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Speaker1: Hey kids, the program you're about to listen to contains some adult situations, adult language, themes, and other adult topics. If you're easily offended, this show's not for you. Hey you crazy motherfuckers, welcome back to another edition of Crazy Truth. I'm your host with the most, I'm Cole, and I here with the lovely, lovely and shimmering, Miss Amanda. I don't know if I'm shivering. Hey. You didn't say shivering. Shimmering. You were shimmering. That's what I said. You were shaking your tits. Not really. Tits shaking, Miss Amanda. I was just shaking my shoulders. Tits had nothing to do with it. They're attached. No, they're not attached to my shoulders. They're attached to my chest. Are we going to go through how skin works? Is this what we're really going to do on this show? No, it wouldn't have anything to do with skin. Oh, my Lord. They only care about your tits, not your fucking shoulders. Go with it. Oh, my God. It's our first day of porn. Oh, look at my elbow. Hey, some people get off on that shit. Okay, yeah, but that's the one percenter. We're trying to go for that 80 percenter. Oh, my God, my finger just jizzed. Okay, anyways, so before we just... We've been on the air now for exactly 58 seconds, and the show has already went off the fucking rails. Oh, it has not. We've been sitting here for, like, 15 minutes. Lee is helping out by saying what beautiful shoulders you have. I fucking surrender. Fuck you all. It's because you can actually see my collarbone and shit now. Nothing better than a skeleton. Today I noticed I had muscles coming. Look at that. That's awesome. I only have muscles on this side. This side is still kind of floppy. All right, anyways, this is season five, episode 227. That was the show, 227, episode 227. Write it down in your handy-dandy notebook, 227. Yeah, it's got up there also. Okay, so a couple things. Let's talk to some sponsors, shall we? Hey, you know what? We're proud to be, and safety is so important, is we're proud to be with nightcaps.com. Don't forget to put nightcap10 slash casbank in your promo code when you go to nightcaps.com to get your discount. Again, it is the Drink Spiking Prevention Scrunchie. It hell of a product don't leave your safety up to someone else take control with nightcaps.com and remember this is sexual health awareness and my god as we've heard enough stories and whatever the the i just got episode or stories uh yesterday articles about the increase in sexually transmitted diseases running rampant you know what it what? It's your responsibility. It's my responsibility to keep the lifestyle safe. Shamelesscare.com There's no longer an excuse not to get tested. You can get home tests available. Tell them that Kazma sent you when you get your shit. We've got some other stuff coming out. There'll be an actual direct link in the bottom part of this under our podcast that you'll be able to take and click a link that will let them know you came from us so shameless care and smart swingers what do they do they read what do they read asm lifestyle magazine if you want to know what's going on in the adult world or the swing world and be up to date with the latest the greatest and all points in between as between. ASNLivestownMagazine.com. Check it out today. Three million swingers can't be wrong. It's awesome. Awesome. So awesome. The award show is going to be good. They had, the award show was supposed to be on Sunday, and they were so frustrated because the outside source fucked up, and so they're having to recode a bunch of shit. And it's coming up because we're excited because we are up for a bunch of awards. So we're excited. So that's going.
Speaker2:
We have a bar lined up. We just have to have a date.
Speaker3:
We do.
Speaker1:
Yes. We've got a bar lined up. We'll have a watch party. So people can come out and check out. And we can see what we win and if we win or how that's going to work out.
Speaker2:
What? You didn't bitch at me? That's awesome. Neat. Well, I was. You were busy going, aw. Because he said I was so beautiful. Sucking up to Miss Amanda. Anyways, so for those of you who don't know, we're doing this live in front of our secret, secret Facebook group, Casbah Inc. Shh. Don't tell the others. Tell everybody.
Speaker1:
Yeah, actually. You know the nice thing about Casbah, Inc.? We take friends. We take supporters. We take those that are curious. Those that are new in the lifestyle. And the fucking bastards. We take them all. And you know what's even funnier still?
Speaker3:
What?
Speaker1:
We know which one's which. Yeah, no shit. They don't think we do. Surprise! We know you. Anyway, so there you go. So some fun shit there. Just throwing that out there. Be very, very quiet. You never know when Cole might go on a purge. Just saying. It's been a hell of a week. Retrograde can suck my one testicle. Your left nut. My left nut. my left nut that's right there you go checking it out feeling it up falling away and you know what tomorrow is left nut day no what kind of what it's because we record on tuesday so tomorrow is shot in the ass day oh it is shot in the ass it's testosterone day baby i'm Woo woo. I'm excited. I am. I actually am. I'm just going to fucking give like three syringes and just fucking pile drive that shit
Speaker2:
in his mouth. I would say that he's been a little snippy lately. Maybe a little emotional but let me tell you what. No. It's been all fucking justified.
Speaker1:
It's been fun.
Speaker2:
If that's the case give me a shot too.
Speaker1:
You know what's fun? You know what's the most fun in the world to do? I'd love doing this. There's nothing more fun I don and shit. Right. And generally, because to me it's very funny to post something right in front of somebody's face. Yeah. Right? Not even fucking hiding it. No. it yeah when they go on and it's about them and it's about their idiot shit and then they like it like yeah and you're just like this is the greatest moment of my life thank you here's your bubble wrap helmet have a great day move along don't let the door hitch out so yeah it's been entertainment value but this is fun this is what we do if you don't have fun like this in life it's not worth it because this has been a technology nightmare week don't even motherfucking me we're sitting here looking at a brand new laptop that's yours and we bought why mine's getting fixed i'm gonna lose my fucking mind okay so his laptop okay it has
Speaker2:
everything on it everything and even some of my stuff but you know who's counting I don't have it yet. Oh, relax. They're probably backed up. It's no big deal. It's all good. We got this one for me, and you've been using it, and you've been doing really good with it. Yes, and I love it. Actually, I was able to touch it and love it and hug it and lick it and squeeze it. And you told me that you had to restart it once. I did have to restart a damn thing. I don't know what happened with it, but I don't know. I was just like, fuck, I have not broken this one yet. My other laptop, like, they wanted to know if I wanted to change the keyboard. Because you have spit and sputter all over it. No, not because of that. Because I have literally the little nubs that tell you where your fingers go. I've worn those off. The Braille. I've worn those off. And half the letters I've worn the pain of the letters off. I'll cricket you some new letters. That's no big deal. No, it's fine. But I'm excited. Technology, I'm back. Ready to kick ass, take names, be smart, and all that fucking shit. But we probably should do the show or something. Yeah, well, somebody asked a question earlier. Oh, yeah. Oh, you can't scroll. Yeah, I can, but it's right here. Because he doesn't have his mouse because he left a little attachment in his laptop. Yeah, I was like, ugh. But I'm learning. Something about dirty sex shit. Get past all the shoulders. Oh, it was before the shoulders. It was even before we started. No, pull those pants up. Okay, what's the sickest thing you've ever heard or seen someone do sex-wise? What is the sickest thing? Oh, fuck. Okay, and I don't think we're probably talking like, holy shit, that was sick, man. Cool. Yeah, probably not. I i don't know i try to block those things out seriously well okay but what could be sick to one person could be somebody else's kink it could be seriously that's why donkey shows are so popular now see when we the weirdest thing was when we used to cam and i don't know's really sex-wise, but we used to cam all the time and talk afterwards, imagine that. You know, about like what we're doing now. Who knew that was going to be a fucking precursor, right? We would talk for two hours every night. Every single fucking night. Answering people's questions. When we had no clue what we were talking about. No, we were like newbies, newbies. We were just on there to have sex and then people wanted to talk to us. I remember the show where we did the one we're talking about. We just had our first threesome. Remember that? The show's leading up to going to have it and then the show having it. People were like, did it go? How was it? Oh yeah, we had no idea what the fuck we were doing. So we were leading other people. Yeah. But I think the weirdest thing was one guy asking to see my armpits. Yeah, that one was, yeah. Yep. I had never heard of a foot fetish, and one guy asked to see my feet. I'm like, okay. But that wasn't as weird as can I see your armpit. The armpits threw us off. And the sad thing is back then, the guy that offered to fly you to Ohio and paid you $300 to pee on him, every time you peed on him now we'd be like we're on a plane no shit but then we're like oh my gosh who would do that yeah that's not real is it and i'm sitting there going if you give her a fucking like a 20 ounce bottle of tea she'll piss like seven times we could have an island by now like one weekend of you going out doing something like that and as god's honest i have a new truck via your your flow your waterfall and now so here's if you're listening now and you want to pay 300 bucks for her to come piss on you what we're there when don't you worry you don't have to feed us now that we'll bring our own we'll bring our own fucking supplies for pedals we'll be ready to fucking i'll bring my supply god then we're like oh my god can you imagine what i wonder if that's even legal is that real and yet now we're like fuck yeah well what else will you pay us to do why we're there yeah whatever you know you want you want me to kick in the balls sure i don't care kick whack let Kick whack. Let's go. Whatever works. I don't care. Yeah, I'd be all in on that. As far as sick, I, nah, anymore. You just go really nothing. There's nothing. Beth does it for free. Oh, my God. Alex, you're going to die. Ah, okay. Not going there. Okay. So, onward with the show. So, here's one of the cool things that i did this time we have the full swap 101 page obviously and uh which is just growing by leaps and bounds yeah it is oh look at our little baby he's not so little now do you know how many kinky people there in canada no shit holy shit look when all you have to do is fuck a bear i guess you a lot Great white north I think we need to make a trip to fucking Canada Not in the winter But we need to make a trip to Canada Good day and welcome to the sex club There are I approve so many people That are from Ontario And I'm like really really? Wow, kinky motherfuckers.
Speaker1:
Venus is from up there. Venus is up there.
Speaker3:
Well, right.
Speaker2:
I knew she was up there.
Speaker1:
The queen cuckold is up there.
Speaker2:
Yeah, but I mean, there's just left and right.
Speaker1:
There's nothing but to do but to fucking think of weird things to do with the other person you might see every once in a while.
Speaker2:
There's been several from Europe.
Speaker3:
There has been.
Speaker2:
Yeah, there's a few.
Speaker1:
It's grown. We were like over 5,200 people, right? But it's fucking awesome because there's all different levels of people in there so the questions i love the questions and i love the answers because i've been putting some questions out there right just i almost answered for shits and for shits and giggles my name's cole so if you look see one says cole that's me is it really are you sure about that so but i thought because a couple of them have been getting a shit ton of responses so uh i want i wanted to talk about those because well this would be great because I don't know. Are you sure about that? So, but I thought, because a couple of them have been getting a shit ton of responses. So, I wanted to talk about those. Well, this would be great. Because even some people that are really experienced are, like, responding in. So, the first question, the one that I had put on, the first question we're going to do tonight, is where do you play? Is your house off limits? And the reason I put that question out there is I wanted one i wanted i wanted to open it up so for new people that didn't have that don't know it here's the thing when you listen to see read the new people's comments you forget how much you overthought everything when you were new and i'm not bagging new people are just trying to figure it out they don't want to make a mistake but they overthink everything so i put that question out there because that's something new people want to know well do you do we have to come back to our house do we have to you know do we have to take them to their house do we go you know fuck in the car what do we where do we fuck and i wanted to see plus i'm trying to car i'm trying to save husbands from going every time they go to the strip club you got to clean like a fucking banshee because, you know, whatever. So, the, what? Stop it. It's the pumpkin cake. I'm burping festive. Anyways. So, I put, is your house off limits? So, it's gotten like 250 comments or some shit. What would you guess most people would say when it comes to the house? Yay, nay. I think a lot of people are okay with it. It's like, I'm going to go 50-50 that the house is an option, okay? And of those 50%, so we're going to break it down more. 50% of the people that say it's not is because it's a kid thing or a family member living there with them. The other 50% is sanctuary. Okay. Of the 50% that say it is a place to go, half of it is because it is cheaper than like doing a hotel the other half is because it's a sanctuary it's a safer place to go which i thought was really interesting because i never i for a comfort level i never thought about it well that's not necessarily true to our house. Not when we were doing a couple things. No. But think about it. We all... I've been doing a couple things. Well, their first threesome was at our house. Yeah, we brought her to our house a couple times. But a couple of times. Yeah, okay. She stayed the night several times. Yes, she did. We always said... We always said our room was off limits Right Because that was our Right Our bed We're over that shit We're over that We have no sanctuary now There aren't very many people that know where we live There's only a handful It's growing But there's only a handful If you get here You might get laid Just saying If you can find your way
Speaker4:
Happened Thursday
Speaker3:
I know
Speaker1:
Yeah I was here I was in my office
Speaker3:
I know
Speaker1:
Yeah
Speaker2:
I'm aware Of where you were at
Speaker1:
So When did it change for Because we never did Bring couples over We've never fucked
Speaker3:
Another couple
Speaker2:
When we first started
Speaker1:
In the lifestyle
Speaker2:
I mean we had A kid in high Two kids in high school Kid in high school And kid in middle school
Speaker3:
Thank you. We never did bring couples over. We've never fucked another couple over. But when we first started in the lifestyle, I mean, we had a kid in high school, two kids
Speaker2:
in high school, kid in high school and kid in middle school.
Speaker1:
We have three children.
Speaker2:
No, one was already moved out by then.
Speaker1:
Not when we first started.
Speaker3:
Really?
Speaker2:
How old is he?
Speaker1:
He's 10 years younger than us.
Speaker2:
He's not 10 years younger than us.
Speaker1:
He's 10 years younger than me.
Speaker2:
He's not 10 years younger than you. Are you 10 years younger than me He's not 10 years younger than you Are you 10?
Speaker1:
No I take that back Holy fuck
Speaker2:
He's gonna turn
Speaker1:
Fuck off bitch He's gonna turn 30 I get it
Speaker2:
He's gonna turn 30
Speaker1:
He was still in high school
Speaker2:
No he wasn't
Speaker1:
Yes he was He was still in high school And we had two of them in high school And one in junior And one in Not quite junior high yet Don't argue with me bitch I was there
Speaker3:
I remember
Speaker1:
Cause I remember all sitting around We were getting ready to go fuck the first time Thank you. Going one in junior and one in not quite junior high yet. Don't argue with me, bitch. I was there. I remember. Because I remember all sitting around while we were getting ready to go fuck the first time. Okay, so we... But even then, we never... We had weekends where there was no kids here. And we never brought people back to our house. And I don't really know why. We always had dogs, too. Dogs was the main thing. Because we had a pretty aggressive one at one point Well, we've always had big dogs Which, you know, little dogs People are like, oh, but a big dog When you're trying to fuck and the big dog's got his nose up your ass It's like, hey there, puppy Don't want to bite your ass That could be kind of a little more awkward We redid a bedroom in the basement for playing We've done that our current house now that we live with the rental we live now where we're hovering has a room that we had designated as the sex room yeah which we used a couple of times you did i haven't but then we got willie our big fluffy fucking shedding dog. And he just overtook that room.
Speaker2:
Yeah, now I won't even lay in there and take pictures because I'm covering a dog fur.
Speaker1:
And then our youngest son is boomeranging back home. And he's in there. And him and Willie fight over the bed in there now, which is kind of funny. But I guess it was never that the house was a sanctuary. We wouldn't have had a place to go for one, a room to go to. No, we didn't have a basement. But I think dogs were the biggest one, actually. Yeah, but it was never like a sanctuary thing. It was never like some deep thing. But most of the time, we went to Omaha. So when we went to Omaha, we just got a hotel room. Yeah, it was just easier. Or we went to somebody else's house. Went to other people's houses. Which is great, because then they have the best to clean up. You can leave. No, I'm just kidding. We've been to a few. Yeah, well, at some point, that's on my bucket list. At some point in time, it's for us to host our own fucking house party. We've thrown hotel takeovers, campouts, fucking events all over the place. You know, with us and a thousand of our closest friends. And have never thrown a house party slacker yeah yeah you ready to have one here this would be awesome we locked a dog three dogs we're locking dogs in the fucking in the in the fucking tent outside i'm just saying so i i don't know okay so we have no problem playing with on home field but only with people we have a play relationship with. No first-timers. Okay, that's awesome. Mike said that. That's an awesome idea. Because that was the other thing we heard a lot. That was the other thing. Of the people that the other biggest thing in that answer to that question came out to be yes, but, yes, but. but okay either previous experience people we really know and trust uh no first timers very few people were okay with first timers there okay at all it was funny there was a lot of people also that were not okay with they were okay with couples were not okay with singles so if if if if they were gonna play individually they it was okay to play individually but that was always done at a club at a hotel somewhere else okay never at the house and i and the reason I bring it up is, obviously, there's no wrong answer to this fucking question. Right. But I thought that was really interesting because of what the dynamics are. And I never, I'll have to ask this in one of the future questions about how people feel about playing with kids.
Speaker3:
Around. Around, yeah. Oh, yeah. Wait, let me rephrase that. And this is when the FBI breaks down the door. No, shit.
Speaker2:
Okay, so the very first person couple that we played with was at the guy's house.
Speaker3:
Yes.
Speaker1:
Yes, it was.
Speaker2:
And it was awkward.
Speaker1:
We didn't know, and we assumed, we still thought things went to a bedroom. We didn't realize it was just going to be... A blanket on the living room floor? Yeah, also it was just going to be a fucking all-star wrestler on the floor Yeah, whatever And we had a lot of people talk about that they had like Like Leia said Leia Now I'm all paranoid Hot girl I want to fuck Said they bedroom. Right. We didn't, and that's a lot of people said they have either a special room in their basement or whatever. So we had no, I mean, we had no idea. We were so fucking clueless on anything. I was clueless all the way around. We assumed we'd fuck in a room actually cement wall yeah cement wall where we almost kill people check your hooks kids that was that house we i don't know one couple we played with in their room but then we ended up downstairs in the basement too because i had a huge tv down there and uh was i there yeah yeah yes yes you were there we had played with them at a hotel at somebody else's house and at their house twice okay well i'll write notes to you later god anyways i just think's interesting. I think new people have to understand you have to play where you're comfortable. I think there is a degree of comfort playing, especially when you're new in the lifestyle, playing in a hotel. Because you don't have to worry about the, like, okay, are you ever going to leave? Go. That's true. or if somebody freaks out or is not comfortable or whatever might happen everybody has an escape route true at a house you you kind of don't so i don't know who said that mike said that about only people that are experienced people right the question i would have is is that that why you want to play with people that are experienced? Or is it that you know they're not going to trash your shit or whatever? Well, if they're already established play partners, I don't know. I guess that could go several different ways. The thing is, if you play in a hotel room and somebody's a squirter or somebody's a whatever. Well, what if you didn't like it, but they know where you live and they keep popping over? No shit. Hey, hey, want to fuck? Hey. Be like, uh, go home. Yeah, no shit. Don't make me release the hound. That's why you have dogs. Trust me. Well, this is going to sound stupid, but it's true. Because we've seen this. Somebody's a squirter. Yeah. And if you don't know them, if you have a relationship, you know people are going to be cool about your shit, right? but if you don't know them and somebody's a squirter yeah and if you don't know them if you have a relationship you know people are gonna be cool about your shit right but if you don't know them and somebody's a little too drunk somebody's a squirter and next thing you know you got a couch and now you've got a glazed couch or just a glazed cushion on the couch because we've had that we've seen that yeah and it's like when it's not your house, you'll be like... Because I remember that. I was like... Do you remember one time we met a couple in another city? We were with a couple we used to hang out with all the time. That they'd had a party at their house and people were like trashing their shit. They'd had like a bigger house party. And people were like spilled like booze on their fucking... Like in their basement had like a cool man cave and spilled booze all over their super expensive carpeting and like cum jizzed all over the fucking cashmere couches and shit it's like you know that will take the way of fun out of sex not for them but in a hotel you're just like you know come on theings. I mean, you don't have to come on the ceilings, but you can't. I'd like to try.
Speaker3:
Okay.
Speaker1:
Just one good power squirt.
Speaker3:
Power squirt?
Speaker1:
We could do that at KWN. We could have, like, a power, like a shoot for distance contest or something. I'm just doing things out there. My level of lazy rarely ever even squirt in my own bed. Ha ha ha would be playing not in the bedroom. Yeah. Well, I mean, that's... Now, we were at an event not that long ago where, and I thought this was interesting, the host couple opened their bedroom up for anybody to play. Granted, it wasn't a huge party, so, I mean, there was a degree of familiarity with everybody, but it wasn't like everybody was, like, that well you know knew each other that well to me that could be like you could come up to go to bed and find like a turd you better some weird-headed shit i mean no they had a blanket i wipe my penis off with your pillow i hope you don't mind it could happen that. I'm just saying. That's where I made somebody pass out. You did. That was funny. And then they were going, why are the paramedics coming to our house? No reason. Clear. I'm just saying. Okay, never mind. Wow. You're just kind of off. Huh? No, I'm like laughing because whose house it was yeah no shit uh no because he does that yeah well yeah yeah well you'd have built-in equipment just saying the thing is is i think the one now here's one comment that we got with this and i thought this was interesting i want you want you guys' opinion. People listening, this is you guys. Get out your handy-dandy notebook. A couple people posted that they felt uncomfortable walking into a hotel room. Walking into a hotel because they felt like it was obvious what they were going to do. Okay, I understand that. I do, too. Because there's a couple times, you know know i go and get a hotel room in town and they're like hey miss and they're like we see your driver's license they look at your driver's license they go what the fuck is she getting a hotel room for she lives right here and then they see him leave and they see me come up the next morning get the breakfast and they figure it all out now not the same people working no but i i can see that because I can remember there is that at first when you're doing it's like, I think they're going to figure out what we do or like when it's time to leave and you've only had the room for like three hours. Yeah. Like, but you get over that. I mean, seriously. Yeah. Well, ish. I mean, I don't. Well, that's a joy now where you don't have to turn the key back yet. And then it's like.
Speaker3:
Yeah, no shit. You come out.
Speaker1:
You walk in like halfway together and you come out and you're all fucking disheavaled and fucking shit. I think about times when we would, because we do like to sport fuck or back in the day we used to, whatever.
Speaker3:
Yeah.
Speaker1:
Does it happen anymore? Going drinking, been out the bar.
Speaker3:
Mm-hmm.
Speaker1:
Going in with a couple.
Speaker3:
Mm-hmm.
Speaker1:
And yeah, we're all laughing and giggling and tipsy but we're somewhat put together and then three hours later which it is the same fucking people and we're leaving and i you have like you know my shirt's buttoned like two spots and open and maybe a boot on boot off your hair your makeup, okay, makeup's probably a long one. Your makeup's fucking completely nut smeared off your face. Okay, but let it be known. Some of those times I leave out a different door so I'm not going by the front desk. We have walked past front desk before. There are people, there's one hotel, bless you, where people knew us and they're like, hey, when they're coming, hey, how you doing? Bless you again. And when we're leaving, our hair's all, like, fucking sticking up. It's like, hey, look, it's obvious. They just got fucking railed. Well, if they know us, then they know, duh. But I just think that's funny because people look like. That's the beauty of getting older. You don't give a fuck. That is about the truth. But I think what we should have done, if I could go back in time and do one thing different with our swinging life, we would have, with every couple before we started anything, we should have all, the four of us got together and taken a picture. And then doing it after? And then after, because a lot of times when we still smoked, people would walk you out because everybody was going to have a cigarette before we left, and then get a picture of all four of us just train wrecked afterwards. Just absolutely fucking train wrecked afterwards and have the before and after pictures. Because that would be funny. Yeah. We should actually, you know what, we should encourage people to do that on our page. If you sport fuck, if everybody's down with it, put a before picture and put an after picture. Or just that you as a couple. Yeah, to show how much fun you had or whatever. So, shit we're there sometimes yeah your makeup fucking cooter and nut smeared completely off your i don't know what it is i apparently when we all fuck we just fucking rub each other like a bunch of fucking blind people at a fucking new place we're all just like whoa, whoa. And we come out and just fucking just enjoy it all over the place. It's fucking awesome. No, okay. Allison's hammering me about matching socks.
Speaker2:
We have proof.
Speaker1:
Here's the reality of this. When you wear cowboy boots like I do and you're a guy, you don't have to wear matching socks. I haven't worried about finding, like when I do laundry.
Speaker2:
That's where you're weird.
Speaker1:
They have different thicknesses. They have different feels. Just, have different feels just my feet are feet there in cowboy boots here's the deal as a guy i i don't fold my socks all my socks are loose in a drawer i don't pair them up i know i live here all i do i'm telling for the audience all i do is i grab two socks out now if they both if they both happen to be white or both happen to be black or whatever, rock on. If they match, well, isn't that a bonus? But there's a distinct possibility they're not going to.
Speaker2:
At least you check to see if they have holes or not.
Speaker1:
I do now because I wear cowboy boots. So the one day I go to hookup, we go to hookup, and when I took my boots off, I had a white and a black sock on. And everybody thought that was funny. She wasn't thinking it's funny when she took a picture of it when she's bopping her head against the brick wall on the sex wing but at the same night yes i would say yes at the same night but checking into a hotel with no bags or a suitcase gives it away too okay that's really i never thought about that although there's a time that you check in and then you go back find where your room is And you go back and get your bags and take in Although I think they've all figured out That when people come in with just a little bag That's shaped really weird and jingles from all the sex toys That it's probably not It's not an overnight bag I bet there's some clothes in there Keep a decoy overnight bag in the trunk Actually there was a time That we took a suitcase Of a change of clothes Because we were usually in Omaha And just stayed the night We either fucked and stayed the night Or we were just tired and stayed the night And so we kept a travel bag with us And I actually can't wait to get back to the point Where we're doing that which means we're out And fucking Or at least being out But yeah There was a time that we were racking up fucking free hotel rooms like 10 free rooms a year because we were sitting every weekend in the hotels well when you were worked in omaha i would go and check into the double tree and get cookies oh yeah a warm cookie and then wait for you get off work we'd have dinner then we'd go out'd come back. And it made it so much more fun for Saturday night to go party because I wasn't near as tired. Because I didn't have to get up an extra hour early for a commute to go into work hungover. Did we do it two nights? Mm-hmm. Mm-hmm. A lot of times we did. That's when he was making good money. Mm-hmm. We were having fun, too. Because we weren't. Yeah, we were sitting at the Doubletree. We were sitting at the double treat we were sitting at the nice hotel i was and they knew us and i'm like hello hello hi to see you they knew every weekend and they would laugh when i'd come in all fucking train wreck drunk and shit or when we'd bring people with us you know they didn't say no they didn't care because it wasn't an outside entrance but there was people yeah so there you go okay so they weren't paying attention oh the that they are paying attention that's what's funny they're paying attention no it's a joke i think i think more hotel people probably recognize when people you recognize when people are having affairs and you recognize when people are swingers when i worked at the cemetery there's a cemetery in town and it would be really funny you would see two cars meet at the very middle the cemetery that i worked at was it's huge but you can't see the middle of the cemetery on either major street okay anywhere you can't see down into it and you would cars and i was doing tournament i was in the on the yard crew back then and two cars would pull up and meet and one car would stay there all day long in the middle section and about four o'clock they'd leave they're cheating and they were that's where they put cars they wouldn't see i think the hotel people have figured out when you're swingers or when you're cheating i think they figured out wouldn't look when you check into a room at 10 30 in the morning with no luggage and you go out to greet the person you're checking in the room with and give them a hug and kiss in the parking lot obviously you're not together and nobody has bags i don't know yeah when you leave at three or two thirty yep yep you did that will you be back later most likely not just saying yeah there you go so you go so yeah there's no right or wrong but it's kind of just cool shit uh quick halfway point because we are halfway we are halfway look at us go look at us being on schedule and tidy and neat keeping the show running smooth it's our first time for everything man retrograde is just fucking wonderful uh what do we want to talk about oh yeah crazy. 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There's going to be all kinds of shit going on out there yep wait you did not bring up meeting in the cemetery as weird yeah well you know over over memorial weekend when you're 20 over memorial weekend uh they had flags out and we would the staff you got to stay all night to make sure people weren't fucking coming in the cemetery and we would drink and try to fuck pick up girls off o street yeah i haven't fucked in the cemetery yet i've done a lot of things to go to hell not that one yet but there's still time you weren't there when we got married i know us yeah that was a long time yeah because yeah i had longer hair than i have now actually and but i putting on, my mother was so fucking pissed when we did the, oh, yeah, cadet calendar out there. Oh, yeah. Oh, you want to fuck through the cadet calendar? What's going on? Sorry. We can do the cadet calendar. They, my mom was so pissed because it asked for occupation. And I put, like, yard crew. She's like, that's going to be what your marriage listens to ever. You pick Tremor.
Speaker4:
The fuck do I care?
Speaker1:
I know what sexy Leah is talking about. Leah. Leah is talking about.
Speaker2:
It is so ingrained in your brain. You will not change. I will. No, you won't. I think we can
Speaker1:
watch our training sessions.
Speaker2:
They have that bridge and they have that
Speaker1:
that. It's going to be funny when there's tits out. No, I'm just kidding. No, but our cadets, we're getting ready to do the Thank you. Watch our training sessions. They have that bridge, and they have that. It's going to be funny when there's tits out. No, I'm just kidding. No, but our cadets, we're getting ready to do the first annual CASBA cadet calendar, which is going to actually go to raise funds for CASBA cares for all those businesses that think they do the same thing we do. That's where we give away money to help other people. Anyway, so the calendar is going to be super. Our sexy cadets are all going to do a rockabilly badass theme, which is super hot. Trust me. So you want to order. You can go on crazycasba.com, and you can actually see and preorder your Casba cadet calendar today so that you'll have a time for January when the party, when the new year starts, with the pretty girls and pretty pictures. And if you come to Crazy Winter Nights, if you come to Crazy Winter Nights, bring your calendar. A lot of our cadets are going to be there. I'll bet if you ask them nicely, they'll sign it for you. Probably. If they're not busy with the reverse gangbang that will be sent out. Actually, that group of cadets will be, that'll be our first batch, our previous cadets. And so they'll definitely, because they definitely, we haven't got that in, so they definitely, we definitely we got to get that scheduled in that'll be like their partying gift the reverse gangbang could be a parting gift to me anyways who knows just oh my gosh hopefully the cadets aren't losing the show no we're not gonna fuck all they would do they'll do one on you they'll be like fuck yeah i have to miss a man now don't assume don't assume people are bi.
Speaker2:
Half of them I don't think are.
Speaker1:
Well, there's only one way to figure it out. We're going to have to sort them. I'm sure we can go with a fun game way to do this. We'll give them each a vagina and a fucking penis card. And they have to hold up which one they want. That's why we know. I'm really lonely. I sit alone at home a lot. Anyways, okay. We can tell. All right. So let's move on. So the next question, that's the next thing I'm going to bring up. And again, our questions tonight deal with a lot for the new people. Really new, don't know i thought this was interesting i love getting the old people's experience on this you old bastards um and this was not one of our questions somebody else put this question on they're they're brand new brand new they might look at it from the post they had like three experiences and their whole thing was have you ever felt bad or guilty after having sex after hooking up and how do you deal with it and I thought wow this has been so long but what a great reminder for all of us that have done this or have been here for a while too hello
Speaker2:
still guilty in which way
Speaker3:
We'll be right back. For all of us that have done this or have been here for a while, too. Hello?
Speaker2:
Do you want me to reset? Feel guilty in which way? Feel guilty about what you just did or feel guilty about the other couple or person?
Speaker1:
No, the way I perceived it, I didn't reach out to them. The way I perceived it is that they felt guilty they had sex. And then all of a sudden, afterwards, they felt guilty that they had sex with somebody else outside of their marriage, basically. Even as a couple. I love the delayed response. Well, no. That was a long time ago. Did I ever feel guilty? When we played as a couple? No. Yeah, I don't, yeah. There's times when I've played alone that I felt guilty because you weren't. Well, okay. No, but I think, okay. I think there's, for both, our relationship is unique in that if one of us is on, I'll it a hot streak whatever or well it's not so much like you have a couple of guys that you you play fairly somewhat regularly with and sometimes it just works out that you may go on a fucking you know a couple weeks in a row or you know a couple times in a month in a row that it just works out for you being able to play right and there's been times that all of a sudden it's like it's worked out for me for a couple times in a row to play and yeah so then sometimes i think we feel we don't feel guilty i don't think you feel guilty we feel bad because it's like well fuck you're not getting to play right now but i don't think it's a guilt thing not a little bit. But it's not a guilt like, I'm cheating on my marriage, is it? No. What are you doing? What are you saying to these fucking guys? No wonder I'm not allowed to be in the room. I'm going to divorce. No. No, I just feel guilty that I'm playing and you're not. It just, it's not. I think what she was talking about in that post. just feeling dirty yeah yeah it's more i think it's more feeling like oh my god even though we're both doing it we just cheated on each other and i don't i i never felt that i mean i never i never felt like we were cheating i think there was times when we first were in it that it's like...
Speaker2:
Well, we don't count the first one because that was just a fucked up ordeal and I don't know if we actually ever had sex with anybody but ourselves or if it had even happened.
Speaker3:
No.
Speaker1:
Well, I'm just saying...
Speaker2:
But the first time it was like the two other couples and we were going at it.
Speaker3:
Yeah.
Speaker2:
I didn't feel guilty in the least.
Speaker1:
I've never felt like there was any form of cheating. I I mean I can think there were times It was like It was more like Oh my god this is kind of fucked up This is what we do for fun We fuck other people But it's never been Cheating But yes we had our You know total miscommunication type shit right yeah but that isn't a guilt thing that's a we're stupid well right yeah exactly because i think because we talked it out so much because we talked about everything and i didn't feel i don't know i there wasn't going into it we knew what we were doing so we weren't cheating on each other yeah no i yeah i agree i yeah it was never there was never there was never we were never it was never a cheat thing at all yeah i i think that i think if you feel that way it's not that you're it's not it's not wrong but I think that, I think if you feel that way, it's not that you're, it's not, it's not wrong, but you need to really, like, you and your significant other really need to sit down and talk and, and define what's, define on, yeah. And, and maybe, and here's the thing, swinging isn't't for everybody like you know but even if you and your spouse both like you're both okay with it but you still if it makes you feel you shouldn't get done having hooking up hooking up in lifestyle and then feeling bad about it like that's not how this is supposed to this that's not how this is supposed to go so if you're feeling like that maybe you need to really maybe you need to dial back if you're going to be full swap maybe if you still want to continue to do stuff maybe you look at doing soft swap or or some other variation but you got to talk about it because if you feel that way wow that can start to build up i mean we've said it on here before and i'll say it'll say it again. One of our very good friends, one of our – she's been in longer than we have, years longer than we have. Lisa's always said, every time you hook up with somebody else, you're testing your relationship. So it's kind of natural. It's natural, especially when you're new, for it to feel kind of weird. I think it's almost now, it's almost more bizarre to be at the point where Thursday, I call it. to feel kind of weird i i think it's almost now it's almost more bizarre to be at the point where thursday i cleaned up the house because you had a guy come over you went and fucked for an hour hour and a half whatever now in the house and everybody else just get you know i ate dinner and fucking worked and there's there's almost a degree now it's almost more like well that's kind of fucked up. To do what we do, there's a degree of fucked upness. That's why there's only like 15 million swingers in the world and not the majority. But I don't think you should feel guilty.
Speaker2:
No, I don't think so either.
Speaker1:
And if you feel guilty because of your spouse one way or the other, then you guys definitely need to talk. Well, Mike felt guilty because the lady didn't tell her husband that she was going to be in the lifestyle and walked in on him okay and fell before crying but she cheated so she should she should feel guilty yeah you feel bad because she lied to you yeah but you but you did nothing wrong no and and look that's one of the challenges with this is that this is a choose your i missed one too by, too, by the way, if you want to scroll up for me. This is a choose your own adventure. So if someone doesn't tell you that they're cheating and they cheat on you, that's on them. I mean, you didn't know. Now, if you knew, well, and you made the decision to go ahead with that okay but then then that's a joint decision but you can't feel bad for something somebody else doesn't tell you yeah that you didn't know yeah um and nicole there are so many varieties of swing it takes constant communication with uh with who you are with yeah very much so uh this would totally suck but it's it would totally suck but it's on her cheaters exist in a lifestyle during a short time here we've had to weed out a few you know look they're here and and yes i i get that i don't want to say this. This is like, this is dicey. Look at me dance. Dance, Cole, dance. I think that the thing with cheaters, you can have, okay, let me back up. When it comes to people that are actually, the lifestyle is very harsh on cheaters, right? very harsh on cheaters and most likely rightly so but I will put this out here call it food for thought call it whatever I think that in the lifestyle we are very quick to take and label something based upon the easiest the path of least resistance you're fucking he or she doesn't know about it you're a cheater bad and that's what a cheater is i say this i put this out there i say there's a fucking shit ton of people in this lifestyle that are at the event that you're at or we're at or will be at that is sitting right there with their spouse that they're both fucking other people that one of them's cheating at that moment in time and one of them's not because here's the thing cheating is as much up here as it is anywhere else because here's the deal if you and your spouse are swinging Or significant other are swinging And you're doing it to spice up your sex life Spice up the bedroom Find something to do with your dick on a Saturday night Whatever it might be If in your mind you're going I'm so glad I'm not fucking that fucking cunt I hate her, she's such a fucking bitch I don't want her in my life It's a break away from that fucking whore bag Slut, bitch, piece of shit I'm serious, think about yourself
Speaker2:
I know, I know
Speaker3:
Thank you. I don't want her in my life. It's a breakaway from that fucking whorebag, slut, bitch, piece of shit.
Speaker1:
I'm serious.
Speaker2:
Think about yourself.
Speaker3:
I know. I know.
Speaker1:
If that's what's going through your brain, you know what? You're cheating. But we don't dub it that way.
Speaker2:
No, well, I don't think that's cheating if you're not happy in your marriage. Just because you fuck somebody doesn't mean that you're cheating.
Speaker1:
No, but I just think it's more than just... Thank you. dub it that way no well i don't think that's cheating if you're not happy in your marriage that just because you fuck somebody doesn't mean that you're cheating if they know i just think it's more than just i don't know oh well if you gave up on it well i still think here's the best part is it right to be in the lifestyle if you feel like that no because you're just stringing each other along and that's bad it's just going to going to end even worse. Right. It is. It is. I guess there is another easier way to avoid having to ever worry about cheaters in a lifestyle. Super easy way. The best way. The best way to absolutely ever avoid having to worry about cheaters. I'm going to get crucified for this. Are no i'm not ready sport fuck look i i've said it before and i know this is good it sounds so bad but it's somewhat true i i will say this and i'm and i'm not taking away many belief on cheating okay i'm just all i'm saying is this the less i know about you the less you know about me the less fucking ugly i can become and the less ugly you become because here's the deal you might be a total fucking cunt bag right you could be like a total two-faced lion bitch okay and and we just we meet and we fuck and i had fun and you had fun and i didn't get to know that about you right and you need to know whatever about me and you're hot and you'll forever be whatever degree of hot that was but as you talk and you and i get to know you better i know that you're a lying cunt be cunt weave two-faced, you just keep getting uglier and uglier.
Speaker2:
Yeah, no shit.
Speaker1:
And as you find out the flaws in me that you don't like, I keep getting uglier and uglier and uglier, right? So then all of a sudden, when I didn't know you and you didn't know me and we had a great time, we connected, and we went and fucked, and we had a great night, you know what? You weren't a cheater. I wasn't a cheater. you were just a hot bitch and i was just a hot dude and or you know or you felt bad for me or whatever whatever reason you fucked me right but we were just two people that connected had fun and it stops i'm not saying that that shallow is right for everybody right well no that makes sense though i mean because i'm like going gosh at the beginning we did we did that a bit you're right met him that night oh and it was and understand it's not that and that's awesome i miss that i i miss it because not that i don't thoroughly enjoy getting to know people have relationships because i do I didn't think we didn't say a lot some of them have become really good friends yeah and i i love that part of it but there is a different degree of um danger or not danger no unless you're a scary film. of the girls that i like could be danger i'm just saying if you ask some people about some of my choice and girls i go yeah that's dangerous well you had sport fucking not that terribly long ago i did and it was awesome and the the uh you there's an added degree of excitement because it's like there's not enough time to get built up so much that it's like overload build up it's just like you're going off since like wait a minute okay oh yeah oh yeah bam it it's like you peak at the right fucking time you know there's not this big pre-lead up and then something gets disappointing that when it actually meets or when it happens there's just something about it again it's not for everybody we're not saying that that's the i'm not saying that's the only right way or or or the wrong way it's just it's exciting and and i think that like for me so i'm really observant right i mean i've been sales my whole life so my job is to like read you that's that's what i'm that's what i've done since i was 15 years old professionally so i do that just out of habit just like naturally so if for me the more i know the more the deeper i can see and i can see where i don't want to see sometimes it's like you know i'd rather just have that we're all just having fun type thing so i miss that but i also respect the fact that for a lot of people they're not comfortable and so it doesn it doesn't always work that way. And that's okay, too. I mean,
Speaker3:
I don't know. To one out of ten people like going,
Speaker1:
you're an idiot, Cole. The goal is going to tell the significant other comes looking for you at work because they didn't know they were cheating or what the lifestyle is. That's very true. We would want to see them for the ugly they really are and avoid the situation.
Speaker2:
If they don't know your name.
Speaker3:
Touche. See, this is the advantage. If they don't know your name. Touche.
Speaker1:
See, this is the advantage of working at home. Find my job, bitch. And Mike makes a great point.
Speaker3:
Well.
Speaker1:
We're fun when we're hassling about. But yeah, no, he makes a great point on that.
Speaker3:
Yeah.
Speaker2:
No, only because, okay, so the only reason I'm okay with it is because he's not married.
Speaker3:
Thank you. it no it no only because okay so the only reason i'm okay with it is because he's not married right but previous word guy had a girlfriend at the time uh-huh yep yep and was i afraid that she was gonna i think there was one time i was like just as long as she doesn't go oh she's not gonna do that and i do that. And I'm like, okay, well, it's a good thing you fucking might hear. Because if she figures out who I am, well, she did see a message from him. And she was going after everybody with the name Cole Amanda because she thought my name, or Amanda Cole. Because that's what my email said. So she was going to go find all these Amanda Coles and rip some girl's ass on Facebook. And he's like, did you get a message? I'm like, nope. Sure didn't. What are you talking about? Now I can go. It's been three years. Get over it. The thing is, is that it's hard because, you know, Mike makes a great point. Everybody has to decide if they're going to cheat or not. They've got that decision it's the problem is is that it can't adversely affect the innocent person involved yeah i mean you know you just have to you have to find the happy medium i don't know it it's when i sent an old classmate a naked picture one time and i was a big girl and we were new we were new we hadn't even really started yet well no i think we had we know we had started talking about it i didn't even know he had a girlfriend and this girl sends me this rude ass message i'm like who is this he's like i'm so sorry i'm so sorry yeah he had told you that he had no girlfriend or that he did and that was all okay she was cool with it and i was I was a hose-ass bitch. Oh, and Olsen, you come out of the bedroom in tears and I'm like what? And I was all excited because we were like, this is going to lead to this. Olsen did was send a fucking naked picture. I didn't even think it was completely naked. No, like a boob picture and she fucking, you were a home wrecker and a hussy and oh my lord. Not in the least, honey. Your boyfriend was wanted to beat his ass i'm like dude you just set my whole fucking plan back years you fucked art and yet when he had the chance without a girlfriend to fuck you yeah he fell through he fucking pussed out yeah that's okay whenever everything happens for a reason that's how this shit works you know that's nicole's right you make your bed you gotta lay You got to sleep in it if it's a. Whatever. Everything happens for a reason. That's how this shit works. You know. Nicole's right. You make your bed, you got to lay in it. You got to sleep in it. And if it's a wet spot, it's a soppy bed. Have you ever been with a woman that was cheating? Since we've been in a lifestyle. Did you before? Yeah. Yeah. Oh, absolutely I did. When we were married, were you the cheater? No, not when we were married All of a sudden I had to think about it Was I? No, I didn't have guts enough Seriously, I didn't have guts enough to try anything like that Is this almost over? It is almost over It's a good thing to have a dog coming in I didn't have guts enough to try anything like that I I didn't want to. No, but when I was in college. Asshole. She was fucking 30 years old. Okay. No, I don't care. She was a domino delivery bitch. Oh, that one. Yeah. That was the first time I saw a big pile of coke, too. Yeah. It was weird. So, yeah. So, it was, yeah. No. Did I ever cheat on you? Yeah, let me admit that fucking shit on the air. That'd be awesome. Fuck. Only this one time, but it wasn't anything, I swear to God. No, we weren't in the lifestyle when I was in Houston. Fuck. Don't mess. No shit if I could have only spent all the time. All right, well, what a great place to end. We'll end that conversation, because I'm sure it will continue long into the evening. No, it will not. No, I'm just kidding. Hey, again, thank you so much, everybody, for listening. Again, don't forget, Crazy Winter Nights, January 13th through the 15th. Willie, shouldn't they come? Yes, should they come, Willie? Don't get him excited. Anyways, yes, so January 13th through the 15th. Go to crazycasma.com. Get your tickets. If you want to be a vendor, check it out. If you want to do a seminar, just let me know. Reach out to us. A huge thank you to our sponsors, nightcaps.com.
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Speaker2:
Do you ever go on Instagram?
Speaker1:
No, I don't.
Speaker3:
I need to.
Speaker1:
It's on my list of fucking things to give two shits about to do. They say, at TruthCrazy.
Speaker3:
Yes.
Speaker1:
With that being said, kids, doing it the only way I know how, the only way I want to, the only way I ever motherfucking will. Casbah Style, out.
