2025 first party of the year

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welcome to the pineapple pinup the hot wife life podcast this is going to be a short episode because my husband is in the room laughing at every word that comes out of my fucking mouth So today it's going to be very, very short. I'm going to go over the first party we had in 2025, the first party we attended anyway. And then I'm going to talk to you about cuddle puddles and other types of meetups that you might find interesting. And then I'm going to talk to you about, um, well, actually I'm going to pose you guys a question. Um, where do you create space for play?

And then finally, I'm going to talk to you about privateadventures.net, friend of the pod. The first party of the year took place the first Saturday of the year. We went to a party, our normal party, and it was very busy, very active, very, there were a lot of people there. We were asked to come early because they wanted to do sort of a pregame gangbang, and there was one other couple that was coming early. And so we decided to show up and of course, um, it, it started off a little slowly.

Um, we showed up and it was us and the other couple and a couple of people that were with the organizer, but none of the quote unquote male attractions were there yet. And it actually took them quite a while to get there. So the pregame gangbang was not exactly popping off immediately, but it did give me time to sit down with the couple and talk to them about all of the things that brought them to the lifestyle.

I found out that this couple, who I have seen many times, never really had a chance to talk to, we talked about all of their past and how they together found the lifestyle because he had had relationships in the past that had undoubtedly not gone well because of the fact that he had cheated and he didn't want to start a relationship off knowing that that was his propensity and not be honest about it.

The lifestyle gives you that ability to walk through life with a little bit more honesty, gives you the ability to walk through life a little bit more vocal about what it is that you're looking for. And because of the fact that they started their relationship from that standpoint, they were able to set the rules in place from the beginning. She has fully embraced the lifestyle because she had a marriage that ended badly because they were not physically connected. And now in this new relationship, she is finding basically her wings.

It was a very interesting story as to how people from very different backgrounds can find the same thing from the lifestyle, the same piece. And I was fully, fully intrigued. But then, of course, all the clocks started raining in we had oh my goodness so late But then, of course, all the cocks started raining in. We had, oh my goodness, so there were very few people that I'd ever really met before at the pregame. So it was a bunch of strangers that I didn't really have a background on.

And they didn't really necessarily know the etiquette because there were a couple of times when it was really, really new people. There was one gentleman there who had been sitting there waiting. And since there's two women and a lot of men, a lot of times the men stand around waiting for an opportunity. And this gentleman with his cock literally in my hand says, he just doesn't understand the etiquette. It's puff, puff, passed in a gang. Which made me laugh so hard. I was like, what? Going through it with these new people, it was very interesting. We had so much time to like get started.

And then it ended up when everybody showed up, we kind of ran out of time pretty quickly. So then we were all being ushered out of the room. By this time, I've already pretty much destroyed the bed because we forgot to bring our truly absorbent towel with us. So we were left with the hotel towels, and it did not help.

I destroyed a bed before the party had even started, and it was a little bit ridiculous and we got the party they got the party started and so everybody had to kind of stop what they were doing and head in and get the get the news by the time people started showing up that I actually knew it was it was a little bit of madness. It got to the point where it was, and I'm going to include you in, we left very early from this party because there were just too many people there because my husband and I do not do well in crowds.

It gets too hot in the room for me and it gets too, too many bodies for my husband. But this particular party, um, there was one particular gentleman that I played with. Um, we're going to call him Mario because he looked exactly like Mario Van Peebles from New Jack City. And he had a tick that curved down and it was not like crazy or anything like that, but it had a definite downward curve. And I swear to you, it was like that curve annihilated my ability not to cum. He was hitting all of the spots, and it was unbelievably great. It was unbelievably amazing. I made such a mess with that guy.

And then, of course, there was the gentleman who I had played with in the past who was very dumbfounded by the fact that he has a very long cock and really can't get a lot of participation from ladies because of the fact that his cock is so long and it's like a cervix blaster. But because of the fact that I am cervix-free free since 17 I'm actually able to play fully with him and he is actually able to get his cock fully inside of me which he finds stunning and like he makes mention of the fact that he finds it very like awe-inspiring.

He was, and then as the party started getting really, really going, he had stepped outside with the guy that I'm going to call Max because he basically looked like a character from Mad Max Fury Road. The way his hair was done, and he was wearing this vest as a cape.

I never got to play with him, but it was very like he and the other gentleman had left the room when my husband and I decided that we were going to probably pack it in because first of all, when three women are trying to crawl on the same bed and it is a quote-unquote BBW party and they are queen-sized beds, it gets a little bit crowded. So I had already destroyed the bed and I was feeling plenty guilty about that because other women were having to like face down in the mess that I had made. I was like, you know what? We should probably just go. So we were packing up to leave.

And here's the thing that I find very bizarre. All of the women felt like it was better to go into the room with these two queen beds than it was to be in the other room where there was a king bed because the host was watching a football game and there were people sitting on the bed watching the football and nobody was really able to play in that room. So it cut down the three places of the three places down to two. So it was one of those things where logistics just were not working in anyone's favor. So my husband and I were like, we're peacing out.

So I, um, had gotten to play with a couple of my friends and I told them, you know, Hey, I'm taking off. And just as we were getting ready to leave, one of the gentlemen that I had played with came up and said, I, me and my wife listened to your podcast. And I was so shocked and so flattered and so like, what? I had no idea. And so I don't know if he came to the party because I was going to be there or if he just happened to recognize me. I don't, I don't know.

But I was so flattered that he had mentioned that he listened to the podcast that I sort of stumbled all over the place and made kind of an ass of myself. So to that gentleman who came to the party, I just want to say thank you so much. That was so flattering. I really appreciate the fact that you listen and thank you. Shout out. But it was, it was crazy. It was a lot of people. It was, I don't even, I can't even remember how many people I fucked that night, but because of the fact that it was getting to be a little bit of madness, my husband and I decided to leave.

So as we were going, we were out. Um, I had forgotten something. And so my husband had to go back to the room for it. And I'm sitting in the hallway waiting for the elevators or by the elevators waiting for my husband to get back. And as my husband returns, the gentleman who had left the left the venue with Max had come back and he saw me and he said, are you leaving? And I said, yeah. Or no, he said, that's the girl that I was talking about. And then he goes, are you leaving? And I said, yes. And then he screamed so loud. Fuck. And I'm like, okay, we're going to get on the elevator.

We're going to go. And I'm going to take that as a compliment. Thank you. So it was a, I don't know what we're going to have to do, but I really do think that my husband and I are going to need to venture further afield, which actually comes in handy because we venture way further afield. And I will tell you all about that because you may not know this, but this podcast is being recorded in a hotel room in Vegas. So I can't wait to tell you about the party that we just attended here in Vegas. It was great. It was fantastic.

And because of the fact that my husband and I are going to need to branch out, we're going to need to find places that are a little bit more accommodating to, like, monitoring your guests, the number of guests at your party. It's either going to have to be, we're doing it on our own, or we're coming early, leaving early. It's just It's going to have to be we're doing it on our own or we're coming early, leaving early. It's just going to have to be something like that because the number of people that keep showing up is just too overwhelming for the size of the venue that we're inhabiting.

But more on that later. I had a gentleman reach out to me, a listener, who wanted more information about soft gentledom, the more of the cuddle puddle parties, more that kind of vibe rather than a sexually based domination. Um, and the thing that cuddle puddles, like cuddle puddles kind of took me down a rabbit hole. Cuddle puddles are a physically, they're not really, it's not really about sex. It's really just about skin to skin contact with other people. And to be completely honest, it doesn't even need to be skin to skin.

It just needs to be kind of like all the bodies piled into the same area, just sharing warmth and sharing quiet companionship. And Cuddle Puddles are very zen-like. There, um, there's not a lot of, um, screaming action. There's, it's more of a soft giggle kind of scenario. The thing about the cuddle puddles is that they are very, very relaxing. They are very, um, giving you back that physical connection that people are looking for. So in keeping with that, I of course went down a rabbit hole looking for cuddle puddles and they, it is so interesting what they're doing with them now.

I mean, there's cuddle and Karaoke, and then there's Movie Night and Cuddle, and there's all sorts of interesting ways that people are adapting the Cuddle Puddle to be very interactive and more stuff going on, Um, it, which also led me down another rabbit hole, which was how people are branching out into performance and performance opportunities, open mic nights.

Um, like the, there's one in, um, Charlotte that sounds so interesting.'s called four play go south and basically they take over a theater and everybody can put their name into a hat and tell their true stories about whatever in the lifestyle they have encountered or whatnot i think that that is so it's going to be one of those nights that's kind of sexy and kind of interesting and kind of funny because things happen. I mean, this is real fucking life that goes on behind the lifestyle. So even though there's a lot more sex, there's also the same shit that happens to everybody.

And we're, and it's fun that they are finding opportunities to share those experiences and create community. And that's exactly what the cuddle puddles are about. They're creating intimacy in a community without pressure, without pressure to do anything other than just lay there and be warm together. That, um, please don't take this the wrong way, but the being warm part sounds like my nightmare. Oh, it's too much, too much heat, too much heat. Um, I'm a woman of a certain age, especially after tomorrow.

Um, we are very, um, but I find those very exciting for the people who are not necessarily exhibitionists because you can be an anonymous body in a cuddle puddle and not be performing in any way and literally just share the intimacy of body heat and physical skin-to-skin touching. It's one of those things that allows the introverts in us to find a home and find connection. So I personally think that the Cuddle Puddle sounds so intriguing and so much like it could be such a good time, especially when they're doing things like Cuddle Puddle and karaoke.

I mean, come on, how is that not sound amazing? But seriously, The one thing I will say about any of this, if you're finding something of interest, and you're finding, and you want to go down a rabbit hole, and you can find all of these things through the various apps, you can find people who are doing activities that speak to you, activities that resonate within you on the various apps. So if you're looking for that community, if you're looking to find some opportunities to keep your clothes on and talk to people, go to a munch.

If you are looking for an opportunity to meet and greet and possibly find out what people, go to an open mic night, go to a meet and greet, go to a bar, go to these places where they're having these community meetings and these community touches and go and explore and just have conversations. Go to these events where they're talking about their real life experiences and see if any of that is something that intrigues you. Because you don't have to get into the lifestyle to be, to find out what it is about.

I personally think that these nights can be very, very interesting and very, very informative to the experience that people are truly having and give you an opportunity to have conversations with people that you wouldn't necessarily run across in your everyday life. That to me, it's very interesting. I love that. But the cuddle puddles, um, what a sweet way to spend time intimately with strangers without the risks. Anyway, just a little thought I had on the subject. All right, so here's a topic that has come up often in my messaging, because I get a lot of offers to meet up.

And my husband and I are very strict about how we meet people. We meet people at parties. And then if we find connection, we exchange numbers, and then maybe we'll arrange a one-on-one date. But here's the thing. If you have met somebody, and it is time to do the meetups, where do you meet up? Now, mind you, my husband and I are very, we are very honest with one another and we're very upfront about the fact that there's not going to be a lot of people coming to our house unless they are basically people I have played with multiple times.

At that point, I can create that next level to bring them to our home. But for the most part, when we meet people, it's at hotel parties, it's at house parties. And then if it's something that we want to try to continue to develop that relationship, we may do like a hotel meeting, a hotel meetup, or, you know, see them at another couple of parties, make sure that they know that these are the parties that we're going to. And then if things progress far enough, then we might meet at our house.

But like I said, that is a far field, far, it has to be a very, very intimate relationship already, like a pre-gamed, pre-everything party, you know, whatever. So I wonder how other people do it though. I mean, how many people are inviting these people into their home directly? Or where are you meeting up with people when the time comes? When you've moved past the stage of the chit chats and now you're trying to move it into a realm that needs more privacy. Where are you going?

Where are you creating that space to get more intimate I know that this is a topic that leads sorry that's my husband in the back this is a topic that leads very um, very deep into the safety conversation. So, and I mean, there are people that I've talked to that literally won't play within 50 miles of their house. So they drive 50 miles to meet people, and then they drive 50 miles to get a hotel room to play with people. So how, how does one create the safety bubble? The where's my private and where's my, where's the privacy line? Where's the privacy line and where's the intimate line?

Where has the need for privacy moved past a point where you're still comfortable? So it's kind of one of those questions that you kind of don't have an answer to. And if you do invite people to your home, are they playing in your bed? Are they playing in the guest room? Where are we playing? Are we allowed, are we even allowed upstairs? Like where is, where's the line between private and personal? That's kind of the thought that I want to throw out there.

And if you have something that you, if you have any ideas about what you yourself that you want to share, please don't hesitate to send them to me and we can, and I can do a follow-up on this one because I find this so interesting. Where's the line that you create? Where's the line between Thank you. me and we can, and I can do a follow-up on this one because I find this so interesting. Where's the line that you create? Where's the line between what you create for privacy and what you keep as personal?

So reach out to me at all of my socials that are in my show description, or you can reach me on my email, pineapplepinuppod at gmail.com. I'd really love to hear your thoughts on all of this. so my friends over at private adventures are doing a lot in the they're expanding a lot and if you guys have anything that you're looking for that you can't necessarily get your hands on you can definitely shoot them a question and see if they might be able to source something that you're looking for. I myself have been loving their condoms.

I mean, I just love the fact that they're so conveniently packaged and it's something that I can just throw the whole tub in and then have a place to store them when the parties are over, this is something that I have been truly, like, it's been such a lifesaver because I don't know about you, but ever since I got into the lifestyle, I've been going through condoms quite a bit. And condoms were never really a thing between me and my husband that we needed. So the whole condom purchasing thing kind of threw me at first.

But now that we have this very convenient way to get a grip of freaking condoms, it's awesome. Because it just ships straight to the house. And then I have this convenient package of like a gross of condoms. And then it's worked out amazingly for me. So is this convenient package of like a gross of condoms and then it's worked out amazingly for me so check out privateadventures.net and if you would like to support the show use the promo code pineapple pinup 10 because that helps me and the show stay around.

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