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Hey kids, the program you're about to listen to contains some adult situations, adult language, themes, and other adult topics. If you're easily offended, this show's not for you. Hey you crazy motherfuckers, welcome back to another edition of Crazy Truth.
I'm your host with the most, Cole here with the lovely lovely and somewhat sleepy miss amanda hey am i sleeping well you're just sleeping on the couch i was laying down you were laying down you're stressing you're at my fucking diamonds anyways i've been up since four give me a party we are here to tantalize titillate and so much more but tonight tonight okay so everybody knows how we do our show usually right we we like spew knowledge okay okay tonight though we're doing something different because this is a very special thing because in almost five years we have never done an interview before right because as a general rule what do i always say i we don't do like the podcast circle jerk.
We don't do that shit, right? So the thing is, so you know it's special if I'm doing an interview. So we are super excited because we have a special guest. Jeff is here, and I'm going to let Jeff introduce himself in just a second. Jeff is the president, right, Jeff? CEO, president of Promescent. Yeah.
That's right so now here's the cool thing these guys are are in the interest of transparency these guys are our new sponsors of ours and we are so excited to work with them because you've all listened to my show you know that when it comes to dick issues there's been times that i've had issues right i'll call it like okay and we know that i have tried everything from acupuncture to like Thank you. issues. There's been times that I've had issues, right? I'll call it like, okay.
And we know that I have tried everything from acupuncture to like meditation, to like having somebody kick the crap out of me to make my dick. Oh, we've tried everything. Right. So here we're as far as losing a nut. So the thing is, is so we're here because these guys, that's one area area and we'll talk about this of the products but they work okay and so we're super excited to get to uh have jeff on and we're gonna pick his brain we're gonna run amok and uh away we go so jeff welcome to crazy truth uh and you know if we didn't put this other places we normally would be naked when do this.
I'm just kidding. It's my kind of show. I really look forward to this. I'll be honest with you. I was, when I found out about it, I was thrilled. Then I came in and I saw the middle finger. Like I told you, I'm like, okay, that's my symbol of life in general. Fuck you. Deal with it. Okay. If you like it, great. If you don't, turn the channel, you know? Yep. Yep.
See, I knew knew i knew that our crowd is going to be on a club job absolutely so we you guys have been that we've got all kinds of stuff to cover because you guys have a you've got a really interesting story of how the company came through we've got uh your product line is insane uh of the whole the whole gauntlet i mean we talked about wanting to have better sex and you guys are are committed to that where you know it's not just sex it's not sex choices it's so much more than that and and there's science behind it this is this is the real deal so i'm gonna let you you start off with whatever would be your elevator spiel if you're gonna just hit people that don't know go and i'm gonna get out of the way we were developed initially by a urologist okay so we're based in science i wish i was kidding you but unfortunately i'm not when you look around at sexual wellness products you will see deer deer antler extract, bull testicle derivative, shark fin.
I'm like, who in the fuck is taking that, okay? I mean, seriously, okay? But this was developed by a urologist, a Hogue Hospital Newport Beach urologist, who literally said, you know, when people come in with prostate issues, I got all these solutions. People come in, you know, with incontinence, I got all these solutions. People come in with premature ejaculation. I'm like, you're on your own. Thank you. I got all these solutions. People come in, you know, with incontinence. I got all these solutions. People come in with premature ejaculation. I'm like, you're on your own.
People come in with ED. We got Viagra, Salus, Levitra, which give you a raging heart on. But at the same time, they also give you blue vision, back aches, headaches. You have contraindications that if you have heart conditions, you might die. You got to be really careful. You know what I mean? So there's a lot. And people don't realize this. The ED drugs were developed not for ED. They were for heart patients. So Pfizer was doing this study for heart patients trying to dissolve plaque and open up the hearts. And they were like, okay, what do you think?
And the patients were like, I don't know about my heart, but i get a heart on every time i take this shit that's how viagra was discovered because it was opening up vessels it just didn't open up vessels to your heart it opened up everything you know and so but there is some side effects and unfortunately a lot of people don't care they just want to get a heart on okay so they will take, you know, stuff like Viagra off-label and without realizing the side effects. Now, another problem is you have companies that are supposedly herbal supplements like Green Lumber.
Oh, we got these great ED products. And they paid massive fines, like million-dollar fines, because they were lacing these herbal supplements with Sidenafel. There's nothing more dangerous than that, okay, because they're prescription for a reason. If you have certain medical conditions, they have severe adverse effects. You cannot say this is an herbal supplement and taint it with Sidenafel. Of course, you're going to get a hard on. And people go, hey, this herb works. It's not an herb. It's freaking Viagra, okay? And that is really dangerous.
So we went at it from a medical perspective developed by a urologist. Our first product was a lidocaine-based delay spray for men. Because believe it or not, the PE dilemma is larger than ED. In fact, a lot of urologists and therapists will tell you that some ED, maybe 15 to 20% of it is misdiagnosed PE. Because if a man prematurely or rapidly ejaculates, he will develop stage fright ED. His body knows that getting a erection leads to an unsatisfactory condition. So he will literally develop ED because of PE, because he knows that he lasts 12 seconds and can't satisfy his partner.
There were some lidocaine-based sprays out there when Ron went about developing this product. So they use those. Now, the downside were they allowed you to last longer, but they totally numbed you. They transferred to your partner. They numbed her. So you're like, well, we're lasting longer, but we might as well go take aerobics or hot yoga. Everybody's sweating, but nobody's getting off because everybody's numb. The other solution, they off-label again. If you use the depression drugs, the SSRIs, they will delay ejaculation, Paxil, Prozac, stuff like that.
But they give you dry mouth, nausea, loss of libido, suicidal thoughts. You're like, wait a second, I'd rather have PE, okay? I'll get a bunch of vibrators and learn how to eat pussy, okay? I don't need all those other side effects, okay? So he went about it and said, okay, we're in a situation where there is no good solution for PE. So he got together with this gentleman by the name of Dr. Tony Capomaccio, who was an inorganic PhD chemist at the University of Georgia. They developed a lidocaine-based eutectic formula.
So what that means is eutectic formula changes the crystal structure of lidocaine from a solid to an oil aqueous. So when it does that, it allows it to penetrate the stratum corneum or dermis, which is the outer layer of your skin. So you apply it in seven to 10 minutes later, it's below the surface. So the man maintains a higher degree of surface sensitivity, and it doesn't transfer to your partner, but it still gives you that control. And it was revolutionary. So that product took off and we did extremely well with it. So we grew rapidly and were very profitable and successful.
In 2017, a lot of our customers were like, hey, I used to last 30 seconds. Now I'm lasting 10, 15 minutes. I need a lube. Can you guys help me out? I really trust you guys. So we went about and did a search and we said we need a lube. We came up with a water lube and it took off immediately. It was successful. Then we added an aloe vera lube. Then we added a silicone lube. And I really thought when we did, okay, we're going to have to market these separately and really have this concerted effort to market these products.
They took off immediately because a lot of our customers, obviously, are sexual. They're having sex, and they were just like, hey, this works. It's great. So then we added a line of condoms. Then we added a female arousal gel because it got to a point, I'm like, you know, all the products out there, Viagra, Cialis, Levitra, Stendra, Trimix injections, you know, all the PE medications, what is there for women? So we developed a female arousal gel that was very, very quickly adopted and took off and was Thank you. all the PE medications, what is there for women?
So we developed a female arousal gel that was very, very quickly adopted and took off and was successful. And we're very pleased with that. We then, and I wish I could say I was a genius and we developed this, you know, on purpose, but I was at a show called SMSNA, Sexual Medicine Society of North America. It's all the top urologists and therapists who are in sexual medicine. So I'm at the show and one of the doctors there is like, hey, you look really tired. I said, man, we're growing. I go, it's unbelievable. We're doing really well. And I have lupus. I've had it for 30 years.
I go, I'm really kind of tired. He goes, you know, I developed this nitric oxide supplements. It's really good. You should try some. It's for decreasing inflammation. It gives you better recovery from workouts, better energy. You'll just really like it. I said, give me a bottle of it. Okay, great. So it gives me a bottle of Vitaflux. I try it. I go home within a week. I'm like, man, I feel less stressed. I feel, you know, I recover better from workouts, better energy. I really like this stuff. And my girlfriend says to me, man, would you find the fountain of youth? And I go, what?
She goes, you know, we've had sex like five straight days. And this was two years ago, I was 62. And I have to say, you know, sometimes when you run a sexual medicine company, I have to explain to people, okay, it's like when the president of the United States, you go, you're the most powerful man in the world. You go, that's literally, not literally, that's figuratively. You know what I mean?
Like, you know, when you, I have to like, if i go on a date with someone they google search before i have to go listen i'm not exactly johnny sins okay i run a sexual medicine company i'm an average dude okay it's like and she's like you know we've had sex like five straight days you're like the energizer buddy i said well you know every relationship waxes and wanes you know whatever and like two weeks later i weeks later, I said, you know, this isn't waning. It's still waxing. You know what I mean?
It was like, I called the doctor that, you know, developed and I said, does this have any like, you know, like libido? He goes, oh my God, absolutely. He goes, it's a nitric oxide product. It has L-arginine, L-citrulline, L-carnitine, zinc, and magnesium. So while it does decrease blood pressure, increase blood flow, increase circulation, help you recover, he said one of the main things, it increases libido tremendously because it sends blood, obviously, into your sexual organs, and it also intensifies orgasm and everything. I'm like, I thought so so he he's like, yeah.
So about a year later, I saw him again. And he's like, I got a question for you. You guys, you know, we're having trouble marketing this because we're a small company. It's our only product. And even, you know, we got to spend all this money on Google ads. And when people even come to our site, they're like, well, I never heard of these guys. I don't trust these guys. You guys would be great. And I go, oh my God, are you kidding me? Absolutely. So we started carrying it. And again, I was like, well, this is a supplement. It doesn't fit right into our lotions and gels. This might be difficult.
We sold a couple hundred bottles the first month. We've had our best month ever, 17 it's insane it works so when people use it they don't want to get off it they use it every month so that has been a godsend but the crazy thing is it has the same effect on women so our business among females using vitaflux is growing it also has another very very distinct effect on women. When women are in their mid-30s, their hormone levels begin to drop a bit and they don't moisturize as well.
So they have to use a lot of external lubrication because the hormone absorption slows and that decreases the natural lubrication. This reverses that.
Every artery and every vein in your body has an epithelial layer now the epithelial layer the purpose of it is to allow good things to enter your bloodstream and keep bad things out when you're young it's very supple it's soft it allows the right things in keeps the bad things out right when you get in your mid-30s every year it begins to harden when it hardens it still keeps bad things out but it also keeps hormones from absorbing so men get a little more body fat they lose a little bit of muscle their libido goes down with women that's one of the reasons why you start losing moisture you know and you start uh you know having to use external lubrications So VitaFlux has been insane.
It's our second best product. It's the last one we introduced, but it's now our second best-selling product. It just rocketed right up behind the delay spray. So that has been an absolute world beater for us, and we're really thrilled with it.
So we went from having one product, and it was funny because when we we first started the tagline of the company was promescent make love longer right so that made sense because the only product we had was delay spray then all of a sudden we had vitaflux all of a sudden we had lubes all of a sudden we had condoms so i'm like hey wait a second that doesn't really do us justice anymore so now it's promescent better in bed that's tagline. The spray is make love longer. The condoms are make love safer. The Vitaflux is make love healthier. You know, the lubes are make love smoother, you know?
So now each one of the products has its own taglines. But to see this company grow, you know, when I took this company over in 2011, after, you know, Ron brought me on and said, hey, I really need your expertise. You know, we had this big cupboard in his office with a bunch of, he was a doctor, a urologist, Hoag Hospital in Bloor Beach. And so we have this cupboard with a bunch of bottles in it. That was our headquarters, so to speak. You know, we're now in an 8,000 square foot giant freestanding building at the base of McCarran Airport.
It's got 3,000 square feet of logistics, you know, product and 5,000 square feet of office space. And we have nine employees there. And I look at where we were to where we are right now. And don't ask me why. It doesn't make sense.
But, you know, little things, I guess, to little little minds but the first time i went into our new headquarters i didn't realize that we had bought a lift truck because we have these tractor trailer trucks coming in with four pallets of vitaflux and 20 pallets of delay spray and i'm like we have a lift truck i'm like oh my god we're legitimate because you know a forklift is like in my mind i'm thinking hey we're a legitimate company now we have a forklift you know i mean i guess in the jeff abraham way of you know thinking all you gotta do is buy a forklift and you're successful you know but the fact the fact that this tractor trailer pulls up with eight pallets of vitaflux and 12 and i see this forklift and i'm just oh my God, I wish Ron could see this now.
That was Dr. Ronald Gilbert, the founder of our company. In an ironic and tragic twist, in 2013, he was murdered in a case of mistaken identity. It's just senseless. Some guy that had a prostate surgery 23 years prior decided he was unhappy, went and did some research and thought he found the guy that did a surgery, but it was a guy with a similar name. And he made an appointment to see Ron. Ron entered the room thinking he was seeing the last patient of the morning on January 27th, 2013.
And the guy was waiting in a shooting position and shot him and murdered him before he realized it was the wrong guy. And you know, it's really bittersweet now because we're having this success and I am thrilled, but I can't tell you that every thing we do that's successful, there's a certain part of me that goes, man, I wish Ron could see this. You know what I mean? This is his genius. He was the guy that developed the product.
I just was the businessman who brought in the street smarts and the savvy and made it work and i can't tell you how much it would mean to me for him to see where we're at and him to see the diverse product line and the success and you know he was murdered in 2013 and we both lived in huntington beach and there was a Walgreens on the corner, excuse me, not Walgreens, a Target on the corner of Brookhurst and Adams. And one day we're going to lunch at the Market Broiler, which was right there. He says, you think we'll ever get into Target? I go, I promise you we will.
And we were small then, you know what I mean? And I said, this product works. Trust me, we'll get in there. Are you sure? I said, I give you my word. I'll get us into Target. And then two years later in three years later, 2016, we launched in Target and I walked into that store, the very store. And, you know, someone must've went, this guy's insane. Cause I walked over the aisle and I saw the product there and I got emotional. It was like, and out loud, I looked at it and I said, I told you, I promised you. And I just imagine someone going home and go, you're not going to believe this.
I saw a guy talking to a bottle of dick spray. You know what I mean? Like in the middle of Target, you know what I mean? Like, but it was to me, that meant more than being in Target.
That meant that I fulfilled a promise that i made to someone very dear to me and i tell people that it's even now talking about i get really emotional because you know you see stuff like that on cnn you go there has to be more to the story than that okay there there's no that's just senseless in this case there is nothing this guy was totally innocent It was the wrong guy he killed the wrong guy and you know that's how i ended up in summerland nevada people go why'd you move to nevada i go there's no coincidence he was murdered in january of 2013 i bought this home and moved here in march of 2013 you can't run from emotional pain you can't but let tell you something.
You can remove the trigger so that eight times a day, you don't, there's his car, there's his house. You live in the same area. There's our offices there. You know, there's the Santa Ana riverbed trail where we went running and riding the bikes. There's the, you know, the 24 hour fitness where we used to go work out.
You, you can't run from emotional pain, but you can at least remove the triggers that you see eight times a day right you know and so I'm in the process now because I have a son who I adore who's 32 and I want to be close to him I think he's getting married next year and starting a family and got to be close to the grandkids I'm buying a second home so I can now return you know because I've been here eight years and I got very used to living in a state with no income tax. You know what I mean? We're doing very well. And I have a lot of investments.
I go, I don't think I want to go back to California full time. I'll never go back more than 49% of the time so that I can maintain this tax status that I have right here.
But like I said, it's very bittersweet because on one hand, it's thrilling, but man, I would just wish he could see what we've done you know what i mean and taking that dream that he had and taking that product that he had and really done beyond his wildest expectations and that and that's awesome i mean the obviously it's it's horrendous circumstances to get there yes the passion behind what you guys, what, what he started and what you have continued makes all the difference in the world. There's so many companies out there and we deal with this. We see it.
You know, I did the Viagra, I did all those things that it's, it's very sterile and it's very, nobody gives a damn.
It's just, here and in the lifestyle and the adult alternative lifestyle um the the emotional part of it and caring is a huge part of it it's huge people tell me it's funny because we have doctors that go on and tout our products you know what i mean and they're so sterile they're so clinical and you know we get they do podcasts they do they've been interviewed for these conferences we get a little bit of traffic when i go on we get 10 times as much traffic because here's the thing a doctor comes on and they go how do you use promessant right the doctor goes well you spray it on the frenulum and then you wait seven minutes and the average person goes what the fuck is a frenulum okay so they then google search it they pull it out they're looking three minutes later and go oh that's the underside of the head of the penis okay then they go okay now i can listen the guy's done they missed the whole presentation someone says to me how do you apply promescent i say you spray it on the underside of the head of the penis, which is called the frenulum, okay?
I'm not intelligent enough to talk over anyone's head. I'm a regular dude. So people go, I like this guy. He makes sense. He's passionate. Our products all come with a 60-day guarantee, okay? We are, they're free shipping. There's no risk. If you try it, you don't like it, you get your money back. And it's not, well, you had to pay $9.99 shipping. No, nothing. Okay. We have science. We have clinical trials. Our products have IRB certified statistically significant trials. They're not made in someone's garage. Okay.
This shit is, it is made under pharmaceutical grade manufacturing conditions in a class 100 clean room you know in different locations texas southern cal mavada different locations around and it has pharmaceutical grade ingredients we don't skimp we do the things the right way and it's funny because you go to our website i initially got a lot of criticism is that website where you sell products? You're trying to be a university with all those freaking studies and all that information. I said, I believe that the more informed you are, the more research you do, that all roads lead to us. Okay.
So I hate when you go to a website, it's like, buy now, wait, before you leave, do this, two for one, you know, whatever.
I don't think that if you have a legitimate product you have to do that so when you come to our website it is all about learning it's all about here's why you use this product here's how to properly use the product and then if someone buys it it's for the right reason they really think it's going to work and we had this continuity program and said you need a continuity program i know in the past every once in a while i ordered some vitamins whatever online next thing you know i start getting another thing the next month i haven't finished the first one i'm like what is this shit right well you didn't uncheck some box i go what do you mean i didn't uncheck i should have to check you know and then even after i cancel they keep coming you know i'm like whoa so we had a lot of people say to us hey i want this on a regular basis because especially with Vitaflux or our spray, I'm having, you know, whatever.
So with us, this is how we're different. If you want a continuity program with us, it literally is a box that you have to check. Then there's two other times that say specifically, did you mean to put this on continuity? If not, uncheck this, okay? Then it check out again. It says, you do realize this will be coming, whatever you pick, every 30, 60 days. If that's what you want, great. If not, uncheck this box, okay? Then two weeks before your next shipment, you get an email saying your next shipment is scheduled to come in two weeks. If you want it to come as schedule, do nothing. Okay.
If you want to postpone it, you want to cancel it, check right here. And if you hit postpone, how long do you want to wait? Indefinitely two weeks, four weeks. And then if you don't respond and assuming you want it and another week later, a week before it goes, you get another one. Are you sure you want this? And people go, you might just, I go, no, we don't want anyone getting product that doesn't specifically want it. I'm not about trying to ram shit down somebody's throat that they don't want. Okay. If you get promessant, it's because you ordered it and you wanted it and you paid for it.
If you are dissatisfied, let me know, go on your way. We'll go on our way and we'll send you your money back. That's, we've developed a tremendous sense of loyalty. And, you know, we've had 11 year relationship with Emily Morris. You ever listen to Sex with Emily? Yep, very much. Very good personal friend of mine. Dr. Ian Kerner, people call him the nation's sex therapist. We've been with him for 11 years. Justin Laymiller for five years. Laura Berman for 12 years, you know, and these things are enduring. They let it go.
him for 11 years, Justin Laymiller for five years, Laura Berman for 12 years, you know, and these things are enduring. They last because they go, we're really, really impressed by the way you run this company. You guys are really trying to help people. We're all about better intimacy. That's what it's all about. You know, I don't want to be one of these testosterone knuckle dragging morons. Hey, pound the hell out of your woman like caveman, drag her back to the cave. You know what I mean? We want the woman to have the most intense quality orgasm, as many of them as possible.
We want a guy, the same thing. But we want to do it in a way that makes people comfortable. They feel safe. That our products we believe are cost effective, we're never going to be the cheapest, because we're not making this in the garage. It's pharmaceutical grade, you know, ingredients under pharmaceutical grade manufacturing. But it's like, depending on which product you're using, it literally equates to $2 per episode, I never know what to call it or encounter, you know, session, you know what I mean?
And if you're, if you're, it literally equates to two dollars per episode i never know what to call it or encounter you know session you know what i mean if you're if you're exactly if your intimacy isn't worth two dollars to you then you're not our customer base okay if you go i'd rather spend 27 cents then go spend it okay because you're going to be sprinkling lemon juice on your crank okay because that's what you're going to get for 27 cents. That's fucking awesome. I don't care who you are. I mean, just tell the truth. You know what I mean?
Well, one of the things that we saw, because like, okay, so when I tried in the past, Viagra, Cialis, every single one of the side effects I would get. I could fuck you, but as soon as we're done, I'm on all fours puking my guts out of it. Not only that, I've been using, you know, almost everything at one point or another. I'm very curious, you know? I remember the first time I took Viagra, it looked like I was looking through a blue fish tank. I had this fucking blue haze.
I shit you not for two days afterwards i'm like i hope this shit goes away okay i felt like a fish looking through the ocean everything was blue you know i used to get back aches really bad back aches and and allergies would plug plugs me up really bad yeah then the other thing the next thing we had a friend that went down to the islands and came back with mexican viagra i and it's like what was bad was okay i didn't have the side effects that i had with regular viagra but we watched the guy because it came in kind of like 100 huge pills it was like enough to fucking make an elephant heart but a guy like well it's not working fast so pop two or three of them at a party then we had to have nurses thank god there are nurses so many nurses are swingers love that yeah thank god there were some that were there that were still sober because you know they had taken too much and it's like oh my god we're taking something that you're smuggling in you know again it's not even in the garage that's in somebody's Chevrolet they're making that shit absolutely let me tell you something I love sex but not enough to risk my life to die and not have any more of it after there's no orgasm in the world good enough to go that's the last one I'm having okay I'd like to roll a little longer you know what I mean it's like but you literally with some of that shit I mean even stuff made in this country, they have found that they're lacing it with, those are prescription drugs for a reason.
There are dangerous side effects. There are contraindications, and they're passing them off as herbal supplements. I would never take shit coming from another country that's, like, under the table. Never. Yeah, yeah.
No, it just isn't worth it, and that's one of the things we want people it's one reason we're so excited to have you on and as sponsors is because a lot of guys when they finally are willing to admit that they need help when they finally admit they need help it's like then they'll try any you know like you said antlers snorting beetles if somebody told them that's what would do it yeah to give people a it's like look check it out try it again like i said risk free yeah try it if it doesn't work for you okay but give it a shot give it a shot i mean it's only your intimacy you and your partner's satisfaction at stake i mean come on i mean it's it's great but i'll tell you it's funny i have done a bunch of these uh swinger podcasts they are absolutely our best vehicle i swear to god i because if you're in a swinging lifestyle you have no inhibitions okay you are like i'm going to a fucking party where i can have multiple partners i want to be good to go okay i want to not be at half mass number one and i want to be able to last okay because i see a couple treats here that i want on the menu okay it's like yeah so we did uh carol and david the sexy lifestyle front porch swingers i we've done a ton of these.
I swear to God, the average swinger customer that comes to our website buys like three to four products. They are literally like boom. I'm like, yeah.
Yeah, well, the reality, and we talk about it on the show all the time, the reality of it is that when people, it's easier to fuck your wife or your significant other than it is somebody else's because there's a lot of other outside factors no not only that there's the pressure you're in a public setting and you're going if i don't do it right the first time i might not have a second with your wife you know you're coming back okay and you go yeah so it's like the first impression might be the only impression if it's not a good one. Right.
But another thing about the swinger network, which I love, normally most guys, I swear to God. So now that we have women's product, I learned a big difference between men and women. Most guys, if they find something that enhances their sexual performance, the first thing they do is want to make sure no one else finds it. It's just them. They won't tell anyone. They want to be the biggest rooster with the biggest feathers cranking around the henhouse so that everyone goes, I want him, okay? A woman finds something that gives her higher libido or better orgasm. She's on Reddit.
She's on Pinterest. She's telling every fucking friend she knows. She's driving down the street with a bullhorn, better orgasms, bi-promessant,ita Fly. It's unbelievable. Okay. I go, we should have done this backwards. We should have started with women. Okay. It's great. But swinger men will tell other men. Regular dudes won't. But if a guy is at a swinger party or whatever, he'll say to other guys there, because everyone is there wanting everyone to have satisfaction.
Because it's not this same monogamous bullshit where it's just you and you know you your ego's at stake if they find something they're gonna say to their buddies hey man you're gonna love this shit because you go to a swingers convention you go there's enough to go around for everybody here you know multiple partners multiple people so there's not that feeling of i own this and i don't want anyone else to have it. Well, and here's the other thing that goes with it.
The reality of it is, is that if I go, we go to a party, we go to a house party or one of our events and I just lay the wood and it's awesome. I have the greatest sexual adventure of ever in a weekend. And she runs into three guys in a row that are having issues, which can happen. I mean, they're both having issues. My trip home, my trip home, the dynamics change because at that point in time, she's not going to be happy on the way home. I mean, hell no, you're ecstatic. And she's like, that sucked. Yeah, every guy I ran into. And then there becomes the other thing and guys run into it.
And it's the reason we're having you guys on because the reality for women is when a guy can't get it up even though we all know there's multiple multiple reasons it's human nature like you said women think differently than guys the first thing that a woman thinks is it's my fault i'm not stimulating enough he didn't want me he didn't want to satisfy me and i can tell you this experience from dealing with guys that have EDPE all day, every day. There's nothing more than a man who has difficulty wants to do than please his partner. That bullshit about, oh, well, he didn't want to please me.
Nothing can be further from the truth. Nothing. Okay. These guys, we have emails and we have testimonials that on one hand, they're great and they're invigorating, but on the other hand, it breaks your heart because for every person we reach, there's a thousand people out there that we haven't reached that go, this changed my life. I was literally asexual. I haven't been in a relationship in 10 years. I was just tired of disappointing people. I was tired of this. And they go, now I feel like I'm a second lease on life. We have one couple lives in San Jose. I was so cool.
They sent us this email. They said they'd been married for many years and the guy had absolute chronic PE. He never lasted more than 30 seconds. And he said, I just got to the point where I knew I couldn't satisfy my wife, you know, through penetration that, you know, I'd satisfy her orally, but it just wasn't the same. I didn't feel, you know, whatever. He goes, now we're taking yoga because we have to get back into shape because we're having vigorous intercourse for 20 minutes a day now. And we weren't physically up to it.
After all these years, I literally was getting back pain and I have to stretch now and we have to get much more limited. You know, you hear that and you're like, these people have really enriched and changed their lives. But then you realize there's so We'll be right back. and I have to stretch now and we have to get much more limited. You know, you hear that and you're like, these people have really enriched and changed their lives. But then you realize there's so many other people that are just so disappointed.
And there's so many people that go, you know how close I came to not clicking that button and buying this product because I've, you know, and here's another thing that's frustrating. On our website, we have Dr. Mohit Kira, who's the president of SMSNA with a testimonial, video testimonial. He's literally the top doctor in sexual medicine in the United States. We have Dr. Wayne Hellstrom from Tulane. He's the president of the International Society of Sexual Medicine, the governing body of the world in sexual medicine, giving a testimonial about promessant. We have Dr.
Larry Levine from Rush Memorial, you know, all these renowned physicians saying promessant by name. You go to another website, they have a Getty stock photo of some dude in a lab coat, doctor recommended. The average consumer doesn't understand there's a difference between Wayne Hellstrom, the chief of urology at Tulane, who's the president of the International Society of Sexual Medicine, and some actor in a lab coat in a Getty photo say, I'm like, oh, because they'll say to me, you know, they both were doctor recommended. I go, that same photo that you said was on, it's on 42 websites.
It's a Getty stock photo. You don't understand the difference between hearing a video testimonial by Wayne Hellstrom or Dr. Mohit Kira. I'm like, oh my God. Every once in a while you go, I didn't realize the dumbing down of this country had become so complete that people could not fathom that.
know what i mean but you we have to go overboard and stress look at the credentials of these people we're in the protocol of 2200 urologists in north america by name there's 2200 urologists in north america that have promescent listed what protocol is every medical condition has a protocol which says, this is what it is, ED, PE, allergies, headache, might, whatever. So they identify what it is. They identify what the cause is, what the potential treatments are. 2,200 urologists recommend Promescent by name, and it's the only product. And we're very proud of that.
That's because we have clinical trials, clinical studies. That's because we spend the money and, you know, we have quality controlled procedures and, you know, we manufacture in pharmaceutical grade environment. You know, when I first started, people go, oh, that's all that overkill. I go, no, it's not. We literally want to be a cut above everyone else. We want to have the confidence. We want people to trust us and believe in us. And that's what's fueled our success. We have customers that have been with us 11 years and have ordered literally every other month for 11 years.
I challenge anyone to find another company with that kind of success ratio. Exactly, exactly. Well, and one of the other things you mentioned too, again, we know one thing about swingers. We also know they, and one of the other things you mentioned too, again, we know one thing about swingers, we also know they a lot of times are so terrified to go to a doctor and instead of going to their doctor and having that discussion and saying, hey, you know what, shit ain't working right. They don't want to do it. So they either tend to try to ignore it. They try to hide it. They try to...
Self-diagnose on the internet. Yeah. And that's when they end up in the... And I was there. I mean, I literally paid thousands of dollars for acupuncture for three years. So... They actually stuck needles in your penis or did they put them under her? No. When you said that early on, I was saying every once in a while, I go to get acupuncture because I had foot surgery on my toes. I'm like, you know, that freaks me out. I'm like, acupuncture for, I'm like, you mean, oh man, I go, you're, you're a bigger man than me. Okay. Not going to, yeah, no.
They were, they opened everything else, but I wasn't, there was no, until I had lost a nut, they were not going to touch anywhere around my dick with a needle. Yeah, I was going to say, I'd say, okay, belly button on up. You know what I mean? Yeah. Upper thighs on down. But that little region right there, I don't want to see any needles. No, and she wasn't hot enough to do it low. That wasn't going to happen. But they won't go to doctors. I mean, that's, and it's like, that's not just swingers, people in general, we literally, especially for something this sensitive. Yes.
When I, when I had, when I lost in that, I had testicular cancer. I lost a very good friend of mine's urologist and he's out on the West coast. And, and he said, you're going back to make sure you have it taken out. I'm like, well, yeah, absolutely. He goes, you would be surprised the percentage of guys that when they say they have to remove it, remove their nut, we're like, okay, and want to schedule and then never come back because you can't deal with it. And ED and all this is the same thing. And it's like having that conversation and having resources like you guys feel to go.
It's like, OK, here's a resource to go with doctor recommendation, legitimate doctor recommendation, legitimate track record, you know, the list goes on and on. That our goal, the reason why we're so excited to have you guys and be part of you guys is to let the people know, because I will call people out all the time. It's like, guys, listen, pay attention. Here's an option. Ladies, a mismanaged has turned 50. She's excited to start using the product because she's not as wet as she used to be, just like we were talking about earlier. Everyone goes through that.
Yeah, it's just life, but hiding from it does nothing. But here's the deal. Here is a great resource, a great, reputable company right here available to make our hobby. Some people go for a hobby. Our hobby is fucking other people. Make our hobby or our regular life better. Why would you not take advantage of it? And we want to make sure that we eliminate the excuse of somebody going, well, I didn't know about them. Bullshit. If you listen to Crazy Truth, now you know.
there's that's awesome there's no more excuses i don't do well with excuses no except for why i don't get shit done what she tells me to do that's totally unrelated to anything with this but one of the beauties is and i really believe this is you have a setting where someone doesn't have to identify themselves they're just listening to the podcast and they can anonymously go do the research on a website they can then say risk-free i want to evaluate this so we're eliminating all those barriers you know like i remember one urologist told me you know i'm going to start doing these uh you know ted these, uh, YouTube talks because, you know, I go to different cities.
I have these seminars and almost no one shows up. I go, duh. Okay. You have an ed fricking talk. You have a PE talk who wants to go in there and go, yeah, I'm a premature ejaculator. Hi. I can't get my dick hard. It's every single person in the conference, you know, is. I go, and you're kind of curious as to why you have low turnout.
I go, if you handed out plastic bags with, or paper bags with two eye holes in them, you might have a lot better turnout where someone could sit there anonymously, or you made it a costume party where someone comes in as pirate Pete, you know, with a pirate, you don't know who he is. People just still feel shame. And I, you know, maybe it's because I'm older. I come from a different generation. You know, it's weird because it's not like you did anything wrong. If a person has diabetes, no one feels ashamed to take insulin. If, uh, you know, a person has cancer, no one's ashamed to take chemo.
It's part of the thing. And here's one thing that most people don't understand, which is really critical. Let's step out of the realm of problems. Let's talk about the average healthy adult male and the average healthy adult female. The average healthy adult male lasts five minutes and 42 seconds during thrusting and penetration during intercourse. The average female takes 18 minutes to achieve climax. It's called the arousal gap. Urologist therapists are very familiar with it. That's why there's 7 trillion vibrators in the world.
That's why guys stop, start, think about baseball scores, think about dead skunks on the soccer field, anything in their mind to get away from the idea that, hey, I'm about to bust, I'm feeling, you know, and if any guy will tell you at some point in his life, he hasn't been aware that, oh my God, I'm getting almost ready and my partner hasn't finished yet. No, not yet, not yet. Anxiety and pleasure should exist in two separate universes, okay? If anxiety interrupts or becomes part of your intimacy, it takes away the feeling.
Anxiety is the last thing you want to feel when you're building up to orgasm. Okay. You want to have unbridled pleasure, not, oh, no, not yet. Not yet. And you don't know how many people that use a product go, I didn't know that I really needed it. I kind of did it because it sounded interesting. Hey, I want to give it a shot. And then I realized that even though I was lasting long enough to satisfy my partners, the last two minutes I was like on edge going, oh my God, not yet, not yet. Taking that variable out of the equation has created so much more of a pleasurable experience.
I enjoy sex so much more. And the female partner will say, I feel he's so much more present. pleasurable experience i enjoy sex so much more and the female partner will say i feel he's so much more present like before it was like he was robotic i didn't realize he was trying to concentrate not to eject i thought he wasn't turned on he was like you know like you know and i was reading that as let's just get this over with in reality he was literally trying not to engage and trying not to feel the pleasure so that he wouldn't climax Yes.
this over with in reality he was literally trying not to engage and trying not to feel the pleasure so that he wouldn't climax and guys i'm going to say this again for everybody listening right there was the key to make how many of us and it's any any of us that have been in this lifestyle any time it's bullshit if you say you haven't have panicked at some point in time when you're about to hook up because you don't think you're going to be able to you don't think you're going to make it last as long as you should guys i've said this on the show a million times i'm willing to admit there were girls that i thought were quote unquote out of my league it's not that i thought they were out of they were out of my league i didn't think i could perform up to what they probably were used to just like just like what Jeff is is saying, I mindfucked myself.
I mean, it is. Absolutely. It happens. And it's nice to have that insurance policy. It's nice to have, you know what they say about insurance? You don't need it until you do. And if you don't have it, then it's too late. Okay. Think about that for a second. Okay. You go, I don't really need insurance and your fucking house is burning down. You go, fuck, I wish I had insurance. If you put it on the next day, it don't matter. Your house is burnt down. If you go, I don't think I need promessant and she's just getting warmed up and you're like, oh my God, I'm just finishing.
You can't go, oh, you know, you may not have another chance to go back and do it right. And I always tell people that even if you don't have chronic P.E., everyone goes through periods. There's other things like you can have a prostate infection. You can have swelling of the prostate, which causes premature ejaculation. You can have low testosterone. The first time you're with someone, a brand new partner, there's heightened anxiety because you're not into that routine. I does this, she does this, I do this, I lick her left breast.
Next thing you know, she does, you know, whenever there's a newness and you don't know, it heightens the anxiety. You tend to have a tendency to blow a little bit quicker. Also, a man who doesn't even normally suffer from rapid or premature ejaculation, if you go a period of time without having sex, you're going to ejaculate more quickly because you haven't had a release in a period of time. And your body's saying, I haven't had one in a while. This feels good. I'm going to hurry up and do this before something happens and I don't have a chance to ejaculate.
So there are people that use our product only on specific occasions or with a new partner they haven't had sex in a while or they have a partner who happens to take a little bit longer to climax right you know women are different i tell this story and it's really kind of ironic when i first moved here to uh summerland it was in 2014 i dated a gal that had a hooded clitoris you know and you would literally have to you know peel that back just a bit to stimulate the clit and it would take literally 45 minutes of solid thrusting for her to have an orgasm you know vaginally like through penetration and i literally, it's a good thing.
I freaking am the CEO of Promescent. I'd have to take a second job bagging groceries at Whole Foods for how much Promescent I'm using. And there were times like would go to bed, it would be like 1130. I go, oh, fuck, I got a conference call at five in the morning. It's already 1130. Shit. I don't know if I have another whole hour, you know what I mean? And I had to have electrolyte fucking replacement next to the bed. I'm sweating a half hour in. I'm like, okay, you know, and it was just one of those situations that there was nothing wrong with her. It was her body.
It was her physiology that was the case. So then we ended up breaking up. We're still really good French, wonderful person. And I ended up dating this gal who was a nurse practitioner and i swear to god she would sneeze and orgasm okay she could literally orgasm five six times a night without question digital penetration with your finger your hand oral you know i mean anything i mean there were times you'd be literally licking her nipples and she'd climax. I mean, she was just highly orgasmic, you know?
So I tell guys that the first thing you need to do when you're in a new relationship, bring a clean slate. You know, so many guys are like, oh, this is my go-to move, all this. I'm like, you can't have a good, every woman's freaking different. I've dated a woman who's like, you can't touch me directly on the clitoris.
It's really sensitive you know i like to be massaged in the area light light touching you know i mean okay great then the next girl you're dating you know whatever it is six months or a year later whatever they're like bring some sandpaper and a and a you know uh industrial belt and hit me on the clip with that industrial belt with that sand blaster for like a half hour i'm like holy shit it's tough being a dude okay it's like you really and truly have to look at everyone start from scratch because if you go my last girlfriend loved this and you can't go my next girlfriend's love this, because they could be entirely different, and each one is justified in saying, this is what I need, this is what I want.
So a lot of times early on in a relationship, I'll say to someone, I really want you to masturbate for me. They'll go, what? And then they'll start, they're under their covers. I said, pull the fucking covers down. They're like, what?
I go, the whole idea idea is I want to watch there's no better way for me to learn how to please you than to watch you please yourself okay now if you want to we can fumble through two months of me fucking trial and error doing shit that you don't want to do and you're like oh I wish he wouldn't do that without telling me and then eventually I'll go hey you kind of you know oh well I don't like or I can watch you masturbate go oh that's where you like to be touched that kind of rhythm that you know whatever and they're like oh no one's ever asked me to do that I go well trust me I'm a voyeur I'm not only going to ask you to do it now but every month I'll go hey I need a refresher course masturbate for me again you know what I mean because I'm a voyeur I love absolutely love watching a woman pleasure herself because it gives me the keys to the castle it you know what i mean it allows me to go this is what she likes this is the rhythm this is the strength of the stroke you know what i mean because women are so different you know i think it's easier for a woman guys i don't i've never met a guy in my life who went, you went, I really don't like blowjobs.
You know what I mean? It's like most guys I know go, I absolutely love blowjobs. Some are better than others, but every one is good. There's no such thing unless someone bites you. There's no such thing as a bad blowjob. But women, there are some women that are like, I don't like someone going down on me. I have this phobia. I don't think it's clean down there. You know what I mean? Or it feels uncomfortable or, you know, I was molested when I was young or whatever. And there are other women that go, I can't orgasm for vaginal penetration. You know what I mean?
I really, you know, I know it's great for you and I want to please you, but the best way for me is through oral sex. I love, you know, so with a guy, don't go into it literally saying, I know the exact way go into it and say, Hey, I got a GPS system here. I'm going to turn it on and show me exactly where to go. Yeah. That's funny. You said it because Amanda, Amanda's by and she, I learned watching her because she will say, Hey, when she's going down on a girl, tell me how you like it. You tell me. Where do you like? Here. Tell me. We won't stop and ask for directions.
Even when it becomes eating pussy, we won't ask for directions. No, because you know what most guys think? I wrote the book. Oh, aren't I fantastic?
Hey, asshole, you're in the wrong area over there you know what I mean I'll bet you I'll bet you there's 40 percent of men I swear to god in this world if you would give them an anatomy or a doll and say identify the clitoris only 60 percent would know exactly where the clitoris is how many men do you think actually know that the part of the clitoris sticking out is like 10% or 15% and there's that whole nerve sheath that goes all the way down, that in some cases, if you massage that area, it's actually better because it's not as sensitive and allows her to have a more intense orgasm.
Most of the guys' egos. They're happy to find their vagina. Yeah, guys' egos get in the way. They really and truly do. I used to tell people, I have this running joke. I used to tell people, before I took this job, someone would say to me, what's the most fragile substance on earth? I go, I don't know, some fine English china, a Faber-J egg. Now I go, the fucking male ego. That's the most fragile thing on earth, okay?
You know how many women go, my husband, my partner, you know, doesn't know what the fuck he's doing, but I can can't tell him because he'll freak out and you know what i mean and i would hate to be a woman because as a woman you get into this syndrome where you have to be sexual but not too sexual you know because a lot of guys will go wait how many you've been with to learn that you know what i mean so i want you to be sensual but not that sensual you know because i'll go oh my god you know and have to think that they're William the Conqueror. Guys have to think that I'm doing shit to you.
You've never had before. Meanwhile, the woman's going, oh, you're fucking lame. You know what I mean? Like, I can't believe I'm faking this shit. OK, I know you got a good job and I know that you're a nice guy, but I can't only put up with so much of this shit. You know, I've listened to 11 years.
Every guy that's ever said she doesn't squirt go oh i can make you squirt and every time you just go don't do that just don't just don't don't you're not this isn't about you okay it's not about you it's about the two of you or her okay one of the things that i've always really enjoyed is as a man you can you can get so much credit. Oh, you're so compassionate. You're so caring. You know, you're always worried about my pleasure. Oh, my God, that's so selfless of you. In my mind, I'm thinking, I know that if you have intense, frequent orgasms, then you're going to go, I want this dude around.
Okay, so you get credit for being Prince Charming, i mean and being gandhi you know like doing everything but in reality you go i'm about to get fucked better than i ever have in my life i'm about to get a freaking blowjob for 45 minutes literally because she's like i want to take care of this dude but you're like going well i'm just a giver you know i mean i'm just that kind of a guy. Okay. Now get to work. Okay. You know, I mean, you get credit for literally taking care of yourself. I'm like, I like that equation, you know? Yeah. That, that worked, that works well.
Well, I got to tell you, man. And, and I am excited for this episode, Eric, and I'm excited for the guys and the gals to hear A, number one, we want, for you guys listening to the show, go to the website. Go to the website. You don't have to take our word for it. You don't have to take Jeff's word for it. Go to the website. The proof is in the pudding. Exactly. Try it. You've got 60 days. Try it. If you don't like it, return it.
But you're going to want to keep it because you're going to like it so go both of you there's no risk there's no risk yeah one of the things i always suggest that i really like people to do let's give it at least 60 or 90 days and then let's have a little it doesn't have to be this long another little return engagement and you tell people the podcast before we're going to have jeff back on questions you know what I mean I you know you can do it live you can have him read because a lot of times when I go on these podcasts you know I get calls like a month later I go oh my god you're not gonna believe how many questions that I have and whenever I do like a serious radio show or some of the podcasts where they're actually live and have people call in the people they love it because they can be anonymous and they can get their questions right answered you know and for me I don't care about individual sales I just know if we do our job all day every day at the end we're going to win we're going to to be successful.
Exactly. I will answer every question. And I'll tell you, my Twitter account is Jeff Abraham 111. My Instagram account is Jeff Abraham 111. Link up, ask me questions, direct message me there. I will answer every question. You can go to our website, www.promessant.com. Go to customer service, go to this question specifically for Jeff. You will get a return email, not from the website, from me, my personal account. I will email you back. I'll answer every single question.
It's important for me that I know who uses our products, how they find us, the satisfaction level they have, what additional products would like to have. I can't tell you how how many friends that i have they're friends of mine now that started off as promessant customers and now we're friends and you know when i was in southern cal a lot of them ago you know because i asked them and you know we have a certain group of customers i call them you know my inner circle that we develop a new product i send it i go i want your opinion here's a. Here's a product we're going to introduce.
And that makes them feel like, wow, they really value me. But I do value. I want to know from people that are sexually active, what do you think of this product? What do you think of this? Because we now have two female arousal gels. One's a warming and one's a buzzing. They're two completely different sensations. But initially I said, which one are we going to introduce?
So we sent a bunch of these samples out and it was funny because it was close it was like 55 45 and it was they like warming so we developed that market we probably have both so now we have both products and it's funny we have some people that buy both and depending on how I feel, the warming thing is these guys, besides being available, also you can use a discount code. I've got a discount code, CRAZY, K-R-A-Z-Y-15. I want you to try it. Give it a try. Give us your feedback. Give Jeff your feedback. Look, I can't stress them. We don't fuck around.
We don't do interviews because i don't do interviews just do interviews i will only do things because it's quality and i know that it can help people and you know that's what we're all about so guys gals sit down together as a couple if you want to whatever guys gals it doesn't matter check out go through try the products Like Jeff said, give it 60 to 90 days. Try it. Let us know. We want to know your feedback as well. We want to know. Jeff wants to know. And that's one of the things. Here's the deal. You all know this about me. I won't work with companies that are just about the dollars.
You're talking about the president and the CEO wants to hear your feedback, wants to hear our feedback that's valuable we talk about it we talk about it crazy summer nights we are a family this is a company that operates on that same concept we're a community family and so take this opportunity if you have questions let us let us know and definitely we we we just want you to give it a try and and we've got samples we're going to be reporting on different stuff because we've got we've got sample packs and uh like i already said you guys i've used the spray and i do know how to put it on and it does work awesome for me so uh but please check it out and and uh do it this show okay so besides just releasing so you guys gonna hear it normally if you miss part of it it's also gonna be on full swap shop or full swap radio we're gonna have the show running again i want everybody in the swing all 12 million swingers hear the show that's what i want that's all if we can do that then everything's perfect that's all that's all nothing more nothing more than that so uh you know go big go home it's a way i believe so jeff i want to thank you so much for uh coming on i want to thank you i want to thank your team because obviously because we don't do a lot of interviews they had to help me out so i wasn't fucking step up so i appreciate your team uh i appreciate you coming on uh at in the evening and taking time to talk with us.
It's my pleasure. We will schedule, absolutely schedule a time so we can answer, ask questions and go that way. It's all about getting the facts. Educate yourself and make the right decisions with the right set of facts. That's what leads to long-term satisfaction. Absolutely. That's awesome. But I can't thank you enough. This is a platform that is perfect for us to be able to have a detailed, succinct message to really educate people. You know, a 10 second banner ad, you know, a scroll doesn't work because it's like another one of those. We're not another one of those.
Give me the chance to show you that this company really cares about you and your intimacy very carefully very dearly and give us a chance to show you we can do for you there's no risk if it doesn't work you're out nothing and there's no our products are safe that's the crazy part there's there's no side effects they're all otc you you the only the only way you can lose in this situation is to not try it is to not have better intimacy exactly the only way you lose is if one of your neighbors is using our products and satisfying your partner you know okay that wins that's going on a t-shirt all right kids with that being said again have a great rest of the week and i tell you i really appreciate it the pleasure was all ours uh absolutely jeff you're gonna you're gonna learn this because you're working with us we do it we'll do it there's only one way we do it the only way we know how the only way we will the only way i ever want to casva style out that's right baby
