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In this episode of the Hot Wife Podcast, hosts Donna Lynn and her husband delve into the complexities of relationships, intimacy, and the dynamics of group sex. They explore the challenges and pleasures of threesomes, the reality versus fantasy of sexual experiences, and the coordination required in group scenarios. The conversation is candid and humorous, providing insights into the sexual experiences of both men and women, while emphasizing the importance of communication and consent in intimate relationships. TakeawaysThe podcast is intended for adults over 18.Summer brings a change in hormones and intimacy.Threesomes can be complex and require coordination.Women often do a lot of work in group sex scenarios.Men may feel pressure during group sex situations.The fantasy of group sex can be more appealing than the reality.Coordination is key in sexual experiences with multiple partners.Not everyone enjoys the same dynamics in group sex.Communication is essential in intimate relationships.Stay open-minded and explore your fantasies.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/hot-wife-podcast-and-the-swinger-lifestyle--5343522/support. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
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Speaker1: Welcome to the Hot Wife Podcast, where we dive into discussions about relationships, intimacy, and everything in between. Before we begin, we want to make it clear that the views expressed on this podcast are solely those of the host and guests, and should be taken as opinions, not professional or medical advice. Additionally, we remind all listeners that this podcast is intended for adults over the age of 18. Unauthorized rebroadcast of this show is strictly prohibited without the written permission of the owners of Hot Wife Podcast. Now let's heat things up. hello everybody this is donna lynn and welcome to my hot white podcast of course i'm here manning the boards and who is the actual brains behind the whole thing and has his own hot I don't know. Hello everybody, this is Donna Lynn and welcome to my Hot Wife Podcast. Of course, I'm here manning the boards and who is the actual brains behind the whole thing and has his own Hot Husband Podcast. Yeah, right. Can I introduce my husband, Vince? Now people are going to look for that thing, right? You're a waste of your time. Yes, earlier in the week, we had seen my sister, and you were wearing the trophy husband T-shirt, which... Oh, that's a shiver state in the obvious. Oh, of course. So, you know, even my family knows you're the trophy husband.
Speaker2: They don't think that.
Speaker1: Your family hates me. Your family hates me as much as my ex-wife. Well, they don't know what they're missing so far. I don't lose an ounce of sleep over here. I don't either. People don't have to like me, and I'm fine with that. I like you. Well, that's okay. That's good. It's kind of important when you're married to someone. Yeah, just a little bit important. No, we have fun together, so fuck them. I don't care. I don't care. Sorry. I don't care. I don't care what my family thinks one way or the other. You make me very happy. If you didn't, I would be telling you. You're supposed to sell me on it. So, info at hotwifepodcast.com.com Our one, the one gentleman who writes into us. Your favorite cookie? My favorite cookie. Your favorite cookie. Actually, it's not. It's my second favorite, but whatever. He's, man, he keeps writing in that his life is going. I didn't, you haven't kept me abreast of this because you're down here in the studio he's having all sorts of fun yeah that there's three of them they get the fuck out of here this is like going on for weeks now yeah he's got the they worked out some bumps there were so little bumps in the road and he's got the whole cuckold thing going on where he takes care of her takes care of him takes care of them wow yeah this is like an you know one shop no one stop shop you know and he even said that he just sort of listened to some of our older podcasts yeah that's and he's like wow he says you guys really you know had some interesting times i'm like well, well, we enjoy life. Yeah, we try to, that's for sure. As much as we can. As much as, yeah, humanly possible. Slowing down a little. That's okay. Yeah, that's fine. It'll ramp up a little bit. I've got some things to go through, but that's all right. Whatever. So if you want to reach out to us for whatever reason, share topics, questions, comments, share stories, infopodcast.com always like hearing from people so that's true um was there something else i don't know i don't know i don't i don't know just remember if you hear noise in the background we apologize uh we have renovated the studio and i now run my 3d printing business out of here and i have two 3d printers running i thought they'd be done by now a giant fist i can't make it big enough for my butt i can if you want i don't think it's the right material it has to be i have material here to do that oh yeah i have stuff i don't know if you want to insert that into your body i don't. There might be certain kinds of filaments you can, but I would say generally no, because it's very plasticky. What do they make vibrators out of? It's a silicone... No, vibrators. Oh, well, that is a plastic too, but it's a different kind of plastic. Do you have any different plastics? Okay, this is not a show about about 3d printing but it is a show about plastics they use in vibrators so that could be get into that later another show um yeah so summer is coming spring is here almost almost so that means everybody's hormones are going to start raging more and we can start what thinking about maybe opening the pool do i how does that have to do with hormones but then you can be like down there and it's warm and you just you know it's i i just feel sexy here with the fleece i know now it's like it's it's usually may i'm i'm way i'm all about the warmer weather because women wear less clothing i i support that i i get that too i'm tired of dressing up in seven layers of clothes winter kind of sucks for that so um what are we talking oh being spit roasted threesomes who gets more who gets the more benefit from it who gets the more satisfaction from it okay i understand that one now it's been a while since i've been in that situation but i had to went back into my little mind and there was one where i was i have to refresh your memory i can say his name because he was a porn star rome major yeah remember that scenario i played with him in jabberjaw and it was the three of us oh this is a while ago but the scenario was this guy it was a fun scenario too that they were two jocks and i kind of accused them of you know you were the reporter and these are jogging my memory no no i said they were they were the jocks and i was the newspaper reporter and i was kind of say hey aren't you guys gay and they're like oh we'll show you how straight we are so they kind of tagged me that was fun it was a good time it's like a fun it was extremely hot in that place it was it was it felt like it was like 110 well yeah everybody was sweating i remember like licking on room and he's sweaty i'm sweaty jabber draw sweaty oh the camera was slipping out of my hand oh yeah it was but it was fun i mean i think it I think it really worked out well. I mean, you know, I wasn't like, I don't remember actually being spit-roasted. I remember like blowing one and what was it? Yeah, it was, yeah. Yeah, I think so. I have to go back and actually look at that video. Yeah, you had one at each end, yeah. I remember that. I think the question, though, in hand is- Who benefits more? In that scenario, because, plain and simple, the woman in, in okay we can look at it in multiple scenarios sure we can but with one woman two men right the woman's doing a lot of work it is a lot of work not in a bad way but no are you really able to enjoy that that's a very good that's what i was thinking about too it's like at the time it seemed like it was fun but yeah you're you're focusing on so many other things i don't think you get a chance to really settle in and enjoy the sensation because there's so much going on same thing with orgies or multiple people even though they're fun and exciting i don't get the actual satisfaction that I get from one-on-one sex with a person. Sure. Yeah. Cause I can really, I can either a go into my head and in my fantasies, you know, and you know, my typical ones that I have, you know, I could be, you know, and, and experience them and focus on that and not have to worry about the other person, or I can be engaging in them in a kind of, you know, back and forth. So, but I'm still focused on them and not have to worry about the other person or i can be engaging in them in a kind of you know back and forth so but i'm still focused on them and my sensation so i think my orgasms are definitely stronger with a one-on-one relationship than in a group although and again this is our opinion yeah this is just experience i've had in general there could be people women or whoever that says hey no i get off on that i squirt i do that you know and that's great well you know like me i can't pat my head and rub my belly yeah you know so you sit there and look at these women that are like in these gangbanks you know they're getting double penetrated a dick in their mouth and one in each hand i i couldn't function i mean i i'm lucky that i would never be in this scenario yeah but let's pretend there's other women if you're there's a lot of things going on now when i'm saying if okay for you you're if you're getting double penetrated you got a dick in your mouth and one in each hand are you able to coordinate all that and um not really no i'm i'm sometimes okay coordinate all that and enjoy what's going on get sore. Yeah, you're sitting there, your neck might be sore from trying to, you know, because you're, you know, whichever position you're in. Remember that force of mine I was in with the three Steves? Yeah. So that was the kind of thing. I went back and looked at that, and that, even though it was very erotic at the time, I don't think anybody but the one Steve came. Dancer Steve. Yeah. The dancer.'t i don't think i remember you know the one of the other i think that the one jabber jaw guy he was the one that kind of yeah he was really trying to get let's not critique them well i'm just saying but that's what happens in that kind of situation that does that's just the nature of being in a group situation but i even think that sometimes in those situations other men some get uncomfortable around other men with dicks swinging around yes there remember the um one of my favorite playmates early on uh we always called him the guy i fucked who's half my age that's always been our little yeah you know and i was like hey i'd love to have you with another guy be so much friends nope i don't do with other guys i don't want to be with other guys that's just me and women that's it and i was like there's a lot of guys are like no i mean they shut you down right away there's like i'm not i don't want to i'm not comfortable being in that situation and so you just have to find that the right dynamic and then you go back on some people are overzealous and they get um they're a little more greedy with their sex i'm using air quotes here like they try to like i mean like get into every position with my ex we did a couple threesomes right with other guys and i and i've mentioned before we even did DP with her and the rule was if one of us falls out she puts it back in we don't go grab until we don't grab the wrong guy's dick exactly i understand that but there's i noticed that when we were the three steves there was that one who just kept trying to be more aggressive than all the other ones and and in a situation like that there is an etiquette to being in an orgy i'm sorry you have to be you know at least somewhat polite to your uh i don't even know what you'd even call them it's not a sex partner but the other people that you're in a sexual circle everybody involved everybody involved exactly and there's always somebody who's just like i want to get my dick sucked more than yours and move out of the way she's gonna fuck me next and i like that that individual yes but that does happen i'm not just because it happened to us doesn't mean it doesn't happen in general so if you're going to be in that situation getting back to the topic it's it makes it harder for the woman to enjoy herself when she has to kind of coordinate everybody too so everybody be polite you know let everybody kind of have their turn, you know? And yeah, but at what point, I mean, I think the fantasy for the men involved is like, Oh, she really wants us. The problem is she may. Oh yeah. The fantasy is really hot. Yeah. Um, but again, are you able to, as, as a woman, I can't answer this. Right. are you able to as as a woman right can't answer this right um are you able to focus on really uh the pleasure you are hopefully receiving yes and no no because you are distracted because you are you are the central Because you are the central hub. You are the one giving and receiving pleasure. Now, however, when I did the birthday party and I was the focus of that orgy, I did nothing. So I was able to enjoy every- Oh, that was a different scenario. That was a different scenario, but still it was a group of people. So it depends on how you orchestrate it. And I hate to sound like a choreographer, you know? Turn the mic a little bit more towards you. Am I being a little bit like that way? No, turn it. It's like going this way. Oh, okay. There we go. There we go. Thank you. So you almost have to coordinate it in a certain way. In some circumstances, it just works better than others. This threesome slash foursome we did with Jay and Bob bob oh man that was that was probably the most that was really erotic i came really hard with bob you know banging my ass and and jay i i just remember her scrawling on the floor and your mouth on her in her pussy and i i don't know what happened i kind of think i blacked out i think that's what happened but i literally i i i remember like screaming to bob me harder my ass harder harder god and that's what it was i remember him pulling my hair but i think i blacked out i don't really like i think i just like oh yeah we do have to go back and like oh yeah that was really and again it was multiple people but we were synergistic but it wasn't well at one at one point jay was like licking your pussy yeah yeah and her pussy bob was fucking you yeah yeah there's a lot of switch over you know and even he was fucking jay for a little bit and then um you know you were kissing and licking and all you know so we're you know, I guess the scenario I'm thinking of is when it's two men and a woman, like the few times, you know, that you and I have done with another woman, you really, I mean, you don't come as fast as you think you would with two women. Because again, I had one one sitting on my face one sitting on my dick or licking my dick and i'm concentrating on licking it's like you're focused for me that's all i can speak to yeah it's going from enjoying this pussy in my face but then all of a sudden i start thinking about oh that tongue on my dick or my nuts feels really good and it's like oh wait this pussy's getting wetter into my mouth oh my all of a sudden it switches like oh no okay this pussy's you know also you're thinking about how you know this one is different right like you know lips might be bigger might be smaller might not be as wet as the other one or wetter or whatever and so you're at least i was they would last a little longer and um you know or the then you guys stopped and like both you were you know on my dick now that is when that is when you go run into the finish line yeah when you have one set one tongue on your nuts and one on your shaft it's just like that that one is just like okay spacex we're going're going to space here. So if the sensations are divided, like you're concentrating on trying to eat somebody's pussy and also enjoy the sensation of someone sucking your dick, it's, yeah, it does. You're distracting. It's hard to focus. And that's what I'm saying. I agree. As a woman, if you're laying there and even, okay, you just pretend you only have one guy fucking you, but you're sucking another guy and you even have just one other guy in your hand. You're thinking about stroking while you're sucking and getting your neck in the right position whichever way you are. You're trying to lift your neck to suck his dick. Or maybe if you're sitting on top of the guy. It's like, to me, it's like trying to juggle. You've got to really think about what the fuck you're doing in a way so i think there are exercises that can help you with that sure i'm sure you can find one you too i'm sure like that you know that one yeah gangbang exercises what about that one girl that does with that erotic oh yeah clitoral whatever she it's yoga they call it yoga i'm doing air quotes here she's in dubai right and she does a i forgot what it's called it's erotic yoga it's l-i-d-o or something that oh but the thing is it's like libido maybe it's l-i-b-o dot u-s or u-s-a whatever um but yeah she does yoga to help women improve their sex she's not shy she's got that glow-in-the-dark fucking clit this is what she's wearing this is really cool now these are full-length pants like yoga pants but they're like like sheer like damn near sheer well most a lot of yeah yeah and the top she's wearing is i could wear like full wool ones that are well no i mean like regular like you know yoga pants or spandex. How many yoga pants do women do the bend-over test to see if they're see-through? You can see if they're see-through. But hers are obvious because she has these, some kind of piercings down there, labial piercings. Or it might even be a device because it mounds out. Oh, yeah. That is on her pussy. It's got a light on it and it mounds out. Now, I don't know what she has inserted to do the homework and go look but yeah it's it's amazing like what she's doing with her body it's like she is fucking oh she fucks you you don't fuck her oh yeah that sorry sorry but i've got this frog in my throat yeah i wish you had the exact website because it is amazing watching. Every time we use Instagram, if you're scrolling through, you see her, we watch her like, oh, my God, what is she doing now? Oh, my God, I don't know if my body would do that. That is so fucking hot. You see that little glow like where her, you know, on her clit or somewhere down there. Something is pierced. There is some kind of device in there that's glowing, and you can see it as she's undulating in these very sexual moves. It's like all of her moves are like, you know, thrusting her body. If there's a guy in that class, because most of the women I can see in there are all fucking attractive and decent-shaped. Shaped women, yeah, exactly. But it is amazing to watch. Okay, if you're on Instagram, it's lib. Okay, li l-i-b you have your glasses d-o dot usa okay i don't know what that is l-i-b-a-d-o dot usa on instagram might be tiktok too i don't know i don't i'm not on tiktok amazing that is amazing workout i mean it's you i watch i'm like oh yeah you're kind of like watching like they need a better angle like where i can see where that glowy thing is coming from because you can just see it like through their cheery yoga pants it's such a tease she's got a great body oh it's it's that's she's not a youngster no no man she's freaking hot i'm gonna guess she's pushing for you yeah but, for us, that is being a youngster. I'm going to go out on the limb and say she could have me sexually. Really? You go on a limb? You were. What that pussy could do to your tongue. I don't know, man. What that pussy could do to any part of me. That's true. I'm just thinking about your tongue because that is. Wouldn't it be what my tongue could do to that pussy? I don't know. She would fuck my face back. i'm telling you look look at what she oh that's the first thing i thought i'm like vince i think you would have met your match can she work out for hours she's doing it well let's find out get her over here i mean there she's making or i she's making all these. Or I'll go to Dubai. Someone pays for me to go to Dubai. Is that where she's located, Dubai?