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Speaker1: Hey kids, the program you're about to listen to contains some adult situations, adult language, themes, and other adult topics. If you're easily offended, this show's not for you. Hey you crazy motherfuckers, welcome back to another edition of Crazy Truth About Swing. Flip me off all you fucking want, I'll chomp that finger right off like a dick on a cold weather night. I'm here to kind of like too late and otherwise miss amanda's here to entertain and amuse you because that's what she does she's a sexy girl uh so anyway so i'm here with the host with the most i'm cole i'm with the lovely lovely and tan line miss amanda hey wow your voice is all right what it's happened? It's all the testosterone. No shit. On your cooter, not your throat. Just saying. Anyway. But it makes your voice crackle. Especially when you double it up. Are we going to nickname you Rice Krispie? Snap, crackle, pop? Fuck off. Anyway. What? I've dosed mine. I started changing the dose of my testosterone regardless of what my doctor said. I'm doubling up the same. Anyways, for those of you who follow along at home, hey, guess what? This is Season 7, Episode 305 of Crazy Truth About Swinging. We're happy and glad to be here. And we are always happy and glad about our sponsors. We love those fuckers. You sure it's 305? Mm-hmm. Yep, I checked. Hold on. Wait for it. Wait for it. Wait it, wait for it, cheat. Oh, you cheated. Damn straight I did. Oh, you did cheat. I did, I did cheat because I didn't want to fuck it up. So, first and foremost, hey, asnlifestylemagazine.com, if you want to know what's going on in the adult world, as well as the swinger world, make it a habit each and every month to read the new edition of ASN Lifestyle Magazine. We will be out. We are actually presenters at their award show. We are. And the Poconos in August. We're up for awards. We'll be excited to see if we win anything. I'll have to find a dress that fits. Yeah. No shit. I think that black. I think you should alter it. I'll see if I can alter it. But you might find something way cooler. But that that was pretty hot to us uh anyways uh so make it happen to read their magazine three million readers all that uh motor bunny here's the deal don't trust your favorite cooter to just any toy uh nope you don't want just anything to slap it around so they don't fucking give us a thumbs down people come on thumbs down that showed up huge on your phone it's because you take your phone and do certain things or whatever you can emoji it up it does automatically it's the taking over the machines no but i've never seen it come out that big on your phone well but your phone's really so it came out bigger on the screen i don't watch the screen i watch the phone I'm fucking with you. Anyways, Cooters Motor Bunny. Speaker2: That's right. Make sure. I'm fucking with you. Anyways, Cooter's Motorbunny. That's right. Speaker1: Make sure to use a name you can trust, motorbunny.com. You can get one of their originals or one of their new bucks. And, again, make sure you go to, if you want to get a great testimonial for it, head on over to Pornhub, type in CASBA, and find our Pornhub page, and you can find Miss Amanda riding the buck, and I think you'll be able to tell how she would rate the machine. Just saying. And finally, hey, it's barbecue season. It's smoking meat season. It's putting food in your mouth outside friends, family, and all that fun stuff. And you know what? Don't settle for good meat made eh. Make it awesome meat with smokingmeatbarbecuetreats.com meat rubs. That's right, they will be on KSN with us. One of six flavors, Hickory Dust, Lemon Pepper, SBG, Orange Mango, Habanero, Pineapple Paradise, and? Seneca. That's right, and coming, released, releasing June 7th, Casbah Special Blend.
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There you go.
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Speaker2:
There you go. Okay? There you go. Awesome. Okay. All right.
Speaker1:
So we're getting ready to go camping this weekend. It's coming up soon, KSN, our first KSN of the crazy summer nights of the season, which is June 7th through the 9th. So when this show actually releases to the general public, obviously our friends on our secret Facebook page Thank you. of the season, which is June 7th through the 9th. So when this show actually releases to the general public, obviously our friends on our secret Facebook page Kazma Inc. are getting to watch it now. Shh! Don't tell the others. But we will already be there. Check it out. So this is Miss Amanda's birthday weekend. So, because she's almost 53 years old, so not quite, but she's getting there. She's running towards it. Dun. Charge! Oh, don't fall down. I can't get up. Weep. Anyway, so, no, she's doing just fine. So, we're going to be out there for that. So, we're pretty excited about that. And Ms. Amanda was just bitching before we came on the air about how much work she's been doing. Per her own design and request. Because she enjoys baking. Because I'm a cheap ass. No, fuck you. You are not getting off with I'm a cheap ass in this. I do enjoy baking. You specifically said at no point in time was it about the money for the cookies. You said, I don't get to do it very often. I enjoy baking. And then in turn, away you went excitedly to choose what cookie flavors to have and and there's awesome cookie flavors coming and there's going to be great cookies but let's not put it that this is like some slave labor bullshit but it's still work regardless if you like it or not great it's still work but you can't use it as a fucking you can't weaponize something you enjoy doing. Besides, if you enjoy it, it shouldn't be work at all. That's not true. Bullshit. Did you enjoy tasting the cookie dough? I enjoyed tasting the cookie dough. I was going to say, did you enjoy tasting the cookie dough? I enjoyed tasting the cookie dough. But what did your dickhead husband say to you multiple times before you started to make the cookies? Just go buy it. Honey, you don't have to do all that work. It's a lot of of work are you sure we can just go get the cookies i don't think you quite said that well ironically enough my other wife who also apparently made 165 cookies her and i had that conversation so it actually came out to uh I did five sets of 40. You figure that out. 200. 198 cookies is what's currently left. I'm just kidding. I haven't touched it. No, there's a couple of them. Here's how much dickhead I am. I respect enough what you did that I stayed the fuck out of the cookies. And I constantly have a sweet tooth. I did not. Nope, you left me a couple times to guard the cookies, and I didn't take any dough that I wasn't supposed to. I only ate dough if it was officially given to me. I didn't steal any cookies unless they were officially given to me. I haven't raided in any of the bags in the freezer any of the cookies. I've stayed completely out of the restaurant. Well, we had to try them because I refused to let everybody feed people food. I haven't tried first. Hold on. Wait a minute. Jim, your wife has multiple personalities too? Laugh out loud. Yes. Yes, she does. Anyways. Allison will team them up. Get the shit out of them. So we can't make it like, we like to, there's this habit to make it like, I'm this fucking slave daver. No, I never said that. Over this last two weeks, last week and a half, what is something that I've said to you that you should go do almost on a daily basis? What have I said you should do? Go lay out. Have you got a chance to throw in and I said, why don't you go lay out? I have laid out. Yes. Yes. I followed your orders and went laid out. It's not. Fuck. Fuck you. It's not. Fuck off. Okay. The only thing I fucking. I've haunted you about doing your exercises on your arm. Yes. Because they said you had to do exercises. Make sure you're in case. And he hasn't haunted me for a week and I haven't done them for a week. Right. And so when we end up having surgery. We won't because it actually is better. And part of... And one part earlier... There's one little sore spot. Earlier in this process, you snipped at me because I was a dick. About doing the exercises. And then you went to move your arm and it fucking hurt. You're like, oh, I'm going to go do the exercises. Because Cole's being such a dick because he doesn't want you to have to walk around like a fucking chicken wing, broken chicken wing, and a sling for six weeks. God, I'm an asshole. How much fun would that be in Vegas at the pool? Sorry, can't get to the pool, can't get my sling wet. Sorry, can't take a shower, can't get my sling wet. Sorry, can't move my arm sorry i've got therapy because i'm an asshole sorry can't hold my plate sorry quit balancing shit on me then i'm gonna stuff drugs in your sling so then today okay so today i pulled out of my grandma's town recipe book
Speaker3:
and there was
Speaker1:
you've had that for like I'm like, I think I should make that for the potluck. So I made it today, and then I'm like, you're like, what's that for? Okay. I thought because you're making your cake. You were going to make your cake. And you were saying how it was because our house is tilted. We're on stilts. It doesn't matter. No, it's slanted. So the stove bakes unevenly. Everything rushes to the back. So I had to like rotate it every seven minutes. So I thought that it was a cake. So I thought you were good because you said, well, I'm going to make one out there. So I'm like, okay, sweet. So I was excited thinking that that means there's going to be cake to eat now that's not going to go. So then I was like, you're like, oh, what's that? I'm like, oh, fuck. Do you want to try one? I'm like, fuck, yeah. Because I have to try the food before I give it to let anybody else eat it. Because if it tastes like shit, I'm not going to take it. And that's not new. In your defense, that's not. You've always done it. Especially when you try a new recipe, you've always, like, try it first to make sure it tastes okay. It was so good. Oh, fuck. It is fucking. It was fantastic. Oh, my God. Yeah, we're not. I haven't done the YouTube. I need to start doing the YouTube again, dude. I didn't get it up there today. I didn't get it up. I did, but I was just jacking off. It doesn't count. So – It was so good. Yeah, it was. It tastes like pumpkin pie or pecan pie. It does not. Pecan pie. Oh, it's yum. So mine has two little pieces missing. Actually, no, that's what it has missing right now. You can't get it open. By the time it gets to the fucking time for the potluck, yeah, it's kind of crapshoot. Who knows? I want one of the middle pieces. And maybe we'll have to do that when we put it on a plate to take it up special. Just saying. That's why I put it in a disposable dish and just throw it away. No one can count how many pieces are out if it's on a plate.
Speaker2:
Jesus.
Speaker1:
You can tell who went up and walked around campus and went to the admin building to look for meetings and stuff to sponge off their food days when they were a broke college student.
Speaker2:
And who didn't?
Speaker1:
Just saying.
Speaker3:
No, I ate from the frickin' residence halls like you're supposed to.
Speaker1:
Shut up. Just, anyways, sorry, let me put your, get your fucking halo readjusted there. See, any good baker does quality control. I know, I know. I'm only going to be able to taste the cake, though. No, because I'm going to be able to taste the cake. We just hope the hell it turns out. Yeah, Anyways, that'll be fun. I might be able to take a sliver and then cover it with frosting. The frosting now. Here's the thing. Oh, my God. You won't even eat any cake out there. I know you. You'll, like, sniff it. It's cake. It doesn't matter. I know you. You'll sniff it, because that's currently your current meal plan is sniff or lick whatever we're having for dinner and then put it away for the fridge. You're going to be too fucking close to your goal for your actual birthday. I guarantee you will not eat cake. You'll have a bite of my cake. Or a couple bites of my cake. Not true. I'll have a piece. Okay. You guys all heard it. The frosting was awesome. You guys going to KSN. Let's see if she actually fucking does that. Because I like the beaters. Yeah, I know you did. I know I put a picture on Twitter. Eggs, whatever. And we didn't even offer to share it with Cole. I saw that. I did, too. The beaters? Not the beater, no. I taste this frosting. It's freaking awesome. And again, I do want to duly note that I, unlike a lot of other times, did the mature just dab a little finger and not just fucking. I was not. I was, again, respecting your time and work. Just saying. Shannon, cupcakes, I will help. Shannon, you don't get to eat the cupcakes.
Speaker3:
Unless Amanda shoves it in his mouth.
Speaker1:
You should add that to your dumb stuff. Shoving cupcakes in people's mouths? Well, just food in general. I don't know. So, okay. So, okay, so we've got... But hold on. Before you get started. Okay. Okay, so we went through the whole thing about the waxing last time. Oh, that's right. Yeah, let's give it an update. Okay, so waxing is butt ass or uh looked into laser laser's butt ass expensive so i'm like okay i'll give her like almost five grand yeah and that's just for your cooter and your partial butt or something but whatever kate run so i'm like going okay well the one lady's like well but just imagine how smooth your skin will be for the next 20 years. Honey, when I'm 70, I don't give a fuck what my skin. That'd be in 20 years, that'd be 73. Sorry, go ahead. Fuck off. I'm going to kick his ass. I'm just trying to keep it social. It has to be smooth for the nursing home. Anyway, so I decided we'll give the wax for one last shot. But she has to use the other wax, the hard wax, because she's not going to rip me apart again. No. So I went in there. She was a little stressed because her other employee didn't show up. Not my problem, but I was patient. I said, no, you go help her. Because you didn't want her fucking speeding through your fucking shit. Because I don't want you to be in a rush. And she kept making fun of the waxing procedure. She goes, it's so time-consuming. I can't do it very fast. It's what I do, Doug. It's what I do. It's okay. Let me tell you, night and day fucking difference. There's not even a red dot. Nothing. You could fuck today without a problem. Yeah. Not me, but you could fuck today. All right. So, I mean, that's the thing. It was actually... You... Last time... On my live, I did... I used a dildo on it last night. And that left me a little chafed, but not bad. So, for plenty of reference for people who didn't listen to last week's show, or the last show when we talked about it, the last time you got wax waxed the first two days you literally sat around with ice on your cooter it was at least four days or five days before you would even consider before anybody before it could be even touched at all it was probably seven days before it was totally six days out there was still like i was caught a spot and she pulled a lot of skin off yeah it it was it was without a doubt horrific and the reality of it is based on the other stuff she's like well i think it's because your skin was traumatized and so and so it's thinner and weaker it's because it was too hot honey no it's beat the shit out of it. The thing is, is based on the other things you do, you a lot of times schedule waxing based upon what we have going on for shoots and things like that. And that literally would cost you money. I happen to have one that was supposed to be two days later. Yeah. And they canceled or rescheduled it for later. So like why are we asking questions gonna have to wait yeah um but anyway needless to say i was glad the other ones got had to reschedule the shoot because i would not have been able to do yeah couldn't do it so that that's it that's yeah no absolutely not so yeah so much better it's better. It's ready to go. It's smooth. It's no longer, for a while there, when you'd talk to it, it would just be like, and a Chebacca sound backward. That's all cleared up now. Fuzzy was, he was a bear. Fuzzy was, he had no air. It was to the point of biting. It was pretty long. And the thing, nothing compared to before Fifty Shades Grey came out and you were full Bush girl. But, you know once that was a lot of years ago once that once it came off it's always stayed up so there you go all right we're ready to keep rolling through on this i can grow it back if i wanted to you sure could i sure would be a lot of fun i hope you second husband likes yes you can go ahead now i got my story in there you go. Got your part about your cooter.
Speaker2:
Yeah. No. No. I didn't make this an opportunity to talk about. Mentally, I'm making. Yeah. That credit would have been like, then I'd been in jail for domestic violence. It's like, no. It was her wax. I swear to God.
Speaker1:
I was not lighting her cooter on fire while she slept.
Speaker2:
Fire.
Speaker1:
Fire. Yeah, no.
Speaker2:
Just saying.
Speaker1:
Okay. So, a couple of questions. That's what happens. while she slept fire fire you know just saying uh okay so couple of questions today tonight to do on the show and they're interesting let's obviously with that uh so i'm going to summarize the first one uh is comes from confused in fort myer indiana and i've recently so okay so the question itself was was just super vague and i was like okay wait a minute which is what intrigued me enough to reach out more about it uh i've recently started to get much more enjoyment out of the lifestyle and my spouse is not not at all okay with it nothing has changed i'm so confused and i'm like going so when i get this one i'm like that does not sound even vague it's like okay we're missing something right so when i reached out to confused it was really funny because initially it was all fucking it was it was you know all of a sudden he's just he's just he doesn't want to go to events he doesn't I don't want to do anything.
Speaker2:
Uh, I don't want to do anything.
Speaker1:
I don't want to do anything.
Speaker2:
I don't want to do anything.
Speaker3:
I don't want to do anything.
Speaker2:
I don't want to do anything. I don't want to do anything.
Speaker1:
I don't want to do anything.
Speaker2:
I don't want to do anything. I don't want to do anything.
Speaker1:
I don't want to do anything, he's just shitty, blah. Oh, wait a minute. So it's the female that likes. It's the female that wrote in. And so, but again, it was just, the husband was just la ducha roche. This is like, you know, wow, what a douche. It's like, okay. And so I had to ask like three or four times, but what's changed? There has to be something that has happened. What's happened? Nothing. No, nothing's changed. Nothing's changed. Well, there is something that's changed. She is on a form of the, not the same guy you do, but one like it. What's the other one of the shots that people do? Ozempic. Yeah, she was on Ozempic. Oh. So my next question was, how much weight have you lost? 63 pounds. Okay. Oh. I said, do you think that that's something that could have changed? Well, that changed, but he saw that change that happened. Well, of course he did. He was there. He was there. I said, so, but what else? That's it. So, as we're talking along, what it amounts to more is what's changed is it's not she's having more fun in the lifestyle. She's getting more attention in the lifestyle. And in turn, she is having more fun. Rock on. That's a good thing. But the way it sounds, obviously, again, with every story, there's three sides, right? Their side, their side, and the truth somewhere in the middle. That's where this kind of comes in. It's like, okay, that's where you have to wonder, because according to her, she's not doing anything different in how she's behaving with that. Did they start off in the lifestyle with her bigger? Yes. They've actually been in the lifestyle like seven, eight years. Okay. And this is just recent. new and so and and so my question back to her was what about just regular like real life what's changed has anything changed no well i actually go out with my friends more and but again new it's that the way it sounds new body new level of confidence new things going on and her thing was he was very and i said i asked her she was if he was supportive of her of her weight loss because let's face it that we and we know there's people that like different types of body types and maybe you know could, could that be the influence? Could that change something? Totally supportive of the whole thing. Okay. So, but what was interesting about it was the picture that she was painting was what a dick he was. And it's like, so I'm not going to tell her when I'm going back and forth, you're the one that's changed. You have changed. Something has changed. I thought I would throw that out there. Because obviously, that's a big thing that happens in the lifestyle. If you're in the lifestyle a long time, you can have physical changes.
Speaker3:
God knows I've had several.
Speaker1:
Well, I mean, yeah, right. We all have. Because when we first got in the lifestyle, I was skinny because I had just done. We'd just done body by by. Just done body by by. We both were. And half marathons and shit. Yeah. We both were. And then it slowly crept all back on. Right. So it's not anything new. We've seen it in our own events or within our own groups as we've done. So if we've watched people, things change in their life physically, in their –
Speaker3:
Well, with her body changes, his attitude changes, obviously you have self-confidence booster.
Speaker1:
Right. Where he might not like the changes of her personality per se. So here's the other thing I did though. Because this one was interesting. I wanted to reach out and I sent a message to him. Okay. What's changed? Same question. She said he knew that she was writing it. Okay. What's changed? And his answer was her focus. And I thought that was interesting. So here becomes a unique part of this. The body changes are good good like whatever you want it to be a you know i mean whatever you're comfortable yeah whatever you're let's face it everybody has different goals and so the the cool part was what this is okay so obviously it was a priority with her i have no idea if he's a bigger guy or if you know i don't know any of that shit but from everything that she said he was supportive of of that part of the transformation right Okay. Okay.
Speaker3:
Okay.
Speaker1:
Okay.
Speaker3:
Okay.
Speaker2:
Okay. or, you know, I don't know any of that shit. But from everything that she said, he was supportive of that part
Speaker1:
of the transformation.
Speaker2:
Right. Right?
Speaker1:
So that's a cool thing. But when you, it's like, to me, the confused part is she's being confused on not, like, she's putting, she's looking at him with beer goggles on. I mean, kind of. Well, did he enjoy the lifestyle before all that happened? Yeah. Okay. According to both of them, so they both enjoyed the lifestyle. Okay. They both absolutely enjoyed the lifestyle. And so it wasn't, you know, and that the weight loss was a choice. It wasn't like, you know, it was one of those things reached a point. I want to do something about it. It wasn't like a, like I'd say, you know, me quitting smoking was almost like, you know, medical. You know, I had the cancer care, so I quit smoking type thing. It wasn't that. It was a choice. So he was supportive of it. So really, my thing is, is Sh is she missed i guess the question becomes do you is it who's missing it right or where no where the problem is the wrong word to say where's the who needs to be looking figuring out what the fuck they're doing wrong that that's Well, I don't know if he's necessarily knowing anybody's doing anything wrong. Did he say he's not enjoying the lifestyle now? He said he does not enjoy going out with her now. He doesn't want anything to do with her now. He still enjoyed the lifestyle. He missed the lifestyle. Well, because it could have been that they were both wallflowers, and they kind of hung out together and kind of had their little little group and now that she's got this newfound confidence that she's going and flirting with everybody and leaving him to sit at the wall by himself you know what i mean right it very well could be so but okay there's so many different scenarios so but something like that is at some point in time so it what is that him is that on him or is that on her or is that on them be them because they're obviously not communicating about it so okay right yeah i mean if you think about it because if if she's running around he could go hey why aren't you why do you have to just go flirting with everybody how come you can't sit here with me like we used to right yeah why yeah what why right you know now you're like dancing all over the place or whatever who knows i don't know i'm just making shit up no well i mean it's a true point it's it's the one of the challenges i think in the lifestyle is as changes happen but it could work out positively for him because there could be a new set of couples that are interested in because of her change. I mean, think about it. It depends. Is she being, there won't be a new set of couples interested in them if she's not being them. Well, I don't know. It depends on if they play together or play alone. Well, right, if that's what they're looking for but no it doesn't change if if if now it's them and now she's off over here it's not them anymore it's it's no but what i'm saying is if they played as a couple it would bring a new set of it it could couples into the mix stuff. It could, but they have to take in somewhere along the line, they have to get back on the same page. Because at this point in time, the shitty part with this is, okay, the newfound confidence is awesome. Find a way to include, find a way to bring the other person along. I think a lot of times it happens on the role reversal i think a lot of times happens the other way more times in my opinion but more times not like you know because it's easier for a guy to drop weight and a guy doesn't have to do make near as much effort to to spruce up and clean up right i mean i mean they don't so and i think it happens a lot with you so my thing is if roles were reversed does the opinion change if it's the guy that that's fucking you know he went through a train he started lifting weights oh i've heard people do that i won't but whatever he started lifting weights right and all of a sudden he got all or maybe someone i would be more he got a hair transplant right there you go that'd be something All of a sudden he got all above or maybe someone i would be like he got a hair transplant right there you go that'd be something right he he all of a sudden he got that and all of a sudden he's off now all of a sudden does the perception change and i believe and that's part that's shitty is that yeah it does because then all of a sudden he's the dick and leaving leaving And there well why why isn't that a two-way thing i mean shouldn't it be it should be i mean the thing is is that it's not the sad thing is a lot of people think well that means that i shouldn't do the change well that's's not at all uh my opinion only physical change will draw new attention flirting with newfound friends is okay but don't forget to flirt with your significant other flirting with others can cause your significant other to feel left out or jealous that's very true yeah because you're you're if you've done a physical change well it's probably hot to the person that you start off with i mean obviously there's situations where maybe it's not right but i mean still so it's like don't forget don't forget to give don't forget to give that person attention also right i think that to me it's the part that's I'm going to show you what I'm that to me, the part that's rough with something like this is that it is a double standard of what, of how it would be perceived and how it would be acceptable or not acceptable, which is shitty. And I mean, that's not right to anybody involved and and i think the other part that's shitty is that is that here's something really really good that this person's done kudos you know 663 pounds rock on that's obviously diet or not that takes work and dedication whatever and something they could both really like embrace and be like rock on and instead that's not what's happening we've seen something similar several different times though where there was one couple where the gal lost a ton of weight and she felt on top of the world and she was going after everything she was he was just being dragged along right he was not happy and you could tell he wasn't happy but but if i remember right he did wasn't he was he liked and and his preferred body type of women he had lost a lot of weight too he had lost like 100 pounds but he didn't show it like she did right but what It wasn't his preferred choice of women. But he had lost a lot of weight too. He had lost like 100 pounds, but he didn't show it like she did. Right, but didn't his preferred, wasn't his preferred choice of women BBWs? I have no idea. It seemed like it was, so it was like yeah, and again he was okay with him doing it, but then not, he was not supportive of her what she had done. We might be talking about two different couples. We might be, I don't know. Yeah, I think we are. But that's beside the point. According to not paying any attention to your student with another, you can also have a feeling left out or jealous. Yeah, the challenge is that it doesn't matter if it's a guy or a girl. It doesn't matter. Whoever made the change, one, the other one should be supportive and excited for him and that's that's the that's the whole concept of like what this is all about but then it's to me it's like going on vacation at work it's the best thing come up with this okay when when you're you work a job, right? Not like our job, but like a real job. You work a job, and somebody in your office is getting ready to go on vacation. And all the way leading up there, they're just all excited about their vacation, right? Then they're gone forever long, and they come back, and they're all like, and they can't figure out why everybody else is like, shut the fuck up. Because you went on your vacation. Great. We didn't do shit. We still had to come in the day to grind. And do extra work probably to make sure your shit's done. Right. So this is a lot of the same way. Because think about this, especially in this role, male, female. Great. All of a sudden, now he's getting, it seems it seems no attention whether it's by choice or or just he's not getting as much attention as she is it actually so his world didn't change he doesn't have something to be excited about i lost x amount of pounds maybe the guy's skinny and doesn't need to be weight i don't't know. Whatever. But his workload increased. Because now all of a sudden, he's got to try to keep track of where she at. Because she's on a brand new adventure, rock on. Well, he has to adjust accordingly. So the thing is, is how do you take and make that work back around? I mean,'s like a that's like a huge a huge thing and the other reason this question is so fucking relevant is that there's a shit ton of people we're seeing in our own groups a shit ton of people that are doing what was the name of the diet again ozepic ozepic or things like it that are having that are having awesome results what makes this so prudent is this is you're gonna start to see this more and more in different in different groups and you're going to run into this fucking very problem more and and it's like so it becomes something that is very much reality-based. This is the type of shit that can kill. This can kill lifestyle experiences. This can kill the lifestyle. This can kill more than that all day long. I mean, it's really, it's almost bizarre how much it can, the damage that it can do, which at no point in time should something. them because he doesn't pay attention when my show is at some at at you know the shitty part is that you can't whoever makes a change you can't lose don't forget where you came from that's really to me what it comes down to no matter what it is whether you get you get you're in a degree you get a promotion so you're making more money or you are you know you get new house or whatever the case it is once you forget where it is you came from how you got there there, that becomes a problem. And beautiful things can get really fucking ugly really fucking fast. And what's happening, what it sounds like there, that is starting to get really ugly. She no longer looks beautiful to him, and he's no longer excited about what she accomplished. That's not an ugly thing. And that's shitty. That's too bad. I don't know know it's interesting because this is something you're going to see more and more because what i think there's probably on our group i've seen at least but probably 10 9 or 10 people that i've seen there that are doing the shots and stuff anyways thought that was an interesting question Want to do halftime? No. You always do halftime. I always do lots of things. Go on. You can do it. You like to talk. You can do it. You can do it. Do the halftime because it's about your shit. Do yours at halftime. Do it. Come on. You do it. No, you do it.
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Speaker1:
Okay. This is from Gurr in Dodge City, Kansas. Gurr? Really? No, he messaged you, so I'm going to send him a message saying we're recording a podcast. No one cares anymore. Here, let's see. See, looky there. Courtney knows. Go, Courtney. Don't forget your loyal fans, too.
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Speaker3:
but you know
Speaker1:
but when you're new
Speaker3:
you're all gung ho
Speaker1:
it changes it goes through spurts
Speaker3:
well it all goes through spurts
Speaker1:
the shitty part of these questions is both of them I'm going to totally be a guy here I don't know. It goes through spurts. Well, it all goes through spurts. The shitty part of these questions is, both of them, I'm going to totally be a guy here, is that it's the guy looks like it's the guy's the asshole. And it's like, no. Fuck, I forgot. My bad. It is that the guy is the asshole. Okay, here's what happens. 99.9999% of the bullshit
Speaker2:
in the lifestyle or in life. the asshole. Okay, here's what has to... 99.9999%
Speaker1:
of the bullshit in the lifestyle or in life it's equal. It's not just the guys or it's not just the girls. It's like the concept of single males. Well, single males this, single males that. Single females are batshit fucking crazy. It's not... The problems are not specifically derivative of whether you've got a cock We'll be right back. Well, single male is this, single male is that. Single females are batshit fucking crazy. It's not, the problems are not specifically derivative of whether you've got a cock or a cooter. That's not how this works, right? So this one you see a lot because I think when, especially when the new guys do get way more gung-ho initially. And part of it is look at the demographics. The demographics answers the question why guys are like this. 100%. So the average demographic, the average age of 20 is between 35 and 55 years old. Okay. So that's the time frame where you start to hit midlife crises and shit like that. So it's a point in time frame where you're no longer young. And so it's like, you know, you're in that mode. You still want to know, can you, is anybody still excited and wants to do you, basically? Okay. You've made it past the seven-year itch of marriage right and then it's like that that concept of one pussy for the rest of your life like hits and you're okay with that concept but you still want to know that you can still go out and pick people up okay here's the best analogy i have for this. No, I get it. I know, but I want to use this analogy. It's really good. Okay. When humanity started, when mankind started, right, we were hunters. Hunters and gatherers. You had to hunt to survive. You had to go out and kill your food to eat it, to survive. Right? are thousands of years later we don't have to go kill shit right there's slaughterhouses we raise it we eat it we kill it we don't have to go hunt and kill shit but there's still an inherent love of hunting and fishing and whatever because it fulfills an animalistic need okay this is the same thing so the reason why i say this is it's shitty that it points to guys because as things change okay when did you hit your horny spree 41 like and it was on you were fucking ready you were ready to roll more than you had ever been in your 20s.
Speaker3:
Yeah, but it's not like I thought about the lifestyle constantly.
Speaker2:
I know.
Speaker1:
No girl ever does. I never think about sex all the time.
Speaker2:
Right.
Speaker1:
But the bottom line is your horny factor substantially changed.
Speaker2:
Right. Right?
Speaker1:
So your willingness to do events, the squawk factor also changed. So the squawking about, well, can't we go do other shit, changed also accordingly. So for a guy, what happens starts to happen about that age. Their testosterone is starting to drop. So they're drastically, men over 40, so they're drastically fighting to hold on to all kinds of shit. Answer her later. She can wait. We're in the middle of a podcast. So it's, you know. You have 15 minutes. It's one of those things that it's like, okay, that became, that became a, that's a problem, right? So now I'm a butterfly. So he fucked me over. So it, I forgot my fucking train line. It was a really good one. Fuck. Anyways, go ahead. Say something. Say something. I don't know. Well, you also have to put into context, some people think about the lifestyle constantly and some people do not. Right. Okay. Granted, a lot of times, for me, it was like, eh, I'll take it or leave it. Was it fun? Is it fun? Yes, it's fun. But it wasn't like a constant, we need to go find somebody to hook up with for something different. Right, right. Or we don't have to go to every single fucking club. Right. Okay, you know, you're right, exactly. But you had a different, you had a different, where things in the lifestyle affected the rest of the world was a lower priority for you, like, at one time, right? Well, to rock on it, get it. Has that changed? to a degree but the situation has changed with it we don't have little kids, we don't have kids at home we don't have the same, you know, there's not all those other factors that go with it that help play into that crap right, and which is fine, that's part of what it's supposed to be, which is to a degree what you've got going on here as well, there's a change factors going on, so the challenge is yes there is such thing as Thank you. Which is, to a degree, what you've got going on here as well. There's a change factor that's going on. So the challenge is, yes, there is such a thing as when shit starts to interfere with life, like stuff has to happen. There's all things people have to, you've got to go to your jobs, you've got shit, you know, holidays, all that crap happens. That's when it becomes too much, for sure, minimum.
Speaker2:
Or whatever you derive as is too much. I mean, everybody has their own definition of what too much is.
Speaker1:
I can't see comments.
Speaker3:
Everybody has definitions of what too much is.
Speaker1:
But the funny part with this one is when I reach out, I'm like, okay, so have you shared your opinions? Have you asked, like, what's too much? Because that's too vague of a thing. What's too much? For some people, one event a month might be too much. If they live in Alaska, you know. But, you know, some people, just because one spouse wants to go out every freaking weekend doesn't mean the other one wants to. Right. They might actually want to sit home and do absolutely nothing right exactly and that's fine and that's so that's that was the key of finding out what is too much because it has to be defined yeah because the reality is is that and it's something that has to constantly be defined because it changes and then it also she's talking about just everything lifestyle doesn't mean even talking about it because if conversation turned from general talking to just strictly lifestyle and who we're going to have sex with and what are we going to do this weekend type of thing that would get old here's the thing at no point in time was it about who they were going to fuck i mean just right but i mean lifestyle just a conversation. But I reached out about that because that was one of my questions. Is he asking us to talk about who he's going to fuck? Because that's a totally different ballgame to me. Okay. I mean, you can go to events and a lifestyle event is no different than a vanilla event if you don't fuck with somebody. There's no difference there. It's just an event. You're just hanging out with people. Right? So, there's no difference. So, is the problem that it's lifestyle, quote unquote lifestyle, is it because he doesn't feel like he connects anymore with vanillas? Because a lot of people don't. Is it that, there somebody that that she isn't okay with or some did something happen like she got groped she got cornered somewhere that maybe he doesn't know about or something's causing her to go that or does she have vanilla friends that she wants to hang with that no they don't hang with this the generic the generic answer again it comes back to that generic thing of it's just too much. It's all about the lifestyle. We don't hang out with vanilla people. I have no desire to hang out with vanilla people. I mean, do you? We don't have vanilla friends. Even when you work and you had vanilla people that were they weren't friends or work friends yeah we went to the social required like it's actually i mean they should have thrown away your boss to say but but i mean in terms of outside of that there was no desire to go hang with those people like we hung out with one of them one time like like oh came to the bar because everybody was like oh my gosh you go to the bar constantly right yeah like i like i can think of twice we have people from your work and it was like it was okay but it wasn't it's still i work with i didn't really necessarily care right i mean it well yeah so it's like that becomes the thing is is there an amount of time it's too much well yeah there can be but there's a big difference if it's if you're just going on a hunt versus This is... that becomes the thing is is there an amount of times too much well yeah there can be but there's a big difference if it's if you're just going on a hunt versus just wanting to do shit that's it that's a huge fucking difference and the other thing is it's like okay so the the problem with these both is that you you have couples that are long term are in it longer if they've they've been in a while. They're past a new factor, which is okay, but again, shit changes. They've forgotten the power of when you're new, is what it is. They've forgotten the power of when it's new and it's become self-serving all the way across. Or they're not necessarily self-serving. They're not digging deeper. They're just like surface rest.
Speaker3:
But you never know.
Speaker1:
They might not be listening to each other. Well yeah yeah i would say clearly they're not because obviously there's there's he needs to be asking more questions of her in terms of why what he needs to be asking him questions well yeah but he needs to be asking, he needs to be delving deeper. Because, obviously, here's the thing. This doesn't magically happen overnight. I mean, when you go to the initial, like, new phase, right, shit, and then everything kind of calms down initially. It's like, ah, I'm a flit warm guy. But after that, shit calms down. So, when you're this far along, it's a pattern it's it's like you know so he's not asking the questions on his end what's changed why why she's not okay with it or what's what's you know did something happen or or whatever maybe she's losing interest in sex maybe she it's something she doesn't feel comfortable about how she looks or maybe whatever the case may be. It's the same type of thing. So he's not asking questions. She's not asking questions either. She's not saying, hey, this is, you know, why do you have to just do this? Or I guess, I don't know if that's a question to ask. I'm just thinking that through my brain. It doesn't make sense. Why do you want to go out? Because it's fun. Fuck, why do you counter that? No, but she could say how come everything has to be about the lifestyle? Right. Why can't we do something else? Can't we just have a date night or you know maybe somebody's feeling neglected exactly but they're like the first couple right and no but they're neither one asking they're not asking questions they're not asking questions if they are asking questions which they could be are they listening are they and and that that becomes the other part are they listening because Honestly, is it 99, well, 50% of communication issues is asking, but 50% is listening. Are you listening to respond? Are you actually hearing? And then what are you doing with what you hear? Because here's the reality of it. And when you go on like Pineapple 101 and even like Full Swap 101, you start and you read through the posts. You know, we've been a gazillion anonymous posts today, right? And you read through through the post you see this shit all the time every single day there's at least one post that has a smacking of something similar to it i mean not exactly right but something similar to this and you you read it and you see it and it's like So it's constant. It's almost like across the board. It's a continual issue all the way through. Right. And it shows that that is a huge problem. So in my mind, as I was going through these, and as I was looking at other posts on there, because when I got these questions, and then I saw like three or four in a row from on Full Swap and on Pineapple and a couple others I was like okay so when I'm starting I see as I go is that what causes the victim of the lifestyle there it is there it is completely and it's and you see these you see this and you go they're they're like the junior high of swinging right you have elementary school when they're new you have high school usually 20 25 plus years right and then you see the junior high range that mid-range that 10 to 15 year range in there right well think back to your junior high years junior high usually suck no i very few people go i love junior high was the best years of my life you're you're fucking your voice is You're getting acne. You don't fit in. You're fucking all weird how your body's all like, you don't know how to run your shit. It's a horrible time of like, it's where parents want to eat their young at that point in time. It's a shitty time. And that's what this is. And that's where it's like, there is There is where the victim of the lifestyle starts Right fucking there It's about asking Asking Listening to listen Not listening to respond And choosing Because The question, something beautiful has turned ugly. Something that was fun has turned ugly. That's what's really stuck out to me is things that were awesome have turned shitty. And none of them understand or know why. I need to reevaluate. Right, but that's easier said than done because the for to me allegedly in my opinion to to to reevaluate you have to acknowledge there's something to reevaluate true if you if you do drugs and you don't think you have a problem you're not going to reevaluate your choice to do drugs true so if you don't if you don't think there's a problem you won't reevaluate but some one of them does right if one of them noticed it then it has to be addressed it has to be addressed but it doesn't matter if one addresses if the other one won't acknowledge it if I'm a drug addict and I'm doing lines of coke and you go you have a drug problem and I go no I don't and you're like yes you do no I don't then you can acknowledge it all you want it won't change anything until I acknowledge it. Because, you know, I can control it. I can do this. I can, no. That's the challenge. That's the junior high part of it. That's the part that's so desperately lost in junior high. When you're in elementary school, when kids in kindergarten, they're in elementary school, they're everybody's friends with everybody. Everybody's new, and everybody likes everybody, and everybody's friends. Right? And everything's great. Because kind of you just, if you and I sit at a table, we're going to be friends. Why? Because we're sitting here. Because apparently we're supposed to be. Rock on. At junior high, that's not how it works anymore. This is when all the other bullshit hits. Right there it is. It would be interesting to see, and I don't know how you could ever do the stats, but I would love to figure out how to do the stats to figure out how many people leave the lifestyle in their junior high years. Click start in junior high, exactly. How many people leave the lifestyle here? If you could go through a base when the victims of the lifestyle, if you could go through, you know, there's a percentage that's early on because they got into the wrong reasons. And I guarantee after a certain point, it's very few. You know, when you get to 20, 25-year year point i'm sure there's still some but it's probably very few i'm gonna guess the bulk are right here in junior high and that and that's gonna be the thing because a lot of things shift a lot of things change well one person sees it one person doesn't so the challenge becomes will you see it in time that's what it tells or well honestly that's really the whole thing will you spot it in time will you see you have a drug problem in time will you see that whatever it is will you see you have a gambling problem in time because it doesn't have to be rock bottom to see it it shouldn't have to be in in a perfect world. But that's the part that's really, really interesting with these. It's like, well, that one, you know, there's nothing to answer there. It's just they have to figure it out. They have to, as Larry put, communication. And it's the truth. And that's it. It is what it is. But interesting nonetheless. So fun questions for the day. Good questions because I think it's more relevant. Plus, it's in our age range. Old. Yeah, I'm kind of old. We can't answer 20-something things. I don't know anything about 20-something things. Anyways. All right. So, with that being said, oh, look it goes. Time's up. Okay. So, don't forget to send us emails. Sexiest picture. Cooking, barbecuing. We'll put all your names in, and winner will get a full set of smoking meat barbecue treats, meat ropes, including the new Casbah special blend, as well as MotorBunny.com and ASNLifestyleMagazine.com. Three million readers, can't be wrong. Follow us, you can still get, next up, Crazy Vegas. Crazy Vegas Nights, Crazy Vegas Nights. Oh my God. Get your tickets for Crazy Vegas Nights. Go to crazycasba.com and get your tickets. We have hotel options there. You don't have to save the hotels, but we have day packages, all kinds of stuff. Crazy Vegas Nights. We're super excited about that. 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