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Ladies, what is your preference in male playmates? Do you like the younger - more energy type of man? Do you prefer the more mature and experienced man? Is there a better choice?Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/hot-wife-podcast-and-the-swinger-lifestyle--5343522/support. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
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Speaker1: Welcome to the Hot Wife Podcast, where we dive into discussions about relationships, intimacy, and everything in between. Before we begin, we want to make it clear that the views expressed on this podcast are solely those of the host and guests, and should be taken as opinions, not professional or medical advice. Additionally, we remind all listeners that this podcast is intended for adults over the age of 18. Unauthorized rebroadcast of this show is strictly prohibited without the written permission of the owners of Hot Wife Podcast. Now let's heat things up. hello everybody this is donna lynn and welcome to my hot wife podcast of course i'm here with my wonderful husband vince once again just so just so wonderful
Speaker2: Thank you. Hey, Bonnie, this is Donna Lynn, and welcome to my Hot Wife Podcast. Of course, I'm here with my wonderful husband, Vince, once again.
Speaker3: Just so wonderful.
Speaker1: Just so wonderful. He is pretty wonderful, actually.
Speaker4: Oh, my God.
Speaker1: I know she's getting deep. You've been drinking heavily today.
Speaker2: Thank you. That's good.
Speaker1: Drink a little more, I'll be handsome, too.
Speaker2: Oh, yeah.
Speaker1: I'm working on that right now. That's good. So I hope everyone is doing well in this hot weather we've been having. Well, it depends on where they are. I mean, we're on the eastern coast of the U.S. No, I mean, Vegas apparently got up in the 120s the other day. Yeah, that's what you were saying. It's kind of going all over. I don't think it's, I mean, but again, like I said last podcast, it's summer. It's going to be hot hot and humid how much do cows fart cows have been farting since cows have been cows so the cow fart theory is um viewpoint so anyway yeah i agree but this show's topic is not cow farts not not sexy at all. Cow farts are not sexy, sorry. Oh, you know, there might be people into the bovine lifestyle. The bovine lifestyle. Yeah, there are, you know, farting is a fetish. Yeah. Farting is definitely a fetish. Yeah, so is larger people or larger, yeah, I'll just stay with people. People. There are people who enjoy larger people, and that's fine. There's nothing wrong with that. No. I am just a fan of women. It doesn't matter. No, no. Shape, size, color. No, you're pretty much a fan of all women. Yeah. Not so much of men. Not so much. Not at all. Not so much. No. Not at all. Oh, I. So, again, our email, info at hot at hotwifepodcast.com and actually tonight's topic is coming to us from someone who emailed us but we'll get into that and again if you're in one of those tight situations and you need some lubricant you want to check out spunkloube.com i actually used it today when i did my uh my video chat my video cam so yeah with a younger guy with a yeah i know into the topic that's a hint to the topic just then i'm telling you when you're using a toy you've got to use um a lubricant and definitely spunk lube is the is the one to use well you might not need to if you're worked up before you get to the toy you were kind of not worked up well and also i'm not sure that i don't want to get off the topic here but it depends on what the toy is made of i don't know what it's made of but the last time i used it i was like really well you don't use toys a lot anymore no i i usually don't i don't don't need toys. You have boy toys. I have boy toys. But this one didn't bother me for it. All of a sudden, it's like starting to really, like, irritate me down there. And I'm not sure what's going on. But the spunk loop helped. I'm losing my job of irritating you. Of irritating. I was like, where are you going with this? No, hon, that job is... I got that locked up? Locked up, yeah. It's there forever.
Speaker2: Thank you.
Speaker1: The irritation job. You do it well. You irritate me on so many levels. I never thought anybody could, but there you go. I refine it to a fine talent. Oh, yes. So if you're buying Spunk Loop, make sure in the discount code area in the checkout you type in hotwife, all one word. You should get a 10% discount off your order. Nice. If you want to see where I am, I am at hotwifedonnalyn.com, and I'm always posting stuff every day, little videos and this and that. And also, don't forget to checkinger magazine oh yeah um which is uh 50shadesofpleasure.com check that out there's a free version and then there's a little more adult oriented one that's three bucks an issue so um by all means check it out so um okay so we heard i'm not going to mention names or emails or where they're from or their social security numbers or credit card numbers. No, we're not going to do that. But we heard from a woman who's part of a couple that started listening to the show, listening to some of the old shows. And I will read you, you know, they're a married couple okay in their early 50s been together 31 years in the lifestyle off and on for 26 of that oh wow they enjoy the male female male with uh busy vanilla lives and single guys are always available when i have a rare last minute date night she loves younger ones for for a few reasons of course younger sexy guys that are into me is hot as and better if they are new to exploring the lifestyle my thing is finding out what fantasies to that she can help them fulfill so they'll always remember her and it's kind of something something you've done. Oh, yes, I have. I know we discussed it on this show before. Her and him to maybe either call in or they're actually not far from us. So we might be able to, I'm trying to, you know, through email exchange, get them maybe come over and sit in on a show. Oh, that would be really good. Yeah, that would be nice. I could hear somebody else's input on things besides us you know but uh yeah as long as um yeah letting the younger guy experience new new experiences uh i did get to do as a a few times well yes yes but the one i can remember back when i was like i was barely 18 and he or 17 i was 17 whatever he was a couple years younger than me and i popped his cherry and i talked about this before oh you've you've got the gentleman you're in a webcam today oh i popped his um you never had anal before right well he did anal on me let's clarify that yeah it was his first time doing anal with a woman and yeah that being said first time he's done anal to anything to anything so but um yeah so that was a first and then the younger man whose cherry eye popped that was a a first for him and he had the guy who wanted his ass eaten uh and the guy that wanted his ass he never had a never ate ass so hold on stop you're gonna be gagging again he never had eaten in the ass so he ate my ass and then the next time i said hey you know like i'm i'm not really well versed in the world of ass eating you know contrary to my husband tries to paint but it's i've only eaten a few asses in my day but yeah so i got to eat his ass so it was different it was his first time ever having his ass eaten so he got to give you annals first time he'd ever oh yeah that's true i forgot about that so many things i forget about but yep so yeah i being a, I don't really think that I'm a cougar. But I'm definitely into. You tend to enjoy younger gentlemen more? Yeah. They tend to have a little more virility? Yeah, they have a little more get up and go. Hopefully. Now, sometimes the get up and go happens really quickly. Yeah, but they're usually good for round two. Yeah whatever but um you know and generally you know generally not in every case right the younger guys tend to be in better shape and not necessarily no not necessarily there's one um you have a few older mature playmates that Or in good shape? shape. Yeah, the one that I play with quite frequently. I didn't know he's only a couple years younger than you. I thought he was, he's local. Yeah. Yeah, I thought he was actually younger than he is. He's in great shape, I mean, for, you know, being in late 50s he's not late he's mid 50s mid 50s okay mid 50s that's still whatever well he has a very good job you know his children are grown they're still um in need of attention because they are uh special needs right so he's a single father so one of his outlets is working out right i get it yeah that's great yeah you can if you can squeeze it into your schedule or have some activity that is um you know get your body going whatever that may be that's that's always good for your whole life so okay so um as a mature woman is it is it more rousing to you to have a young guy be completely enamored with you? Like there's that one young guy that you did the video where you're upside down 69 with him. Yeah, right. You know, you're kind of really enamored with him. Oh, yeah, absolutely. He's a lot of fun. He's not that older guys don't do this, the younger guys because it's kind of a new thing the excitement level for them is very evident and then it plays off you know and i kind of feed off on that you know you have you know if a guy comes in he's already done everything well there's nothing nothing new in the box there's nothing you know but if somebody comes to you he could be older and say hey i've never done x that's always fun the first are fun i think one of the things that the younger guys really love at least with you is the fact that um that you know they don't have to worry about getting you pregnant i knew that's what you're going oh yeah it's like you know the cream pie aspect is not even an issue guys i mean i don't think any guy loves to wear a condom i'm sure there are a few there are a few but you know i don't think anybody it's their favorite thing to do no um okay be safe out there i get it i get it but not saying not to not to be safe but uh yeah condoms the first of all it's i've had, you know, you take the condom off and you go to blow them and it still tastes like condom. You know, nothing I love more than that rubbery taste on a guy's dick. Chewing a rubber band. Yeah, pretty much. It was not my favorite, but whatever. and the fact yeah these guys are like enamored with the whole cream pie thing because it's like oh yeah i could never do that with you know past girlfriends or whatever because they're you know pregnancy thing so generally girls in the age range of a 25 year old are still very very fertile yeah and fertile and uh you know so when they get to have sex with a beautiful woman that they don't have to worry about that right and you know it's a little more you know like some younger women i'm sure very uptight about anal right right you know can't get pregnant some women are uptight about cum you know you oh yeah you're kind of like let's just do this thing you know well we yeah we had friends that were like very uh had is there is come a phobia sure i'm afraid of it i mean it's like well if you're gonna come on me it can't be up past my neck and it has to be like down like you know to my belly button you know between yeah like you can come on my tits but you can come higher than my nipples yeah it's like not near my lips or my eyes and it's i know these guys like yeah i have such great aim i'm yeah i'm only gonna get it on the one nipple it's not really like i have a scope on there and i can yeah i and really, you know, hone in on it. I'm not going to be the sharpshooter I'd look to be.
Speaker2: I know.
Speaker1: It's. gonna get it on the one nipple it's not really like i have a scope on there and i can yeah i can really you know hone in on it not gonna be a sharpshooter i'd look to be i know it's so yeah like i i don't have a i'm not a comophobic i don't you know care i mean some come taste better than others like i get it you know well that's the same with pussies yeah it's better than others taste better than others and it's just like but it's usually in general it's all pretty good it's all you know pretty good but every now and then you get one every now and then you get one that's like really good and they get one that's kind of like man i didn't taste like anything and then you have something like oh that cum was like bitter what the fuck have they been eating yeah every once in a while it's like what what'd you have to eat uh but it's it's all good i mean i don't i'm i don't mind getting it on my face i don't mind it in my hair i don't mind it dripping all the way where they it's fine it's great it's awesome the less you're the better i still have all those tokens for the car wash take it down there and hose you you off. Hose me off. De-louse me. It's all right. It's all good. So what's the biggest turn on for you with younger men? I guess the fact that they're, I don't want to use the word naive. I'll say inexperienced or less experienced. Okay. And they and they're looking to me for god only knows why for mentorship or guidance or that oh i get to do that with you so that's that's kind of a turn on it's like oh i get to you know give you a cream pie oh my god i never you know that kind of banter they that that's kind of a turn on that's really nice that i can number one give that to them and I enjoy it as well so that's a double whammy so that's great and and that's something like our email friend said that they'll gonna remember that for well hopefully a long time I know the one guy who I popped his cherry that I know I told this story before when I was a dancer I was you know still younger and I this cherry. And it was years later in one of the bars, and this guy came up. He goes, you popped my cherry X number of years ago. And I was like, who are you? And I didn't recognize him because it was like. I've lost track. Well, he had grown up quite a bit. You know, he was 15, and now he's like 20-something or other, 21, when I saw him again. That'd be at least. Oh, yeah, he was 15 and now he's like 20 something or other 21 when i saw him again that'd be at least oh yeah he was in a bar so he had at least be 21 and it was he made a big fuss and it was um i was a little embarrassed but also kind of proud i was like oh well i'd be embarrassed if he was like big fat and ugly no no and ugly. No, no, he was a good-looking guy. Yeah, you're not big, fat, and ugly. Shut up, asshole. But you are an asshole, but you're not big, fat, and ugly. Wow. Well, which do you want to be? No, it's okay. You can pick. No, it's all right. Oh, did I hurt your feelings? No, it didn't. Not at all. But anyway, so here we are on the Hot Husband Podcast. And anyway. I knew what you were going to do. But yeah, I think being with younger guys is sometimes it's kind of annoying because it depends on how mature they are. There is a maturity factor you have to counter. Oh, sure. But you've had some fun with more mature guys. Yeah. Like the one gentleman who was a realtor. He loved to do the massages. Oh, yeah. Oh, my God. I forgot. I was like, oh, yes, yes. Actually, he was significantly older than me. Yeah, he was. He was like 10 years older than me. Oh, wait, more than that. Yeah, he was closer to 15, I would say. Yeah. Yeahs yeah just breaking into hey and and um you know what that dick worked just fine yeah it did just fine i mean he kept himself in pretty good shape now you can tell he's an older guy that's not good yeah your body you know but um yeah everything and he had a, you know, a really nice, very nice package. He was well endowed, but not over well endowed. Slightly above average. Yeah, slightly above, that's a good way to put it, yeah. So if the back door can take him, you know, he can't be, like, too big. Otherwise, it's's not gonna fit too well but yeah that he was um yeah the excitement level with him was very much similar to the excitement level i get from a guy who is younger yeah which is kind of cool well so okay is it really i mean i mean for some people there is that like we knew a guy that he just he had a gorgeous wife oh my god yes and all you know and they were pushing 40 at the time right oh all he wanted was 20 year olds 21 22 oh my god he wanted and most guys would drag their balls through a mile of broken glass to see to see where his wife farts from. Yeah. I mean, she was absolutely stunning. She was gorgeous. Gorgeous. I mean. And limber, too. Can we just put that? She was very, very limber. Yeah, well, I'm not going to talk about that. Was that one picture with her legs around her head? I just don't want to. If I talk about it, I just don't want to give any hints to who it would be. No, no. But she was just liberal. We'll put it that way. But, you know, he had this beautiful wife. And he just craved something else. So, I mean, I guess there are people that just want younger. Right, right. Where I think you and I tend to feed more off the energy of the person yeah they happen it's not right for us and there's nothing wrong with people who have that uh preference my eye is itching sorry um but you know older or younger i go by the energy of the person personally yep i agree i agree yeah i've really i mean i've thought about it the past long long and i wish it was long and hard like okay what is my um go button yeah my fetish i mean i i like the look of mediterranean type women um and stuff but that doesn't affect me i mean it's it's like saying hey i like red cars better than i like blue cars okay would you take a blue car yeah i'll take a blue car i mean you know i'll fuck a blue car blue car wants to suck my dick and a red car wants to suck my dick um but do i have a preference it's like i don't know it for me again i've been around this shit for so long that i think it's a matter of the vibe i get from the person yeah yeah you've seen me with you've seen me with models and you've seen me with larger mature women i have fun with both yeah you know um and uh i mean i think the world would probably be a better place if everyone just stopped judging on appearance and judge on a person and that goes for so many things outside of sex oh yeah absolutely yeah it's it's um it seems like when we are are on the sw site, we get, well, I don't know. Actually, you're the one who answers a lot more of the emails than I do. We get a lot of response from younger guys. Sure. Oh, yeah. Yeah, I would say, now, again, you're 63, soon to be 64. I assume you're 64. Wow. Medicare scene, right around the corner. Care scene? No, Medicare, soon. Oh, Medicare scene right around the corner. Care scene? No, Medicare scene. Oh, it's right around the corner. The care scene is right around the corner. It's like, what, is that the house on fire? What are we doing? No. We're going to burn this puppy down. But, yeah, it's, I don't know. I mean, they all can be fun and they all can be boring. You know, they could be 20-some years old and be a lot of fun, or I've been with ones that were like. Oh, it sticks in the mud. Jesus Christ. Yeah, it's not. It is a person. So I do think. What's that? Again, I like mature women, and by that I mean, like I've said before on the show a few times, 35 and 35 and over yeah and 35 is still pretty good women have discovered how to give and receive sex and enjoyment right i agree you know i think under 35 in general they just it's just like novelty well and they're a little more they all want to like they're looking for mr. They're, you know, I mean, one of our friends more recently, I think she's become a person who is really driven by the pretty people syndrome. Right, right. That should be another show we do is the pretty people. Yeah, well, I don't have my, oh, wait, I do my phone. So anyway, but, you know, the, you know, the pretty pretty people we'll talk about that in another show oh yeah absolutely that's a whole other thing and you may or may not be into that or part of that or like that or whatever we'll discuss yeah we don't i don't want to even get into that can of worms let's just stick with the whole cougar syndrome the younger younger or older men or women whatever now do you have a preference with women Okay, we're going to build you your ideal man for a sex partner right okay but i'm only going to ask you one question okay give me the age he should be 40-ish okay so it's still 20 years younger still yeah it's still younger sure yeah it's like 20s 30s um there's certainly a lot of fun but um like a guy just like women get into that stride i'd say late 30s early 40s there's still uh things are still working good you know sometimes you know yeah god willing things are still working good and um you still have a lot of energy but you also have the experience and you know you know how to please a woman by then okay i hope you know you've actually come into your own you you know you know what you like you you know how to uh uh articulate it to your partner you know how to communicate what would you say is the ideal for a female partner for you um probably still about the same younger girls are you know too sometimes too giddy or too this or too that and there's no wrong answer no no i'm i so i would i would say more mature 40 and above okay 45 ish sure that's still almost 20 years my younger so you know that's still a big gap that's still a big big gap so see i like my men over 100 over 125 over 125 of course i won't go out with a guy unless he's like over 125 years old oh yeah well i know you're so picky it's like oh just looking for the pretty boys are you okay you know i want them seasoned baby yeah seasoned that's one way of putting it but yeah it's yeah no women um i don't care it's more the energy yeah it is more the energy but if you you told me an age so i use age i'm saying i mean again if i had to pick an age 35 and over yep 35 and over you know um yeah i don't have a shape size color preference no just no no like a medium rare yeah he like what they're pink in the middle in the middle yeah just pink in the middle that's all we care about but yeah i mean yeah i don't have like a you know a certain type of guy that i like it just if they're just fun to be with have energy you know um easy to get along with uh can roll with punches you know what i mean just laid back they're not so rigid in what they like so there's some guys in some things yeah rigid where they need to be but not rigid in like how they have sex attitudes attitudes yeah maybe that's the word i'm looking for we have been with we have seen people that have been very rigid and that's just just not attractive enough not fun for us i mean we're we're not that um i don't know maybe they're more left brain or something that everything has to be very you know move in a linear motion i don't know i'm i'm a little more like free-spirited when it comes to sex it's like let's do this oh no. Oh, no, let's do this. Okay, let's switch it up. It's all good. It's all good. All right. Well, like I said, we got that email from a listener. We appreciate it. And looking forward to talking with her and her husband some more. Hopefully, we can get them in here. More input. Yeah. I'd like to see what other people have to say about it. You know? Yeah. Again, info at hotwifepodcast.com. And we won't be sharing your name or address. No, no, that would not be. We should piss me off. You don't joke about that, Vince. Come on. They listen to the show. They realize I'm not giving out names. No. We would never do that. We're not going to be outed here so I want to thank everyone for listening and until next time alright have a great night everybody