Too Nice A Guy?

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Speaker1: Welcome to the Hot Wife Podcast, where we dive into discussions about relationships, intimacy, and everything in between. Before we begin, we want to make it clear that the views expressed on this podcast are solely those of the host and guests, and should be taken as opinions, not professional or medical advice. Additionally, we remind all listeners that this podcast is intended for adults over the age of 18. Unauthorized rebroadcast of this show is strictly prohibited without the written permission of the owners of Hot Wife Podcast. Now let's heat things up. hello everybody and welcome to my hot wife podcast i'm donna lynn and i'm here with my wonderful husband vince again right vince you're wonderful today are you wonderful today i'm so fucking he's so fucking wonderful if i wasn't me i'd want to be me oh i can see that i can't but whatever it's all right i'm so happy that you're my husband because i had so much fun today and well we'll get into that oh i'm excited to get to it now yeah it was fun time but um it's warm today we go it's oh god he's hot oh honey you're so hot i'll open the door a little bit she gets a high hard one and she fucking becomes crabby what was that i said i was just telling her how much i love you um oh this shit is so deep again reach out to us if you want to i'd love to hear from you uh info at hot wave podcast.com and yes oh spunk lube i i didn't use spunk lube today i did spunk lube is a wonderful lubricant for um sex well sex but yeah but today i used it to stroke off a playmate and then that's sex it worked really well and it was it was easy cleanup and it doesn't doesn't get sticky i just love that and you know what i was um stroking his cock and i was blowing him like afterwards and it doesn't have any flavor so it wasn't offensive to me so you know what i can't say enough about spunk loop i think it's great so go to spunk loop.com get yourself some in the discount code in the checkout put in hot wife all one word you should get a 10 discount so woohoo um maybe we'll see what you're doing oh i'm at hot wife donalyn.com and see who and what i'm doing because i'm always posting stuff because i'm a little slut oh no i mean that in a good way that was the last show that was the last show was i a little slut the last show i was we talked about the difference the last show between being a slut and being a swinger yeah there's in my case i'm just very okay i was a really good swinger or a little bit slutty either or whatever it's all good it's all good um last issue of um 50 shades of pleasure pleasures coming out so you decided you're not with your i hear you i know you have a new job i get it yeah just i mean we have a a bunch of readers but not enough that the the amount of work i have to put out to put that magazine out sure versus the amount of readers not that i don't appreciate it just you know new job damn job damn work gets in the way of my fun doesn't get in the way your fun gets away my fun okay gets in the way your fun you get to have your fun whether i'm here or not oh no that's not true i i have to have you here you don't have to i know i don't you're going hot dates yeah i know but you got one coming up soon no date established, but your high school buddy wants to do it. That's intriguing. I always knew he had a little bit of a thing for me, but now that he's in his... Now you've got a thing for him. I now have a thing for him. Just a little aside here, when I was in high school, he was always a really nice guy. That's the problem. He was a really nice guy. But I was like, but i was like you know i mean come on i mean now let me ask you this i mean this is i could make a topic out of this one oh yeah so there was a lot of girls i tried to date in high school sure okay all i got told was you're too nice a guy that's it that is it is that a thing for that's a death sin ugly no or is that really a thing that is even with my my um my friend from high school he was that very not a bad looking guy but i mean not not a not a head turner but a nice guy but not you know what i mean he was i saw the pictures from your high school yearbook a look yeah it's a good looking guy good looking guy but kind of like a dweeb yeah i was gonna say i think he's a better looking guy now oh i think so too now absolutely absolutely and and the thing is like i guess dweeb is a good kind of a good word whatever a little bit nerdy but very friendly very outgoing oh he's a great guy um even back then he had a sense of humor because he wasn't like totally dorky but he wasn't the wasn't a standout wasn't a standout yeah which the career he had after high school made him stand out well no that was one of the things i liked about him he blended in Part i can't get into it part of his um his mystique for his job was that he didn't stand out yeah he doesn't stand out but now in my mind he really stands out makes him more attractive standing up well yeah but you know you're too drunk to appreciate that so too bad for you remember i mean i remember him being here and i remember a little bit of you blowing him but i i was yeah oh come on i got a huge face girl you missed out i know i've already bitched and moaned about you about this so we're gonna have to do a whatever a retake yeah i know it's something you're gonna hate oh i hate that because he he's got a nice thick meaty dick fun and you know he's fun he was fun when i was blowing him Just come over and hang out with me. Fun. And, you know, he's fun.
Speaker2: He was fun when I was blowing him.
Speaker1: He was fun. He'd come over and hang out with me.
Speaker3: Oh, yeah.
Speaker1: You guys do the whole bourbon thing. Drink bourbon and smoke cigars together. So, I mean, he's bonded with both of us. So, there you go. So, if it doesn't work for me, you'll have a bromance you can blossom into.
Speaker2: Okay.
Speaker1: Well, if it just contains bourbon and cigars. Okay, so let's get back to the mini topic here. Okay, the mini topic. So, is being too nice a guy really a thing? Thank you. okay well if it just contains okay so let's get bourbon and cigars okay so is being too nice a guy really a thing yes absolutely i think girls in that age group at least for me and other people i've seen they want the kind of like the guy i hate i sound so cliche the bad boy the bad boy not all of them i wouldn't think no no but it seems like they want somebody who's more um in that area yeah all the guys i dated i'm trying to think when i was high school for first of all when i was in high school i dated somebody much older than me so he was in in a lot of people's eyes the bad boy because he was significantly back in those days six years he was six years older than me which is kind of rebellious back and i was very rebellious so i would not be taking somebody that is going i would not be attracted to somebody who wasn't breaking the rules they want a rule breaker and you can still be a rule breaker a nice guy it's just that you have to you know straddle those two worlds you know i don't want to um a bad boy who's like a breaking the rules but for all the wrong reasons and you're gonna like you you're not gonna be a good responsible adult you can still be a bad boy and still be a responsible adult but when you're in high school there's either bad boy or you know somebody who's really more of a nerd more of a nerd and the nerds aren't quite as attractive so if you're a nice guy kind of sucks because that's what you really want as an adult that's what i wouldn't want i want some the nice guy i don't want the bad boy because i don't know the baggage like i understand it but when you're in when you're 17 18 years old that that bad boy mystique is very Thank you. i don't want the bad boy because i don't know the baggage like i understand it but when you're in when you're 17 18 years old that that bad boy mystique is very exciting it's stupid it's stupid but it's exciting yeah and that's i fed into that too and i see other people feed other women feed i told you there was that one girl she was engaged her uh fiance was in the navy and her and i hung out yeah and i was around her more times that she was plastered drunk right i remember that i never did anything nope and she was always like you're just so nice a guy you're so nice and then some years later oh yeah and talking to her she's like why didn't you ever try anything i said you were drunk or whatever that's she goes you should have tried something i would i so wanted to fuck you then why didn't she say something that would change the whole thing for you i mean it still would have been wrong i i'm glad you're here on the hot wife podcast that's that's true well i i i respect that you didn't take advantage of her that actually you know for in my mind you know yeah i know you and in my mind that just makes you a more nice guy but no but i'm saying is we've talked about this too how back when you and i were just friends and i was a photographer and stuff like that not only with you but with every model of every shoot i ever did that you were with me or not with me, they all told you how well I was behaved. I never did anything. Nope. Inappropriate. I was never inappropriate. Yeah. You know, I mean, so, but anyway. Yeah. See, for me, it's like there'll be a lot of guys who'll be like, oh, man, you should have done something. But that's so sleazy and so you know well but i was so used to for um most of my life at that point right women not being attracted to me right i just figured okay i'm getting this woman's attention that i can actually do the photographs i want they respect my photography and everything else so that was my satisfaction and you know what i didn't want to bang the snot out of every one of them but but you know again then the word gets out Thank you. else so that was my satisfaction and you know what i didn't want to bang the snot out of every one of them but but you know again then the word gets out there and you're not a photographer anymore you're no you're just yep you're just a sleaze bag with a camera i get it the cram camera um and you want to get the good pictures i get that i did and you did you got some really really provocative pictures from these women that if you had like jumped on, yeah, you would have gotten your dicks. You would have had an orgasm, but you wouldn't have had the good pictures. At what point is that rape not, you know? Thank you. That's true. That's true. If they would have come back afterwards and be like, hey, can we play? That would be different. And some of them did. Yeah, absolutely. They would approach me. I never approached approached them when they know about your tongue mr then they found out yes i did um yeah it was just one of those things for me that was more important to be professional absolutely i think you know it kind of for the moment kind of sucks because you know i could be doing it with this this woman blah but you know word gets around that that whole good pizza bad pizza theory pizza theory pizza you tell one person bad pizza you tell everybody tell everybody so absolutely that makes sense i'd i'd rather be an upstanding good person than be a sleazebag yeah and that's what i married a good person see but in the swinger community you're allowed to be a sleazebag no no wait a minute i'm doing air quotes on the sleazebag you're allowed to be more uh provocative to other to other women in certain situations because it's allowed it's not allowed what in parties you're not allowed doesn't mean you can go touch someone oh oh i didn't say that i just say be more provocative you're allowed to talk sexy to people you're allowed to be flirty you're allowed to be i'm not talking touching you say touching then then you're breaking the plane I even even think what you say you need to establish some sort of relationship with that person prior you sit there and like oh my god you got great tits i'd love to suck your nipples you don't just like come up to someone and say that i think in a swinger situation a party if a guy said hey you got really nice tits i'd be like that's fine thank you no i would not be offended there needs to be a more um i guess we're not going to cover the topic we're going to i guess we're not that's fine this this is this one's good yeah no i i actually think in a swinger situation and if you don't have a relationship with somebody okay prior to meeting them prior to meeting them it's the first time you meet them right be respectful there's a way to do it you know you go oh hi hey i say i have to compliment you on your breasts well that's different no that's different than oh my god you got great nipples i'd like to suck on them no there's different that's me sucking sounds like an asshole how do you know that i watched you do only one and that sound brings me you know night sweats and screams there you go that's what i was looking for the whole can't get away from that not even i eat asshole well you are very upstanding then because i would not be i would not be offended if i was in a in a party situation and and a guy came a bit Thank you. well you are very upstanding then because i would not be i would not be offended if i was in a in a party situation and a guy came up man you have great tits i want to suck on them i'm like thank you and no and i'm not saying no i'm not saying every woman at the party right would be offended i'm not saying that okay but i think approaching a woman for not knowing her time not knowing her oh i see i think a man is better to be reserved just because you're a swinger party doesn't mean you're gonna get to play with them doesn't mean you can talk sexual to them i i'm mad at it about that i don't mind flirty let's go back i don't know five six parties ago okay five six party oh my god i can't remember that far back hon come on yeah you will okay so there was one woman who i did not get to play with initially right and like all the other women were like oh my god oh my god we're sitting up there and she's like you know and i said you know i mean and they're all encouraging her and i said you know i said if you want to go i'm fine with it it's okay with your husband and she's like oh okay and she wasn't really enthralled he was like oh okay i never talked no no you didn't talk and you know when she staggered back up the steps there was oh no no no no we heard her screaming yeah no. We heard her screaming. Yeah, but when she staggered back up the steps, it was a different world. It was a different world. We heard her screaming upstairs. I remember looking at somebody, and they were looking at me, and I'm like, oh, yeah, she's having a good time. It was like, oh, my God. But, again, I didn't walk up to her in the very beginning or at any point. Because her and I had very little dialogue. We had, you know, oh, how are you?
Speaker2: Oh, you know.
Speaker1: And stuff. I sit there and go, I want to fucking tongue your pussy.
Speaker2: No. No.
Speaker1: I don't do that. She had nice tits. I didn't go, like, oh, my God. Oh, yeah, she's a great body. I want to, you know, pencil eraser nipples. I want, you know. i want you know nibble on those things i didn't say that you know it's like um there's that one single woman that comes to the party sure i know exactly the very first time i ever played with her i mean i had minor little two minute one line conversations with her always very respectful respectful and i was standing by the bar oh yes i remember this and just stand there talking she came over and she was drinking wine we started talking about wine how i don't really have knowledge or appreciation for wine right and stuff like that and um you know i said i'm a bourbon she no i like bourbons too and um oh the bubba bubba that's where i get them that's that's where you get that right there man i'm telling you see that's the hook right there guys you got to use that buh hook i guess every time so anyway after you know a little bit of conversation with us so yeah did you get to play with anybody yet being a unicorn at the party she is a unicorn you know you're a true you're a hot commodity she's no i haven't yet i said well would you be interested in playing with me ah i just said to her let's go downstairs i'm gonna tear your pussy up no i didn't say that it'd be nice it's like hey well would you be interested in playing with me yeah let's go oh nice soak sheets later yeah really you're mopping or mopping up after that was the one that you complained that the pad was oh my god the bed she was a square yeah they put down we we've said this before they put down uh these things called they're called chucks they're actually a these were fabric chucks they were like what they put on your bed in a hospital yeah if you have in case you leak any kind of fluid yeah let's put it that and they had like a bunch of them there so if when you're done playing you can put a new chuck on the bed so you had a nice dry so you're not in the wet spot okay we all know what rolling around the wet spot can be especially if it's not your wet spot yeah i'm not i'm not a germaphobe so i'll make a big stick of it but it really doesn't bother me but after you guys were done playing i went with my playmate on there and i was like it was sopping wet i was like vince vince you didn't change the truck it's fucking sopping wet and there were no new chucks there was nothing we i think we found one was like not as wet thank you very much maybe it's what we did i don't remember but it was like not that i care i mean i i really don't care i just like she was a heavy squirter yeah apparently she was because that thing was saturated yeah uh yeah that night i had four four out of the six were squirters. Wow. Yeah. Wow. That's amazing. I don't, I mean, back in the day, I never even knew of anybody that squirted. I certainly didn't squirt. Not even an oozer. Not even. Well, we'll have to get Mickey back on the show. Holy shit. Talk about squirting again. Oh, my God. Because, you know, I don't want to get too much into it. But I think at one point, heard of squirters until i'm gonna say 10 years ago yeah it's it's i think it was something that women were ashamed of and hid i agree because it is messy you have to do more preparations like if i get don't be ashamed of it ladies no just put rubber sheets down they're all man does not appreciate you're a squirter or like that you're a squirter i'll give you my phone number reach out to me info at hot wave podcast he will he does not care about that i love that oh as long as you're prepared like i don't want to have to like you know throw away our mattress to get a new one because that gets it costly but there's all kinds of really nice um i'll call them rubber sheets like the ones i just have up on our bed now you can't tell they're rubber sheets they're not they're not that you know what i'm saying they're not wow yeah well remember i was playing with that one play maybe we had the rubber sheets on all you heard sounds like you're fucking on grocery bed yeah pretty much it was pretty terrible i'm like this is not gonna work because i thought she was going to be using the bed after us and she was going to be squirting so we put the rubber sheets on but i found these rubber sheets that have a little bit of a cotton um flocks on top you know like a quilted thing so they're not they're still quilted sheets or they're still rubber sheets but they're not that you know they're not gonna make you hot and they're not gonna make a lot of noise when you're fucking on the hot not in a good way hot in a bad way hot so what would you rather do what have a guy suck a guy's dick who's got a huge cum load a huge cum load or suck a great pussy that squirts oh i know my answer oh yeah i know your answer too i'm more comfortable i'm a i'm a little more straight than i am by i i would love to have somebody squirt in my face that's not a problem i'm very more comfortable with having a big cum load only because i've had many more i'm more comfortable with that although it is intriguing i think it'd be a lot of fun to have a pussy squirt in my face that would be fun absolutely well yeah there was that one couple that we played with up there that had the lollipop pussy juice oh my god that was the weirdest thing because i remember like we were like oh did she squirt on you no she didn't squirt on me it was i was kissing you afterwards i'm like your spray that's coming off my face so he's but it was like worse than hitting the wiper fluid oh yeah yeah you took the blades off your car and just hit the thing well the thing is i was kissing you and i'm i'm tasting this i swear to god hand to god it was lollipop water i'm like who i i thought somebody was like i don't know how they could have done it was like eating like a lollipop or sucking on a lollipop and then that was probably the sweetest pussy i've ever eaten i've i've never i've had a lot of sweet pussies that was like bizarre i was like who's got that lot i mean literally lollipop water i'm like who's got the lollipop how did where where is this thing at and there was no there's no candies no lollipop no hard candy there was her pussy yeah and she i mean she came like boatloads i mean it was like gallon buckets Yeah, I've never seen a woman cum that much. The one I talked about at the party though she pretty good did the single the distance that the other one in distance oh my god that first one had distance she could she could go from one end of the bed to the other well is that's the same one that did that video that she like yeah well she did this video that she's on top of her bar then she's just with a dildo that's our vibrator and she makes herself come and you hear the pussy juice dribble down the bar and falling off the bar hitting the floor and hitting the floor sounds like someone's slowly pouring a glass of water yeah and she could just keep coming and oh it wasn't a not a glass of water it was a bucket of water because it was a distance you had but i'm saying you would hear it pouring to the floor yeah it sounded like someone's just slowly pouring a glass of water which in cum loads that's huge that's a lot i mean most cum loads for god even a big cum load for a guy is what a tablespoon two two tablespoons would be a huge cum load most guys come one tablespoon or one or teaspoon i'm some somewhere around in there i don't remember exactly but it's like yeah i get a mouthful maybe with a guy comes i get a mouth hey wayne this is for number one fan wayne oh number one fan okay wayne here's a joke for you oh boy you got a joke in the middle of this you're gonna have to tell you elephants and kfc have in common wayne they both come in buckets there you go but um yeah i yeah i don't know that was a pretty amazing i've never seen anybody come that much ever ever in my life and we have a video of it we watch it you know when we dig it out we're like we gotta watch that again and we're like watching mickey when she squirted my mouth two times i played with her right it wasn't it was good it was good but wasn't like the same gusto that that other that other girl man like i said she was like hooking up into a wagner power sprayer like well like her boyfriend was saying oh you know this is back in the days when um long john silvers had a commercial on where they they you know they they had people standing there talking about then they have somebody like splash water on them a bucket of water a bucket of water and he was to call them um lj's like long john silvers because he came that much because we're gonna get ready to play and he started like bringing out like you know a roll of plastic and some you know the trash bags yeah i thought we're gonna have sex you're gonna paint what are we doing what are we doing here why is there drop cloths and and fucking tarps and plastic bags poncho with a hood on it yeah it was like snorkel and goggles it wasn't quite that bad but you came up and your whole front of you my pants were soaked too your shirt and your pants i know your shirt was soaked because i remember seeing that but i'm laying in the puddle oh my god i'm laying in the puddle but she was spraying past my face over onto my back my you could have had those glasses with the windshield wipers on them yeah it wouldn't helped honestly i'm not exaggerating oh it was a lot i've never walked out to a heavy rainstorm yeah oh yeah you're a saturator like it was sweet sweet pussy it was it added how the fuck does that happen is that just um genetics or what do you eat we've already talked about this like you know some people think um if you eat certain foods it'll affect your cum taste blah but it was this i've never tasted anything like that i swear to god god bless her oh yeah shit yeah oh my god i never tasted pussy juice that tasted like that ever not ever no it was truly one of a kind thing for me yeah yeah but anyway back to the nice guy thing oh the nice guy thing now that goes away at a certain age right sure i i don't i is that a maturity thing for women that i think so yeah you sit there no some women it doesn't yeah some women it doesn't it's like you know what that was fun when i was in my 20s and 30s and whatever but now i'm i'm more settled i i see through all that whole bullshit that excitement level is is very fleeting it doesn't last very long you want more substance and that's what it is the whole bad boy thing it's fun for like three seconds you know they want to be risky is now after a quote-unquote bad boy um yeah i can see that i am not convinced that that person is necessarily happy with that choice but it kind of i think because of the situation they're in right now it's like wow okay i've kind of latched on to this thing now i just got to ride this out for a while why if you're not happy we'll talk about it more on yeah i know but i don't understand that because what she had before wasn't a bad boy no okay it was more uh i'll use a term workaholic stable but workaholic sort of like what my daughter's going through you know she left a guy that um was very stable and the meat and potatoes of relationship he was a meat and potatoes she wanted the excitement she wanted now she found how she's dating a guy that still lives at home not where you want to be you know just likes to smoke pot when he's hot at work and and it's like okay you're 27 maybe you want to find something so yeah that's where the uh yeah the whole too nice a guy thing well the thing is the nice thing about being in a swinger relationship you can dabble on dabble and have some fun with people that are not usually you're in your wheelhouse but again all of this boils down to a maturity level it does it really does you know getting past a bad boy thing right maturity it is a maturity to the point of being a swinger it's maturity level yes absolutely absolutely you can't be a jealous person you have to be very strong in your relationship and have a good communication which if you have if you're in a relationship communication is key as we talked key and trust um you know communication and trust are two of the keys for a good relationship that we've already established that thousand times over but the thing is you get to sample things that are not always in your wheelhouse which is kind of fun like there there might be guys that if i met on the street i would be like they don't really trip my trigger but in a swinger relationship it's like yeah that might be kind of fun and you find out that you know that they might be different than my usual cup of tea but they they're still fun. There's still a lot of fun.
Speaker2: Yeah. All right.
Speaker1: I think we beat this one to death. So I think we'll record the next podcast when we're done this one for
Speaker2: Thursday.
Speaker1: This is going to be Monday's podcast.
Speaker2: Okay.
Speaker1: So Thursday's podcast. So you're going to have to listen. We're going to actually talk about Donna had a little hot date today. Kind of a unique hot date. It was a unique hot date. So we'll talk about that later. So make sure you catch our podcast, the next podcast in this case it'll go up on thursday morning okay but uh if you're not listening to them in order or whatever it was the previous podcast don't confuse me you're talking this way we'll just all right so again uh reach out to us info at hot wife podcast uh
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