Things NOT to say to a Naked Man

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This is going up on Thursday. This is going up on Thursday, so this will be going up the day after Valentine's Day. So it's the day after Valentine's Day. Yeah, well, until the day after Valentine's Day. Hope you did something romantic. Or at least sexy. We just got done cleaning off about five inches of snow, really heavy, wet snow. Both of us, our backs hurt, so I guarantee you no romance tonight. We're medicating. Yeah, and that is Knob Creek for me tonight. Oh, I was going to ask you. You're doing your typical rum and coke? Yeah, I'm, you know, I have my seasons.

Someone took a shit on my glasses. Well, I got to stop putting your face under someone's butt. Well, ever since your ass-eating episode, I just, whole new look at. Oh, come on. A new fetish. That was fun. That was fun. For you? I mean, I wasn't expecting fun, and I'm not disappointed. It's just a visual that I find alluring. You're trying to scratch your eyes out. Oh, no. Yeah, we've been through this before. Stop it. You can get a guy up with his ass in the air. It's just not. Not attractive. To me. That's all I'm speaking for. I can't speak for anyone else. Like, let me speak for me.

Just something about a guy's ass in the air. Just like. I want to kick it, not kiss it. But anyway, that's me. You're an odd duck. Yeah. I don't know.

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There's nothing that's going to ask you for money or anything else so it's a lot of work and appreciate if you tell me what you think of it so um found a great topic for tonight please indulge us it's almost a psa okay almost all right so i it. I haven't shown you the list. I told you what it was. Yeah, you told me what it was. But I have not shown you the list. So you're not aware of it. So I'm going to see if you can pick them out. Okay. Or add to it. I can add to it. Jesus Christ, I can add to it. So this is the 10 things you should never say to a naked man.

The first one I can think of, though, is, is it cold out? You look cold. Is that all you brought? So you went swimming? Oh, yes.

It's the shrinkageage isn't it no that's not on the list no there's one on here that i had to read their little story on it to see um what it was and i don't think it applies so nope that's not one of them that's not one of them no it's not one of them so should we do it like you guess one if you get it great if you don't i read one sure we can do that okay so pick a number between one and ten um five five can you try doing this thing that some other guy did to me i don't think you want to say that to a guy dressed or naked well yeah some of these you just don't want to say to a guy period you just don't want to say okay but they just use a naked guy so yeah it might not you know again in the swinging world it's not such a big deal no it's not a big deal but i think in a typical vanilla world sitting there going you know you're already telling this guy i don't think you'd have what it takes so you try doing this yeah this other guy did it and it was really good so why don't you try it see in the swinging world you know people are swapping like you know techniques especially with um when you're doing oral i'm taking notes yeah i see you got your pen out well steve was saying you know about your oral prowess and like you know techniques especially with um when you're doing oral i'm taking notes yeah i see you got your pen out yeah well steve was saying you know about your oral prowess and like you know well what do you do different and they're trying to like nail down like a technique and this or that so you don't know what you don't have anything to teach but guys uh go ahead they swap they swap techniques they you know figure out uh you know different things that they i don't i think they share topics they share things that are you know i don't think vanilla people would share when it comes to sex you know i think they're much more open to sharing their exploits well isn't bad enough for sharing sharing our partners?

Well, maybe. Actually, isn't... Do you really want to... I almost think inside the swinger world, not sharing your techniques or whatever kind of helps you become a special individual inside the swinging world. You know, it's like, let's pick the NFL for lack of a better sports team. Okay, fuck the NFL with their anti-American shit.

My opinion, that's all, is, you know, that you want to be one of the outstanding players right yeah you know so if you're doing something like okay we'll use my prowess of my oral prowess apparently um that like when we go to the parties i'm known for that right you know women get in line the strange as that fuck it is well here's the thing well i'm just using that as an example is even if they know your technique the fact that reproducing it's a different yeah i have tried i know your technique i know what you do i can't i can't get my fingers doing that and the tongue and the fingers and the tongue and yeah i get fatigued my neck gets sore it's like how do you do that for hours Ha.

the fingers and the tongue and the swirling yeah i i i get fatigued my neck gets sore it's like how do you do that for hours oh my neck hurts just thinking about it yeah well i pull it off lots of practice at least in the swinging world you can talk to people about those things Solu, cilantro, or in my world, cilantro.

Okay, so i can't breathe while i'm swallowing i have to stop doing that okay so what's another thing you wouldn't say to a man let's put that with 10 things you wouldn't say to a man before sex how's that oh before sex um or during sex some of these definitely can you put that in another hole? No, that's definitely not on the list. I don't even have to read through it. No. Or I don't think my mouth is going to fit around that. No, that's not it. That you can say. That would be a positive. That would be a positive.

Yeah, some woman says, oh, I'm not going gonna be able to fit that in my mouth yeah fucking right bitch i'll never say those words you know i'm gonna be saying more like i hope it doesn't get stuck between your i'm just thinking that can i floss with that there's one you don't want to say okay so since you didn't get that right pick another number between between 1 and 10. 7. 7. Mm-hmm. Why are guys so hairy? But not all guys are hairy. Well, I guess you're implying here, so as a guy already knows he's hairy, you don't need to tell him he knows exactly how his body is.

You know, it's kind of like, oh, good, hey, you hey you're a gorilla well with how many hairy guys have i really been with not that many i mean some have hair but i'm like i say they're hairy again it doesn't necessarily have to be crotch it could just be like back hair chest hair i mean you've had a couple guys who've shaved their backs and chest too oh that's true that's just that's just uncomfortable there you know yeah when that shit goes in oh man you got to be like fidgeting and how do you shave your own back i don't know i don't know that's a whole nother show i think i think yeah that's definitely a whole other show i think waxing probably would be better what do you do just pour a candle over your back no you have to go and have it done professionally because it takes longer to grow in so i've heard i, I would, you know, cut to the chase, just do electrolysis.

Where my back feels right now, I would just like the hot wax on my back. Like, yes, thank you. Hot wax. You know, if I have a hairy back, who the fuck's back there? You're not having sex with my back. You're not fucking my back. I don't know if you're eating someone's ass. See, that's different. Can I get my rectum wax, please? Well, we were watching on YouTube.

Take out the sphinct we were watching the haircuts those awful haircuts and one guy one guy's like off on his knees and his butt his pants are pulled down shaving his ass it's like oh that's wrong see shaving once you start shaving my mother told me this thanks mom once you start shaving and then a hair starts to grow back it does it grows back shave the top of my fucking head yeah probably would grow back thicker and more coarse i don't think so my legs sure did it's like thanks mom he's i told you not to start shaving i told you and i've you know but yeah we had a neighbor i remember hearing this young that it didn't mean to me then, but I appreciate it now.

You know, back in the day, yeah we had a neighbor i remember hearing this young and it didn't mean to me then but i appreciate it now um that like you know back in the day when you had kids you know women didn't shave back in the 70s 60s whatever back yeah so they would shave you though when you're getting ready to give birth right and they shaved her for her first child and the hair never never grew back. Oh, lucky bitch. Yeah. Oh, can you imagine if it never grew back? Apparently. I can't verify nor deny this claim. Wow. Can you imagine? I always had a little crush on her, though. Right.

But you know, if it didn't grow back, she's got a really smooth pussy. Potentially. Potentially, yeah. Potentially. I don't know. I do like smooth, soft pussies. Like that woman at the party, man. That was the most soft, smoothest pussy I've ever put my mouth on. That's so nice. Oh my God. It was like eating a marshmallow, a fresh marshmallow, not like the ones that have been around for a while. I'm glad you clarified that. Yeah. I mean it almost had a powdery it almost like it had that little powdery it just like the ones that have been around for a while. Oh, I'm glad you clarified that.

Soft, fresh marshmallow. It almost had a powdery... Dissolved in your mouth. It almost like it had that little powdery and just kind of... Oh, that's nice. Oh, it was good, it was good. That's nice. Okay. Try to guess another one. I can't stand. I can't stand. Is this condom going to fit?

No, not in here I've never said that to anyone yeah maybe I have some of them are just they're so tight I don't I don't hate getting on a dick anyway sometimes yeah okay so you missed that let's try see let me make sure I don't know what would i not say to a naked guy hey don't say something before sex how's that how about some mouthwash that's something that's another one yeah hey piece of gum yeah okay so pick a number between one and ten that you haven't picked. Okay. Six. Six. Yeah. This one needs a little reading. Uh-oh. Oh, I'm sorry. I didn't mean to get back in.

No, no, we've got to get to it anyway. I need to tell you something very important is the title, is what you say, I guess. It says, the statement sounds very bad to the naked man.

Why would you want to have news to the man that's already naked can you can it wait you know i mean again it's like i guess it could be like well i gotta tell you before we do this that um you're gonna need to see a doctor afterwards that's what i was thinking your peeing is gonna burn maybe a little it'll clear up with shots don't worry about it you know well it must be a better way to phrase it if it's something like hey you know i really enjoy anal that might be important that's important that's important well there's a question i'm not sure if we know the answer, okay, so if a woman or man has an STI now.

Okay, it's an STD, all right. Whatever. Whatever. Tomato, tomato. Does it make a difference whether it's vaginal or anal? I guess it does. Fluids are still exchanging, right? Right. Because even the anus lubes up in its own way. It sure does. So I can attest to that. I would have guessed you could still get, I mean, AIDS. Oh, yeah, that was definitely transmitted. Is transmitted anally. Sure. You know. So, yeah.

So there's no safe road if you have any of those stid lgb15 whatever i i don't know just checking yeah topic for another show that's probably not something to tell somebody i have something important to tell you yeah yeah just as they get naked before we do this i gotta tell you something i still have a penis that's easy that definitely would not that should have happened way before the naked part before kissing before like right yeah okay do you want to guess another one or should I just go through the list? Oh, God. Do you think the ceiling is a good color white or should we paint it? Okay.

You're close. You're really close. How about this one? Okay. I'll give you credit for that one. Okay. Give me credit. Oh, I got one. Well, I'll give you credit. It's close. Okay. I got partial credit. This apartment's really dirty.

I need to clean it yeah it's like yeah i know we're about to fuck but i'd really even have to clean your apartment well who's saying that the woman or the man this is what the woman would say to the man is she at his place or is he coming to her place yeah it doesn't matter if she if if the if the woman or man right you know depending on your relationship right would rather clean whether it's hurt their apartment or your apartment or house it kind of tells you something wrong maybe you know and again you're not specifying like okay that's dick's too small or whatever but also you see it naked and maybe you didn't realize they were fat or too skinny or whatever that you're sitting like you're talking about hey you know it looks like we need to paint the ceiling you know um same kind of thing thing.

It is the same kind of thing. You know, it's like, wow, how about we clean first? You know, cleanliness is next to sexiness. Sexiness? Uh-huh. I made a new one. Okay, so here would be my answer. If your house is clean. Well, turn the fucking lights out, you won't see the filth.

Now, unless you have shit piling up on the fucking bed that's the difference see it do i really here's my thing if i go into like a man's bedroom and it's there's dirty stuff all over the place yeah the sheets are gross it's like do i really want to have sex with him no no no i agree no i don't we have playmates over i make sure i put down a a clean drop cloth. And then when you guys are done, we change the sheets again. Change the sheets again. Yeah. Or the drop cloth. I'm not, you know. I'm not saying we change all the sheets.

I'm saying we put a cover down and that catches all the, you know, the fun. It catches all the fun. All right. Can you come up with another one oh okay something you don't want to say to a naked man just before you have sex uh i feel like i'm on a family feud you know no no that's that's jeopardy that's the only theme song i got oh shit um did you ever get constipated constipation that's a that's a real I don you know. Can I tell you about my friend? Who is constipated? No. Or any kind of bodily things going on. No, not even close, huh? How about one of the most obvious ones, okay?

This is number one on the list. Okay, number one on the list. When are you going to get hard? Oh. That's the most obvious one you don't want to say to a guy. Yeah, I would never, never even. Well, just, yeah, that's the topic. I might think about it, but I won't. Things you should never say. You know, that's just, you know. Well, you can word it differently, I think, right? You don't say when you're going to get hard. Time's a ticking. How about you get your dick going? Hey, do you need a little blue pill? How about three? Are you a little bit nervous, you know? Is it cold in here?

Well, see, that was the first one I said, about the shrinkage and the nervous, you know? Is it cold in here? Well, see, that was the first one I said about the shrinkage and the smoke, you know. You know. Are you afraid? Something on your mind, are you distracted that you can't get hard on? Okay, do you want to take a guess at another one now? Hmm.

I guess one thing you don't want to say to a naked man is like so how many kids do you have well i'll give you credit for that one i'll give you credit for that one please tell me about your ex oh please tell me about your ex right before sex why would you want to hear about their ex no you don't want to so i'll give you credit for that one. I'm doing very poorly here. Yeah, you're not doing bad. You're not doing bad. I'm pretty poorly. I'm getting... You've got two out of, let's see, you've guessed two. Yeah, I've partialed on the two. You're three out of six. You're 50%. I guess.

Yeah, two out of six, sorry. So you're a third. It's not so good. Yeah, it's okay. Yeah, why would you even broach that subject at that juncture, that very, very delicate, important juncture? You know, everything's all go. You're kissing. It's like, so tell me, why did you lead your ex-wife? You know, you just don't do that.

Yeah, you don't think you'd want to bring up your ex and or their ex in any shape or form or your ex because you bring up the ex that could take you back to the when are you going to get hard thing boy yeah that could be a linked category could be very linked you know if you said to be in the middle of sex like oh well Oh, did you... So tell me about your ex. Yeah. It's like, well, right, we're back down to when you're going to get hard. And there's also another topic here that would also have something to do with is when you're going to get off. Oh. Well, you bring up my ex.

It's never happened. The erection and getting off are both greatly delayed. Greatly delayed.

So, yeah, that's the other one is when you're going to get off now i have been told that by you because i'm not a fast no you're not fast what was that i don't know there's a lot of people that aren't fast but you try to mix it up you try you know it's really hard doing oral and talking dirty i know you love the dirty talk but it's really hard to do that i understand when you have a dick in your mouth i don't know why but it is i'm always afraid if i not like your mouthful i didn't say that but you didn't say I did not say, I have to make sure that how I enunciate my life.

Oh, enunciate oh okay chomping down on something see i come in like two minutes i can just get right to my game well with me with me yeah with you yeah yeah with other guys it takes me a little longer because they don't know they don't they don't have your technique, all right? They just don't have your technique. I have to school them. I have to show them or tell them or instruct them with things that I need. With you, I don't have to do that. I get right into my game and I'm good. And boom, two minutes later, I'm done.

I'm like, ah, now I'm a waste waste so now this other one okay it's kind of i guess more like if you're in a relationship not like you met someone at the bar right like some of these other ones are pretty brutal if you met someone at the bar and you're you go home with them oh yeah you don't want to go to someone's strange house like well why don't i clean your house you know yeah that kind of ruins it you know but this one is more like if you're in a relationship okay even just dating okay not necessarily married or long term right you know so it's are you in love with me oh i don't think i'd ever in the swinging world i would never see there are women who need that vote of comments and i'm sure there's men too i'm not singling women out.

That they want to think that, you know, you can't have sex with me unless you love me. I see being in the... Yeah. Again, this isn't just, this is not necessarily geared at swingers. This is just a general sexual question. We would never, those are words that probably we never uttered at a swinger party, ever.

Well, in a swinger sense you know the question would be if you asked that for whatever stupid reason and they if they said oh yes then it's like no dude we're not doing this you know i got a relationship i don't you know exactly exactly the l word should never be uttered to anybody but your significant other yeah and keep the l word out it's it's like but someone who's having sex with someone that is not in the lifestyle right right um is fairly like you know it's they met at the bar and they're back at someone's yes back at you know there's some place getting ready to fuck right yeah backseat of a car or a hotel see that's that just says love all over it backseat there are there are women that would or and men there are people me reward that way there are people that they think if they're giving it up you better be in love with them there are a lot of psycho people in this world we've seen it well i understand that they might have a certain standard before they relinquish that part of themselves to somebody else so they want to make sure that hey i'm not i'm not doormat i'm not going to give it away to everybody you're talking about yourself right hell no i mean i yeah okay that's different but i mean they have a yeah pretty, yeah, pretty much.

I'm fine with that. I'm fine with that. But I mean, there's other people that they don't want to, that's precious to them. They don't want to relinquish that to somebody who's not worthy of it. Yeah. I'm not condemning them. I'm not condemning it at all. I mean, I get it. I get it.

But you should have figured that out long before the the dick came out before the guy got naked before the guy got naked yeah absolutely okay we'll take a stab at another guess so i think about the the back seat of the car there's only two left okay um god i don't know uh there's there's few things i i say like that to a naked man so i don't have to uh give me a clue here i don't know i don't know technology oh look at the time close oh we have to answer this text. Can I take this call? Can I take this call? Sorry, I'm going to take this call.

Well, if it's a work-related thing, you might have to. But it's still not something. If you're getting all hot and bothered and all of a sudden, you know, you've got this guy stripped down, ready to go. Right. And so you pull his pants down and you're like. Oh, I've got to take this call. Oh, I've got to take this call.

How about if your phone didn't even ring you all have it on silent uh well see then but the phone actually rang well and they're like they have a job thing they're covering up they don't want people you know maybe they're cheating on their husband they don't want their husband to know if they answer then it's arouses less suspicion than if they don't you have you have to think like that. Maybe. I don't know. You just tell whoever, I was in the bathroom, I'm sorry. Well, that's a good one for an hour and a half. That depends. You didn't check the phone, I didn't know. Yeah, I don't, I, yeah.

Okay, the last one. Rightfully so. Oh, can you, oh, here's one. Can you turn the the volume up i can't see the show you're blocking the tv can you put your head down this is good part one that's potential put your head down i can't see the show so but their number 10 okay is i don't feel like doing it anymore. Oh, ow. Yeah, I've lost the mood kind of a statement. I've lost the mood. You see him naked, you go, yeah, I'm not feeling it now. That has happened to me.

I was with a guy, I was in college, and we were messing around all hot and bothered, you know, on the college campus, and then we a room by the time but I mean it was like you know a day later whatever it was a significant amount of time later by the time we both got to the hotel motel or the no-tell motel and started messing around he goes yeah I'm just not into this now I'm like neither am I I'm like what are we doing here and it's like i don't know it seemed seemed like a cool thing when we were like messing around it was exciting you know when we were on on campus but now it's like while the iron was hot or the iron was hot but now it's like cooled down but i thought it was like well thank you i don't think we ever did anything i think we like tried to and he shook hands parted friends yeah pretty much it was like really where both of us were like yeah it's like the the magic wasn't there the excitement it was weird and you know he bought a you know hotel room and motel room and everything so kind of sucked sucked for both of us yeah it was weird yeah well how about other ones like um again this is on the list the list is done now it's like obviously you don't know how to measure oh man were you talking metric or imperial yeah oh yeah i yeah guys are always like yeah see i got 10 inches here blah.

And you're like, I don't care one way or the other, but I don't think that's 10 inches. Well, we could come up with a list. I didn't see one when I was hunting, but a list of 10 things you shouldn't say to a naked woman. Oh. You know, right off the bat, you know, smells come into the... Oh, my God.

Do you have an air freshener here are we near the ocean that's terrible do i need to strap a board to my ass first does that thing have teeth that's terrible oh my god so when was the last time you trimmed oh i was just thinking that i was like do i need to bring out the weed whacker oh man that's just so wrong well yeah i mean there's you know it can be brutal but and i actually think well i actually think guys would be more likely to say something wrong to a woman than a woman to a man. Oh.

I think women will just bite their lip and then save it and tell their girlfriends about it than a man. No. I think a man might, like, oh, my God, that's, like, really? A guy would be like, I'll fuck that. I don't care. I'll fuck that. Yeah, yeah. I'll just keep my mouth. I'll just keep my nose up. Well, here's the difference.

My dick can't smell, so I don't care i guess yeah yeah they're i'll just keep my mouth i'll just keep my nose up well here's the difference my dick can't smell here's the difference i i might argue that point is a guy um you know has to be turned on having an erection right exactly he's gotta be where a woman just like okay i just lay here spit on you know spit on my hand put that in my twat and let him fuck me, get it over with and we're done. Yeah. You know, you don't have to perform, so to speak. Exactly. You know? We just be like. A man has to be able to keep an erection. Mm-hmm. You know?

I, I, I have known guys that are all just like, they'll fuck the crack of dawn. Don't get me wrong. There's guys that. They're dogs. Yeah, they, they can just maintain it no matter what.

The wind and they're hard you know so but you know it's yeah i don't know but yeah just interesting things like what you know it's like no you think she don't want to say yeah there's a bunch of them aren't there oh my god oh my god yeah so i'm trying to think if i had said anything like that to somebody oh there was a guy that i was with and the biggest turn off it was really something stupid like we're messing around he's a good looking guy but he had this thing with his hair his hair on his head okay hair on his head because he was like messing around.

He goes, don don't touch the hair that was like the biggest toupee i don't know i don't know i couldn't get close enough to find out it was it was like you know you don't mess with the hair you don't mess with the hair i'm like and he had it like sprayed it was hard and i'm like like a fucking helmet like a helmet yeah i was like what's the fuck's on with this fucking hair thing it was almost like it was first of all a big turn off number two i spent one time thinking like what the fuck is wrong with your hair that i can't touch his head so fast his hair stayed in the same direction i have a funny feeling it was a toupee yeah probably funny feeling that's what it was man and he was a good looking good looking guy probably didn't even need hair but this is back in the well 70s yeah when hair was the thing oh yeah hair is the word is the word long beautiful hair yeah that was definitely it yeah now it's shave it shave it you have a perfectly great head of hair, and they're like, no, shave it.

Well, most of the time, guys who shave their head have receding hairlines. Yeah, so it's like, oh, that's already, let's go with the flag. And then you've got the guys who put their long hair in man buns, or as I call them, blowjob knobs. Blowjob knobs. You know, so when the guy's sucking your dick, you can hold that and fucking, you know.

do when i'm gonna be getting like um have a vigorous uh you know suck a guy's dick vigorously i don't want to use the word face fuck but you know i put my hair in a ponytail just for that reason just and that's why i'm glad i uh one don't suck dick two don't have long hair there you go you can't you can't have a blowjob knob or give blowjobs there you go i'm fine with both those win-win my book all right well that killed that topic i thought that was kind of fun yeah that's a little scary though i can't believe people are actually people actually said those things to oh i'm sure yeah oh yeah people can be ruthless yeah if you get into a situation all of a sudden you're you change your mind how do you back out of it you know just like well that's kind of yeah just like oh i gotta take this call oh i gotta this call.

Oh, I got to go to work. I think I hear my mom calling me, you know. I'm sorry, I worked this call and I got to go. Yeah. Phone didn't ring? Yeah, it did. Yeah, it did. In my head. So, yeah, it's, you know, those things happen. Oh, man. I'm so glad we're not in that world that's so many things have jumped through and you know well in turn so like when you're a swinger party as an example um and i don't think we've really had the situation but let's just let's do. Okay, hypothetical.

So at the party, let's pretend there is one individual that is attracted to you and is kind of like talking and hints that he wants to spend time with you. There is one. Okay, whatever. A lady with a smooth pussy, her husband. Yeah.

So, you you know how do you politely say not really interested i yeah i don't know i don't know in a nice way that's true yeah i don't know it's you know you know do you feel pressure to okay we'll play or just like you sit there go you know what i i gotta i'll get to you and then just like come over we have to go we have to go no i'll give him a shot and see you know because sometimes what if it's okay what if you gave him a shot and there's next time he wants to and you're like yeah because sometimes you know you don't how do you politely yeah that's a tough one how do you politely say to someone um you know no yeah that's no does mean no in those circumstances so but how do you say it politely and you know at no.

Yeah, that's, no does mean no in those circumstances. So, but how do you say it politely? You know, at a club where you don't know somebody, that's probably a different thing. You can sit there and go, thank you, I'm waiting to play with so-and-so. Right, right. And you can do that, I guess, at a regular house party.

It's like, oh, you know what, I promised X, Y, Z, xyz i'm gonna play with them and then maybe when i get done with them i'll see if i can find you see how i feel that might be a way to do it yeah i don't know if they got any any way to gracefully and tactfully get out of a situation that you're just you know or just went loose a fart ah there you go oh yeah you want to mess around yeah or just, you know. Or just won't lose a fart. Ah, there you go. Oh, yeah, you want to mess around? Yeah. Ooh. I had Mexican before I got here. Good thing I could trust that one. I can't promise the next one.

That's true. Let's wrap this up before it goes really into the... Real down south, yeah. All right. Well, I want to thank you all for listening um if you have things you want to add to that topic tonight email us at hot wife podcast at gmail.com love to hear them so i will talk to you later okay everybody have a great night I'll see you next time.