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Speaker1: Hey kids, the program you're about to listen to contains some adult situations, adult language, themes, and other adult topics. If you're easily offended, this show's not for you. Hey you crazy motherfuckers, welcome back to another edition of Crazy Truth. I'm your host with the most in the gray shirt on gray shirt on which is really fucking weird i'm cole i'm here with the lovely lovely uh and perky tits miss amanda hey and we're here to 10 late titillate and otherwise uh whatever and we started right off with alex said it's a pile of shit why are you saying it's a pile of shit alex i'd say okay so anyways for those of you following along at home this is uh the fuck is this? This is season five, episode 215. Is that right? That's right, yeah. Did you change that? Yeah, I changed that. Episode 215, we're moving in and shaking and doing what we do. That's pretty cool. We are. Pretty quick shout out, though. First, foremost, to our sponsors, while we still have them, asnlifestylemagazine.com, smart swingers read. For those of you listening at home right now, because we do this in front of our live Facebook audience, and for those of you that listen to the show on Thursday when it comes out, we have won the 30th. It's the last day to vote. We need you to go to asnawards.com twice a day if you're listening to it now, until the 30th. Best retail business, full swap shop. Best supporting business supporting business full swap radio best trade show and convention crazy winter nights we need your help help him out because you really want look i we we've won the most asn awards of anybody out there really yes oh wow like double compared to anybody else we're up for three more and i want to bring them home so fucking bad i've got a boner for trophies uh so make sure you check those out anyways but make sure check out asn lifestyle magazine.com smart swingers read also don't forget if you love facebook but you'd like to sure see some tits ass dick and pussy or whatever else then you want to go to smutify that's s-m-u-t-t-y-f-y dot com it's free to join check today. All the fun of Facebook without the rules. And when you get there, find Crazy Kazba. That's our group. Join. Be a part of the fun. The shenanigans. And check it out today. And finally, we're all about safety. Seriously, we are. That's something extremely important to us. Nightcaps.com. We're extremely proud to be associated with Nightcaps. It is truly the drink spiking prevention scrunchie. You go to nightcaps.com we're extremely proud to be associated with nightcaps it is truly the drink spiking prevention scrunchie you go to nightcaps.com don't forget to use promo code nightcap10 slash casbah inc and get your discount uh today if you protect the people that you love so their next night out ends happy and not on a bad note so with that being said so we got a lot of stuff to talk about we had some fun stuff first uh the first thing that everybody wants to know because if you know me if you know me if you love me uh you know that i'm an absolute elvis fucking fanatic i love elvis presley uh everything i know about cool i learned from elvis presley uh elvis is god and so um we went to i've got the i've got the lightning bolt tattooed on my chest. I mean, that's why I have the lightning bolt ring. It's, yeah, whatever. Anyways, so we went to the Elvis movie. Pause. Last time he had gone into a movie theater was 15 years ago. Yes, I have not actually been in a movie theater in 15 years. What did we figure it was? It was the Star Wars. It was the first prequel that came out. So it was like the fourth Star Wars to come out. That was the last time I've been in a movie theater. So actually it was like 16 years ago. It was 2004. It was the last time I've been in a movie theater. Movie theaters have changed. Just a scoach. Just saying. Power chairs. Legs up. It's not all sticky. Heated seats. That was fucking the shit, man.
Speaker2:
Heated seats.
Speaker1:
Thank you. Justice coach, just saying. Power chairs, legs up, it's not all sticky. Heated seats. That was fucking shit, man. Heated seats. I love that. That was awesome. But I'm telling you right now, you don't even have to be an Elvis fan. You go see Elvis. You see that movie, you'll understand why Elvis is the king. You'll understand everything that I do. You'll understand a lot about me. If you watch the Elvis movie, you'll understand a elvis is the king you'll understand everything that i do you'll understand a lot about me if you watch the elvis movie you'll understand a lot about me and why i'm the way i am because that's it's yeah anyways uh so check it out it was fucking awesome it was worth every penny it's like two hours and 46 minutes it doesn't seem like it it's like goes fast because it's a kick-ass movie the actors were fucking insanely incredible uh when they showed that when they're talking about when elvis dies because i vividly remember the day elvis died you understand i do my own little vigil every year here when elvis died on his birthday and on the anniversary of his death i always do a little vigil for elvis it actually choked me up again actually choked me up as they're showing all that shit it's like wow yeah so oh my god absolutely go see it do i want to see the new top gun sure but this is fucking badass this is the fucking shit and if you go check my siri uh you'll find out that uh guess what colesman listened to since he's got back the past couple days just saying i wonder what yeah no shit you know you can listen to the soundtrack right uh-huh you wait a minute what i know right no i No, Yeah, no shit. You know you can listen to the soundtrack, right?
Speaker3:
Uh-huh.
Speaker1:
Wait a minute, what?
Speaker2:
I know, right?
Speaker1:
No, I did not know that one. See, now I'm going to learn more fucking cool shit. I'm going to get all kinds of fucking learned stuff. So we did that. So that was fucking badass.
Speaker2:
Have you been to Graceland? You've been how many times?
Speaker1:
I've been to Graceland.
Speaker3:
Twice? No.
Speaker1:
Well, we've been in it twice. You've taken me. Twice, yes. We've been on the outside of it three times. The first time we stopped at Graceland, it was 3 in the morning outside, and I stood outside the gates and cried. And tried to write your name on the wall. Right, and the first time we got to go in was on my birthday. time we went in to graceland going up drive the drive up up the driveway because you buy tickets and there's a bus that takes you up the main drive of graceland and you're coming up to the house that was uh yeah that was a religious experience for me i i had tears i had tears that whole thing you walk into this house, and it's just, you just, it's like, holy shit.
Speaker2:
It says 1970.
Speaker1:
You can, fuck off. You can feel, you can feel him. You can feel Elvis, and going through and just, I mean, standing in the Memorial Gardens. Oh, fuck. Anyways, I cannot wait to go back to Graceland. Absolutely love everything about it.
Speaker3:
I don't know. Gardens. Yo, fuck. Anyways, I cannot wait to go back to Graceland. Absolutely love everything about it. I could go there daily. Absolutely. In fact, if I lived in, if we lived there, I would. I would get like one of their year passes and I'd be there every day. I'd go to Graceland every day. Just hang out because it's the shit. And she had it now. It's all lit up. So so uh yeah so it was awesome so we had a great week overall because we had that but uh so you had a really great week i did up to it yeah you were you were buried deep in pussy twice twice i was i made one pass out you did yes yes she did. That was impressive as fuck. Yep. She licked her into unconsciousness. That was awesome. Yeah, you got fucked. You ate pussy twice. You got, yeah, you broke a newbie in. I did. You broke a newbie in. So, yeah, so we shot, so this is the first time shooting content. We actually shot content for your OnlyFans. So you want to make sure you sign up for Miss Amanda's OnlyFans. Cold called 911. Yeah, I fucked up my phone. I set off the fucking alarms and almost called the police and shit. You did. Oh, God. They called back. They called you back. Oh, my God. It was insane. I'm calling. No, no. Don't come over. Really? I'm just shooting porn. Fuck. But so the thing. Now, here's the thing is that so depending what you're into you hit a couple categories with your first set of new content that you put on because all your stuff on only fans 4 has been like still pictures or some short videos of you like touching yourself and playing with yourself a little bit there's a couple blowjob things on there right yeah no blowjobs uhjob, I think. And then there's like two sex ones. Yeah. But they were short. They're like short little blurbs. This is like a 15-minute video. So we've got a younger gal in her 20s. You're both MILFs in her 20s. inner 20 her first experience with a girl asians asian young so interracial asian young you had happy feet at one point in time and you fucking licked your in this you had licked her into submission so uh we got so it was funny shooting because i was i was kind of running cameras and whatever and uh and and taking still pictures and trying not to get in the way and fuck shit up but uh everybody had a good time so you're going to want to go on to our only fans and check that out because here's the other thing so besides that content that she shot there's also uh scheduled in the very near future we have a couple other content shoots that are already scheduled so we're gonna you got some uh uh guy stuff guy guy girl action going gonna be on there uh and possibly some threesome action gonna be on there and a couple other girls on there as well that are all forthcoming so you're gonna want to make sure that you get uh you get signed up for that and check that out because that's gonna be a lot of fun so then saturday night though so that was that was work that's isn't when it's at it, isn't it? Yes. Yeah, that's amazing. Well, duh. That's fun work. And then Saturday night, we had a house party, which we had a lot of fun. It was super laid back, super nice. I think it was a couple's first time throwing a house party-ish. It wasn't just set up as a let's everybody go fuck house party. It was just a get together and they had it set up if you wanted to go play you certainly could hot tub involved which is always fucking nice naked hot tubs are fun naked hot tubs are fun and so uh yeah that was a good that was a good time that was a great time you can jump in there well you're telling the story well your your part of it I'm trying to. My part of it went to, I'm almost 50, and my penis started to be a dumbass again. So, it kind of jumped in and out. It was up and down, up, down, up, down. My penis is emotionally scarred for Saturday night. It was sad Saturday night. And then Sunday, it was like, hey, I'm ready now. It's like, you son of a bitch. Anyways. But I helped you out. You did. Well and but we had so much fun it just you you played cornell you never play cornell i've never played you played that it was just it was super chill back and we got to sit and hang here's the all you know and i'll say their fucking names i don't care you want some if you want yeah uh get to just sit and hang out i mean we get to just like talk and laugh and fun larry and brend brenda we're just going to sit and fuck around and talk and hanging out in the hot tub we're just having fun and just which here's the thing they've got to be as we've went together there they have been part of meet and greets and we've got to go and they've come to a ton of our events and we never get any time just to fucking hang out and have fun and i don't think i we were all laughing our asses off. Jeff and April put on the event, and it was awesome, and everybody just had a good time. I don't even know how many people were really there total, but it was like everybody was having fun. It was super casual, super laid back. It was so nice. It was like eight or nine people. And then some came, some left, and some others came. But it was just chill and was laid back, and everybody had a great time. so it's like eight or nine people and then there's some came with someone left and some others came and but it was just chill and was laid back and everybody had a great time so it was like an uh an awesome way to fucking have fun julia we have a hot tub wink i haven't forgotten don't you worry um luckily my calendar opens during the days of the week that's the thing my calendar opens during the days of the can't stop. It does. But so thank you. We had a lot of fun. It was a blast. Oh, my God. We had an absolute fun. It's just fun to get. It's so much fun for us to get to go to events and hang out and just fucking shoot the shit. And just sit there. Yeah. And just get to shoot the shit. And no one was working. I mean, you know, they had made like Slop Sloppy Joes and stuff. But everybody brought, like, sides to share. So it was just kind of like everybody was just getting to chill. It wasn't the typical. I ate way too much. Yeah. A lot of cookies. There was none of that. Everybody was just running amok. Everybody just got to chill and have fun. It was a great time. So we had a blast with that. So that was awesome. So now we're heading into, because now we're going to seabiscuit this shit because sweet mother fuck guess what uh we're we're like 30 days away from crazy summer nights and guess what else i'm not ready so uh so now it's just going to be fucking stress extraordinaire so that which will be fun though so it's going to be it's going to be a good time so uh and and this week i think i think you'll have fun things before before the end of this week because you've got all kinds of there's folks around that want to fucking put things in you really yeah yep we'll have to set that up set it up to get through a little bit of chaos first but once we get to Because you know it's it's my work's month end yeah and and then and then we we actually do deal with other life too every now and then yeah we we we may have a special guest on the show before it's all sudden done and do another nut episode and we don't know yeah so uh so you know it what it is. So we'll talk more about that as things develop. So this week has gotten kind of crazy. But we live for crazy.
Speaker1:
Crazy is what makes it fun.
Speaker2:
So that's kind of the rundown. I need a fucking drink.
Speaker1:
Oh, shit. So, okay. So we've hit on some of the highlights, the stuff going on, whatever. Now, here's the other thing. Now, we're going to go. Oh, it's 41 days? Okay, sweet. Shit, I still sweet shit i still 41 days well fuck i got all kinds of time let's fucking chill the fuck out huh it's a month from monday is your birthday hey thanks for pointing that out cunt anyways so okay so now here's here's this where you remember i said they may not like this at the end of the show. Oh, God. What are you going to do? Don't, don't. Now, look, here's the deal. This is the other part of what we do. So, oh, first of all, before I go here, make sure if you have not already, if you're on Facebook and you have not already found it, you can search. It's a private group. You can search it. You can't see anything about it, whoever's in it or anything like that. Full Swap 101. Get signed up today. It's been up for two weeks. We have over 1,100 members already. It is an educational site. It's there to ask questions, to talk to some of our content providers and some of the experts in all different things. Get on it. We've got people from all over the country, actually all over the world on there get on there it's a great resource to your questions to learn and get lots of different opinions and lots of different ideas about the lifestyle so uh you know we try to answer questions those are that's our opinion but what if you could go somewhere and have like 20 000 people's opinions and different experiences wouldn't that be neat wouldn't it wouldn't it of course it would so that's you need to check out so check them out as well i love you just have this like terrified you can just feel this total terrorized vibe do you want to go no are you sure yep wow you are absolutely terrorized all of a sudden it just dawned on him like uh-huh Fuck. Yep. No, here's the thing. So the name of our show is Crazy Truth. So the thing is, this is what we do. And the thing is that we're going to be very, very honest. And if you listen to my rants at all, you will know that I just feel the fear. It's not a fear. You will know that there are some things that we started this shit and do this shit because we wanted to make the lifestyle better. and the reality of it is, is that, uh, there are things that happen in the real world, whether we'd like to admit it or not, that have direct effects on the swinging lifestyle. And the thing is, is that I am an advocate of realism and, and being real and being honest about shit. And the thing is, is this show is going to continue to maintain and carry that fucking very loud beacon forward. And And one of the things that I'm going to do this show is going to continue to maintain and carry that fucking very loud beacon forward and one of the biggest things that we support in this on this show and in casbank and everything else is that we believe the lifestyle is very much female driven when you agree with that we believe in uh that females have absolutely complete control and say over who touches them or how they're touched or what they do or do not want to participate in and uh here's the thing we believe that whether it is at a lifestyle event or in the real world and to be perfectly honest with you uh we just want to take and make sure that people understand exactly where we stand on a lot of the issues going out there in the world today and the reality of it is this is that consent and a woman's rights and women are not second-class citizens uh they are not you know this is not just for my wife or my nieces or nephews or mother or whatever this is for women all over the world that we have not been born yet and ones that will women have rights they're I don't know. this is not just for my wife or my nieces or nephews or mother or whatever this is for women all over the world that we have not been born yet and ones that will women have rights they're not second-class citizens and we will continue to support the fact that uh women have the right to make decisions and choices and quite honestly uh this folks you better fucking wake up in the lifestyle because i'm telling you right now, if you are naive enough to actually believe that zealots and people that believe they should tell you how to live your life, the majority, if you think they won't come after a sexual deviance, people that are living in sin, people that are dirty or are doing things wrong or think that uh that things like same-sex marriage or relationships wrong if you like watching your wife eat another girl out there are certain states you can't do that in and that's growing uh if you don't think that they will come after us you better wake the fuck up because they're coming uh and i'm going to tell you the other thing that's a very real situation with the whole thing and that is quite simply put 60 percent of americans didn't agree with the decisions that came out in the last week and a half in this country if you fucking think 12 million people standing silently have a snowball's chance in hell you've lost your fucking mind so i strongly recommend that uh stand up kids because if you don't you're gonna wake up and they won't have to worry about any shows like ours or any other lifestyle events so it is what it is so on that theme because it's funny this week i got four fucking questions about about certain types of sexual activities at events that guys really want and how the best way to convince or get their partners to do them. You ready for it? It's the same ones. It's the same thing all the time. What every guy wants to see their old lady in a gang but not every guy obviously but gang bangs anal sex uh and and then i actually had a couple of cuck holding questions which cuck holding is a little different ball game than the whole thing so that's that's a little bit different uh but it's just and the question is so funny come through what's the best way how do i convince my significant how do i convince my wife that she'll like a gang bang We'll be right back. And the question is so funny What's the best way How do I convince my significant How do I convince my wife That she'll like a gangbang I'm reading this I'm just going I don't know She knows the gist of it This is where this shit becomes such an important thing This is why we're talking about this You know what Here what? Here would be my suggestion for all guys. I'm a guy that would love for you to do a gangbang. Right. I know that. I really would love to have you do a gangbang. I'm not going to try to sell you on having a gangbang because you know what? It's not my body taking a ration of dicks to make it happen. Now, if you would like to set up a reverse gangbang for me well then i'm absolutely all in favor of said such gangbanging okay but my thing is is every guy out there if you're listening right now and you want to know the best way to convince your wife's significant other to do a gangbang i have an idea are you ready yep do ready? Yep. Do you have any ideas? Do you have any ideas before my ideas? Because your ideas might be a better place than my ideas would be.
Speaker2:
No, go ahead.
Speaker1:
Line up however many dicks that you want her to take. Do you want her to fuck five guys, six guys, ten guys, twenty guys? How many do you want? Figure out how many dicks you really want her to take. Get a hotel room. Surprise her with a hotel room. I don't know.
Speaker3:
I don't know. want figure out how many dicks you really want her to take get a hotel room surprise her with a hotel room make sure if you want her to see her with guys with giant dicks seal killers that that you have however many guys that that is with seal killers they're ready to go and you take that many dicks one evening you want to see her fuck five guys see five guys fuck her then have five guys
Speaker1:
fuck you and let her watch so you can show her how much fun it is seems like a pretty easy thing to me now let me ask you if i'm going this is so much fun wouldn't it seem more fun to you well i'm just i'm just saying do you think i believe you no but i'm but the thing is is this is what comes down to this whole concept of trying to fucking when we're trying to convince people why they should do something this is the this is the fundamental problem with the whole concept it It's like, okay, if it's so much fun, if it's going to be so fucking awesome, you do it. I can actually say that as an example because what did I always say about threesomes? Before we ever did a threesome. Did you like that? No, before we ever did a threesome. I don't know what you i remember that far back i always said i'm old i always said that it was only it was only fair that before we did a threesome with another girl oh then i should do one with a guy they do that guy i'm straight i wanted nothing to do i wanted i didn't want another day but it's like at that time you didn't know you were into girls right so the thing is is you don't know you're into girls and and so it to me and i knew i wasn't into guys so the thing was it's like well the only way it would be fair is is before i asked you to do something completely uncomfortable maybe i should be willing to do something uncomfortable that's going to give you the better pleasure and the thing is
Speaker3:
I don't know
Speaker1:
I don't know
Speaker3:
I don't know
Speaker4:
I don't know
Speaker3:
I don't know
Speaker1:
I don't know
Speaker2:
I don't know
Speaker1:
I don't know
Speaker3:
I don't know
Speaker2:
I don't know
Speaker1:
I don't know I don like when it comes to things like gang bangs, I have no idea. What does it feel like? You've had sex with more than one guy in a night. Yeah, but it wasn't lined up. You have a chance to reprieve a little bit. But still, can it be too much? Can it be overwhelming? Well, yeah. Okay, and you talk about it all the time, and I'm baiting you. Be old and dry up. Well, I'm baiting you a little bit. I still dig threesomes. You're not a huge fan. Why are you not a huge fan of threesomes? Because it's too much work. It's too much work. I can't say it's too much work. It's just, it is, it's hard work to make sure everybody gets the same equal amount of attention. Right, right. And it just becomes... Well, and let's face it, guys, you don't have to be a rocket science to know that if you watch any amount of porn or you've ever seen it all, fuck your wife from behind and have her try to suck a dick at the same time. Yeah, or to have her try to make out with another girl or a guy at the same time.
Speaker2:
Yeah, it doesn't work.
Speaker1:
So the thing is, the philosophy with it, this is where there becomes a fundamental problem in the lifestyle. Okay, is that there are, it is too many guys what they want and part of what struck me with all this and we talked about you eating pussy twice this week now you like pussy you like girls you're you're 100 by you dig it but even when we had that conversation the first time why did you eat a girl out for the first time?
Speaker2:
For you.
Speaker1:
Did it for me. Now, please note, I didn't ask you to, but you knew that I always, you knew it was something I wanted to see.
Speaker2:
No, you didn't hound me or anything. I just knew you.
Speaker1:
But it wasn't because you were like, oh my God, I can't wait to just fucking give me a clit. The first one, one guy goes, why don't you eat her pussy and i just kind of went yeah i i mean if you were having trouble and she was a lawnmower i sure as fuck wasn't gonna go down there and lick it well and and she didn't nod that fucker right out yeah that's like cartoon corner but and and here's the thing we know now us you we see it every time we've you've talked about it for years and years ever since you have really you know you have as you've braced embraced your by side and everything else the you can always tell when another woman is bi or bi-curious or, by God, not interested but doing it for her husband, you can always tell because we'll get in the car and you'll be like, she's no more bi than the man on the fucking moon. And the thing is is that. And sometimes you don't have to be bi for me to eat your pussy right right you you can you can be a pillow princess sometimes i don't care if i'm in the mood i'll go i don't care if you reciprocate i just want to get you off when amanda gets drinking she likes things in her mouth clips her dick doesn't really matter that's why i was so hard getting her to quit smoking anyway i'm kidding and and under we understand when people will do that they'll try it for their spouse here here becomes the question honestly and it's it's something everybody has to answer amongst themselves how many of us as guys could honestly say that if if if we had no interest in guys okay so if you already knew you were bi or that you're homosexual take that out of the equation you you have no interest in guys how many of us if your wife or girlfriend that you first get started in the lifestyle you knew that she found it really hot to watch two guys go at it how many of us would have went and grabbed a dick and started sucking it because I'm going to go out on a limb here and I'm going to guess not very many of us no way in hell you'd do it nope and the thing is is now as people talk about it and whatever they said they want to whatever it's the same with pegging you know guys we all want every girl to fucking take it in the ass you know that's and there's jokes and memes and wrong hole and it's's all funny and whatever. Okay. Well, a lot of guys are pretty hesitant before they ever get pegged. And it's like, so really, kudos to all of the women that have taken and been willing to do something like that for their man Or for their significant other Okay But We need to do what's cool on the reverse side of that Which is You know I don't know Not try to figure out ways to fucking Bamboozle you Our significant others into doing other shit I mean I'm sorry I gotta ask this question What would you do if I surprised you Thank you. Our significant others Into doing others shit I mean I'm sorry I gotta ask this question What would you do If I surprised you I said we were going out We had plans And I surprised you With a room full of fucking dudes With steel killers I honestly don't know Would you go through with it? Because if it was, if you surprised me with a room full of them, I would feel bad about saying, uh-uh, it's not happening. So I would go ahead and take it, and then I would totally ream your ass and trust the car. It would damage the trust factor, I'm going to guess,otch a little bit yeah i wouldn't trust you if you were going somewhere look i put a book on her hand one time that was 30 years ago and she never pants to put her hand out without looking since then so i can only imagine but that that's the part so when all these people when you're asking the best way to get somebody To do a gangbang Is Or any Any sexual act Like that Let them come to the conclusion They want to Some people A lot of people decide On their own That they want to do it I have not gotten there Let me ask you this Because now I'm playing devil's advocate for people going okay would you would you be open to seeing one and no this is wait a minute let me back up here this is not a loaded question this is not like by the way just trying to see if i can sneak this in would you be open to if i said hey look these people havingbang. You know, they're all right if we come and watch.
Speaker2:
Oh, I'd do it in a heartbeat.
Speaker1:
Would you be open to that?
Speaker3:
Oh, yeah.
Speaker1:
I don't know how you're going to answer this. I think I do, but I know for sure. Now, the same scenario, only I don't tell you. I surprise you with that. How does that go over? I surprise you with walking in and, oh, hey, we're just going to sit here and watch this i i just made it so we could just sit and watch this hey you wouldn't do that but well i know i wouldn't but i'm trying to what what for people i would still sit there and watch it i don't have a problem watching but would you be i guess what i'm trying to go for is the question is would that still be would that damage the trust factor a little bit? Would it feel kind of like I was trying to sneak it, trying to like push the point? So you watch it and if she likes it, you're going to like it, right? Well, my thing is I have no problem. My thing is if you're being honest, go look. Let's go watch it so you can see what it's like live and in person.
Speaker3:
I've watched porn. Yeah, but that's not. And that's part of the problem is that's not realistic. Well, some of the stuff I watch. Well, no, but I mean, think about it.
Speaker1:
And this is part of the problem with gangbanks.
Speaker3:
Look, there was a group I got onto a long time ago. I don't know how I got into it.
Speaker1:
It was a gangbang group. But it was like there are different types of gangbanks. Now, I know what the official name but there's like rough sex like mean where they fucking super rough sex they write all over the woman it's a very degrading form of a gangbang right because i was like holy shit and then there's other gangbang that's that's sex it's not the degrading whatever my thing would be is i guess what i'm trying to get so people understand is even just like if you're willing to go watch one because you know what maybe when you do get to see one you know we all get to see the the porn version of shit but get to see a real one and then you can go okay this it'd be of cool, or it wouldn't be kind of cool. I mean, you know, whatever, but you've seen it live and in person. And it takes any stereotypes of, like, the degrading ones away type thing. If you have the choice, it's still not, like, a sneak attack. I guess the thing is, if you want to get somebody to do something you can't sneak attack them in anything right well i mean what kind of a fucking answer do you want no what i want is from your perspective i'm trying to show because i think guys we mean well but we go about in a way that actually hurts the very cause that we're trying to get to it can yeah because i think that honesty being honest being honest and communicating that i would i would love for you to have one okay i've been honest i've communicated that point that's one so there's no gray area there and and the honest communication about it and then how you go about either determine how you get to the point because it's ultimately your decision of determining yay or nay there are things i can do to help give you all the information to make the right decision for you or there's things i can do to make it sneaky and try to sucker you into it you know because look it uh don't hit the buttons on you're on the phone call yeah Now, here's the thing I can take and part of the reason I said that is even asking you to watch one okay I know how you are so heat of the moment you get if we're one you're watching it heat of the moment whatever and somebody she goes you want to fluff I can see you at which point in time and then next thing you know it kind of leads into it would you feel like that i suckered you into it that question is loaded just for those keeping score at home partially so so what okay so what suggestion because to me it'd be more you're just trying to convince me to do it okay so so because you're kind of good at convincing no i don't tell people that how do you think we got to swinging you just wanted me to shut the fuck up because i was young and stupid i'm just begging so and i regret that now but it's whatever you know i don't regret swinging but i got begging so what okay so from a woman's perspective what are some ideas you would have to if a guy really wants his significant other wife to do a gangbang or or or whatever what are some suggestions you would have from a woman's perspective perspective that would be a better way for them to go about versus trying to convince them i.e sell them on the concept well everybody's different there's some women that just want it but for those that don't and a guy suggested you move on with the answer there isn't going to be convincing or you're just selling him on it so what things can you do to make her change her? You're not because you're trying to sell her on it. Okay, so then the question becomes this. If he really, really wants to be a part of a gangbang, we're going to change tactics here for a second. We're going to change perspectives for a second. If he really wants to be a part of a gangbang, if I really want to be a part of a gangbang if i really want to be a part of a gangbang do you care i know the answer with us but but that's gonna be the other thing so is as a woman if you don't really want to be a part of one at all you have no interest in it and you know that your partner really really wants to be a part of one then maybe the conversation needs to drift to talking about talking about allowing him to be a part of one mean, one thing a guy could do is like, well, do you want to watch one? Right. Right. I mean, I don't know how many people you're going to let watch. Well, but if you feel like that's selling, then, okay, we got some great comments here. Larry, again, Pornhub is not a good reference about sex gangbangs compared to real life. Almost any guy will participate. But it's funny, guys, the wife will be comfortable with to do it. It's a huge stress factor.
Speaker3:
Absolutely.
Speaker1:
And I've heard a lot of times a lot of guys say they'll sign up to do it. And then when it comes time, we'll...
Speaker2:
Well, the one before that, Shannon had. That was pretty good.
Speaker1:
Okay, let me go up there. Okay, so you get her to do the gangbang. Now luck in getting everyone to participate You selected absolutely that We've heard a lot about that new class is too fucking I'm right I can't see shit tonight Um Mary would it make a difference if the woman gets to pick The men I think the woman should always get to pick The men well ask her what she Doesn't like about the idea of a gang bang oh yeah absolutely good one bath absolutely porn up is not a documentary okay that could be that that could be a shirt right there you mean the pub the outdoor sex one isn't real i mean they're in the woods and everything i swear to god i'm that's awesome uh you mean not everybody gets in a cab and takes off their pants and sucks dick i have no money well come on let's find a recluded place uh so okay but now here's the thing that you have to ask you have to answer this question you have to not be a man miss amanda right now because because our relationship is different i know that if i said i want if i want to go be abanger, let me know how it goes, you know, whatever. You might come to watch for shits and giggles, but if not, they're going to let any other woman in the room just in case somebody needs an extra fucking fluffer somewhere along the line. Not necessarily. They will. Guys will, trust me. Yes. Okay. But now, you have to answer this from the couple that only plays together, the couple that only, you know, not us now, way back yonder. At what point in time do you as the female have to be willing to adjust your rules a little bit if it's something really major that your male significant other or spouse wants to do do you see what i'm saying i kind of word of that stupid you did but i know what you mean if your husband really wants to do it and you have a rule against playing separate would they be allowed to do it would you let them do it if you really wanted to and it was a fantasy of yours and i could before we played separately right because i had a thing of i at least want to watch you with the female right before you played alone with them right um just for reactions i don't know why it's kind of silly right um or at least it's silly looking back at it now there's lot of things now um but back then as long as i could go and watch right then i i would be okay with it and then that would kind of give your eye and you know an eye opener well and and the reason i bring that up is the okay the what's wrong with the world is there's lack of communication and the thing is is that i think there's a there is a the reason why people are so busy trying to sell their spouses on things okay and you see this theme throughout the lifestyle continuously you can't women that are big into pegging are constantly i mean constantly constantly, trying to sell any guy they can to let them peg them. It's annoying as fuck. Take it from someone who knows. Okay? And every fucking guy that wants a gangbang is continuously trying to sell their significant other or their wife on a gangbang, and it's annoying as fuck. You know, I mean, and it's like that's where the rules become somewhat of a challenge because here's the deal. If it's a fantasy that you absolutely are not interested in doing and you're in a lifestyle which is basically disney world for adults right because that's what this is this is disney world for adults then you if you don't want to ride space fucking mountain that's fine don't write it but don't be a cunt or don't be a dick and not let him or her go ride space mountain just because you don't want to be willing to sit and watch him go have fun riding space mountain and then you go ride whatever and there has to become this happy medium shit with it and that's the part that becomes the big problem how how do we get to that point I went to I should have brought my fucking readers in
Speaker2:
God
Speaker1:
Oh shit problem how how do we get to that point or what to do or if he has a fantasy about doing something like that he might just have to wait until she's more comfortable right and that's fine as long as there's an end game somewhere in line maybe maybe not well not everybody gets their fantasies but here okay hold on we're gonna come i'm gonna come back to that right uh elizabeth i think it's a give and take i ex said he'd stay if i got a threesome with a woman that's choosing and me but acted like my effort wasn't enough even though he said it didn't make a difference as long as i like the woman or like woman and and they're and they're in life for the problem here's okay cool's gonna back up a little bit i'm gonna give people give people a preview. Okay. You ready for this? A preview. Oh, God. Okay. Here's the reality of why people swing. You hear people all the time say they're swinging because everybody's relationship is perfect and wonderful. No one swings for the wrong reasons Anyways Everybody is swinging to enhance their sex life That's a lie Their sex life or their life? They say it's to spice up our sex life To spice up the bedroom To enhance our sex life No it's not that's complete total bullshit here's the deal when you fuck your significant other do you get off did you enjoy it yep great you know what fucking other people is not going to make change if your sex is good or bad with your significant other if your wife or husband is a shitty fuck even if you go fuck somebody else they'll still be a shitty fuck that's how this works it's not magic it's not like well you know what you had somebody else's penis my dick got better it doesn't work that way same with your vag okay we know you're mad your vag is magical and there's a little bit difference there whatever no no you have to think about some couples that you know as soon as they even start thinking about it and talking about hooking up and even chatting with some of these people it turns them on between themselves it relights a spark and it's but it doesn't change the physical action of sex sex is a verb it doesn't change the physical action of sex what it changes is the emotion and the anticipation and the intimacy there's a difference no one gets in it to enhance their sex life they get in swinging to enhance the other factors around fucking your fucking gets better with your significant other 100 solely and exclusively because of what your mind tells you about the experience you had with somebody else reconnection sex is hot as fuck because it's reconnecting because you just got to go fuck somebody else and married people don't get to do that Thank you. Reconnection sex is hot as fuck because it's reconnecting because you just got to go fuck somebody else. And married people don't get to do that. That is what makes reconnection sex hot. When you're sitting there and you're turned on and you, like, when we were first in it, it's a Wednesday. We had a weekend. We hooked up. And also it's like, we got to go fuck now. Okay. It wasn't because you were thinking about, or I was thinking about fucking each other. We were thinking about what we had experienced that weekend that turned us on and we're excited to share with each other. So we're going to fuck each other. That's the reality of it. That's the part that everybody fucking misses in the grand scheme of shit it is 100 fantasy land folks if you're listening to this show right now and you did anything in the lifestyle this last weekend or you're going to do anything in the lifestyle next weekend you are you are excited about the anticipation of what's going to happen or you're excited about what you did whether it was you flirted with somebody else married people don't get to do that you know uh couples dating don't get to do that with other people or you made out with somebody that was exciting or you touched them they touched your dick you touched their pussy you finger banged they sucked your dick you fucked them whatever the case may be the activity or you're excited about what the potential is next week that is swinging so the reality of it is is that here's the deal when you are in the fantasy world and then you say to your significant other or partner here's the deal you can have fantasies up to x that's gonna be fine for a while until they hit x and it's a bug on a windshield
Speaker3:
I'll see you next time. up to x that's going to be fine for a while until they hit x and it's a bug on a windshield
Speaker1:
now here's the deal if that x spot that stop point is identical for both of you no problem it never is there is the there is the issue it never is why do rules change rules change because the the spots are not identical the comfort levels are not identical and here what happens you tell me not you we're just saying in general you the spouse a says your ex your stop spot is here. Awesome. But they're starting to find out their stop spot is way up here. Now somebody's feeling cheated. Now it's a fantasy. Now it's a denied fantasy. And then there becomes animosity. And then there becomes the sell job. That's the reality of it. So at some point in time, part of living out fantasies is you have to take and be willing to compromise within those fantasies you have to understand you have to understand other people's limitations and there has to be a degree of giving people a time to to get evened up but by the same token you have to be willing to at some point i'm admit you're not going to reach the same point. We have had an issue not that long ago where I bitched at you one time because your intentions were good. You were trying to get it because you knew that there was somebody I wanted to be. No, no, I'm not bashing. The intentions were good, but there's nothing you could do to get me to that level that had to be up here. And we're the same as every other couple I don't know. The intentions were good, but there's nothing you could do to get me to that level that had to be up here. And we're the same as every other couple out there. But you have to know that. And you have to understand that at some point in time you have to go, wait a minute. If you've been in this fantasy world for two years, five years, ten years, whatever, and you cannot, if you still every single time somebody walks out that door or goes to do anything or kisses somebody else or touches somebody else, you have this overwhelming fear that you're going to lose them forever. You need to get out. It's not worth it. It's a fantasy land. Don't worry. Monday comes. You have to to go back to reality and primarily people will come back to reality unless they're forced to feel like they have to find their fantasies on the sly and on the dl and that's where the problem comes in that's where if when you folks when you are to the point you are selling an activity to your significant other, you need to re-examine it. And when you're at a point where your significant other is selling you stuff, you need to re-look at it as well. You got some more for you on me to read. Okay, some fantasy couples talk about should stay as fantasy. Living them out can create problems if it's something that that the significant other really wants to do didn't want to do that can be very true i will 100 agree with that you have to be willing to talk about because sometimes your fantasy you can't see all the pitfalls with it that your significant other can sees it different but that's where the communication has to be and the explanation and the same love language to understand to make them understand why. That it's not you're being a dick or a bitch. This is the concern factor. Go ahead. It increases the amount slash frequency and enhances sex. You can learn different techniques from lifestyle playmates, which can enhance your at-home playtime. Yes, absolutely. Because you discover new things that you never did before. And sometimes what you discover is your voice. Or you discover the actual courage to try something and the other one didn't want to do it. Yeah, yeah. You find the courage to try. Any fantasy, there's pluses or negatives with anything, right? We know that. It's still the key. Just because you find your voice, that's not the physical sex. That's growth in your relationship. So in a grand scheme of things, what they're saying, they're exactly right.
Speaker3:
Obviously, if you find a better way to suck a dick, eat a pussy, fuck, different position,
Speaker1:
whatever, that's finding a different, you could find that in a book, but it wouldn't be the same. But when you find your voice, when you find the ability to lay in bed with each other and go so here's the deal i know this is gonna sound weird but i really want to put my hand over your mouth when we do this that's growth in your relationship it just is it's manifested through the actual act the irony of it is as you look at that which is probably seven, eight years ago when I finally found that voice, the courage to say that, to go, why didn't I find that our relationship was strong enough, I should have been able to find that years and years before. But I get it, if that makes sense. Did you say you weren't listening to what I said?
Speaker3:
Halfway. Oh, God. That's not the new you know that. What if other couples are trying to sell their fantasy to others and they don't seem to understand that those people that they are trying to sell it to just aren't interested no matter how hard they try to sell it, then tell them to stop it. Honestly, yeah. It's not going to happen no matter how hard you try it is usually what my comment will be yeah i think i've said that to you well you've actually said to somebody before the more you try to sell me on it the less chance of me doing it yeah be sometimes there's nothing wrong to call and go and you can do it in a jokes format and go okay great look you know you're not gonna sell me to sell me on this. No, I'm not buying what you're selling. Call them out on it. And you can do it in a nice way because there again, when you're trying to fucking sell it, there's the problem. And I'm sorry, you may have somebody that's butthurt about that. You may have somebody that gets pissed off and is like, well, I can't believe they said it. Well, tell fucking shit if they can't believe you said it or not. It's true. Stop it. It's just like people asking you to peg you. Oh, my fucking God. And they keep trying and keep trying. Well, we don't have to want to get down to saying, here's a medical reason why it's not happening. No shit. No, it's just let it go at no. Yeah, and i have gotten snippy with chicks that i wanted to fuck that ended up i would not fuck them because they would not let the whole pegging thing drop and i was like you know what i never said it to them i just quit showing them any attention at which point i just walked away that's a really easy way you want to know if i'm not not interested? I'll walk away. I have no problem with that. And it's like, you know what? Even if you try to joke about it, I've been in sales my whole life. I can sell anything. You're not going to pull one over on me and act like I didn't, oh, you didn't even know I was selling you. Crack jokes all you want. If you think you're going to get me naked and crack jokes about pegging, good with that not gonna happen uh larry had a great comment which is uh which is why communication is the utmost important thing between you and your spouse in the lifestyle it really is finding your voice finding your voice is incredibly empowering it's incredibly sexy. It incredibly uh it just it's just amazing it is is is there's no other ways to put it no hookup we've ever had no sex that i've ever had with anybody else has felt the same as when i finally had the courage to ask you to put let me put my hand over your mouth and you're like okay nothing compares to that nothing uh mike remove your finger from her ass before i remove it uh from your hand is not the proper response no but that's really funny i like that look it's just one of those things you know as this shit goes on the more you're willing to to communicate and be honest with yourself be honest with each other you know and just fucking get a grip on shit you'll be amazed at how much more exciting the lifestyle will be and events will be and everything around you will be and how much more shit will fall right into place you know and the thing is is okay both parties have to understand because i got to wrap this up both parties have to understand nothing necessarily happens overnight no so you can't expect her to go to be willing to change all the rules so you can go live out your fantasy overnight you can't expect him to be willing to give it up overnight it takes communication it takes understanding it takes a lot of those things that's part of it that part doesn't change but there's a huge difference between talking communicating and selling learn it yeah learn it you'll be really really glad, with that being said, we've got to give another quick shout-out to our sponsors, ASN Lifestyle Magazine, Smart Swingers Reads. Don't forget to vote for us.
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