Send us Fan MailWell it is great to be back in the studio this week. We tackle the question of one couple in Dallas Texas about the new trend for porn blow jobs or really aggressive blow jobs and how to handle it. We talk about the need to feel comfortable to say no and the how to communicate with your playmates. The second half of the show we tackle the issue of Pegging. We are Krazy TRUTH and to be honest we admit to our limited knowledge of the subject of pegging. We share info from our live audience and talk about going to experts that do have answer to this couples questions! The best way to help people is to be honest. Even if that means admitting on the hair that we just do not have enough knowledge to help with this question. Hey do you want to hear all our shows? Go to www.buzzsprout.com/181336 today. Also Check out our other sponsors: http://www.altplayground.net http://www.asnlifestylemagazine.com http://www.fullswapshop.comVisit us at http://www.fullswapradio.comVisit us at : http://www.krazykasbh.comYouTube : http://www.youtube.com/KasbhSend us emails at [email protected]: @TruthKrazyInstagram http://www.instagram.com/Krazy_Kasbh/Support the show
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Speaker1: Hey kids, the program you're about to listen to contains some adult situations, adult language, themes, and other adult topics. If you're easily offended, this show's not for you. Hey you crazy motherfuckers, welcome back to another edition of Crazy Truth. I'm your host with the most and a hat, Cole. And I'm here with the lovely, lovely and slightly frostbitten Miss Amanda. It's a tad bit nipply. It's a tad bit nipply. Say hey. Say hey. There you go. We are glad to be back in the studio. Miss Amanda ran amok last week. Last week. Amok, a muck, a muck. And so I'm glad to be back. Speaker2: What the hell happened to your coat? Speaker1: I don't know. Anyway, so we're going to. Speaker2: Did you just let the dog lay on it? Speaker1: Pretty much. Speaker3: Are you done? Speaker1: Can we proceed with the show or how's this going to go? Speaker2: How much is that going to show on there? Speaker3: Not a bit. Speaker1: It's dog glitter. It's because I love my puppies. Anyways, so we're happy to be here. So let's go ahead and cover some of the business shit, shall we? Or are you just going to continue to critique my code? Looks like you got a dick in the eye. Okay, so this is season four. One of the microphones all the way up by your nose, ears, eyes, knees, and toes, knees, and toes. This is season four, episode 144. Speaker3: For those of you following along at home and with your handy-dandy notebooks, again, I am here. Speaker1: Ms. Amanda is here. Speaker2: The heater is not here. Speaker1: And so we're freezing our nipples off. So that's why I'm wearing a hat and I'm having a bad hair day. So let's take care of some of the other housekeeping stuff really, really quick. Huge shout out to our sponsors. Hey, you know what? Tits may drag. Balls may drop. What? Nothing. Keep going. Is that not right? No. It's tits may sag. Tits may sag. Balls may droop. But a brain lasts forever. If I only had a brain. And you know what? 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Tits ahoy um uh what the fuck do we usually do i don't even know what we do anymore well that was a great show folks thanks for coming no uh for those of you that don't know that'll be listening uh on this on thursday when the show releases you know uh you can be part of our secret facebook group casbah inc shh don't tell the others others but we'll get you signed up they listen live as we do this live and you're going to be able to find us on fullswapradio.com fullswapradio.com wait let me say it again in case you missed it fullswapradio.com that's right soon our show will be live on there on Sunday nights also so So we're everywhere. Fuck yeah. Are you sick of us yet? You will be. Anywho. Actually, you're just more sick of him. You like looking at me. Fucking God. All right. So we're back. We're live. So before we go do anything else. Were we gone? What? You said we're back. We're live. We were gone last week. Well, I was gone. You weren't gone. You were here. I was not. I was here. And you took control of the studio. I sat here all by myself. You did. And you didn't turn the heat on. Good job. Way to go, pumpkin. Oh, yeah. Oh, yeah. Well, I wasn't in here very long. Imagine that. God, it's so cold. So, but real quick, before we go to fur nations, nations kids before we go too far for those of us here in the midwest too far uh down the road so last night was there's a club uh in nebraska island writers and they had their annual valentine's day party we were not able to attend because of some other stuff going on family family stuff it sucks uh but at the party they are a great group they uh they do a uh half and half raffle they do all kinds of stuff and this their theme was to was to give back and so they actually put out like jars and half half raffle and all kinds of stuff and they were they donated funds. We did not know they were going to do this to Casbah Cares. No, they had us go. They had us on video chat. Video chat when they announced it, which we were very, very thrilled. And I've got to tell you, it was very cool. They raised $1,300 yesterday for Casbah Cares. That's awesome. That is awesome. We appreciate that. It is what it is. Look, lifestyle is not just about fucking each other. You can actually help each
Speaker2:
other too. I mean, it's the fun part. Sometimes we like a good dickin'.
Speaker1:
It's been so long since I've had strange. I don't know what that means anymore.
Speaker3:
Well, mine's not really strange anymore Yeah The closest thing I had to strange Was I had an itch one day when I was jacking off So for a few strokes I used them by their hands I'm like ooh hey So this is what swinger sex feels like No we'll get'll get back in the saddle or in some chick's pants here.
Speaker1:
I tried to get in some girl's pants the other day, and that was just a fucking.
Speaker3:
Yeah. But you did have somebody reach out to you that wants to hook up. I did. So that's awesome.
Speaker1:
Yes, I did. And they reached out, and I'm soon going to let them reach out and touch me.
Speaker2:
Reach out and touch someone.
Speaker1:
With their lips and their tongue and their fingers and toes. Knees and toes. ow knee ow knees and nuts ow anyways uh so yeah so we do this thing we do this little show uh once a week it's called crazy truth uh it seems to be something that titillates and tantalates some of the people and pisses other people off and so we'll see let's piss people off let's see where you land tonight at the end of the show shall we shall we know what the questions are that's right you don't it's like a quiz it's like school all over again no cheating no shit no cheating okay we're cheating how plus it's cold don't like blow cold air at me jackass you don't want to be chilled hey you're gonna get fucking laid at work tomorrow again I don't know I might I don't know I might Which that is yes Yes you will You don't know that I thought it was gonna happen all week And it didn't happen Did you shave Not yet but last week I did, I wouldn't today When Amanda shaves A unicorn dies It's really weird I haven't shaved so long I shave every time I need to So currently, you could fucking You get laid by me Yes, and that's awesome And that's couple sex, that's marriage sex, that's our sex. Well, you act like you're totally sex-deprived. No, it's just that swinger sex and strange sex is different than casual, no, no, that is casual sex, it's different than relationship sex. Okay. Relationship sex, I say things that I think are dirty to turn you on and get you hot and bothered or bothered or whatever. I don't have to get up and leave after we fuck so that's kind of the weird part about it. Maybe that'll make me feel more like it. I'll fuck and I'll just get dressed and walk out. Thanks, it was great. We'll talk to you later.
Speaker2:
We'll go to the special room. We'll fuck in there and then we'll feel obligated to leave
Speaker1:
because we don't sleep in there. You just want to go fuck in the special's room because it's warmer. No. Yeah. It's not what I want to fuck in. I mean, it's a perk, but it's not why. Alright, okay, fuck this. Let's get, let's do a question. There we go. Sorry, I still learned how to talk with my beard. It's out of control. We have like this one hair hair that's floating over. It's driving me nuts. It's driving me nuts? Right there. Ow! Bitch, it's attached, you fucking whore bag. I know it's attached. Hey, here's one that's driving me nuts. Fucking swat waffle. Ow. Okay. God, I'm fucking... Let me do it. I thought you were just going to move it all the way. I didn't think you were going to try to plug it, bitch Oh my god When you sleep, I'm finding a cooter hair There isn't one I saved them all There's just like stubble Well, maybe I'll just have to plant one or something. I'll figure something out.
Speaker3:
Hot glue one under your pussy lip and then pull it off. Ouch. Oh, my gosh.
Speaker2:
Gosh.
Speaker3:
Okay.
Speaker1:
I needed that laugh.
Speaker2:
Certainly glad you did. Let's read a question.
Speaker3:
I would talk better about my lips swollen from a man who's trying to pluck out beard hairs while they're still fucking attached. It wasn't a beard. It was a mustache hair. Get it right.
Speaker1:
Mustache hair. Mustache hair. Touch a mustache, bitch. Yeah. Okay. So here's a question. This is from D&D in the Big D. That would be Dallas. I was thinking dick, but okay. Big D. Yeah, that's that. Dick in Texas. We love Texas. Don't get it carried away.
Speaker2:
I used to live there and have to sing this song all the time.
Speaker1:
I'm sure you did.
Speaker3:
Uh-huh.
Speaker1:
If you live there now, you'd be singing something else. All right. D&D in the big D, in the big Dallas. My wife and I are really enjoying being in the lifestyle. We like every part of it. Sex, friendships, the parties, the people. But it seems to us that one change that is happening is guys wanting aggressive blowjobs. Gagging the girl, slamming her head down, being being truly overly aggressive it is such a turn off we're almost afraid to play is it just us or what that's kind of a neat question actually so I reached out to D&D and I went hey D&D and the big D no I didn't I did reach out to them
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so
Speaker1:
they have been in the lifestyle for about five years now Thank you. Hey, D&D in the big D. No, I didn't. I did reach out to them. So they have been in the lifestyle for about five years now. Oh, really? Okay, so they've been in the lifestyle for a while. And their thing is, is that they just feel like that there is this trend towards, okay, when he described, well, when they described talking about how she likes to suck dick, it sounded more to me like almost how you suck dick. Okay. Like, he's like, she's really good. She's like, you know, you know, she doesn't, she'll, she'll deep throat, but she doesn't, she's not, it doesn't like to gag on it. She doesn't like to be forced, but she's a lot of hand and head movement. And I'm like, okay, this sense to me okay but she does not like she does not like gagging on a dick she does she doesn't like feeling like she's being forced to gag on a dick and so is they throat fucking her pretty much it sounds like it i mean it sounds and he even said he goes she's overly sensitive about it and she agreed she's super sensitive about it. And part of it is feeling that it's not so much about the sucking dick that it's becoming about aggression and about control. That she feels like, you know, and I said, well, what do you mean by control? And it's really kind of funny because her big thing is that ultimately it makes her feel like, it's like, if you want that, go get a hooker. I'm like, okay. Pay somebody for it. Right. But it's that type of, and I get it. Because if you watch a lot of porn, there's some pretty fucking aggressive blowjobs. And some girls really like that and god love each and every one of you some of them love gagging on it and yes and you know what and as a guy i love when a girl loves it yeah if a girl wants to be throat fucked i am so fucking in it's not even funny i will fucking i mean i'm good at deep throat but well i i don't here's the thing it takes a bit to make me gag no shit try and try as I might The thing is I don't have to It's not like to get off I have to fucking You know literally throat fuck a girl But if she's into it That's hot So I wonder if Who wrote the book of love Shut up Who's doing this are newbies Or single males I didn't know i didn't ask him i didn't i didn't ask it was no i was wondering but they just said it has been with couples oh with now here's the other question i asked him i said okay because you know we talk a lot of different times about what other signals are you sending right right because let's face it Here's the deal sometimes we're all guilty of it you see you're you're watching another couple and they do things a certain way and so you kind of start to imitate or you start trying to you know like if you watch another couple fuck and then you swap i as a guy will try to you know you're watching her get off the way he fucked her. So, you start trying to, like, mimic. Match it so you can get her off the same way. Right. And so, my question then was, A, do you like to be able to be aggressive when getting a blowjob? And B, are you aggressive when getting a blowjob with another couple? Well, and has she at one point had it a little bit more aggressive with him and she knows that he was getting off on it more? Okay, so here's- But it was other people, other guys doing it to her though. Right, here's what he said. He does enjoy it. He does enjoy it, but he will not, when they're in a couple swap situation he will not instigate it okay he will not instigate he said and she said she's willing to try she was she was more than willing to try and a couple of times you know try it and see because they fully admit there's a lot of shit in the lifestyle that they didn't think they would be into and then they tried it it's like well that like, well, that's fucking hot. You know, so she's been, it wasn't a willing, but it's just one thing that she does not, she does not like, she does not like that aggressive. Yeah, so. All of a sudden, I read that to Mike, wait a minute. So Mike on our page has a great comment. Wheel out kissing, but clearly up front, don't try to remove our tonsils in the process. And I mean, and that's, yeah.
Speaker2:
The fun part of me about a blowjob is having control for a little bit.
Speaker3:
Okay.
Speaker2:
Do I let you have any control over me when I'm giving you a blowjob?
Speaker3:
You do.
Speaker1:
You touch my head. I don't allow you to control it, no you don't no you don't well so i mean sometimes you'll let me a little bit like but no it's you i'll let you choose the rhythm but i'll ultimately always have control yeah and it's pretty clear you have control i mean you you make it that way it's still fun and shannon says it seems to be the trend on porn. I agree. Here's the challenge with it. Isn't that porn sex? Well, rock on for her being willing to try it. Okay. Great. I think that's awesome. You tried it. Let's try it. I'll puke all over your lap. Well, but here's the thing. Don't be afraid to say, I don't like it. Stop. Yeah. Yeah. You should put your foot down and go, no. Ladies, you have a really powerful tool in this situation. You're not required to give a blow job. Well, no. But if a guy won't stop, a little nip. Some guys like it, though. Well, but yeah. But I mean, the thing is. drag your teeth across at once and he'll he'll quit have your hand over his on the base of his dick when he tries that and grab a ball he'll quit no that's a good i mean if you have your hands the base of his dick most likely you won't be able to deep throw it or the other gag i have had okay because i do touch your head right okay and we have hooked up with couples that i went to touch the girl's head when she's giving me a blowjob okay and and she's reached up to push my hand away okay now afterwards she said i don't you know i don't that makes me uncomfortable i said fair enough and it was because she didn't like to be forced down not knowing that i wasn't going to force it down i just for me i like to i like to touch her it's so smooth and pretty that's popping off your head that's got a boner there we go but i mean it's one of those things that my hair is getting hard on but it's one of those things that that uh you know i i just like to, know i like to touch your head when you but that little thing was like okay that is not okay and and that's fine if somebody won't stop you know you have to now i'm all paranoid about my dick boner and my head boner uh then you have to you have to make him stop but no you're not required. That's not a requirement. I'm thinking, I don't know, do you talk about that ahead of time? Okay, hey, before I start sucking your dick, don't try to gag me with it. To me, that doesn't seem natural. No. No. I mean, I don't know. How do you do that? I mean, look, here's the deal think the one the first time they tried to if if someone were to do that to me and the first time they tried to shove my head to gag me with it then i'd probably push back and go don't you have a damn strong neck when you don't want it to go your head well i mean the thing is don't underestimate how much it's very obvious that a woman that the strength you have ladies when you don't want to do something yeah and and okay so for d as in the dick of the dnd the dude yeah uh if you see a guy start to do that don't be afraid to interject go hey she doesn't like that yeah you know again is, we talk about this all the time about, not that, but we talk about it all the time about being in tune with, with your significant other. So if you start to see that, don't be afraid to say something. She's got her mouth full. Don't think she won't talk with her mouth full. Maybe your hands full if you're doing it right just saying no but i'm just if there's enough people involved but the other thing is i don't think there's anything wrong with having a discussion ahead of time going you can almost crack a joke it's like you know we love to fuck we love to do we love to get crazy whatever we're not into doing porn sex yeah i mean there's ways to to to kind of crack a joke about it and uh you know so i mean that that's one of those things that it's like you can you can kind of bring that bring it up in a joking way um mike has another good comment if it if it's a concern for you then you clarify up front. Absolutely. Luna does not like her neck touched. Are you choking? It's one of the few things that we tell people up front. And rock on. I mean, if it's starting to cause you to second guess whether or not you want to hook up with couples, then, you know, by all means, say something ahead of time. If it's happening a lot say something well and i can't say as if i've ever had anybody okay but wait a minute think about this when was the last time okay you fuck your boyfriend a lot you fuck me a lot right right when was the last time you randomly hooked up with strange that wasn't your boyfriend strange when was the last time you fucked and it wasn't at your place of employment dick like three weeks ago right so but i mean it wasn't a party setting it wasn't a no which sometimes people get more caught up in a party setting than I think. It can happen. It doesn't justify it, but it can happen. True. So, I mean, that's one of the things I think you have to. If it's a hard limit, discuss it up front. Yeah. Talk about it. I mean, I know this is one of those weird things where, because I think there's, okay, so when they talk about a trend, I think you're starting to see, it's not talk about a trend i think you're starting to see it's not just porn sex i think you're starting to see a lot of fetishes and kinks starting to spill over into the lifestyle which means it kind of is a game changer on how some shit's done true very very true and so you need to fucking be up front if you're someone and you like blowjobs that way you you need to ask because i think mike had a great point like with the choking like with the touching the neck okay even some people as he put she doesn't like a hand on her neck it's not necessarily squeezing she doesn't feel comfortable with even a hand on her neck so if you like to do that you need to ask like because i like to do that when i fuck but i always ask or i'll say hey i'm gonna touch your neck is that okay or you know think yeah if it's not tell me i mean communicate so if you are like hey you know what i like i like to be throat fucked or i like you you know to throat fuck you is that okay you can ask if that's your thing very true there's a girl that is that's that i've hooked up with she loves it and that's one of the fun and and when we hook up fuck yeah hammer on you know my wayward son but it's just one of those things i don't care for it but i i mean have i done it i've gagged a couple times on accident just because yeah but you almost drowned one time too but that was with a girl when she squirted okay that's the first time a girl squirt my, you've been waterboarded during sex.
Speaker2:
Oh, wow.
Speaker1:
It's been great being on the air for these four years. It's been an incredible experience. We're really happy about that. Yeah, so there you go. So easy on the dick. Fuck it. No, what? Oh, I had a great thing.
Speaker2:
Throat fucking. Throat fucking.
Speaker1:
We're out of practice. This show is just... He takes a week off and this is what happens. Yeah, killing brain cells. You have to talk when I'm drinking, remember? No. Say something, otherwise I can't feel like anything. Why? Because no one likes to just hear dead air. Maybe they do on our show. Maybe they're like fucking thrilled they're not talking. Mike has a good point. Size does matter. Why, yes, with gagging, size would matter. Well, absolutely, because then it goes from gagging to choking. You know, like eating a Lego.
Speaker2:
A few weeks ago, I probably could have.
Speaker1:
Oh, no, that one. That one would have been fucking.
Speaker2:
I'm like going, you have nothing to that. You were there.
Speaker1:
No, that wasn't it. That would have been a gagging. That would have been a choking would be like a small thing gets lodged in your throat. And that was not a small thing. No small thing gets lodged in your throat And that was not a small thing No No, that was That was fucking huge That was awesome Anyways, that's just Just throwing that out there If you'd like more details Or you'd like a transcript of that night Please send us a Send us That's what happens when you randomly hook up with someone on Twitter Yeah T. Tweet, tweet. That was out of the blue. He didn't know who the fuck I was. Well, he is on my page, but. He's a nice guy. Very. Big dick. Very. Could have killed a seal with that. You were like a leprechaun on a stick. He found your pot of gold okay so barmy um okay yeah all right so hey we're at the halfway point already hard to fucking believe in then wow what what do we do at halfway oh yeah hey i remember what you know now i'm all paranoid about this fucking hat well you got a big head so it's like yes i do i have a giant head i have girth i have a girthy head i have a girthy melon god uh hey you know i'm just like yelling so i'm looking over there and this show's going to be like, people are going to be like, fucking, hey, that guy was whack. This is a person who gets on speakerphone and has to yell thinking that other people aren't going to hear him. They have volume buttons. Fuck off. You go to a drive-thru and you yell. My phone doesn't have a silence. They can fucking hear you. Now remember, did he ask for your help? No. Shut up. No, it's not. It took a minute. No, I don't. Well, yeah, I mean, yeah, well. I have a girthy head. And you can have a strong voice, but you don't have to yell. Actually, you're not really yelling. You're just talking a lot. I'm sniffing because my nose is full of snot and boogers. Anyways, okay. Just thought I'd throw that in there too. Fuck, I'm going to beat you. Okay, so what are you doing? Halfway point? Oh yeah, halfway. So, hey, want to learn more about our stuff and things and words? I don't even know what I can say. No, actually, check out our website crazycasma.com Learn more about us. You can get to our shop. You can see how we met. You can listen to our shows. You can watch our videos. You can probably find the latest donkey shows. No, there's not. I just made that up. Donkey shows. I'm like, oh, how we met. Sex. I just made it. Somebody's going to be like, what? Donkey shows? What? This way they'll have the feds at my door. No, all kinds of stuff. Crazycasma..com. Check it out. Badass. And don't forget FullSwapRadio.com. Once again, FullSwapRadio.com. We're there. Why are we there? Because we own it. But several other shows also. You'll want to check it out. We'll be doing live shows on there. There's all kinds of cool shit. Make sure you're there. Don't do do dead air When we do dead air No one likes that I mean maybe they do But I don't like it It makes me nervous
Speaker2:
Well quit being nervous Can you sit in a quiet room And not say a word
Speaker3:
Hold on
Speaker1:
29 years You fucking tell me
Speaker2:
You can
Speaker1:
I don't like it
Speaker2:
Get you pissed off And if you can Actually get you pissed off You're just the opposite No No
Speaker3:
It depends
Speaker1:
No When I'm really pissed
Speaker3:
I'm quiet
Speaker2:
When he's really quiet Be scared
Speaker1:
But I'm rarely that way I'm a happy person Thank you. pissed off you're just the opposite no no it depends no when i'm really pissed when he's really quiet be scared and most but i'm rarely that way i'm a happy person you've been quietly i've not been quiet lately yeah you have shut up is there a pair of scissors no will you focus on the show my back itches really that makes for interesting radio right there oh my god welcome to our world kids when your, kids. When your back itches and you don't have somebody that will scratch your back, you have a closed pair of scissors. You take the edge and you rub the edge along your skin. Thanks, Martha. I can't wait for your segment next week. You make fun of me for doing that. I'm like, oh, it has this nice edge. It just scratches your back just nice. You're like, who the fuck uses scissors? Well, I don't even know. That's because I'm like a bear, and I use door jam. That doesn't do it for me. That's not sharp enough. You just like to be poked. Slut. Okay, let's move along. Now you're talking away from the microphone. We've never done this show before, kids great This is awesome What are you Bucking I fucking dare you I look like you're lipping off I'm going to take this pal I'm going to bonk you over the fucking head Hey this is a call out to Amanda's boyfriend If you're listening Hey you're having a roommate tonight Anywho He doesn't listen to this You don't know that Oh I'm pretty sure He might Maybe he likes to hear about his own escapades on our show I don't talk about escapades You don't? Like last night I went up to work at the very end And fucked him Yeah there's that Are you done picking your ear and looking at it? What are you doing? I was looking at my broken nail After you pulled pulled it out of your ear. That was this finger, not this one. I scratched my butt. No, I was stabbing my broken nail. It's the same one that was in your butt. This one was in my ear because that's small enough to scratch it. It was this one because I broke it. All they saw was your hand was was up against your fucking head you're digging in your melon you pull it out the next thing you're looking at if you lick your fucking fingers i'm gonna die loud oh yeah remember you did a different finger yeah sure it is i did that right no i did that when the virus broke out i didn't catch covid then no but we were making fun of of it. Did y'all hear about that? Yes. We were all walking through the hardware store and said, I'm not afraid. This was before we knew what we were doing. Now I was like, oh, maybe we shouldn't have been retards. My head is boner and up. God. You have a fat head. I don't have a fat head. Oh, bullshit. You want to measure it and compare it to everybody else's. Everybody else's. Okay, everybody, send your head sizes in. Hey, you want to see something funny? For those of you just listening, you won't be able to appreciate this as much. Whee! That's just for those watching. You'll want to watch the YouTube video to watch Cole's escapade there. Okay, there we go. No, like, fuck. See, this is why Amanda doesn't like to be throat fucked. That's what happens. Okay, let's move on to the next question. Oh, that completely caught me off guard. Shall we? And then it was like sticking up all dedication. Okay, you good? Okay. This is... This should have been a drinking show. Are you sure it's good? Okay, this is...
Speaker2:
This should have been a drinking show.
Speaker1:
Are you sure it's not?
Speaker3:
Okay.
Speaker1:
Okay, so, all right.
Speaker2:
Not that head.
Speaker1:
So, okay, so I have to... Okay, so this is from Richard and Marcy in Scottsdale, Arizona. Can you see? Shut up, bitch. We're having a discussion and need your input. Right off the bat, you're fucked. To decide who is right. I, Richard, am interested in pegging. My wife says that means I am bi, and I say it doesn't. Who is right? If I try pegging, am I bi? Does it matter if it's a guy or a girl? I have no desire to be with a man, so who is right? Oh, boy, here we go. Okay, so number one, pegging is not, it's not, pegging doesn't make you buy.
Speaker3:
No.
Speaker1:
Okay, so, first of all, Marcy, quit trying to scare Richard. Richard.
Speaker2:
Well, he has a point. If fucking you in the ass makes you bi.
Speaker1:
Well, that's just it.
Speaker2:
For a female, it doesn't make a female bi. So why would it make a guy bi?
Speaker3:
What?
Speaker1:
Have you lost your fucking mind? How are you going to get fucked in the ass and be considered bi by that? With a clit? If you take a clit in the ass? No. you're correct in that here's a no pegging is it yes and shannon said pegging is a kink it does not make you bi or gay at all there's there's a total different it's no different lots of guys like to have their ass played with during sex whatever that doesn't whatever. That doesn't make you gay or bisexual. That does not. Why are you looking at me like that? No. Huh? I just keep my mouth shut. What? Go on. Are you going to cry? Do I look like I'm going to cry? I don't know. I don't know for sure no okay so no number one it's it's a good question look pegging is a kink and okay mike was fucked by the government for 30 plus years i guess i'm by stop it uh no the thing is is that pegging is a kink and and we are not experts on pegging in any way shape or form no at all but here's what I would seriously recommend seriously recommend with something like this if you have concerns or questions like that okay you can do there you can do a lot of research there's a lot of sex experts out there that seriously are going to be i mean we're going to crack some jokes right because that's what we do with stuff like this but there are like true sex experts out there that can answer some of those questions better because here's the deal yes to me i would think it would make all kinds of difference it was, if you had a preference over, you know, if it was a guy doing it or a girl. I don't even, to be perfectly honest with you, I don't even know if it wouldn't be considered pegging if a guy was doing it.
Speaker3:
I have no idea.
Speaker1:
I don't think. I don't even know. And so this is why we're the crazy truth in that we're willing to admit the shit we don't know you know and and pegging is a huge hot topic yeah a lot of people i i one have no desire as a as a female you have no desire to peg a guy no right right well i'd be terrified of hurting him yeah yeah well okay so after having used a strap-on dildo with another girl it's not as easy as it looks is it no it's not and i mean and that is okay so my understanding of pegging is on both sides it is uh it is a kink and that it is like a control and a transfer of control, right? Yeah, well, I would think. That it's a transfer of control. So, I mean, obviously there, yes, scientifically, medically, there is an erogenous zone in the prostate. So by the prostate, by the prostate, around, in and around. Wish I had known this, but ahead of time I'd have done some research. Well, what fun would that be? Then we'd be a medical show. We're here to tell people to go get real advice somewhere else. Sometimes that's the thing you can do so if there's guys that like to buy there's like some toy thing an anal toy of some variety of vibrating one well one guy that caught me off guard he showed me a picture of one that he got and he goes I actually really love using this thing and it caught me completely off guard okay and so he showed it to me and i don't think it's considered you know just because you use something like that to get off and it helps you get off harder right harder that it would be considered you know gay gay okay so mike has a pegging involves a strap-on usually female pegging a man it is a kink and not buy uh term coined by dan savage in 1998 for those of those who don't know dan savage uh has a is very long running and he's sex expert i do believe uh show that you can listen to. I mean, he's a great resource, actually. He has a podcast for several, several years. And Leanne put, your sexual preference, bi, gay, straight, pan is about who and what you're attracted to. Pegging is a type of stimulation. If a lesbian uses a dildo, does that mean she's bi? No, because she has no attraction to men and and that's that's a great point i mean that's here's what's so awesome about the lifestyle and and something like this you have the opportunity to explore things that make you feel good things that you like things that you enjoy maybe things that you find out you thought you would enjoy, but you don't enjoy.
Speaker3:
Right.
Speaker1:
You can experience and explore some of those things without going to in the vanilla world. The vanilla world is so concerned with tags, with with labels, labels, tags, price tags. They're concerned with price tags. No, they're concerned with labels.
Speaker3:
They're concerned with price tags. No. They're concerned with labels. They're so concerned with labels that if you want to try anything or do anything then they want to be labeled just instantly. You sure it's a vanilla world or is it more the younger generation? I don't know that it's younger.
Speaker1:
I would actually say it's older. I would say that there's – I think some of the younger generation is more open to having broader sense of definitions of things where you get our generation older. It's like if it's scary and we don't understand it, we want to tag it. We want to label it. We don't understand pegginggging so that means you're bi or you're gay or you know we don't understand uh a poly relationship so you know whatever I think that there's a desire to if you label something you don't if you give something you don't understand or don't know a label it seems safer and for those who just listening i took my hands up and i did the quotation marks safer with that did you i did safer and it's because we don't know we don't understand and so i and in the lifestyle in theory let's say that one more time In theory, in the lifestyle, you should be able to try things without instantly being labeled. Labeled. Now, that being said, when you start talking about topics like pegging, okay, we're rare. We're the oddity in that we'll be willing to actually say on a show, we don't know.'t have the answers okay there's a lot of places you're gonna go that people are just gonna they're basically just gonna make shit up okay they're gonna they're gonna say well yeah it's because i think it's this so that's what it is and and that's that's the one part of the lifestyle you have to be afraid of or not afraid of. You have to be aware of is that not everybody that claims to be experts are experts. A really good expert will tell you the shit they don't know. And something like that all, you know, I would much rather. So I hope that Richard and Marcy, because I reached out to him and I didn't hear back from him. Okay. So I wasn't able to get any of my typical follow-up feedback had they tried, had, you know, any of that. So what I hope is if you guys are listening to this show, which you should because you wrote in. Hello. So the thing is, is that if you go and check some other resources and you find out tell us what you found out right because here's the thing we would love to know what you found out because that's what we're all about we want we want to try to take in and help people get uh the the right information.
Speaker2:
What are you doing?
Speaker3:
Reading. You're reading? Okay.
Speaker1:
What?
Speaker3:
Do you want to share?
Speaker1:
Is that a shock that I read?
Speaker3:
No, it's not. What the fuck? No, it's not a shock. Do you want to share? Well, you looked shocked. How can you see?
Speaker1:
I've got a hat on that controls my hair and we can't see my eyes. Shane says he thinks it's more the younger generation that are putting labels even though they say they don't want labeled. I mean, I can see that. And then being in a pile of relationships means you want to cheat. Someone heard that one. Yeah. Old saying of eat pussy all your life but suck a dick. Suck one dick and you're labeled a cocksucker for life. That's what I was when you're like what you doing i'm like i was reading okay but here's what's here's what's really funny about those things those are all true yeah i know i mean okay we my kid and i've had this had this conversation i've had this conversation before you know you're sitting around with a group of guys a group of what you do for money, you know, and people will be like, man, you know, I'd take it up the ass, but it'd be like, you know, if you paid me a million bucks and it's like bull fucking shit, you're fucking broke. If somebody walked up and said, here's fucking a grand, you want to tell me you wouldn't for a grand? My dying ass.
Speaker3:
You know?
Speaker1:
Sure ass dying.
Speaker2:
For a grand, it'd be a little sore for a day or two. I mean, just saying. I mean, but people are afraid to be honest about shit. And what sucks in the lifestyle is, okay, so you have something like pegging. if you're if if the lifestyle doesn't do a better job of providing resources and making it okay for people to ask questions like that what happens is people are going to try it in the wrong setting the wrong way somebody because here's the deal yes you could get hurt if you did it you want somebody that's done it before yeah yeah you don't want somebody just to fucking slam a two by four up there away you go i mean no you legitimately as a female you remember that first time and it was like holy crap i don't know if that's really gonna work
Speaker1:
wait a minute wait well but the thing is is that if you don't if if the information isn't out there and if there isn't a say if people are afraid to find out the information without getting labeled I'll see you next time. if you don't if if the information isn't out there and if there isn't a say if people are afraid to find out the information without getting labeled this is where the lifestyle it's so important the lifestyle get their shit together if they aren't able to try it or experience it without without a label people are going to try it it's going to be a fucked up horrible experience somebody's going hurt, you know, and it's going to take and scare people out of the lifestyle. And so this kind of actually, I'm going to speak, because pegging is a kink, I'm going to spill this a little bit into the kink world just to, just to scoge. Just, just, I'm going to dabble. Okay. Just going to dabble. This had to be good. Dabble. This is where it's so important for kinksters, in my i'm calling out kinksters on this one to not be judgmental but to be helpful in people that are exploring or have questions about kink because here's the reality of it if you're into fire play knife play spanking paddling flogging fucking i'm sure there's a tickle kink god knows what else you know pegging violent wands okay most of these things done incorrectly can fuck you up. There's no other way to put it. If you take a violent wand. It's a violet. Whatever. If you take a violet wand. Think of it purple because it's purple. Right. Purple, violet. Whatever. If you crank that motherfucker up to the top saying, you don't know what you're doing with it. You get this fucking thing, and you crank that fucker all the way up and zap somebody with it. It will burn them. It will brand them. It can do serious damage. Think about that for a minute. So if you're into it, and you have experience, and you've went through this, and you truly give a shit about the kink community and you're all about, you believe in the contracts, you believe in safe doms, you believe in all that, all the shit that people in the kink community preach about. Okay. If you truly believe in that, you will help that newbie couple, that curious couple better understand what you're into now keep in mind okay the one that i'll keep it under my hat the kinksters that we know are more than willing to share any bit of information we've asked they've told we've gotten demonstrations all the
Speaker2:
above they are more than willing to educate and a lot most of them i believe most of them are
Speaker1:
willing to educate you most most of them are awesome and they're very patient most of them are they'll they'll watch you they'll they'll explain it and when they see that like deer in the headlight look which is obvious you're like you don't know what they're saying
Speaker3:
I don't know. And they'll watch you. They'll explain it. And when they see that deer in the headlight look, which is obvious, you're like, eh?
Speaker1:
You don't know what they're saying? Explain it again. Most are very, very good. If you run across somebody who does not want to explain it to you.
Speaker2:
That's the one I'd run away from.
Speaker1:
That's who you need to run away from. And the thing is, so by the same token, a shout out to all the... See, I just got throat pucks. He's choking his spit. No token a shout out to all the see i just got throat pucks no a shout out to all the kinksters that are out there that that we do know and the kinksters that do take that time thank you you're making the lifestyle better not just the kinks side better you're making the swinger side better because you're taking the time to help people to truly determine whether or not they want to do it i mean that here's the key you may not go stick stop it you may you may not you may not actually you may try it and you go this isn't for me i i guarantee that happens all the time well i've tried with the people that we know i'm like go ahead try it i'll try it i'll try it once probably even twice if i don't like it after that new not happening again well and the nice thing has been because it's been people we've you've known you've trusted who's taken the time did it the right way when it was over you were able to legitimately think about how it felt how it made you feel how whatever well and then okay so like when i did knife play right and i trusted him with every ounce of everything i had any kink questions i've gone to him right yep he does knife play and i'm like that's it right and he goes what do you mean that's it i'm like that's it i mean what's so exciting about that and he goes well weren't you afraid of getting cut i'm like no and he goes well what if this knife were to slide off and cut you i'm like it wouldn't because it'd land on the bed before it hit me and he goes oh my gosh you're gosh, you're no fun. Right. I'm like, well, it did nothing. It did nothing. But at least you knew. You're like, okay, well, that didn't do anything for me. But you knew because you trusted him and knew he was experienced and everything else. You didn't have any guesses going, well, if it would have been done right, maybe it would have been different. You knew. And you do him a couple times you knew that he knew what he was doing it was done correctly and you were like okay i was able to make an informed educated decision if this is something i like slobbering everywhere but and and his girlfriend did it to you what did you think uh it was because you had a It was... Because you had a different experience. I did have a different experience. When I had it on me, it was, again, now it was interesting because when his girlfriend did it on me, I was one of the first times she had done it on someone, but he was right there like supervising. Okay, so I felt totally safe in the experience. there were parts of it that because i'm a control freak uh i didn't like giving up control gotcha there were other parts of it that were because i'm also i like to be tickled i like to be you know some of that shit that i really dug it was kind of it was new to me to be not in control well and you were tied up Right. And to not be in control. I mean, I was in control, but the one thing I didn't have to worry about was I didn't fear for my safety. I knew that everything, that the experience was going to be spot on. And that's the part that makes this important. So just like this with pegging, if you want to try it, just do the research, find people that have experience, ask all the fucking questions, which, okay, that's a great question. Obviously, we weren't the right people to ask it of, but ask the questions that you need, get all the answers, have experience, and then you can go from there and and that's the biggest thing i just think that sometimes we there's more questions i think for swingers experiencing kink for the first time than vice versa so it just but don't be afraid to speak up and ask questions go to some of their events if you are interested in some of these kinks go to some of the kink or the educational events if you research there is a shit ton of kink poly uh
Speaker2:
sexual educators out there i mean a ton maybe his significant other has no desire to do it
Speaker1:
exactly exactly i mean and and that's that could be her her hesitation and and here's the thing Thank you. significant other has no desire to do it exactly exactly i mean and and that's that could be her her hesitation and and here's the thing there's nothing wrong with you both having questions and and making that decision maybe that will be something that you'll explore individually but you know just i mean if you ever wanted to trygging, I'd let you go to somebody else who is experienced to do it to you. Okay, smart ass. Do you want to know why I could, with zero knowledge of anything else, the one reason why I would never be able to do pegging, be pegged, seriously? Control? i and that's just completely honest so who knows maybe i would fucking love it i mean i have no idea do control i don't do it you don't but i do it essentially i don't i'm always like no't move. No, you can't kiss me. You have to just lay there. Yeah, but if I physically, if I physically wanted to take control back. You could. I could. Or so I like to say. So tonight I'm going to tie him up. Yeah, that'll be great. No, but I mean, and here's the thing. There are times that I've thought about, I think I would, part of me would love to try to be tied up, but part of me, I couldn't handle that. I want to try a little bit on you. I don't think, I don't, I honest to God, don't, I don't think I could. I want to get into it. And Angela's a good point. Trust and control interrelated. Yeah, it is. I think it is interrelated. I think it, I would be more apt to try with you because I do trust you that if I said no more. but you know having talked to some of the kinksters and part of that challenge is sometimes to to go further past your immediate reaction threshold. I would like to try it, but I know me and I'm just going at not pegging. I mean, being tied up, but I could never I could never give up control that much to be pegged. I mean, don't know it's just who i am i don't have any desire to like that's something i really wanted to look into but even to be when i was tied up when we had the knife blade on there were times i found myself almost not as concentrating on the knife blade as the fact that i was tied up because occasionally if you remember right occasionally I would tug a little bit and and i knew that at any point in time and we went through safe word the whole nine yards and she was great about asking are you okay you know double checking and you were right there all the way through you were right there and it's saying i have no desire to be blindfolded. I could not be blindfolded and tied up. No fucking way. I would lose my fucking mind. That happened. Really? Great. Shit. Isn't that funny? Because I'm such a control freak. Most of the people that are control freaks are willing to, yeah, no.
Speaker2:
The tying I like, and I would like to get into, I just, too cheap to spend money on ropes and shit, is shibari. But I think it's because it's very artful and pretty.
Speaker1:
Do you think, and we're almost out of time, but do you think that it makes a difference? Because it was important to me when I did the night play that you were there. Do you think that it makes it easier to do that if you know that I don't know. think that it makes a difference because it was important to me when i did the night play that you were there do you think that it makes it easier to do that if you know that you have like an advocate like i'm your advocate outside of the situation that you know that at any point in time even though we trusted everybody let me make that clear that i could step in you knew that if i needed to if you screamed help i'm gonna step in with what with anything to do like a kink set set up like that would that be a big deal would that make a difference it would but i wouldn't necessarily have you there for some of it okay well there you go we're gonna follow this up next week one of the nice play you weren't there well nice play is a little bit different but then if i did tie it up you said that you weren't you wouldn't watch it uh yeah i said that but i would i know me and i'd want to be somewhere all right so hey you know what maybe this is a topic we'll talk about more next week because we gotta go okay all right hey all right so again uh thank you very much for the questions thank you very much our studio audience for listening man time just fucking flies uh again don't forget boobs may sag tits may no you did it right i don't know boobs and tits and whatever read a magazine read asm lifestyle magazine.com today go on to their awards and vote for us there are sponsors don't forget to buy the swag full swap shop.com send us emails at crazy k-r-a-z-y dot casbah k-a-s-b-h uh at gmail.com visit us on YouTube. Visit our website, crazykazba.com. I think I've said that 16 times. We're on Twitter at TruthCrazy. We're other places. You can find us everywhere. Full Swap Shop. Do you even go on Instagram? Full Swap Radio. No, I don't even go on that fucking thing. Full Swap Radio. Check us out today. Doing it the only way I know how. We gotta get the fuck out of here, man. The only way I way i know how the only way i want to the only way i ever motherfucking will with or without my hat casbah style out
