Send us Fan MailThis week the title says it all! We talk about a couple that is dealing the ending of a relationship with another couple. How to handle it, how to deal with the situation when one of the couples is being petty and vindictive. This week we also talk about the concept of drama at events, (The Grow up part). Why it sucks and how stupid it looks. What you should do when faced with it. Finally we talk about having some common sense and acting it ( Fucking up) Some of the shit we have seen at just the last couple events is horrible and has no place in the lifestyle. WE HOLD NOTHING BACK. This is the show to hear the truth. Listen and learn see if you have seen some of the same things we have. If you are truly in the lifestyle then this is the show to hear! Want to hear the rest of our shows? Go to www.buzzsprout.com/181336Visit our paid sponsors:Visit Promescent for all your sexual wellness needs and save 15% automatically at checkout by using this link: https://bit.ly/3fkn7CU https://bit.ly/3m7Frn2 (www.Promescent.com) http://www.smokinmeatsbbqtreats.com http://www.asnlifestylemagazine.com http://www.fullswapshop.com http://www.forbidden-omaha.comVisit us at http://www.fullswapradio.comVisit us at : http://www.krazykasbh.comYouTube : http://www.youtube.com/KasbhSend us emails at [email protected]: @TruthKrazyInstagram http://www.instagram.com/Krazy_Kasbh/Support the show
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hey kids the program you're about to listen to contains some adult situations adult language themes and other adult topics if you're easily offended this show's not for you hey you crazy motherfuckers welcome back to another edition of crazy truth you know what i'm your host with the most and a fucking booger problem i'm cole and i'm here with the lovely lovely and back from her broom ride Miss Amanda fuckers welcome back to another edition of crazy truth you know what i'm your host with the most and a fucking booger problem i'm cole i'm here with the lovely lovely and back from her broom ride miss amanda you're a dick hey we're here to channel eight and fucking entertain your asses that's what we do how do you do my name is sue there you go just send that out there yes well but if you don't know that reference, then damn it.
I actually know that one. Good. Okay, so here's the deal. We're going to get into the meat and potatoes. Why? Because I'm Midwestern. I like meat, and I like taters. Taters. So let's do the important stuff before I forget, shall we? This is season four. Hard to fucking believe. Four years people have been putting up with our bullshit. Kind of like it's hard to believe you've been putting up with mine for 28. Anyways, season four, episode 181. It's 30, but we've been married almost 28. Yeah, I know. Thanks. It's season 181. And, and, wait, there's more. What? What? Huh? What? Where? What? Okay.
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And we're going to talk more about AS lifestyle magazine just a bit because we got some cool shit anywho check them out today three million swingers can't be wrong they might be but there's more of them than us so we're going to say they're not there you go asnlifestylemagazine.com actually our good buddy our our friend who is uh at asn is going to buy usx toy when are we going to shove a cooter that he can control from his secret location and randomly buzz you during shows or random activities during life shows. Yep. He'll probably do it at work, too.
Basically, you're going to have to just put it in there and leave it there. I'm not going to wear something that's going to make a noise every time sitting at work. There'd be nothing better than being in a meeting with your boss. It is really quiet at work, and I'd hate to hear the shh, and you're like, oh, man. Why, that's Amanda's going to fucking bopping down this chair. Yeah, no, we're not going with it. Hey, wait, wait, whoa. Somebody slipped. I wonder why Amanda's in the hallway. Leaving a trail. Anyways, so check them out. Like, come. Wet spot.
You're going to have to get you a little sign that we carry with you. That says, slippery when wet. So put it outside your cube. That'd be funny as fuck. No one would know what to think of that either. Because it's carpeting. So that would be fucking hilarious. Just listen for the vibrate and put up the sign. And somebody would be like, wait a minute. She gasps really loud.
She puts up a slippery one white sign huh i'll be damned because that would do so much good with me well no we'll use a squirt bottle no one has no it was like a cat that's how we train you anyways so uh this is our show this is our party this is our event this is what So, okay, so, what do we need to talk about? What's important should we talk about? We had Halloween, we'll get to that in a minute. My hair looks good, I like that. And we'll talk about the dog in a minute. But we need to talk about, so many of you, you followed along, you voted, we are fucking tickled pink.
Not just a little tickled, tickled pink, because we are happy to be able to announce that we came, we saw, and the Army kicked ass and took fucking names, and we kicked ass at the ASN Lifestyle Magazine Awards. We did. We were nominated, we had the most nominations between, we were nominated for two for the show three to get ready for it I feel like a shot two for the show uh uh We had the most nominations between, we were nominated for two for the show, three to get ready, four to get a shot, two for the show, three for full swaps, full swap shop, and one for Crazy Winter Nights.
And the thing is, so we came in, well, but a lot of people were listening. For those that don't know, just tune in, we also do this in front of our live, live studio audience. Cass Bank, it's secret. Shh, don't tell the others. But for everybody just listening and tuning in for the first time. So, here's the thing. So, we came, we saw. We actually ended up, we won for best online retailer with Full Swap Shop. And best supporting lifestyle business, Full Swap Shop. And fucking happy as shit, not once, but twice. That's right, twice. So a big suck it.
Crazy Winter Nights kicked ass and took name for the Best Trade Show Expo Event. Lifestyle Event, two fucking years in a row. In a row. Fuck yeah. We came, we saw, we took out the biggest and the best. And we've done it twice now. So that is fucking kick-ass. It's exciting because we're getting ready to do the next Crazy Winter Nights coming up. And we're showing people in the Midwest, you know what? You want to come to a kick-ass event? Where do you go? Go to the best in the Midwest. There you go. See how that kind of rhymed? Yeah, I did. I didn't plan that. I didn't figure as much.
I just let that flow off my tongue. That usually happens. I'm like an older Eminem. A lot of things flow off your tongue. Like that? Oh, wait. Fucking gross. Oh, wait. Oh, what? Let me get a piece of paper and wipe that out. Okay, there we go. For those of you just following on, I'm going to spit on myself for fun. Anyways, all right. This is kind of shit that makes...
This is TV magic magic right here uh so anyway so we're super excited no and in all seriousness a huge shout out to all of you guys that voted for us nominated us vote us for voted for us we wouldn't have these awards if it wasn't for you guys and we appreciate it very very much thank you to asn uh for putting on the awards we're super excited i talked to them the other day the awards are in the mail so we should have any day so they will be up in the studio we cannot wait to have them on display so we're pretty excited about that chick so look at that checking shit off what else should we talk about wow so yesterday dipshit who goes get your broom okay what i want you to do is like act like you're writing it and like go running across the sidewalk now here's what's really important because for those of you don't know we're recording we're recording this the day after thanks or no the day after halloween and uh thanksgiving and we live right in front of a major street so it's dark but not too dark because you can see this on our facebook dark but not too dark and she did it and I recorded it And all I can do is I'm still Now he goes okay I'll tell you when to go I said no I'm waiting for all the cars to stop moving The thing that made it so awesome was that you waved As you were hopping by on your broom You waved And you can hear me laughing And I keep watching that motherfucker And he still laughs 24 hours and it's fucking hilarious I don i i'm like oh that was the dumbest thing ever but it is fucking why is that box coming up it is the greatest thing i fucking loved it it is awesome uh i was trying it wouldn't let me put it on twitter and i wanted to get it on twitter so i'm going to work on getting if anybody now now wait a minute if any of you guys listening know how to get it on twitter let me know we'll get That fucker will go viral That is a meme waiting to fucking happen How do you listening know how to get it on Twitter Let me know and we'll get it on Twitter That fucker will go viral That is a meme waiting to fucking happen It keeps saying you have to do it some other way You have to like load it through some Twitter program Or secret fucking handshake Stroke me off or some shit I don't know I'm not real tech savvy It's hard to believe I run the internet department You do it on your phone I put that little video on mine Well good then maybe you can put it on twitter oh yeah well that's because it works with apple and it says that use an iphone or an apple shit it's fucking this apple crap fucking voodoo fucking bitch so you're not in with it no i'm not i'm fucking darn it i can't help you i stand my own bitches uh yeah whatever so you can put it in for me later see leah loved it we loved every shannon loved everybody loved it everybody loved your video it was cute no and you didn't even have your hat that's what's disappointing i know i left it at work actually i didn't leave it at work it was in the bedroom i didn't realize it no you really you just no actually i didn't i thought i left it well we could recreate it tonight no which is our which is year round no are you sure yeah really you didn't drown last night you didn't get set on fire no damn it okay that's all right So,-round.
No. Are you sure? Yeah. Really? You didn't drown last night. You didn't get set on fire. No. Damn it. Okay. That's all right. So, all right. No. That's fucking fun. So, okay. So, yeah. So, that's pretty cool. So, tonight, I got all kinds of shit. So, the awards, I was checking this one. I was going to check off. Did you ever actually write stuff up there? Yes. If you'd read the teleprompter, 181 is up there. I got you. See that? Gotcha. Okay, wow. Wow, I thought you'd have gotten tired of doing that. Wow. No, because I've not bought a teleprompter yet, so I'm still all over it.
At Crazy Winter Nights, we're going to use cue cards. It will be awesome. Oh, my God. We'll do a cue card. We'll do a cue card.
Anyways, so I think the order that we're going to do this nights we're going to use cue cards it will be awesome oh my god we'll do a cue card we'll do a cue card anyways uh so i think the order that we're going to do this is we're going to we're going to i'm going to save my tirade because i got a tirade tonight oh boy we're going to do that second so i want to start with so i have had some people reach out to me uh the past couple days actually and because they needed some help and they asked me if i would be willing to talk about this on the air and i was like well hold on let me think about it sure and i said happy to you so here is the backstory okay the backstory is simply this why are your eyes getting all big because you're like what the fuck what's he gonna say nothing What's he what's he talking about what's he thinking i'm like one nothing's gonna get sued well god i hope this time i mean i don't know so here's the thing so they were in a situation they were exclusive with another couple there were one couple exclusive with another couple so if you're doing the math that's a quad okay and yeah no shit so what ended up happening then is the quad started off well as all it ran its normal when a normal relationship runs its lifespan right okay so it runs it and we know with think about any relationship it starts off awesome it starts off new and kind of exciting goes to super awesome everything's great and that goes and usually when it ends most of them end kind of shitty not just i'm not talking quads just relationships as a general they can not all not not all but a lot of them you don't hear a lot of people there are people that are still really good friends with exes and whatever but there's tension you.
You have grown apart. You've changed as people. Ta-da. Okay? So the problem where they're at, the problem they're having is they're in a smaller community. And they had a great relationship at one time with the squad. They kind of grew their separate ways. They wanted to end it. The other couple was not as hepped to end it as they were. And now there's hurt feelings. Imagine that. There's bitterness. Imagine that. And you've got one group of couples talking shit about the other group of couple, the other couple. And they're both interested in this third couple. Now it would be a centipede.
And now, no. So now they're both interested in this other couple. And you have one side talking shit. And the new couple doesn't know who to believe or what to believe and they and so what the question was drama what yes what the question was was do they a ignore it b you know an eye for and I return and act exactly the same way back that they're being treated, or C, just basically try to plead their case but keep it positive in pleading their case. And I was struck by this because here's the thing.
This is like the third or fourth triad or quad, and you see a lot with quads that i've heard about this this kind of stuff happening okay and i saw i'm like yeah we can talk about because i think it's it's the reality is it's a current part of the lifestyle and party season i believe takes and makes relationships that have ended it magnifies it because everybody's back out on the prowl what was it an individual thing and nobody had events now you're back out on the prowl you're gonna there's a chance you're gonna run into each other or be at the same events if you live in a similar area you might be interested in the same people and here we have the shit that we have now which is drama and drama takes and uh it's just it is just absolutely it's frustrating for people involved it's frustrating for other people not involved and so this couple was legitimately asking they're trying to do the right thing but they're hurt okay so the challenge we have with this is look the joy of the lifestyle when we first started was that you weren't looking for other relationships i understand that's different for everybody and it's even more different now than it was in the past we even turned some couple couples down that wanted just exclusive yeah but because back then we that's not what we thought it was now we're look we are not bashing judging if that's what you're into it has changed a lot there is a bigger rush it seems like to get in to quads and poly relationships and again we're not ripping on poly or anything else but it it's a different it's a different monster okay so and right off that way people might say take the high road and this is and so what i said to him was yes just that take the high road that when they're when.
That when a relationship ends and there's hurt feelings, or there's not even hurt feelings, there's raw emotion, okay? There's raw emotions. There's exposed nerves. Things that are not supposed to be negative can be perceived as negative. Right.
Things that are not supposed to be hurtful can be perceived as hurtful and and in the end you're not going to change somebody's mind you trying to set the record straight does not it's not going to make the pain stop or make shit stop it just won't no it just fucking won't so here's my thing when when the question okay i'm gonna ask some of my live audiences for once i'm gonna ask you guys straight up a question when you start to get in a relationship you're getting the feels it happens you're getting feelings what do you do if that wasn't your plan because the other thing that i hear very common with this is we didn't intend to get in a relationship but it fucking happened Thank you.
Thank you. Bye-bye. wasn't your plan because the other thing that i hear very common with this is we didn't intend to get in a relationship but it fucking happened hello what the fuck are you fucking high somebody asked me if i was high are you high you're like staring me like stoned immaculate holy shit no do you want my sunglasses for a little while or what how's this gonna to work Have an extra pair You look sexy on Put these on Come on put them on I'm fine I don't do anything Wow That was helpful Say, what's the actual question? What would you do if you got feelings?
It's more just an opinion, I guess, more than anything else. What would you tell them they should do? The other couple? Wow. The other couple? Well, you would just... I was just babbling, I know. No, your words are really fucked up in my head lately. And that's what makes our marriage strong. So I just don't respond a lot. Feel free to jump in with anything on this one. That'll be great. No. Okay. So on this one, the new couple has to get their own opinion. We're not to the new couple yet. Right. Okay. Sorry. All right. No, go ahead. Sorry. Okay.
You said, what would you do in a situation like this? Yes, my bad. My bad. All right. I'll fuck off. No. So what it is is that you don't bash the other couple. Don't talk shit. And the new couple will see the other couple for what it is.
but okay yeah i agree but would you say is the new couple necessarily wrong or they just hurt the new couple no no i'm sorry fuck now you got me doing no not the new couple is the shit talking couple are they actually being vindictive or are they just hurt well first real quick shannon said it's going to take the c word communication exactly uh travis that's what happened to miss corby and i we're not looking for a relationship when we met at a lifestyle party but it just happened that's why we don't look for dating outside our relationship very good point so so now my question though is this the couple talking shit are they are they actually being vindictive or are they just hurt probably both okay okay i but which do you think is the predominant thing here predominant they're being vindictive so they but they're but they're acting out and hurt see okay so to me it's hurt versus more being thanive.
Look, we have been the fucking target of vindictive. No, well, you can be hurt, but not have to just totally bash the other couple. Okay, you're right, but isn't it easy to go from telling a story or telling your opinion to it turning into a just fucking hammer on their fist, hammering on them. I'm guilty of this. This is why I say this, where I'm like, start off, look, I'm just trying to tell what the facts are. And then pretty soon I start getting riled up and I start sweating and my hands start flailing around. Next time I know I'm calling him a motherfucker.
And we went from just giving the facts to I'm fucking actually just bashing the shit out of him Shannon says they're going to hurt the other couple because they're hurt which is a good point I think along with what you're saying I look at it okay so it's not a hurt thing but there was one couple we wanted to hook up with at one point a long time ago okay and but the couple was interested in somebody we had previously hooked up with we didn't care or at least i didn't care for the male half right and for some reason the female half was never into it whatever so it was a bad scenario right yes the female came up to me and go well you've hooked've hooked up with them.
What is it like? Well, A, I never told you I hooked up with them, but thanks. And I went, well, you know, it was a good time. You choose this story a lot. Huh? You use this story a lot. No, I don't. Okay, go ahead. Do I? Yes. No, I don't. Yes, you do. Okay, well, it works here, doesn't it? I don't know. Let's see how you end it this time. Probably. Go ahead. I said it was a good time. Right. Because I'm not going to bash and say, oh, my God, unless you like dirty talking, unless you like him talking to his girlfriend the entire time. It's really going to be a horrible experience.
And then afterwards. And then after they hooked up, she's like, how come he didn't tell me he was like that? I'm like, everybody has their own opinion. I didn't know if you like that kind of thing. I could have bashed the guy. You could have, yes. And I could have bashed the girl. Yeah, you could have, yes. Just to get with the couple that we wanted to get hooked up with in the first place. Yes, you could have. Right. Did that not fall in there? Yes. Yes. Ish. Ish, but we weren't in a long-term relationship with them. No.
Mike says, assuming the shit-talking couple are the ones who are dumped, if so, assuming hurt and not handling it well. Very true. And you're right, but I think it's a different ballgame when you are talking about a relationship that ends. Okay. Well, the only reason I said... The emotions are different. There's a different... Should be a different set of emotion. Look, if you get all fucking emotional after one time hooking up, you have a whole different set of problems.
Like, you should be able to fuck and not get hooked up and be like, no, don't look at me like that because I know what you're thinking. My infatuation what I'm thinking. I'm just like, just spacey. My infatuation doesn't count. That's pre-hooking up. That's a totally different issue. That's a different show completely. Yeah, just a little bit. The thing is, is that... If it were me and we were like in a relationship with somebody and they showed in their hurt and were bashing or whatever to this other couple, I would not have any interest in that other couple.
Even if I was interested to begin with, if they were like talking to him, I would just go no. But okay. Until they came to me. Okay.
So, okay, we'll expand from that why because i mean that could seem like it could seem like you're punishing the new couple that's done nothing wrong no god how do i explain i don't know fuck i don't know how to explain myself it's not no i mean i i get it but here's the other part of this scenario is the fact that the new couple because i'm not going to get involved and if they're bashing us to this other couple they're going to have to see them for who they are and know that they're going to end up being the ones being bashed right and i agree with you and that's one of the things they said was how do you deal with the new new couple?
Because the new couple can't decide. And my thing was, well... But I wouldn't make them choose. At that point in time, until they figure it out, there's nothing you can do. But by the same token, I'm not going to shy away from the new couple just because of something... I'm not going to go up and go, whatever they said is wrong. To me, this is like selling cars.
Okay, so if you're telling me, if I'm selling Chry's and you're you're looking at fords and chrysler's or whatever we'll say dodge and chrysler's because or dodge and fords is better that way i'm not gonna bash ford i'm just gonna tell you what i have to offer it's the same thing in that situation look if you can't decide if you can't decide as the new couple who you believe then this probably is going to work and i i I, I agree with him on that part of it, but I'm not going to, I'm not going to take in what I will let the other couple win quote unquote, because I won't, I won't engage, I won't engage in the petty bullshit, what I'm saying, but I'm not going to let them win in terms of causing me To not pursue other people.
Now, if that new couple is idiots and they can't, and they're like, well, we just don't know, and so we don't know who to believe. Well, then that's the inherent. I can't make you believe anything. I mean, you can tell your side, but I don't know if it's necessary to bring other people into your drama. Yeah, I agree with that.
off just to say you know what it was a relationship that we got way too close emotionally and it didn't end very well we okay we were almost identical to what we said there because what i told them to say what my line was is that you know we had we were in a really uh in a relationship it was extremely emotionally charged unfortunately like a lot of relationships it didn't work out but we had a lot of great times and take the high road now understand as I'm sitting here saying that taking the high road is a motherfucker biting your tongue is a motherfucker I mean it is what it is but it's just you know it's one of those things where that was my big point to them too was to avoid avoid bringing avoid putting the new couple in the middle I'm going to show is what I'm trying something that when drama happens whether it's between if you and i are fighting at a party or or us another couple or other whatever this is where drama at events is so bad because here's the deal it's not fair to bring other people's crap other people into your crap don't don't you don't shit where you eat don't walk over and shit on somebody else's plate either you know for no reason uh charles says 100 agree but every couple i feel has drama agreeing with mike oh because it's more about poly relationship if the other if the third couple if they're just wanting just a hookup then they're little they shouldn't have to decide no then well there's that but you shouldn't bring the emotional drama into a swinger event right no yeah you're you guys are you're exactly right it should just be a hookup and if it was good rock on if it sucked see you later and and rachel but we try to avoid drama and here's the thing this is part of why i want to bring this up it's party season this ties into the second half we're going to talk about today too we all want to avoid drama you're exactly right rachel we all want to avoid drama the problem is or the challenge is is that we all have to be diligent drama has a way of sneaking up on people okay you're sitting there you're talking with a couple it's all cool and then all of a sudden out of the boom blue bam all of a sudden there's two couples bitching about each other, and you're in the middle of this drama thing.
You have to be on, you have to know it's coming, or you have to recognize or be aware of the signs. And the biggest thing is you have to be able to exit that fucking area ASAP.
The worst thing you can do is stay involved in it, which means standing standing there when the drama starts if you stand there you're enabling it it's like it's like listening to somebody gossip you're just as bad by letting them by being the receptor the uh the receptor to their to their shit and it's the same with drama and the thing is exactly talk to you later you know you you have to you have to exit stage left and and you have to do it and when they oh no no you don't need to go we're good or just walk away whatever but if you stay there even if you don't interject i'm telling you this if you watch most people talk when they're in conversation with somebody else, do it at the mall, do it at the grocery store, do it at your job, do it at a swinger event.
Watch two people have a conversation. You don't have to hear a single thing they say to understand where this conversation is probably going. How, where, where is it at? Because you know what? You can, it's animated.
And if, and so if you if you're just standing there you're innocently standing there you don't walk away and people are doing that people go well they were part of that drama conversation too uh oh my god just tuning in and saw at least three couples arguing the hallways at a party saturday night yep exactly exactly and and matthew uh guilt by association exactly if you're standing there especially here's the other thing you find people that are drama tend to be drama continuously or they're batshit crazy or they're you know but people know that and the thing is is that when you're standing there you are guilt by association we talked about this before and i will continue to hammer this point in you are absolutely who you associate with makes a fucking difference so the concept of we just don't make a stand in life doesn't apply because you you're part of the fucking bullshit and my question to amy would be is when you saw those three couples arguing was it hot i mean i know what i know amy was gonna fuck no it wasn't hot you know you didn't people go oh hey when they get done arguing let's go see if they want to fuck that's not how this plays out stay the fuck away from that shit you know and that's the thing so with party season in full force and this is like party season number one, first time ever, again, it seems like.
We'll talk about that in a minute. It is, these sorts of drama type shit is a bigger deal, okay? And party event planners are watching for it, okay? And we're going to talk about that right after you're down at the break. Because it's halftime, I think. Damn! Right on. Hey, are you looking for something fun to do? Are you looking for some place where you can meet people from all over the country? Have a drink? Get to know someone? Or maybe a little bit more? Do you want more than just a frat party, but something classy and sexy? Dress up, look your best.
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It's a lot of fun. That was interesting. Mm-hmm. To say the least. Wow. You talk fast. I sure do. Micro commercials. Micro commercials. Yeah. Think back to that. Okay. So, back to the second half. So, here. Okay. Let's talk about party season. Wait a minute.
a minute we're gonna answer more quick am i not correct that every couple eventually has drama it's up to them to keep it out of the lifestyle in the public general uh travis you're exactly right i look every couple's gonna fight every couple's gonna have times that there's miscommunications every couple's gonna have time that maybe you just weren't on the same page. It happens. It's called life, right? And yes, you are dead on. It is your responsibility.
If you're mature enough to go to a swinger event and be swingers to realize that you're acting like children and leave the premises, leave the playground, take your ball in my case, or balls and go home, but don't home. Or go back to your room. But do it in private. There's nothing wrong with being human, but there is something wrong with taking and dragging other people into it. So let's talk about behavior at parties, shall we? Oh, boy. Some of you have heard my rant already. You know what?
know what this is a continuation of because it's goddamn important number one people that didn't listen to your rant yeah you're gonna here's here's i haven't listened to it i know what it's about but here's the thing i said when the pandemic first started yeah i called it i said on this show on this fucking show i said you watch when this pandemic's over and the parties go back up people are going to be acting like fucking retards like they've never been out and don't know how to behave in public and we're gonna have to retrain people all over again that the degree of stupid was going to escalate to a level that we had not seen in the lifestyle and and most of us that are currently in the lifestyle maybe maybe some of it's like 20 30 years whatever but most of us have never seen this kind of fucking idiotic crap and lo and fucking behold horribly disappointedly i was completely correct look it is bad enough that we have to continue to remind people and talk to people about things like consent no means no keep your fucking hands off of other people look with your eyes not your fucking hands it's retarded it's stupid it's asinine that we have to continuously recover the same thing it's stupid that has to be in life okay but in the lifestyle this is beyond stupid but we have seen recently a whole new level of fucking what the fuck at parties i'm gonna start with this first because i am everybody knows there is no motherfucker in the world that likes to have fun more fun than i do i like to drink i like to get loud i like to laugh i like to get crazy i like to get to do all those fun things.
And I will go longer and harder than 99% of the people out there. Right? But I'm going to tell you right now. And at my events, I want people to have that kind of fun.
But I promise you, you come to one of my fucking events and pull the happy bullshit, like some of the shit that I've been seeing, you won't have to worry about ever going to another event again because not only will i boot your fucking ass straight the fuck out and ban your ass and blast your name to every fucking group i know possibly on the air even i'll have your ass fucking arrested I don't fucking care because the shit that has went on is so fucking stupid. It's mind numbing. It's absolutely mind numbing. Let me put this question out to you. You're at a public place. It's a hotel.
There's a public pool with a public hot tub and there's vanillas there under age vanillas that would be kids for those who haven't figured that out yet would it be appropriate to take a sex toy to that area for one and number two use that sex toy in front of front of, would it be appropriate to use it in front of adults, vanillas, let alone kids? That not only is fucking stupid and rude and disrespectful and everything else, it is criminal.
It is fucking criminal fucking criminal people if you have not figured this out yet if you walk out into the street or go into walmart and whip down your pants and start jacking off and watch what happens no one's gonna laugh and giggle no well they might until the cops get there it's not gonna be funny it's not gonna well was just a joke. I was just kidding around. That's not what's going to happen. That's public indecency. In front of kids, it's a sex crime. And we all go, well, no one would do that if you were sane, unless you had some mental issues.
There's no reason you would do that right but we saw it at a party well we didn't see it we didn't see it we heard about it it happened at a party said something if we damn right i would have we we never went to the pool area we believe and support the concept of voyeurism we have crazy summer nights is at we put on an event at a clothing optional campground we believe and support voyeurism 100 you cannot walk naked Thank you. on an event at a clothing optional campground. We believe and support voyeurism 100%. You cannot walk naked in public. It's illegal.
If you stand in your house, if you go to your window in your house during the day, open the curtains up and stand there fucking butt naked, the police can come and you can be arrested and ticketed so why would you go to a hotel and stand in the windows and fuck or stand in the windows and take nude pictures because it's funny and it's cute besides just making a complete and total ass of yourself, and besides being a complete and total piece of shit for doing it, from a standpoint of people that put on events, to get hotels to let us come in and put these kind of events on, for people like us, our type of people, swingers, dirty swingers, it is a constant challenge to find places to take that will allow us to come in and then when you when when this kind of shit happens and people go and report it to the front desk that gets to hotel managers who come back to the party people and go what the fuck it is asinine it's common sense it's criminal it's not funny it's not cute it's not okay do you understand the concept a hotel a place of business has the right to walk.
They could have walked in at any one of those incidences and kicked everybody out that was part of that party with no refunds because the rooms were in blocks just like I do my hotels. Kicked everybody out and said there is no party. Oh, wait, do you want to be that person? Do you want to be the person that just had an event on the news Thank you.
oh wait do you want to be that person do you want to be the person that just had an event on the news because here's the thing let me tell you what the press is going to say the press isn't going to say and the newspaper in the small town or the big town or anywhere else is not going to say that a party there were some unruly adults that were engaging in inappropriate behavior, was eliminated at a hotel. What it's going to say is, sex party was busted. Would you like to have your picture outside on the paper for the sex party? Or maybe you'd like to have your name. Because you know what?
You think the fucking kid making $18 an hour as a front desk clerk for the opportunity to make $500 if a guy pays him enough wouldn't take and blast your names all over the place you're high not to mention you can take and ruin a party that has been in a location for years and the thing is is i understand i i i understand that we're back out and it's new and it's fresh and we have to remember what it is. But, oh my God. Travis says, if it's a complete hotel takeover like it was this weekend, it's okay as long as there is no vanilla. But if it's a partial takeover, keep it behind closed doors.
You're correct.
The party promoters should tell you what the rules are so i'll give you a perfect example crazy winter nights will be most likely will be a full hotel takeover there won't be any nudity allowed in the halls the hotel is not okay with that look there's what you do in your room is what you do in your room and and the thing is is that you know it well and kurt just has it kurt put a great point been to a lifestyle party in omaha years ago where the hotel didn't make good decisions hockey moms next to swingers need to say police are called and then people were still stupid exactly we were there we didn't stay the night no but yeah and we were at that party the thing is is that here's the deal you're counting on a hotel that's a business to make the right decisions.
And then you're counting on people to make the right decisions. And look, I'm hard. I am harsh as fuck on party promoters. Because I believe party promoters have a certain responsibility. I hold myself to those responsibilities. I'm not perfect. We have things that every party we can improve upon, right? But we hold ourselves to a high standard. And I'm a, I'm fucking dickhead hard on party promoters when they don't, when they fuck shit up. I'm not, this is, this is talking about a participant problem. This is not a party promoter problem.
Even with the best security in the world, you can't fucking be everywhere. But this comes back to that whole thing where i was talking about uh standing there and saying nothing look you you if if if you see that same thing happening okay you see the person granted the the fucking dildo in the pool is so extreme that I probably would have taken it and she would have found it. She could have a deep throat because I'd have shoved it right down her fucking throat. But that's an extreme example.
But if you see it and you encourage it, and by encouraging I mean it's like when you're in grade school and one kid's picking on another one in the middle and you're laughing, you're encouraging it. If you encourage the behavior, if you don't go, hey, wait a minute, knock it off. What the fuck are you doing? Think about this. You're just as guilty. You're just as guilty. Maybe you don't have to stand and go, hey, stop it. Go get a fucking security person. Go get a fucking party planner. Go get somebody and go, hey, this is going on.
This is where we have a responsibility as participants in the lifestyle to make it better and to be there. We're getting some good comments. Shannon, GM of a hotel, it's difficult having wedding blocks with drunk people acting fools. Add lifestylers misbehaving, and everyone is out. Yeah, and that's just it. A business is not required to allow you to stay when you're doing things that are wrong or criminal. And you can have fun. Look, I know there's going to be some people that won't come to our event because it's not going to be like that in the hallways. And you know what?
I can live with that.
If you can't go and be mature from point A to point, I'll be to parties i don't want to see that go away because people are making a few people most people in the lifestyle are pretty smart and make good decisions look we all get drunk and maybe occasionally fuck up a little bit that's one thing but if i get drunk and fuck up i expect somebody to go grab me and go hey knock it off or go get you and go he's fucking acting a fool you know or go get somebody because just because it's me doesn't mean it's right even if it even if it's my party i've stopped you yeah you have you fucking absolutely put me and and other people uh i believe kurt one time has told me to knock get the fuck off at one time.
And I've got some other people. And you know what? I'm glad they did. That's what a community we do. We help each other. Little mistakes happen, okay? I know that the new thing now, or not the new thing, but the biggest thing is weed, okay? And... To each their own and you don't give a shit if you do it or if you don't. Look, rock the fuck on, okay? Here's what I'm going to say.
okay and and to each their own and you don't give a shit if you do it or if you look rock the fuck on okay here's the deal i spent 17 years in the car business i couldn't smoke weed because i was could get randoms anytime okay it does nothing for you it doesn't seriously it sobers her up do i care no it honestly i don't it's so rare that i do it anymore that doesn't really matter so it's just not our thing no big deal we're not judging if you do it kick ass I don't it's so rare that i do it anymore that doesn't really matter so it's just not our thing no big deal we're not judging if you do it kick ass it's just like drinking or anything else as long as you control yourself i don't care okay but ladies and gentlemen i'm gonna say this on the air so that everybody hears this because it's so fucking true they make these things called edibles the cool thing with edibles you eat them you get fucking high and it doesn't smell your room doesn't smell the hallway doesn't smell the car doesn't smell it doesn't follow you down the hallway hotels unless you live in a state Where it's legal, hotels can throw you out they can send the cops in they really can folks i was smoked for 30 years and the mistake i always made as a smoker i couldn't smell it on myself because i was always covered in cigarette smoke and it was like people like oh you just had a cigarette how the fuck do you know i was outside it was windy no whatever or or i would say she's like wow you really smell like cigarette i'm like okay you're just bitching because i'm smoking and then i quit smoking no you smell it and now it's like oh and look i've looked at it in my career when i used to sell cars going how many cars did did I not sell?
Because on a hot summer day, my fat ass smelling like nasty old nicotine getting in a backseat of a car. Yeah, no wonder they didn't want to buy a car from me. That's fucking okay. I'm not. But yeah, you can smell it. So you can smell that too. Travis has a great point. Not everyone wants to smell it. Just saying. And that's exactly it. There are people that are allergic to it. There's people that it causes their asthma to go up, just like cigarette smokes. There's people that the smell really just makes them kind of sick. I don't like the smell of it. I mean, it's okay. I mean, no, I don't.
I call it skunk, but, you know, whatever. As Shane goes, you cannot smoke cigarettes in rooms. Why would you smoke pot? Even in legalized states, you cannot smoke in the room. Minimum $250 fee. Guys, we're not saying don't do it. Look, go outside. Go to your car. But it's about having respect for the other people there and respect for the party planners. I understand. Look, it's like when you rent a car. What do you do?
You beat the shit out of it because it's not your car i get it but it's about respect for the party planners because when we go into our meeting with the hotel on the monday after the event when we have to go settle up okay and you walk into this motherfucker and i'm telling you they are ready you've you've begged and pleaded you got it so you could have the swinger party there and made it all cool and whatever and you promise them don't worry we'll keep things under control and you walk in and the gm sits down and the salesman sits down and they flop down their fucking legal pad with a fucking list and you're just like oh sweet mother of fuck and it starts going and it's from fucking people bringing the elevator alarms running down the halls knocking on pissing on doors, puking in carpets, pissing in trash cans, puking in trash cans, beer bottles all over, cigarette butts, whatever, broken this, broken that.
And you go through this laundry list of shit.
And you go through the whole thing and you justify and you dance around all of it and you try to explain it away and whatever and you apologize and you pay for the shit and whatever to do what you have to do and then you go well do you remember how we had talked when we first signed up that we'd like to be able to do another party down the road and they just look at you with this blank stare and you have to try to resell them on why would they want to put up with your shit again now i've also we've had parties where i've walked in and they were like fucking amazed please because we're dicks we have security and we're dicks i'm not even gonna lie we're not if you're coming to our party you think you're gonna fucking run over us good luck with that okay but guys the thing is is be smart be respectful.
You can have fun and still be respectful this is the part that i don't understand that makes no sense to me look we're going to a party to meet other people and possibly hook up and possibly do some weird kinky fucking shit how many people would kill to be able to go well what'd you do you do this weekend? I fucked seven different people. I had monkey sex. It was awesome. We swung from chandeliers and I fucked six ways to Tuesday and I came so hard that I blew my nut out my penis. That would be awesome. Most people are like, holy shit. We have that potential.
All we have to do is be cool when we're in public, be mature. All we have to do is not smoke in the rooms. All we have to do is not shred the sheets. All we have to do is not disable, try to hide cameras. All we have to do is not puke in the hallways. One time we went to a party and they had a list at the front desk of everything that you'd be charged for if you damaged it. Blood on the sheets. Shit on the sheets. What was some of them? Because they were just, I was like, holy shit, you're going to charge 250 bucks for what? There was other, for other stains on the carpet.
There was for food or beverage stains on the carpet had a fee. Other stains on the carpet had a fee. Broken mirrors, broken headboards, broken, all this list of shit. Here's why we stayed at that hotel multiple times. So we stayed when there wasn't parties.
That list was only out for the lifestyle for the lifestyle parties yeah that was it and the thing is is let me tell you something these hotels talk with each other yeah they do they communicate because they're part of a trade group so they go hey what be careful of this group or whatever it's not that we don't want to have fun but guys just because we have not become complete animals we have not been on lockdown for seven years this is not like oh my god what is it it's the sun oh we've just emerged from the shelter and we're ready to repopulate the earth it was like a year and there were still parties going on and we've still fucking seen people in between times really so all of a sudden we can't act fucking mature and don't kid yourself this is not a single person this is 99% of the time it's fucking couples for one which is uber fucking annoying and piss and and a lot of times it some of the shit we've seen has not been from new couples this isn't newbie mistakes this is people that have been in the lifestyle that know better and i'm gonna be honest i'm holding back not fucking blasting people i know and you're not going to no i won't because i because i said i'm not going to get sued anyways but the thing is is that all we're asking for people is look have fun but keep your common sense about you keep your wits about you if you enjoy a party party, whether it be a Halloween party or whatever type of party it is, or you enjoy the events overall that a certain club or group puts on, that if you are appreciative of a specific promoter, whatever, out of respect to those people, act like an adult.
Out of common courtesy to the rest of the people in the lifestyle, act like an adult. Here's what's so funny. Last night it was Halloween, and so we were able to put it on the page.
We had a young man with special needs that's older to be able to go trick-or-treating places i put that post on my regular facebook wall and put it on our page i got like two responses off my regular facebook wall and like a shit ton off of our page of people saying addresses come here okay same same thing happened with you so the lifestyle you see this this is what the lifestyle really is about people that were like just in no hesitation absolutely send them here you know we didn't say that the person was in the lifestyle no we didn't but they didn't care it was it you saw the best of what the lifestyle is all about they were yeah but you but you saw you saw what a community the lifestyle really is you saw what this is all about this is that thing you trust not to fuck then you should build a higher level of trust and yet then we have seen the exact other extreme as well and that that's the part that is so disheartening sometimes with this as an event planner as as a party attendee uh putting on events when we heard about some of these things my heart went out to the the party planners because i know i that that level of frustration and as you don't know what's going to happen at that meeting monday morning no no and the potential if that if they were to lose some people if you're to lose a certain hotel that's it uh and it's just disheartening and the thing is we're better than that as people we're better if you wouldn't do it at your job if you wouldn't do it you know in regular life don't do it in events seriously don't just just fucking don't please for the love of fuck pull your heads out of your ass your ass is for fucking tongues and dicks and dildos or whatever but it's not for your head don't stick that there fuck god ah jesus anyways tell us how you really feel you know You know what the sad thing is?
What? Is that this kind of shit, you sit there and I think being a parent helped get me ready for this kind of stuff. Because it's like you tell your kids. No, our kids weren't that bad. No, but you tell kids to sit and you have to tell them over and over again. And our listeners are pretty good. Here's the deal. What you need to do, everybody. I'm not saying you guys. You guys, our listeners are smart, intelligent listeners. Share them with your idiot friends. Share this podcast with your idiot friends. Take it to heart and remember. At least step up to say something to these other people.
You know, I have a gal I work with. She blatantly admits to smoking pot.
I'm like, I i don't care one time i went to the bathroom and i went back to her and i went tell me you're not doing the bathroom she goes no i do it in the car and i'm like i was only gonna say if you do it in the bathroom please spray something to cover it up so you don't get busted by management because the last thing you want to do is get fired because you're smoking pot in the bathroom yeah yeah all we all we want look we understand it's just about we all want to have fun but man we we preach this concept here it is this is actually why didn't i know what i just now think of this walk up to somebody who's into a different kink or a different form of the lifestyle than you are and tell them that their shit is wrong and watch them blow a fucking gasket on your ass.
Okay? And they will turn around and they're going to say to you, all pissy and fired up and fired in finger, and go, don't yuck my yum. Here it is.
When you're a dick and a fucktard at a party, you yucking my yum knock it the fuck off that's the equivalent of it don't yuck people's yum god no don't ruin their don't ruin everybody's good time you don't have to ruin there there was one gal i just the way she was behaving i'm like There's no way in hell I'd hook up with that yeah no shit no shit and i'm like going you're just out of control what the hell what are you on that's not hot no it's not and just like yeah no and i've been the guy that was so drunk that i guarantee that i was not hot i've i've been that guy i will fully admit that I've been that guy and guess what happened that night i didn't get laid at all some people are respectful mature and have common sense until they go to a lifestyle party i don't get it they should be more of these things at a lifestyle party agreed agreed uh been there too cold like it yeah my children are all raised an adult i'm not going to put up with someone else's shit at an event exactly yeah the thing is we all want to have fun just i guess i know again most of you guys are our listeners i'm not concerned but just remember if you see it don't turn a blind eye it's not creating drama to go get a party planner to get it stopped that's not creating drama that's doing the right thing don't be afraid to do the right thing okay all right with that being said kids we got to go holy fucking shit hey you know what now you're ready to go to fucking party come to ours crazy winter nights great where cole can be a dick yeah cole's gonna be a dick really i'm a lot of fun the cadets will be there the cadets will love to have fun we do i have cadets of course we like to have fun and you know what all the cadets are gonna be there all the cats all 16 of our cadets gonna be there anyways uh yeah good good for cole uh anyways you want to have better sex of course you do we do too make sure you visit our friends at promescent again that's p-r-o-m-e-s-c-e-n-t.com check them out today seriously 60 day money back guarantee kk15 get a 15 discount uh don't forget our good friends smoking meats bbq treats.com uh rumor has it you buy some they'll rub it on your meat no i'm just kidding uh check out their brand new flavor hickory dust it's the one with the cowboy hat and boots on it smoking meats bbq treats.com finally read you'll probably read about me and my tirades no i'm just kidding you know finally read uh check out asn lifestyle magazine.com uh three million readers can't be wrong we'd love for you to read there as well finally if worst case scenario you don't have something to wear you probably don't and you need something to wear right yep yeah you should do you've listened to the you've read the mag you've listened to the show come on fuckers go buy some swag full swap shop.com it's time for the holidays nothing says happy holidays merry christmas like uh anyway so check those out finally you can send us emails at crazy k-r-a-z-y dot k dot Kazba, K-A-S-B-H, at gmail.com.
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