What is Tantric Sex?

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Speaker1: Welcome to the Hot Wife Podcast, where we dive into discussions about relationships, intimacy, and everything in between. Before we begin, we want to make it clear that the views expressed on this podcast are solely those of the host and guests, and should be taken as opinions, not professional or medical advice. Additionally, we remind all listeners that this podcast is intended for adults over the age of 18. Unauthorized rebroadcast of this show is strictly prohibited without the written permission of the owners of Hot Wife Podcast. Now let's heat things up. hello everybody this is donna lynn and welcome to my hot wife podcast of course i'm here with my extremely wonderful husband vince okay you have to learn to talk into the microphone okay
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Speaker2: No.
Speaker1: Oh, my God.
Speaker3: Better than two bourbons.
Speaker1: I don't know how to even respond to you.
Speaker3: You're envious of my pocket fisherman.
Speaker1: I am.
Speaker3: You feel threatened by my pocket fisherman. That's what it is. I have a tantric connection of my pocket fisherman. I am. You feel threatened by my pocket fisherman.
Speaker1: That's what it is.
Speaker3: I have a tantric connection with my pocket fisherman. Do you have a deep connection? No, it doesn't go into deep water. It's more of the streams. But, you know, I have that rotisserie oven from Ron Popeil that said a forget-it thing. You're jealous of that.
Speaker1: I am. I'm definitely jealous. But no, the... Oh my God. No, the tantric sex thing involves from what I've been told again. Right. Don't anyone think I know what the fuck I'm talking about? I don't. I'm pretending. But it is. It's a matter of touching each other and looks. We sensual and yeah it's it's almost like you're trying to convey energies back and forth through your touch and feel not just a dick and a pussy exactly you know not that that doesn't work sometimes no actually i i get it but sometimes i've told you a few times i'm gonna put my energy in it that's it i'm spent i'm bed no but you know sometimes you're just like really focused on the other person and you're really trying to live in that moment and really enjoy whatever you're doing you know riding his cock or i've never done that or eating her pussy or like you're just like really you haven't actually like got in there and just like really really enjoyed the moment like really focused on that sensation you get so much enjoyment in like 10 seconds so even when i'm sucking your dick it's like you just don't well you keep bumping the book i lose my page okay but you know you just you concentrate on that sensation that's why oral sex is so so good in that way and that you can just focus on that sensation and not worry about anything else and that's kind of like where they're going here because no it's not well in a way yes because you're focused you're living in the moment you're you're but in oral sex, it is a one-person thing. Yeah, it is kind of selfish. So what if you're 69?
Speaker3: Yeah, it would be different.
Speaker1: See, then you should be like in.
Speaker3: It's all good until someone farts.
Speaker1: Ah, true.
Speaker3: That'll break the moment. Or you should both fart at the same time. Then you've reached zen.
Speaker1: Yeah, that's zen.
Speaker2: Yeah, I know. I'm just reading like over this because it's like the yeah just the mind the mindfulness is what i was thinking like they're both like really focused on the gentleman you're talking about yes great guy great guy you know i think he was bringing elements of tantric sex, but it wasn't successful. Yeah, I was thinking more of it, of it being like more of an erotic massage, because he's like naked, you know, and his dick is like in my face the whole time he's rubbing me. It's like, well, that's fun, or like maybe... That's an erotic massage, not tantric sex. Yeah, that's erotic massage. Unless he named his dick tantric oh that that could be you know what some people do that all right do you want to have tantric sex here's tantric yeah i don't know um so yeah i could see that instead of just you know that the whole raw um primal sex this is is definitely more sensual, more intimate, more loving, and you're trying to connect with the other person. It's not fucking on your boss's desk or something. Yeah, actually, that's raw. You had a good time. Mm-hmm. Nothing wrong with that at all. This is the exact opposite. No, this is someone that you have i mean again i don't know anything it's going to be someone that you have some level of attraction or connection with sure and they have to have an equal amount coming back where it has to be it doesn't equal it could be more or less there has to be some separation here i don't know i'm thinking about it on the fly again um you have to have some level of attraction um don't you have some level of attraction with anybody you've ever had sex with no but you had sex with them anyway yeah i guess i have too a dirty secret. Yuck. It's the last call at the bar. Oh, yeah, yeah. Time to go hogging. And some of these women went hogging Dawson. Hogging and Dawson. Yeah. Yeah, I think we've all done that. Yeah. Did you woke up with the ugly person? I just want to relieve some stress. I don't need to like you oh that's definitely not tantric no no spiritual connection there no you know you raise to like another level do astral projection no nothing like that just slap nasties don't even you don't ask each other's name phone numbers you just go do it you see ya. That's the most basic, the most primal end of it. I think the tantric sex would be on the totally opposite end. That's what I'm saying, is there has to be some connection there, however minor, that that can be built upon. Yeah. I think it's a much more deeper connection. I'm trying to read some of the other stuff that they were saying here that it does i mean of course they're also mentioning the stress relief but you can get that from raw primal sex too masturbation too a masturbation but this is i know this is more slow deliberate that kind of those kind of moves i slowly and deliberately put my dick in your ass i guess that's tantric right you're doing slow and deliberately that's what it says you're doing allowing the partners to relax and connect deeply in my ass what tantric can be where you're not even touching each other's genitalia in any way and you can still achieve orgasm yes that was one thing i was reading that they say that uh typical sex there's a too much uh attention given to the to the genitals and in tantric sex it's not getting enough attention i know i get it we'll have to practice practice tantric sets so we can give each other orgasms from across the room. I'd start massaging and rubbing you and the only thing I'd get would be from you. It's like, okay. But I'm so relaxed. I was in the zone, Vince. I was in the zone. I felt one with your sleeping soul. I only fell asleep once on you. Do you remember that? No, there's been more once.
Speaker3: No, I remember once. There was two times doing oral.
Speaker1: Oh, always, yes.
Speaker3: And there was once during intercourse.
Speaker1: No, not during intercourse. I'm sorry, I disagree. But the one, I do remember definitely falling asleep because I had a couple glasses of adult beverages. And, yeah, you were doing me. This is our early days, and it just smelled so good.
Speaker3: At least now you fall asleep before we get to sex.
Speaker1: So you can do whatever you want to do to me, and I'm not going to know.
Speaker3: Yes, you will.
Speaker1: Oh, yeah, I mean, yeah, I would know. I'd wake up really sore.
Speaker2: Yeah. You fat shit, get off my legs. Jenny Craig. Jenny Craig. Weight watchers. Smart ones. Anything. That's a little joke that we have between us. That's an older show. You would have heard it because Stephen made jokes about that. That's an older show yeah it's a it might be in season one or two but you do a quick quick recap no listen we went we want to hear the see the hits on the old shows okay um we'll talk about that at the time okay but yeah so i mean the tantric sex is obviously i don't think it to be something a couple who is having issues, almost. Asshole. Too spank. You know, again, if you're not. Well, they talk about that, too. This is enhanced communication. As we always say with relationships, any relationship, really, communication is the key. Communication and honesty. Yep of the most important things you can have for a successful relationship. I lie to you every day. Tell me about it. You tell me to say, honey, I love you. Yeah, okay, you lying sack of shit. I check to make sure you're not on the phone with somebody. But, I mean, yeah, I mean, when you have that connection, and we'll probably never have it, of course, but, I mean, you can, like, elevate your relationship to a whole other, like, level, you know? I guess you have a more connection. Okay, so here's the other aspect we've got to bring up. Why? What's that? I think there might be an age restriction on on tantric because like you and i trying to wrap legs around each other oh jesus christ you know it's gonna take you right out of the sexual moods like oh my god that hurt my back oh spasm spasm leg crap leg crap it's not you're not gonna origami each other it's not yoga or they did some degree yeah degree, yeah. They did make that comparison, but not all yoga is the pretzel. Not all yoga is, you can do downward facing dog. Blueberry, strawberry, peach, a lot of flavors. He always does that. It's yoga, not yogurt. Tomato, tomato. Whatever. But, I mean, yeah, there's a bunch of positions i could never get into or get out of what i could get into them i mean again you know it just what i'm saying is i mean if people are still in good shape as they get older sure it's good great go but i think for some of us with back problems and shoulder problems and stuff like that it's like can you rub my back? Fuck, no, I can't pick my arm up. You know, it's like, look, can you eat around and grab it? You can go back to that again, I know. No, my back's killing me. Well, maybe. That kind of ruins that whole one-minded thing, you know? And that's what it's about. You know, I have some spiritual experiences with the one-minded thing, okay? Sure. It's a different show, not about sex. And again, to achieve that one-mindedness that you would need, and that's basically what they're doing. Yes. You're achieving one mind and sharing the experience. And I can see where it would work. I'm not going to argue that. Again, I don't don't have any experience with it but um you know what i'm saying is as we get older it's like it's like oh good look we formed this like cocoon together it's like but i'm having a spasm and i'm in a lot of pain this cocoon together you know that's the gentleman that was doing this with you You guys had his legs wrappedrapped around you and this and that No he was just sitting behind me with his legs No there was a time he did something else I didn't think there was anything Well it's like the karma suture It was very close I think Maybe tantric is part of karma suture I don't know Maybe somebody out there knows Write to us tell us us about it please info at hotwaypodcast.com i'm serious you know yeah they have like yeah all kinds of crazy positions yeah you know yeah like you know and that's what i'm saying you know it's like okay i'm gonna put my knee behind my head and then you know your ankle up my ass and then this and that and just like, okay. I might need two ankles up your ass. Wow. Do we really want to compare asshole sizes? And what I've had up my ass. Okay. Fucking Holland Tunnel. Here comes a truckload of spunk lube out of Donna's ass. Well, that's how those big dicks get in there. But anyway. Bring it in, boys. So I don't know how different, or if they're the same, just different terminology, tantric and Kama Sutra are. Yeah, maybe tantric was included in the Kama Sutra. I've never read the Kama Sutra. I just looked at the pictures.
Speaker1: Yeah, I'm still waiting for the... The pop-up?
Speaker3: The picture book, yeah.
Speaker1: It's a pop-up.
Speaker3: So, let me quick go into AI a minute.
Speaker1: Uh-oh, what are you going to do now?
Speaker3: No, I'm going to ask it a question. That is a very valid question.
Speaker2: Okay.
Speaker3: I am going to ask AI.
Speaker2: This is going to be exciting. You're asking AI. This is going to be exciting. You're asking AI what? Okay, the Kama Sutra and Tantric. Tantric. Uh-huh. Okay, while he's doing that, another good thing is you have an increased libido with tantric sex. So the more you do it, the more you want to do it.
Speaker3: So that's not a bad thing.
Speaker2: And you relax.
Speaker3: This sounds like a lot of good stuff. Let me make some noise here with my microphone. Okay, so according to AI.
Speaker1: Okay, what does AI say?
Speaker3: Tantric and the Kama Sutra are often conflicted, or confaced, conflated. These glasses, the thing is, I'm too far from my glasses and too close. Yeah, I know what you mean. It's like there's a bastard distance here. Let right, let's try it again. Let me get closer. They represent distinct practices and philosophies rooted in ancient Indian traditions. At its core, Tantra encompasses, boy, my glasses are filthy, a broader spiritual framework and include rituals, meditation, and exploration of spiritual energy. It seeks to harmonize the mind and body. I also hate this font. They should just use fucking aerial font. What is it? Is it Times New Roman? Yes. I hate things with serifs. Yeah. I'm an anti-serif girl right there. Using sexual intimacy is one of many pathways to achieve enlightenment. The goal of tantric practice is not merely physical pleasure, but attaining a higher state of consciousness and union with the divine. On the other hand, the Kama Sutra, attributed to the philosopher, I'm not even going to pronounce his name. Okay, don't even try. Too many vowels. It is primarily a text of love, relationship, and sexual pleasure, although it contains sections of unemotional intimacy and social conduct. Its most renowned portion details various sexual positions and techniques. The Kama Sutra emphasizes the art of love and the importance of balancing sensual experience with the emotional connection, providing practical guidance for individuals seeking to enhance their romantic lives.
Speaker1: While both Tantra and Kama Sutra celebrate sexuality as a vital aspect of human existence, Tantra is rooted in spiritual exploration while Kama Sutra is rooted in spiritual exploration. Kama Sutra is rooted in spiritual exploration existence. Tantra is rooted in spiritual exploration, while Karma Sutra focuses on the enjoyment of mastery of sensuality. Thus, understanding their distinct objectives allows individuals to appreciate the richness of the ancient techniques and their relevance to the contemporary discussions around love intimacy and personal growth i don't know what the fuck i just read but that's what i read well yeah it sounds like actually the kama sutra is more like a how-to book with a little bit of spirituality and sensuality thrown in there where uh the tantric is all like enlightenment going to the next level. It's, you know, a heightened experience. So tantric is more like a yoga for sex. Sort of, yeah. Yeah, so you get that enlightenment. Or that kind of meditation for sex. Yeah, meditation, enlightenment, yeah. You know, you really want to, like, focus on your own, you know, the sensations and everything.ama sutra is more like how to yes you want to have it's like dance steps they have those little feet to put on one two three one two three yeah okay it's a little actually the kama sutra is more like a more of a useful guide to actual yeah physical love okay rather instead of you know psychological and spiritual love so that's that's whatever but that's cool don't slide that across the table oh sorry i didn't mean to you can hear how loud that was no i didn't hear that oh my god so oh my god oh stop i've been very careful that time all right i think we accomplished nothing absolutely i still don't still don't know anything not a little bit oh my god i would love to have anybody or everybody who knows anything about this send us an email at info at hot wife podcast.com tell us inform us teach us it'd be cool to hit another level of sensuality. There's nothing wrong with that. Span my horizons a bit. Sure. I'd just like to know what the fuck they are. My horizons? No. They go on. You know, with these two things really. Tell me why I should learn one or both. All these reasons we just read. Better orgasms, more control, more focus on your significant other. There's more mindfulness, spiritual growth, intimacy beyond sex. I mean, come on, that's why. No, not selling me on it. No, not even a little bit? No. No, I still just rather, okay. I'm just trying to, you know, increase your, you know, sexual, you know. Me too. You know, your sexual experience. I'm trying that myself. I think the next step I have to do is get a partner. So anyway. You can have a girlfriend. I do not mind.
Speaker3: If I could just talk these girls into it and stop the restraining orders, I would have a couple.
Speaker2: Okay. Anyway.
Speaker1: I don't have a problem with that. You know that.
Speaker3: I want to thank everyone for listening. And again, seriously, about the emails, emails, if you can enlighten us.
Speaker1: We need a lot of enlightening anyway okay everybody have a great
Speaker2: night