What is Cuckqueaning?

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Speaker1: Welcome to the Hot Wife Podcast, where we dive into discussions about relationships, intimacy, and everything in between. Before we begin, we want to make it clear that the views expressed on this podcast are solely those of the host and guests, and should be taken as opinions, not professional or medical advice. Additionally, we remind all listeners that this podcast is intended for adults over the age of 18. Unauthorized rebroadcast of this show is strictly prohibited without the written permission of the owners of Hot Wife Podcast. Now let's heat things up. hello everybody this is donna lynn and welcome to my hot wife podcast of course i'm here once again with my, okay, wonderful husband, Vince. All right, okay. You're really not selling me on that. You're not selling me on that? Not even a little bit? No, there was no, like. It's like, it's the same thing. Not anything believable about that. That's all right. That's all right. Somebody will like me out there. I'm sure. I have high hopes but somebody beautiful day very nice oh my god it was like the perfect weather not too sunny 85 degrees or whatever perfect for swimming work working outsides it was yeah i the sun kind of can be too much so it's overcast it's actually a little nicer it's not so like in your face so it's very nice sure and it's still warm enough to swim so i'm all about that yep gotta get it in before we know oh i know i know august will be over cover going oh no i'll cry there you will i do every year i get very sad like i wish it was just like a summer was just like one month longer i like winter i like fall but i wish summer was just a little bit longer just but we have i'm not gonna get into it yeah well i know but i mean like in september sometimes we're still swimming sometimes you know so i like to swim in october uh i't remember that much it happened i think it's just one year we had some warm weather so but uh anyway we're don't worry about that that global warming thing we're all gonna die the world's gonna do what the world's gonna do anyway uh moving on hot wife podcast oh info at hot wife podcast.com you can reach out to us um yeah the new magazine which i haven't started i thought you were supposed to do that every weekend i was supposed to do a lot of things every weekend i was not feeling well yesterday and today i did stuff around the house okay so i will he's fixing some decks i can't can't get on you because you fixed some decks so that's good uh did some did some stuff i need to get done so yeah um boring stuff sorry check out for uh check out for wow that's great english yep i've been drinking bourbon for a couple hours now maybe we shouldn't do this oh my god who's we white man um okay you shouldn't do this okay that the go the magazine you go okay you can see what i'm doing who i'm doing it hot wife donalyn.com i don't know anyone who see the magazine it's 50 shades of pleasure that's 50 f-i-f-t-y spell it out not the number and he's looking all around let's not forget spunk lube if you need a lubricant he's gonna i know what he's thinking it's like if you have a dry old nasty cunt like my wife you're gonna need spunk lube i know that's what he's thinking spunklube.com and don't forget to use hot wife all one world word at the checkout to get 10 percent off he's not he's not even helping me out here. Okay, so the topic for tonight is why hot wives put up with her husband's at all he's looking around what what okay i'm done it's your show go with it i did as much as i could do i need your input it really is uh not my show he's a big help hot wife podcast not hot husband oh oh oh but the hot husband is the successful show well that's a perfect segue into tonight's topic is it now i think i don't know i'm I don't know i'm out of the loop apparently i don't know what you're talking about yeah so you don't listen to me okay so anyway i've tortured her yeah almost enough so tonight i came came up with the concept or the question, so to speak, of we're all aware of cuckolding.
Speaker2: Right.
Speaker1: Okay, where the woman gets to play with a bull or whatever and for whatever reason gets to belittle the man. Well, there's all different variations on humiliation. Yeah, it's based in humiliation, you know know and then even the fact of like okay clean my pussy up you know get suck this guy's cum load well it depends on how far they're going with this i'm just talking that in general it's just kind of we don't know anybody that's been cuckold we don't know anybody personally who is a cuckold yes we kind of do we do there has been some playmates of yours oh that have said that oh i'll come over and clean up after you fuck somebody else uh that just might that's not necessary cuckolding that's just uh disgusting well in my world it might just be his bisexuality coming out. Obviously. It's not a straight guy.
Speaker2: Well, there you go.
Speaker1: I mean, whatever.
Speaker2: And that's fine for those who that's their thing.
Speaker3: God bless you.
Speaker4: But that's different from being a cuckold.
Speaker1: That's different than being a cuckold. Yeah, it is. It's just still weird. Either way, you have to be into it. You have to be into it. So anyway, the question was.
Speaker2: Okay.
Speaker1: The question for the show was, is there such a thing as a female cuckold right you know is it something like a guy gets a woman and or whatever his wife or yeah whatever i so we had to do some homework we did some research and we did we oh yeah this goggle thing goggle he goggled it i goggled it you thought people were going what so anyway interesting yeah he's he was very pleased with the uh research he did a little more than he should have been ecstatic it just ecstatic. It didn't come up as a porn site. So anyway, apparently.
Speaker2: Okay.
Speaker1: A man is a cuckold.
Speaker2: Right.
Speaker1: A woman is a cuckweenery. C-U-C-K. C-U-C-K.
Speaker2: Cuck.
Speaker1: All one word. Q-U-E-A-N-R-Y. Cuckweenery fetish. I, yeah. I have never heard of it. No, I've never heard of that before. This is all new for us. I think I discovered my new fetish. I need you to be a Coquenry. If you pronounce it, okay. Is that like Coquery Board? Oh, I can't pronounce that either. It's like, okay, it's a lot of different meats and cheese on the board. It's a cutting board. Is it just a cutting board? With meats and cheese on it, yeah. pronounce that either okay it's a lot of different it's a cutting board cutting board with meats and cheese on it yeah okay well it's a i want to cook greenery board which is a lot of different pussies and you get to clean them up oh i get to clean them up when you're done okay according to this uh where i'm at i think it's just a wikipedia thing yeah oh god we don't know that doesn't mean it's real it doesn't mean it's real at all come on says a queenry fetish is is aware fetishist is aware of her partner's activities sometimes actively encouraging it and derive sexual pleasure from it among some fetishes the coqueens humiliation and victimization is a major element of Thank you. from it among some fetishes that coquines humiliation and victimization is a major element of that's another word i've never heard of paraphilia whatever i've heard not heard a lot of words so anyway in this fetish coquines subculture the male takes the role of being the sexual dominant while the female takes the submissive role okay wife usually only becomes involved with the man or his lover when he permits it sometimes remaining altogether celibate in coquinary the male is also known as oh boy here we go here we got husband oh god there it is and oh no needless to say, he was all excited. Oh, look, a hot husband. Hey, shut up, woman. I am the hot husband. The other female is also known as the cupcake. The queenery is often known as hot husbanding. Listen, listen, coqueenery, you keep your mouth shut. I'm the dominant one now.
Speaker2: Okay, let's go with that. Now, what was the other woman? The woman who he plays with that isn't his Coqueen.
Speaker3: Right.
Speaker2: Sounds like a stutter. Yeah, I know. Coqueen. Okay.
Speaker1: I'll have to take the look. The girlfriend, so to speak. Okay, the girlfriend, okay. Generally in a... Did you say cupcake?
Speaker2: Yes. She's a cupcake.
Speaker1: I'm reading what it says. She's a cupcake. That's a cupcake what it says she's a cupcake like the guy fucking a woman in a cuckold is usually a bull right but the woman in a hot husband scenario she's the cupcake the cupcake okay i i don't know what i should call it i'm just reading what this says whether it's true or not i don't fucking know so you get to be the cupcake if i sit there one day and say i'm in the mood for some cupcakes you need to question what i'm talking about i'll be like no i'm sorry you're diabetic you can't have any cupcakes and i sit there and say this one will lower my blue sugar this one's sugar free this one's sugar free it's gonna be sweet but sugar free i'm gonna be i'm gonna be providing the icing oh you know what i mean wink wink and i'm not gonna lick it off you get the icing i do the filling oh boy yeah i think we just created a monster here okay that website he was all excited oh look hot husband that's what they're called oh god why okay so okay so let's get into the whole oh yeah let's hot scenario oh yeah, no, no. I mean like cuckolding and now hot husbanding. Or cuckqueenery.
Speaker2: Sorry. Whatever.
Speaker1: Sounds like a country. Where do you come from? I yield from cuckqueenery.
Speaker2: What?
Speaker1: Where men are men and women are cupcakes.
Speaker2: Cupcakes.
Speaker1: I don't know. Where men are bulls and women are cupcakes cupcakes i don't know we're men are bulls and women are cupcakes but okay a lot of times like in cuckolding right humiliation is a part of it correct or wrong i i do believe there are different variations of cuckold There are, there are, but I'm picking on the humiliation part. Okay, yes, that's usually a part of it. You know, sometimes the husband goes in a cock cage kind of thing. Oh, yeah, there's... You know, she'll sit there and talk about how this guy's dick is so much bigger and better and everything else. I've never had that happen. I know, not to your face. I've never had it happen when you're with me. when you're with me oh my god your cock is not as good stop it i never said that's your face i'll think it's you i don't want to know what to anyway um yeah so i don't know i mean the aspect of like so do you get to do that to the woman's like oh my god her pussy is so much time oh my god her pussy doesn't smell as rancid as yours oh my god she's oh her her fucking labia doesn't hang down to her knees jesus christ look at that wow look her nipples point straight forward not down at the ground wait can, can you do that or just make fun of her pussy? I don't know. I don't know. I think it's all up for grabs. It's all up for grabs. I mean, if you're into humiliation, man, I'm going to go for the fucking brass ring. You're going for the throat. You're brutal. Wow, man. Look, her face doesn't make me dry heave oh my god look her ass doesn't have dimples in it it's like oh my god her ass is not like a bowling ball i can't i don't i can't put fingers on the side i don't think it's that kind of humiliation what should be i i don't i think it's more um it's I'm fucking her ass. And look, I don't need to use shims to make it tight. That's terrible. No. But that doesn't turn you on? Oh, I'm so wet. You can't even imagine. I'm sloshing. This is where I'm at even with a cuckolding. I mean, it's the last thing I need to do is sit there and watch you fuck somebody else. Like, oh, my God, his cock is way better than yours. Oh, my God. I can kiss him and not have to deal with bad breath. Oh, Jesus Christ. No. Yeah, his tits aren't bigger than mine like yours are. Oh, my God like jesus christ look i didn't have to lower it out of the hole with a dirty magazine his dick was out there ready to go and come here come on it's okay you know he didn't fart during sex oh now come on we all have done that okay but I mean you know so i mean i i hope to have sex with with you again after sex with somebody else so i to sit there and humiliate you or have you humiliate me is just like and the truth would be i'd be playing with another woman in front of you and the two of you would gang up on me. You know, it's like, oh, my God, why did you talk me into this, Donna? He's horrible. Donna, I know it's daylight, but can you put something over the window so we get no light in his room? Do you have anything we can spray on him so he doesn't smell so bad? They've never said that. To my face. No, not ever. But no, the whole humiliation thing in general, I just don't... I think there are different types of humiliation. I don't get it. Those who get it, that's great. I'm just, I'm having fun with it. Yes, you are. Yeah, it's just, you know, I just... I don't think it's that kind it that's great i'm just i'm having fun with it yes you are yeah it's just you know i don't think it's that kind of humiliation oh no i've seen videos and it is it is look at the humiliation videos you've shot oh your dick doesn't satisfy me yet i just wish you wouldn't call me out by name i just that's a problem anyway it's a good story yeah yeah one But these guys, they want, you know want you know you've had black men ask you to shoot custom videos where you use a derogatory turn yeah i would not do it no and nor would i allow you to no um no it's just you know at what point yeah but these were all sexually based so it was oh i understand that but it was um yeah you know you know you think about now that i go back and i reminisce it's like you're right it was it was pretty brutal i can't do that i can't do that with a straight face yeah i i you know i can't i can't be mean to somebody say oh you're you know your your dick is so small it's you know i've seen more of me again i you know those of you out there that might be listening that are into it god bless you i'd write to us info at hotwavepodcast.com i want to know what about being humiliated is arousing well is it true humiliation or is it more like play acting and role playing well i'm sure it has to be a level of role playing i think so too so it might be a thing that i i don't know two things happen to me if i get humiliated when i get embarrassed and the last thing i'm gonna do is get hard right personally personally the other one is you humiliate me i'm gonna get irate and beat the fuck out of somebody yeah i'm gonna get yeah i'm gonna get you know more in your face well here's the thing now okay go ahead before i forget i mean it was like the same thing we talked with um other people uh about people who have jobs of they're very dominant in their role in their their work life and then they want to release and they don't want to have any kind of responsibility maybe they're the ones that cuckolding might be might appeal to them again you know controlling somebody so i don't know we don't know oh yeah we're just so does someone who is into it then afterwards when they're alone with their significant others like oh you think my dick's so small oh you think and now it's like they use that as like oh i'll show you kind of you know what i mean maybe i don't know so you have the angry sex is it anger i don't Every time you have sex with you're angry i don't want to do this i don't want to do it stop it come on uh yeah wow yeah i don't know that's i don't i don't know i'm trying to ask a valid question i don't know again so you know the cucking thing well i don't get. I get the voyeurism. Right, because that's what you are. And people have said, called you a cuck. And I'm like, no, I'm not a cuck. I'm a voyeur. There's a difference. Yeah, I don't want to be humiliated.
Speaker2: No.
Speaker1: I'm not cleaning up after anybody. I'll get you the wet wipes and hand them to you. But that's as far as I go. That's as far as it goes, yeah. Yeah, no, I don't like to humiliate or human or be humiliated i don't i do it on my own i mean you hear me pick it on myself too and again for those we've had comments in the past like oh the hudson picks on himself yeah i do relax if i can't pick on myself i can't pick on anyone else oh he picks on me enough yep yeah we're just having fun relax jesus christ get a life oops no there's no oops about it fuck you if you don't get it then don't this is not your podcast you know what we're having fun we're talking about sex we're talking about swinging you know what right we're talking about the the simple pleasures in life and part of that is humor okay i do read stupid voices sometimes and i'll make fun of different things like donnie man's ass which i don't get which is fine i don't have to you know but those who are into it like we said god bless you as long as whatever it is you're doing is everyone is consenting and of age right have fun right you know what i don't i don't have to like it i'm nobody in the scope of everything i'll never get to eat your ass no you're my husband no i should be the first person's ass i've ever eaten no obviously i wasn't obviously you were i know but you shouldn't have been no No, that's not memento. No. I know. I just love, I love going, nope. No, it's not, no more than you want to eat, you know, olives.
Speaker4: Oh, come on.
Speaker1: I'd rather eat a man's ass than olives. Well, I'd rather eat olives. There, it's out there. Actually, I have eaten a man's ass. I don't think I've ever really eaten. I'm going to put, I'm going to have a guy jam an olive in his ass. Oh, no.
Speaker4: I have you eat that out.
Speaker1: Yep, that would ruin it all for you. Oh, I'll be ruined. You'll just think, when you think olives, you're going to think. I'll think of man's ass. You think man's ass, you're going to think olives. And I'll be all over. You couldn't put a cherry in there. I'm personally not putting anything in the guy's ass. No. I'm going to hand him across the table the olive jar and go, No, no. Before you touch your ass, grab one olive. Don't touch the rest of the olives. Don't touch your ass first. Or you know what? I'm going to take one olive out with a spoon. Put it in a bowl. There's your olive. There's your ass. Insert. Oh, Donna. This guy wants his ass eating. Oh, he just ruined it for me. Oh, this is so salty and gross. Oh, I just picked you a little pimento. Winking at you. Come get me. Little sphincters going in and out. Little olive there. Would you have a a cheese stuffed olive or a jalapeno stuffed oh no spicy asshole so spicy all right all right let's just get off this okay so back to the cock queening right how would you feel if, like, I'm banging another woman, and we'll pretend to legit me. I'm like, oh, my God, her pussy's so much better than yours. Oh, my God. I'm eating her pussy. He's like, oh, my God, her pussy tastes so much better than yours. No, I don't want to be humiliated either. I mean, I'm not into that either, so I get you.
Speaker4: I'm like, what?
Speaker2: What?
Speaker1: What? What are you calling?'t yeah don't come over tonight wait till she's not home yeah she's apparently not into being you know i bought her lysol i bought her all sorts of shit she doesn't get it no't get it. No. Yeah, I know.
Speaker4: Yeah, I know.
Speaker5: Stop it.
Speaker4: It's a big mess.
Speaker1: She doesn't get it.
Speaker2: I tell her.
Speaker1: I bought her a mirror with a handle so she could look at the damn thing. She doesn't look at it. See, she even thinks it's a thing. Hang up your fake phone call, please.
Speaker6: Oh, sorry.
Speaker1: We all know it's a fake phone call, okay all knew that okay but were you saying because like there's no other woman that would have me i didn't say that then how do you know it wasn't real the phone never rang no if i'm dialing out it doesn't oh that's right we're supposed to have our phones on mute or turned off or airplane mode or whatever while we do this i called out she's that woman's on speed dial speed dial now i know you're full of shit it's my third cousin in west virginia oh no vincent please you're terrible all right we're going way off topic here i got a no we're talking about me humiliating you while i'm doing another woman yeah see the funny thing is you've seen me with these other women and and you'd more like cheer me on i do i do go at it honey tear it up i do i cheer you on see that's that's different yeah it's not humiliating i know i would never do that like yeah i don't like humiliation no more than i would no i mean for us it's just it's totally alien it's
Speaker2: Thank you. yeah it's not humiliating i know i would never do that like yeah i don't like humiliation no more
Speaker1: than i would no i mean for us it's just it's totally alien it's i don't i don't find it pleasurable i don't like it when people humiliate other people i can't yeah i can role play but i mean i would love to talk to somebody that is a cuckold or cuckween yeah like what about the humiliation is arousing to you? I'm interested to know. Maybe because of the fact that they know it's not real, or maybe it is real and they're into it, which then I don't understand. I don't know. Yeah, it's beyond me. I just, I don't. It's beyond me. Yeah, I don't know why anybody went into humiliation but there are people that are and picture this part of it if you're with somebody you're doing humiliation okay instead of oh my god that feels good yeah oh it's like god you suck at this oh my god i can't get any traction fucking oh my god Jesus Christ. I think your fucking pubic hair is tying around my nuts. It's like a fucking... Your pussy's like fucking quicksand. I'm getting in there like, Jesus Christ. I can't get out. It's like I failed teeth. I'm not sure. I mean... He's got you got teeth. And then you'd have to be like, oh, yeah, baby. I love it when you demoralize me. Oh, man. Oh, dehumanize me. It makes me think of cat food that's gone bad, yeah. I can't. I can't do it. This is porn movies you'll never see. No, I bet you there are porn movies that have that, but it's for a select you. Oh my God, yeah, I love eating the toilet paper out of your pubic hair, yeah. Oh. No, I'm sure if you were to go into any porn site you will find this you will i don't understand the attraction i don't understand the eroticism i'm gonna have to do a cuckooing one i i'm gonna have to yeah the cuckooing i i'm totally clueless i just don't understand either side of it like why would the humiliation aspect i don't get so i So I think we need to, like, do some research.
Speaker2: You're right.
Speaker1: Watch them. See what they're all about.
Speaker2: Yeah.
Speaker1: And report back. You can't make me.
Speaker2: No.
Speaker1: You will watch his poor, no. You will watch his husband make fun of his wife, and the wife make fun of the husband.
Speaker2: No.
Speaker1: Yeah, I don't know. I don't know. Thank you. Watch his husband make fun of his wife and the wife make fun of the husband. No. Yeah, I don't know. Makes you go, what the fuck is wrong with your relationship? I don't know what exact words are being spoken. There might be certain words they find titillating or exciting. I guess, again. I don't know what these words would be. Info at highwaypodcast. love don't need your real name love to have you come in we'll have set up a time for you to call in we'll record a show and love to have you explain it to us and the rest of the you know three other people that listen um you know it's i don't know yeah it's that not my cup of tea yeah it's outside i mean i i dab when they'd be dsm world i do like a little bit of pain like my hair pulled and all that stuff and you know if i'm in the you know if i get a little frisky you know i like a little more a little more in the usps world your package is delivered that's all you care about package was delivered that's all i'm done
Speaker2: Thank you. People in the USPS world, you know, my package is delivered. Your package is delivered. That's all you care about. Package was delivered. That's all.
Speaker1: I'm done. Take a picture of it. I don't have to go pick that shit up.
Speaker2: No.
Speaker1: You're in the BDSM.
Speaker4: I'm in the USPS.
Speaker1: You're in the USPS. I don't have my shit there on time. It absolutely has to be there overnight. Overnight? Is that USPS? I don't know. Oh, my God. All right. I'm done with this. You're wrapping it up? I'm wrapping this up. All right. So those of you who are into cuckolding or cuckqueening, I don't know. I wouldn't. So reach out to us. I'd love to hear from you. Take other people hear from me take other people maybe you can pronounce it properly yeah yeah someone who hasn't had a bunch of fucking bourbon oh never mind anyway all right folks thank you and we'll talk to you soon have a great night everybody We'll see you next time.