In this episode of the Hot Wife Podcast, hosts Donna Lynn and Vince delve into the complexities of sexual maturity, particularly focusing on why women tend to explore their sexuality later in life compared to men. They discuss the impact of menopause on sexual desire, the importance of communication and trust in relationships, and how couples can navigate the waters of sexual exploration together. The conversation is filled with humor, personal anecdotes, and insights into the dynamics of modern relationships. TakeawaysWomen often mature sexually later than men, typically around their 30s.Men tend to peak in sexual desire earlier than women, often in their late teens to early twenties.The experience of motherhood can lead women to rediscover their sexuality after raising children.Menopause can significantly affect a woman's sexual desire and overall intimacy.Open communication is crucial for couples to explore their sexual desires together.Trust between partners is essential when discussing sexual exploration.Women in their mid-30s often feel more empowered and confident in their sexuality.The podcast emphasizes the difference between making love and casual sex.Couples should approach discussions about sexual desires delicately to avoid misunderstandings.Exploring new sexual experiences can enhance intimacy if both partners are on boardBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/hot-wife-podcast-and-the-swinger-lifestyle--5343522/support. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
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hello everybody this is donna lynn and welcome to my hot wife podcast of course i'm here with my ever wonderful husband vince oh boy i know i'm pouring this shit on really deep today sorry am i dying um i didn't want to tell you i wanted to keep that a secret okay i want that to be a surprise it is all right so no you're not dying as far as i know well we're all dying a little every day. Oh, that's so uplifting to know. I try to be that motivator. You should be a motivational speaker. Yeah. Don't forget everybody. Welcome, everybody. You're one step closer to death. Closer to death. All right.
So with that, enjoy every moment. That's it. When your wife's not putting out, tell her, you know what, honey? We're inching closer to death death every second so you might want to put out you want to get into heaven bitch oh heaven oh maybe don't pour it on pour on the guilt i was talking to you oh oh wait a minute here you're mean you're a mean man yeah whatever hey again, we appreciate everyone who does reach out to us. We will answer your email, good, bad, or indifferent, with ideas or concepts or remarks or whatever. Info at hotwifepodcast.com. You're not bothering us.
A few people have commented, hey, I'm sorry if I'm bugging you. You're not bugging me. No, not at all. We are normal people. We don't do this show for a living. It probably shows. This is our hobby. Yeah, it's just. We don't make enough to buy groceries with this show. No, no. Half the fun is just, you know, talking about our experiences. And it's very, like we've said before, very therapeutic for us. Well, we've had fun to so many people that have written in that are new to the lifestyle and whatever that they enjoy apparently our banter and that Oh boy.
I got shots for it and it didn't clear up. But the aspect that we're real. We're not putting on a show and whatever. I mean, a podcast, I wouldn't call it a show. It's not a show. But, yeah, so if you want to reach out to us, we'd love to hear from you. Yeah, that's really nice. Info at hotwifepodcast.com. Nice. So what do you have on the docket today, Missy? Well, something that we kind of talked about very, very briefly is why— Why is the neighbor putting out for me? Exactly, besides that. Okay. Why do women sow their wild oats later than men? Okay. Like, why?
You mean like 6 o'clock at night, 7 o'clock at night? Yeah, it's when they sow them. Versus us at, like, noon? Yeah, exactly. Yeah, women are sowing the oats after dinner. Well, they have a lot of shit to do for us during the day. no statistically men so the wild oats from 18 to like 25. yeah they shoot their wad and women it's like 30 and all of a sudden they're like whoa i was younger it was a wad lunch now yeah i knew that feeling yeah i remember um uh when i was, of course, you know, I was dating that one younger guy who was nine years younger than me. So I was 30, he was 21.
And that was, you know, and I was, it was true. I mean, I had a lot of energy for sex and, you know, sex was first and foremost on my mind. But men, it's like different.
I don't know why there is that difference and it'd be nice if they were like the same so there wasn't this like oh she's not really interested in sex now when i am and or he's not interested in sex but i am and whatever if it i don't i don't know why women just seem to blossom a little bit later my opinion i and that's obviously not worth a whole lot right um when men are younger um i mean obviously it doesn't get better for men as we get older so we're virile and our hormones are raging right and we tend to be less um picky okay sometimes um no the Crack the fucking You'll fuck the crack of dawn You know, those things No, we're not as interested generally in commitment Oh, I Believe me, I can Women, I think when they're younger Are more about that whole like No, I just want you I don't want anyone else I want you looking want you looking at anyone else.
Ay. You know. So let's go with law of average. Yeah, okay. Maybe, kind of, my opinion. Okay, so a woman, let's say 35. Right. Okay, and I've talked about on previous shows that women 30 and over, but we'll go with 35. 35 and over have settled down a little bit in their lives. So sexually, they start to mature in a sense of, I think women 35 and over, 30 and over, all of a sudden know how to enjoy sex more. I'll agree with that. And also how to give enjoyment more. I'll agree with that. But that's just experience.
Yeah, but so all of a sudden the person they might have been with since their 20s, all of a sudden they realize that, you know, there's a little more out there. They're bored? Is that what you're trying to say? Okay, that's the unpolite way of saying it. I'm just saying as I see it. No, I can see that. I mean, I'm trying to figure out, like, with respect to what nature had planned, like why one sex matures or becomes more interested in sex at a different time than the other. I think women are interested, let's say, from 20 to 35. I'm just using it as a generic number. Right.
They're more interested in getting into a relationship, making it stable, maybe starting to have a family. Right, because that's... And generally by 35, it's like, okay, I'm done having kids. Yeah. You know what? And maybe I've had my kids for a few years, so I'm not cleaning diapers and everything else. Now, I need to get back that time I lost. That makes sense. And I don't mean lost in a negative way. Right, right. I mean, like, okay, while he was at work and going out with his friends here and there, I stayed home with the kids. I cleaned the house, which should be a shared task.
I'm not being sexist about it. Of course you are. You know, the woman has, in general, dedicated more of that time to say a family unit that makes sense because you know by the time you're 35 the clock is ticking the clock biological clock is ticking my card broke yeah mine never worked it was always you know ever since we went digital it does it doesn't it's not the same anymore but yeah i mean if you want to have kids the prime time to have kids is the ages between like, you know. Ever since we went digital, it just hasn't. It's not the same anymore.
But, yeah, I mean, if you want to have kids, the prime time to have kids is the ages between, like, you know, late teens or 20s to 35, maybe 40. That's about it, though. I mean, there are some people that can, ouch. Watch it. Yeah, sorry, my watch got caught on the edge of the table. Likely, excuse. I know, likely. So maybe that's it.
Maybe nature's like, look, like look you know between this time this is a time where you need to concentrate on having children because this is when you're viable after that after the kids are done guess what you got a new lease on life and all of a sudden it's like whoa i'm horny again i just i just want to fuck i want to do this i want to do that and all of a sudden it's like you might be able to i mean again now you have some free time you know you're not free you're not feeding the kids as well as making the meal exactly you know you can you know the kids well go to school or whatever might happen um and you realize like and again you start talking to other moms and men talk women talk all of a sudden you hear about like oh my god i've had you know my husband or whoever you know give me so many orgasms and oh my god and then you're like oh i'm not getting that you know so all of a sudden you start thinking about it you know and and women all of a sudden maybe they got done having kids and their body may or may not have taken uh some level of punishment during that process yeah so all of a sudden they start going to gym they start looking good and the husband takes them for granted this is all hypothetical i can't say this happens but it does right um yeah it's also not feeling good and you experienced it where guys look at you in the gym when you were going i'm sure absolutely and you know um so all of a sudden it's like when all of a sudden you start feeling attractive again.
Mm-hmm. And I never had kids, obviously, but, you know, I never. Not that I've seen, yeah. No. Not that I paid for. Nope. But, yeah, so all of a sudden it's a noob. But then there are also the women. Like we've talked to some people that like once the woman has had kids, they gave up on sex. I've heard that, too. You know, we've had it from a few people we talked to. Yeah. That just seems like, okay, you know, either women could go one of two ways. And, again, menopause is a big thing, and you could speak to that. Ugh. How menopause fucks with a woman. Anytime you have... And fucks with a man.
Don't sell it short. Oh, God. Women don't understand. Women go through hell. I am not... Oh, the hormones are just terrible. I don't understand. Women go through hell. I am not- Oh, the hormones are just terrible. I'm not belittling what a woman goes through. Right, I know. I saw you with the hot flashes and shit like that. Oh, that was just so much fun. You know, and you went through with vaginal dryness and everything else. Yeah, just pain, vaginal pain. I get it. I get it. But we have to deal with you going through that. I feel bad for you. I'm so sorry.
And we don't even get cue cards to know what's going on. Oh, because we don't know what's going on. But you just, women, because of the hormones, it is like, rah, and just rip our fucking heads. I was like, what the fuck did I do? It's terrible. I just came home from work. I didn't do anything. Well, we are, as humans, slaves to our hormones.
If you put different hormones in us, we will react accordingly, like depending on what the, depending on what the hormones do what they're supposed to and how we react to them when your estrogen is low or whatever and you have other hormones that are you know playing havoc with your body it's doing shit that you're like what the fuck is going on so and it plays with your your whole personality it plays with like how you feel you know i get it completely don't get me wrong hot flashes are no fun i get it completely i'm just saying it's um you know so so some women getting back to real topic yeah about know, let's say from 35 to whatever.
Right. I think they rediscover themselves. I think so, too. Especially in today's world between podcasts, you know, TV shows, movies, you know, and talking to their friends and, you know, the hormones that may or may not happen, all of a sudden it tweaks a little something in them. One way or the other, yeah. I mean, there's all kinds of, you know, self-help and, like, if you have these problems, there are all kinds of things you can do for the hot flashes now and anything with, you know, being post-menopausal to help you through that and regain some of your sexual prowess Thank you.
now and anything with, you know, being post-menopausal to help you through that and regain some of your sexual prowess. Yeah, but did you find, let's say when you hit, you know, you've always been a very sexual woman. Pretty much, pretty much. Did you find your mid-30s all of a sudden you were a little more? Yes, a little more frisky. A little more fired up. A little more fired up. Yeah. Absolutely, absolutely. I mean, it also helped that my job was very sexual, so they all fed into it. It must have been aggravating because you had boyfriends that didn't feed into it. It was pretty...
Well, in the beginning, they did, but it's always short-lived, but whatever. But I'm saying, okay. I'm not with them anymore. It doesn't matter. Let's pretend you and I were together back then. No, it'd been fun. And so you were in your prime at 35, which would put me at 29. Fun, fun. Well, but what I'm saying is if you were 35, still dancing, and you had that openness that we have. Right. That would have been great. How would your life, what stories would you have to tell now? Oh, it would definitely be a little more wild, that's for sure. Yeah. Absolutely. Yeah.
But, you know, women, I know of numerous cases where women, when they got into the 35, all of a sudden cheated on their husband. Oh, yeah. And men younger cheated on their wives. Yep. Isn't that funny? They just combined it and became swingers. So much easier. You know, it takes a wrinkle out of it. Well, yeah.
I even when just to get off topic just a little bit we watch tv shows and you'd see like you know the characters like jealous of the husband or whatever and you and i look at each other and we're like three letters sls swing lifestyle these should be swingers yeah dot com that's definitely a very good little website it's great for all kinds of things you know finding playmates but i mean you can alleviate so much bullshit if they're just swingers i mean of course I'm sorry. I'm of things, you know, finding playmates. But I mean, you can alleviate so much bullshit if they're just swingers.
I mean, of course, it's not as easy like, oh, hey, we're going to be swingers now. Just say, oh, we're going to be swingers. You know, you both have to be on the same page. Absolutely. You can't be jealous. You have to have a good communication. Right. We've talked about that. Oh, absolutely. The cows came home. But, I mean, it would just solve so many problems. So many problems. Yeah. You know, there wouldn't be this whole, like, oh, what show were we? We tried watching a couple of these swinger shows. Oh, my God. They're terrible. Bad movies. Bad movies. It didn't matter.
It could have been a movie about a car wash. It would have been horrible. It was just terrible. It made porn look like good actors. Some porn you can't act. Just saying.
you can't act just saying you can't you can't act a hard on okay you can act a huge cum load well maybe you could back with spunk lube but well in porn you have to act if you have to if you're shooting with someone you and you really don't want to yeah i've heard stories you just can't well i mean there's been guys that um were different than their pictures right right yeah we had that you know and you just took one for the team well no i mean they're just because you don't look like your picture doesn't mean you're not going to be fun well they were dramatically different there not dramatically there was a couple but we'll talk't talk about it.
It wasn't that much of a difference. No, they were still nice guys. They were still nice guys. Which was the important part. It is to me. It was like, I get it. It wasn't necessarily the eye candy we were hoping it to be, but whatever. Whatever. So, but, yeah. It's a good thing I look like all my pictures, right? You should. They're me. Yeah. But, yeah, it's the whole, I mean, I would, I mean, again, if I, let's say we were married. Let's say we were married, okay. When we were younger. And all of a sudden, and let's pretend we weren't swingers.
And all of a sudden, yeah, you had this increased sexual prowess at 35. I would, you know, probably have to embrace it for the fact of like, okay, I mean, let's pretend, you know, that we're not us. Oh, well, that's hard to do, but okay. No, I pretend I'm somebody else all the time. Oh, do you really? And then I'm just envious I'm not me. You're just so wrong. Okay. Please continue with this hypothetical. Again, people could sit there and like, okay, no, I don't want to be a swinger. I could, you know, say that to the wife. No, we're not swinging. Okay.
Yeah, I'm afraid you're going to leave me for so much. Then she's going to leave you anyway. Yeah. I mean, we've talked about that before, absolutely. I mean, there's a lot of variables that are wrong. Like my ex-wife, she was all about swinging but didn't want to see me with another person. Yeah, because she's too jealous. It's like, well, wait a minute. I mean, it's... Whatever. I mean, there are things that work out. And swinging is not for everyone. And it isn't necessarily the answer to fix a marriage. No, I agree with that.
But again, again like we said before if you sit there and think they're going to leave you just for an orgasm then there's more wrong with your relationship yeah we have said that quite a few times you know i mean if your wife can't cook and you can't cook what do you do you go out to eat or okay so ramen noodles if you've only ever been with just your wife and your your wife's only ever been with you, you know what, if you don't learn new drills, you're not going to improve at the sport. That's true. You know, sometimes you have to, you know, learn different drills. Yeah.
You're not going to necessarily with each other.
You know, you go and, you know, I can speak speak to this too different people do different things differently yeah how many times can you use different in a sentence yeah so i mean um yeah it's again don't base your relationship on an orgasm no i mean the relationship embrace the orgasm right i mean that's that's a fun part of it don't get me wrong but i'm not basing my relationship on it no absolutely not you might not be the best fuck your wife ever had right you know but every new fuck is going to be great not necessarily but you know something strange is always fun might not be great but it'll be fun right it is well i think the fact that it's different makes it very exciting it may not be the greatest but just the fact that it's something new and different and strange makes it exciting in retrospect some of the guys i was like was like, it was like, well, sex really wasn't all that good, but it was very erotic.
It was very exciting because it was different. But you're also feeding off of their level of excitement. That's true, too. Yeah, when you're sitting there, you know, getting fucked by a guy and you see him like, oh, my God, oh, you know, it's like, that's got to make it feel good, which heightens your sexual... Oh, I agree. And the more verbal they are about it, like guys that don't say anything, it's kind of like, it's like women that don't say anything during sex. It's like, okay, is it good? Is it bad? Do you hate it? How about you move a little bit? You know, something like that.
You've been with women like that. Yeah. And you're like, I don't know, was she dead? Yeah.
I had to keep checking her, you know, put a mirror underneath her nose and make sure she's still breathing it's amazing um and again you've been with guys who make no sound they don't even tell you when they're coming i mean then we've had the other ones that you know fucking sound like tarzan oh i'll take that over the sound you know at some point i want to laugh, I mean, when I've been videotaping you with these guys and they're just over the top with noise, I sit there and like, I bite my fucking lip so I don't laugh. I sit there and like, you know. I'd rather have them that way.
I picture that song, Tarzan Boy. Oh, yeah, yeah. Well, I'm just thinking back to the time we kind of did that little foursome with Bob and Jay. And remember this?
oh yeah well i i i'm just thinking back to the time we kind of did that little forcing with bob and jay and remember the spotlight it was very erotic i was pretty loud that that time and i'm not usually that loud you know when like bob was doing me anally and uh like jay was like laying down and i'm fondling her you were doing something with her i don't even know it was like i didn't do something until i put the camera down that that's true that's true but it was like a down and I'm fondling her. You were doing something with her. I don't even know. It was like a blur.
I didn't do something until I put the camera down. That's true. That's true. But it was like a blur. The whole thing was like, I don't know what was going on. I just remember telling Bob, fuck me harder, harder. And he's pulling my hair and he's fucking me. And I was like, oh my God. But I feel like I was like, it was almost like an out of body experience at that point. You know, it was very cool. But it depends on the excitement level. You don't always have that same level with every person or the same person. I mean, it just depends on, you know, the phase that the moon is in or whatever.
That goes out of saying. But again, it might not always be, it might not even be erotic. Right. But there's a good chance it will be erotic. If you're lucky, sure. There has been women I have played with that might not necessarily have been one of the best I've ever been with. Right, um, but I try to make the best of, I mean, like you said, there's been women that I don't know if they came or not, you know, I, I don't know if they were enjoying themselves or not.
Um, yeah, I tend to be more instructive with somebody who doesn't know me a little bit more because I can gently tell them i'm looking rude you know hey move this way if you do that or if it feels good i try to tell them yes this is this is what oh that's perfect that's just right i love it you know at what point do you stop telling me that um well i don't when i get it right okay when you get it right right, I'll send you a text message or something. Yeah, and you yelled at me last time. I was having sex with you and texting. Well, you weren't texting me, or were you?
Hey, baby, am I doing this right? Do you love this? I was texting someone that turned me on. I was trying not to think of you. You're evil. You're an evil man. But, I mean, yeah, communication is so important when you're with a partner that doesn't know your body. You know your body. You know your body better than anybody else. Please, for God's sake. Yes, you do, intimately, I'm sure. I mean, so you have to tell them, like, if they're doing it right tell them that. So they continue to do that. If you sit there with your tongue in your mouth, nobody's going to know anything.
So I'm a, I'm a big believer in being very verbal with your likes. And if you, if something isn't quite right, you can gently tell them, Hey, maybe if you do this, you know, maybe if you do that that you can't just say you're doing it all wrong leave the room and send in that other woman yeah that's you did that to me only once so it wasn't that bad well once today come on okay just checking oh see if you're paying attention i'm paying attention all right, I mean, yeah. I think we've said before that it just adds that little bit of spice to a relationship.
And the fact that men and women peak their sexual peak at different times is kind of hard to juggle. Because, like you said before, men peak so much earlier than women do. And it and it's like ah so you're almost like on two different two different planes at that point and you kind of have the men either have to like step step it up a notch or women have to step it down a notch so they're both like basically the same with interest and you know in sex and all that i mean and that's i don and again, if you don't talk about it, you're never going to know. Okay, so here's a question for you.
I have a question. So since our topic is actually how women mature, right. Reach their peak later in life. How could a woman approach or share with their significant other that it's like I'm really horny and I need not that you're not enough but I need more. I want to get I want two guys at once. I want to Oh, you really want to play outside the playground, huh? Yeah, thank you. Yeah, that could be a very delicate conversation because you don't want to disparage and put down your spouse. Well, you'd like to, but that's a good story. But that's just me. But you're into that, hon.
That's a fetish for you. It might be a fetish for you. I wouldn't do it if you weren't into it. Oh, you big fat slob. Oh my God, you repulsed me. And by repulse, I'm so turned on, right? The more disgusting you are, the more hot I am. Does it turn you on to know that I dry heave while we have sex? That dry heaving is actually a sign of how turned on I am. That's an excess of bodily fluid. Yeah, I think you'd have, that's a conversation that has to be very delicate. It's like, honey, I love you, but I think that I want to explore different things.
I don't even know how you even have that conversation. You know, I really want a big, thick, black cock. Oops, that could be a problem. Yeah, your cock is perfect for me if it was 12 inches in blood. Or, you know what? I think what you'd have to do is open the door for him first and bring in a woman and then be like, hey I... Well, what happens if you're not into women? Ah, there you go. See, I don't have that problem. No, but I'm saying if you're straight, yeah. The woman could get jealous seeing her husband bang somebody else and then it could be revenge sex when she gets hurt, you know.
Oh, it could get ugly, couldn't it? Oh, there's lots of things. Ah, jeez, I don't know. I don't. So if you have a heightened sex drive, I mean, it's a tough thing to sit there and, okay, do I approach my husband like, I want him to invite his buddy Bob over and we do a little threesome thing or do I cheat on him or tell him I just want to bang Bob in front of him and then I'll fuck the shit out of him when I'm done fucking the shit out of Bob. It's a tough call. That's a tough call. It is. Yeah. Unless it's like his idea to have his buddy come over, he may be depending on the man.
Either A, he could trust his buddy. Right. Or B, not trust his buddy. Exactly. Well, that's probably only two answers. Either you trust him or you don't. Well, if your wife if your wife's like god bob's hot you know and then like i'd really like to fuck bob but in the meantime when you and bob have hung out like me and bob have hung out and bob's like dude your wife's smoking right it's like okay uh do i trust that it's like okay i know he'll bang her right but how do i know talking about banger while I'm at work yeah I don't know It's like, okay, I know he'll bang her. Right.
But how do I know he's not going to bang her while I'm at work? Yeah, I don't know. That's a whole other can of worms you have to dig through. Trust and communication. It's like, honey, you can bang Bob whenever you want. Right. However, I have to be there or have knowledge of it. Right. I mean, that's probably the only rules that we really have. And nor is Bob gets his wife or his sister to come over. Or both. Oh, well. Yeah, there you go. I mean, unless you, I mean, yeah, broaching that. I just came up with a topic for another show. Okay, write it down. Oh, I can write. You have a pen?
I have one over here. I'll throw it at you. I'm going to tell you what it is. I'll write it down. Oh. Okay? But we're not going to talk about it. Okay. We're going to do a show on it. Okay. All right. Here we go. Do you get jealous if another woman... See, this wouldn't work for you. But would you get jealous if another woman does something you don't do? Oh. And that's it. Okay. All right. Leave a go with that. That's going to be a topic for another show. All righty. If I could find a pen. Took my pen, God damn. I do. I have your pen. I know you have my pen. That's it. Oh, okay.
That's going to be a topic for another show. All righty. If I could find a pen. Took my pen, God damn. I do. I have your pen. I know you have my pen. I'll find another one. But, yeah, I mean, broaching that conversation as wanting to explore more sexual things can be a very, very hairy situation. I get that. And if you don't have a relationship that's already open and honest, this, it could really, really be damaging, I would think. So you guys have to just start talking about sex and what you like and what you don't like and all your fantasies.
And then bridging, you know, the more conversation you have about those things, you can start inviting more aggressive scenarios, adding a third person, adding a couple, adding this, adding that. You know, but you have to start somewhere. You just have. So should a woman. Okay. To summarize it all. Okay. Because we're, you know, 30 minutes here. Yeah, okay. What do you feel is the best way for a woman, if her sex drive, say she's 35, happily married, and her sex drive is just off the hook. She's fucking her husband every chance she can get. She's masturbating when he's not around.
Right, she has fucking desires what is donna lynn's oh no as a hot wife what is your recommendation how do you proceed from here well what kind of communication do they have prior to all this are they open first of all the husband has to understand it's like my goddamn wife is fucking the shit i mean my dick is sore and do you think she should tell her husband she's masturbating all the time why not okay i'm just saying that would help communicate that my sex drive is fucking in in high high gear yeah i'm fucking ripping down a highway yeah but you have to have all this conversation before.
Yeah, well, I'm just saying, how does one build it? You don't just broach it like right now. I'm horny right now. I want to have a threesome, and this is what I want, and I want to do DP, and I want to be spit-roasted. I mean, his head will explode. But if you've already, he already knows that. How do we go from the kids have to go to soccer today to that? Exactly. You know, I mean, you have to have that communication before all this. Sure. Okay. So, I mean, having more talks. Build it up slowly. Build it up slowly. Making sure the door is open. I don't know.
A little test feels for where the husband might be. Exactly. Because that door could slam shut on you if he's like no i'm honey i'm just too bogged down with sex i am not interested right now and then she might want to outsource it it's like honey i can't be fucked five times a day i have popsicle sticks around my dick with electric tape on it to keep it out there for you yeah well you've worn out 17 vibrators this week my sex toy budget budget is over. Yeah. It's a delicate situation because men have, their egos can be, they're pretty fragile. Some men, some men have pretty fragile egos.
In fact, that you have this high sex drive might be very, what's the word I'm looking for? It might be antagonistic to him, you know, it might be damaging to him and his ego and everything else. So you have to broach it in a way I love you, but I really, I would love to have more. I want to, I would love to experience more or, you know, maybe like, oh, when I was younger, I always thought it'd be fun to have a threesome or this or that and see what he thinks about it. Hopefully these conversations are run that you had long before this. But if you don't, start slowly. We'll summarize it.
It boils down to communication. Communication. And trust. And trust, absolutely. And if a guy is listening wondering, what do I do if my wife does this? Hey go with it you know what you only you only live once and you know as long as it's something you do together that's true because don't start doing it behind each other's back yeah that that's not cool at all not cool at all and usually like when we will it's always fun to do something freaky but it it always comes back, I always come back to what's comfortable and what I really like and enjoy, and that's having sex with you.
It's fun having, you know, sex with younger guys or this or that or, you know, a black guy or this just because it's different.
But it's always nice to come back to somebody that knows my body, knows what like i don't have to tell him what to do again we've talked about this before there's a difference between sex and making love absolutely so yeah make love to your partner you have sex with other people i agree and there's and they're two different things absolutely all right with that i think we killed it wrap it up all right baby so again thanks everyone info at hot wife podcast, uh, coming up soon killed it. Wrap it up, baby. So again, thanks everyone. Info at Hot Wife Podcast.
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