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Hey kids, the program you're about to listen to contains some adult situations, adult language, themes, and other adult topics. If you're easily offended, this show's not for you. Hey you crazy motherfuckers, welcome back to another edition of Crazy Truth.
I'm your host with the most, I'm Cole, and I'm i'm here with the lovely lovely and quite possibly needing some coffee miss amanda hey and we're here to tantalate to late and otherwise just itlate i don't know what itlating is but just annoy the fuck out of you wait are you talking about me or just in general people in general i mean you know there's some people that don't like us so i just want to irritate the fuck out of them. I'm getting the ring, motherfucker. I'm telling you, I put the song on yesterday. It's literally true. It's so fucking perfect. So, here it is. You can tell.
Well, hold on. We'll get to this. You're damn right I am, bitch. Don't ever forget. I'm kidding. Anyways, this is season.
Let's do this part before I forget what the fuck's going on and i'll lose it and shit yeah yep was in here working earlier today yep knew the show was coming and everything because it's a tuesday awesome anyways so this is season five episode 219 uh you know i'm almost to 100 uh rants are you like yeah i know i save them just recorded rant number 93 and then we're going to be closing on 250 these no problem yeah uh 219 and of course sponsors we got them smart swingers what do they do they read they read asn lifestyle magazine to know all what's going on in the adult world as well as the swinger world check it out asn lifestyle magazine.com three million readers can't be wrong hey do you like facebook do you like pictures do you like dirty pictures hate the rules of facebook of course you do smuttyfy.com that's your answer smuttyfy.com smuttyfy and when you get there don't forget to check and look up crazy everything we do is with a k keep that in mind kids crazy casbah and join our group and show your junk on all the appropriate days.
Or whenever the fuck you want to. We don't care. You can do whatever you want. Also, safety, it's what we're all about. Nightcaps.com. We're very proud to be associated with Nightcaps and working with Nightcaps.com. Truly, truly the drink spiking prevention scrunchie. Get it for the people that you care about. Get it for yourself. Go there today, nightcaps.com. Make sure you put in the promo code, nightcap10-casbainc and get a discount. Okay, so safety, safety with a kiss. And obviously you want to keep the lifestyle safe. You do, I do, we all do. How do you do that? Test.
If you stick your dick in something or you have a dick stuck in you, you should be tested. And how do you do that? Go to shamelesscare.com. Check out all the different packages they have. Different ways to fit your lifestyle, your sexual adventures. But the bottom line is to make sure that you're safe and you're safe in the lifestyle. Shamelesscare.com. Check them out today. Tell them Kazma sent you. What the fuck does that look for?
You might want to reword that a little different next time If you're going to stick your dick in something So if you stuck it in a pie Are you going to get an STD? You could, depends what kind of pie it is Depends whose pie it is Depends what pie it is If you're running up and you find a deer stuck in the woods And you stick it in a pie You've've got a problem, kids. You could have Lyme disease and not even know it. Fucking gross. It's not the pie I was talking about. Right. Well, if you waste a good, like, dessert pie with a penis, then fucking, you deserve to get, like, a cherry stuck up.
I have sucked a dick after it's been dipped in a pie. Yeah, yeah. I've had chicks suck my dick after I stuck it in a pie, but that was for the good of the show. I did it for other people. Look, I do what I already do. Yes. Now, if you want to bring, here's the deal. For a contribution to Casbah Cares, if you want to bring a pie to Crazy Summer Nights, you want me to fuck a pie in front of you for Casbah Cares, you've got to make a donation. Nothing's free in this world. You've got to help me help other people that are less fortunate.
Then I'll a pie i don't care but it's got to be go for a good cause if you just want to fuck then then that is a good cause it's my birthday and what better cause than that i'm just saying so uh okay so a couple things we do need to cover really really quick before i forget about it yes we you i got asked because i stay on top of this shit i know it's hard hard to believe, about a winner for our Smokin' Meat Barbecue Treats contest. We had a shit ton of emails. Now, I don't know if everybody actually knew the information about Elvis, or if they just took it and looked it up.
But regardless, it was awesome. We had probably 50 or 60 interests that had it cracked. And so the winner winner the winner is out of dallas texas jennifer heider jennifer heider out of dallas texas you are going to be getting a five pack of the smoking meat barbecue treats meat rubs uh you can rub them on meat take a picture of them having being rubbed on meat and i'm sure maybe we can send you something else too brock on what kind of meat you're kind of meat you're rubbing on. If he screams, ouch, remember the safe word. Just say it. Some of those would burn. Oh, God. Yeah, absolutely.
It's just one of those things. What up, Peggy? Oh, for those of you who don't know, we do this in front of our live Facebook audience on our secret, secret Facebook page, Kaz kaz bank shh don't tell the others tell everybody yeah so uh we got them all over the place so today so checking it out and so yeah away we go we got all kinds of cool shit going on what are you doing you're fondling my cord you're stroking my rod you're stroking my what the hell all hell's breaking loose here i want new microphones so fucking bad i can taste it oh they're not that bad i know i'm just saying Thank you.
my rod and you're stroking my what the hell all hell's breaking loose here i want new microphones so fucking bad i can taste it oh they're not that bad i know i'm just saying they're not that bad i couldn't wear a hat tonight because i've got a zoom meeting call right after getting recording it'll ruin your hair i didn't want to look stupid for the zoom meeting so for another show just saying it is it look the things we do the things we sacrifice oh look at you go yeah being all business like that fucking blows cock anyways uh so yeah so we've had fun we've got some commercials this week getting ready we're still getting ready i would just make another list of of crazy summer night shit because that is on upon us which means that's that's i had another bout of fuck hit me today that was awesome yeah i didn't tell elson actually it was more last night it was like 1 30 in the morning it's all since something i was watching something and it brought back some nostalgia type memory i'm like fuck i'm old it's not like well at least happened at night when i wasn't trying to get anything else done but we've got a bunch of shit done but we've got i think i've got, like, 27 miles long of shit that, oh, wait a minute, that's getting there.
I like seeing good comments. You don't read me these comments. We need to get this on TV so I can read it. Oh, what, that your hair is really looking good? Yeah, yeah.
I like to hear pretty things, too, about't you like compliments Yes is the answer So why wouldn't I Your nails look nice Your hair looks good I don't think I've had anybody tell me my nails look nice I do My mother got that Here's the thing My mom said she always got that And I was with her and she always says people were like random like oh your nails look lovely and what's funny is since I started either shellacking or dipping them I get that all the time too like oh man your nails look really nice from guys and girls oh man your nails look really cool and girls like oh your nails look really nice and touch your hand look at your nail.
I'm like okay there you go just saying I't know. So, I'm going to start figuring out a polish on my penis and see what happens. Just saying. We can tattoo it. Why, your cock looks nice. And I went into my penis to get weak, that'd be horrible. That happened with dipping, for those of you who are trying to figure out what the fuck is actually going on right now right now. Don't try to figure it out, trust me. It's just easier if you just fucking get all kind of numb and go through the show as we go through. I didn't like the dipping job that gal did.
I'm all in with the shellacking is where I'm at. I said that was the way to go. It's just no polish. She didn't do a good job with my feet for the whole pedicure, but we'll let it slide. I didn't get a happy ending on my feet. I don't know if that's actually a thing or not. Would you want it from her? No, but I don't know if that's a thing. I'm just trying to find out. If not, it really should be. So jack off your feet? What a great... Well, if you got a foot fetish, that'd be awesome, I suppose. What a great fucking... That goes along with my naked hair salon that I want to open in Vegas.
Where the girls cut your hair naked I mean that'd be the same Like at a brothel And we're going to have to move to Nevada Is what it amounts to Because you put a brothel that has a nail salon in it And the girls are naked doing your nails Just saying Look they have everything else A good friend of mine has friends that own a brothel And they have like a five star world famous chef In their restaurant, in the brothel There already is one What, naked hairstylist Or naked nail place Is there a nail place that gives you a happy ending Saying that, well maybe she used to do it Because I know she does nails And she used to live in Vegas Fucking A, well I'll come to your house Look, I'm not a poet, you don't need a license To do my nails, I don't care Thank you.
July because I know she does nails and she used to live in Vegas. Fucking A. Well, I'll come to your house. Look, I'm not opposed to... You don't need a license to do my nails. I don't care. No, you bitched when I did it. No, I didn't. I didn't do it naked, though. I didn't bitch when you did my nails. I bitched when you make fun of me when I was on the phone painting my own nails. That's why I get pissed when I do it. It's because you look like a schoolgirl. Lay on the bed. I can't even fucking see anything. Little off the top, ladies are topless. Oh, well, that'll work.
That's a starting point. Look, you've had that idea for like 20 years. It's like many of my other ideas that other people finally thought of that I could be rich on. Yep. That's what I do. They call me Moses. Hey, come on over to the promised land. I'll wait out here. Okay, so probably should go ahead and do the show and shit, I suppose. No, Dr. Weber is not a sponsor. Just saying. Okay, so I did that especially because I know you love that. But I didn't blow my nose when I was doing it. Good for you. He's so proud of me. Okay. All right. So, first, shall we do the first question?
So, Ari, are you ready? Go for it. Or should we do our health tip of the day first? What's the health tip of the day? It's up on the board. It's a good one. Let's do the health tip of the day first so we don't forget it. Okay. Okay, so we're going to start with the health tip of the day. And this is really important with the parties and events going on, right? Okay. The health tip of the day is follow the medications instructions on dosage. What is this for?
This is for the Vi viagra the whatever you might be taking for ed or for whatever because the reason i'm putting this out here if you're using knockoffs whatever we have seen it happen you've done it thank you i was getting there yes absolutely we have seen it happen we have lived it i did one time where i thought no because i still took within the dosage but i knew it was more than what i could actually should have handled that's true i ended up almost stroking out we've seen somebody that medics nurse had to get involved because he almost had a heart attack from taking two he didn't he took one viagra and he didn't want to wait to give it time to work and popped another one thinking well two would obviously be better than one and the thing is is so this is seriously the health tip i know that when you take some of these meds we get impatient we get excited we want shit to work when we're really really good but there's nothing less sexy than having a fucking stroke at an event no you can kill more boners with the paramedics showing up at one event unless they're hot ones but they're probably not going to stay but you can kill more boners with paramedics showing up and somebody fucking having a heart attack at an event so in all seriousness please if the if the thing says take one every 24 hours or one every so whatever the dosage is follow the dosage affect it, heat, all those things.
So be smart with your medications, with your sex medications. That is our Casbah health tip of the day. I thought that was a pretty good health tip. I like that health tip. No extra. What?
Whoa, there's people coming all over the places, uh, extra people, wow, but they're just, shit, so I can't read everything, yeah, so, obviously, it's a big deal, every, a lot of people use stuff, and, it's very easy to get fucking carried away, and if you don't remember if you've taken some, wait, don't just assume so there you go okay so let's go on the first question is really kind of a fucking uh weird one i thought this was really cool this one it wasn't cool but i just thought it was the questions today are really i'm actually excited about because we haven't had really anything like them in the past okay okay so the first question comes to us uh new couple in Delaware.
Okay. Okay. And the gist of the question was they are new in the lifestyle. They've just started to go to events over the last six months to a year. Okay. They're just starting to go to meet and greets and feel comfortable. And they feel like everything they go to, the lifestyle is nothing but extremes. And by extremes, I mean, it's either everybody is like over the top dress, fancy, rich acting and like, you know, nothing casual or trashy. And they were trying to figure out why is there a middle ground because they don't feel like they fit in anywhere.
So when I reached out to him, I'm like, what do you mean by, by by by trashy well what they're talking about is meet and greets for everybody's slut everybody kind of like what and i laugh because the first thing i thought of was how we used to talk about are people going to look sexy or look like hookers because that's the exact wording she used she goes they all look like fucking hookers you know they either and she goes i'm not comfortable they look like hookers or it's like super beaded gowns and and like high-end dinners and stuff like that now every area has different events that's not something we have a lot of here in the midwest no the high-end events and and so but they don't feel like there's any middle ground they don't feel like it's there how do you fit in what do you do to be comfortable they don't she doesn't want to dress slutty and he doesn't want her to look trashy but by the same token they're not snobs they don't want to be snobby acting either so i don't think it's that much extreme here holy crap i think i think it can't i think it can be not to the the point of formal gowns and shit.
No. Well, I mean, it depends, again, what events you're going to. But no, not so much. But I get it. There are some events that are... Your meet and greets aren't going to be formal like that. Some of them out there I could see.
I asked a little bit on meet and greets, and they've got some bars that they're going to that are like you know they're serving you can get like 25 shots and stuff like that like high-end but what they're basically as they put it what they're trying to do is some of their events and some of their activities out there are trying to keep the riffraff out some of them have all the riffraff, and they're trying to find something in the middle, or is there something in the middle? I told them they need to come to the Midwest, for one. That was one of my first things.
Well, you find a group of people you're comfortable about being around, and then they will guide you to the most appropriate events. I don't know. We've been to some where I just went. There was one that we used to go to at the very beginning. And it's just like, wow, they're exposed. Right. But I wasn't to that comfort level at all. But I wore what I was comfortable with. Well, and I think that's part of what it is, is, you know, it's like going to your job. You have to wear what you're comfortable in and what you have to be comfortable in your own skin.
And, look, if you're comfortable, obviously there's sometimes that no jeans might not be appropriate. But, okay, so if the vent is something that it is, you know you need should you know the place is somewhere it's slacks type thing you probably should dress to a degree that way but don't necessarily judge that all the people that are dressed that way are going to be snobs right and don't make that pre that that assumption and don't make the assumption just because somebody maybe is dressed their definition of sexy goes more on your definition of slutty.
Don't necessarily judge, assume that they're necessarily trashy because of it. They just have a difference. Remember one couple that we used to go out with-ish? Right. I won't say anything mean about them in general. Yeah, that's funny shit right there. But she always had leggings and a tank top. And her husband turned to me and goes, you need to wear more tank tops and look more sexy. And I'm like, so I started to do it, then I stopped and I went, fuck you.
I don't need to wear more tank tops and look more sexy and i'm like so i started to do it then i stopped and i went fuck you yeah i don't want to wear this you might like to go out and lift your top up and show your tits to everybody but that's not okay it is now group i'd probably do it but not at a general bar that wasn't you now you would be more comfortable you know you were that comfort level. Shannon, real quick, put, I think they should reach out to organizations and find out normal dress attire and go from there. I agree. Organizers, not organizations.
Well, it's going to take a little bit of research to find some groups that are in between.
And the other thing is, seriously, reach out to some of these people because there's probably other people going, God, this is is expensive going all these high-end things all the time and there's probably people going god why does everybody look so trashy you might be surprised at just how not alone you really are and how you feel about this and maybe if you show up in casual you might be able to you might be surprised some of the meet and greets gave me confidence to dress sexier and still feel like i'm appropriately dressed for the occasion yeah yeah absolutely i was going where are they finding these clothes of course i didn't venture shopping very much well uh kind of falls under the don't judge a book by its cover yep absolutely you know here's one of the other things that i'll say with this a lot of it has to do with Thank you.
much well uh kind of falls under the don't judge a book by its cover yep absolutely you know here's one of the other things that i'll say with this a lot of it has to do with confidence when what you wear here's your if you're just listening you've never seen us yet if you haven't you know on our youtube channel whatever i'm a guy that's going to turn 50 in a week i paint my fingernails black i've grown my hair long like i used to have it when i was 20 i mean minus there's more gray and less of it but i've got long hair i have a full beard i'm very i still wear shit that is the 80s was my decade the 80s and the 50s i still wear stuff that is uh hairband type shit because but i can walk into a place and i'm confident in who i am i don't really give a shit what other people think if you walk in confidence in who you are whatever you're going to wear you'll be surprised at how much how other people will gravitate you that also are going to feel your confidence and also maybe think the same way you do.
It's a simple dress or maybe a sexy top and shorts or a skirt. Simple, it can go either way. Yep, absolutely. Maybe they can organize their own meet and greet and they can set the environment so they are comfortable. Absolutely, absolutely. Dress what is comfortable for you.
Others will approach you because they will feel comfortable by how you look the more people you meet the better your chances of finding the groups that you're more comfortable with absolutely and and here that that they're all spot on i mean really and talk to people again talk to people you might be surprised i don't know that you you can jump in and correct me if I'm wrong. If a group of women that you don't really know, you're all just standing there talking, you're just kind of met, you're hovering together, whatever.
If a couple of them don't feel comfortable dressing slutty and you're kind of dressed just normal, are they apt to say, I am tired of dressing slut.
i really don't feel comfortable wearing this well they might but they might say something husbands because we're big dumb animals we will we'll say well she really didn't want to wear that because she didn't feel comfortable and our wives glare at us accordingly listen for keys like that because you know what Or you can start that conversation and go wow that's really awesome that you look good in that outfit and feel comfortable in that outfit i couldn't you might be surprised what will come out of that a little bit i mean we're getting all kinds the reason i'm slowing down is we're getting all kinds of great comments i've received compliments on my clothes for just looking good And showing confidence in what I'm wearing If they are new I think that is the hardest part Finding where you fit in And comfortable to be around Brian Me wearing a dress or sexy top Just won't work for me, though, Amanda.
It might. It might. Here's the thing. You know what? One of the things that will happen being new, you know, as fucked up as this sounds, if you're the only one dressed differently than everybody else, which you're going to find you won't be. You're noticing the extremes.
You won't be the only one dressed more how you're comfortable i promise you you will still have a better time dressed comfortable for you that you look in the mirror and you're okay with how you look and and you'll have a better time with that meet and greet than trying to fit in in a way that you are completely uncomfortable and and as a guy that actually talks about all the time if you are on our facebook you know that i put posts on there all the time when i'm having trouble picking an outfit out well remember the first gala that we went to yeah oh fuck yeah i was like what the fuck do i wear we were new yeah and i'm like i don't even know exactly why i know what a gala is but i just didn didn't know how extreme it would go.
Yeah. So I'm, like, shopping in the teeny section to try to find something. And I had this dress that was massively uncomfortable. It was a little too huggy for me back then. I'd probably wear it now. I'll have to get it out.
Well, that's part of what's funny is what you're going to feel comfortable and new is going to change as you're in it longer here's the other thing we've learned through the years with crazy winter nights you know what our we always put it's a black tie optional event okay and here's what's really cool and this is how you know when you're around cool people for some people for, for our event, we've had people call and go, look, he doesn't own a tie. He won't wear a tie unless somebody's dead. You know, he won't. He'll get a new button-down shirt and a nice pair of jeans. You know what?
Rock the fuck on. Come on down. And you know what? There are some people that rent a full tuxedo. But what's awesome is when all those people get together at our event, you want to know what no one's doing? No one's pointing or judging on anybody else on how they're dressed at all. Because people are confident and having fun. And just rolling with what's good for them. I don't know. I get it. It's hard because once you get established, you will reach a point in this lifestyle where you go, Fuck you. I don't care whether you like it or not. But I also think when you're new, that's all you do.
You pay attention to that because you don't want to stand out. Right. You don't want to be the one that's like, eh. Well, you're terrified of being the one to stand out when no one's really going to notice. That's always been my fear. It's still my fear to this day is I totally don't want to stand out. No, it legitimately is, and it makes sense. You will see people, you will see people, you'll see husbands, I was guilty of doing this. Come on, everybody else, take your shirt off, take your shirt off.
You'll see wives doing that shit that don't feel comfortable doing it, doing it just try to fit in.
Look, it's like watching, it's like going to a high school and pulling all the girls out of class and lining up a set of fucking just a line of stiletto heels and say, hey, everybody's doing it, you got got to wear these and watch them just fucking look like a bunch of fucking freshly born gazelles trying to stumble around on stiletto heels and you'll see basically that concept with women walking around wrestling with their sexy outfit to try to fit in to try to keep it up and you can see that they're not comfortable they're fucking they're pulling their halter tops up and they're like they're doing an arm workout that's what it is one arm is up and down yeah one is going up keeping their tits covered the other is keeping their ass covered and you can see they're not comfortable and it's funny now you know you think about some of those people we knew from back then and now you see them and they're like yeah it's all cool Don't let it fucking faze you that's the biggest thing I think I don't know I thought that was interesting On the fuck you it helps When many of the group agree We have been to events where They did look down on us For not dressing to the nines And then you'll quickly learn that that's probably not the group for you if they if you felt judged here's here's the one thing i can tell you about that because look i get judged this is it used to be called my halloween costume but it's not this is like my everyday life right this is this is this you get used to going to the grocery store with them looking like that yeah you do and you know what You get used to handing people your credit card or whatever and have them look and judge you with your nails.
99% of the people that are going to say a fucking word to you, that are going to be a dick to you, a twat waffle to you, or say something to you, it's because they are so motherfucking intimidated because you're doing what they wish they could do.
Because even if their job allows it even if their spouse allows it no matter what what won't allow it is their inner gut because they don't have balls enough to do it and that is once you figure that out it's like judge me because here's the deal we were we were an event back east and everybody was pretty you know whatever and they're looking at me like i'm a fucking goon well here's the difference on monday they got up and they went to their corporate job and they and they went to the regular job where they sucked their boss's dick and did whatever they were told because that's what they were supposed to do and made sure they clocked in on time and clocked out on time and doing their lunch on time and did all that shit.
What did I do? I came home, worked in my underwear until noon, and, you know, did what I do because I work at home and I control my own life. It's amazing. So, you know, judge accordingly. What does that look for? You've got this look. What does that look for? Don't bash corporate America. Oh, I'm not bashing. I'm just saying. Wait a minute. Somebody said scrubs. I wear scrubs. If you wear scrubs all week, that's sexy, too. That's just my other thing. I have a theme party in mind. I wear this that I have on because this is what I wear. Not all the time. What?
Well, he doesn't work there anymore, so I guess it is. You never you never really took it off though i could never get you to wear sundresses to work not yet i'm working on it just saying okay all right so it's halftime do you want to do it no go what's it about well what's it know. Oh, my Lord. Hey, don't forget to check out Full Swap Radio. By the way, this is halftime for those who didn't hear us and outside. Full Swap Radio, currently up to 66 of the top shows in the industry, plus Vanilla Sunday for all those regular shows. It's an exciting time to be on the radio. Check it out.
You can listen to it online at fullswapradio.com or you can also get one of our the apps either android or apple fs radio check it out today listen to all your top shows never be uninformed about the lifestyle full swap radio changing the way you listen to the lifestyle you know Vanilla sundae I mean I get The whole thing But why not make it like Caramel sundae Or a hot fudge Because we don't want it erotic Because we want it vanilla like the vanilla people How about a pineapple sundae Look man it's hard enough Trying to get shows to go on vanilla sundae Strawberry sundae I want some ice cream No shit Thank you.
Pineapple sundae. Look, man, it's hard enough trying to get shows to go on vanilla sundae. Strawberry sundae. Because they're afraid. I want some ice cream when you tell them. No shit. Because they're afraid. They're afraid of, like, a couple of shows have really. Actually, I was talking to a couple of them the other day. Wouldn't a vanilla sundae be an ice cream cone? It should kind of, yeah. It could be a banana sundae. They were actually excited because they had started to listen to some of the other shows on the station, and some of their friends had started to listen to other shows.
They were finding out some of their friends were kind of into some kinky shit. Imagine that. There you go. They all enjoy being on the station, which is awesome. Stop now, I'm hungry. That's great. Now, no one knows what the radio station is, but everybody wants to go to fucking DQ. You know what I need to do? We need to get DQ to be a fucking advertiser on vanilla sundaes. Thank you very much. Caramel sundae sounds sticky. What? Oh, sticky. I thought you said sticky. I'm like, what? Sticky.
We can do sticky hot sunday steamy no it's not steamy though it's the whole part of it it's not could be actually one of the actually one of the shows we're talking to i'm having a meeting with later is like um i don't know i originally was going to talk to him about being on sunday but they're they're like, they talk about a shit, and a bunch of their people are kinksters. So they talk a shit ton about sex and whatever, so I think they're actually going to go on the regular thing.
We're actually stoked, there's another show going on there that the guy was a porn star for 20 years, and so he interviews porn stars. So it's going to be a daily show. So we have some cool stuff going, live shows are going to be going on there, all kinds of shit, so there you go. Okay, I love the next question, and this is going to be, this is weird only because this is a question from people they have not actually hooked up yet. Newbies.
they're not even for sure that they can they could they go we don't even know if we're in the lifestyle officially okay okay so here's the thing this is uh from mike and mona and they are from the west coast very skittish it's like talking to two deers surrounded by wolves i mean they're just like okay we're just dipping our toes that's okay they listen to the show they actually actually found us on full swap radio imagine that wow they but they listen to the show and so they decided to write in and their thing is this they have talked about the lifestyle they think it sounds hot they think it sounds.
They think it sounds all those things, right? Mm-hmm. They have not done anything with anybody. They have went to a couple of meet and greets. Okay. And the last one, they actually talked to people. Okay? Okay. The first two they went to, they didn't even talk to people.
The first one they went to, they didn't even tell them they were part of the group they just sat and watched it's okay and the whole reason for it and this is their fear factor is they are afraid of the emotional wreck when they finally try it so basically what their thing is and this makes sense i get it they understand the fact they understand that concept you can't unsuck that dick they they totally get it once once you let's face it for some people what once you make out with somebody that's not your spouse it's the the game or or whatever the has changed you can't undo that and that is their fear it's like okay so here's the deal we won't know if we like it until we try it they understand they go they said they'd listen to some of our back episodes they understand the fact that you won't you can't totally be prepared for it but that they're they're in that quandary there's no way to know if it'll be for them or not until they do it but they're afraid if it's not I'm going to go ahead.
can't totally be prepared for it but that they're they're in that quandary there's no way to know if it'll be for them or not until they do it but they're afraid if it's not the damage that it could go and so they wanted some advice what would we do and i and i'm gonna be honest i was straight up there when i when i was talking to them i said, that's going to be a challenge because we can only tell you what we did. And it worked for us. And we were okay with it. But I thought it was a great question and I thought this is one that we should approach.
So already, okay, I just laughed on my radio at work when you said you can't un-suck that dick. Mike, I understand how they felt. Why I say no until I know the person and I'm comfortable with them non-sexually before doing anything sexual. Yeah, so I...
i guess my initial question would be how much of an emotional attachment do you think you're gonna get in one night true i i don't know that they're afraid of the emotional attachment with somebody else i'm afraid i i'm not afraid of anything actually it doesn't bother me one or the other i think that what they are afraid of and this is this is me just taking a guess on this i think that they are afraid of the looking at each other when it's over and and what i what i mean by okay think back to the think back to the very first time when we played.
Okay, even the disaster that was, whatever, think back to you a second. We're sitting in the car. You asked me what I thought, right? Mm-hmm. Where were you looking? At you. No, you weren't. No, at the road. We hadn't pulled out yet. You were looking straight ahead, and so was I. And when I looked over you, and I looked back, and I answered you, and when I asked you, same thing. We were looking straight ahead. And the thing is, I think what they are afraid of is that that moment where you are and now we're going to fucking have that discussion. And I think that's what they're afraid of.
Honestly. What are people saying? Because Kelly was starting it. Yeah. Sounds like they're not ready to give it some time and keep talking about it that's a good point if they decide to jump in get a couple's lifestyle friendly counselor they can help them work out the aftermath that's excellent yeah or have one on standby yeah um i think it is the oh my god what did we just do factor. Yep, yep. Baby steps go at their comfort level. If something doesn't feel right, don't do it in open communication. Yep.
When we try something new as a couple, we agree to try it one time with no pressure to ever do it again until we discuss how we felt about it. Yep. Got to have an open mind and look at it as an adventure you're going to share together if you're worried about an emotional attachment you're not ready just jump in just because make sure you're both ready emotionally let's see our first time was the same way we I shared messages and Court and I talked and talked and talked that day or before that day. We had a blast, and here we are a year later.
First talk was kind of awkward, but being in the lifestyle has made our lives better. You really have to be sure going into it. Our first night, Hubby asked sure and i said let's do it if we don't like it give it a chance later down the road communication's key i was always told by my love is we love each other with all our hearts and we know we go are going home together and she might be with a guy but she thinks of me at the time when somebody comments. This is actually awesome. This is cool. It's great about doing this in front of our audience because these guys have some great ideas.
I'm so glad I was a unicorn when I started navigating this as a couple. It has so many more complications. I kind of got thrown in and stayed because I made connections. But the thing is, is that, you know, I don't think, okay, maybe it was just me and my naive non-thought process, whatever, that I wasn't afraid that it was going to destroy our relationship.
No, I didn't think thought about I wasn't concerned about that part And I never was even concerned about going Oh my gosh if he likes it better He'll leave me That was never a thought that crossed my mind I think that you see that more and more now People think that I didn't either I wasn't oh my god what if i and i'm an over thinker so that's just what's really weird because honestly i should have been stewing it around more and going oh shit this is gonna ruin us what what i think the i think the first thing they have to do is actually get down to the true fear i see i don't think they've broken it down yet To the true common denominator You know, because if you do fractions, right If it's 12, 24, you have to break it down To the common denominator before you do it And I don't think they've broken it all the way down yet Because I don't think the fear is What it will do to the relationship overall If they don't like it i think that i think the true fear is they're afraid that one of them's gonna go that was fucking awesome and the other one's gonna go i fucking hated that and whoever goes first in that discussion the other one is going to feel fucked up about their views and i think think that's what they're afraid of.
I think the fear is, what if she likes it? What if he likes it and the other one doesn't? But they work out. Not necessarily that, okay, so if one likes it, then we're game, let's go. But you both have to be on the same same page If one liked it and the other one didn't They communicated with each other, right Cole?
And then it stops I'm glad we didn't communicate it right to each other Because it wouldn't have kept going Well, because I could figure out My figure, I just assumed my shit was fucked up Because my dick didn't work right So it was like okay That was your horrible time But I was like there's going to be better times And I was waiting for you to go I hated it I assumed you were going to say I hated it Okay so this is interesting I didn't have a choice My wife said we're doing this And you're going to like it And that was the end of the conversation well you know i mean okay rock on the the thing is is that i understand i think a lot of people have hit on it if you're too concerned you're not ready yet you know you you i if you're a couple some okay so they were already in an open relationship before they went down the swinger lifestyle okay okay so before before they made it official rock on here's one of the things you have to keep in mind is that sometimes and again every you know your marriage you know your relationship you know you it's kind of like you know your body.
So, you know, you can't, I guess. Just kidding, it was my idea. Sometimes you just have to grab each other's hands, look at each other, take a deep breath, and go for it. If your relationship is strong, truly, if your communication is strong, that's what you have to have to break down what the true fear is be honest with each other what the true fear is have the exit plan we have an exit we still have it it the exit plan is still enforced to this day if one of us says we don't want to do this anymore then we're done that's it Would we leave the lifestyle? No Would we be done playing?
Yes But that's where it's at But if your relationship is strong enough You've set the groundwork And everything else correctly And your relationship, you're comfortable where you're at Trust your relationship You know what and and keep in mind and that's at this point in time work on talking to people more first i think we all get caught up in this oh my god what am i gonna do when the balls are slapping her face and i'm watching this shit or or what am i gonna do when he's fucking just jizzing all over her tits? Slow down there, speed racer. There's plenty of time to get to that part.
Trust me, if getting laid was that quick and easy all the time, there'd be way more swingers. Just saying. So take the time initially. Start talking to people. Go to the meet and greets. Start talking to people.
Start seeing if there's somebody that you connect with that you feel comfortable with the sex part it'll take care of itself and when you're ready it will feel right and you'll go for it what are other people saying part of people going cole's an idiot uh if it isn't going to enhance what already exists then it's a one and done absolutely i really like was it shelly that said the whole thing with having the counselor on standby if you're really i mean granted look i will never condone or encourage anyone whose relationship is not fucking solid as fuck to do this i'm speaking actually to you guys right now more than than anything else because most of us guys are like come on it'll be hot because all we're thinking about is fucking railing two chicks or some other stupid fucking well i know but more times than not if you'll get guys to be honest guys that were like hey come on let's do this this would be me it's harder for us once we see it because what looks good here and what looks good on Pornhub looks totally different when it's your wife with somebody else's dick just dumping away so it's amazing how much I was the one that begged for 20 years and I was the one that without a doubt had a much harder time processing it once it actually happened.
So keep that in mind a little bit. It's like, you know. But it took a lot of talking afterwards. Yeah, it took a lot of stupid conversation. Honest to God, I think the lifestyle creates some of the dumbest fucking conversations on demand. And actually, what we should do, we should start a show where we pay new people the very first time to wear GoPros. The first time they hook up with other people, and then we play their GoPros for like, they wear it for two weeks afterwards, never get to take it off to record all their conversations.
So everybody can hear the questions like yeah but if his dick's bigger you'll never feel me again that kind of shit you know all that kind of stuff yeah we really need to do that because that would be a great fucking show so I mean I don't know I gotta give this couple kudos because they're willing to admit they're willing to admit there's concerns like they're excited but Thank you. because they're willing to admit there's concerns. Like, they're excited, but they want to make sure it's right. It still has been.
Unlike the couple that we met that was like, you know, the marriage counselor said, hey, do more adult things, so let's go fuck other people. Why not? That'll make sense. I don't know. I think that... Definitely hard watching your significant other act a lot different with other people than they ever have with you. True. Yep. Stupid thing jumping around. Oh, my God, I can't keep up. They may be dumb conversations, but they lead to great conversations.
And they lead to great laughs later Just saying It's fucking awesome shit It's wrong when a partner tries the lifestyle On their own and then they hide it From the other partner That would be cheating As long as you're doing the experience together And you're both Where'd that go?
Both on the same page You talk about your experience You know You can't keep up with it Trust your relationship uh we are committed to each other we have uh conversed if one is uncomfortable and want to stop then that's what we do teamwork makes the dream work well and here's the other thing i think yeah and and i i've started to try to add this into when people come to in and knew about you know when i talk about like rules and and try to help people guide things because i've kind of created like a a checklist for your relationship that i'll go through with people now you know make them rate like their communication and shit like that one of the things that i've started to add with that now is knowing and understanding there are going to be fuck-ups along the way and i don't necessarily mean breaking rules but there's going to be there is no way that you can do this without something triggering in your brain it's like stepping on toes in a way well Well, yeah.
It goes back to the whole thing. When you heard me call the girl baby, it wasn't a big deal. You didn't lose your shit, but you were like, hey, don't do that. Now it's not a big deal. I don't think you don't care now, do you? Okay, good. Now I just whisper it. No, I'm kidding. But, I mean, there's going to be steps.
You've got to know know that that's coming There's no way to plan for everything Don't just dwell on the negative while making your decision Also look on the bright side Way both sides of the decision Yes yes that is awesome Yes Heard is part of the process talk it out Yep absolutely The fuck ups Or the mistakes or the fucking stumbles Or whatever you want to call them Those, if you want to talk about What are the relationship enhancers Those are the ones you grow from It's almost like makeup sex It is But it also It also causes you to have a totally new conversation Because all of a sudden a word that you didn't think meant anything does.
So you start, it's amazing after we had the conversation about the word baby, how much it changed when I used that word, when I used it, because then I understood that it meant more to you. I think it's more like in the throes of sex.
was like caught me off guard it wasn't a big deal but it it those are the things that enhance your relationship it's everything when do you grow the most you grow the most out of like adversity right so when you have fuck ups when you have the touch rule i mean if if we hadn't had that whole fucking disaster at the bonfire we would have a whole story that we wouldn't be be able to tell That whole touch rule thing We wouldn't even have that as a story to tell What a great fuck up We didn't know that at that time No, it was a big fight A lot of talking on the way back A lot of tears, lots of sorries Yeah But it's also It's mis, it's miscommunication.
Yeah. Or misunderstanding. Or you said something and I didn't take it the way you said it. I can tell you this. That fuck up. That train wreck fuck up night. Has made it. That's why we come crazy at Summer Nights.
Honestly, I i truly believe that because we learn so much about dealing with a camp a totally different situation true that now we think about that shit when we put on an event and for other people because we tell people all the time when they're new if it's your first time going to ksm or going to a camp out of it not just ours ours, any big camp out, hey, that's different than a hotel takeover. Yeah, much different. How many people have we been able to maybe help avoid that same pitfall that we fell into? So was it worth it? Well, did we die? No. Did we fight? Yes.
Did we hug and get over it? Yes. Did it make us better? Yes.
So the way around it was it ended up being a real positive you know now the night you got fucking roofie and just started sucking dick randomly and tell me to fuck off that no no no that i'm fucking assy but that did happen it did but you know even something for angela I still feel guilty About telling her Oh yeah Is everything alright Fuck you just cause you're all fucking pretty With your fake boobs Oh god But you know what And she still talks to me today Cause she didn't get mad at you at the time No she didn't She looked at me and she's like she's not okay and i'm like no she's fine i'm like no she's fucking not she's about to fucking get her ass good but you know what even that helped because why that's because of shit like that that's why we have nightcap oh my god so you know i don't hopefully that helps you know uh this is where i gotta put this out there I fucking This is where Doing this Our show In front of our live group There's a lot of shows out there They all have their Fucking Values Whatever There's a lot of shows out there But this is where This rocks Because Listening to These guys is the answer The live studio Audio answers That's what That's what kicks ass That's what kicks ass Their answers are better than ours Fuck we should just have them On the show Thank you.
These guys is the answer. The live studio audio answers. That's what kicks ass. That's okay. Their answers are better than ours. Fuck, we should just have them on the show. Maybe we'll do that at KSN. You know what? Here's what we should do. This is like Johnny Carson. I'm going to date myself. This will be horrible. We need to have guest hosts. This week, Johnny is on vacation. This week, Colin and Amanda are on vacation. This week, the host of Crazy Truth is. If you give them the key to the house, come in, they can... They can do it at crazy summer nights.
If you feed the dogs while you're here, would you? If you feed the dogs, make care, take them for a walk afterwards. They'll give you the keys to the house. Whatever, it'll be great. We could do that. That's fucked up. Okay, so we got to wrap it up here. Me too. A couple things. This weekend, when you're listening to this, this comes out on Thursday. If you're in the Des Moines area, we are going to be in Des Moines, Iowa. Yes, we are. We're going to be in Des Moines, Iowa on Friday night at a meet and greet.
And then we're going to race back here because Amanda's got to work someone on Saturday. And I've got to perform a wedding and getting people some hitched.
And then next week week so we'll record again next tuesday and we will actually release the show release the hounds uh probably right before we leave right before my 50th fucking birthday god and cranking my bone anyways uh so the next one's crazy summer night so maybe what we'll try to do Is do some Crazy Summer Nights shit I don't know what to see But it should be a good time So we're nowhere close to ready But you can still buy tickets to Crazy Summer Nights Closer than you think Well we are, we're actually close to everything But we're super chast, we're super excited about it A lot of people that are listening That we're gonna see that'll be pretty good so and we'll see a bunch of other people on friday but if you're into the des moines west des moines area uh come to the meet and greet johnson or something yeah we will be there uh so you can see miss amanda and i do you know where uh yes at a bar and and i know I'll probably won't get carded.
Just saying. Oh, my gosh. Yeah, so Danny's putting that on. So we're pretty excited. And, you know, who knows? Apparently, we're taking some people who bought some clothes. And so there's several people that are planning that they would like to model said outfits. Which is funny because they're booty shorts. So just saying.
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Join now because at KSN there's already planned she is going to do some content shooting in the glory hole, I do believe. And she's going to be doing some outside sex. So there's going to be some fucking in the woods, some fucking on a pier. So some outside sex, which is awesome. Am I fucking on the pier? Mm-hmm, which is awesome. Maybe I'll eat somebody out on the pier. Yeah, could be, or all of the above. Here, all I'm going to say is why should you want to be on there when she puts that content on? Miss Amanda loves outdoor sex.
It is like her favorite thing to do, her activity so guess what she's gonna be all down and dirty uh when she can fuck outside so i would check it out just saying anyways all right with that being said kid doing it kids we're gonna let you get out of here doing the only way i know how the only way i want to and the only way i ever motherfucking will for the time being chasm style out bye
