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Speaker1: Hey kids, the program you're about to listen to contains some adult situations, adult language, themes, and other adult topics. If you're easily offended, this show's not for you. Hey you crazy motherfuckers, welcome back to another edition of Crazy Truth about swinging. I'm the host with the most and I can't focus. cool. I'm here with the lovely, lovely and highly fucking focused Tits McGee, otherwise known as Amanda. Hey, I don't have ADD, you do. I have no idea what you're talking about. What? Squirrel! We're here to Tantillate and Tittillate. This is season six, episode 274. That means we're one away from 275. Is that what that means? You can count? I can, and we are so close to 300, I can taste it. Anyway, it's a big deal. Probably not. Kind of. I don't know. Who knows? Will we go past 300? Well, is that where it will all end? I thought you were going to pick a booger out of my nose. I was totally going gross. No, you have this one beard hair that's curled up. This is why people love to tune into our show, because the other shows don't do this kind of shit. For those of you who follow along, well, I did that part. Fuck, I don't know what to do. Let's give a quick shout-out to our sponsors, shall we? Sure. We have those? I know. I'm just as shocked as you are. Hey, you know what? If you want a top-quality sex toy, you know what? The type of sex toy that you know you can count on. Quit picking your nose off camera. The nose type you can count on. A name you know you can trust that will bang you, silly. Motorbunny.com. Check them out. Make sure you go to motorbunny.com. Get them right into your heart's content. Just saying. Also, if you want to know what's going on in the lifestyle, both the adult world as well as the swear world, ASNLifestyleMagazine.com, new additions each month, make it a habit to read your edition of ASNLifestyleMagazine.com, three million readers can't be wrong. And hey, it's that time, it's football season, football season is a great time to do what? Tailgate. What should you do at tailgate? You should have some meat. Where should you put it? On a grill. But you know what? Don't. Nobody wants to ruin a good tailgate with just blah meat. Spice it up with top quality meat rubs from our good friends at SmokinMeatBBQTreats.com. That is S-M-O-K-I-N-M-E-A-T-S, BBQ, lemon pepper, S-B-G, orange mango habanero, pineapple paradise, or the brand new Sina-Q. And you know what? If you use CASBA 15, you can actually take and get 15 for online. Finally, we do believe in safety. It's something we preach. It's something that's important to us. That's right. One in four people get roofied at an event, get drugged without their knowledge or consent. Don't be a statistic. That's right. Get a MyCup condom today. You can go to MyCupCondom.com backslash discount backslash CASBA, K-A-S-B-H-10 Get your estate. Speaker2: This is not just a lifestyle thing. You're going to the bar, kids in college, the whole nine yards. Be safe. It's what it's all about. We have special CASBA ones. We have CASBA ones or the original ones. And if you own a business.
Speaker1:
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Speaker2:
let us know.
Speaker1:
We can also hook you up and help you out with that as well. Welcome to the show. Hi-ho. So it's been a busy week this week so far. Oh, last week was kind of busy. I guess it's only Tuesday. We didn't do a lot this week because we were both feeling kind of blah. So we didn't actually do anything. I think maybe like the end of summer tiredness fucking galloped up. I don't know if it's Saturday or what the hell it was. A lot of allergies all the time. We stayed home Friday night. I guess I went out Saturday night, but that's, you know, then it's all Friday night, but that's, yeah. No, we didn't do, we did not do shiznit. So, which is, you know, and that's okay. It's a nice change. Not that we don't have a million things trying to get done. So just saying.
Speaker2:
We still do, but.
Speaker1:
Yeah, we still do. We still have a million and one things to do. We haven't actually accomplished anything, but we're moving forward. That's all that really matters. But you had kind of a good week already so far this week. And in our new, as we go into the adult world, and we'll get into this more a little bit because this is a big part of the topic I want to talk about today. Well, then save it then. Well, okay. No, I don't know. Well, that's not part of it. I mean, no. Okay. Now I'm all, fuck, now we've got to start off. No, I'm just kidding. So for us, we always talk about on this show leveling up, right? Anytime you do something new, there you go. There's a yawn, yawn, let it go, baby. Put a ghost dick in that mouth. We always talk about leveling up, right, on this show, about how when you, whether it's significant other in the live show, you do something brand new, you, like, are starting at square zero, right? You have to start all the way over kind kind of thing and and honestly it's the same thing as we have transitioned more and more into the adult world we're 13 years strong in the swinger lifestyle and we have pretty good grasp of what's going on in the swinger world ish as an ish because everybody there's always room to learn but the adult world is brand new for us so uh even though we are very very fortunate that we have people in the adult industry know who we are because of the size of our organization and our groups and things like that our events and then on top of what's the people that we are friends with and and we're very fortunate because most people if you you went into it cold, wow, how daunting.
Speaker2:
Right?
Speaker1:
So we have a definite advantage, but it's still a huge learning curve. It's amazing how much stuff you don't know and how much, you know, it's a different ball game a little bit. So a learning curve, we're not going to say who yet uh but you actually well i will we will say this part one of a very good friend of ours part of the family victoria uh took and peaks uh actually got you in contact with some of the folks that she shot with and shoots with and got your past your information on to them whatever and to to several of them actually which is going to make a huge difference when we're in New Jersey at Exotica for shooting. But also some shooting locally around here as well. And so it's kind of exciting. Because it's, we've been doing it ourselves, but this is a step up. This is not like just an OnlyFans thing. This is stepping up into, you know, you're going to be doing professional shoots. And so that's, it's neat. It's a learning curve. It's exciting. And that's just, you know, but it's still a learning curve. It doesn't matter. It's still a learning curve all the way through. And I actually talked to Victoria today because I told her, you know, she said, let me know how it how it comes out right or when i get stuff set up and uh we're actually gonna have victoria on the show in the next couple weeks at some point in time we're gonna do interviews with her on the show okay as well so yeah here's the thing i don't do the whole fucking uh uh podcast circle jerk where we all tell each other how great we are on each other's shows but we try to bring other people that have stuff to share and knowledge and we'll probably get her and Izzy we'll probably get her and her husband at the same time so it'll be kind of cool stuff like that we'll do and hopefully as this goes along we're going to learn a lot of stuff I know we're going to learn a lot of stuff. I know we're going to learn a lot of stuff. But part of our goal is as we learn stuff and we go in that direction and grow in that direction, is also to be able to take and bring that knowledge here to the Midwest and help other people that are wanting to do the same thing. Because there's a lot of people that want to do it. The same thing. So, that kind of cool. So we've got that going on. So with that, I'm going to throw that next plug in real quick. Make sure Miss Amanda Casbah, her OnlyFans, check it out. There's more stuff going on there. We are getting more and more content. You took a whole bunch of really badass pictures. And you've got more pictures you'll be doing this weekend as well with themes so make sure you watch those so uh and yes we are shooting content with other people so there you go all kinds of fun stuff coming so let's talk a little bit i i actually want to talk a little bit about this whole concept of the adult side a little bit and some people are going to listen but this is a swinger thing yeah it is a swinger thing which is exactly why i think we need to talk about this because we all know like there's a million one people we i get asked you probably don't as much because you're at your right real job where i'm at my real job is this i get asked a million times a day a million times a week people that are interested in starting in only fans accounts or how they can make money off of only fans loyal fans i mean there's a million different platforms right and and they want to know about this and they want to do it and and which is awesome right super cool but the part that I think is so damn funny with it is how even in the lifestyle, we talk about don't yuck people's yums, right? It's a huge thing. The almost shitty response, snotty responses, or things that come up when we talk about. We didn't know what we were doing.
Speaker2:
And honestly.
Speaker3:
No, I couldn't sit there and wait for people to tip you enough to take some clothes off and tip you more.
Speaker1:
When we first started on Chatterbait, you were competing with the 20, the college girls.
Speaker2:
Yeah.
Speaker1:
Okay, so the landscape has changed. It's actually the same thing in door B. Mm-hmm. Okay. Door A is supposedly all about consent. Everybody, you know, everybody, it's approved. Nobody's doing anything without its whole picture. Now it's maybe a group thing. Everything's almost the same, right? We're going to add another dimension to it. Door A? Going for 15 minutes and trying to catch up. I talk fast. I know I need to slow down. No, it's just whatever. No, but the thing is that Swinger 1 is probably potentially more fun. As far as enjoyment goes. And you only know that because now you've experienced some. Some. You have experienced some of the adult world. Yeah, just a little bit of it. But I'm assuming just like any acting thing, you're, stop, you know, cut.
Speaker3:
Okay, now let's start off here.
Speaker2:
Right.
Speaker3:
You know, where, you know, I was told it'd be an hour.
Speaker1:
Well, even in the stuff that you have done when we were in Miami, it was, okay, that's enough of that. We got all we needed. We got all the footage we needed of that. Now go to this.
Speaker2:
Yeah.
Speaker1:
Where it's not just a fluid. It's not the same type of thing as a fluid thing. We're just going and record it and whatever comes of it comes of it right but it's funny that we are we get judgmental as hell about it and people get judgmental and it's like oh my god i can't believe you do that well what are we doing as a hobby i mean seriously how much unless people are looking at more of you're willing to put your face out there and stuff and be labeled in porn i think it's more we were told that those were dirty uh there's there's less stop gaps there's a lot less control with some of the only fan stuff than there is with in the adult community as a whole yeah i think the adult community way easier how much that plays into it and the challenge is is that that creates a monster problem for people i mean the uh but shannon both are businesses but one is marketed by professionals true courtney uh i know i'm not everyone's cup of tea but i'm going to have fun while i still can absolutely and and that's understand we're not saying that only fans or any you know any of that those platforms or the adult world is like should be everybody should try it or everybody should do it because it's not for everybody i obviously, some of the best advice we were ever given when we first considered doing the adult world before and early on by another well-known adult star was understand you can never hide. Your family will find out. Everybody will find out. It's not for everybody, and that's okay, but it's just, it's the nuances of the lifestyle. We want to make the lifestyle better. It's not for everybody. It's okay. And that, yes, it's like any other part of the lifestyle. Where you are going to level out, those of you listening right now, where you're going to level out and go, listening right now where you're going to level out and go this is i've reached the peak i've reached the peak of where i want to be in the lifestyle is way different than other people's like a mountain range all the mountains are different heights right they're not all like just every mountain's the same so there nothing wrong with that. The bigger thing is if your peak doesn't go as high as somebody else's, don't be shitty to them because their peak goes on up. By the same token, if your peak is way higher than somebody else's, don't be shitty to somebody because theirs doesn't go as far. It's really, here's the other ironic part of the whole life of this whole transition when the it used to be very separate now there's more and more people you know again trying to get in with only fans and all those different types of things getting into the the a form of the adult world and just like when when there was original binding or not binding, bonding of inclusion of those other groups, you had a bunch of posers that were doing it wrong. Like, when Fifty Shades of Grey came out, all of a sudden you had all these swingers that had no idea what they were doing, buying anything they could to hit each other with, because they were like, it was like everybody got like rock and sock them or like you know bop things and just start beating the shit out of each other not knowing what the hell they were doing and and people in that community was like oh my god what are you people doing right so it's kind of the same thing you have a whole bunch of people that are like now they've heard about about the select few that are making millions of dollars from OnlyFans, so everybody's trying to do it, but they don't really understand that world at all. I strongly encourage anybody, if you're listening, if you've never been to an Exotica, go to an Exotica. You don't have to be an adult performer to go to an Exototica go to an Exotica because you're going to walk around that Exotica I don't care what you've seen online I don't care how much you think you know there's two sides to every Exotica the actual show there's the adult side and the lifestyle side you're going to walk around you're gonna walk around and you're gonna go oh holy shit you're i knowing people in the adult world been in this a long time I seriously thought when Ash the Bad Puppy was going to be in the adult world, been a long time, seriously thought when Ash the Bad Puppy was going to be at the booth, was envisioning a furry. That's what I thought it was going to be. Seriously thought that it was going to be. Chatterbait, loyal fans, had huge booths set up on the floor with certain models they had invited. You need to see that. And I'm telling you, right now some people are going to go, oh, I'm sure it was all just the pretty people. No. they had all different models from all different types of people on chatterbaits and on loyal fans that have thousands upon thousands of followers. And you realize, you look around and you go, oh, wow. It is a learning curve and a half. And if you want to get into that, you need to walk around. you need to see and and talk to there there are people there with that have their own just like you have your page being built and stuff will have their own booth they'll talk to you go talk to them you'll learn a shit ton of stuff you don't you think you know you don't know you don't we didn't, I mean, I walked down there, we walked down there a million times, and, um, learned stuff, I'm so damn excited for New Jersey, because that's their biggest show, so there's shows in Chicago, Miami, uh, New Jersey, and DC, I'm so excited for New Jersey because it's their biggest show because it's going to be cool to get to see there will be even more vendors and more people there. It is absolutely amazing what you can learn. And if you are serious about doing this stuff, I strongly encourage you to do it. Don't be a poser. what you can learn and if you are serious about doing this stuff I'd strongly encourage you to do it don't be a poser I mean understand if you think we didn't go into the adult world or start to do this lightly I mean we've had people encouraging us encouraging us to go to for you to get on the adult side for what probably five or six years now if not more and we Thank you. uh encouraging us to go to for you to get the adult side for what probably five or six years now if not more and and we didn't you know we didn't take that lightly and and it's taken a lot of people to strongly encourage and really when we went to miami that was a big like let's see if this is if this is a world a confirmation of this is a world we want to be in it was just like in lifestyle there's some really badass people some super cool people but you know i don't know you can jump in and add to anything i don't know no i'm just listening i know you're just listening but i'm just you know yeah so what everybody needs to do is you need to to you need to chicago if you're in the mid Midwest, go to the Chicago one. If you go to Exotica, it's three X's. I'll put in the notes the Exotica website so you can see the dates and the next year's stuff because you want to go. And Shannon goes, you can't be a wall fire. You have to ask questions and listen. You do. But even if the first day, because it's a three-day thing. They have the seminars and all that. Yeah, they have seminars going on as well. Even if it's just, you just take one day just to walk on to just soak it all in. Here's what's funny. You'll never see more butts in your life than you will in Exotica. Just saying. Absolutely. And you get to the point where you're like, oh, sweet. Although, you could always tell when I was like, when I saw one, because I would be like, I don't know what I'd say. Say something. Damn. Yeah. All of a sudden you hear me go, damn. Damn. I'm like, oh, I must be the other one. Yeah. Damn. And so, but it's, it's cool. The thing with the lifestyle is, part of the reason we talk about this, okay? And this isn't, we're not talking about this to push hers or our stuff, but the odds are you're going to get asked if you're in the lifestyle long enough, the way the world is now, to potentially shoot content. People are going to ask. They should ask you if they want to use it. They should ask, obviously. There's rules with this kind of stuff. This isn't just we both agree to shoot and then we just post it places. There's like legal laws that you have to have paperwork and documentation like that you have to have proper paperwork yeah if you don't have that there's stuff like federal offenses ten thousand dollar fine five years in prison stuff like that you can be sued for so you know but the potential of running into that having someone go hey do you want to shoot content or going I want to shoot content. Do you need to understand what's out there a little bit? Just as coach.
Speaker3:
And let it be known that your real name will be found out.
Speaker1:
Right, exactly. It will be found out. And the other thing is...
Speaker3:
Because everybody has... Well, a lot of people have pseudonames. Amanda doesn't. I'm Amanda, I'm Amanda.
Speaker2:
Yeah.
Speaker1:
The thing with it is that if you don't understand it or you're not sure, then you need to make sure that you're saying no to people videotaping stuff. Right? Because it's knowing the new world we live in. And I'm telling you, if you're not on those sites or whatever to know, someone can post a lot of shit out there. So it's honestly about understanding it. Everybody presents a really romantic picture of it. But like anything, remember back, well, some of you guys aren't probably going to be able to remember, but there was a time when the Internet first came out that the concept was if you build a website, you were going to be rich. It never worked that way. Right, this is the same same thing it's not going to necessarily work that way um that you just you know do and you're going to be rich uh larry put cross your t's and dot your i's because there are always haters absolutely there's always haters i remember first doing chatterbait i was a stay-at-home mom you were at work and i would do it during the day well not the prime time to do it which was dumb because i couldn't figure out why i couldn't make any money off of it but whatever but there came a time that one guy goes well i know what's in the mess because they can pop up chat obviously chatterbait you know so the chatter part he pops up and he goes i know who you are and i'm like okay who am i and he puts my legal name and i'm like okay he's like they have it fully on their website you can see it well no you can't but you know you dug in and got it and that's okay i'm not hiding anything now looking back i had kids in school you know we know porn stars that were ridiculed by their kids at school right you're not allowed to participate they were they were super they were super parents they were involved in all stuff they were known as awesome parents until it got found out what they do and then they got ostracized totally and that's the other reason i want to talk about the problem is is when when the outside sources the resources paint this as this glorious thing and if you're on x formerly known as twitter you see all these people putting on there and there's some dreams of grandeur remember there's a sales job that goes with this stuff to a degree yeah there is but a lot of you people listening know us or have met us or have come to some of our events. So imagine, I've had friends say to me, actually they said to her, ask her if I made her do this. Not just one, multiple. Ask her if I made her do this. Like she was given the warning sign, need and help type shit. And then after the fact, she said, oh yeah, well I asked her to make sure that you didn't force her into it. Thank you. ask her if I made her do like she was given like the warning sign needing help type shit right and then after the fact oh yeah well I asked her to make sure that you didn't force her into it like no and then we've had people that literally their response the way they interact with us it's naughty as hell because of the adult side people people that I have seen fuck other people i i mean i've been at parties and watched them you know i i can think of one that i watched them fuck three different people at a hotel party really i mean so you're under bright lights with a camera following you around telling your foot you know moving your foot so they get a better view of your crotch Yeah mean just so but that's the part that nobody that part they don't put on x that part no one puts that out there and when some of these shows that push it and how glamorous they don't they don't put that part of it out there and so it's like you need to know like the full scope of what you're getting into can it be a lot of fun absolutely but then here's the other real part of it this is the other reason why i want to bring this up because a lot of people we got in the lifestyle as a couple together the goal was initially you guys have all heard the story we were only going to play it together you know same room all that shit i don't know how far we went from there and and but even though even though we're still now we were miles from that we're still conscious of it you know you made the comment saturday night go ahead and go or no sunday if that if an opportunity presents itself go ahead and go you don't get to play for a while it is what it is we're still conscious but in the lifestyle people are continuously bitching guys because they don't get the attention that the women get and so there are people that go out and they want to do it as a couple there is opportunity to do that if you think the lifestyle is female driven you There is opportunity to do that. If you think the lifestyle is female-driven, you ain't seen nothing. Because it's, and no, it's not that you have to have a 10-foot dick. And no, you don't have to have, be a ripped bod. No, you don't have to be 23. None of those things, that it but still it is female there is more that they want females that fit different looks different whatever then it is the guys you're you're not one of the places that that you're going to shoot at uh it's it's very it's very full it's very transparent very full disclosure i'm not allowed to go i can go but they wouldn't pay to keep me put me up or anything else like that i can't be at the actual shoot i'm not in the shoot that's that so that's the other part is you go i want to this, understand that you need to have that part of it work through your brain first and foremost a little bit. That's all part of it. If you do the OnlyFans route and you're doing, you know, fans or however you do content, people that are professionals still have times that they have issues. Hey, did everybody hear that in the back? Even professionals still have issues at times. I was amazed at that, but it kind of was like, wow, okay. So we are all humans. It's amazing how it works. But when it sounds, well, fuck yeah, I'd fuck her. I want to do that. Yeah, this girl's hot. I would love to do that. Yep, I'm in. When you're sitting there under the hot lights, you know, when somebody's got lights set up and following you around, that's a little different ballgame. And if you're trying to get content and that isn't happening that's all part of it it's just there's awesome parts with it but the romantic side has to be put in it has to be in check just a scoge I know it's a total weird tangent for a show it's swinger
Speaker3:
no I think it's because we've been hit a lot last week and this week about
Speaker1:
Thank you very much. show totally it's swinger no i think it's because you we've been hit a lot last week and this week about is he making you do it no because he doesn't have that decision even when they're like you can just have sex or if you you know it's x amount if you do anal and he's like well that's up to you if you want to do anal i'm like i don't know if i want to do it or not it depends on that with the dick i've never made i've never told you to do anything but it shows the difference of how the only time you've hounded me as if yes you want another drink that's totally different good thing is is what the reason i bring that up is though no one has ever walked up to because my news these friends in the lifestyle, never once has I ever had a single person in the lifestyle, and maybe I'm wrong. If I'm wrong, tell me, walk up and ask you if I made you get in the lifestyle. No, but we talked about it at the beginning that I got tired of being hounded by you, so I gave it. Right, but I mean, people that before no one had we've never been to a party when we were first in the lifestyle nobody that was in the lifestyle or that knew us like a year walking did he make you be in the lifestyle is he making you be at this party yeah no you've never you've never been asked that you've never mind you a lot of these are people that have fucked you but you know and so I it's just one of those things you sit there and go get the get the irony of the differences understand why we're talking about this right there it is no one and most people are not going to have anybody in the lifestyle walk up and ask them that maybe a vanilla person that's a different story but oh there's some people you probably question if they really want to be at it or not right but but as a general rule i mean that's not you most people aren't there it's we don't think about that but that's the the negative painting or negative picture that goes along with the adult industry when really it's not that much different there's a shit ton of adult performers that also work in brothels yeah you know what and they make bank and it's safe i i can promise you when you go into a brothel that has a five-star restaurant with a world-class chef as part of the whole thing they have a little bit of security there's a real safety factor that goes with this this is not this is not like walking up to a car going hey hey want to party it's it's a different ball game than that so there's a there's a lot of that and you go okay what you know people Well, but still being a sex worker.
Speaker2:
If you make OnlyFans but still being a sex worker.
Speaker1:
If you make OnlyFans, you're a sex worker. There it is. If you've made a videotape just for fun, that's if you're a sex worker. You've paid for a party and ended up making a videotape, you're a sex worker. See how this works? Larry can't help but wonder how many spouses do force their others into the lifestyle? Intriguing thought. I think probably a lot of it's badger.
Speaker3:
There's badgering, but that's kind of a way of, that's kind of being, twisting your hand into it.
Speaker1:
It is. I mean, you know, in hindsight, you look back and go, okay, well, I probably shouldn't have done that. But I never just surprised you at a party with, hey, look, everybody's fucking suck a dick. Because I'm not, well, knowledgeable with the BDSM world. If you had a sub-dom and the dom says you're going to fuck this other person, don't you have to do it? I don't know how that works. I don't know. I know that after 31 years of marriage, I don't have balls enough to tell you that.
Speaker2:
Seriously.
Speaker1:
There's no way on God's green earth, no way on God's green earth that I would tell you that. I mean, it makes sense. Larry brings up a good point. I think the bigger thing is nobody questions it. That's the part. I know you don't. Okay, so you look, we're learning this. Oh, okay. But no one questions it that's the part i know you don't okay so you look we're learning okay but that but no one questions it that's the thing that's so interesting we everybody laughs about when we tell the story about me hounding whatever and you find out if you find somebody wants to fuck me blah i say hound but go ahead finish well but we laugh about it we laugh about because your thought your your uh hounding was we had our computer set because this was on desktops right so we had our desktop set up in the corner of our bedroom i would go to bed you go hey you want to be swingers and i go oh stop you know and go to sleep and then you know about a month later hey do you want to try swinging because he's looking at porn i'm like yeah what just shut up you know and then you know he wait a year and then looking at porn again and go hey do you want to be swingers you know what if it may if you can find somebody fuck me let's do it it. Right. Serious? Really? And then I didn't know what to do. Then I was like train wrecked. Real quick, Sarah put the sub has more power in the Dom subrelations. She would have learned so. I knew that, but I didn't know as far as like telling them what they had to do. Tiger, my first time in Lifestyle was Forsyth's Badger. Yep. This time it's all free will. Laugh out loud. Yep. Sarah joining Lifestyle was my idea, not his. That's fucking funny. Courtney and Brian and I discussed it and decided to take this journey together. It was a mutual agreement between us both. And I think to varying degrees. But somebody has to bring it up. Yeah, it is. And I think that this was the same thing. we this was like a lot our adventure
Speaker2:
in the lifestyle has been
Speaker1:
different I mean, and I think that's, this was the same thing. We, this was like a lot, our adventure in the lifestyle has been different because I think a lot of the things that we've done in the lifestyle, once we got in and got going, once we got past the initial, you know, those first couple of years where you have some of the rough learning curve things come up, it's been just a real natural progression for us. Yeah. And say rough learning curves it you know it wasn't like the first two years was all shitty by any stretch because it wasn't but it just seemed like the biggest if you were going to have an issue that's when it's like no but that's when you you learn it and something comes up and you go okay no we can't do that no i don't feel comfortable with that yeah and and that part you know or hey can we adjust it and do this instead Or, hey, can you pay attention a little bit so if he can't get it up, you can help it out? Yeah, can you pull your head out of her vagina for just a second? Yeah, well, and don't kid yourself. The communication with this, there's no difference. No. That's the other part. There's no difference. Here's the other, I guess, not red flag that I put out there as we talk about this and presenting the whole bigger picture. Shooting video is very hot. Filming is very hot. You got to have it out. It's out there and people see it. And you need to be able to be okay you have to be okay with it because once it goes out into the world it's out there forever so like if you think if you don't know if you're going to be okay with it if you don't know if you're going to be okay with your neighbor jacking off to it then you probably shouldn't put it out there because it's going to be there forever so if you yeah i look at it like swinging you were watching it you dirty man isn't that adultery well no i'm saying for within the the spouse, the spouse thing, because it sounds like a great idea. And remember, there's a degree of acting here. So even more, you need to know that ahead of time. So guess what? If she doesn't like it, she still has to act like she does. But you have to be, your spouse or significant other has to be okay with that also. Because, again, it's exciting. It's like we're going to put it out there and then it's out there. So if you're not, it's like any other part of the lifestyle. You can't undo something. You can delete it, but it doesn't mean it went away. So you have to really think that through and you to make sure you got to think about what are the potential what are the potential things we all know well if if my brother finds your porn site and wants to say anything well what were you doing looking at it that's easy to say that still doesn't make christmas less awkward i mean you seriously, that's the reality of it. And if you do have a family, you do have, you know, it's all great and grand. Oh, it won't happen. But what happens when you do get called into work and somebody sees it or whatever? Those are, we're not saying it's good or bad. It's just things you have to have the conversation with. I think everybody wants to jump. They want to judge porn stars bad, but we want to jump into OnlyFans. i'm telling you a to have the conversation with i think everybody wants to jump they want to judge porn stars bad but we want to jump into only fans i'm telling you a lot of the adult stars have done a lot of thinking about it before they're doing it and and there's a lot of there's a lot of other parts that go with it there are former adult stars that have that are therapists in groups for people that have done it and regret doing it. So, I mean, it's just like swinging. Once you put your dick in there, no matter what else, no matter how much you don't want to believe it, it's been in there. So, I mean, you can't unfuck it. You just can't. You can't shut the crazy off then. I'm just kidding.
Speaker3:
You're stuck in it.
Speaker1:
You're stuck in it. I mean, that's, I don't know. I just think it's, I think it's funny. And I think that you're going to hear more and more people talk about at events and places shooting, you know, starting their OnlyFans or wanting to start their OnlyFans or, look, you can have an OnlyFans and if all you do is touch yourself. Well, most of mine is, yeah. Well, right. And how many, when do we move into our mansion? When do we move into Castle Casbah with the boat and stuff? No shit. I mean, have a realistic approach. I guess the thing is you have to know going into it, even the people that you see on Twitter that have thousands upon thousands of followers, a lot of them still have other jobs. I mean, there are some people people that make money off of it there really are but but either they have some specialty thing that they do that just draws everybody or they have messaged the shit out of people on snapchat when i get the random snapchat from a chick that says follow my only fans she picture of me back, flipping her off, saying I'm prettier, or at least I show my face. Well, and the thing is, is a lot of people are making a degree of money. It's not Willy Wonka's golden ticket. I mean, I think that's the thing that, that's the part. See, this is the part. And it doesn't last forever. This is the part that shows it pisses me off. That's why I want to talk about this because – and we're talking about it because we're doing it and so – but I want to make sure that we – I don't want to give anybody a false presentation in terms of – this is not a lottery ticket. That's not how this works. This is not a thing of, okay, you do this and you're going to be Jenna James jameson that's not how this works that's the one in the million that's the exception to the rule there's a lot of people that do a lot of good work and they and i'm up and coming for granny right well and that's the other thing there's a there's a window but i mean's a... People have the thought process that they're going to just... You do this all the time. You're saying the money's just going to roll in. And it's like... No, it doesn't work that way. There's some cool parts. And you can make a degree of money. How much you're going to work it is how much you make. There's a lot of that also. But remember, as well, at some point in time like everything else it has a it has a shelf life penises and vaginas have a shelf life okay just saying so with 10 minutes left even jenna okay so yesterday is when i got a text with something with a company asking me if i would do one okay yeah yeah so i'm like screenshotting and sending you everything i'm getting in my responses and blah yep what'd that do to you uh it's hot as fuck because here's no i like watch porn then the afternoon put some porn on to and it was good because i was feeling kind of fucking frisky kind horny. And the part of the porn that was so fucking hot wasn't the girl that was getting railed in the porn that I was watching. It was that I'm envisioning you being the girl getting railed.
Speaker3:
So it's like swinging all over again.
Speaker1:
Oh, yeah. When you're talking with a couple and you're gonna and you're gonna, and it ramps you two up i went to the bathroom and used my vibrator it it ultimately because honks it's like that's gonna be that's gonna be and and i can tell you having watched you do some while you're doing it and i was getting help take pictures and stuff you're working at that time it's it's like it's a job thing but damn looking at the porn going wow i was watching a gangbang one the other day and i'm like you're gonna that's wow and i can see you getting doing that's so
Speaker3:
fucking hot it's like damn larry my opinion only but i think it's like professional sports there is a ton of athletes but only very few make big money at it porn and only fans is the same
Speaker1:
Thank you. not so larry my opinion only but i think it's like professional sports there's a ton of athletes but only very few make big money at it porn and only fans is the same way absolutely very true absolutely and the thing is realistic expectations i i just don't i hate and you guys have heard me bitch about other other sources that make swing like every time you go out on a swinging adventure it's always perfect everybody's dick works and it's great and it's the greatest sex ever which is complete bullshit and we all know that this is the same way like there has to be truth in advertising with this there's a reason that every one of our shows I promote her OnlyFans page there's a reason for that I do it because we want to get more followers obviously it's the same thing if you follow us on Twitter I don't know.
Speaker3:
I don't know.
Speaker1:
I don't know.
Speaker3:
I don't know. I don't know.
Speaker1:
I don't know. a reason for that. I do it because we want to get more followers, obviously. It's the same thing. If you follow us on Twitter, you'll see I'm putting posts, and we put dirty picture, teaser picture type things on Twitter. Why do I do that? Because, hey, if you want to see more, if you want to see the good stuff, it's called marketing. And that's the other part. And you know what? Knowing how to market and how much to market and knowing where the line is. I've been in sales and marketing my whole adult professional life. It's a learning curve. It's not like you just put one out and like, I put a tweet out, an X out, and all of a sudden you've got, you know, 157 followers at $17 a month. No, it doesn't work that way. No. It just doesn't. Is it a lot of fun? Can it be really hot? Yes. Is it going to be really hot? Yes. Will there be learning curves still? Yes. There's all kinds of cool shit with it. I'm jazzed as hell.
Speaker2:
Shit.
Speaker1:
There's expenses with it. Just like swinging, you know, it's not free to go to a party usually and all that shit. There's expenses. What was the testing going to Miami?
Speaker3:
Three, well, it was like $290 something.
Speaker1:
Yeah, $290 something. Miami, by the time you got hotel room testing food travel it's a very expensive it was a very expensive trip New Jersey again it's it's like it there's expenses that go with it that that's all part of it so it's not like it's not, not only do you get to make money and fuck people, and it's free. No. No. Even like the testing. The testing places vary in price, locally. In different places. So, it's like, mm. And you have to do it. That's like a non-negotiable thing. And there's some, like the very first porn star that we ever talked to even said you make your scenes close together so it fits in the same window for the testing. So you only have to get tested once and have multiple scenes. You have to be smart about it. You have to be smart about it. It's going to be a lot of fun. And I'm excited to get, as we're learning stuff, I want to share it with as many people, especially where we're based in the Midwest. Because a lot of stuff's on the coast, and there's not the same avenues here in the Midwest. And it's going to be fun to be able to share it, because I think when it's all said and and done we can help a lot of people pass on the stuff we learn why reinvent the wheel it's like okay hey great you know what here's a little tidbit we learned hopefully it helps or we can point people in the right direction that's why i'm really excited to have like victoria on the show and and izzy and some of the others because they've been doing it longer and they're gonna be able to tell tell like, they're swingers also. So they've straddled both worlds. They're a hot couple. Yes, they are. Yeah, they are. They have straddled both worlds. Much younger, but a hot couple. We're hoping to straddle them. So, anyways, but I mean that'll be cool to talk about that. See, look at what a great show this was people like this show I don't know I just get tired of the I saw but get asked about me forcing you into stuff keeping my pimp hands strong whatever and then I saw like there's like six different sources I saw this week that were last week that were like everybody should do this this is easy trying to to like you know, you know, this could be you. This could be your adventure, too, type shit. And I'm just going, eh, that's false information. It is what it is. But we'll come up with a really good title on this one so that lots of people will listen to it. Just a second. There you go. Back on. All right, we're going to go. What do we do now? Your sponsors. Oh, my God, that's right. Wow. All right. Hey, a quick shout out to our sponsors because they mean the world to me. Oh, my Lord. Good God. Ah. MotorBuddy.com. Get banged by top quality products today. ASN Lifestyle Magazine. Three million readers can wrong smoke and meats bbq treats.com rub your meat make it taste great just say it and then grill it i'm gonna go to a party and somebody's gonna have like a bocce grill i'm like no i don't care what you rub on i don't care how much orange mango habanero you put on my penis. We're not growing that, son of a bitch. Only when you peed. And don't forget to be safe at all times. Mycupcondom.com backslash discount backslash Kazma 10. Protect yourself. Follow us on Twitter at Truth Crazy as well as you can follow your twitter is uh at miss amanda casbah and you can uh find send us emails at crazy casbah crazy.casbah gmail.com we still have tickets available i know it's hard to believe for the halloween party so feel free to get those at crazycasbah.com seems like i said that a couple of times that's all right well it's on tiktok i need to make a new video it'll be awesome uh i can't wait for that so it's gonna be cool Thank you. Seems like I said that a couple of times That's alright I'm also on TikTok I need to make a new video It'll be awesome Can't wait for that So It's gonna be cool I got a good one in mind Check that out Everything we do has CASBA in it So if you can find CASBA Pick whatever social media you want Put in CASBA And you'll probably find us Shit if you are on Google And you type in CASBA One of the images that pops up is meeling on the bed doing chatterbait it is that's right yes yep but like from a distance from a distance yeah you need to go on and change your pornhub stuff out that's that that huh to what more up-to-date stuff yeah you look like a different girl then just a smidge with all that being said thank you so much for following along don't forget to listen to our show on Full Swap Radio as well and coming soon, I think we're going to start doing the show live on the radio station we may start doing the show live on Facebook, Twitter, and the radio station it'll be kind of fun
Speaker3:
you don't do it on Twitter, you do it on YouTube
Speaker1:
that's alright, whatever
Speaker2:
Here we go. doing the show live on Facebook, Twitter, and the radio station. So, it'll be kind of fun.
Speaker1:
Anyways, with all that being said.
Speaker3:
You don't do it on Twitter. You do it on YouTube.
Speaker1:
On YouTube, yeah, that's right.
Speaker2:
Whatever.
Speaker1:
And I will not be in charge of the technology at all.
Speaker2:
Fuck.
Speaker3:
Oh, boy.
Speaker1:
With that being said, kids, wow. Doing it the only way I know how, the only way I want to, and the only way I ever fucking will. Man, I need to get my nails done. Casbah Style, out.
