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Hey kids, the program you're about to listen to contains some adult situations, adult language, themes, and other adult topics. If you're easily offended, this show's not for you. Hey you crazy motherfuckers, welcome back to another edition of Crazy Truth, I'm your host with the most, I am Cole, and I'm here with the lovely, lovely, and highly fucking annoyed... I thought you were going to say something else....Miss Amanda. Put that fucker down. In just a minute, I will. We're really excited. We're trying out some new sound effects on the show here tonight. No, we are not real excited.
Cole's really excited. You know, the thing is, I know everybody's already telling me that it sounds shitty, but I need a new one that's all I have. We have, like, an action. I know. Well, we don't know how to use that. But before, ooh, it's seven. I got it right now on time. Oh, Jesus. Seven.
Okay, before we get started, we want to take a quick moment, and we want to remind everybody this is season three, episode 124, and hold on, and we want to do our sponsors right now give it to me because our sponsors pay our bills all right fine take it bitch all right uh first and foremost don't hey you know what altplayground.net uh yeah be there actually altplayground.net making it even easier to customize your personal swinging experience on their site with some of their newest features the news feed now allows you to keep up to date with your lifestyle contacts and see when new events are announced and view the naughtiest pictures all in one convenient place you can put naughty pictures on there as well don't forget us on there, Crazy Truth, Crazy Kazma.
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I would ring and make a cool sound effect, but I'm not allowed to have the fucking sound effect thing because somebody's being a bitch don't forget also do you like our show well fuck yeah you like our show you're listening do you like front porch swingers kinky frame of mind the naked relationship the swinging flamingos if you do make sure you allShop.com today. Help support all the shows. Check out some badass merchandise. Get it today at FullSwapShop.com. Can I have it back now? Nope. God, fuck. I try to do something fun. I try to add a new cutting edge edge to the show. Cutting edge?
Okay, what am I fucking supposed to do? The show behind the times is not funny. No, I don't have any money, so I can't get any really cool shit. Sorry, it got caught in my legs. Well, too bad that wasn't the only thing, huh? I did 28 years ago, and it was so worth it. Wow. It was. You had magical pussy. It was magically delicious. I did. And that's what I was getting pussy. So it wasn't like just a desperation thing. It was actually just that good. Are you sure it just wasn't easy? No, I mean most of the girls I was hanging out with were easy.
No, most of the girls I was hanging out with back then or that I was talking to were easy. So that was not like a prerequisite at all. So that was a challenge. No, yeah, you were actually way more work than anything I was used to to fucking, you know. Well, did that set you up for the future? Should have seen that fucking red flag. We had to, we like talked and we like, you got me all fucking, I'm like hooked here.
You got, we like talked and communicated and we weren't just drunk and i knew who you were and i didn't put my glasses in water because i didn't know what i was doing all kinds of weird shit yeah it was awesome you broke your glasses maybe you really couldn't see me that well no no i felt you have it's all good you had to you had to fucking do it to me you had to start that's pretty cool when i click on one person's thing so it shows up their shit it's been doing that that's awesome for a while okay well that's something new to me remember i'm out of time i'm using the old fucking sound machine because that's all i have uh anyways for those of you uh if you're just listening to this show on thursday when it's released what the fuck hurry up and subscribe to our youtube channel or be a part of our brand or not some brand new new, but our secret, secret Facebook group, Crazy Casbah.
It's not brand new. Don't tell the others. I know, I corrected myself. Oh my god. Anyways. It's nagging day, can you tell? No shit. Nag. Bitch, bitch, thank you. Anyway, so make sure that you sign up. Get a hold of us. If you want to be part of the secret group, then you can watch what we're doing, which is even way more entertaining when we're glaring at each other and taking shit away from each other and slapping each other. Like, you know, tit slap. And shit like that. So that was like a reverse porn slap. If it's a porn slap, it's up. Well, that was just a reverse one.
That's all I could do. Anyways. Did you? Yeah. Nummy. Did you get uh did you ever send pictures or whatever of the big dick to uh the one guy that needed to know how big the cock was the big white talk talk about it why are we okay so we had we answered the question oh my lord okay okay oh you get to do the sound effect When it involves a cock But I don't get to You've heard us talk about this big dildo I don't even really know if it's a dildo I guess technically it is That was given to us It smells of Rubber really bad Of disappointment And ripped fucking flesh. Now, so I was taking pictures.
Now wait a minute, hold on. Put a cap on this fucker for a second. Last week we answered a question that if you listened to last week's show, if you didn't, fuck you. I'm just kidding. Last week's show was awesome. We answered a question. Folks let us know that it was very helpful. The advice we gave solved the problem. I've seen that on like a fucking mic hill. You did anything. I can't get my mouth around it. Anyways, they wanted to know how big the big fucking dong here was. And so this thing, we wanted to put it back on the air.
For those of you at home that can't see or aren't watching it. No, I took pictures of it. So how tall? You measured. How tall was it? It is from the actual table. Or what would be on a person, the base of the dick. Yeah, it's kind of got a suctionist cup thing. It is ten and a half inches. So the tall, you could do the tall. Well, yeah. You could do the tall. Now, but what's the girth on this fucking hog? Girth, I did it around the base of the head. The mushroomy part. That was Mario Brothers just so you know. It's 12 inches. It's 12 inches. Because I even brought my little tape in.
Handy dandy, handy dandy. That's a foot around. Actually, it's a little more than 12 inches it's like 12 and it's almost it's almost 12 and a half almost 12 and a half okay so you now you've had three children all of them came out of your vag correct yes but they were going out not going in right well in theory hopefully if this goes in it will also come out or otherwise you're going to have back problems uh so i don't have all the parts i had, so now you have a much better chance of this because the kids' heads were bigger than 12 inches around, weren't they?
I don't remember any of the kids coming out looking like a dick. It wasn't until they got older that I thought they were dicks sometimes. Okay, so the first... Don't point that thing at me. You could lose an eye with that thing. The first kid I had was only two and a half pounds He wasn't as big as a nut But his head circumference was 15 And he still is big headed to this day Okay so you popped that out with no problem Well there were some tears There was no epidural or anything No problem my dying ass Now the other ones were bigger And of course number two had a really big head.
So, I don't know. I don't want to try it again. So, wait a minute. Here's the thing. Let me ask you this. Because I ripped and shit. No, listen to me. Hold on for a second. This is important. All you guys need to be listening to this. Okay. You know, we all like challenges, and people like to be a part of challenges and things. I put this out here. Would you be willing to do this? I'm asking. You do not know what I'm about to ask you. I'm asking you. If we got, I don't know, a hundred people signed up for your fucking fans, fuck, friends, fuck, fuck, friends, fans, whatever that is.
Only fans should get it right. If a hundred people signed up for it, would you hop on the big fucking the Stay Pu Marshmallow Man's cock right here? Yes. Okay. So, here's the thing. So, now we're putting it out here, and we're serious about this. So, here's the deal. You know what? You fucking, we put her vag where my mouth is. Not the first time. No.
So, it ass this time I didn't bet your ass So what you're saying So you need to say it so it's on tape For the lawyers I've seen a really skinny girl take it I probably can't I might have to like just do some stretches and shit Right, work on them kegels Okay, but you're willing If we hit 100, 100 only fans I'd do it you'll do it and we'll put it we'll put it exclusively on only fans yeah that's the only place okay so how do they hurry and start signing up right now because you guys can listen to the show and sign up how do you know earlier today i had a guy saying he couldn't find it by searching my name but if i gave him him a link, he could find it.
Okay. Well, really? Yeah. That's what he said. Did you ever check it yourself to see? I'm just checking. Okay. Well, what should they search? If they can't find it, they can find it through us. Ms. Ms. Amanda Casba. Amanda Casba. Any hyphens or anything word like that? No. Okay. Ms. Amanda Kazba. Like M-S. M-S. Amanda Kazba. K-A-S-B-H. Sign up today. We'll get 100 people signed up exclusively on OnlyFans. She will fuck the big monster. Mike, don't worry. It goes back. I had those same questions. Otherwise, I would be screwed, okay? So there you go. Awesome.
Look at us going, making video history. It stretches, but it goes back like having a baby. It stretched, and then it went back. Here's the thing. Once it goes on OnlyFans, we're only going to leave it on OnlyFans exclusively for so long. And then it will go on to Pornhub. Then it will go on to our Pornhub channel. Of joy. Yeah. And then the games really begin. Next up, we're going to see if we can fix this Volkswagen up your cooter. I have seen a video of a gal taking it. There's no reason I have faith. She just went woo and went slow and then I'm like, oh my god. I believe. I believe.
I have faith in your cooter. I believe your cooter can gobble that up. Dom. You might not fucking, you might waddle for a day or two, but I believe it can get there. And I have faith. And you know what? I think all these people have faith. Also, snap back, pussy. I think all these folks have faith too. So sign up today. Okay, so shall we get on with the show? Shall we get on with the show? Yo, yo. Showtime, kids. Sure. Okay, so... I'm only trying to think of the girth I've taken. No, don't think about that. Ramos, we have faith in her, too. Yeah, everybody has faith with us.
I've probably had a girth over five. Oh, fuck yeah, you have. The first time I had sex with my little, I couldn't move, I couldn't, I couldn't fuck. You've had, you've had bigger, yeah, you've had bigger than five. I've, I've seen it. And it wasn't me as much as I wish I could say it was. Mine's 12. Nah, nah. If I had a dick that big, I would hurt myself. Do you know how tiring that would be to jack that off? Jesus fucking Christ. Is it done yet? Okay. I can't get my hand around it. Or your mouth. It would have to be it. The key is if you can get them pussy lips going. Lots of lubes. Squirt.
Stretching out. Okay. Let's do the show. Shall we? Sure. So I did something different tonight. You mean we were going to just talk about it? No. I did something different tonight. We have a lot of questions, and we always have questions, whatever. But as a lot of you might not know, so CASBA, Crazy Truth, that's us. We're CASBA Inc., right?
We have all of our secret Facebook pages secret facebook pages we added another secret facebook page we we inquired we acquired another one uh and so we're growing so that's because that's what we fucking do we grow right okay so this page uh is uh primary for questions and answers and whatever so it's got like uh we're going close to 1300 members on this page now so i put a couple questions out and these questions were fucking awesome because here's the deal the month of september has sucked the biggest sweatiest nastiest been in swamp ass ran through fucking sewer water fucking shitty month i think i've had forever and definitely for this year okay everything you name it if it can be fucked up and retarded well congratulations it's happened in september pause yeah close patrick there's no way at the end okay so so anyway so i i decided that i didn't think it's been that it it has it has sucked god it's been horrible so when i got this page i'm like okay let's let's ask some questions let's let's see i want to get a feel for so because of course obviously we have people that are already some haters like what are you doing getting another page and all that other yeah but some people just blatantly hate us yeah and you know what here's what i say if you hate us thanks fuck off uh and you know if you think you might want to hate us okay go ahead join the crew Thank you.
Yeah, but some people just blatantly hate us. Yeah, and you know what? Here's what I say. If you hate us, thanks. Fuck off. If you think you might want to hate us, okay, go ahead. Join the crew. We've got people on the national scale the same way. So, yay. We do it internationally. I will create a fucking incident. I promise. Anyways, so the first question that I asked, I wanted to see, because we've got a lot of new swingers. We've got a lot of experienced swingers.
We've got a lot of uh whatever it's not coming up in the search so there's something wrong what are we gonna do i don't oh my lord we'll send links to everybody my phone is being used so i can't tell you but can you type it the guy no the guy earlier right told me he couldn't search it but I gave him a link with the exact same thing, and he could click it. Could you put a link on here? Later. Yeah, okay. I can't do it right now. My link, I have to get off of the page. Gotcha. Okay. See, it's September. All hell is breaking loose in fucking September. So, actually, hold on. Stop it. I'm beat.
God is my witness. Yeah, you are. Okay, so, actually, I'm going to... You i was god is my witness okay so actually i'm gonna wait a minute stop i gotta fucking finish my thought we're gonna back up a second uh look i'm already flustered last night i made the mistake of going out looking at reviews and some of our haters have hit some of the reviews on our show i love it on what and it's so obvious when about it too. The one on Apple was the greatest. The one on what? On Apple. Oh, really? Oh.
on our show i love it i'm with and it's so obvious when they fit it too the one on apple was the greatest the one on what on apple oh really oh fuck yeah it was awesome it was stellar we couldn't even get through a few minutes it was horrible and vulgar and everything he says is nothing but dirty words out of out of his mouth and we went and looked at his stuff and you guys need to stop giving bad advice we saw your page blah oh I wonder if you're a hater well I'll be damned weird especially since I recognize who you use as a code you fucktards anyways I don't read into that stuff so this month has been fucked up so I'm all kinds of disconjointed anyways so besides the secret page that we added or we we we acquired we also added a couple secret pages okay this week this month we uh added a crazy guys page for guys only and we acquired an interracial interracial caspa page uh and and so because i wanted to make sure that I would try to do as many things to be as fucking difficult as humanly possible, I, I dove fucking headfirst into that fucking, uh, craziness, which we're getting there.
Potholes? Yes. We're getting there. Stress? Yes. Do I regret it? No, because we're trying to be all inclusive. So I, I wanted to find some happy news. Okay. That'd be a song. That'd be a song reference if you, if you know that reference. Okay. Uh, okay. There you go. See, so we, so the happy news is, uh, and, uh, and, i put okay what has surprised you the most in the lifestyle since you've been enjoying the lifestyle and what has changed the most since you joined the lifestyle. Okay. And that's all I put.
And I got to tell you, so we have gotten, I think last time I looked, there was like 50 or 60 responses. Okay. Okay. And I wasn't originally going to do the show on these things, but the responses were so awesome. I'm like, you know what?
We're going to talk about this shit this shit okay because this shit's like stellar stuff information so let's hit on first what surprised you the most about the lifestyle what do you think would be the number one thing because you didn't really you don't really look at those i didn't look at them yeah so what would what would you say is the thing that surprised you the most since you've been in the lifestyle about the lifestyle? I could be playing some cool sound effects right now if someone handed that fucking thing back to me, but they won't. It's got to either be clickiness or immaturity.
Okay. Yeah, well, yeah, actually, so way to go that way with it right on the bat. Yeah. Okay, the thing that... Well, I'm trying to think, a lot of people think negative. No, I didn't ask you what you thought they said, what did you, what, for you. Well, that's what I thought. Once again, we're so excited for October next month, we just can't fucking wait. For you. I thought, you meant, never mind. No, yeah, it's okay, that's okay. Oh, my fucking Lord.
we'll be interviewing for host not guest host miss manna remain the guest host i'm just looking for somebody taking a leap of absence what this is like taxi slow down what what does no that's not even it what surprised you the most about the lifestyle what does surprise you the most about the lifestyle? What has surprised you the most about the lifestyle? We really are going to have to start rehearsing shit. I can see how this fucking goes. Well, there's a number of things, but what surprised me the most is the friendships. Okay, and you know what? Okay, that's awesome. Do I get a treat? Sure.
Yeah, it's a big white dildo over here. Porn slap.
Ah, no, okay, so what surprised, and that's actually about 80%, 80 to 85% of the people, the number one first thing they listed that surprised them the most about the lifestyle was the level of friendships that they have made since they've been a lifestyle now okay here's the deal i talk about this and yes so you all know we are going to be offering a handy dandy fucking notebook casper notepad just so you know because i said so you need to get this out you need to write this down and remember this response the number one thing that people talked about was how great the friendships were. Okay?
People don't use notebooks. That's I do. So anybody else out there that uses whatever electronic device you need to get it the fuck out and make note of this shit. Does that matter? Fuck. Anyways what are they supposed to be remembering? Oh my god.
sweet mother of fuck they're supposed to remember that the friendships are the biggest thing that's surprising about the lifestyle okay okay i didn't remember that part but okay you need to write it down i have a pen and paper here for you okay perfect jesus okay anywho okay so and that's awesome i'm like well that's great that that shows just that what the thing we preach all the time right community right okay so the next part of it what has changed the most since you've been in lifestyle now this was really funny what do you think has the most since we've been in a lifestyle?
What do you think? The next review will say, there's too much silence in there. Oh, shut up. There isn't too much silence. Please. Give me a chance to think. It's a lot of cobwebs. You know what would help? The sound of a sound. Oh, shut up. What do you think has changed the most since I forgot you? What has changed since for you what has changed the most i don't know okay so there's a number of things but i mean what is the most isn't yeah well and and a lot of people had a problem with that part of the question because here here's what's happened. The responses were really funny.
Instantly, what has changed? Most people said they feel like there has been some form or less respect in the lifestyle since they began. And then they would go in and elaborate.
So the things that people talked about things got too clicky okay okay people uh were more demanding on their time and less tolerant of anything else coming up okay and that they were less respectful to the other partners they only cared about about what was in front of them in front of them and mike is saying on it for those who don't know yeah so he's we do this live in front of our secret facebook group and mike you said it perfectly access to social media all these things are social media things now the reason i thought that was such a big deal okay because you know you know me you know that you know that I don't ever do anything.
There's always a reason why I do things, right? Yes, always. There's always a teaching moment in there. And you know how frustrated I've been recently. Yes. Right? And I'm frustrated with people because right now most people fucking suck, right? And I mean, it is what it is. Most people are fucking, you know, they suck. They just do, right? Okay. And here's the thing that hit me the most about these things. Okay. Because the number one thing was clicky. That was the biggest added and respecting people.
And I was amazed because I'm sitting there going, these people going the level of friendships so here's what's amazing about the lifestyle i i ran the same question on my other pages other places same responses so why in the flying fuck if the number one thing from people that have been in it from 10 years, 15 years, 20 years to six months or newer say that friendship is the most, the thing they've been amazed with on how close and what great friendships they developed.
If you know that and you feel that, why in the flying fuck would you turn around and be a clicky fuck stick seriously why would you be a fucking twat waffle cunt nugget or a fucking douchebag dickhead and exclude somebody because you didn't know them tell me tell me is that not the most amazing fucking thing you've ever heard in your entire fucking life? You know what?
We're going to go out and hang out with our super close friends that we have a super deep relationship with that we didn't know before we started fucking, and they're awesome, and they've made a difference in our life, and when we get there, if there's anybody else there that's new, we're going to ignore them. Seriously? Give me that fucking sound making thing. No. We're not getting that. God. Well, you know, I started to think about, you know, the first parties that we went to. And you can say it was clicky, but it was more of they didn't know who we were.
And we had to kind of make ourselves known and get into a group. And we didn't go out of our comfort zone either, which that's part of this. It's like, okay, is it so much that shit is clicky? Yes, there are clicks. Okay, we get that.
Is it so much that it's clicky, or is it that if i don't know you and you don't know me we're gonna be we're gonna be like two dogs we're gonna sniff each other's asses but kind of at a distance sort of thing we're not gonna be saying hey i don't know you fuck yeah rock on if you're new how much of an effort do you make to get out of your comfort zone to walk up and say hey we're new but if you're experiencing you're there are you making an effort to walk up to the new people and saying hey we've never seen you here before we're cool on amanda i mean now people go well it's different we have no excuse not to do that and a lot of people right now listening are gonna go well of course you guys should you guys have a show and you guys are out and we see you and cole you're always fucking jojo the circus monkey doing fucking crack cocaine and blowing fucking squirrels and whatever the fuck i do you blow squirrels no but i'm you know they're like of course you would no there's a time that we just kind of just sat back and watched everybody let me give you all a little hint i'm not that outgoing with people i don't know as general i have to work on it to do that but here's the thing no it's not just us any one of you if you have been at in the this lifestyle any length of time and have any sort of of uh comfort with the event you're at to say you're too nervous to walk up and introduce yourself to somebody new is a fucking cop out.
And it's bullshit. It's bullshit. What this show, what I'm doing with these questions, honestly, I'm going to do what you're not supposed to do. I'm calling the shit out. I'm laying the gauntlet. Fuck it. This is what we do. Okay. Wow, I'm impressed. I know. So my thing is, here's the thing. The clicky. Okay, the time management, it does amaze me how much people are waiting. And again, I think this is a product of social media.
There is a thing where people think that they can just say, let's everything right now and go fuck and that does not work for people okay is there any way to get rid of it all i can say is if you're somebody that does that you know like we're empty nesters so we could in theory do that be respectful of other people nobody has that i can tell you if you have the opportunity though okay don't totally rule it out because if you ever have the opportunity to just at the last minute for no apparent reason go fuck it's hot as shit one of our hottest experiences a couple we'd hooked up with a couple weeks before randomly got a hold of us on a Sunday morning and said, hey, what are you guys doing this afternoon?
Nothing. Want to meet at a hotel and go fuck? And we went and met him halfway between Omaha and Lincoln and went and fucked for like three hours. And that was hot as shit. So if you have that opportunity, definitely do it. But, I mean, I get it. I get it, the respect, you know, for people's time, okay? Clicking this. I'm not down on that, by the way. Clicking this. I figured you're not. I mean, there was times people had to wait hours for you to get off work. Oh, fuck yeah. And it sucked. I hated it. Well, none of us liked it. I hated it because my job was one. I didn't have a choice.
The store closed at 7, but if there were still customers there, I had to stay until they were done, which could be 10 o'clock. And it was horrible because to make plans, you're like, we hope to be able to be here by this time. Yep. But we still had to pay bills, and we had to eat and stuff. I remember one couple where we're like, okay, he's supposed to get off work at this time. Is that okay? Yeah, that's cool. And I think by like one, we ended up showing up. We're like, is that okay? And they go, yes, come over. I'm like, is there? It's 1 o'clock in the morning.
1 o'clock in the morning because there had been a home football game too. Yeah. Fought the traffic and we were there until 5 in the morning and we had a great time. But they were very, very patient and very cool with us.
and we lost a lot of people that couldn't because we couldn't set a set schedule so be cool with people on time i mean and you know what no don't ever fucking family always comes first that's the reality and don't ever feel bad if you switch if you switch on that you know don't ever switch family shit to go fuck you just can't do that but i'm I'm going to come back to the clicky part in just a few minutes, okay? Because I'm not done with this at all. Okay, so real quick, because we're at the halfway point of this fucking show already. Jesus fucking Christ.
So real quick, we're going to take a quick break. We're going to come right back. Don't go away. Can I have my sound thing? No. God damn it. Hello? Hello? Stop it. Hello? Hi. Glad you could stop by. You know, we were just out in the neighborhood, in your neighborhood, in the lifestyle, and we wanted a chance to get to know you better. Well, we can't come and knock on each and every one of your doors. So what we did was we set up a website just for you to get to know us better.
and hopefully we get to know you better well we can't come and knock on each and every one of your doors so what we did was we set up a website just for you to get to know us better and hopefully we get to know you too when you sign up for our newsletter so today visit www.crazykazba.com learn about how we started learn about our past where we're going find out about our events links to our stores and a whole world of other things that we believe in like a whole section on supporting small businesses and lifestyle we can't wait to meet you and we can't wait for you to learn more about us so we can be with you soon because remember you're not going to hear this because we just can't get everywhere we want to but you can read about it sign up for a newsletter and it'll be a virtual family visit hey there you go there's a different one huh wow okay sometimes i really wonder about you i really a little squirrel a little squirrel up the nose okay so we're talking about questions right and now remember i'm not done on this one part of the question but i'm going to go to the second question we asked because for the second half of the show this is important again this is this question was this question was really really exciting to me uh and i was really curious to see what was going to happen with this one okay okay are you ready get out your handy dandy notebook somebody already said they want one by the way i can't wait to get these ordered anyways okay so the question was what is the one piece of advice that you would give either an individual or a brand new couple on their very first day of swinging i was excited because i wanted to see i wanted to see what the response would be what would what would your answer that to be what would be the thing that if you were going to tell them because we kind of do this what would you tell a brand new couple or an individual going to hook up or they've already hooked up let me let me hear their first i'm gonna i'm gonna re-ask the question and i hope everybody at home let's ask let's see where i'll fall along going one piece of advice you would give a new couple or individual on their very first day of being swingers they've made the decision we're going to swing my personal thing that i would go because i read some of them right but i'm like going yeah yeah but it was i didn't expand it mine would be only do what you're comfortable with doing oh that's an awesome one that is an awesome well because sometimes you go oh well we're supposed to they this, so we need to hurry up and do it.
No, you do what you're comfortable doing. You do you. If it's not something you're comfortable doing, then you just know. Yep. Okay. Now, that's interesting because that was- Did anybody answer that? Yeah. That was probably, that was like the third. Okay. The third.
The number one thing that was said The number one said Was communication And in multiple forms Talk But see, that's important But I think after your first Well, you have your rules And you talk So basically you chose like day six And just ignored the question And I'm fucking Well, you know Are you really a swinger Just because you think about it Or are you a swinger Because you act upon it When you start thinking about it Look at me Oh, fuck Thank you And this is September Fuck you all Thank you.
you think about it or you're a swinger because you act upon it you when you start thinking about it look at me oh fuck thank you and this is september fuck you all we'll see you all in october jesus christ well that'll be next week's show yeah well yeah we ain't gonna have time no the the thing is okay the first the first question the first part that most went on was communication in some form either talk talk about everything communicate about everything communicate feelings communicate be strong have a strong relationship communicate that was the number one answer number two and this was really amazed me keep your partner's needs on your mind at your forefront that's a good one okay and then and then third was be true to yourself, actually.
Be true to you. Do what you want to do. Now, I want to hit on this one, and here's why. Now, look, before I go any further with this, for those that have not tuned us out at this point in time, okay, because this isn't the happy message, it's not some sex story, it's not all the other bullshit.
We have stories to go along with this is the real deal okay sometimes when something is truthful it hurts to hear it okay the reason there are things that need to be changed in the lifestyle is because people need to hear shit that they're not hearing okay so when you come to our show you're gonna fucking hear it because i don't give two fucks the whole thing i'm gonna skip over the communication part for a second i'm gonna go to the second part of your partner's needs always in check and here's what was really fucking interesting it was both men and women that answered that a lot of people put communication and keep your partner's needs Now, reason why i think that's interesting i'm gonna call it just like it fucking is okay if you look at 90 percent of fucking profiles on most adult sites if there's a question for how do you play always use condoms sometimes use condoms partner's choice probably 90 percent of these motherfuckers will always put, always use condoms, sometimes use condoms, partner's choice.
Probably 90% of these motherfuckers will always put always use condoms. Okay? Okay. Why? Why do they put that? I'll tell you why they put that. They put that because that's what people want to see. Because that's the right quote unquote answer. Condoms all the time. Right? Ish.
that's that's i will i will i don't keep going that that's that's the pretty answer but that's not the truth that is not what happens i don't necessarily agree that that's why people put it well why do you why do you think they put it sometimes some people not everybody but some of them put that so if they were with somebody that they felt should use a condom then they don't have to go you need to wear a condom right it make them feel like they're right they don't they don't call somebody out but they're not positive on their but the bottom line is most of the people or a lot of people are not putting it because they believe every time they fuck somebody, they should have a condom.
Right. No, I agree. I understand. So, so, and the reason why I use that as an example, because here's the deal. We've all read it. A bunch of people listening to it right now have it, have said condoms all the time. And I promise you, we've all seen it. Some of us have done it. Whatever.
There's been times and situations when the shit was ready to go there was no condoms talked about there was no condoms came out and you fucked without a condom okay that's reality i don't think of that response as being necessarily just on condoms no no no the condoms is just an example to use that people can understand. Okay. Okay. The reality of it is, is that all these people say, and hopefully all the people that said it are true, but I think this is, this is indicative, not just of our pages. This is the lifestyle. It's the right thing to say that you're concerned about your partner.
Okay. That is, it's true. And it's the right thing to say. The challenge that I have and i put out there to everybody listening is if you thought that is an answer do your actions back up your words because we have been in this situation a shit ton of times where the actions of the other couple did not in any way shape or form equal to giving two flying fucks what was going on with their partner. Would you agree with that statement? I agree with that part, yeah. And that's my thing, is everything that we do.
Look, in the lifestyle, the challenge we have, and I know the people on my page and our pages are legit, okay? And I love them because they are legit. We're talking about this in the general scope of the rest of the world out there we say shit because we feel like we need to we say shit because it sounds like the right thing to say or it's the right answer or it's what our parents want to hear it's what our boss wants to hear whatever the case may be words mean nothing actions. Actions mean everything. So the question is, I have seen this at too many parties. Look, it's Halloween season.
You are all going to see this coming up very, very soon. You are going to go to a Halloween party this year, hopefully with any luck, if we all die of the fucking Corona beforehand, you're going to go to a Halloween party.
You're going to see a couple and you know what they're going to be one is not going to be having any fun or one is not going to be having a good time or something's going to be happening and the other partner isn't going to have a fiddles fuck clue what's going on because they're worried about fresh dick or fresh pussy and they don't know or care now when the event's over they care but at that moment in time the chick's gonna suck my dick what yeah i'm gonna fucking bang this dude yeah it doesn't work that way people ask us how we our relationship is the way it is it is because when when i say to people and i can say with pride that you always are worried about me there has not been a single time when my dick has not worked and i'm fucking going into a massive panic attack and and wanting to fucking just die that you've ever looked over after the fact and went oh what did something happen you're you know it you're like let's switch you're you're because you're in tune with me and it's and it's it's a big thing because it's something that you know what i wasn't as good at it with you and i learned the hard way that with that and it's something i've had to work on to get there so the first part of this is yes that's something we do need to tell new people but we need to show them we need to show them we need we in the lifestyle have to lead by example at events and activities because here's the deal when you're new and you're still oh my god somebody's giving somebody a blow job and that's overwhelming and you're busy slapping each other going look and the whole overwhelmingness of everything if if you see things being done the right way you will imitate them but if you see the husband that's just worried about fresh meat that doesn't give two fucks what his wife or girlfriend's doing you'll imitate that also it's the same with communication we talk about it but every party you see it you see the couples that they don't communicate now shit's gonna happen okay that's life it happens how you deal with it is the most important thing but let me tell you something kids if everybody was legitimately communicating and it was it was truly at the top of the priority list like it should be we would not see continuous victims of the lifestyle that's what the crazy truth is all about this is what we're we want to try to make it so that i want in a perfect world i would love to put an event and a weekend event some of the big events we do and not a single couple fight okay we all know that's bullshit it's never gonna happen right well a lot of time a lot of times i don't see it but i don't go hunting it out i just better put blinders on it see it we it just when miss amanda and i talk about that we talk about everything 11 years in the lifestyle we play alone now we have what i just dubbed the new phrase we don't have an open marriage we have a free range marriage there's a difference because we're chickens what do i mean by a free range a free range relationship here's the deal if she's gonna fuck her boyfriend at work she doesn't call me or text me tell me she's going to she'll mention it after the fact oh by the way if i want to fuck a girl i i don't have to call and get her permission or text her ahead of time is it okay oh by the way out of respect most of the time we we always let each other know what's going on.
But we have a free range relationship. We have complete trust. And the reason we have complete trust is because we both know that we're going to completely communicate everything about the situation to each other at a later time either ahead of time or before or afterwards we're not worried our communication we work on our communication every single day we work to get better at it every single day it's it's who we are now are we perfect fuck no have we had fights fuck yes have we miscommunicated fuck yes but we were able to then legitimately overcome it by talking it through.
Because instead of just talking, we learned to listen. We learned to listen. The most important part of communication. You know how many times Cole goes, just hear me out. Just hear me out. Don't say anything. Here's the reality of it. The one thing with the communication that when people talk about talk, and they're exactly right. But the part they missed, the part everybody misses. Look, are you listening to hear or are you listening to respond? There's a difference.
you listen to respond you're looking for hot buttons things to fire back on things to counterpoint counteract it's look you can google it it's a true this is they have classes on this you have to learn to listen to hear it's not just about talking communication is about listening and working to find until you i use a shit ton of analogies i keep using analogies until i get my point until we get on the same language when when miss amanda when you're talking to me and i'm not getting the point you try different things until you finally finally, to we're on the same wavelength, to you start communicating the language that I can hear.
And that's the key is that you have to listen to hear. And that's the part of communication. That's the part why I want to hit on that is when we tell people you need to communicate that's only half of the battle if and here's how i can tell you if you've done or not okay understand i did a lot of speech class and a lot of stuff so this is that's why i've taken classes on this okay but here a really good way to tell whether or not you're listening to hear or listening to respond is how quickly you do respond.
If Miss Amanda starts to say a sentence and within she hardly gets the last word out and boom, I fire a response right back. I was listening to respond. Look, in the world we live in right now, and I'm just going to call it out there because it is what it is. Do you want to know what the number one fucking problem is in the world right now with everything, with politics, with racism, with the financial divide, with everything? The whole problem is it's not that one side's right and one side's wrong. Thank you very much.
politics with racism with with uh the financial divide with everything the whole problem is it's not that one side's right and one side's wrong it's that neither side is listening to listen to hear they're listening to respond they want to figure out what they can turn around and fire right back and here's the thing if you do that in your day-to-day life if you do that at your job as soon as your boss starts bitching at you you've got an instant retort right back to them if you do that in your home life in your regular relationship the kids say something the wife says something the husband says something you've got an instant retort back boom if you respond to shit on facebook or or in a regular conversation you get in a hot topic and you respond instantly back boom you are listening to respond and you're doing it wrong wow do you want to get a little fired up or what well the thing is is the worst part of the relation of the the lifestyle i can honestly say that when we started communicating correctly we have not had a fight since And that's probably been 18 years That's right Yep I can't remember the last Well I can't remember the last fight I was a stay at home mom Do you know where I'm going with uh-huh i know where you're going with uh-huh yep yep we'd have a blow-up like every six months yep then i went to every year and then yeah and and but in your exact right when we so the last fight fight we had was before we were in the lifestyle so think about this we've had we had disagreements we had failures and breakdowns in communication that took time to work through but it didn't go into a knockdown drag out fight by any stretch of the imagination so so think about that folks fucking other people didn't cause us to have knockdown drag out fights nope that might have been a tears time or two yeah but yeah but the thing was we didn't expressed why we didn't stop until we till we got all the way through the process until we got to the answers till we got on the same page we recognized that we weren't speaking the other one's language they weren't understanding you know very much so and and that and that's the that's the different now people just like you said you do you want to get animated about this there are people going to listen to this and go oh my god this guy's a fucking freak because this isn't your typical podcast you get fire and brimstone the reason for that is though watching freak because this isn't your typical podcast you get fire and brimstone the reason for that is though watching look having the pages we have you know on one page we're just about to hit 30 000 followers we're now at almost 8 000 people on our pages you know 60 000 people roughly around there that follow some different things we know all of them, but the, all, everybody who listens to all of you that listen to our show, that support our pages that are a part of our, you're a part of who we are.
Okay. And we understand that. And when you go to our events and whatever, and one person sending a comment, a compliment saying, you know, you made our day.
You really changed this because you guys we can make it we you know we've got a chance in the lifestyle or even we decided the lifestyle wasn't for us but it's because you helped us like drastically changes how you know our day just makes our day one one little thing like that just adds a glow for me like unbelievable why i also get to hear about all the fucking victims of the lifestyle and the marriages and the fucking broken relationships and blabbed by the broken friendships blabbed by you name it we do this not because we're perfect but because if we can share something to make the lifestyle better, which means every person that's part of the CASBA family, their experience better, not just in the lifestyle, but in life, we want to do that.
That means everything to us. So it legitimately hurts when we hear about another victim of the lifestyle. Yeah. Even if we've never met you, even if you're one of our haters, believe it or not, we don't like that. So the thing is, look, we want to give you stuff to be able to fix it.
And so when we hear people on the right path the communication is the right path don't stop short don't see the finish line go well we're done no cross it go all the way across really improve it's not just communication it's not just talking it's not who can out talk the other one it's about listening okay listening understanding seeing their point of view empathy i mean you don't necessarily have to agree with it no but it doesn't mean that you that it doesn't exist like there's times when you go no you're not doing that and i'll put my foot down and go So you'll want to make a bet.
We're human. I overstep my bounds, and you will put me in my place. And here's the thing. It doesn't mean that we agree on everything. No. Because we don't. We're still both two very strong-willed individuals. And we've learned to, when, you know, I say it in weddings all the time, it's about learning when to agree and when to disagree and knowing when to do both. And that's the thing. And there's some things, you know, we're still human. But people, they look for the path of least resistance. And it's like, well, we just talk. No, it's if you listen.
It isn't just talk, it's completely understanding their thought process, what they're thinking, how they're feeling. Yeah, it's knowing when to hug, it's knowing why they're tears, it's understanding, it's not just giving them to get the other person to shut up. Like, okay, so an example, the guy at work, okay, he calls him my boyfriend, whatever. Because he is. But I talk to Cole every day about what my feelings are, how my feelings are changing. What she means by that, by what? Towards him, not me. Towards him, yes, not towards you.
So then it gets to a conversation about, well, you know, don't leave me for him. That's not going to happen. And a lot of times that's a joke. This is how I'm feeling. Yes, it is. And I get it. But it's analyzing every bit of it. Yes. I'm a very analytical thinker. That's 28 years. We still do it. And it's not because we have to. It's because we want to.
Real quick, because we're running out of time imagine that i want i want yeah no shit i want to go back up i said i wasn't done with the what has changed and the concept of people talking about being clicky oh boy okay here's the deal you're gonna get firing brimstone on this one potential okay here's the deal the world right now doesn't like no one likes to take responsibility I don't like to take responsibility for anything. They don't want to admit when they fuck up shit. They don't want to admit any of that. Okay? There's other groups, clubs, whatever.
Trust me, that we watch and I watch the shit they do and they just don just don't give two fucks whatever and you can get away with that so long in in your life i guess whatever it's however you want to live when people bitch about the lifestyle being clicky and there were people that put on on this post well it's always been that way it always will i'm gonna to say this and i mean this in the kindest most gentlest way i possibly can say this to anyone who says that it's always been clicky it's always will be and there's nothing you can do about it fuck you you're wrong it's a fucking choice that's the bottom line you don't want to hear it because it's uncomfortable but It's a fucking choice.
That's the bottom line. You don't want to hear it because it's uncomfortable. But it's the fucking truth. This lifestyle is clicky. And this goes for the fucking kinksters, for the swingers, for the nudists, for whatever. And all these different branches, you know, when you talk about the tree of life, we're all just different branches.
And they all get on their own branches and think their branch is the best and blah fuck you this shit is clicky because everybody who chooses to be clicky makes it that way own it live it and it's your fucking deal bottom line there's no other way around that okay that's just how is. If you choose not to include people, you're the reason it's clicking. If you choose to be better than somebody else because they are different, you choose it. You choose to make it clicky.
If you think that swingers are dirty and shitty or kinksters are fucking idiots or nudists are not even in the lifestyle whatever you're making it clicky so don't fucking project your bullshit clicky crap onto the rest of us because there are some of us out here there are some of us out milling around that are just dumb enough that will step up to the fucking plate and go, here's the deal. Do it Casbah style. Suck my fucking dick. You're the one, the reason Sclaws is clicky, not me. Fuck off.
And you know what needs to happen and what I hope happens and I would love to have happen is I would love to see a shit ton of people at the Halloween party stand the fuck fuck up send us your pictures of doing it casbah style to clickiness but here's the deal this is how you have to do that you got to take a picture with somebody you don't know tell them who you fucking are introduce yourself tell them what casbah style is and take a picture saying fuck clickiness do you have balls enough to do it i don't know we got guys got balls enough to send random dick pics we got chicks that got balls enough to just fucking run all over people and do whatever they want okay well here's your chance to prove just how fucking billy badass are you will you stand up at a party at a place where it's not yours where it may be a little out of your comfort zone and introduce yourself to somebody new when you're fucking sober not stoned not fucking baked, not drunk sober, will you stand up and take a fucking few seconds to introduce yourself get their names, take a picture with them Casbah style and say fuck off to clickiness it's like an anti-bullying campaign is what this is if everybody will do that lifestyle won't be clicky anymore Here we go.
clickiness it's like an anti-bullying campaign is what this is okay if everybody will do that lifestyle won't be clicky anymore the thing is is you have the power i have the power she has the power we each own that ability to change it and bitching about it saying it will always be that way is bullshit. That is a weak ass excuse. Own it, change it, saying it will always be that way, is bullshit. That is a weak-ass excuse. Own it. Change it. Make it different. Do something about it. So I was not firing Brimstone. Damn close. All right.
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