Send us Fan MailWelcome to season 7! This week we talk about 2 items. We started off talking Creepers! What makes someone a creeper, are we being judgmental. A serious topic because the label of Creeper can change ENM journey! The 2nd topic is the very real getting bigger generation or age gap. How do we make events work with 20, 30 40 or 50 somethings or older. How do we communicate without any feeling left out or creeped out . Can multi age groups hangout with out feeling afraid of sex or uncomfortable intimacy. https://mycupcondom.com/discount/KASBH10 My cup condomhttp://www.motorbunny.comhttp://www.asnlifestylemagazine.comhttp://www.fullswapshop.comhttp://www.smokinmeatsbbqtreats.comhttps://www.onlyfans.com/msamandakasbh : http://www.krazykasbh.com : http:// www.youtube.com/kasbhemails [email protected]: @TruthKrazySupport the show
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Speaker1: Hey kids, the program you're about to listen to contains some adult situations, adult language, themes, and other adult topics. If you're easily offended, this show's not for you. Hey you crazy motherfuckers, welcome back to a new episode of Crazy Truth About Swinging. Welcome to Season 7. Speaker2: Holy fuck, seven fucking years we've been doing this show now. Speaker1: And it's still as fresh as the day we first came out with it. Speaker2: This is Season 7, Episode 275. Speaker1: And I don't know, I haven't talked about taking this bi-weekly, but I don't know. We've got some good topics, so maybe we won't. Maybe we will. We'll just have to see. Stay tuned. But we're here, we're back. I'm the host with most. I'm Cole. I'm here with the lovely, lovely and slightly phlegm-induced Miss Amanda. Hey. Oh, you should have coughed right then. That'd have been funny. I'm trying to refrain. We're here to tantalate and titillate, and we've got a really good show. 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We're going to hit on Crazy Winter Nights first and foremost because Crazy Winter Nights is about 10 days away, 11 days away, some ungodly close days away. That's coming up very quick. Yes, it's in Kearney, Nebraska. Yes, you can get there still. Yes, if you live in the state of Nebraska, believe it or not, the state does not end at Memorial Stadium. Go west, young Skywalker. You may see something really cool. We have a hellacious program and show ready to go for KWN this year. One of the best. Actually, we have our vendor fair, which we have a huge list of vendors. Again, we have got a pool this year, we've never had a pool at kwn our seminars include uh intro to impact play we've got selfie seminars again we have got life's more than games which is holes it's a seminar on games to play and it's really awesome super cool we have got um we've got fuck my brain i love the title of this fuck my brain thought process jealousy a whole a seminar on dealing with jealousy in the lifestyle because that is something that happens obviously we have um what is the one i'm missing another one we've got a yoga thing going on we've got a yoga uh morning yoga class we've got of course the newbie seminars. We have, well, both beginner and advanced selfie seminars. We've got the two dances, the 80s dance Friday night, which is the Whispers. Whispers is our primary sponsor for our 80s dance. Thank you very much, Whispers. And they'll be up there as well. So we'll have a photo booth going there. And then, obviously, the crazy winter nights, the actual dance on Saturday, the black tie formal, optional formal, which is going to be super, super cool. We give out the Lifestyle of the Year Award. We give out the Ernest Bird Award, Memorial Award. So we've got a lot of cool stuff. It's going to be a great time. We hope that you all will come. We have a shit ton of national people coming in uh there's gonna be people shooting content we have of course obviously besides you as one of our adult stars we have we have a couple other adult uh stars that are gonna be there as well including nausea nausea love from sweden uh she's a six foot six foot 6 bombshell and a half so we're going to do a clean, a short clean photo shoot with you and her that people can watch. And then you two are going to be going off because you guys are going to be making some content as well, which is awesome. And we've got some other folks there. There's going to be people there if you want to be interviewed. And it's all lifestyle and adult press people. So it's going to be a lot of fun. Plus, we've got a lot of shows that are going to be there that are coming up that are on Full Swap Radio. So Fun Pineapples are going to be there. The Juicy Debacle is going to be there. Dear Nikki is going to be there. Kinky Friend of Mind is going to be there. Sinful Ladies is going to be there. Of course, we'll be there for our shows if you listen to that kind of stuff. Yeah, we've got all, you name it, we've got it. So hopefully you'll come. You can still get tickets. You go to crazycasba.com and get your tickets. It's also where you get your hotel room. Here's the thing. Don't tell me it's too far away. I've got people coming from both coasts. We've got people coming from the tip of Florida to the tip of Washington State. We've got them coming from Texas and all points in between. I promise if you come out, you'll have a great time. So check it out. It is a ton of fun.
Speaker3:
Scooch your ass over a little bit and you're not seen.
Speaker2:
Well, people, you're kind of more what they want to see. They can picture you topless. Or if they own one of the calendars, they can look you topless. Which, by the way, we will have calendars there, too. And Miss Amandaanda will be setting up time you can get calendars and you can get them signed you get pictures with miss amanda and we've got one of our other new a new and forthcoming starlet is going to be kind of making her debut miss beth so we're pretty excited about that uh so it's gonna be a lot of fun so hopefully you guys will come out and have a great time uh we we know it's you know it is about fun so if it's not fun we don't do it it's just saying and yes a whole bunch is gonna be out there thursday so if you're in the area we'll probably have a casual a very casual meet and greetish type thing last year turned into you eat you and uh some girl eating pussy and and put her on a hell of a show.
Speaker1:
Wait, I did? You did, and you seemed to like it.
Speaker2:
Nom.
Speaker1:
I think both of us did. Ladies, remember, once Miss Amanda eats your pussy, you'll see sound.
Speaker2:
So keep that in mind. It is the most magical dung in the world, just saying. So that's all the stuff going on there. So that's pretty cool. I didn't want to waste a lot. See, look, we've already stayed on on course look at you go yeah that's amazing we really need to move all the calendars we don't want a bunch of extra 2024 calendars but we will be taking orders for the 2025 calendars so you can get those as well so you can't get them but you can place an order for them so we'll have some uh tumblers some of your tumblers we'll have a bunch of our stuff out there crazy cats and shot glasses and stuff like that so all kinds of cool shit so it'll be a good time a lot of free stuff a lot of giveaway stuff it's coming out there so that'll be cool so yeah hookers and blow no no hookers no blow you say that every time i do i do and i. One year, we'll have a hookers and blow show. It is what it is. Just saying. Anyway, so we've got a really cool show tonight. So in season seven, okay, the year of new leaves, right? So in season seven, one of the goals was because we want to change the show up a little bit. So we're not so much worried about getting people questions, answering mailed-in questions. We will if they come up, but we're kind of trying to stay on topics that we think are, like, prudent and things that are cool, wouldn't you agree? Right? And so on top of it, so the other thing Cole's doing is because, no, we don't practice shit ahead of time, but poor Miss Amanda, for the last six years, has been put in a situation where she hates. I live by flying by the seat of my pants. That is not something that she necessarily likes to do. So, the true, only fair way, true transparency, is to say, you do know what the topics are. Right? And you've had a little bit of time to think about them so we're gonna we're gonna go from there right yes did we decide which one do you want to start with let's start with that one okay so we have two different topics and so guys remember for those of you listening we do this in front of our live secret secret facebook group uh casma inc so please uh listen this is gonna be awesome fun and And how can you join? We'll tell you at the end of the show. So I want to talk about, since we've got our event coming up, and it's getting close to event season, the number one thing we hear all the time, you hear about people, oh, my God. That's right. I did leave that out. Shh. Don't tell the others. Damn it. First time in seven years. I've had a couple weeks off, so I'm sober. Wow. Thank you, Alex, for always being the backup on what you forget. No shit. That happened around him. Wow. This is why colonies go back to doing shooters. We talk about all the time and we hear about all the time people being creepers. And here's the funny thing, because we have a shit ton of haters. So I just got to see some text messages from a gal who I've never met. I had added a page one time two years ago that when they brought my name up, she goes, he just creeps me the fuck out. So I was like, well, what a great topic. So topic so that's about to say along with him whenever he says it that's awesome so uh so the conversation we want to start with let's talk about creepers and what what predominantly you think of creepers we think of guys being creepers which yeah it doesn't necessarily have to be guys no per se yeah but let's talk about let's talk about creepers let's talk about uh what are what are creeper behaviors what makes somebody a creeper i mean because i think that's a really general term but it's a really powerful term like when somebody gets dubbed when the rumor starts going around people are going oh that that person's a creeper that has some serious like kick to it and and impact on how these people are going to be perceived all the way through so you had actually looked up i looked up i looked up what makes a person a creeper. Where did you look it up? Did you Google it? Google. Googly moogly. Google. Now, how it popped up, I clicked on a website, and what the website was, I have no freaking idea, because I wasn't paying that much attention. I was just reading them as I went. Do share, young Skywalker. Do share do share some of them i was just like they they gave the the headline and then a description which some of the descriptions i kind of laughed at and and the one i will tell you when i get to it right we need a teleprompter okay much bigger telephone someone thatprompter. Someone that makes you feel uncomfortable or uneasy.
Speaker1:
Okay. Duh. Duh. Right.
Speaker3:
Bad vibes, right?
Speaker1:
Right.
Speaker3:
Stairs too long.
Speaker2:
That's probably what I do. I get all buggy-eyed. That could be it.
Speaker1:
Okay.
Speaker3:
Someone that doesn't understand personal space.
Speaker1:
Absolutely. Beth adds,
Speaker2:
Creepy behavior when you tell them to stay the fuck away from you and they don't stay away we'll get to that because that's in here in a nicer version okay so it does understand personal space yes right what i don't know um ignore social cues i.e stay the fuck away that isn't even a social that's a that's a It does take no for an answer, but cues, i.e. stay the fuck away. That isn't even a social cue. That isn't a social cue. That's a blatant... It does take no for an answer. But yes, social cues, you're talking to somebody and they keep interrupting. You look away, you give them the obvious signs. Go ahead. We'll go back on these. Okay. So personal hygiene. Oh my God, yes. It doesn't take no for an answer. That follows Beth. Unrealistic expectations slash entitlement. Throws temper tantrums. But I want to fuck you, so you want to fuck me. Yep. TMI conversations. Oh, my God, yes. Sweet mother of fuck, yes. Actively freak people out. That's like on purpose. Oh, oh that's the one that's the one that that i told you it's the explanation was like well you know if some if a guy sends you a dick pic and like they really said this in an article you know they're trying to freak you out and it worked and i'm like well okay and the lifestyle is kind of a different thing. Yeah, absolutely. Pushes or ignores boundaries. Mm-hmm, yep. And there's the thing. Won't take no for an answer that said that twice. Awesome. You didn't tell me that earlier when I read him today. Well, because it was so good I needed to hear. Follows you like a puppy dog. Physical harm. Well, basically lack of consent yeah so someone who thinks they're above the rules absolutely so here okay a couple of these i think deserve more more love and attention okay like what uh i'm gonna start with ignore social cues is a big one because i because that happens a lot we we see that happen we had an example i watched it happen the other day to you right you try to be polite and then you try to move on and they just wouldn't stop just wouldn't stop keep interrupting they across the table and talking to me, and then I was talking to the person next to me, and then they kept interrupting me, and I kept having to look back. On stuff that was not relevant to anything going on. No. And it was just like, stop it. And it was obviously, you were being polite, but it was obvious, it was like, like that's enough stop and and you see that a lot and obviously booze and things like that can enhance that really really bad but the true creeper will do that all the time non-fucking-stop that's a huge one uh personal hygiene is a fucking huge one i don't necessarily consider personal hygiene a creeper though no No, that's just bad taste. That's a huge one. Personal hygiene is a fucking huge one. I don't necessarily consider personal hygiene a creeper, though. No, that's just bad taste.
Speaker3:
That's just lack of...
Speaker2:
But it's like lack of a social norm. Like, okay, it's one thing...
Speaker3:
No, but I'll consider that a creeper. Just because they have bad hygiene habits doesn't make them creepy. It just makes them dirty.
Speaker1:
Okay, well, add that one to the gross pile. that's just the gross pile yeah right okay uh what's the other one obviously the saying no the not taking no for an answer it it the the lifestyle it really sucks because this is the one I think most people have a hard time with because people don't want to take and hurt somebody's feelings, right? So they don't want to get to the point where they turn around like Beth goes, leave me the fuck alone. Not everybody wants to be a cuntasaurus. No, but most people won't do that. And so these people, they won't stop. stop and so it becomes a catch-22 it's like you're trying to be polite you're trying to be nice but you just have to fucking it becomes stalker uh yeah it becomes absolutely stalker uh someone who lacks critical self-awareness and misses obvious social cues leading to behavior that is uncomfortable to the person being subjected to it. Correct.
Speaker2:
Absolutely. And here's what's really funny. One of the things I have found through the time as you look at it, most creepers really, truly, are making everybody uncomfortable at the table just by the behavior towards one person. There are some people, though, I think we link them to a creeper status when realistically and i'm gonna go out on my on my amanda's crazy psychic crap right if you have somebody with such a high vibration that they can't sit still and they almost have this creeper vibe to them, but they're probably not. So, can you give an example of someone like that? I'll give you a moment to clear that one. Go ahead. Why don't, who would out Go ahead Who would be someone like that? Damn it Why is she choking? Let me throw this little bit in there Because this is kind of funny It's known that I have a very very high vibration And I get squirreled easily, and I have a hard time sitting still. But you don't come off creepery. How that gal said that you creeper the fuck out, I have yet to figure that out. Everybody thinks you're on drugs, but that's beside the point. I'm sure after this we'll find out more people how they think that I'm a creeper. No, no, it's when he does this. It's not that I'm staring a long time at you. It's just because I'm probably half comatose. My brain's just trying to work through something. I'm really looking right through you. It's okay. Well, and Jessica, sometimes people that are shy can come off as creepers. Because that's one thing that list didn't talk about. People that seem, we dub them by itself, they seem really quiet. And they're really reserved that it raises the hackles a little bit. And that's where I say the biggest thing is there's a huge part of this where you do have to, we have to be careful about that label as a creeper because honestly just because somebody's shy okay so we have someone who thinks they're above the rules we'll agree to that yeah well they're just assholes by that point okay talk shit about people because they're not getting what they want that's still just asshole i don't know if that's really a creeper right isn't creeper that just makes you feel uneasy right still wrong don't get it i mean still not you know well yeah yeah follow you around like a puppy dog yes that's but that goes like the personal boundaries personal but there's the there's the challenge with the creeper tag is that there are a lot of people that don't have they're not comfortable in social situations and so they don't have the social skill set and it's not that they mean to be creepers they just don't know it's like this is the this is the challenge you don't want to say well give people a second chance if you get a bad vibe about somebody you get a bad vibe and you should trust your gut right But what i do think is we have to be careful on how fast we throw the creeper tag out there because it very well could be there are some people that have such serious social anxiety that for them to come to an event is like that's a huge accomplishment believe it or or not, I have massive social anxiety. I deal with the way I deal with my social anxiety is just different. Some people deal with it by being very in a shell, very whatever. I feel safer when I'm very much, when I'm controlling the conversation, when I'm cracking jokes, when I do so you can you can well not everybody you can you can see it you know the difference from when i'm just having fun or when i'm like when i'm not comfortable and and it's it's my way of protecting so a lot of people have that uh lisa oh my god we're the quiet couple that sit in the corner i promise we're not creepers we're just shy no you can tell a person if they're shy or not there was somebody okay long time ago when we first got in the lifestyle they would come outside when we were smoking and sit there with a coat on just staring at you or staring at the fire or whatever right very they didn't talk too much they wanted to be a part of it they weren't comfortable starting the conversation right and but once once we started the conversation with them it was amazing then then the company but they were just trying to be a part of the group and they're trying to figure out how i sweetest guy ever yeah i think that honestly the challenge is there look there are some things that are absolutely creeper i mean yeah the bottom line is if everybody's feeling the same way usually there's some where there's smoke there's fire but in the lifestyle that's the challenge we're supposed to be non-judgmental but it's hard we i have noticed we've had more people that are uh widowers or widows it's a huge thing for them to be able to come out it's a huge thing for them to feel think about this i know and people will remember if you listen back to an episode from me from quite a while back probably two three years ago back that we did where you weren't feeling good and i went to the club myself and how jim was on he's i don't know if he's still on here can attest to how i went in and how awkward and uncomfortable i was because now i said my grandma's yeah you that's right you're your grandma's that's right and and how awkward and uncomfortable i was if no if people wouldn't have known me what people that knew me thought they just thought I didn't feel good. I was off. I just, if you had never met me before I I would guess that I probably to a degree could have come off kind of creeperish because I was so uncomfortable out of my own because we go places as a team we have we have that dynamic so when you have people that are widowers or uh you know something like that here's the reality of it it was it it's you get here and all of a sudden you are going to a whole new world without your partner which there's a comfort level there there's a safety net there and that's where we have to be careful to me me, the challenge, good Lord, I'll have to break those. We have computers flying around the room. I can't do that shit. Larry, are people labeled a creeper by people because someone decided to label them that because of personal issues attacking their reputation? That could be. And, Jim, that night, it was quite as I've ever seen him besides passed out at his bar yeah uh but that's the other thing is it's like everything we talk about in the lifestyle which is you need to make your own decision right so it's easy to conversation go oh oh fuck here comes that guy he's a creeper and then everybody goes oh okay we have to everybody's perception is different it's not that the person that thinks they're creeper is wrong but everybody's perception can be different i go based based upon vibe right but you're you're a hippie chick like that i'm just kidding let's just fucking run away yeah no but i mean you know you got feel if there's an uneasy feeling no but you also give people more than one chance yes because anybody can come and have had a shit day at work uh shit week uh something unusual they needed to get out of the house because they were going to go crazy if they didn't. Right. Or that they sat outside for an hour trying to get the courage to walk in. So if we give people a second chance, that's the thing with the lifestyle that's so important is, do we automatically judge and label people and write them off, or do we try to do better? Because I think that there's... Okay, so here's the next part of that, because I want to make sure I get to this, is how do we talk to someone and tell them they're acting like a creeper? Because here's the deal. Keep this in mind. For every single person that we think or we've dubbed a creeper, somebody in that group knows them or is friends with them or whatever. How do you take and tell somebody, dude, you are freaking the fuck out of people.
Speaker3:
Who did I do that to?
Speaker2:
I remember that. You did do it. But you could get away with it from your quote-unquote status, your position.
Speaker1:
Whatever.
Speaker3:
Yes, I could. Because I just kind of went, you know, you keep posting this, and it's really coming off kind of creeper-ish.
Speaker2:
They asked you. They had reached out to you. And they said, why they weren't getting any responses. And you were like, do you want to be honest? You want the honest answer? And I said, yes. And that's when you told them how how it was a creeperish like like i know i told somebody but and they're like really i'm like yeah you can't you can't do that but but how do you how do you do that how do you do i mean there's a lot that goes with it of when you do it is important because you don't want to humiliate the shit out of somebody and And how you do it is important. Jim, I've pulled them aside and told them straight up. I think there's a lot to say to just being honest. I think Jim's right on that. Some things you just can't beat around the bush on. Like, you really can't. It's like, for their own sake, you have to say something. but in all reality there are some creepers out here
Speaker3:
yes oh i was gonna say the ones that some that would label creeper are the ones that are um furries sorry don't make me laugh it'll make me cough okay um the one that are um Predatorial.
Speaker2:
Yes, the predators tend to fucking...
Speaker1:
Yeah. Yeah. The one that are, um, predatorial. Yes, the predators tend to fucking, yeah, yeah.
Speaker2:
Well, because they're like a fucking cat creeping around and shit. That's why cats are fucking.
Speaker3:
Because they're just lurking.
Speaker2:
They're lurking. They're lurking and you can see them and they're waiting to pounce. And, you know, you can't do that until you get them back to the house. Nobody's there and there's no cameras.
Speaker3:
I'd want someone to tell me if I came off as a creeper.
Speaker2:
That was funny.
Speaker3:
I was only halfway listening. I'm sorry, I was reading.
Speaker2:
That's okay. After seven years, that's part of the charm.
Speaker1:
What?
Speaker2:
Right there it is. That's part of the charm of our show, halfway listening.
Speaker1:
Yeah.
Speaker2:
I think most people really would want somebody to tell them.
Speaker3:
Okay, so here's a question. Have you ever ran into a female creeper?
Speaker2:
I'm sorry I was only half listening.
Speaker4:
You're a dick.
Speaker2:
No, say it again.
Speaker3:
Have you ever ran into a female creeper?
Speaker1:
Yes. Really? Yes.
Speaker3:
What did they do to creep you out?
Speaker2:
Do we have that much time? Fuck. Okay, so. they do to creep you out do we have that much time fuck uh okay so i don't know how to preface this without sounding like a dick and we all know that i'm an arrogant asshole so i guess it really doesn't fucking matter does it yeah some of it is because of the perception the key phrase the perception of who i am so santa claus no not that one i i know it was not you julie uh you're my soon-to-be uh anyways so no it it it i've had people that that do the whole just like stare at you're like hey and they're just like you know you're just like uh-huh and just or that are real like touchy like they're checking to make sure you're real type shit it's like uh-huh so i've i've had that and i and i've had uh the girls that are just like it's really bizarre because you're just sitting here like you you try to talk to them because instantly, okay, there's a chick that's interested in me. I'm like, sweet mother of God, some girl that maybe is interested in me. You're really all excited about that.
Speaker3:
So they come out batshit crazy.
Speaker1:
Right.
Speaker2:
If the batshit crazy comes out before you fuck them, yes. But I mean, seriously, just how they act around you, it's almost like little kids, okay? That's almost, okay, you use the Santa Claus thing. That's actually a great analogy. When I'm dressed as Santa and I'm walking through the mall and I'm walking through somewhere to go to somewhere, right? The North Pole, obviously. Anyways, and little kids see you. They're like, oh oh and they're like creeping behind shit and they're peeking out and they're like you know they're just like mesmerized they either come running up how you're there's like they're like creeping around you you know and whatever i've had females do that with me and i i the only the only reason i think that is is because of the, totally the perception of what my position is. But women can be just as over the top, just as annoying, just as not take no for an answer. Actually, they will be, on this one, your whole thing of physical harm. I've had more women do physical harm to me. Here's the reality of it. I have had. Your ass bit. I've had my ass bit enough that it left teeth marks. At a party. I've had my nipples twisted and bruised to the point they hurt for three or four days afterwards. I had a nut ruptured because I got hit so hard going in. I've been hit multiple times in in the nuts haven't with women coming and going oh i can just grab you and literally uh racking me uh i've had i've had girls take and come up and does that make them a creep yes it's because it's it's non-consensual and it's physical harm they'll come up and they think they can do whatever i've had so many girls come up and yank my hair and pull my hair in a completely inappropriate way like if I don't know. them they'll come up and they think they can do whatever i've had so many girls come up and yank my hair and pull my hair in a completely inappropriate way like if if i turned around and went up to some girls and went yank and yank their hair you'd be getting your ass kicked by guys but they think they can do that to you since you've had a since you've had a beard same thing with a beard come up and grab your beard and pull up on your beard they think they can do that shit it's really funny that the it's like a strip club men know how to behave in a strip club for the most part because they've been trained women get to a strip club and they think they can do whatever they want and it's actually so yes i have i know that was a long answer to that. And a big part of it is physical harm. If a guy does it to you, you can turn around and slap that guy, literally. You can slap him, punch him, whatever. And if he retaliates, he'll die in the process, right? We all know that. No one's going to fault you for doing that. If a girl comes up and literally twists my nipples to the point where they're bruised or bites so hard it leaves a blood blister on my chest, what can I do? No damn thing. You know, I've had a girl ask, can I kiss your chest? Sure, whatever, that's a weird request. And she bit so hard she left a giant blood blister that was there for like three weeks four weeks so yeah that's that's part of it the funny thing with most of this shit it's not gender specific yeah it's really not it's not gender specific no i don't know for women i think it'd be more beyond theer side. That would allude to the fact that women would be batshit crazy.
Speaker3:
I'm not batshit crazy. Gary, you're not a creeper. You're far from it, sweet pea.
Speaker1:
Yes. Really? What?
Speaker2:
Do you have a vagina?
Speaker3:
Last time I checked.
Speaker1:
Then guess what? You have the gene of. You heard it on the loudspeaker. I did. You know what you have the gene of? No, move along Let Let's crazy. Beth is the crazy Kuntasaurus with a K. All right, so let's do a quick halftime. I think we just heard her say that earlier today. She did.
Speaker3:
She did.
Speaker4:
Let's do a halftime. Okay. I'd like you to do the halftime because the important thing is what I want you to talk about your halftime.
Speaker2:
Sorry, I just thought of this or I would have planned it out earlier. I apologize. I thought we said that the new star was not going to be surprising. Right, right. But this isn't anything you don't know about. Okay. Do I have the voice to do this? Probably. You just need to tell them where's a couple places that they can get, find you. The Miss Amanda Five Foot Firecracker, where they can find you. Where can you find me? Let's see. I have MissAmanda.net. Uh-huh, yep. I do. And OnlyFans, MissAmandaCasba. Twitter, MissAmandaCasba. LoyalFans, MissAmandaCasba. Do we see a pattern here i do and porn shit and porn hub at casbah at casbah yep and porn hub so definitely check out check out miss amanda check out a lot yep there you can do that she does that on this thing you can check out a lot of her different platforms uh she puts videos pictures on all of them and so make sure you sign up also on missamanda.net you can actually see where she's going to be as she gets dates booked you can also request if you want to request certain specific type of pictures or scenes that you would like to see her do that you can actually buy those she'll make specific content specifically for you can also, on there, send your information and apply if you would like to shoot and make content with Miss Amanda. So that is an option available. And just FYI, I should know, we do fully require testing to get to take and shoot content. But feel free to check it out, missamanda.net. You can actually go to links from there to your OnlyFan your loyal fan Pornhub is separate and obviously Twitter you can also do your link is on your page for your Twitter as well so don't forget to check her out she will be at KWN awesome good job sorry
Speaker3:
I didn't get to think of that I'm just fair can you believe it you actually I'm going to be at KWN you actually
Speaker2:
this time for the first time we actually are going to have to have you a separate schedule okay so we're going to put it out there right now Miss Amanda will absolutely be at the dances in full Miss Amanda mode I don't know. Where are they? I don't know. Are we going to be together? Supposedly. Are we going to see each other? Well, are we? I'm supposedly. Okay. This is what makes it fun why do i wear a scarf because i'm sweating it i have my 80s gear all geared up you know you're gonna be you're gonna do much with my hair just go curly and like get some aqua net and spray the fucker up big poof uh during the day on both days on probably friday early and on some on saturday You're going to Saturday, we'll try to keep people up to date on where you're going to be at because you are going to be, most part, we don't normally shoot content on those days because, obviously, you like to meet and talk to as many people. We've got some things we have to get you different places, but we'll make sure that you'll spend some time in the vendor fair. And, obviously, if there's a couple seminars you you want to do i'm sure you'll probably make an appearance in with me when i do the newbie seminar won't you well yeah i'll probably help you do it yeah i would like to do it before yep so uh usually i just stand off to the side and look pretty yeah no and then you do a good job with that and so uh yeah so there'll be places we'll try to make sure that people know where she's at. Can I wear the leopard print pilgrim hat?
Speaker1:
No.
Speaker2:
So I can't guarantee that it will be the same. I have different scarves. So this is my scarf currently.
Speaker3:
Get a pretty girl to come up there. I'm pretty sure that you let her wear it for a little bit.
Speaker2:
Who knows? That might happen. I have multiple scarves. I have black ones, blue ones, and all of those. So probably most of the weekend, with the exception of one of my tux,
Speaker1:
with the exception of one of my tux, I will have my hat on.
Speaker2:
So this way you can spot me.
Speaker1:
Just saying. Okay.
Speaker3:
You all right?
Speaker1:
Doing good. Hanging in there.
Speaker2:
Okay.
Speaker1:
I have what you wear. That's right.
Speaker2:
I have.
Speaker3:
Let's see.
Speaker4:
People now, but we can bet on it.
Speaker1:
Brenda's worn it. Yeah, Brenda's worn it. Brenda's the one that started the scarf around it. Yep, she is. She got me turned on the scarf around it. Absolutely. Yes, before she passed out. Huh. Anyways, okay. It took me a minute. Probably not anything else, but it took me a minute. We're going to go to the other topic, though, okay? Okay. All right, so this topic, part of it is because, well,
Speaker2:
we have to acknowledge our own age and just this is a reality topic about the lifestyle, right? So the other night on New Year's, actually, we were at New Year's Eve. We had a wonderful time, and at our table, there was age range from us, which we were in our early 50s, 51 and 52. We had someone there who was 44 is how old he is. And we had another couple there that is 38 and 31. You see this huge, in the lifestyle as you go along, if you start to see this huge and there's also a god it was 54 yeah it was 49 yep so you had this wide plethora of ranges and that's the reality of the new lifestyle now we know that obviously there's groups out there that cater to just certain age groups younger older whatever older, whatever. But like our group is not one of those groups, right? So the question or the topic we want to talk about was the generational challenge. So what do I mean when I say the generational challenge? The generational challenge to us is that how do you take at your regular event, your meet and greet the bars or event like kwin or any event like that how do you make it so that the 20 somethings the 30 somethings the 40 somethings you know we have people that are all the way into their 70 somethings in our group how do you make it so that everybody can have a good time and get along and help to avoid the clicks and the crap that can easily go with the lifestyle in general. And it's a very real situation out there now because we sat at a table and one of the people we're talking with is the same age as our oldest son. So how do you deal with that? Because it is a challenge, and there's a couple things we're going to talk about. The challenge for the younger people, the challenge for the older people, and the challenge for the people that are at that awkward age, the middle ages. The awkward age. Right? Because those are all very real things that come along with and are actually stuff that we have to deal with in the lifestyle if you're going to be successful and maneuver it and have a lot of fun, I think. So you don't have anything looked up for this one. I didn't, but that's okay. So the first thing is, when we were talking about it earlier, the first thing we were talking about is understanding the concept. We preach it in the lifestyle, but it's easily forgotten. Just because you have fun hanging out with somebody doesn't mean you have to fuck them. Like, the very first part of dealing with the generational challenge in the lifestyle is seriously putting, taking the sex factor out of it because here's the reality of it there's a lot of 20 somethings that are in the lifestyle a fucking great time party with them just have a blast whatever in real life they annoy the living fuck out of me. Because they're 20-something. I was there once, young, much less life experience, so their perception is different, fun to party with, fun to drink, fun to hang out with in that setting. Anything deeper than that, yeah, no and and i'm sure for the young people that they can look at people our age go fun to party with fun whatever who wants to fuck our parents okay i mean and that and that's the reality of and i think you have to be willing to understand that and i think sometimes the challenge that the young people they're ready to party and party hard and go, whatever. And the old people, we're ready to party and go hard. And so we lose track of the fact that everything doesn't have to end up in bed because that's when you're going to have this huge separation. That's when you're going to start to have this issue of that's when you're walking up to everybody that's younger than you going, hey, do you have daddy issues? Hey, do you have daddy issues? Now, don't get me wrong. I'm not opposed to randomly yelling that out. Setting up a flare. I get it. I mean, it's just saving times. I'm old. I'm going to get tired. I can't walk all over. I won't be able to fuck that. No. I mean, part of it's a joke, but you don't want to have to do that all the time. I mean, you shouldn't do that all the time. You have to have a realistic expectation. I mean, honestly, I look at myself in the mirror. I'm fucking amazed that you'll fuck me most of the time because you don't look your age anyways so i'm excited that you'll still fuck me right i know that if you have a 20 let's say 25 year old right 24 year old no no like like building my ideal thing they're kind of a nurse no i'm just kidding you have a 24 year old they're active they're all that shit right I remember what I looked like at 24 my hair was long but way thicker and there was no fucking wrinkles and there was no you know my hands didn't look like you know an old guy's hands and I didn't have old guy's eyes and all that shit i didn't have a dad bod and have any of that shit i don't look that way now that's the reality of it and i look at myself and go why take out the the take out the daddy issue factor or the grandpa issue factor why would someone want to fuck me? Well, and personality goes a long ways, and I absolutely get that but the perception is not going to be that every 20 year old i'm going to win them over with my person my incredible charming personality because i still he's got a great personality but he's still an old dude i mean it is what it it is. It's a little bit different for women because I think there's a stronger push for younger guys. They want to fuck MILFs. They want to fuck MILFs. I did. When I was younger, I wanted to fuck MILFs. You did? Oh, fuck yeah. Oh, fuck yeah. I didn't know this. Yeah. Oh, absolutely. Absolutely. Then when you reach... For guys you reach a certain age, it's a teeter-totter. Okay? When you're younger, you're like, give me some old bitch. Woo! You know, which old was rather like, give me that 40-year-old pussy. Uh, uh, you know, type of shit. As then when you go screaming past 40, now you're like, oh, I want to see if I can still got what it takes to fuck a 23 year old bring me that young ass pussy you know i mean that's as a guy that's that's kind of a natural progression why are you looking at me like that like i've just absolutely lost my mind because i sit there and i think about the the porn i went and shot how the 25 25 yearold was like, well, she has a tight pussy. Yes, the 52-year-old has a tight pussy. I wish you wouldn't push that factor on the show. What? About yelling super tight pussy. Why? It really doesn't help your husband. Oh, shut up. Pretend for just a minute that you're still my wingman. Shut up. There's nothing to do with that. She has procedures. She has a special kind in thing. I was going to say, maybe that means that my body is full of youth. Well, maybe we could describe it that way so that we make sure that no one goes, maybe it means Cole has a really small dick. You have a small dick? Dick. Shut up. Stroking i'm just that's just saying anyways the that but but that becomes young just how i think that we strive to we put too many differences we we segregate ourselves off based on age in the lifestyle right you you see it we start to like ah they're just young kids yeah they're just old people they're just whatever and i think we i think we self-segregate ourselves instead of giving us a chance to like meet and hang out with younger or older people true very very true which to me the perk of hanging and partying with younger younger people is it's fun I mean, it'll take me back to my college days. You get me, the perk of hanging and partying with younger people is it's fun. I mean, it'll take me back to my college days. You get me with the right group of younger people, man, we'll fucking drink all night. I mean, it's like that fucking party is on, like Donkey Kong, let's go.
Speaker3:
I'll be the old lady passed out in the corner.
Speaker2:
Well, but you did that when you were younger, too, so you kind of stayed with the same thing. But, I mean, it does. It brings back, it makes it fun. And there's no bigger compliment when the younger kids are like, holy fuck, we can't keep up with you. You guys are so much fun to party with. We've had that. Yeah, yeah. When they're like, holy shit. We were at a party. This was a couple years ago. And it was us. We were the only old people left. And remember I had the trampoline and the bonfire? And a bunch of them were younger. And they're like, holy shit, you're the cool old people. You're still the trampoline and the bonfire and and a bunch of them were younger and they're like holy shit you're the cool people you're still going so i was like four in the morning like fuck yeah we're still going strong it's what we do go big or go home motherfuckers are we sure we weren't at that point laying there looking at the stars no that was a different night that was the night the next night i was tired from being up all night the night before you know so yeah but that's that's the fun part so here becomes a challenge is the awkward middle ages well i don't know if it's necessarily awkward because they can float between the two age groups without issues see yeah we went to well past 5 30 a.m we're pretty good for old people. That's true. We were tired for three days afterwards, but other than that, other than the need for IVs and all kinds of shit. No, but they can. But what makes it, if it's harder when it segregates out. It's harder when it segregates out to the old people and the young people. You know what I mean?
Speaker1:
Yeah.
Speaker2:
How to say this without showing conceit. I should only perform as good if not better than someone 20 years younger than me.
Speaker1:
Yeah.
Speaker2:
I mean, look, again, age and experience, we have something to offer. And as long as you've got the stamina to go with it, then it'll fucking rock on. you know i think for for women i would think that a lot of times the odds of being disappointed because of issues in terms of just natural guy issues as we get older is a little less with younger guys. Yes, no, maybe. I haven't tried too many younger guys. Only paid professional ones. No, there was one time I did, and it was mediocre,
Speaker3:
but it was like a lot of arrogance went into it. And it was just, no, it wasn't my thing.
Speaker2:
So, okay, so go back to the middle age range. Because we were in our early 40s, and I was when we started all this. So if it segregates out, because, yes, someone in their 30s,
Speaker1:
I don't know. range because we were in our early 40s when we started all this so if it segregates out because yes someone in their their 30s like that 35 to 45 age range has an easier time to still be able to hook up with 20 somethings and young 30 somethings and they can still hook up with you know 50s and and late 50s i mean when we first got it we had those stereotypes against somebody older and yet because the first time we heard a couple they were both like 55 because that was way older than us and they were some of the best fucks we've ever had in the lifestyle still to this day yeah i mean they fuck like rock stars but it's more challenging and and how does how does that middle age broach that because if it's harder if they're in a group and there's all these 20-somethings. Even a 35-year-old, 30, 40-year-old got a hard time getting in that group. Same with going the older way.
Speaker2:
How do we do that?
Speaker1:
That's really the question.
Speaker3:
How do we make it so that all these groups can actually communicate and get along better and have more fun at an event? They have to be more... You need to be naked. Open-minded. I think you should be lately in charge of being naked. And more open-minded in terms of conversation. What do we do? You're talking about just getting along and enjoying each other's company versus the sex part.
Speaker1:
Right.
Speaker2:
Look, the sex part. They're going to choose or not choose, and they're going to have their age limits regardless. Right. I mean, really, that's what it is with the lifestyle in general. Right. The sex part will take care of itself. I guess my thing is, is that, honestly, that is, if we take, that's one one if we can figure it out that's one more wall that comes down we all have something to learn from different generations we do just get to see yeah we do no i agree i'm just fine no i disagree with you the older generation can learn from the younger generation on what's more young hip now I learn every day from you Fuck off The younger generation Has a lot that they can learn From the older generation What it used to be Larry That's just funny As an older gentleman If I were to hook with someone younger, it boosts confidence and strokes the ego a little bit. Absolutely. I honestly think we introduce everyone to each other no matter age, and we continue to promote inclusiveness. It is, and that's really true. And we do have to. But I think we have to have a responsibility. I mean, part of the challenge is to have that responsibility as members of the lifestyle and do it in a way that's not creeper. See how this works out where this kind of ties together. What is creeperish to a 20-year-old is a hell of a lot different or can be a hell of a lot different than what is creeperish to a 50-year-old. So the thing is, is we can come up. I can walk up to a young 20-something, and I think that I'm not doing anything that's, like, weird, whatever, and to introduce myself or include them or whatever. And I walk away, and they're going, who in the fuck was that goofy old i mean and they're also talking to a generation that does a lot of texting versus actual social communication verbally right but it doesn't but that doesn't give us that doesn't give us the right to the excuse to not try no and i think no if anything we can draw in, and then they can learn more socializing skills. Well. Not that they don't have it, but I mean, some of them don't. And we can have them set the time and clock on our VCRs. I wasn't expecting that. Damn it. Just saying. Anyways. So. God. But I mean, that's the thing.. And so a lot of this stuff, just like we were talking with the career thing, a lot of this stuff, there's a degree of personal responsibility. Like we have to want to make stuff better or different. You have to be the one. So this is as much for the younger generation. The older generation, we're more apt to walk in to try to include the younger ones. If you're a younger person listening to this, make the effort. We see this all the time at Moonshires. We've seen this a million times out there. We'll find out, you know, two, three weeks down the road, there's this young couple, they're sitting at a table, and they've been sitting there watching. They're actually part of the group. They just have finally drifted over because they don't see anybody else like them. They're not looking over. They don't see somebody else that's 20. If you're doing that, if you're that person, take the chance. Believe it or not, most of the people you're going to talk to are really, really cool. They're going to be really accepting. They're going to be really cool. Yes, are you going to have some thirsty motherfuckers there?
Speaker1:
Yep.
Speaker2:
You're going to have thirsty motherfuckers I don't let the fear of that stop you from coming over and maybe meeting some really cool people and remember that again the key is just because you talk to somebody, just because you hang out consistently or whatever, does not mean that you have to fuck them. To be nice to someone doesn't mean you have to fuck them. To develop a relationship, a friendship, does not mean you have to fuck them. But man, don't miss out on the chance. And honestly, yeah, every group has something. The younger ones can teach us a lot about how things are now. The older ones can teach you a lot about some safety, some things that are to maneuver, how to maneuver through the lifestyle to avoid a lot of pitfalls. The joy of doing it a long time is we've made most of those mistakes.
Speaker1:
Yeah, I understand.
Speaker2:
And if we can help somebody avoid it. So, I don't know. But there you go. Look at this go.
Speaker3:
There you go. Isn't this go. There you go.
Speaker2:
Isn't that neat?
Speaker1:
Mm-hmm. Wow.
Speaker2:
Let me get some youngins in there. See how much of a creeper I can be. This will be awesome.
Speaker3:
You going to purposely try to creep somebody out?
Speaker1:
No.
Speaker2:
But I don't know exactly how to put it out there. If you are 21 to 31 and you're a nurse. You have daddy issues. No. No, there's nothing to do with daddy issues. Do you have daddy issues? Grandpa issues. Santa issues. You're not a grandpa. I'm old enough. I could be. Actually, if you just find out-of-date people with long hair, beards, whatever, attractive. Somebody to talk to? You want ice cream, a puppy, candy? Ice cream or a puppy. Oh, my God. Either way. Anyways, hopefully people will learn something from this. Okay. So, all right. What a great start to Season 7, Episode 275. Again, a shout-out to our sponsors, ASN, Lifestyle Magazine, Motor Bunny. Don't forget to go and get your Motor Bunny. As well as SmokeAndMeatsBBQTreats.com. Check it out. It's fun. All these people will support us. They'll be at KWN, a lot of them. We hope you will be at KWN as well. So check that out. Give us a holler and whatnot, and we will look forward to hearing from you all very, very soon. Absolutely. You can follow us on X, at Truth Crazy. You can send us emails, crazy.kazba, at gmail.com. You can go to our website, crazykazba.com. You can hear us on Full Swap Radio. Don't forget, missamanda.net as well, so you can get sent in for OnlyFans and loyal fans, and you can see her doing dirty things. It's actually really fucking hot, just saying. Doesn't matter if you're 20 or doesn't matter if you're 50, it's fucking hot to watch her fuck, just saying. With all that being said, kids, doing it the only way I know how, the only way I want to, and the only way I ever motherfucking will. Casbah style, seven years going strong, out.
