Krazy Truth #110 Help My Partner is Cock Blocking us!

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Hey kids, the program you're about to listen to contains some adult situations, adult language, themes, and other adult topics. If you're easily offended, this show's not for you. Hey you crazy motherfuckers, welcome back to another edition of Crazy Truth. I'm your host with the most, I'm Cole, and I'm here with the lovely, lovely Miss Amanda. Hey. And we are here to titillate, titillate, and whatnot-alate. All of your dreams come true. It's the way we roll. So it's 742 on a Sunday. Father's Day. Hey, if you have fucking come in a girl and produced a baby, congratulations.

You are a father and you get to acknowledge his day. By the way, just so you know, if you didn't already know, look it up. Father's Day did not become an official federal holiday until, do you know? 1972, Richard Nixon was the president who made it an official holiday. It was introduced multiple times in Congress before they finally passed it, before presidential. Lyndon Johnson was the first one that gave a national proclamation, but he was not the one. It was Richard Nixon. So, there you go. I was a poli-sci major in college, and I like cool facts and shit and stuff. Words. Bitches. Okay.

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That's because you should be part of our YouTube channel and see the videos live. See how that works? Nice segue. Thank you. Thank you very much. It's like I think about this shit all the fucking time. Wow. You never know. You might see a nip slip or something like that from Miss Amanda. Just saying. You actually won't because it's on Facebook, too. And we're also recording. And YouTube kind of frowns upon that, don't they? No. Well, I don't fucking care. Who knows?

I don't who knows i don't know probably i know we market adult content uh so uh yeah i don't know for those of you that don't know obviously again we're recording live in front of our secret secret facebook page crazy casbah shh don't tell the others uh but if you want to sign up email us and we'll we'll get hooked up with that. Because on the overall page, you know, just overall, just right now, between all of our different groups and stuff and places and things and where we're at, right? We're Crazy Kazba, Crazy Truth, Crazy Alt Kazba, all of our shit, Crazy Ladies, all that shit.

Right now, today, we are like 58, 58 000 followers so we're fucking everywhere taking over the world bitches we're fucking everywhere we're gonna work on that part when you're when you have this many followers it's like sex doesn't happen what wow weird uh no we're gonna get out more once that is the the veil of sickness down with the sickness lifts we're gonna be out we're going to be trying to have sex with each and every one of our followers just so you know so get ready for the crazy casbah gangbang kids we're going to bring your lube because we're going to be sore uh it is what it is are you ready ah no why do why do mom and dad always why are they always in traction because they fuck non-stop It's our job One pump next Pump and go Can't we do two No motherfucker There's 49,000 other people behind you Take your turn and move along Take a number please Next Oh my gosh Now surfing Ding Okay So Wow Just another day Just another day and don't you know i keep forgetting we're so many places now on different radios and stuff and i'm so excited in two about a week we can have i cannot wait to make the next announcement that's coming out because it's fucking dick slapping upside the forehead huge that took, that took me a minute.

Uh-huh. That motherfucker. Yeah, I'm telling you what, man. I'm so giddy. It gives me a boner thinking about it. I've walked around for two days with a constant boner. We really need to up our equipment so I can just push a button and it goes do-yo-yo-yo-yoing for me. Did you do a line of coke before you started? Didn't you see the hooker when I kicked her out? No. Uh-huh. Wow. Holy shit. Oh, I touched my nose. I'm going to die. I don my nose. I'm going to die. I'm like exhausted. Dragon ass.

Okay, so yesterday we went on a kick-ass ride, a motorcycle ride and whatever, but some of us are kind of fucking tools and don't have a motorcycle. That'd be me. So, Miss Amanda was busy strapped on the back of another dude's bike for 250 miles, and I kicked ass in a car. There was like one time when I was at a stop and I'm like, are all these, are all, everybody here is like swingers, right? Yeah. Well, okay. And then I'm riding with somebody I don't know. But you do now. 250 miles later wrapped around him. No, he's, at the very end, I'm saying goodbye.

And he goes, she didn't grope me or nothing. I'm like, was I supposed to? I didn't know. If I would have known, I would have. Well, I would have been jacking up in the car by myself. Just saying. I mean, no, it was actually a great time. A local club put it on. And it was a blast. It was something new. It was something different, and it was a lot of fun. The one town that we stopped at for lunch. And the newspaper came out? The newspaper came out and said, well, what group is this? A group of friends. Just a group of friends.

Conveniently enough, ironically enough, they did not let me get close to the newspaper person. Imagine that. Did you notice that? Because the person that put it on. I didn't know which one she was. The person that put it on. Yeah. Nancy even was like, yeah. I could have said, why didn't you let me talk to him? She's like, no. That was the last thing we were going to let him do. You were not going to be in the newspaper. I'm like, well, fuck. Darn it. Okay. Yeah. So, I don't know. But anyways, good times. It was good times. It was fun. So, here's what's funny for a bunch of swingers.

There sure was a lot of people bitching about their ass hurting and their legs being spread for that long. A lot of people were having to break in their saddle asses for trips to Sturgis and whatever. So it's kind of funny because they're all like, it's like, come on, swingers. You used to have shit fucking vibrate between your legs more or fucking, but we'll all get there. And it's, you know, we're an older group.

Yeah, it was, my ass hurt, but I'm not used to riding on the back of a bike either what weekend was this again oh wait today sorry my bad shut up and then today we spent all day moving a kid yeah that was that was fucking oh what a father's day oh fucking exciting as fuck actually actually no actually you know what apartment it's not all bad you know Why? Because we weren't moving his ass back in here. This is true. So fucking rock the fuck on. Congratulations, kids. But yeah, let me tell you what. But when they were moving the couch, I said, what? Y'all needed some lube. No shit. We did too.

God. They go, well, surely you've got plenty. All I can say is that, you know, I am never moving shit. When we move again, it's either being sold with all the shit or it's staying or we're paying somebody. It's just part of the cost to move because we're too fucking old for that shit. And to anybody listening, if you have children, do what we didn't do, which should have been to tell our kids if you move to a third floor apartment. Fucking we love you and we'll visit you when all your shit's upstairs. Just saying. Anyways. So, okay.

so we need to get on with it on with the show because now i know we've used nine minutes because i've got a clock oh my gosh you're so good yeah yeah okay you're keeping track and everything i am so proud of you it's like a spreadsheet and anna will be so proud of you oh Oh, shit. Yeah, I'm pretty. That's technology. It's digital, so I can read it. Oh, good grief. I want to touch my nose again. Still going to die. Okay, hold on. Ah, water.

Okay, so tonight's questions are, so after last week's show i thought well we need something lighter and the questions i got this week i'm just like son of a bitch uh people got to get out and start fucking again so okay wait what yeah yeah so the first question uh the first question comes to us from deep in the heart of Texas. And this is coming to us from Terry and Terry. I wish I would have officiated their wedding. Just saying. Anyway, so Terry and Terry, it's spelled different, but they both start with a T.

This one started off, when I first got this, I had to do, this was awkward because it is from Terry and Terry, and you'll understand why when I read the question to you. So, we've been in the lifestyle for a couple of years now. We love your show. So, so far, we were going great. I was like, okay, well, fucking awesome, Terry and Terry. Rock on. And then we went downhill from there. And it said, the problem that we are having, the problem that I am having, is that my partner is holding us back and my partner is sabotaging every time we try to hook up and I'm fucking sick of it.

And I'm not even kidding. That's that who said I'm fucking sick of it. Help us. How can we solve this problem?

Yep, that was the same response i had initially so i mean i got questions but i'm waiting to hear what you asked so i so i i reached out and one because at this point they did not distinguish if we're talking if it was the wife the husband so i don't know which one was so i didn't know i didn't well first i didn't know which one was which okay so i reached out well here's what's really the the irony of the whole situation is is that it was actually the wife terry that was saying about the husband okay terry okay and and she said and i said so explain what you mean by you know explain more basically they're no matter what they only play together as a couple they have been a lifestyle for like four or five years okay they only play as a couple generally they do some threesomes now all of a sudden no one's ever good enough.

There's always some excuse. There's always some reason. Some reason why the husband always has some reason why this couple won't work. And she said to me, she even said, she goes, ask if she could call. I said, well, sure, because this will be fun. And she said, you can even, we fight about it all the time.

You can even talk can even talk to him he'll tell you that yes there are certain things that he has issues with okay great well so when i when they called and i talked to him it's really funny because he goes she's just went out she's the problem in his mind she's the problem she's no longer she doesn't care she's throwing discretion not discretion but like just anybody doesn't care just wants to play and he feels like all she wants to do is play all the time oh yeah so i'm sitting there i'm listening like so any help you can give us there is so much going on there is so much going on here so here.

So, I know, it's almost overwhelming at first. Well, I don't know if it's that. What issues is he having that he's coming up with an excuse? or maybe she doesn't have any limitations now but maybe they started off with limitations as far as what she was looking for and now she's become less picky so well and this was my thing so here's the thing obviously i've only read emails and talked to him on the phone so i'm thinking that maybe what what's the backstory what what are we not hearing you know, that they're living, but we don't see or hear.

Yeah, like what might have happened that he's just like, no, I'm not going to do it until. And here we go. So I started, I asked him, I said, what are, what has changed recently? What things have changed recently that, and when I mean changed recently, I mean not lifestyle related and i ask them both this question what's changed okay and first well nothing's changed i'm like something's had to change what's changed well here is something that's changed i go well i'm like job status income thinking maybe something with the virus you know something those lines.

What's changed is the one thing that was consistent is Terry, the wife, has went on a health kick. She has lost a lot of weight. Okay. Started exercising. Whatever. Decided to change the hairstyle. Decided to do. So she's feeling sexy. She's feeling sexy. And along those lines, and that's the only thing that's changed. Except, but wait, but wait, there's more. But wait, there's more. Is that when they go out, she's getting all these compliments, and he's getting tired of hearing, oh my God, I didn't even recognize you.

And has heard this comment multiple times and this is a killer that i i i'm gonna give him a little sympathy if you if you weren't with him we wouldn't even recognize who you were oh so what we can't help what other people say no but so what we've got going on here is terry the female has done a body transformation terry's female has lost 65 to 70 pounds okay okay so and she's really she's like i haven't been this thin for since i was in you know like college age whatever so what we've got going on is she's had a body transformation and her confidence is way up here, way through the roof.

He's over here, and he did not get on the health kick with her, for whatever reason. I didn't ask. It doesn't matter. He did not get on the health kick, and not only is she getting all this attention, he's been put in the context of, oh, yeah, you're carrying that ratty old purse with you. So that's how I know you type thing. I mean, that's how he's envisioning. He's like, well, great. And since you brought this old piece of shit with you, now we know who the fuck you even are. And so he's now let it go to us. You know, he started fucking with us. So here's my first thing. Let's talk about.

And they tried to hook up and he had issues? Apparently not. There's been no hookups. They've had opportunities to hook up. Even people they've wanted to hook up with in the past, and now all of a sudden, or they have hooked up with in the past, he now has excuses every time. He basically does not want to fuck anybody. Now, obviously with the virus, this throws a for a loop.

We all know know that everybody how they dealt with that's a little bit different it i it got the impression to me that that didn't stop them from going to events and and whatever so we know there were house parties stuff going on whatever so but he just will not he won't hook up with anybody at this point in time. So do we start with him or her? Where do we start with this, do you think? I would say her. Okay. So first of all, she's not, I mean, I get it. She's not wrong for having her confidence be high.

Not in the least worked for it you worked for it i will say this though i can also see when your confidence gets high you and look when you get a brand new car you like to show it to a lot of people you're excited about your brand new car you want to show it off you want to give people rides in your brand new car okay but to other people that didn't get a brand new car they might not be quite as excited and if you want to show and give everybody in the neighborhood a ride in your brand new car some people might consider that you're being awfully loose with your car you might maybe should keep give a few less people rides they can look but doesn't mean everybody needs to be inside your new car i have a feeling that we have a little bit of both going on she's on a high because she feels great about herself which is a completely good thing rock on congratulations but she there is a distinct possibility we're not there so we don't know for sure but there's a distinct possibility that that excitement and that so so here's what comes up to me though okay is it that she has become more freely with who she wants to hook up with that she's not as picky so to speak or is it that more opportunities have arisen something's arisen because because she lost weight that there's other people that are more interested in her that wasn't when she was chunky well okay first of all I don't I don't believe that more people are interested because of the weight loss they're more interested in her that wasn't when she was chunky?

Well, okay. First of all, I don't believe that more people are interested because of the weight loss. They're more interested because of the confidence. You think? Oh, yeah. Because here's the thing.

Look, if you're confident, if you can own a fucking room, it does not matter if you are, you know, massively obese or if you are pencil thin or you're a supermodel or you're it doesn't matter if you're a man a woman it doesn't and none of that matters if you if you are confident and have the charisma and can own a fucking room you own that motherfucking room so the thing is is probably what it was was all of a sudden she's come out of a shell so she's starting to own that room she's walking in instead of maybe hiding behind him or instead of being shy or maybe she's dressing with more confidence she's willing to smile at people first she's willing to say hi she's you know she's walking in that room and she owns that fucking room so all of a sudden that confidence and so now yeah there's probably more opportunities because of that I have a feeling that his perception of the fact that she is hooking up or wanting to hook up with way more people is is kind of off I think that that's his perception of because all of a sudden she has has emerged you know our relationship is different.

I've always been the one that has been... Fuck off. Wait, what it is? I've always been the one to walk in and be really loud. And I don't know. Fucking shut up, bitch. Just shut up. I've been the one to walk in and be a little more outgoing. Don't look it like that.

A lot so if if all of a sudden if you're used to that dynamic if we're used to that all of a sudden you were like we're getting ready to walk it in place and you're like pushing me out of the way to go blowing through the door and be going what up motherfuckers i am here and i'm sitting there going what the fuck so it could be he's used to this like shy this this a certain thing and all of a sudden she's just fucking busting out of her shell right so now he's like well motherfuckers she's not about a whore she's being a slut no people are coming to talk to her because she is being fucking she's being her she's coming to her own a little bit and so yeah she's catching people off it's not so much there's probably people now that she didn't think she stood a chance with that now they're talking to her and they're talking to her because of her confidence so now all of a sudden you know i mean that just grows so she's sitting there going holy fuck and he's going holy.

And I have a feeling that's what's happening. I doubt that she's actually has just went to, I've gotten in shape and now I'm just going to spread my legs and fucking pound me, pound me now. Fuck me. I mean, we could be wrong on that, but you know, I think, I think that's a big part of it. My thing to him is the worst thing in the world that you can do is do anything to squash that confidence and that excitement. You need to find a way to embrace it, to understand it, to realize, to be a part of it and not let all of a sudden this doubt and insecurity.

I mean, it sounds like the doubt and insecurities are like when you first get in the lifestyle. I mean, it's really what it is, what it kind of sounds like. It's like you have to find a way to embrace this because that confidence is going to.

He needs to start finding it sexy because that confidence is going to be sexy at home too right i mean find that be a part of it and if you work with her on that versus against her and it doesn't matter if the roles were reversed it was if one partner starts to find a new level of confidence as a partner embrace it maybe take some cues from it you know maybe start to work out with her maybe maybe start to do some things you know if she's spreading her wings a little bit what a great time for you to maybe spread your wings a little bit too but don't try to squash it you try to squash that okay oh fuck because it's just jealousy in my opinion it's it and it's and i don't say that in a derogatory way towards him.

I get it, but it's jealousy. It's his own personal insecurities. Right. More than anything else. Look, the odds of her just fucking bailing on you now because of it, you can become a victim of the lifestyle at this point. If you're not careful. If you're not careful, there's a great way to become.

I don't even know what that'd be on the lifestyle that's just in general well and this is for both this is for both halves here for both terry's in this you can become a fucking victim of the lifestyle very easily and the way that happens is if hubby tries to shut down her confidence and won't embrace it and be a part of it and try to enjoy with it, and if wife doesn't understand that there's some concerns from hubby and try to look at it and embrace it and understand that a little bit. So it's like what we're saying. This is going to be weird as fuck. Are you ready for this?

Everybody get out your handy-dandy notebooks. Blues clues. Oh, my God. Anyway, everybody get out. Write this down. It comes down to the same old fucking thing. It's the same old situation. That's a song, but it's not against the rules because I didn't sing it. The thing is that it comes down to communication.

Like, this whole thing is going to come down to how well that you two communicate with each other like instead okay in this case thanks for writing and we're glad that you're listening we're glad that you think that we can help you okay so hopefully you're listening to this part of the message instead of worrying about getting our opinions on it communicate you need to sit down and you need to you both need to have a fucking hardcore honest talk like come to jesus meeting type i don't know you know jesus doesn't come to a lot of smoker meetings just saying anyways but a hardcore god sure does if you're doing it right That was loud.

I hackled like a fucking hyena there. Way to go. Sorry, all my listeners. Anyways. It's a little loud, isn't it? You need to have a serious conversation and a couple of conversations and address your concerns with each other. Okay, so you had be proud to be her when others obviously are into her, encourage it, and she'll reward him, I'm sure. Oh, that's very true. And then his own confidence needs help. Very true. But, you know, we've had moments where there was a time that I would get attention and you wouldn't. Yes.

And then there was times, a lot of times, that you would get attention and I wouldn't and it was just like okay it's cole show today well okay some of that was some of that was not our choice play on it yes and but there are times even even though we have a very solid understanding of our dynamics right there are times look you go to three or four events in a row and this is for for me this is really hard because it it's not so much i'm an attention whore kind of but i i mean i have an ego right fuck off bitch that's god is my witness i'm gonna fucking are you serious we'll be taking applications for new co-hosts crazy truth no but i have an ego and so you go to I don't know.

witness i'm gonna fucking are you serious we'll be taking applications for new co-hosts of the crazy truth no but i have an ego and so you go to three or four events in a row where i am just kind of invisible and that fucks with me that gets me down i i mean that's, that's a challenge for me. And it's not that... Attention whore. I'm happy for you getting all the attention, slut. But I still would like to at least acknowledge, somebody acknowledge that I'm there. So that can become a challenge. And we understand the dynamics of our relationship.

So if you have somebody that all of a sudden the dynamics of your relationship have changed, I'm going to show you what I'm going to throw out there with this and you made a good point you go this could be an issue not just in the lifestyle it really can okay if if he doesn't embrace her new confidence And if she doesn't work with him, if they don't come to a happy meeting, understanding, what's going to happen is shit's going to stray outside of the lifestyle. And the lifestyle is like, it's like bowling, okay? That's the best way I can put it.

The lifestyle is like bowling and you have gutter balls on both sides right so you can put the bumpers in there to keep the ball no matter what in the lanes but if all of a sudden you like chuck it into the lane next to it you got a you got a problem once once confidence and sex and this kind of stuff all of a sudden you can't get it what you thought was going to be able to get in the lifestyle and it starts spreading outside of the lifestyle that's when you start having affairs no what i was thinking more of when i said that yeah was more you don't have to ever play outside the lifestyle but if you can't figure out how the dynamics works with her being confident, your own marriage is going to suffer just with your ability to be around each other.

Well, true. True. But you could also cheat. But no, you're right. My God, it doesn't have to lead to cheating. Well, but eventually, she wants somebody to test drive her new car. We just went through this earlier. No, you're exactly right. You're exactly right. God, it's all about the test drive. drive the motherfucker look everybody knows if you've been in the car business at all everybody knows the test drive is where the car get where the deal gets closed just saying that's where you get to find out more on test drives really do you think oh think? No, you don't. I'm kidding.

No, you're not. No. You're going to be fucking taking test drives with the nudists at your work that keep sending your pictures being naked making coffee. Anyways. Hey, I think. Hold on. Math numbers. Oh, Jesus. I think we're at halftime. Are we at halftime? We are. Fuck, dead on halftime. There we go. No, you have like. What? I'm not? Five seconds. Oh, fuck. Okay. Halftime. All right, give us one minute, folks. We're going to be right back. Stay with us for the second half. Do you have your crazy Casbah merch? Are you a crazy lady? Do you have your shirts, your merch? Are you a crazy lady?

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I'm sure right now people are going, oh, we should tune into the show more often. He's sweating like a stuck pig. Quit nipple rubbing me. That feels good. She's touching me with cold hands. I told you I'm down with the sickness. I'm just saying. Ew. No, okay. No, I'm not sick at all. Anyways, so there's the biggest thing. Communicate. Yes. Okay, again, look. Well, what you need to do besides communication is analyze your feelings. Why are you feeling that way? Or get really drunk when you both go out and see whatever happens. No, I'm just kidding. Don't do that. It's a horrible plan of attack.

Funny, but horrible plan of attack funny but horrible nice well it it just look here's the thing anytime in the lifestyle when once the lifestyle and and when swinging and everything else when when it starts to cause animosity in your relationship in the real world we say this all the time there's the real world and there's a swinging world and here's the thing they're they're two separate places okay they're they're two separate places in the real world there's bills and there's life and there's all this shit and family and stuff and the swinging world it's like fucking and fun and whatever but but when the swinging world starts to create animosity in your real life relationship you need to address it like ASAP this is not one of those things you go When the swinging world starts to create animosity in your real-life relationship, you need to address it.

Like ASAP. This is not one of those things you go, well, fuck, it'll probably get better. Well, fuck, probably no. It won't. Step back and assess. Yeah, step back, assess, and then decide where to go. Look, if you just keep charging blindly forward going, well, it'll get better. No. It doesn't work that way at all. It's like stepping on a rusty nail and going, well, it'll get better. No. It doesn't work that way at all. It's like stepping on a rusty nail and go, well, it'll heal itself. No, you have to, you have to fix it. It's just one of those things you have to do that.

So make sure that you, that you are actually fixing it. I, no matter how painful or shitty of a conversation or series of conversations fixing it might seem like, I promise you it's way better than, like, divorce court. Or, you know, the longer it goes, those conversations are going to suck even worse. You know, and that's when somebody's going to fuck somebody they're not supposed to and that shit gets weird and all kinds of crap. Somebody, the wrong person, takes the car for a test drive and next thing you know, they wreck the car. Oh, my God. And no one wants to get in a wrecked new car.

Oh, Jesus. My analogies. I'm going to write a book on my analogies. Yeah, freaking car analogies. Just analogies in general. My golf ones are the best ones. No one wants to use somebody else's driver. Actually, yeah, that's not true. Well, like in pool, you know, never touch another man's steak. Well, in swinging, that doesn't apply. In swinging, you can fondle their balls and touch their steak. It's all okay. So I have to work to come up with these analogies. Okay. You know all those times you think I'm sitting in my office just spacing or sleeping in my chair? I'm really not.

I'm actually, when I'm actually, I touch my nose okay they're like sniglets we'll see how old our listener base is. Do you even remember what a Sniglet is? No. Can we look it up? You're going to have to Google it. If you don't know what a Sniglet is, you've got to Google it. It is a real thing. My phone's up there. Well, you can't Google it. You're on the show right now, so you probably shouldn't Google during the show. I would have done it. So our listeners, our listeners, when you hear this... I need to get my sex phone. Spread the bug cheeks so I can give you a room job.

Google a Sniglet and send us an email of a good Sniglet. Now you have to explain that. Spread your butt cheeks. I don't have to explain shit. Miss Amanda's a porn star. No, she's not a porn star. She's a porn star. She has a friends only fucking come lick my butthole account, whatever it is. put a plug i sexed okay my friendly account so i have one guy that was messaging and how can they how can how can our listeners sex you i have no idea oh god anyways you can if you just google we'll put it out somehow why don't you next show?

I don't know how to get to a link of my own He was drunk on on Thursday night that was a new guy that had liked my pictures and said how beautiful I was And then he proceeded to I was just having general conversation. He goes well, this really isn't what I I'm like oh what did you expect Well we can get down and dirty into that one And the more he drank The dirtier it got And what all he wanted to do to me And one of them was to spread my butt cheeks And play with my ass Lick your ass Because this was like at 1.40 in morning, and you went to bed at 11. You've been texting.

You're just like, I'm so tired. And I was like falling asleep. There was one point in time I fell asleep, and then I checked my phone. I'm like, oh, a half hour ago, I can respond to that. But he kept coming back. The next day, he was like, I hope you enjoyed that as much as I did. I sure did. I'm watching. You've got to keep this in your mouth. Yeah, keep it just like... In my mouth? Well, by your mouth, just like a dick. Isn't that what he says? Keep it close at all times. So there you go. So you can ask. Okay. So it was entertaining. And don't worry, we'll get you because Amanda does that.

You can text Miss Amanda. You can text Miss Amanda. You can see dirty pictures over. Yeah, I don't have my sex phone on me. I literally have a second phone. Do you even know your fans only thing? My only fans? Whatever the fuck it is. I don't go to it. I just see it. It's onlyfans.com backslash Miss Amanda Casbah. There you go. So then you, too, can see dirty pictures, videos, and you can ask her to do weird shit to you. You didn't think I'd know that, did you? Half of my class that I've graduated has done that now. No, only two classmates. Yeah, only two. Great. Okay, so let's...

One you actually graduated with, the other one didn't. No, no, he was younger than I was. He was younger than you were. Yeah, yeah. Hey, he wanted a message. He thought I was hot. He gave you a tip. That's all that matters. He did. It was a good one. Just a tip. Okay. So let's go on to the next question, shall we? We shall. I need a drink for this. I tell you what. This next question, I got this question a couple weeks ago.

And I try i try to pair questions and stuff that's similar so we keep themes going to the show okay and and so this with the question we just got i i thought this was really interesting and here's the here's the thing that's different about crazy truth okay look every show does it their own way and i get it whatever and however they do it whatever their k, whatever, their kink, their fetish, whatever, I don't give a fuck, whatever. I don't give two fucks when everybody else does, because we do it our way, and they can suck my dick.

Anywho, we are not afraid to talk about shit that is not, like, necessarily always, like, sexy titillating. You know what I mean? But it's very, very real. Right. Okay? So, we got this question.

it was sent to us anonymously uh and this question it comes from maine and uh so the question is we've been in lifestyle uh we've been in lifestyle for seven years now had lots of great times and a lot of good a lot of fun but i want out of the lifestyle and i don't know how to get out of the lifestyle and my husband does not want out of the lifestyle what should i do so my thought is okay this is a and number one, this is a pretty real situation. Look, we get asked and we get questioned all the time of people, of couples wanting, couples ready to get out of the lifestyle. Right.

But there is a fear factor. The longer you're in the lifestyle, and I personally can appreciate this. I'll be anxious here if you can too.

The longer you're in the lifestyle, sometimes the thought of leaving the lifestyle, like truly, I mean, leaving the lifestyle sometimes the thought of leaving the lifestyle like truly i mean leaving the lifestyle like quitting smoking you know like quitting quitting the fear of the or the thought of leaving the lifestyle is kind of it's kind of scary because you there's a certain level you know the event we went to yesterday was all swingers all lifestyle people there was no fucking there was no i mean could there have been maybe but that wasn't the idea of the event right but it's a different level of fun and stuff than what you can do in the vanilla world like for us as we went along and a lot of other people are this way too the number of of vanilla friends has substantially decreased.

And it's all lifestyle friends. And the thought of actually leaving the lifestyle is kind of intimidating. Right. And I can understand that because I feel it's like I can't really right now after 11 years in this, I can't really picture not being in the lifestyle anymore. Well, define by which part?

Well, some sex with others or are we talking just the friendships and hanging out at swinger events and stuff i because we kind of do that now oh shit no shit no i i think i think it varies for people i think i think that i like to to think that if we both decided we no longer wanted to have sex with other people i mean willingly not have sex with other people okay okay that we could still handle just being friends still going to hotel takeovers still going to stuff and enjoying people and then when it came time to go fuck and we just go you know we go back to our to our room and fuck each other and be happy and move on.

Right. But I truly believe that there are people out there that it's just like if they, as a former smoker or as, you know, a former alcoholic or former anything, that they don't either, if they're around it, they can't separate that part part of it it's like either they're in or they're out and if by the temptation they don't want the temptation anymore to have sex with other people i mean obviously it's not required we understand that but for some people that temptation is going to be a real son of a bitch. Right. And what... Well, here's the question. Okay. So has she talked to the...

Because it was the female that was asking the question. Okay. Did she talk to the husband and tell him that she wants out? Yes. And he said no? No. He hasn't committed to anything.

The is they play they only play as a couple because my well okay if you and i had that situation if you and i had that situation we play alone we play alone now if all of a sudden you were like i absolutely don't want to fuck anybody else but you still can but we started off in the lifestyle playing as a couple only right but you always said anytime that you want out we're leaving no i always i i said we both we agreed that if either one of us ever said that was all then that was it that was it right so but we were not like anybody else on anything else we do so isn't that the truth i don't i don't know that everybody had that i look when we got in the lifestyle we had a it was a serious conversation we made the decision we're gonna do it wasn't a drunken night it wasn't an accident it wasn't like yeah i mean we laughed about you finally gave in but this wasn't something new we knew we made a very intelligent and conscious decision that we're going to go and have sex with another with other people.

Right. We were going to try this. So before we ever did that, though, we didn't know a lot about other rules. But we did make the one decision that we both agreed if if we're out, if one of us is done, we're done. Right. And that and that has still stuck to this day now i think now if you said i want to be done i think it would be a different discussion if you were no it would be now it'd be if you said i want to be done well yeah it would be like then we would have to discuss what is the, is, are you wanting us to be done or you wanting to be done? Right. Can we still have friendships?

Can we still have, I know now I feel very confident to say we would still have friendships. We would still, you know, we wouldn't give that part of it up. Right.

But if you're a couple, I mean, look, you have have to swinging is not worth costing you your marriage no or your or a relationship it's really not right or it's not supposed to be it's not supposed to and i mean and i understand that some people we see it all the time people make a big announcement we're leaving the lifestyle we just have to step away i love you all it was great bye see you later bye and then two weeks later they're like fucking it that sucked we're back okay so everybody everybody's a little bit different with it the the thing is is that if you if you only play as a couple and you're saying that you're done again this comes down to you have to say i don't want to have sex with other people anymore i don't want to do this what's more important and he has to make a decision what's more important and and the reality is if either spouse makes a decision that fucking other people is more important well you probably shouldn't be in the lifestyle for to begin with, but there's other issues that need to be.

Shouldn't be Mary. Well, yeah. Yeah. I mean, there's just other issues that have to go along with it. But you can't, you know, do I think that, well, let me ask you this. Do you think that she should be required to tell him why she feels that way? Like, to justify it? You shouldn't ever have to give a justification for your reasoning, but I personally would. Well, I mean, yeah. See, I think the same thing. Because if something wasn't right or something just was, something itched in your mind going, you know, this really, we should be done. And sometimes you can't explain it. Right, right.

I would just go, nah, the spirits are telling me no. Right, well, and no, and that's, I mean, I think that. No, I wouldn't say that, but you know what I mean.

The witch in me says, no, I think that I would never, personally i would not i would not say to you you have to tell me why in my mind i would want you to tell me why because i would want to know what changed right but you know i again my relationship is our relationship is much more important than than swinging i mean it just is so if it was like we need to quit but i think that the one thing we've learned in 11 years we need to have a conversation so that we understand why because is it something happened with somebody saying something did something happen and and it's not so much to try to get you to change your mind no it's just so just to talk it out so we can understand.

Because, again, when you leave empty gray areas, resentment builds in those. And it's like, why? And you want to make sure if you make that decision, then you make that decision. Now, see, Rachel said if she wanted to be done with the lifestyle and her husband didn't, she'd be okay with it. Okay. She says, I don't mind going out and having fun with others, but I won't be. Okay. I think they should sit down and talk about it together and see what compromise they can come to. Yeah, I agree 100%.

I think that, like, for us, it would be easier because we do play alone uh and and i think there's some challenges there i think that if you whatever compromises you make you need to be if you're the person that no longer wants to be in it and you agree to certain things you need to be damn sure before you agree to them that you're really actually comfortable with them or at least you need to put the disclaimer look here's the deal I'm willing to try it with you still playing me not but we're gonna have to revisit it afterwards well we know a couple in town that they used to play all to all the time and then she all of a sudden said she was out and I don't know if it was all of a sudden.

It could have been a slow... I didn't go into that much detail. Right, right. But he still goes out and plays and goes to parties and stuff. Right, and they have that, and they're okay with that. I mean, they have that agreement.

I would think that you would want to revisit it often to make sure that because here's the deal you can't say yep i'm okay if you go ahead and still play and then all of a sudden be fucking pissed as hell when they do i mean you have to you have to be willing to revisit it you have to be damn sure and look if you're the one that still wants to stay in it you need to be willing to give a little bit too you understand, look, just because they say it's okay to play doesn't mean that every Friday and Saturday night you get to go out to the swingers clubs and go do whatever, and you're never home.

I mean, there's reasons there. You have to work to find that balance.

The one thing I don't think anybody should do is if you don't want to be in this anymore, you't be in it right this is not i mean look for some people when you when you're in this long enough hooking up all the time isn't it doesn't happen that much it really doesn't i mean it could happen more right i've got a post on our facebook page right now saying i'm looking for somebody to fuck this week i put that out there i'm like my week's really busy and it is but i put it out there you know i'll take a break during the day yeah so the thing is is that you're due yeah i mean well you throw something out there and whatever it's like okay if we have time great but there's a lot of times of of you know you're not going to uh i forgot my turn you're not going to play all the time anyways you don't have to play all the time okay so if all of a sudden like that's just the only you're just going out and ramping up how much you play that can be that can be a really big issue i mean problems you need you need to be understanding you just have to work together you have to find a balance you have to find a balance I mean it's a challenge because there's like this whole thing of personal freedom type shit with this and even though one part's not in the lifestyle look if you're a married couple and one half of you is not in it we we know uh a a guy that uh great guy great guy his wife has had had a hysterectomy years ago they had been in the lifestyle together then had a hysterectomy and and now sex is painful and is not enjoyable and she's totally cool with him being in the lifestyle alone but as he's we've had conversations even though she's not in the lifestyle she still is a part of the lifestyle in terms of she still has some of those same say some of the same votes and and whatever as if she was still in the lifestyle because okay look here's the deal she's still if she has a concern with in this case because it's a guy he's a guy if she is concerned with a certain gal trying to get more than just a hookup she might inc say that so even though even though she's not in the lifestyle per se she still has a vote in that and if you're the person still in it you have to understand that right you have to be willing to accept that and realize that that's a that's going to be part of this you know uh oh i know where i was going before i lost my train one of the worst things if you no longer want to be in the lifestyle look if, if you're a couple that's actively playing, still in the lifestyle, right?

And all of a sudden, I don't want to be in anymore. So anytime people are used to us playing, and now all of a sudden, I'm coming with all these excuses why I can't play. People are not dumb. No. They're going to figure it out. It's going to start making things awkward and uncomfortable. Well, no, some people don't get the hint. Well, no. The only time you want them to is they don't get it. But, I mean, some people are going to figure it out. It's like it's better to say, hey, look, you know, I'm not playing anymore. I mean, that's okay. That's something that is an okay thing to say.

Hey, look, I'm not playing anymore.

Granted, you don't need to announce it everybody and you can if you're like us where we don't play as much anymore you can still go to stuff and no one really necessarily has to know right but the worst thing you can do is still continue to fuck people still hook up with other people still sport fuck because that's what it is kids sport fucking still to just humor your partner right because you're not going to have any fun so the person having sex with you isn't going to have that much fun it's going to be awkward and that's going to build just as much resentment as as the other way you know if you make somebody leave and you don't explain why whatever there's a certain degree of resentment and if someone continues to just be in it and tolerate it for somebody else that's going to build resentment and this is not it again i'm going to use one of my great analogies here i'm going to use the golf and look i really don't like golf fine i'll go shoot another round of golf with you that's one thing to say i don't want to fuck somebody else well okay fine i'll take another dick for you that's a totally different ball game i mean that's you know you can't just golf shower and nobody cares it's you know oh yeah so i sucked another cock just to make him happy fine you know it's not the same it's not the same people do do that well but i mean you know what i mean and you know they do yeah i mean and it's just like and you know what when you're fucking someone Who doesn't want to fuck you Unless you're either Fucking train wreck drunk Or a complete and total Fucking moron You realize you're like They have no interest In doing this It's like when somebody's Taking one for a team It's like Look I know when I'm If I'm fucking a girl And she's just like I wish this fat piece of shit Would get off me God is she to quit bouncing around her?

You can sense when she has no interest in my dick being anywhere in or around her because she sucks dick with the enthusiasm of a piece of paper. Flop. She fucks, she just lays her. It's like, oh, wow, yeah, you're fucking, yeah, you're rocking this shit. You know, you get it. So it's the same thing. And it's like, that's not fair to other people. It's not fair to yourself. It's your body. You have the right to, you know. Refuse service. Yeah, you have the right to refuse service. I'm sorry, my vagina is closed.

And now, I want to say this real quick, though, because usually when we talk about this kind of stuff, or when it comes up, and just as this question was, it was the female that wanted out. But, believe it or not, a lot of times, it's also, it can be, the roles can be reversed. It can be the guy. Okay? And I think that a lot of times, when shit like this is the guy wanting to be done, there's a different stigma that's attached to it. You think?

It's like, oh oh yeah what do you mean you don't want another new fresh pussy what oh come on now you have a fucking pansy everybody wants pussy the thing is is you don't have to announce it so you won't have to go through that well but most people don't understand that they feel this fucking dire need that they think they need to set up a flare and and announce it i guess maybe that's the other thing we should say is do yourself a favor don't announce it right if you're on a website and and you know the whole thing is you don't need to have a goodbye post no look look get a hold of your you can let your close friends or you know know hey this is what's going on that's one thing but just putting the generic goodbye so all the people go oh what's going on i'm so sorry don't go don't do that because when you come back in three weeks you look like a fucking moron yeah it's kind of look here's through the years i tried to quit smoking okay obviously lots of times and this time it's a little different ball game i never announced it i was never like hey two days down without a cigarette i want to kill my wife and kids i never announced that shit okay because the thing is well it was true the thing is is that the thing is is that when you put it out there what's everything good job keep it up you can do it buddy yay just say no woo don't do it right and that and that makes you feel great like a week into you're like i'm still not smoking but currently i'm like licking the fucking table leg because it looks like a cigarette and it was oh hang in there and then another week later and there's pictures of you fucking you know at the store buying smokes and lottery tickets and smoking like a chimney and everybody's like oh what happened you look like a fucking moron.

Keep it to yourself. You know, when you've been, like, four months in, then you're like, hey, you know, four months down, I haven't had a cigarette. I can, you know, the struggle's real. That's one thing. You know, so it's the same thing. Like, hey, I had a bad weekend. You know, her pussy was, like, sweaty cooter, and it was nasty, and he was a fucking Chewbacca dick, and we both hate him. We're never going to fuck anybody ever again. We're done with this. Bye-bye, everybody. Goodbye. Thanks for being...

Two weeks later, you're fucking horny, and you want some strange pussy, and next thing you know, or strange dick, and you're back on the fucking website begging for a hookup. Well, the thing is, you never would have had to leave the website because no one will know if you're playing or not. Exactly. And that's just it.

So if you just like the chit chat or just like the the topic because it's more your style then keep going with it because no one's going to know if you're playing or not don't announce just surprise everybody it is what it is okay all right well i hate to fucking cut this off because this is a good discussion but according to our studio clock yeah you're about it's about time so uh once again i want to give a shout out again to our sponsors www.altplayground.net again remember check them out today check out all the new features the community modules uh check out soon you'll have crazy casbah uh we'll have ours ours up there as well it's a great platform you want to be a part of it www.altplayground.net.

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