things that kind of made me think he was, that he didn't know me, that he hadn't met me at a party.

And he kept saying these things like, it'll it'll be nice to meet you and that to me I think that's kind of what set me down the path where it's like do you know me do have we met are you the guy that I'm thinking you are so because of the fact that there was some a little bit of ambiguity in that it felt um it I think it put me off I think it put me me off the night. So that one was very short lived. I think I was there maybe half an hour, 45 minutes. And then I went home. The thing about that date though, was I actually brought out my toy.

And speaking of toys, I am very fucking excited because I just got a new shipment from Love Honey. I am so excited to do an unboxing and I am so eager to actually check it on my socials because I have a feeling I'm going to do the unboxing because it's sitting there waiting for me to attack it. And as soon as I do, I really want to share this with you because I think that Love and Love Honey is just an amazing place to go and visit and look around. Lovehoney.com. I'll get more into that later though.

So the next night, I'm sorry, the next time that i drove for dick it was actually very close to my house so it wasn't far away but it was nice because it was a guy that i'd met down south and he he's very much a swinger he and his wife play at swinger parties so the fact that he was coming out to do a hot wife kind of thing was actually kind of interesting it was kind of novel for me I wasn't expecting it I was expecting much more of a couple vibe and when he when we agreed to the date we were both like well yeah if you're if our spouses want to come but then it ended up being just he and I Oh my God.

It was so much fun. It was, well, yeah, if you're, if our spouses want to come, but then it ended up being just he and I, oh my God, it was so much fun. It was, um, it started off with a blow job and I am in this phase right now where a blow job is a sacred experience. It is slow and sensual and deep and messy. And it is all the things that make a blowjob toe curling. It's all the things that make a blowjob extreme. And I was here for it. And I was giving him the kind of blowjob that I really hope everybody gets.

going for the deep throat going for the sensual teas including the balls doing all of that with all that mess just getting everywhere and letting it be a very messy um sensory experience then he went down on. And I literally climbed that man's face. I climbed that man's face like it was a tree. And I was there for it 100%. It was it was an amazing, it was amazing. I'm getting better at being receptive to oral. There are times when it's still like not my cup of tea, but it really does depend on the person doing it, obviously.

So that was, I was excited by that one and that ended up going very, very well. And fucked me fucked me and again again I fucking forgot my waterproof blanket so here here I am in a hotel room that he rented and I am destroying the bed I am destroying the comforter I am throwing the pillows around I'm doing all the messes. And my God, it was so fucking hot. We played for two hours and then I was like, you know what? I got to go home. My sinuses are a disaster and I've got to go home. So that time I actually stayed and there was more, there was more to it. There was a lot more.

And we talked and we chatted and we started talking about cooking and it was it was so much fun and it was such a great night because the two of us just kind of were there connected talking doing the full Monty of experience and it was fucking phenomenal it was great and I would do that, hands down.

But that's kind of the takeaway from this is that there, I have gotten into, whenever I get into a rut, whenever I get into a complacency mode, whenever I get into a princess, like, yes, bring me the toys, you know, bring me, bring me the me the grapes take off the skins whenever I get into that mode where I am where I don't have to work very hard or I don't have to output any effort that makes me less grateful for the opportunities that I have and that's not something I want to do that's not something I want to have be the what I what I'm up against that doesn't that's not what I want I want to make things challenging I want to put in the effort I want to put in the time making sure that everything that I'm doing, I'm grateful for.

And everything that I'm doing, I'm proving to not only myself, the value I place in it. So yes, there will still be dates at my house. And there will definitely still be dates with that I'll drive to. And I'm going to probably get into more of a habit of driving to some dates, driving up and saying, hey, you know, doing the midweek run is not out of the realm of possibility. Spending an evening with somebody other than my husband just makes my husband hotter for me when I come home. So a lot of things have been learned.

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